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My father would disown me if I made such a dumb decision, much less encourage it.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:06 AM
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It feels like he made a series of choices to lead her here too, who the fuck encourages their partners to become a sex object on social media?
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:08 AM
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Thanks gramps, have fun being a predator of high school kids.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 05:29 PM
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I guess wisdom does not come with age.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:55 PM
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You're really asking why it's creepy for a senior pushing 60 to have sexual relations with a teenage girl in high school?
/r/askTRP18/06/21 01:44 PM
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I wouldn't take life advice from a guy online with the name Dirty-anal-weebo
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:38 AM
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A 55 year old fucking an 18 year old is fucking weird bro.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:36 AM
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For those who have been divorced, could he terminate his current employment, and use the delta between their salaries to mitigate divorce rape?
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:32 AM
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Much of the advice reflects inexperience, another endorsed contributor linked an article suggesting he cheat, because women passively cheat with male validation.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:29 AM
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There's a difference between an emotional affair and communicating with male friends though. It's a fine line but there are several boundaries that have to be crossed. Using the suggestion that women have orbiters, to permit you to sleep with other women in an explicitly monogamous relationship is some pretty impressive mental gymnastics. Most guys here have female orbiters, but there is a big step to having women DM you complements on social media, and having sex with her. You do you, but bette…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:26 AM
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One day you're slapping their ass in the shower and the next day they're a stranger. I hard next, but for me it's difficult. Sometimes doing nothing can be difficult to rewire in one's brain, like stopping masturbation for example.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 01:42 AM
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Travel and wanderlust is a powerful motivator. The reality is an air hostess is a sky waitress with shit pay and benefits.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 01:42 AM
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FIRE and FATFIRE subreddits are great. Perhaps better than TRP.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 12:27 PM
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Not exactly stalking but I've been able to slide into DM's and close with reasonably solid odds surprisingly. People always shit on social media here but I find with limited posting, with highlights of my life and it projects a good first impression of a high-status man. It also a great asset to re-open cold leads when they comment on your content.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 12:26 PM
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Liberal women make great plates though, but fuck dating them seriously. I promoted one liberal plate to an LTR. She was like retarded when it came to basic boundaries - she was constantly testing clearly defined roles, the second time I bounced after like 12 weeks. But damn did she give good head.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:00 AM
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Really? I found the fitter I was, the more people tried to provoke me with shit tests.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 01:40 AM
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Even picking up a friend's sloppy second plates is disrespectful. It's likely also these ex GF's are using sex with a 'friend' to simply provoke a reaction from OP.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 10:04 AM
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It's in her biology to want the best male and have someone to provide provisions. It's not much to expect a person in a monogamous relationship stay within those rules unless otherwise agreed upon.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 01:56 AM
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Can you trust these guys as buddies though? Most men I know who cheat of their happily married wives I've filtered out as they treat their friends in a similar way.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 01:51 AM
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How is he thinking it's moralising for stating don't emotionally abuse your partner? We live in a society declining in values because integrity is declining.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 01:47 AM
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Warning shots to suggest a man should live by his word and have integrity? Anyone here who's being cheated on knows it's an absolute dog thing to do to another person you're in a committed monogamous relationship with.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 01:44 AM
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Cheaters are absolute scum. It's important to be a man of your word.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 11:00 PM
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Usually in these cases since they come around (around 75% of the time), but I burned this bridge after she read my post on relationship advice subreddit that made the front page (14k votes I recall). Evidently she was a Redditor as she sent me a salty message saying she had hoped we could reconnect but now never given how I described her on Reddit haha. My post actually was pretty charitable and I spoke pretty highly of her.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 12:06 AM
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I had an fwb ask the same thing, same red flag. I was friends of friends with her before a breakup and she asked me back to her place randomly on a weeknight drinking with mutual friends. I was way too soon out of a relationship and she had a lot of guy friends (like she had one close female friend the rest were men as she was an engineer and like martial arts). Like an idiot, I still said yes as I genuinely did enjoy her company, and she was great in bed; one of the best I've had. Long story sh…
/r/askTRP09/05/21 10:07 PM
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Personally, I think it's a bubble. But history shows only growth so past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior so it invalidates my gut feeling here. I'd suggest stay away from alt currencies as they're far too volatile, I found it super stressful to make or lose 10's of thousands of dollars on my principle sometimes a day and moved them back to more stable currencies.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 03:05 AM
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Aren't kids a better legacy than a harem of women and money?
/r/askTRP06/05/21 11:23 PM
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So you're sleeping and dating a woman for 7 months, and because you haven't verbalized it, you're not exclusive? I could understand <10 weeks but really? In Europe, you're assumed to be exclusive after a month, and similar in other continents I've lived except for liberal parts of America.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 11:17 PM
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Even so, why is it a revelation you’re on online dating? There’s an assumption the person you’re dating for months is monogamous unless otherwise stated. Overall in the future you’re better off expressing that in advance, it’s a dick move not to communicate that. You say you’re friends with benefits but friends usually don’t fuck over one another or lie by omission.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:39 PM
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If you take her on dates, she's generally not a plate. I'm going to wager there may not even be other women in this equation. But definitions aside, dating a person over several months with sex, tend to register as a significant other in most well-adjusted people's minds. So unless you've explicitly expressed, this is a casual relationship, you've kind of fucking her over here as the social contract would suggest you're her boyfriend.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:12 PM
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Met her mom and dad, and take her on dates? Those actions seem incongruent with a plate. No wonder she feels used.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:18 PM
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I agree, but being left at the altar is likely going to fuck him up a little.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 07:10 AM
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She's not girlfriend material. Why would you LTR this woman? This is the person you spend the most time with, and you confess she's not honest, is not loyal, nor has high value. I'd dump and reflect on why you made this choice. I'd rather be single than have to worry about my mental and sexual health.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:52 PM
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He's friends with benefits, the friend part of that arrangement would suggest empathy. I wouldn't advise any relationship naturally given his assessment of her quality as a partner, but depending on how long they're been intimate, it would be remiss to exit at this point because she has health struggles. If I were in her position, sure I wouldn't expect anything, but I'd appreciate kindness.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 01:43 PM
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The biggest thing red pill me was not how to get 8 or 9's, but it was how to dump them when they revealed red flags. Brother, coming from a guy who's been cheated on before, this is why we must stress to vet.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 01:14 PM
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Were there any red flags she was trash?
/r/askTRP10/03/21 10:59 AM
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What are the metrics of your business? When I started out I also farmed out work to interns / lower staff and that helped with balance and allowing me to invest time in what mattered. If you can't afford interns, Handshake is a good place to pick up talent for free.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 03:28 AM
