The "I have a boyfriend" lie...

sp750 · 2019-05-28T21:47:38+00:00

It means she doesn’t find you attractive or she actually has a boyfriend. You could either bust out in tears and walk away looking at your feet, or you could say something like “me too thanks” and walk away with some dignity.

Be unfazed.

NextSpinach · 2019-05-28T21:49:57+00:00

Some women do just have boyfriends despite finding you attractive. Men always take it the wrong way. She had a boyfriend despite ever knowing you.

Chrisanova_NY · 2019-05-28T23:21:54+00:00

Could mean 20 different things.

Who cares.

What you should focus on, is : "How can I make myself so awesome, that statement doesn't show up"......

This is all pre-emptive.

Become your "best you". Who gives a shit what the world's doing in the meantime.

TaeKwonPiccolo · 2019-05-29T00:16:57+00:00

Even worse, having a 10-minute conversation with me only to let me know they have a boyfriend when I go for the number.

Half the amount of time talking before you ask for the number, and double the number of girls you hit on. That should give you more leads.

getyourlifeplease · 2019-05-29T00:42:37+00:00

(F) here...and when a girl tells you she has a boyfriend - that is meant to END the convo, and let you know she isnt interested. To keep pushing, like someone else said, is ignorant...and the quickest way to get a negative response (because it is annoying).

DajuanKev · 2019-05-28T21:41:55+00:00

The "I have a boyfriend" is tricky. I would leave it, to.

It could be so many different signs.

Kenic_In_MD · 2019-05-28T20:57:31+00:00

Nah, the "i have a bf" is just a shit test. Make a joke out of it, get their number anyway and text them later or instadate now. Either or, it's funny how "my bf" doesn't even phase me anymore lol

TaeKwonPiccolo · 2019-05-28T22:10:22+00:00

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Title	The "I have a boyfriend" lie...
Author	TaeKwonPiccolo
Upvotes	1
Comments	23
Date	May 28, 2019 8:53 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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