bring on the dread

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-10-28T04:31:58+00:00

Dread might not be the right term

Dread is exactly the right term. You dreaded her Like A Boss. You are this month's "Dread Pirate Roberts".

She continued on about how terrible I was blah blah blah

Like what? You'e supposed to sit in a corner and cry for the rest of your life?

Why are men taught to act so weak?

Who benefits? That's your answer.

JJMcgray · 2016-10-28T03:29:31+00:00

(Applaud)

The best thing about this is you aren't playing games. Too often here people speak of these tactics as only a way to manipulate women.

The best thing is actually being this way genuinely ,and not simply "acting".

On topic

I don't know man. You look around and everyone is telling men to be sensitive and bend at the whim of a woman. But the guys that don't are the ones women procreate with.

The teachings do not match up with the reality. It's like someone telling you that the best way to climb Everest is butt ass naked. Meanwhile you see the guys that prepare and go different achieve greatness while all the other men are carrion chow along the path.

fiat30 · 2016-10-28T02:58:27+00:00

Well played, sir. Well played.

aanarchist · 2016-10-28T05:46:43+00:00

she wants you to be sad so she can be happy like energetic vampirism. literally suck your soul out of you. you being sad means you think you can't do better or can't be happy without her, and you just moving on with your life means that she has to wonder if she's making a mistake. she retarded though that's definitely for sure.

Dio_Brando_Joestar · 2016-10-28T03:53:48+00:00

Haha, awesome short post.

I fucking love dread. It works so well.

landon042 · 2016-10-28T04:42:12+00:00

This right here

I said I do not kiss and tell

got my respect, I've read the line before and plan on using it. anyone that uses it right in a situation is Ballin.

Keep on brother

MattyAnon · 2016-10-28T16:00:43+00:00

Great FR - imply the date went awesome even if it didn't :)

Why are men taught to act so weak?

In order to get resources, attention, commitment and support for women. Men are conditioned from birth to support and defer to women in order to support their beta-bucks needs.

The alpha fucks side of life is hidden from us: "you don't want THOSE kinds of girls" / "Nice girls don't do that kind of thing", etc.

Men are shamed for dividing women into angels and whores, while women do worse to men - dividing them into alpha fuckers and beta providers.

The critical thing I have learned is this: turning men as beta as possible does not reduce the quality of their genes, but it does increase the availability of resources for women. Thus there is no downside for women to make men as beta as possible, even if he starts out alpha because the genes are the same.

Relentlessly testing men and trying to make them as beta as possible has NO DOWNSIDES for her. She either wins and gets him to commit time, resources, protection or he fails her tests and proves he wasn't that alpha after all, and she leaves. It's a no-lose strategy for her. This is why the testing never ends.

The solution? Never commit too much, and keep reminding her that you have other viable options that you could take at a moment's notice, as OP has done. She has to see this, she has to feel it. Stamping your feet and saying "I could fuck another woman, I really really could, bitch" looks pathetic. Women beating your door down to get at you while you laugh it off and say "yeah, that happens, all men get this kind of attention, no biggie" looks very different. Feels very different.

That girl who smiled at you? Tell a woman you could fuck her, and she'll laugh and say "no you couldn't, she was just teasing you". Tell a woman "oh, she was just being friendly" and she'll say "she wanted to fuck you, I can tell". And she'll believe it. And fuck you harder because of it.

TL;DR Men are lied to about the nature of women because society would fall apart if the truth were known. Hopefully this has begun already, because I am sick of seeing men sacrificed for women.

Solpig · 2016-10-28T04:18:56+00:00

No Mourning period? Shame on you!....

Just kidding...

you=golden

JvSOUL · 2016-10-28T04:32:36+00:00

Little Field reports like this Make my Day, You did good out there Botha, Fighting the good Fight. Keep at it

losectrl · 2016-10-28T11:48:24+00:00

I hope you wrapped it.

I would have demanded a threesome. Then hired an escort to pretend to be my date

mrjowee · 2016-10-28T12:29:21+00:00

I had an LTR that decided she wasn't happy and her feelings and our relationship something, so she gave herself a two week notice to move out. The next day I put all of her shit on the porch and changed the lock.