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I'm overseas in Africa for business, and honestly even with a condom, I'm rather reticent. I don't know if it's my 30's, but the idea of casual sex with strangers seems unappealing. I know too many successful men my age locked into supporting a bastard after trusting a capricious 20 something who insisted she was on birth control.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 02:44 AM
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Good times create weak men. It's all part of a process, rather than a conspiracy.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 11:01 PM
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Engineering and MBA. If I went back I'd have done just finance or something more general.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 06:11 AM
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Development and investment. I wear a few hats, my day job is running a non-profit, but I have family office investment commitments on the side.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 05:56 AM
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The wealthier parts and the North tend to be open-minded, but conservative. Friesland in particular is somewhat provincial, but the women are conservative, note that it comes with religion and instead of putting out in first two to three dates, these women either don't until marriage or wait many months.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 11:25 PM
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Under 6', around 5'10.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 11:00 PM
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I'd say I'm top 10% for career, but not for lifting and fitness, but success with women has improved considerably. For me, the ratio of conversion improved, but the women that became easier were just easy women. For me, however, relationships, and sometimes even the time invested to spin plates become tiresome.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 11:45 PM
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I'd rather hard next than keep investing my time with someone who doesn't respect me.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 11:00 PM
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I'd rather be single than date a single mother. Invest in yourself, your faith, and build your value where you wouldn't stoop to leftovers.
/r/RPChristians31/01/21 01:00 AM
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Why bother reading TRP and date a single mother?
/r/RPChristians31/01/21 12:58 AM
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Is keeping a literal whore as a plate even safe? You can get a ton of STDs like Herpes even if you wrap it.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 10:04 AM
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Can you unpack this? You mean his vocation is to have faithful children or rather his vocation broadly career wise?
/r/RPChristians16/12/20 06:39 AM
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You simply do nothing. Exit her orbit.
/r/RPChristians15/12/20 10:31 AM
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I have strong faith. Lusts after a Muslim. Pick one.
/r/RPChristians15/12/20 10:14 AM
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Yeah, I think being too open-minded has encouraged the normalization of these delusions. With other forms of dysphoria, we don't agree with the delusion to help the patient.
/r/AntiFeminists03/12/20 04:51 PM
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She's going to date 100 guys actively, and most likely is going to sleep with a fair few despite her statements. Be careful, even with protection you're at risk.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:27 AM
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She's anti all vaccines.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 01:16 PM
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Because her father has been her leader for like 2 decades, I've known her for like a year.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 12:10 PM
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Men pursue women, if you think one thinks all women are toxic, it's most likely a reflection of the women they chase.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/20 12:35 AM
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Pick two. Social life, hobbies, work, fitness. Develop good habits, work out, regular sleep patterns, and a focused study approach.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 01:19 AM
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I had a plate ask for exclusivity and then pull this. It felt good to pull the trigger actually as it confirmed my reticence in the promotion.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 10:31 AM
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Studies generally relate specific characteristics, from infidelity, rates of divorces. For those in monogamous exclusive relationships, knowing one's partner is statistically more or less likely to by unfaithfaith at <5% or +50% due to their sexual history seems to be important.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 12:58 AM
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Links to research about personality trait relationships with promiscuity: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886907001584 http://www.ingentaconnect.com/content/sbp/sbp/2003/00000031/00000004/art00005 https://books.google.com/books/about/Female_Sexual_Behavior.html?id=MBsfOAAACAAJ http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/09540129408258653 http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0146167295213008 http://psycnet.apa.org/record/1997-95006-038 http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1…
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 12:54 AM
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TRP suggests studies reveal pair bonding is reduced particularly for women with many partners.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 12:14 AM
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PUA came before TRP, it's not a subcategory of TRP. PUA is widely rejected by Redpill. Go post in AskTRP and you will see you're incorrect in this regard. PUA is about distorting reality to fake it to you make it, TRP is quite the opposite, it's about changing you not the perception of you.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 01:27 AM
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If the broad majority of a community rejects a position, but a few individuals for financial benefit claim affiliation, which is correct? Claiming something doesn't make it so. You're conflating PUA and TRP. TRP has toxic elements, absolutely, but fat acceptance is not one of them.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/20 10:55 AM
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Yes, or agree and amplify, we are engaged to wed. But honestly, it's easier to be honest, lay the cards on the table here, she'd probably find OP ironically more desirable.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 10:40 AM
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You're confusing PUA and TRP. Post on asktrp, "is lifting required?, can't I just be alpha?" and you will get downvoted to oblivion.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/20 10:39 AM
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Redpill definitely can encourage corrosive social views regarding women and gender dynamics, but it was always pretty clear on healthy eating and exercise, and that looking and dressing well is important to internal and external perception.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/20 10:05 AM
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This rule really doesn't work in an LTR unless you're dating someone with no social skills. If I ask a person a direct question, and they redirect, it's rather evident they're hiding something, I'll dig further.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 11:46 PM
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He should change his locks too.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 12:57 AM
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You don't need a mentor to know a partner being violent is not okay. It's a pretty low threshold not to pass.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:34 AM
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Escalation is 10-20-30, not 0-100. That was my point. I'm all for escalating, you'll get to the same destination, just green lights are pretty important - particularly if you have some status or are working to 10 years from now.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 12:52 AM
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Particularly with a post wall woman on the wrong side of 30.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/20 02:42 AM
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Personally I wouldn't have kissed her at that time, instead I prefer to build rapport and escalate slowly. A rejection here could mean 10 years down the track he's me too'd for misreading her signals and being a creep. Some women flirt simply for the attention, for validation. Navigating the line can be difficult, personally, enthusiastic consent is my rule of thumb. I run my own business and interact with most women through professional networks so it's important I don't destroy a reputation th…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/20 02:41 AM
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Ask when they're drunk and you're opening up, women don't really care about n counts, they're with you already.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/20 07:41 AM
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Is she worth it? Why not hit up a lead without the drama of an ex + a woman with a partner who may fuck you up?
/r/askTRP03/08/20 02:32 PM
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His writing style lacking punctuation can irk others but his writing is brilliant. Nature has been devastated by some unspoken calamity "The banished sun circles the earth like a grieving mother with a lamp". The man's wife has taken her own life. It's a story of fatherhood. "If he was not the voice of God, then God never spoke." It's a story of male leadership where all else fails. It's a story of survival, of carrying the fire.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 12:53 AM
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People often ignore being a mother is a rewarding career. Some of the most successful men and women I know are because their parents balanced a corporate career and family life to raise their children with the best support possible. One parent investing their time into the family like being a stay at home mother makes an enormous impact, more so than being middle management for a corporate monolith.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 05:09 AM
