The core issue for the vast majority of men is that they are not horny enough. They're not hard enough to fuck the world so they settle for aimlessly tugging on their flacid dick.
Questions on how to develop confidence, how to go about talking to girls correctly, how to be a high value man, what is Alpha and what isn’t, and how one could go about being Alpha only have a chance to arise because you aren’t horny enough to assert yourself onto the world to get what you want. Yes, there is failure and pain involved in the processes of clashing against the way things are, but when you are horny, you have a higher pain tolerance.
It’s the lack of vital energy that leads men to seek established paths that are systematically laid out for them– they want to fit into something predefined, because carving out something new, especially something that would seem impossible until it is actually done, is painful, frustrating, and risky. Being horny will naturally make one want to change the world as he sees fit, thus necessitating pain, frustration, and risk– and so the modern man destroys the surplus vital energy inside him through masturbation.
Mastrubation here is being used in the broad sense. Masturbation can refer to any activity that is counter to generative drives, and follows this circular process: the generative drives inside of you cause discomfort as they build up to a substantial level because you are acting against them, you masturbate, i.e., do something that will remove that discomfort, you are only temporarily relieved of the discomfort, because those generative drives will continue to build up in you.
Self-help is a form of masturbation– it makes you feel like you are taking actions towards something big, when in fact you aren’t bringing about any radical change to your life. It allows you to stay the way you are because you think that you are changing. The moments that bring about transformation, when you change the given circumstances you are in, are anything but pleasurable.
That being said, masturbation, in the broad sense that it is being used here, doesn’t have to feel pleasurable. The woman who keeps going back to her abusive ex– in her masturbation, she cooms when she leaves him, that’s why she keeps going back. The man who says with that woman who always cheats on him with her ex– he cooms when he is able to be man enough to forgive her for her flaws. The writer that suffers from writing block cooms from recommitting to his project wholeheartedly after being fed up with not going anywhere with his manuscript for a few months.
To break away from their dysfunctional situation would be to forgo their cooming, and go into the unknown. However, if they do renounce their current unconscious enjoyment for something greater, then they will be horny enough to change their lives. Unfortunately, most will be stuck masturbating at some point.
The Manosphere is one big circle jerk, with smaller circle jerks inside it. It might have been groundbreaking a decade ago, but the fact that it hasn’t radically changed the given conditions that had given birth to it is a testament to its impotence, and proof that all it has been doing is unconsciously enjoying its problems. The problem of the overvaluation of pussy was known long before OnlyFans.
There could have been a cultural revolution to bring a new balance to the sexual marketplace. But no, there was no effort to organize, and even before that could be considered, no effort to go beyond self-help and the Rational Male. You could argue that such a movement would have failed. I’m inclined to agree. But even a failed movement would have made the Manosphere a force that actually stood for something, instead of a reactionary, masturbatory community. Unfortunately, the Manosphere cooms by reacting to a small number of symptoms of liberal degeneracy destroying their civilization. In fact, the Manosphere can be considered to be one of the institutions responsible for the problems that it cooms to.
The Manosphere has only coomed to the world in various ways. The point, however, is to be horny enough to change it.
What are we doing to rebalance the sexual marketplace? We’re moving men out of the West, allowing them to have access to a higher quality of life, more money for less work, hotter women, and an environment that is suitable to actually raise a family. We literally have a base in Mexico, and are actively helping our people get residency and remote work. We don’t have to deal with the same bullshit that you all have been dealing with for the last decade. We have newer and more exciting problems to deal with.
To those of you who think that leaving the US is a cope, you are a masturbator. You say “this is America, we don’t run away from our problems”, but you’re not part of an organized effort to make a difference. You’re just masturbating as usual as the world around you collapses– but you can only masturbate so hard for so long.
If you are done negating your vital energy and are ready to bring radical change in your life with difficult workouts, difficult books, and a community of men who can offer you resources that are unavailable to most people, now is the time to get into contact.
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