[Update]{Text Screenshot} Girl That Flakes On Me Twice Then Invites Me To Party Notices I Ghosted Her.

ConstantlyAltering · 2018-04-21T20:48:03+00:00

Is that the end of the saga? Now seems like a good time to arrange something because you're the prize and she's the chaser.

crackle4days · 2018-04-21T20:59:58+00:00

Spelling her name wrong makes you seem a lot less invested (it's also hilarious). If you run in a lot of the same circles, maybe drop her a message asking if she's going to [blank], only if you have a party coming up where a lot of mutual friends are going. You've shown interest before and she's aired you, so I wouldn't put too much effort into it from your end. Make her work a bit for your attention, you've already seen that she craves it so much that she's willing to tell people.

Gohan98 · 2018-04-21T21:58:42+00:00

I'll probably get down votes... But looking at the screenshot - I think it's looks fine and you're playing games with her while being petty without her knowing.

I dont know I'm not a fan of games or pettiness. #justsayin

FlakeyGhost · 2018-04-23T00:55:19+00:00

Yo dawg. Like I said in our DM's, if you're going to ghost, you ghost. Don't text her.

BUT, hearing that from your friend...it's weird. She probably said more than just that she was upset. Unless he's a close friend, good with girls (and thus has instincts), or she said something, he wouldn't have suggested texting her, but if his radar is good, then texting her was a good look.

Her response was good. If a girl responds cheerily/understanding to a flake and not butthurt, she's super into you (especially since your flake was straight ghost, you didn't even text before).

Wait like 4 or 5 days then invite her over for (insert activity that's totally legal for her age). Shit, cook dinner together if you want to be not a total fuckboy. But use the momentum of her being turned on by the flake. You flipped the tables.

Quit while I'm ahead ya know?

Naw, man. Wrong attitude. Ego is important, but results matter, too. Go for the kill. Get her over. If not, then cut it off.

EDIT: some other comment made me realize you texted her this the night of the party? Guess I missed that. You should have waited til the next day/night like the other commenter says.

xuqmiqoxe · 2018-04-22T01:39:38+00:00

Perfect text in terms of content. Timing, not so great, you should have waited maybe until Sunday to text her because it would have left her thinking "WTF, I invited him and he didn't say anything and didn't come to my party, did I say something wrong?" etc..This gets her to invest into the relationship and anytime you get a girl thinking about you, it's a good sign.

The text itself shows her you are a high value guy who has a busy schedule and doesn't need her to have a life and have fun.

Next Step:

Give her a call, not a text, and ask her what her schedule is looking like for next week. Ideally you would call on Monday and try to set something up for Thursday, but not on Friday or Saturday! Those days are deserved for running game on other girls in the bars and clubs and for you to hang out with your boys. You should only go out with a girl on those days if she asks you why you never ask her out on those days.
Since she is 18, you can't legally take her to a bar or out for drinks unless you are not in the US. So take her out for an activity, maybe bowling, if there is an event around the campus take her to one of those.
Pick an event where you can escalate on her, don't go to a free movie showing or something that forces you to pay attention. The even should be cool and fun, yet open to do what you want. For example it should not be going to a TEDx lecture. You need to be able to escalate.
Start by touching her lightly on the arm and teasing her how she is "bad" or "mean", see how she responds. Ask to see a ring on her finger and ask her where she got it, etc. Then if she is wearing a necklace touch it ask how she got it, etc. Then pretend she has something on her face and pretend you are brushing it away while looking deep into her eyes, see how she feels when you touch her face. If she is ok with every one of these escalation moves, raise the emotion a bit, do a few deep stares into her eyes and then go for the kiss.
Eventually after a good amount of escalation and comfort building say "I really want to take you on an adventure and show you a glimpse of my life, but I don't know if I trust you yet". It will get her to buy in and she will want to really find out what this adventure is. Be careful how you say this because she will likely say something like "What do you mean you don't trust me" or "what makes me not trustworthy", etc. Just ignore her questions, if you can't ignore it and persist, answer with "Idk, I just met you, I don't know if you will strong arm me and rob me, you seem pretty strong"
Say the adventure line by rearranging the words a few more times and then after she is all bought in (you will know), maybe she will say "well it's up to you if you trust me", give her a stare and say "I think I trust you, let's go"
Take her to your place and f-close her.

hunterpua · 2018-04-22T18:56:55+00:00

That isn't ghosting. But let this go man. This'll mess you up if you keep thinking about this. Delete all your posts related to it and go get other girls.

Nosherz · 2018-04-22T02:03:48+00:00

What is wrong with you? Just posting this shows your head is in the wrong place. 1) you care too much 2) hundreds of other women 3) dont try to understand a woman stop taking. Them so serious, think of your player friends .. do they sit around wkndering what a girl is texting them about? 4) shes obviously doesnt care about you, if a girl doesnt suggest a time to hangout then shes not interested im sorry but the “family emergency” objection is 99% of the time bullshit. Thibk of this shit as a sales job, go out collect “leads” by cold approaching , contact them, work the leads , you should have always at least 5 women “ in you pipeline” that you're texting at a time to hangout. Plan “dates” all in the same day if you make plans with 5 women to hangout the same night 3/5 of them will flake . 2 will be down. Curve the better looking one or the least dtf . Then bang that one . The one you curve will want you more so its a win -win. Its more powerful if you curve the more attractive one. Think of this shit like youre a Stockbroker. Its a numbers game and if you “sell” 1/10 youre doing good!! Dont listen to these virgins

seekinguradvice · 2018-05-13T16:55:13+00:00

How do you take screenshots of an entire iMessage conversation like that? Or do you just take individual screenshots and stitch them together?

Title	[Update]{Text Screenshot} Girl That Flakes On Me Twice Then Invites Me To Party Notices I Ghosted Her.
Author	FlakeyGhost
Upvotes	41
Comments	58
Date	April 21, 2018 7:46 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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