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I went from skinny, to ripped, and now back to a fit but not jacked build. With women, not a major difference, I'd say as built it was a little more effortless and more IoI's. The biggest difference was men ironically. When my work out started to be evident in normal clothing, I was treated with significantly more respect. Men would be less likely to be dismissive, but when they did, it would be usually more pronounced and direct. The most profound difference was my confidence, I get as much as …
/r/askTRP26/07/20 10:00 AM
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This works in business also. Silence is gold. People are programmed to find silence awkward, and unfiltered stream of conscious thought usually can be revealing. I learned this at work, and it's been a game-changer, it's slipped into my personal life and I've ended relationships on some of the truths spilled during dating.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 07:24 AM
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The idea of a family with two parents is preferable, but yeah, LTR's require work. A woman in a sharehouse probably shouldn't have made it past vetting, however.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 07:22 AM
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In 30's, I get a lot more now but my interest is ironically lower. I have less time to waste chasing tail and I find I want a more meaningful connection. After a year or so of easy lays, it gets monotonous and the appeal quickly goes. I imagine it's the same for women.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 12:47 PM
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Indeed, humor her and flip the script. It's quite likely she's replaceable. Being a respectable partner is a low threshold and this woman failed that test.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:22 AM
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I agree, but they are absolutely a strong demonstration of the opposite of Weimar culture.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 11:10 PM
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They're not platonic, my point was a strictly platonic friendship with a woman is a rare thing, and typically exists with an imbalance. I've slept with many of my female friends because frankly, that's one of the few reasons they remain in my life. I catch up with them, we have a few drinks, and may or may not sleep with one another that evening. It's not a real friendship built on shared values or mutual interests. For the women I don't sleep with, sure a few I'm some friends with, but not real…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:56 PM
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Easy pussy was always easy. Only the top 10-20% of men have access to abundant sex now, so technically it's less easy. And if you're in the 10-20%, you'd still have access to easy women to a traditional society, or you could have just rented it without skull fucking the culture. Secondly, the neo-liberal system is in a nosedive, look at the total economic and political collapse of the US. The neoliberal system you speak of is in its death rattle, look at the race riots and lawlessness.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 02:48 PM
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Cheap populism is still populism, and it's spreading and eroding neoliberal institutions like the UN, and the EU. You're set for a French reference on Frexit which will have significant implications in deconstructing these institutions. A real counterculture can't exist in a neoliberal capitalist system? What nonsense, it exists because of a neoliberal capitalist system, not without it. Even if one were to agree with your sentiments, there is still no compelling argument to enjoy the decline of …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 02:19 PM
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Men and women can be friends, but it's far more complex than two straight men when one of you has an unmet romantic or sexual attraction for the other, which is rather common in male and female relationships. Additionally, friendships are built off shared values, most male interests have gender preferences, watch rugby over beers, martial arts together, going sailing or climbing, which are mostly male dominate, and accordingly most men have a disproportionately male friend circle. Young attracti…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 08:58 AM
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I've found sleeping with female friends fucks that social circle hard when or if she eventually she wants a relationship and you really don't because she's a plate, not LTR material. Most men and women will believe the narrative that you used her for sex, despite it being a casual arrangement.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 08:50 AM
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It's already swung, Brexit, Trump, etc are indicators that people are unsatisfied with the last 40 years of liberalism and globalism. That said, they haven't delivered substantial change, but the youth counterculture is strongly far right which is interesting to observe.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 08:45 AM
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Incredibly insightful comment, seriously. Tolstoy said, "Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way." and that absolutely applies to relationships also. I'm now at the point where I would like a relationship, and I've certainly become a more attractive partner to women, but that I'm at the point where I realize most women aren't good relationship material, as I was before working on myself, my fitness, my career, etc.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 06:43 AM
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What is your approach to stack the odds to minimize that risk? I will be frank though, it's almost impossible outside of religious circles (actual practicing religions societies) to find a 20 something, attractive women with single digits. I have found that in say Opus Dei or Catholic circles the culture increases, sure women lie and feign adherence, but your odds are slightly less shit.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 04:15 AM
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You're not her first. If you're able to bed her without much difficultly, it's likely a similarly highish value man has done the same. Sure, if she waited for months of dating, perhaps, but even that could be a lie. I dated one woman who put out early on after we both had a few drinks the second time I saw her. She then tried to introduce a 12-week rule she usually had. I passed and said no thanks and she hit me up a few weeks later casually. The irony was, she presented as a good virtuous woman…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 04:08 AM
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A thing to note, past behavior is a good indicator of future behavior, present behavior can often be a lie also.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 04:02 AM
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Personally, this conversation comes up in first few weeks of dating casually I find. I may touch on it after a few drinks - ask it indirectly and act casually, use silence, and let them fill the vacuum. Most women don't lie if they feel you're chill - they'll give you a ballpark number but you'll have to multiply by a safety factor as one-night stands etc usually aren't counted. Don't react negatively if the answer is high. ​ I was with one woman who had a reputation of being very conservative i…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 03:58 AM
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Enjoy the decline? Fuck that. As quickly as one can fuck a culture, one can unfuck it. Look at Veimar Germany to the decade following.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 03:42 AM
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The religion encourages monogamy, but ethnic secular Jews tend to not encourage such in gentiles. Kind of like how in Israel it's one race, but outside of Israel, diversity is strength.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 03:39 AM
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When I got listed on Forbes, a lot of girls that had faded out after a date or two hit me up to 'catch up'.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 01:41 AM
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You can infer, but honestly, I keep things open-minded and chill and ask after a few drinks. Use silence and people fill that void. 90% of it works 100% of the time.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 01:28 AM
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If she's an outstanding partner otherwise, and she has good reason for standing you up like, I live in South Africa and they have load shedding, or my father broke his leg and I took him to an emergency, then sure. If she simply fell asleep or missed it because she was doing something else, that level of disrespect reflects she doesn't value you, your relationship, nor your time. I once slept through a date because I worked all night for a project, I apologized, lined up a reschedule, and took m…
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:11 AM
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Reschedules happen (last-minute emergency or conflicts), but not communicating that is disrespectful. If an employee missed meetings or commitments without explanation, I'd terminate their employment. Even more so for a romantic partner. Dating is auditioning for a life partner (for most). This woman failed that audition.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:05 AM
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Yeah, but you still LTR'd a whore bro.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 04:51 AM
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Our rapport was just totally effortless, our first date rolled into four days of just some of the most memorable adventures I've had, like we had known one another for some time. Her and I just had a lot of fun, a simple night like having dinner together, she'd be full of surprises. She would be like, here's a nice bottle of red I've been saving - something really special, she'd interupt as I'd cook to kiss my neck, whisper in my ear something in her language, then we I would teach her to dance.…
/r/askTRP04/07/20 04:15 PM
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I dated a woman who was a bombshell, 6ft blonde, spoke three languages, worked at a MBB firm, she also casually did cocaine. Great fun, but too many red flags. After I ended it, the months following I had this massive void in my life. ​ She was just an explosive ride, life afterwards felt something was missing. It was like what an Alpha widow must feel like.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 01:06 PM
49

