The Main Event

strategos_autokrator · 2015-10-22T14:50:35+00:00

The problem is not the main event. It is you are insecure. If you have a secure frame regularly, there might not be a main event even. You have 9 months to establish it. That is more than enough. Stop being afraid of women, that is what drives them to do the main event.

Read the prereqs, all of them. Read the beginners guideline for the order. Stop being passive, all the info is there. Lead your life by leading your self improvement.

dandar4600 · 2015-10-22T15:08:28+00:00

I'm getting ready to move in with my girlfriend of 3+ years in about 9 months.

Where do you even get the idea of a main event. You're not married and you don't even live together. Why would you worry about the main event? Your situation will never get to that point. You'll be the captain from the second the two of you move in together and she will know that as the status quo.

The main event is about her maintaining the power and keeping you as her beta bucks AFC. Many of us never even gotten to the main event. Some of us were never seen as the beta bucks, we just became ones throughout the marriage and she was more than happy to have her alpha back.

Redneck001 · 2015-10-22T15:00:42+00:00

In your case, there's no need for a Main Event.

If you've never lived with her before, you have a blank slate to set your standards and expectations.

cholomite · 2015-10-22T15:02:52+00:00

The "main event" is usually the result of a guy going from beta to more alpha in a relatively short amount of time and his wife or gf noticing. The most important thing is to maintain frame and don't say too much. Some guys here advocate saying nothing at all, I simply told my gf I wanted to become a better man and left it at that. The most important thing about a "main event" is this. You are breaking her conception of you as a beta and she is trying to get you to admit things that prove you're only faking this new attitude, or you had to read it somewhere, or to bring you back into her frame. It is very important that you make sure to say very little, and don't give her any idea that this is anything other than the natural you that was inside you all along. If you can keep it short, simple and convey that message you'll be fine.

mrpCamper · 2015-10-22T15:20:24+00:00

I've read the FAQ, and the stories from the past week already. Thanks in advance

Yes, go read The Married Man's Sex Life Primer. You'll learn a lot in the day or 2 it takes to read it. You're not going to be able to put it down.

BluepillProfessor · 2015-10-22T21:01:30+00:00

Why are you preparing for the Main Event when you are just getting ready to move in?

Has she cut you off already?

My recommendation is to read the misndry bubbble- twice- and then have your GF read Esthar Villar's The Manipulated Man.

My biggest reccomendation is that any man enters into a committeed relationship without the covert contracts and the STATED expectation that committment lasts only so long as the girl is nice most of the time- and you get sex on demand. Anything less and she eventually uses her power to weaponize sex.

Every...single....time. She WILL withdraw sex if and use it to control you and then grow to hate you. If you let her.

After 10 years of /r/deadbedrooms you will be ready for the "Main Event."

mrprm · 2015-10-22T19:56:16+00:00

Knowing what you know now from TRP/MRP why do you want to move in with her?

boinko03 · 2015-10-22T21:37:20+00:00

Why 9 months?

Title	The Main Event
Author	boinko03
Upvotes	3
Comments	20
Date	October 22, 2015 2:40 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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