So I've got these two friends, Dave and Mikey. Dave and Mikey are in the anger phase. Dave just had a bad breakup with an LTR of over 3 yrs. He can't believe his sweet little innocent princess would go fuck that douchebag asshole former football player that treats her like shit. I had a tough convo with him about why she did what she did and was able to get through to him but now he's pissed off at women and their nature. Mikey, on the other hand, had a bad break up with his LTR about two years ago, she cheated on him as well. Mikey, like Dave, was pissed off at women and their nature. However, Mikey is still pissed off. Now, he mental masturbates to the extremes of TRP and MGTOW all day, and acts like he knows the secrets to the universe. He'll still lift and get with the occasional woman, but nothing more than an HB4-6 with extreme mental or daddy issues. Low, low quality, and annoying as shit (to the detriment of our friend group).

It's okay to be Dave. It's not okay to be Mikey. It's okay to be in the anger phase when you first find this sub, it's not okay to remain in it. Women are women, and they are going to women. Don't take the naturality of women and all of their dumbass quirks that developed completely biologically and use it for the basis of hate. What the fuck is the point. While it is true that a lot of female behaviour is exactly as you now think it is, if you are only ever focused on the worst of what the women have to offer, you will only ever attract the worst of the women. So, why hate women and their nature when you can love them?

A lot of us are adamant about speaking "the truth" - bitter, harsh and cruel - about women, not realizing that women only act this way as a reflection of most men. Women are the other side of the coin, the yin to the yang. If you disdain women you inherently disdain part of yourself.

Look, women feel men out through a kind of energy, for lack of a better word. These masculine and feminine energies are constantly intertwining in dance and manifest themselves in several ways that we are familiar with. Think dominance and submission, shit tests and manipulation, yadda yadda. But what you have to realize is that this dance is meant to be complimentary. As men we're always in our own heads, but we think about ideas, concepts, rigid structures of reality, whereas women think about that which has already came to be, e.g. the meal she cooked this morning, the dress she's thinking of buying, the guy she wants to date blah blah blah. As men, it mindless drivel of little girls, but women, be they 5 or 50, ALL ACT THIS WAY. It is FUNDAMENTAL FOR THEM to be in tune with the ever changing state of their emotions and feelings, because THAT is how they connect with reality, through EMOTION. Men do it with LOGIC. Of course, both men and women can do either/or, but one is more natural to each sex, and the other is something that has to be developed. This comes with a sacrifice at both ends. Most women are very present to the moment and lack the abstract thinking to provide a better future for themselves. Men on the opposite end, have trouble staying present minded, and generally live in abstract world. You can see how both of these sides of the coin make for a complete human being. One that is able to look into the future, and yet remain present to the moment. One that is able to create an ideal within his mind, and bring into present reality and be able to enjoy it when it is there.

Women are chaotic, they will stir the waters of your mind and provoke you into a state of disease and instability if you let them. The man who has firm roots in himself and can ground himself is the one who can withstand the chaos. If your roots are weak, its likely the chaotic female element could uproot your entire tree and leave you in a state of desolation. It is for this reason that we say all the time how important it is to build up to an abundant, unbreakable frame. The closer you get to this frame the more you will be able to see through the chaos, understand it, love it. This chaos has caused men to do great things.

For there is nothing more endearing and satisfying to a woman than to help a good man become great. Of course, many women don't realize this themselves, and they will see a good man and attempt to enslave him to satisfy their animal survival desires, of provisionship and security, eventually feminizing the man they are with and thus losing attraction to him. But women must always be in service to something or someone. It is how they feel best, even though they themselves oftentimes don't understand it. So guide them toward this realization and use it to your advantage.

Do not look at women who have access to sex and think that it's "unfair", for you have been given a gift far greater than the external banal sensual pleasures available to any woman. Whereas a woman can only use a Man to create more mankind, A Man can create the World.

Again, if you are only ever focused on the worst of what the women have to offer, you will only ever attract the worst of the women. So start to focus on the good they have to offer. Don't pedestalize, but learn to love the shit tests, appreciate the manipulation, understand the hypergamy. Be the man of deep stillness with the untrifled directed energy needed to ground the chaotic, emotional female element. Women will love you for it and contribute to your life in beneficial ways as a result. Have fun with it, and love yourself above all.

TL;DR: Don't just stop hating, learn to appreciate as well.

(Disclaimer: some of these ideas aren't original, but have come from an amalgam of posts that I have saved. I tried to put them in a way you all would be receptive to.)