If he's a player, let him learn the rules of the game. He cannot respect his relationship nor that or others, let him learn a lesson here. TRP is morally flexible, but if it were me; I'd tie up the loose end and nuke his life then move on. Most men would do far worse, you're being charitable.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 11:00 AM
6

Once you put a ring or commit, sometimes the work that keeps a relationship alive just stops. That said, a more intelligent woman would have waited until after the wedding or the kid.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:09 PM
4

Why?
/r/askTRP14/06/20 09:49 AM
9

Indeed, immediate dump and reflect on how he missed the red flags on this trainwreck of a woman.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 09:42 AM
1

I was a Founder but increased shareholding after one founder bailed
/r/askTRP14/06/20 12:41 AM
39

Personally, my best high risk/reward investment was a Pre-Series A startup where I was paid a decent salary + equity. I cashed out and now I invested in index stocks, a few blue chips that have good returns, and I've also dropped some coin to exploit the current COVID situation. The average person here thought, graduate at 22, secure a decent role, and max out your 401k and IRA for 10 years with 6% returns. That amount by itself will be worth $3,441,145 after 35 years by the time you're 67. Desp…
/r/askTRP13/06/20 12:11 PM
52

If your relationship was a plant, it would be dead. This ride is over. Pull the trigger before she does. End it politely and go no contact once the logistics are done.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 03:08 PM
2

The best way is to ping the mod theredpike and ask to republish. I'd like to keep posting content here and audience feedback is important to ensure moderation is aligned.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 06:25 AM
2

The mods do not like content that isn't about plates or sexual strategy, I've had a few posts at 600+ votes removed. Honestly I think it's the last post on trp, I'll move on post content for general audiances that I publish under my own name publically.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 02:41 AM
2

Theredpike removed it, he felt is was low quality. You can ping him for deleting my posts.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 12:54 AM
1

I still use toggl to log my work hours, I work around 9 -10 hours a day, I'd say only half is critical thinking work, the rest is emails, meetings, directing staff. I do pray but not often enough, I set time each day but only really once a week. 50 minutes on, 10-minute break is my typical structure for time boxing, I often put meetings in the afternoon and wake early to do my own work without interruption.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 09:43 AM
1

I mean, you could set up a chain of pharmacies and integrate optimization in your service delivery but it's a limited approach. Basically, I wanted to avoid selling hours of my life for a salary as it's not scalable. A lot of the skills I required I learned through the startup, the degree was mostly useless because I was in a specialization I never particularly required once we were +3 headcount. To reorient, it would be wise to reflect on your skill sets, what interests you, and what markets ar…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 09:41 AM
2

At founding, I was responsible for mechanical engineering and some of the firmware. We had hired a CTO and I shifted more to business when we lost the original CEO due to personal reasons a year in. When we split across a US and China office I brought on a Co-CEO with M&A and VC experience because I found capital raising difficult and strategically we had to position towards an exit otherwise grind for years to get to market. Walking in, my knowledge on hardware was specific to mechanical design…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 09:37 AM
4

STEM + soft skills. Join appropriate college societies, during your summer and winter breaks get internships and if you can't start side projects with other students. Something to fill your resume. Create an LLC and hire other students, or another suggestion is to put a JD your college job board and review 100 resumes, you quickly realise what sets one undergrad apart from another.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 01:28 AM
5

Building status, achieving your dreams is the backbone of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 01:24 AM
1

See here for mentors. OKR = Objectives and Key Results. I put speaker on my Linkedin header and secondly contribute to Forbes / write on my own website and share them on my social media like Linkedin. People reach out quite regularly to fill their panels. I only speak if you have good content to deliver, a good conference presentation is an art form and the deck and content must be solid.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 01:23 AM
3

Look at where you want to be in your career 10 years from now. Say you're a Senior PM or Director, studying an EMBA and you want to be a VP or C level when you're 40. Reach out to 10 folks at target FAANG companies who are VP's or even C level. Say you're young, ambitious and would love to grab a coffee if they advise younger talent. Use Linkedin or ask friends around, for me I had a foundation that needs advisors in a new vertical where I had little social capital so that was a good entry point…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 01:19 AM
2

