Just discovered trp/mrp two days ago. Read stuff from hornsofapathy and my father bought me NMMNG for xmas, perfect timing. Anyway, to the point.

LTR of 2 yrs, we don’t live together, no kids either. I used to be a leader, and she’d follow. I got blue in my ways, started gaining back the weight I lost, and being soft. Now she mostly leads and called me out as the bitch of the relationship.

Yesterday we went out shopping, I was tired from the night before (gym and vigorous sex after it). She said she felt something off, and was mad at me because I left oil on the stove from the breakfast she took two bites of and didn’t appreciate.

I didn’t text her all day, then went out with friends.

Her: calls twice, texts “I called you twice...” Me: I’m out with friends, whats up? Her: nothing Me: fuck off. Her: gladly. Her, 1 hr later: i’m hurt you said that.

Next morning, Me: I was out with friends. Her: then fuck off, hope you find someone who puts up with that.

I haven’t texted back since this morning. Went to gym, now doing what I’m doing throughout my day, and reading NMMNG after I meal prep tonight.

How would you handle this? Am I handling her words correctly? Will this help me get back behind the wheel and her in the passenger seat? Thanks a bunch. Time to sidebar.