DHV stories

DaygameCode · 2025-01-14T12:24:36+00:00

You don’t need DHV stories for seducing women, specially in daygame. That’s just some old fashion take by Mystery from the 90s. Seduction has evolved. Seducing women is simpler than that, it’s all about making her feel emotions.

The reason you don’t need DHV stories in daygame is because the act of cold approaching with confidence by itself already shows high value. Most women can admire the confidence it takes to be vulnerable like that because they wouldn’t have the guts to do it themselves.

When they see that you are completely comfortable in your own skin, self-assured, that already shows value without having to come up with some made up story about how great you are.

Then another way to show value is by making the conversation feel memorable, if they sense that your vibe is fun, different from the usual generic small-talk, that you really know how to do playful banter and create rapport right away so that the conversation flows effortlessly in a fun way without any awkward moments; that already shows you have people’s skills, and sense of humor which are all traits of high-value men.

These skills are not about memorizing scripts or canned stories.

It’s about learning to tease her, to challenge her, to mess with her, to mock her in lighthearted way, to make bold and daring insinuations, to throw playful accusations, to shift the frame of the conocer by accusing her of trying to seduce you, to get her to imagine playful scenarios involving the two of you, to mimic her behaviour or words in a mocking way to tease her….

This is what makes her intrigued and invested in talking with you, because you are creating a higher chance for her to feel like the “chemistry”. She feels that your conversation style is fun and playful rather than the usual stuff boring exchange about the weather, jobs, studies…

And while those things get her hooked, the point of the conversation is to get her to talk about herself, her values, her experiences, her accomplishments, her positive traits and feelings…

You get her to do this so that you can evaluate whether she is more than just a pretty girl like all the others or there is something more special about her and can therefore flirt amd escalate more without being perceived as superficial or low-value.

In other words, you are not trying to prove your worth to the woman by showing how valuable you are, instead she is the one who has to prove her worth to you (qualifying herself) and you get her to do that subtly by asking personal questions and being genuinely curious about why she does the things she does or how she feels about herself and her experiences.

Warning: Don’t ever say shit like, “~so tell me why you are good enough for me~” because that’s not subtle, it’s cringe and will lead only to ego battles.

When she qualifies herself, she is accepting the frame that you are the prize (the high value man) that she needs to impress in order to be rewarded with your escalations.

This means that you don’t go for the number or a date if she didn’t impress you, and if she doesn’t know yet why she impressed you. She needs to hear from you first why she earned a date with you or why she earned your number. For example:

“I don’t usually ask women i just met out on a date even if they are pretty because i find it shallow, but with you i want to make an exception because I admit i’m impressed with how easy going and charming you are, making me feel really welcomed, and how passionate you are about your goals in life, and i thought man, I’d be stupid if i didn’t try to see this girl again”

When you justify your escalation like this it is likely to be received well because it shows you don’t just go for any girl even if she is hot, you only do it if she earns it which further reinforces the frame that you are the prize and that you are selective which is also a high value trait, removing the need for DHV stories.

Hope it helps.

P.S. I’m a seduction daygame coach in spain (europe), and I help men get over approach anxiety and learn how to talk to women in a way that’s natural, fun, and playful, without boring small talk or awkward interrogations. This helps them land dates and hook up, even if their mind used to go blank or they don’t stand out by their looks. If you want to see how I can help you with this, book a free call here. I’m sure you’ll get even more value than you already have from this post.

epimpstyle · 2025-01-14T18:17:05+00:00

In daygame, the way you dress and take care of yourself shows enough DHV, there is no need to say anything to DHV but there is nothing wrong with creating a new topic to talk about: "Nice, ring/bracelet/necklace... it reminds me of a friend of mine who had a piercing in her bellybutton and she wanted to get a piercing in her nipples... bla bla bla" or "... it reminds me when we were at the beach and she forgot her necklace with a medallion on her neck and the latter appeared a white circle on her chest." - this will let her know that you are not a loner and there were other girls in your life.

In nightgame things change and your look is not enough, some DHV stories do wonders. DHV is not bragging, it is a part of the "game", it helps you with the conversation and if your DHV contains something funny, you become a guy who knows how to tell stories and have fun.

badandgoodlooking · 2025-01-15T05:42:40+00:00

You don't need to memorize routines or jokes, because that will mean you are "playing" the part of someone high value. Be actually high-value by following these easy steps.

- Dress well. For the female gaze. (GQ style, aesthetic and with a good fall, nothing too tight)
- Wear a great perfume - Chanel Bleu, Versace Eros.. something on those lines
- Be extremely confident - obnoxiously so. That is manifested in how you walk and sit (shoulders back, upright, fast)
- Talk louder than everyone else at the table. Don't scream, but be naturally loud. Multiple studies show that voice volume equals authority, and authority equals value for most people
- Practice the three pillars of charisma during conversation: warmth (be nice, don't shy away from showing affection. If she says something, respond with phrases like.. "that's nice".. "that's great".. "oh good to know".. the words nice, good, amazing, perfect, awesome.. they create warmth during conversation) , competence (processing what someone is saying, and saying something back in return that intellectually challenges the woman. Something unpredictable, possibly something second order to the response she must have been thinking. I always try to take the conversation one step deeper and build intimacy like that) and presence (eye contact, active listening)

Newtabs9 · 2025-01-15T08:31:02+00:00

'hiya. Can't talk for long as my brand new ferrari is being delivered. The last one was damaged when I was saving someone's life life during a gun fight. Anyway, I noticed you from over there and blablablabla'

everydayguy_ · 2025-01-16T08:38:32+00:00

Bruh you don’t need to do any corny ass shit to manipulate women and people in general into believing you have high value.

If you want to demonstrate high value then just be a high value person and it will demonstrate. High value doesn’t mean high income, high value means high self esteem.

The funny thing is most high value people don’t care about trying to sell you the idea that they have high value in themselves, they just have it and people sense it.

Title	DHV stories
Author	ExtremeMap6563
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	January 14, 2025 10:43 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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