Measurable objectives. For me personally it was three areas. Running, publishing articles, and climbing. So for 2020 Q1 it would be a < 4min 30second / km average speed for 5km, 1 article or conference to speak at per month, and bordering was just to complete several levels 5 walls. Nothing too complicated, but then for Q2, I would incrementally increase this, or change the OKR to go on x dates, or invest/do due diligence one seed investment. Lifting has been one but I keep stopping and have rea…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 01:13 AM
2

Developers are paid quite well - if you don't have kids or a dependant it would be a good decision career-wise. A developer who is not autistic / can engage with people is worth their weight in gold. Interview processes can be extensive especially at FAANG companies, use your network and try to get the best sherpa internally to guide you into the interview process.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 01:04 AM
1

You're just repeating platitudes. This society needs leadership and as an endorsed contributor you should aspire to more than just observing the total collapse/decline of your civilization.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 01:00 AM
1

I've provided this to the mods, I'm not going to Dox myself.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 12:58 AM
1

If you have talent in a specific area of demand, make the jump but make sure you have interviews lined up before or do them remotely.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 12:57 AM
1

What areas would you like elaborated?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 12:52 AM
16

Honestly, I’m studying an MBA to cross over to VC and M&A. The other side is more appealing. After my first exit I reinvested in a few pre A round technology investments with my own capital and enjoyed investing in several moonshot business than grinding in just one. One later hired me an exec role which is where I am now. I realise I was lucky, and many of my startup peers who have their own startups would have been better off grinding at a corporate or even in MBB consulting. The hours are bru…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 03:26 PM
39

In my first post, I was verified with Mods about being listed on Forbes and my businesses. There are others here who can vouch for me IRL that I've connected with. My first business was in hardware + SAAS which I exited, second is in AI-enabled logistic platform, and I also have a few investments mostly within hardware space.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 03:10 PM
5

Look at the 1920's Germany, it was far worse than our society, and ten years later they conquered half of Europe. You're making excuses because you'd rather embrace the destruction of the society you inherited for the pursuit of easy pussy than preserve it.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 03:08 PM
55

I started in a similar position. The first urgent point you need is to get skills, get an education, and an income. I joined the military, it paid for my education and set me up with good skills and a network of friends I can rely on when times were tough. Additionally, I was able to secure a scholarship and work my way to my first corporate job.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 01:39 PM
21

I'd rather die for something than live for nothing.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 12:10 PM
1

Why wouldn't you be conservative?
/r/askTRP06/06/20 12:01 PM
21

Enjoy the decline? Hedonism is the reason for the decline. Blindly following the moral corruption of our society instead of taking leadership is terrible advice.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:58 AM
5

Day to day, I could make a post on this entirely and may recycle this into a post now that it's quite long. Day to day, wake up at 7, do urgent US emails and meetings. Make breakfast / first calls at the same time. Morning team meeting in the local country, assign work. Then I work until noon. Meeting / eat lunch (reheat last night's food). Then get a team update status. Then provide feedback and assign more work. Afternoon work to 7, cook dinner, have calls with European office whilst I eat (so…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 09:58 AM
3

Thanks, this platform has been great to keep me connected to the ground and not distracted.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 06:28 AM
6

Honestly, to be frank, the process of building the company made me horribly depressed, all I would think about was work and had little hobbies or interests outside of it. It was only last year when a close friend died did I cash out a bunch and hire a CEO to replace me and start living. I did spend some money but found it didn't really do anything, what worked was reducing to 50 hours, dating more, spending time with friends, and investing time inside projects/investments. Some of the stuff I di…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 06:25 AM
3

On paper perhaps, most of my net worth is tied to investments however but I have enough to not work by my late 30's. I did liquidate a bunch in the last year to take advantage of the current climate, and drop some into nonprofits I sit on the board of. The last girl I dated came from family money, she thought I was cheap, so it definitely makes dating tough. All people have to do is google you and it absolutely changes for better or worse how you are treated.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 05:49 AM
3

Yeah, I've posted about my work, my first startup exited, I was listed on Forbes 30 Under 30. I've connected with a few guys from here IRL on business trips to new cities where I know no one.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 05:14 AM
1

Any tips for the 30s?
/r/askTRP02/06/20 12:26 AM
6

Running a company is actually pretty exciting. Especially if it's international, wake up, get briefed from the overseas team, action the priorities, delegate. Travel to new places, attend business dinners, meet other interesting folks who help shape the world. Sure, a lot of it is grinding, working weekends, missing dinner with the family to wrap up a call, but if you work on balance, you can enjoy taking Monday to golf because you know you have a team working to cover you.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 12:26 AM
1

I understand the downvotes, but honestly, most women are impressed by it and it usually converts much higher than my other date ideas. I live nearby by the water so logistically it works well too.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:36 PM
-1

What effort is there, I bring a bottle and ask her to bring her favourite cheese. Where I’m living it’s one of the most popular date ideas.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 09:21 AM
-5

Picnics. Bottle of wine, cheese, good view, good company.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 07:09 AM
2

I know this is TRP but I find RP Christian has a healthier balance between creating a rotation of meaningless plates, to what I feel is, creating and investing in long term relationships that grow as your build your status. Marry well, network, work out and work hard and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 12:54 PM
3

At a certain point, the relationship went from, I enjoy her company to, I want a future with children with this person, realizing it was something she never wanted; I had to move on. ​ It's like a job, you can love your job but realize there is an opportunity in NYC that you have to take, that your current role has built you up for. It doesn't mean I didn't love the role, but rather the role had developed me to aspire the next more challenging opportunity.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 07:01 AM
2

Abundance is realizing there are better options and not wanting to fight for something as meaningless as sex.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 02:36 AM
1

Why bother, there are better options.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 02:35 AM
6

As a Catholic a few years down the path, this path leads nowhere. Invest in solid friendships, date a nice woman, and enjoy the relationship and build your career. Personally I found smashing college girls is a vacuous cycle, and frankly, it precluded me from some virtuous equals where it was evident I didn't live the same values. I did the above and found compared to my Catholic peers who married trad Catholic girls from good families, they made a better long term investment than 50 disposable …
/r/askTRP26/05/20 02:13 AM
1

