EDIT: Group consensus is it’s a stupid idea and I will not hit up my ex. Thanks for coming to my TED Talk

I’ll start by saying I have RP’d really strong over the last couple months I’m spinning a couple plates, I cold approach 3-5 women a week. I’m comfortable in my career, also I’m training for and focused on a fitness competition next month, and am generally happy.

I was browsing through Match.com as I’ve had success there. I came across my ex LTR from last year. She’s looking good, lives close by and is obviously single.

The breakup was ugly, we fell hard and fast in a 6 month relationship from last year around this time to February. I moved to Silicon Valley for work which was the beginning of the end for us. After moving back to FL when my Mom got cancer I tried to re-kindle things but I was pretty beta about the whole situation, had a lot to deal with at home with my mom, and formally broke things off with her in March when my mom was undergoing chemo. I hit her up once in April when I signed a lease in Miami, but she brushed it off saying she’s not interested but wishes me the best. We haven’t spoken since, but I did see her at a bar with a guy about a month or so ago, but I was with a plate so I didn’t say anything, and she definitely saw me because she left promptly thereafter.

The situation: She’s 17 years older than me (I’m 29) but still an HB8 at least, takes good care of herself, although she has a teenage daughter who lives with her.

Wondering if I should send her a text saying I saw her on match, so obviously she’s looking to date, and it would be foolish if we didn’t at least meet for a drink to catch up.

Is this stupid?