Hi Seddit. Great resources here, the sidebar has already helped a lot.

I was out with a friend tonight, talking to girls. He pointed out that I blink a lot when talking. Problem is, it wasn't just with girls. It's not a nervousness thing, I've even noticed this before while recording myself.

But it definitely conveys nervousness or weirdness, which is bad. I've noticed my eyes feel a little dry when I consciously try to blink less.

It's not so good approaching girls if their first impression is that I'm blinking rapid fire at them. Anyone else dealt with this?