Is it worth having your legs broken? I'd steer clear of the drama and focus on leads without the risk. Women also lie all the time, it's quite likely the husband would care.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 02:05 AM
2

Really? I find relationships with close friends or LTR's tend to improve with time. My longest was only 5 years, and a few years in we had a great rapport; we split because I wanted to travel and have a family eventually and she wanted neither.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 02:04 AM
6

Yeah, but this is why men should date their equals. The reality is plate level women are usually pretty trashy.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:42 PM
1

It's degenerate, a father should be present in his children's lives, and 8 children to one mother are good, 8 children to 8 mothers is dysfunctional. Honestly, how can you not know this?
/r/askTRP21/05/20 01:56 AM
1

8 kids with 8 different women is an absolute train wreck of a personal life.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:26 AM
31

A lot of women know what's up, like going on a coffee date with a man who's interested. For me, I've been in the situation, I just end things and move on. Dating is like recruitment, the talent is broadly different, and past behavior, references, and current employees are solid indicators. I'd like to have children and preferably raised by a mother, so I'm dating women usually from same socio-economic status that have good values, you filter out most of the trash but going through social circles…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/20 12:00 AM
0

Yeah, but Portland or San Francisco is known for that. I'd rather leave then have a kid with an immigrant whose children won't even look like me or identify with my ancestors. Look at Jeb Bushes kids, or Obama, half white but you wouldn't really know it.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 05:39 AM
4

I mean, you have between 20-40 to find her, sure it's impossible but depends where you look. In some places, you can find communities of generally higher quality women like Greenwich for example. I feel like a lot of Red pill men spend time with plate material women and then assume all women are generally shit tier.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 05:19 AM
1

Worked in Beijing for business yes, in some areas like Sanlitun, you could pick up quite easily. Also local expats were less difficult because they typically don't like Asian men (too old at 25yrs + or tall for locals too).
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 03:53 AM
3

Question for white men? Why would you want a woman who's not white? Your offspring usually don't even look like you, no?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 03:51 AM
16

Likewise, the term comes from a film where this woman's husband slowly progressing dims the gas lights, and he dismisses her observation as craziness. In this case, Op's girlfriend is like, you're crazy, why can't you trust me, deliberating manipulating his accurate perspective of her lies. This is a sign of an emotionally abusive person.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 10:02 AM
2

She should be talking to HR or putting this cunt in line. But she's not, she's instilling dread on OP and naturally, it's working. It's best for them to part ways.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:46 AM
1

I wouldn't demote to plate, she's decided to exit his life, he should indulge her.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:42 AM
2

Honestly think of it biologically. Men throughout history typically are the leader, in the military if a Sgt broke down in a stressful moment, all of the grunts would not be able to function unless they had been trained and drilled well. Men and women today are not trained or drilled well, men shouldn't breakdown in front of their subordinates like OP did, it's tough but you have to hold frame. My father got a phone call and was informed his brother died. The man said a few words, nodded to me, …
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:37 AM
37

She already killed his trust in her. I had something similar happen once, I digested it the days following and she noticed my mood changed and asked what was up. She took the breakup badly but dishonesty / gaslighting is a dealbreaker and you have to stand by your values.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:28 AM
93

It's a tough position but she's revealed herself to be untrustworthy, he's saving himself a world of hurt from down the line. What adult even uses TikTok?
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:25 AM
2

Yes 5’11. I would say that women are more submissive to a man who has dominant traits like stature. I’d say however that taller women like men have higher status / confidence so generally less submissive. This is my theory in my observation but seems on point.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 03:28 PM
1

Some, around half roughly, some more so. But I'm around 6", so perhaps taller women are less submissive because I'm not 6'4.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 01:10 PM
11

I’m joking brother.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 10:28 AM
62

He should tell her he loves her and she's his dream girl, that should finish it quickly.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 08:01 AM
1

That's my point.
/r/RPChristians09/05/20 07:45 AM
1

They're good value but I find at least in my experience tend to be slightly more masculine and less submissive sexually. That said most taller women I've dated are like Dutch, German, Scandi, or Afrikaner so culturally it could be that.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 07:04 AM
2

Really, at 16 it's probably a distraction and he may lack the emotional maturity to deal with fickle teenage relationships. Focusing on setting his career and lifting would be a better time investment/return.
/r/RPChristians08/05/20 04:32 AM
1

I mean, I would withdraw attention. One would expect likewise if you sent snaps of other plates.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 10:46 AM
1

Shouldn't we as men want to be part of a social change, a new zeitgeist? In one generation look at other societies, compare the 1920's and 1930's Germany, or the Islamic Brotherhood's influence through MENA. I'm not saying those changes were good, but they do demonstrate a radical shift in culture in a short period through sociopolitical means. There is enough human capital in this community alone to generate social propaganda to unfuck our society. We shouldn't surrender that responsibility we …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 08:49 PM
5

Agreed, religion exists and reinforces typically healthy moral law, this moral law is objective. Men seeking to enjoy the decline are hedonists selling themselves for idle pursuits of pleasure.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 08:42 PM
3

Heaven forbid men want to reproduce and have their children raised with a mother. You can marry into a family of equal or greater wealth.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 10:17 PM
16

Plates know they're plates. This guy gets all the benefits of a relationship while she invests in what she thinks is life long relationship with marriage, kids, etc in the future. When she's lost her best years and hits the wall he will repeat this with a younger model. Pretty cunt move. I'd rather just hit up a thot who already has no self-respect than do this to someone who loves me.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 06:04 AM
65

It's a bit of a cunt move, omitting he has no intent on getting married.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 03:37 AM
4

I'd say you're right, but women generally tend to follow more than lead. That said, 90% of men are similar in this regard.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:22 AM
1

I mean, it's heavy as in, it's a difficult process, I'd divorce in this case if I was non Catholic. I think porn is a cancer of society, I just would hope you're able to work as a team before the divorce. If he's not committed to the partnership, then it may be best to separate.
/r/RPChristians11/04/20 02:47 PM
1

