Going about texting

Rhino3750ss · 2025-02-17T14:48:01+00:00

You want to minimize texting as much possible because texting in itself is the shit test that cannot be passed as every word is evaluated based on the girls current emotions because you can't convey context with tone of voice and body language like you would irl.

There does exist the issue of needing to text to set up or confirm a date. You send one text, and if there is no reply send one follow up text once every three days up to two times total, but never double text or text back to back. Anything less and she will think you have zero interest, anything more she will think you are too interested prematurely. Delayed responses still happen when the girl is interested, ghosting for more than the 3 days with no response means she isn't.

The key is when she does regularly respond...you have to text as if you are the hot chick. Delay your responses, ghost for a couple days, even stand her up last minute if you have the balls. What will happen is she will act like a beta male and you start seeing double and triple texts and immediate responses with whole paragraphs.

Interesting_Ad_9856 · 2025-02-17T13:54:26+00:00

In the early stages you don't say anything, though it really could be a telling sign of what type of woman you're dealing with overall. Go out and see how she is in person first.

CoachSlyDating · 2025-02-17T14:41:52+00:00

Complaining about her responding late is going to sound butthurt and needy most of the time. There could be a million reasons why she didn’t respond quickly and a lot of those are totally innocent. You have to keep in mind that many of the attractive girls are getting 100+ matches per day.

There is a time and place to call a girl out, if she flakes on a date… but it has to be done in a cool, calm, and collected way. Perhaps with a bit of humor. It can never come across as butthurt or needy.

Cheers,

Coach Sly

AssistTemporary8422 · 2025-02-17T17:54:46+00:00

If she is texting slower that isn't necessarily a mind game on her part and maybe its just in your head. As long as you have compliance from her and she goes out with you then if she is texting slower then you can text slower too.

SiouxsieSioux615 · 2025-02-17T20:43:37+00:00

Define “late”

Cause some of you act like a few hours or the next day is the end of the world

DaygameCode · 2025-02-18T00:14:30+00:00

There are is no such thing as mind games there are only needy guys who think they don’t deserve better and that’s why they entertain low interest girls.

Title	Going about texting
Author	BZN55
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	February 17, 2025 1:02 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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