Seduce his inner circle

Long8D · 2026-03-09T06:30:02+00:00

Biggest mistake guys make is getting the girl interested and then ignoring the friends or treating them like an obstacle. you're going to have problems if you do that because they notice that immediately and they don't like it. You have to make them feel included early and that doesnt mean you have to do it in a try hard way just be funny with them and acknowledge that they're there lol

The envy thing is real and there's not much you can directly do about it. Some girls will cockblock purely because they're not getting attention and that's just part of it. Spread enough warmth around the group without losing focus on your girl and it usually keeps that at bay. But the same thing happens if guys, they can cockblock too even more I'd say.

The bad person read is almost always about coming across too slick or too focused on pulling her. They can smell the agenda from across the bar so tone it way down when the friends are around and save the escalation for when it's just you two. Obviously when a guy hits up a girl they all know that he's on a mission

The not connecting thing is actually the easiest to fix. Find the one friend who seems most neutral and focus on her a bit more because once one of them is on your side the rest tend to follow. Once they get the 👌 from one of the b you're not hitting on in the group then you're in. You just need one ally in the group and the whole vibe shifts in your favor pretty fast.

Tractor-92 · 2026-03-09T08:23:25+00:00

The guy from above is right . I will also put my 2 cents

Most of the time if a girl is with a group , you have to get her alone . At start you ll always be an intruder. What worked for me was to be direct. If i can t approach the girl alone, i would go and introduce myself with a variation of this:

Hi guys , I won t keep you long because i value privacy also , but i could not resist to talk to your friend . I think I was brought to world for this moment . They laugh , i gave them time to react , depending from how they react , i keep joking with them. If they invite me to sit with them is fine, if not , i will ask for contact for the girl I want and leave. As long as you go there with confidence, you don t act bad or something , you are ok. You won t get a positive answer all the time , but you ll learn . Some girl will be flattered with you courage , some of them will have a boyfriend at home or a guy that she is in love with ...some will be ass... don t take anything personal .

Another variant: If you are dating a girl , you should not hang out with her and her friends , not util you slept with her. Or, if you find yourself in this situations with friends of the girl , try and change things. Approach then in a different moment or way.

Some of my best seduction moments where when I was discussing with 2 or 3 girls . The one i was interested in and her friends. When you vibe with her friends and they also are attracted to you, you get a lot of validation and score 10 times the points . LOL But , as everything in life you have to vibe with people. You are probably young and take everything to the heart. Take it easy. read strategy and try it out. You ll learn a lot. But also have fun, build a nice life and character . If you persist and learn, you will get success

Terrible_Assist_1345 · 2026-03-09T12:46:58+00:00

I look at the friends as obstacles you can disarm by befriend them. If you start talking to them and vibing with them they will definetly not be bothered when you take their friend.

StrawberryLogical341 · 2026-03-09T19:07:05+00:00

tbh the problem might be that u see them as an obstacle instead of part of the interaction.

friends are basically doing social vetting. if they don’t feel comfortable with u, they’ll pull their friend away even if she liked the convo.

a few things that usually help: • acknowledge them early instead of ignoring them • don’t try to isolate the girl too fast • keep it light with the whole group for a bit

also if her friends genuinely like u, they’ll often push her toward u, not away.

Live_Towel1801 · 2026-03-09T23:37:15+00:00

Well for startes dont ignore them or keep them out of the conversation. tehy are there now in the beginning its nice to keep it casual and acknowledge them to ease their tension but afte rhte initial appraoch you have to initiate with "i think your friend here is pretty" or you can directly act towards the main girl, but it is best to ease into it instead of having hte friends just stand there and hope they dont do anything. good luck

Matt-Choo · 2026-03-09T14:19:26+00:00

By being the man they all wish they had it doesn’t matter what the friends say. Having your life put together in a neat drama free package with a good job, outfit, confidence and life; literally creates an unbreakable frame. Do shit their man never did, pay for the groups drinks, walk away from the table and pay for the group dinner, and don’t say a word about it. It’s garnered me so much respect that the girls inner circle whispering how they would fuck me puts my girl on her toes. Being a jester only gets you so far, it screams needy, but being a fucking boss means that you can literally get your desired outcome in any situation and it doesn’t matter what happens where you are right now because you create it over and over again.

Title	Seduce his inner circle
Author	Civil_Original9121
Upvotes	11
Comments	7
Date	March 9, 2026 6:20 AM UTC (4 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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