Here's a question from a Guy I mentor.

He wants to know if he can dread his wife by NOT fucking her. She only wants sex when she's ovulating and the hormones are primed. He's fixed so it's not about getting another baby. She claims to have no sex drive due to adrenal fatigue. She self diagnosed that. They have amazing sex for 3-4 days month and then she's dry no matter how hard they try.

He's executing his map well. He's muscular and cut. He's stepped up his wardrobe and dresses better then most in our group. He's sharp and independent. Has her wrapped around his finger but she says sex is painful when she's not ovulating. His plan is to skip sex a couple months and see if she initiates or is receptive to him initiating outside of that small window. Basically active dread by not being bothered to fuck her when she's ovulating. Seems like a waste of time to me.

What say you?