What's a good way for the average guy to get sexual validation? I want to feel sexy and do actually find myself very attractive (if I was a girl I'd let myself hit it raw), but I'm struggling to find ways to really feel that by myself. I can tell myself I'm sexually attractive but it kind of rings hollow without any outside evidence to support it

One idea I've had is posting nudes to some gonewild type subs and reading the comments there. If there's such a market for female nudes then there will be also for male nudes given that men and women are by and large the same

I've also had the idea of buying myself some lingerie and other outfits I can wear and simply enjoying how I look in them, and also posting them to gw type subs

Any other ideas or suggestions?