Endless Loop

OpinionThink481 · 2026-04-28T16:04:21+00:00

You dont ask a woman out because you think she wants you, you ask a woman out because you want her. Thats really it.

Dating is not about if you should or shouldn’t do something, it’s about doing what you want, and then letting destiny decide what the outcome of your actions will be.

Do you want to be the type of man who needs to walk on egg shells to go for what he wants?

Or do you want to be the type of man who goes for what he wants because he gives himself permission to go for what he wants?

A woman’s job is not to give you signs for you to approach, her only job is to accept or reject whatever you propose to them after you have taken the initiative to just offer it without them having to tell or indicate you “please offer me something”.

Relevant_Occasion_33 · 2026-04-28T16:00:58+00:00

Work up to it. Approach and talk to men, approach and talk to women you’re not attracted to, then approach the ones you want.

ChicoBrillo · 2026-04-28T16:22:57+00:00

for me, it's eliminating the space between seeing and acting. The thinking is where you talk yourself out of it. It's hard but you can learn to stop thinking. For me I just keep it simple and say "hello" so I won't over think.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-04-28T16:08:16+00:00

that moment when you're hesitating: What is specifically you're imagining or thinking about the negative consequences of approaching?

Sendittor · 2026-04-28T17:54:44+00:00

Don't stare, just start talking like you are already friends.

epimpstyle · 2026-04-28T18:42:29+00:00

Next time you make eye contact, don't forget to add one thing: take two steps in her direction while she's looking at you. Forget about voice projection, deep voice, masculine attitude, or specific body language... forget all that.

Just do these two things: (1) eye contact + (2) take two steps toward her, and then let us know what happened.

tattooedpanhead · 2026-04-29T10:18:31+00:00

Instead of approaching when you get eye contact. Acknowledge it with a nod, wink, tip your hat, hold up your drink or whatever. Then stand your ground, stay where you are.

Sooner or later they'll start approaching you. And embrace your nervousness. If you're talking to a girl and she makes you nervous? Tell her. "Oh wow! I wasn't expecting you would make me so nervous!" Then go right back to talking.

Title	Endless Loop
Author	opiumjoe
Upvotes	13
Comments	17
Date	April 28, 2026 3:54 PM UTC (2 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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