I was rejected after 30 second

WhyNotHugo · 2019-10-16T09:49:44+00:00

Don't beat yourself up about it man. Honestly, this just reflects poorly on her.

Anyone can get rejected (I'm sure everyone in this sub has had that). But a person just being impolite when rejecting someone just speaks bad of them, not of their date.

The only thing you can learn from this experience is how NOT to reject people. Otherwise, move on.

WeakEmu8 · 2019-10-16T10:20:08+00:00

She did you a favor

mayer97 · 2019-10-16T11:28:05+00:00

She said "tu me plais pas" didn't she.

getyourlifeplease · 2019-10-16T09:04:03+00:00

So wait...don't you have pics of yourself posted ON Tinder? She wouldve seen you before actually meeting in person. That just doesnt make sense.

HighValueDayGame · 2019-10-16T13:03:16+00:00

A friend of mine had the exact same thing happen to him in London. That kind of behaviour is as rude as it gets, entitlement at its finest.

Two things:

Think about if you look significantly different (better) in your pictures, because even if bitches like her are somewhat rare, other girls may still be caught by surprise when they meet you in person
A much better option: get off Tinder. Back in 2017 I tried for the first time, wrote it off within a month, and never looked back. That part of my story is here. If you decide to stay, this may be useful

goonerguy101 · 2019-10-16T18:57:23+00:00

What a bitch your most likely not the first person she has done that too. Don’t let it get you down bro.

The0rangeKind · 2019-10-16T23:39:53+00:00

would you have preferred sitting there for 2 hours, having her fake laugh and look bored while you paid for her meal and went through the motions only to lie to your face that it was fun and to keep in touch and then never respond to you again?

she made it easy for you so now just focus on others now

mojo_mast · 2019-10-17T00:08:58+00:00

go to gym, copy fashion from guys who get lots of girls and have your body type, get a better haircut, better body language etc. If the girl says that to you then maybe you need to go hardcore gamy moves of pushing her away and spiking attraction just to get her to stay and then work from there because at least she didn't leave. those are all variables you can work on, but also you can't give a fuck whether she likes you a lot, only care you did your best to succeed

SannieNator · 2019-10-16T08:51:30+00:00

Don't worry, this was just a basic bitch who probably thinks she is 'the shit', she didn't see you for what you are worth.

And you know what, don't even feel insecure because of her, you are worth a lot and you should find someone who sees this. You know what you have to offer and you deserve way more then a girl who acts this way.

Title	I was rejected after 30 second
Author	thefrenchbaguette007
Upvotes	6
Comments	15
Date	October 16, 2019 8:41 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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