Quality vs Quantity?

hunterpua · 2020-11-13T20:25:46+00:00

You can talk to whoever the hell you want but only kiss who you really wanna kiss, only have sex with who you really wanna have sex with, only get into a relationship with who you really want a relationship with.

I make this distinction because you don't have to do all those other things to every woman you ever talk to and it would benefit you to talk to a wide variety of women and people in general because you never know who could introduce you to or help you with girls who you do want to kiss, have sex with, and get into relationships with.

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blisSTS9 · 2020-11-13T23:24:24+00:00

I’m in the same boat, I’ve always had high standards and don’t find any pleasure in talking or pursuing women who are below my standards. I want to pursue high quality women, and my goal is to keep making myself a high value man. Show them I am enough by approaching with confidence and treating them like a normal person, don’t put them on a pedestal. Things will work out, just keep doing your best every day and good things will happen.

theselfreliantman · 2020-11-14T03:19:12+00:00

I'd say quality is the obvious choice... IF you are indeed approaching them.

I have been out with a lot of guys (and am guilty of this myself occasionally) that 'quality' as an excuse not to approach what could be a great girl.

Not saying that's you, but its something to be aware of.

Volume is not only great for practice, its a great way to keep yourself from too much decision fatigue of 'should i meet her should i not'. But i get the 'not having the hunger' in the same way a horny 20 year old would.

Last thought. Some of the best sex and most incredible girls i've met did NOT trigger the 'i have to have her' response in me initially :)

Schhwing · 2020-11-13T19:59:58+00:00

It would only make sense to go for women that spark your attraction. Otherwise there’s no joy in it, or pain for that matter.

CryptographerSea3499 · 2020-11-14T05:57:48+00:00

BOTH

pua_max · 2020-11-14T07:33:15+00:00

Agree w theselfreliantman. Favorite girls often were kind of meh at first sight. Just attractive enough for me to approach, but not like oh shit she bad.

ArcaneAces · 2020-11-14T11:03:31+00:00

Most people in their 30s eventually reach that conclusion

MatadorPUAJr · 2020-11-14T11:25:52+00:00

This is a dumb question, isn't it? You know that going for "anything you can get" shows how little you value yourself.

But in your case, it seems like you're taking option B to an extreme and using it as an excuse to not approach. Probably because of an inner issue that you'll need to work on over time

Best of luck

88042360lflf · 2020-11-14T14:47:28+00:00

Or option C, go where woman is the majority. Im from Brazil living im US. I know brazilian women does not have the annoying “hard to get” bs the american women does. They will do whatever they want. So, usually when I travel to Brazil with some friends (gringos) they always find a girl. Usually they always pritty and hot.

Now, if you dont have problems to be patient of someone with broken english, or if you are willing to learn another language. Im pretty sure you would fimd lot of the great women in the world, not just by appearances, but also personality.

Alex-Zaander · 2020-11-14T16:13:03+00:00

Cast your net wide and abound. This will guarantee you have variety which is the spice of life. Today you may get a 10, tomorrow a 7 and even a 6 with very good vibes. Some of these 10s are not all that. Yet there's a 5 with very good to hang around and makes you happy as well 👊🏽.

Impossible_Bird9862 · 2020-11-14T06:07:17+00:00

It all depends on if you’re good looking &/or rich, or ugly &/or broke. If you’re the latter, than u might as well go for the quantity, because you’re gonna land most likely 0, but possibly 1, out of 50 of the hot chicks & that’s not worth it. If you can hold a decent conversation, then you would easily land 15, possibly 20, out of 50 with the average chicks or even 25 out of 50 if you stick to the big girls.

letskeepitsimpleokay · 2020-11-14T11:04:34+00:00

Depends if you want to have a good and memorable sex or if you want to have lots of sex.

The only problem with quality is how you approach it. Sometimes some approach usually lead you to monogamy. Beware.

0Onic · 2020-11-14T14:07:27+00:00

usedtimecapsule · 2020-11-14T17:27:43+00:00

Option b is where I’ll always be. To me, going for what I don’t want is meaningless.

kalz44 · 2020-11-14T20:55:38+00:00

Depends on what I'm looking for. If I want something long-term I go option B. Something more casual option A.

Title	Quality vs Quantity?
Author	MatadorPUAJr
Upvotes	13
Comments	25
Date	November 13, 2020 7:47 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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