Red flag or not

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2024-09-17T01:36:18+00:00

they way I see it seems like a ton of indicators of interest lol, you matched her preference when it comes to looks perhaps, or maybe the smell, women can sense that, just go with flow, it's a learning opportunity lol !

HomelessMilkman · 2024-09-17T10:57:31+00:00

This thread is funny.

You learn game and you develop this arcane knowledge of how to be attractive while being just a cool, normal guy.

Then you go into the field and girls like you.

Now that girls like you, they need to stand out, they need to you to pick them.

You have become the 'hot girl'; you're now going to be exposed to the most cringe supplication, efforts to try and win you over and be liked.

This is what people who don't know what they're doing, who are trying their best, with what limited they know, look like and you're all like 'RED FLAG'.

Is it 'bad game'? Obviously. Is it indicitive of some self-esteem issues? Yeah. Have you done some equally cringe shit because you didn't know any better? Probably, I'm guilty.

Are we not all here because we were this at some point?

TheNattyJew · 2024-09-17T01:56:09+00:00

A red flag of what? That she's really really really super interested in you? If you wanna call that a red flag then yes I guess she fits the bill

ratfooshi · 2024-09-17T01:57:38+00:00

If you sense it comes from outta nowhere and little to do with you, red flag ⛳

Those girls can be crazy as hell. And you'll be trapped emotionally.

Run!

Alphagreen_97 · 2024-09-17T03:51:44+00:00

People with antisocial personality disorders tend to do that, it's called love bombing. They usually do it at the beginning a fuck ton. Keep dating her, inform yourself on narcissistic pers disorder and those types and see if you see something.

Dandys3107 · 2024-09-17T09:45:13+00:00

You should always consider potential background reason for girl’s actions. By complementing your appearance she probably was encouraging you break touch barrier with her, you want to be touched by people you fancy, right? It’s also a slight ego boost for you to start making your moves.

KongWick · 2024-09-17T04:53:38+00:00

Could be love bombing and trying to seduce you to gain her trust.

But if you’re mentally tough and not a pussy, this shouldn’t faze you.

Smash her if she’s hot. Date her for a bit, and deduce for yourself if she is being malicious with her intent or if she is genuinely just interested in you.

Have you guard up but trust in yourself that you won’t get sucked into the black hole of a toxic woman.

Girls do this to me a lot. Usually not until after the first date or after we’ve smashed. If out of the gate on the first date she’s doing it… maybe she just wants sex or maybe she has some malicious intent. Gotta find for yourself.

Title	Red flag or not
Author	Savings-Ad-8642
Upvotes	6
Comments	19
Date	September 17, 2024 1:22 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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