Sucker Boyfriend(Noun): A chump who enables his girlfriend to be an unproductive, lazy do nothing because he invests resources and finances into her and makes her complacent.

On the weekends I have a part time bartending/serving job to supplement the income I make at my main job. At this establishment I work with men and women ranging from anywhere to 18 years old to 60.

In this post I am going to focus on a couple of women I work with which really help illustrate the core principle of when you give a woman an inch, she will take a mile, and that is why it's a bad idea to invest in her and do things like cohabitate.

The first girl I would like to talk about, we will call her Sue, is at best a 2/10, and even a 2 is stretching it. Not attractive at all. Here is the deal with Sue. She began to date and live with one of our managers and has gone from working about 40 hours a week to no more than 5 hours a week. She calls off sick on almost all of her shifts and never shows up. Yesterday she called off and I would say she left us hanging but at this point we expect it. Only reason she doesn't get fired is because she is dating the manager. Sue is allowed to get away with not working at all because her sucker boyfriend is subsidizing her lazy lifestyle. He pays the rent, he pays for her gas, he pays for her groceries, and so on. All because of his lack of abundance and so he can try and lock down this ugly 2/10. How pathetic do you have to be?

The second girl I want to use as an example is a cocktail waitress we will call Peggy. Peggy is a solid 8/10. Peg is now 24 years old and has been a college student for the last 6 years and still isn't close to graduating. She really has no drive or determination to finish. And why should she? Peg, like Sue, lives with a boyfriend who pays the rent, pays the bills, puts food on the table, buys her shit, puts gas in her tank, pays her car payment, takes her on vacations, etc. Therefore Peg only works 2 nights a week and has no drive to actually graduate. And it's a shame because Peg's boyfriend is actually what you would call a natural alpha. He is tall, in good shape, good looking, rides a motorcycle, in other words, has the SMV to be able to bag a woman like Peg.

While these girls are two different situations - Sue is low SMV who has a low SMV boyfriend, Peg is high SMV who has a high SMV boyfriend, both illustrate the same concept. These boyfriends are both sucker boyfriends. They are subsidizing the lazy unproductive lifestyles of their girlfriends. They are enabling their girlfriends to be lazy do nothings with no direction in life while picking up the tab.

Ultimately this is why you have to take a hard line and be very very minimal if not outright refusal when investing anything, specifically finances and resources, into a woman. Give them an inch and they take a mile. It's a lot like welfare/food stamps in that it will be abused.

I see a lot of guys on here and AskTRP who think they are special and think their girlfriends are special unicorns. They hamster up reasons why they cohabitate with their LTRs and invest finances/resources in them. They say to trust them, its totally different with them and they are so red pilled and alpha and can pull it off just fine. I know these guys are full of shit. For example you have the supposed red pillers who live with their girlfriends but claim they make their girlfriend pay their share and do not give her a free ride in anything. Even then, this arrangement is toxic because you have still given the woman a safety net. She knows damn well that if she were to stop paying her fair share, or wanted to be lazy, she could get away with it. Because are you really going to kick her out? Are you really going to turn the screws on her and force her to pay up? Really? It's easy to play that scenario out in your head where you lay down the law and force her to pay up or kick her to the curb, but what about when it actually happens? Will you follow through? Probably not, and she knows this. She knows she can turn into a Peg or a Sue at any time and become a lazy leech fuck and you won't do shit about it. And it will happen slowly. It will trickle in slowly, like a frog in a boiling pot of water. One day it might just be she wants to call in sick from work when its really not. The next week its that she wants to take the week off. The next week she will be just a tad short on rent. The next week she will just need a couple more days to get her money together. And so on.

That's why it's not a good idea to ever heavily invest and do things like cohabitate. You may think you have the arrangement worked out to where there is no free ride, but she knows she can and will call your bluff. Best to just not put yourself in that situation.

How many of you are sucker boyfriends?