Which dating coaches are legit?

norwegiandoggo · 2020-09-30T20:19:47+00:00

I don't recommend you spend any money on Bootcamps. Here's why. A bootcamp is an event. As a human being you love events. It's exciting right? Learn a lot in a short time and jumpstart your road to success? Wrong .

An event is not process. When you see Lebron James winning a game it's a flashy event. But you don't see the thousands of hours of training alone he has done. You don't see the process.

You can NOT master something as complicated as this in a 7 day period. It took me probably 2-3 years to master this.

Process rules everything. You can find all the information you need online or just by practicing in real life yourself. You have to go through the process. A bootcamp isn't a shortcut. You don't jump ahead in skills. You learn just as much on a bootcamp (maybe less) than you would have done on your own spending equal time on process.

Save your money. Do the work. Don't be lazy and have someone else connect the dots for you. Find and connect the dots on your own and the knowledge will stick for life. A bootcamp is forgotten in two weeks time.

Training and self research is better than a bootcamp. Because you can focus in on your own challenges and address those. Whereas in a bootcamp they will likely give a lot of advice which may not apply to you at all, wasting your time. And they will likely even give you a lot of overly generalized and bad advice too, which is likely to actually hurt your progress.

Xuszmi · 2020-09-30T20:32:21+00:00

IMHO coaches are not worth it; there's tons of free good material online that will likely get you to your objectives if applied properly.

DroptopFab916 · 2020-09-30T20:52:18+00:00

Mr locario

PontusOfMars · 2020-09-30T21:33:46+00:00

None, tbh. You'd be better off audio recording your sets, and posting them up here for review for free. I went from zero lays to being able to pull in the same night just from reading FRs and guides posted on here and watching vids and trying stuff out.

The concept of a bootcamp would be fine, were it not for that the extremely high prices these coaches demand.

$3000 for a guy to tell you to approach women for a few hours in one weekend? No way in hell do you manage to get any worthwhile information of such a short amount of time. You may get a nugget or two of things to learn, and even then, most of that stuff is available online already. Hell you might as well find a "natural" friend and shadow him for a few nights.

You'd be better off taking the $3000 and investing a solid year of lifting, inprov, comedy, Toastmasters, introductions to interesting hobbies, fashion and hygiene. All round improvements.

It's a marathon not a sprint, anyone who says they can make you into a mack in a weekend is a liar and a thief. Shit if we're being honest, most of these coaches on YouTube and here usually are.

Visualize_ · 2020-10-01T07:12:20+00:00

The issue with bootcamps is that its a short term solution that might not last. Its like getting a personal trainer to get ripped, but you only have the trainer for 1 weekend. Shit takes time to develop the right habits and truly fix your issues/elevate your game. Rome wasn't built in a weekend

russhour777 · 2020-10-01T15:18:32+00:00

Coach corey wayne

misser_eric · 2020-09-30T20:45:04+00:00

I’ve been following Patrick James from #rawdatingadvice for some time. I highly recommend him!

JimBeamAndCoke2016 · 2020-10-01T09:56:21+00:00

Johnny Berba is good. Deals a lot with the social anxiety side of things.

tibles20 · 2020-10-01T13:49:56+00:00

You don't need a dating coach you just need belief in yourself

HentaiMD · 2020-09-30T19:17:49+00:00

I took a three day bootcamp with mike squattincassanova (pickup alpha on youtube). He’s really good for normal guys who have approach anxiety and need help with advancing the interactions. You will absolutely learn a lot and see what’s possible.

I do wish he offered his 30 day immersion program earlier, since when I got back home I didn’t practice upon returning for two weeks. My approach anxiety came crept back unfortunately.

Title	Which dating coaches are legit?
Author	Abstract_Personality
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Date	September 30, 2020 6:36 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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