On Validation

RedPosterboard · 2011-09-04T09:54:17+00:00

Favorite quotation in this one:

"...basing your life and behavior around the validation of having sex with women… well, that will lead you to a dark and lonely place."

KDallas_Multipass · 2011-09-04T15:00:19+00:00

And guys, we ALL have a passion for women. It’s hardwired into us. It’s a matter of opening yourself up to it.

I have the biggest problem with this. I think I'm still afraid of something.

I've developed a passion for good sex, like enjoying a good meal.

Hmm. Maybe I have an aversion to people.

Edit: Actually, I have no idea what to do with this article.

MyHeartIsReal · 2011-09-04T16:50:04+00:00

This is just what I needed. Thanks.

elyk_ · 2011-09-04T23:35:33+00:00

This site is pretty dope. Thanks a ton for the link.

eric22vhs · 2011-09-05T01:42:37+00:00

I like a lot of the little points made in this article, but it didn't really seem to have a strong theme (/thesis). Seeking, or depending on validation too much is a bad thing, but it's not the end of the world to want it sometimes; was that the point of the article? If so, it seems a little common sense to me. I don't disagree with anything in this, I just feel like it didn't have much of a purpose.

spackopotamus · 2011-09-05T05:12:18+00:00

I've been thinking about this lately... Self-validation is kind of like masturbation. It feels good, and you don't need anyone else to do it for you, but it sure as hell feels good when that happens.

Title	On Validation
Author	RedPosterboard
Upvotes	7
Comments	6
Date	September 4, 2011 9:53 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/k49mb/on_validation/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/on-validation.1322069 https://theredarchive.com/post/1322069

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