Invited a girl I've slept with on two occasions over this weekend.
She ask to just get dinner says "nah lets go out and get dinner, let me know if your ok with that. I'm sure you can cope with not bringing someone home for the night. Actually you can probably do that after so no loss". How do I respond to this shit.
Backstory: Shes cute, I am down but not really trying to date her. First two times she was very into me, sex both times, said she is more of a dating then hook up type. Shes clearly not over her ex (broke up 2 months ago) she talks a bout him a bit but i pass those shit tests fine. She messages me and shit all the time and I just move it to logistics. Shes invited me to her office and future concerts, weird shit.
She is 27 so am I.
Last time we hung out was on new years. All was good until around 1am. she said she spoke to her ex today and just wasnt feeling it tonight, so she didnt want to come over, which i had not invited her to. She told me i should find some other girl, she has seen girls texting me (phone lights up, lock screen notification). Said "i didnt even want you to come" even though she invited me. I just said your over thinking things and i chilled for like 20 min and then left and went to a different party.
She called me at like 5am. I didnt pick up. Texted me again at 4pm. Then we set up hanging out this weekend.
Point is I feel like shes playing games, I just want to fuck her, not date, and she is just shit testing all the time which seems to work in my favor.
How should I respond to her text above/whats the best strategy here. Go and just chill, go and invite her over anyway(actions not her words) Or should I just cut the cord on this one. Shit maybe im over thinking things
Thanks.
Update: Thanks for the advice.
I went with "cute, cya at my place at 8"
She came and we got dinner across the street. She then tried to tell me we shouldnt see each other any more because
Her friend likes me (i spoke to her friend for 2 minutes when i met them)
Her friend told her I tried to kiss her (which is a lie) wasnt expecting that.
She saw a few girls asking where I was on my phone lock screen notifications and decided she didnt want to be another one of my girls. Said im not the type to settle down
To which i replied to all of it. "this could have just been an email, did we really need a meeting? All good no worries"
Dinner continued as normal after that. She then asked me what I wanted to do after and I just said follow me and walked her to my place.
We fucked a few times watched some netflix and she was all "this is the last time well ever see each other" To which i said "sounds good"
Kept asking me how she ranks compared to my "other girls" i just kept it as vague as possible, or ignoring the various questions. She tried to tell me crazy sex stories from years ago that werent at all crazy to make me jealous. "thats cool, not sure why your telling me,"
The sex was pretty damn good. She left at like 4am. I'll hit her up in 2 weeks but im sure shell message me before that. If she ends up being serious about not meeting then sure whatever plates break.
But stupid me is into this brat mainly cuz the kinky sex, i have 4 other plates spinning but the sex with them is kinda ehh compared to this one. Someone wack me in the back of the head.
Ive only known her for 2 weeks, slept together 3 times. Met at club, she initiated the flirting after i tried wingmaning her for my friend who had bad game. I will go talk to other women.
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