It's not that I'm oh-so-manly and "redpilled" and not caring. It was simultaneously a form of self destruction and fast action to lessen the duration of pain and speed the healing process. I certainly didn't want it to end, but I was super pissed, and I knew there would be a light at the end of the tunnel. I chose to sprint through that tunnel.

BoobToArmRatio · 2016-10-28T15:26:01+00:00

Hah.. withholding information to create dread is so simple, yet the mainstream advice is to always be truthful to your spouse and tell them the details about everything (and by proxy, be boring.)

My firm is currently doing campus recruiting and we bring in candidates from target schools across the country for second-round interviews. I usually volunteer to take the candidate out for dinner the evening they fly in since I enjoy free surf and turf + wine.

Anyway, my LTR knows I do this and always asks me how dinner went. I just smile and say it was great and I had a good time, and I stop there. For some reason she always assumes the candidates are female so I just let her imagination run. (Of course she doesn't know that most are male since we select by merit/achievement)

It's highly amusing how hard she tries when she thinks I've been out with a 21 year old undergrad at an expensive restaurant even if it's in a professional context. I guess it's probably just a reflection of how she felt toward older men in a position of power when she was at that age.

zilla0100 · 2016-10-28T15:48:43+00:00

You nailed it. The only thing I question is seeing her again after she had been gone for a month. For me, when I sever relationship, I sever it completely.

FractalFactorial · 2016-10-28T13:49:38+00:00

Nicely done.

Come to think of it, when I first broke up with my first gf I seemed to take it really well (because I expected it really). I made a huge list of ways to improve myself and goals to achieve and when I started asking people around and explaining some of them lo and behold she started cheating on her new bf with me.

Stoicism and diligent self-improvement really is the best path, but it has to be INTRINSIC self-improvement. Your goals will decay away as surely as your gains if you base them all on material goals like trying to get a bitch.

Metalgear222 · 2016-10-28T15:42:59+00:00

The less you care about them, the more they care about you. Nature's way of ensuring survival of the fittest. As lower value people will always reach up to grab those of higher value.

SnarkyFella · 2016-10-28T13:41:38+00:00

Slow clap to loud applause

Newbosterone · 2016-10-28T23:55:52+00:00

I was going to comment "well played", but no - "well lived". For me, those moments are unconscious Costanza maneuvers. I do the opposite of what society told me I should do, and the results are better.

omega_dawg93 · 2016-10-31T03:36:59+00:00

you played this perfectly. and this is typically the attitude i have with ALL the women i see.

not long ago, i was told, "you and i should start seeing other people... this has gone cold." i said, "no problem... the clock on dating new people just started."

she had a smirk on her face as i walked out. exactly 2 nights later, her gay brother sees me out with a BEAUTIFUL young lady about 20 yrs younger than me. she was my niece, but her brother didn't know that; however, i knew he'd tell his sister, immediately.

a day later, she sends a text: "how's the dating going?" i didn't reply. the next day: "can you stop-by to talk?" my reply..."i've got plans (i was going to shoot pool with a buddy). to her, i'm sure i was going out with that YOUNG hotty.

a day later, she's at my house unannounced... looks at me and says, "i wanna suck your cock right now." i laughed... said, come in and sit down. she said, "i'm serious... i want your cock in my mouth bad...come here."

y'all know what happened next.

it was PURE DREAD and i actually didn't do shit. LOL.

Daddie0 · 2016-10-31T09:30:15+00:00

This situation is slightly different, but along the same lines.

My wife had a friend she worked with that found out her boyfriend was screwing around on her, and she decided to end it. They still lived in the same apartment for a couple of weeks to a month after she ended it. The boyfriend would go to work, go over to his new girlfriends place to fuck her, but still come back to the apartment frequently to sleep / shower, etc.

My wife then told me a few days into this arrangement that her friend was still banging him. Started when she heard him get up for work to take a shower and just decided to take off her clothes and jump in the shower with him. She fucked him frequently, at least 3-4 times a week until he moved out.

That was over 20 years ago and at the time I couldn't wrap my head around it, but now I get it.

Dookiestain_LaFlair · 2016-10-28T06:05:27+00:00

I read the title of this post in the voice of the guy in Monty Python and the Holy Grail who says "Bring out your dead"

Title	bring on the dread
Author	Lsegundo
Upvotes	200
Comments	35
Date	October 28, 2016 2:18 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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