I don’t even remember what we were bantering about but I said something and my plate came at me saying “you arnt gonna do shit”. And then I told her what if I do. She then comes back at me saying “I’ll just laugh at you cuz you’ll come at me with some weak shit”. At the time I was stunned that she said that and just laughed and said “uhhh ok”. But thinking back I should’ve said “you weren’t saying I was weak when I shoved my cock in your throat last night”. Or I should’ve just told her “ok u think I’m weak get out of my car”. But I froze and fucked up.

Long story short I ended it with her because I didn’t react at the time and she probably thinks I’m weak. Even tho she sent me paragraphs of her apologizing saying she was just joking and being sarcastic and never meant to say those things. How would you guys handle this?

Should I ghost her completely after this, or forgive her apology?

I’ve already told her when I first met her I don’t tolerate people disrespecting me. Whether or not she was joking it’s disrespectful to say something like that at face to someone in my opinion.

I told her I don’t wanna see her ever again and it was nice knowing her. Am I being too harsh?