She’s “busy” am I 100% cooked?

seduction-ModTeam · 2024-06-18T19:13:58+00:00

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Malesoda · 2024-06-18T15:22:38+00:00

as of right now ur cooked yeah. shes too good for u and u belive that. rank up solider

ShampooMonK · 2024-06-18T16:28:03+00:00

This isn’t even about running game I need to make her mine I’d wife it if I could.

Imagine how desperate you must come off to her based on this sentence alone.

csgecko · 2024-06-18T15:34:40+00:00

Stop pursuing low interest girls

SecretComments · 2024-06-18T16:11:20+00:00

Other replies seem to not really be acknowledging the fact that you haven't tried contacting her directly apparently since April, right?

Dude. Send another text. Be a little playful about it.

"Hey, so, I got pretty busy myself. You got a little time in your schedule this week? Would love to catch up." Boom. Simple.

If you haven't texted this girl in months no way in hell she thinks you're chasing her lmao

Also, real talk, people DO get busy....or she was nervous. Or her interest was just low. But sometimes a gentle pursuit can bump that too. Give her a sense of yourself. You're patient, you're not interested in overwhelming her or throwing yourself at her, but you're not afraid to contact her again when you've thought to, months later. That should always be the vibe. Some girls will never contact you even if they want to hear from you, because they're just that submissive about it, or they're more scared than you of rejection. And some girls just hope you won't try because they're really not into you at all. And some are kinda on the fence, in the middle, wishy-washy. You don't know unless you try. Just don't try too hard.

From_God_to_Dog · 2024-06-18T16:45:30+00:00

Aw man you screwed up, don't act like a husband when it just a bf, you should've got that girl's number, and kept her as a potential, women do it all the time they have back up guys, that's the dating scene, but if ur married I completely understand not pursuing someone

5hallowbutdeep · 2024-06-18T16:45:59+00:00

nobody on this earth is that "busy". wish i knew this as a young man.

Boosteddreamer · 2024-06-18T15:28:12+00:00

Kind of tough to say without seeing the conversation. Just ask her out, if she’s interested she’ll make time.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-06-18T15:47:04+00:00

She is busy for you

Rollorich · 2024-06-18T18:35:41+00:00

If you see her again you should go speak with her. Be 100% happy and cheerful and glad to see her. If you act even 1% butt hurt you lose any changes of seeing her again. Be cheerful and fun and they tell her you'll see her around. If she doesn't reach out within the week then you probably turned her off beyond repair when you texted her out of liking you.

If she does reach out then you use it an an opportunity to meet in person and stop texting. If you start texting you'll just turn her off again.

lemonyprepper · 2024-06-18T17:13:12+00:00

Move on

itizwhatitizlmao · 2024-06-18T18:36:26+00:00

You have a crush - she doesn’t care much about you.

Do with that what you will

m0rbius · 2024-06-18T18:38:13+00:00

She's not interested. Get over it and move on. Don't message her at all at this point. You'd be wasting your time.

Spiritual-Smoke-9498 · 2024-06-18T18:39:24+00:00

Nobody’s too busy.

I am too busy = I don’t care / I don’t want too

Title	She’s “busy” am I 100% cooked?
Author	FinancialEmu9664
Upvotes	19
Comments	22
Date	June 18, 2024 3:12 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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