Damn, divorce is a pretty heavy approach. He may need a different therapist. Porn addiction can be difficult to break, maybe some changes and positive reinforcement when he hits milestones. In the end, if he refuses to change, personally I'd consider moving on if you didn't have children but that ship has sailed, work with him on this; take the lead where he can not.
/r/RPChristians11/04/20 12:13 PM
8

He's lucky she only tried to scam him for $200 and not 20 years.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:43 AM
13

I hate cunts like this, waiting on the sidelines for some crumbs.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:19 AM
1

I accept your apology.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 09:44 PM
4

Not yet but my friends in Spain and Italy are. US in some areas will be hit similarly hard.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 12:56 AM
6

I'm trying to abstain from both now.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 12:53 AM
1

Hardware +SaaS. Got my on Forbes 30 Under 30 but growth hasn't been astronomical the last 12 months so I'm going to take a hit here. I have other investments but 80% of net worth is on this.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 10:29 AM
1

Being financially secure for your family, or financially independent is pretty liberating. At least for me, I feel when I stopped just trying to survive, I came into my own.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 08:49 AM
1

Buy blue chips or pharma stock, or if you're feeling more risky, purchase airline stock.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 08:48 AM
0

It's not physical size, most of these guys are shorter than even her, she's around 6". Lifting is always good advice but this isn't a physical confrontation, I am preferring to keep these interactions verbal than physical. My image is important and the security/staff respect me as a regular in many of these establishments.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:20 AM
1

This is seriously bad advice.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:16 AM
1

As I said, she will ask them to excuse us; but she'll often look to me to address them directly given I'm the man when they're not sober or polite.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:14 AM
1

I know how to fight, I practiced Krav Maga and other martial arts when I was a soldier but these incidents don't warrant escalating.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 04:08 AM
1

Cell phone in top pocket on voice record, have a conversation with her but remain silent, let her fill the silence.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 12:08 AM
2

If she starts crying hysterically, you will know.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 12:06 AM
3

Yeah, kind of fucked people are like this. I've known men through business who have done the same thing, and I asked him, why would you fuck your fiance over this hard? He paused and responded, "I don't know". These people have no self control or self reflection, all the decisions, getting drunk, going to a club, flirting, dozens of choices where they could have made better choices.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 12:02 AM
3

Yeah, I have found likewise my tolerance has lowered, I'm getting asked out more often but the quality dates I usually meet through close friends.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/20 11:32 PM
3

Are you located in an area with a low population also? I was a late bloomer but since I crossed my 30's I've really come into my own dating wise, as have a few of my unmarried friends and I figured it was what a lot of men had said that dating gets easier as you get more polished.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/20 09:59 PM
-6

Honest question, how?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/20 01:15 AM
1

I quit my 9-5. Ended up working 996. Some of the worst years of my life. Financially rewarding but burned me out.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 10:42 PM
1

I've done my research, I usually use glassdoor as it has more data but the comp is competitive, it doesn't include stock though, and just has a bonus structure which is odd.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 10:31 PM
1

Base. If you’re going to talk shit, at least be correct.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 09:13 PM
1

It's a company which has a traditional head office, with inflexible thinking. Often projects get shelved for little to no real reason and there is a lot of politics. Additionally, I'm not the nationality of the head office, so I have a ceiling internally. ​ My plan is to do a few years and jump ship to another firm or start my own company.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 04:56 AM
1

I've spoken to two agencies, which are like small 1-3 people operations. So far this role is the best offer on paper. I've used glassdoor to ballpark the compensation + using feedback from previous members I've reached out to on LinkedIn. One suggested aiming higher as it's difficult to have a bump once you're in.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 04:25 AM
1

Over the four years, before taxes, $4.2mm owned by a BVI trust.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:58 AM
1

I'll check it out. The eMBA is part time, I can do both the director role and it. I'm still exploring side projects but they would be within a conflict on my main role. In two years I can jump from Director to a FAANG firm and double my comp, I didn't get to $300k without being ambitious. Skill wise, it's strategy, a little M&A experience, stakeholder engagement and the rest is PM, fin modeling, hardware engineering / design. I'm pretty versatile given startup experience and picked up solid sale…
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:52 AM
1

1 year cliff, four year vesting. Pretty standard schedule stateside.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:47 AM
1

Startups are exhausting - maybe in a few years sure when I have an MBA. The products I'd like to work on would require a heavy seed round and I don't yet have a team of 1-2 founders in the Bay Area who would want to jump ship for 20% of their salary. I'll look through my network as I tread water in a corporation.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:47 AM
2

I don't understand because you're unable to communicate clearly. I've already been verified by the mods for my previous post, all you've done is detract from this conversation.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 10:46 PM
2

The company generated a revenue, depending on the industry multiplier the company will be valued at annual revenue x multiplier. It’s not fraud, it’s business. And no, I’m not going into specifics so I don’t dox myself.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 08:22 PM
4

Mate, I am also. You got where the opportunity is. I consider myself Aussie but technically born elsewhere. I’ve been away for awhile though.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 11:17 AM
10

Join a pre series B start, get a salary, join at growth stage, cut your teeth and you’re awarded equity for a future exit or IPO. Honestly being an entrepreneur is pretty shit, it’s stressful and 99% not worth the investment. I could have worked for McKinsey for the same hours and been awarded a similar compensation in total without the risk.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 10:21 AM
28

TD;DR Worked like a dog and built my own startup which I am selling now. I started my own technology startup, made $0 for the first few years, grew the team, raised investment from venture capital and strategic partners, got listed on Forbes and now I'm going through an exit. Before this, I was earning below six figures but saved and decided to make the jump whilst I was in my 20's. It took a lot of hard work, luck, and good timing, and in hindsight was probably one of the best worst decisions I…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 07:37 AM
1

Angle list is good but in the valley knowing a good recruiter or three really helps to get into the $200k salary + range.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 10:42 PM
1

