I've been on red pill for about 6 months now. I've been applying TRP for awhile now and my life has changed. I've been keeping in shape and been trying to spin some plates

Anyways, There's this one girl HB8(she's 19 i'm 21) who I've known for about a few weeks. I've been escalating through text and whenever I take her out. I invited her over one night, we made out and I was fingering her but she stopped before we had sex because she felt bad that she was dating this other guy. (They were exclusive but not anymore) I brushed it off, telling her I didn't really care and we continued on the night playing around with no sex.

So this whole thing has been going on for 3 nights already(always whenever I invite her over within a span of 1 week) and she still doesn't want to put out and she keeps telling me we should be friends instead (but I always brush it off saying we're not gonna be JUST friends, her body language always says otherwise) There has been no sex, but plenty of kissing, fingering, and hand jobs.

I can tell she's attracted to me and she's been telling me such. I told her I was attracted to her as well, I made it clear though that I was also seeing other people.

So my question is, Am I her orbiter, or am I failing to escalate properly? What should be my next move?

Update: Decided to next her and fuck other women. Thanks for the advice everyone.