I dunno what's going on lately and I feel like I've lost game? I've gotten like 5-10 girls' instagrams from clubs, bars or tinder and each one has gone absolutely nowhere. They seem interested and then it just fades off. And I get it, fizzling out is usual, but not with every one.

Met a girl right around bar-closing time. I knew she was keen to me. talked with her for a little, held eye contact the whole time. She was throwing so many "I like you" signals. My friends ended up leaving so I left her and went with them. She gave me her instagram, and I've been like one degree away from a cold shoulder since. It's so weird.

Two other girls have said like a number of times they'd like to see me but then they never act interested at all when I ask them. If I don't text them then we're not talking. I'll invite them, they have something going on, then make no effort to actually try to see me

I've made it a habit to invite girls one way, like "i'll be at this cafe all day. Come by for a drink if you're free". Usually this is after we have some rapport, so it's not out of the blue. Still, ends absolutely no where. I thought this was a good way to ask someone out since it takes the pressure off them, and it's like I'm doing this with or without you

On tinder I'd sometimes just ask girls out flat out and never get a response. Actually, I'd say like 90% of my messages don't get a response there. This honestly doesn't feel like the usual. I dunno what I'm doing. Shit I can even post screenshots of messages for you to roast my game. Maybe it would help? lmk

I feel like I'm a real charismatic dude, like when I go out, we all have a good time. I don't get why i've been pounding sand so hard every time