Need some help with flirting and talking

HotAir25 · 2026-06-29T14:50:41+00:00

4k approaches leading to 17 lays?

Half a percentage point conversion.

Good for you. Now I know why my 5 approaches a year aren’t working out 😂

Comfortable-Tart-420 · 2026-06-29T18:53:56+00:00

how do u know uve approached 4 thousand women. do u track all ur approaches or something? is so how do u track them

plz_callme_swarley · 2026-06-29T16:40:05+00:00

"I can't flirt" and "I have maybe mild autism" had me lol'ing. brother you have got more than a lil 'tism for sure.

flirting is really hard to teach. most learn it in middle school. it's also just less necessary when you can just escalate physically.

I would say that teasing is a bit easier than flirting, also just using a lot of sarcasm. I'd also say that it requires taking risks, saying things that are a bit unhinged.

I'm ADHD and not OCD and I'm a flirt-god. my brother OTOH is more OCD/ASD and he's more introverted and not a good flirt at all.

you gotta be ok coloring outside the lines.

also, it's like dancing where you need to have a willing dance partner. if you're mostly doing cold approaches you're gunna find that most women are not gunna flirt with you cuz they aren't interested. flirting is a way to show interest in a low stakes way

-MrPrecedent · 2026-06-29T16:43:22+00:00

I don't know how to flirt either, but it always comes naturally with girls i'm already very familiar with, because I'm not shy of saying outlandish/ rude/ playful/ offensive things.

I'd say relax a little, get that nervous system humming along rather than primed, then just try take the piss out of them subtly.

messias94 · 2026-06-29T18:10:19+00:00

Hast du nur lays gehabt oder auch mal eine feste beziehung gehabt?

autodidacticasaurus · 2026-06-29T15:57:23+00:00

Wow man, that's amazing. Props on so much volume. You've got balls. Have you watched RSD Foundations and RSD Blueprint? They might help a little.

I think you're the rare case of doing too much and not studying enough. I know you said you studied, but I think you should study a different way. You should be watching a shitton of infield, romcoms, romantic dramas, reading romance novels and all kinds of shit like that. Drop the theoretical content. You need to see other people doing it more than you are, both real and fictional. It helped me a lot.

Lopsided_Task1213 · 2026-06-29T14:53:33+00:00

Sounds like they maybe just aren’t attracted enough. How often do you do muscle training?

Title	Need some help with flirting and talking
Author	Even-Promise-7266
Upvotes	16
Comments	37
Date	June 29, 2026 2:44 PM UTC (1 month ago)
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