Quickly explained my dad is a looser who considers himself a loosers, he is a guy that has followed the femenine imperative his whole life, I want to save him, his girlfriend just broke up with him I think, my mom cheated on him years ago and now well he is in this situation where he is 52, out of shape, he is good at his job but doesnt get paid as much, always prefers safety than risk, he is stuck paying child support for my little brother. Been thinking about inviting him to the gym and giving him a copy of the rational male, but don't know if it could backfire on me, already helped a guy with it, he is now my best friend but it was difficult to make him understand... Need someone to give me perspective maybe the older fellows, if you are under 22 please abstain from commenting, go hit the gym or something, boomers, give me your take on the situation.