I’m a 29-year-old (male)muscular, athletic individual with a wide social circle, but interestingly, I had never been in a relationship before and was a virgin. (I used to be shy about flirting with girls.) Now, I’ve been in a happy relationship for a while, and when we tried to have sex for the first time a few weeks ago, I experienced erectile dysfunction due to nervousness when penetrate and putting on condom. Later, I explained the situation to her (told her I was a virgin) and she didn’t make a big deal out of it and said I need to relax and stop thinking about be succesful on bed and stop pressure myself. This pressure me more because I don’t want to ruin a good relationship because of my inexperience.

Last week, we went on our first trip together — a 3-day vacation. On the morning of the first day, I took Cialis. We had sex on all three days without any erection issues and my girlfriend orgasmed every time. However, I couldn’t ejaculate at all. I think it’s because condoms feel very strange to me and I probably also need to get used to having sex after years of only masturbating. (During the sex on the third day, I got really close to orgasm.)

I’m wondering — is the inability to ejaculate a side effect of the pill, or do I just need time to adapt? Also, was the effect I experienced on the third day still from the pill, or does it mean I finally overcame my performance anxiety?

Also should I take a pill this week too or just flow with the wind?

Edit: I didnt told her I took a pill and also sorry for my english also I never experience Ed while masturbating or foreplay