Can somebody explain this?

Impossible-Ground921 · 2025-02-14T19:39:44+00:00

Getting a number or even a kiss at a night club means nothing. There are so many distractions at a night club that anything could kill the set or frankly she could find a different dude right after talking to you. Maybe she had a BF and was open to the idea of a hookup but not an ongoing thing.

I’ve run great game where the girl is having the time of her life, laughing, turned on, kissing me, saying she loves me, and getting a number exchange… then you get ghosted. It’s bad luck sometimes. Many of the girls at night clubs are there to hookup that night. If you aren’t going to give it to them, someone else might shortly after. You need to stay in the set as long as possible and move things forward.

DaygameCode · 2025-02-14T23:24:03+00:00

What happens in the night stays in the night. Most women don’t seek to see guys they meet in a nightclub or a bar again.

The point of night game isn’t to get numbers or instagrams or any contact details. It’s about escalating as far as possible, the ultimate goal being hooking up with her.

Don’t expect women at night to want to see you again no matter what happens or how into you they might seem to be in the nightclub. They don’t take guys they meet there seriously, it’s all a one time thing.

Rhino3750ss · 2025-02-14T20:38:35+00:00

In the west, women judge you solely based on how preselected by other women they think you are. Western women are actually on a more primal animalistic nature than the rest of the world.

If you messaged them too quickly after first meeting or were too pleasant or trying to sell yourself while interacting, they will think you lack options so there must be something wrong with you even if there isn't. In your case, I think kissing before parting ways is what turned them off.

In the west, you need grand master narcissism and elite level indifference to show you don't need to impress any one girl because there are plenty elsewhere. You need to strike a balance with being social yet detached. You really just need to behave like you already have multiple women until you actually do.

No-Lobster-4646 · 2025-02-14T19:48:04+00:00

Try again, and then again. It’s hard to know where exactly you messed up without knowing the details of the conversation or what was your first text message or what’s in your Instagram. Keep trying, you’re gonna mess up a lot at first but eventually you will get good if you keep trying.

Ruin369 · 2025-02-14T20:37:34+00:00

She wanted attention at the club but didn't want anything more.

It could be because she was inebriated and once sobered up wasn't feeling it.

This is really common and will happen again. Don't overthink it or think you did anything wrong.

bobklosak · 2025-02-14T23:34:26+00:00

Look up something called a Time bridge.

Artist-in-Residence- · 2025-02-15T05:17:57+00:00

Women tend to ghost you if they think you're boring, dangerous or want something from them.

To have a woman engage and message you back, you have to create an aura of safety and be able to make her laugh. If she feels safe with you and if you're able to make her laugh, she will always message you back.

However, if you act unpredictable, moody, demanding and generally seem dangerous, she will ghost you. Likewise if you're boring, like a passive-aggressive "nice guy".

Trex8204 · 2025-02-18T23:56:51+00:00

Isn’t it weird to go to bars or clubs alone when running night game? It’s a serious question because I tried going a few times alone since most of my friends are either lazy or in relationships and I feel like everyone looks at me and thinks whats he doing here alone

Title	Can somebody explain this?
Author	Actual_Student208
Upvotes	5
Comments	18
Date	February 14, 2025 7:31 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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