Can only communicate Logistically

ImpossibleWaiting · 2025-12-30T11:05:44+00:00

Understand your values and what you like to do in your free time. Share insights and feelings about it. That's it. Take up space and attention of other people. It's allowed. If the other person gets unhooked and bored, change topic, talk about them. That's just the basics of a nice flow to the conversation.

vertascend · 2025-12-30T09:58:32+00:00

Everyone has their place buddy; you will find yours; experience is key here; you need to get out of your comfort zone and try to become better at normal conversation; I’m the same was never good at it but handing around people who are made me better

HomelessMilkman · 2025-12-30T11:58:22+00:00

People convey information in a way that 'makes sense' to the type of information being told and how they perceive themselves to the audience.

'Cheating' at social skills is detaching the execution from the content. It's taking the excitement, enthusiasm, charisma, that you would say something like "I won the lottery!", capturing that in a bottle and choosing to say anything with that charisma, just because. Of more acutely, because you want what you're saying to be received as if you're telling them something good, positive, of value, exciting, etc.

The evidence is everywhere. Franchises are built on someone taking an arbitrary 'trinket', deciding it has worth, conveying it with enthusiasm and presenting it well, it's adopted and popularised. Most people try to fit within what's already popular, marketed, 'makes sense'. It only 'makes sense' within the context of execution, charisma, etc. an uncharismatic person dressed in a robe swinging a glow stick is 'stupid' but not STAR WARS, that's a 'real thing'.

I digress, the point is, there are no rules. People respond to one thing, charisma/enthusiasm. It's understanding there are no rules, you're not in a box, you can put on a wizard hat and talk about your favourite type of watches on YouTube, call it 'Watch this' and half the video is you popping up from different sides of the screen, pointing at the watch and shouting the brand name in silly voices; you'll have a much bigger audience than the guy taking it seriously because it's better entertainment. That's the goal; banter, fun, chemistry, etc. Or, inception, I've just been talking shit, and you're still reading because it's not dull as bricks. Would you rather be reading my hypothetical bit on 'Randy the watch guy' or the 1000th well-meaning but incredibly dull, motivational, socially pre-approved, "Value yourself" speech?

hazellebakers · 2025-12-30T14:58:04+00:00

Ask questions, then share a related story. Balance matters.

Former-Floor9376 · 2025-12-30T15:11:01+00:00

you need a superficial layer on top of your logical communication. This is where the fun is, because you can move in and out of logic to absurdity.

But this is not enough, depending on your type of game you want the superficial layer to be on you and her, so personal communication. Link everything you two are saying about you and her.

Logistical communication is not more efficient btw, it is the same as emotional communication. You can pass information with both. Think of saying "bear attacks are dangarous"

You can either quote statistics, or describe a bear chasing someone. The info bear = danger, passes equally well

Source: CoffeeDaygame "Conversational patterns in Daygame"

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-12-30T18:59:26+00:00

You might need to work on your mental health first. It's not normal to be overly hyper-vigilant 24/7.

Title	Can only communicate Logistically
Author	Punch-SideIron
Upvotes	9
Comments	11
Date	December 30, 2025 9:49 AM UTC (6 months ago)
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