I’ve been reading this sub for a while and thought I’d share a date I went on last Friday. I’ll break down the actual gaming at the end.

I matched with a girl on CmB three weeks ago and we hit it off immediately. I had to leave the next day as I was traveling internationally for two weeks but I told her I’d message her when I got back. I get back, message her, she responds almost immediately, and we set up a coffee date for Friday afternoon.

I get to the coffee place and she is much prettier in person- kind of unassuming at first but with each change in perspective there was something new to appreciate. We talk for about an hour and I tell her about my trip and my time in music school, sharing funny and crazy stories and making her laugh a lot. After an hour I suggest we head to the nearby museum and she agrees.

We get to the museum and I start asking her what she thinks of different paintings, often disagreeing with her and making up funny backstories. She’s loving it. She starts blushing a lot, shooting me flirty looks, and cuddling up to me more and more. There were a lot of families around so I didn’t go hard with the kino but I would guide her around with my hand on the small of her back and wrap an arm around her shoulder while pointing to something on a painting. After an hour were a little tired and I suggest we head out.

I had run out of things to do- I didn’t think the date would go this well- so I asked her what she wanted to do. She said she didn’t know. Being coy I asked her “If you were the director of this date movie what would the next scene be?”

She blushed and asked “I don’t know, what would you do?”

I said “I’d go for a kiss right now.”

She suggested we take a walk down a street with some beautiful houses and she showed me her favorite. We walked back to her car arm in arm and when we got in she pulled me in for a passionate kiss. She told me she had some homework she needed to finish before midnight and I suggested she come over and finish it while my cat keeps her company. She agreed.

We’re on my couch and we’re cuddling and making out. She keeps saying she needs to finish her homework so I leave her to it while I do some dishes. I come back in ten minutes and she’s finished and staring at me with hungry eyes. We make out, taking each other’s shirts off and I’m sucking on her breasts trying to take her bra off. Three times I try, three times she rebuffs me, first asking if this is a one time thing (no, I want to see you again), then asking if I’m seeing any other girls (yes, one, but she lives out of town) and finally saying she wants to save something for next time. I give up even though she’s horny as hell so I whisper some nasty things in her ear before she leaves. I don’t think anyone had ever talked that dirty to her before- she was literally weak in the knees- and she’s been texting me since trying to get together again. We’re getting dinner Tuesday to go.

Game break down: Pre-date: solid dating profile. I’m a good looking guy with good photos and she kept telling me how handsome I was and how she kept looking over my profile while I was away.

Coffee: lots of DHVs talking about music school and my job with the city’s orchestra, lots of attraction spikes talking about my crazy musician friends. She also bought the coffee so she was invested from the start.

Museum: more attraction spikes with funny commentary on the paintings, and a lot of cat and mouse play: we’d stand at a painting, I’d move on to the next one, she’d chase after me. Light kino helped.

Walk: escalating kino, role-playing, got her to open up about her hopes and dreams through talking about what she liked about different houses.

My place: hot and cold treatment with the homework- leaving her to do it was very abrupt. I wish I could have gone further physically. It was three hours coffee shop to couch- not a record but still pretty good. Cat was a great wingman.

If there’s anything I missed or if you would have handled the LMR differently let me know below