Ohh, so for domestic why not register a company in the state of Delaware and pay yourself as a contractor within that state. Speak to a lawyer and accountant for advice, as you may go from $170k to +$300k in next ten years. Delaware has more companies than people due to its tax rates being second to none within the US. For a living, I would suggest LA, specifically Santa Monica or Austin Texas. Santa Monica LA has a great atmosphere, is a short flight from the valley but doesn't have the same co…
/r/askTRP27/12/19 10:41 PM
4

Have you explored buying citizenship to a St Kitts or paying yourself through a trust in an offshore account, this will minimize your tax exposure?
/r/askTRP27/12/19 12:55 PM
45

Yes but past behavior is good indicator of future behavior. It's like hiring an employee, I want to look for someone who hasn't changed jobs every 6 months.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 01:12 AM
6

Double cheek kisses is pretty normal. Don’t over think it.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 11:10 AM
2

Yeah, there is no woman beautiful enough to tolerate constant disrespect
/r/askTRP24/12/19 04:48 AM
1

Haha, yeah I can see that. I've met some obnoxious coke users but wasn't sure if it was uniform across most users.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:53 AM
1

Casually seeing a girl who's friend in investment banking uses cocaine. What are those who use cocaine recreationally like?
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:33 AM
1

Catholic circles tend to have very strong youth circles particularly through university societies.
/r/RPChristians15/12/19 12:26 PM
1

He’s already LTR’d. Plating from a position of weakness is unwise and may reinforce she still gets his time investment. I’d say start over clean with a women who respects him and where he doesn’t have to put work into to earn basic respect.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 01:01 AM
2

The guess where I’m from and you win a a prize - line is most of the openers I receive from women. Try it and see.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/19 01:34 AM
2

I have guess where I’m from and you win a prize. Forbes 30 under 30 Around 20% of women guess. Depending on the city, some ask what I did to get on Forbes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/19 09:06 PM
1

So if you have good results on tinder as a guy, that means I'm attractive? I think I'm a reasonably average white guy, not too tall but dress nicely and feel I get a lot of responses and albeit less commonly women messaging first.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/19 05:28 AM
8

The Bay Area is an inverted culture. I’m a HNW and I dress well except when I’m in SF, I’ll go with chinos and a Patagonia vest. But in its own way that is its own status icon.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 12:50 PM
2

Some exes move in similar circles, so I will interact peripherally.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 10:27 PM
1

I have my own money, but it’s non diversified and although I dress and have the right accent I do not come from money. Her family is grounded but there is an evidently different approach to money. Thanks for the advice, I’ll reach out for further insights as it’s not so common for me.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 07:12 AM
0

But for hard next rules like contact with exes, I sometimes casually connect with distant exes. Sometimes I feel it’s best to state it’s not kosher but don’t want to mate guard. What’s worked best for you?
/r/askTRP03/12/19 06:55 AM
3

You set your own boundaries and never tell her what they are. Isn't this unwise? Even with employees, I state boundaries, that way when crossed I can terminate.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 05:47 AM
2

Many of my advisors married into established families and their careers had an infection point due to their father in law / nepotism.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 04:06 AM
1

34 is not wife material. You're 25, why do you want to get married now. Wait until you're 35 and marry a 25 year old.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 01:46 AM
1

34 is not wife material. You're 25, why do you want to get married now. Wait until you're 35 and marry a 25 year old.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 01:45 AM
2

She doesn't own 3 businesses, her father does. Staying in Marina Bay and dining nicely is pretty standard for working professional on a holiday. Sure, if her father has given awarded her a trust, perhaps but it sounds pretty upper middle class. Enjoy your time in Asia too.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 04:30 AM
2

One doesn't need family money to afford the elements you're referring to. Rich is flying private, having pied-à-terre in many major cities or a large family seat with staff etc. Btw, if you're in Singapore, it's worth to stay at least a night at Marine Bay for the infinity pool.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 04:15 AM
5

I’d inform HR to have her removed before probation given the inappropriate history; at least flag it as a possible issue if the relationship ended poorly. If there is lax HR laws you may be able to avoid hiring.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 07:12 AM
3

This. It is seldom wise to promote a plate.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 02:40 AM
6

Congrats on the sex, but don't smuggle drugs into Cuba, you have a long future ahead of you. Stick to legal drugs in countries that have terrible domestic laws relating to illegal substances.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/19 04:04 AM
1

When you go +3 plates. They're a rotation, they ebb and flow. He's busy, so he might hit a plate only a few times a few, when he's in town for business. I wager half of his plate are of this nature. I personally define it as someone I sleep with regularly, and if he sees 10 women regularly, he's over-investing time in tail.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 09:29 AM
2

He's probably not just going off strangers advice. But values some random insight to add to counsel from friends, advisors when it comes to relationships. Usually he will follow his gut, and if we agree; it's validation. I've done the same thing. Nose ring girl, ton a red flags, I ask, "is this a dumpster fire?" others agree. Often just writing out the question gives you the answer.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 09:26 AM
2

Women are children, they do not know what they do. Men, men they fully understand their nature.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 09:23 AM
1

I can share more with the mods with his name, details of his death and evidence, but anymore to random members, it would be unwise.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 06:23 AM
2

An LTR is the first step to having children. Many men want to have their own children. Also your point about not surviving; you’re a cunt.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 09:10 PM
9

I'd just move on, even if she felt he was objectively true; she shouldn't disrespect him by expressing it. What person says this to their partner? A cunt.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 09:15 PM
1

Amen, if it's too good to be true, I knew something was up.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 11:27 PM
9

Jesus the solipsism here. You betrayed her. Next time don’t commit if you can’t stand by your word.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 09:48 PM
3

In my preTRP days I was completely innocent, I had a very long LTR up until that point. I had met this 9 who asked me directly, when are you going to ask me for drinks? We were texting back and forth a lot (pre-TRP, I know) and she asked for my number and I was like, one, I had only one LTR and she was my first (another rule I broke). ​ This complete innocence turned her on oddly. She came over to my office (I was working on Saturday like a good boy) to have a quickie, I later realised with othe…
/r/askTRP24/10/19 09:21 PM
4

I sent them to his mother, she said I cannot include them as advised by her lawyer. I haven't asked my estate planning lawyer for a second opinion but she has copies.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 09:09 PM
7

I've already included the text message that I can legally include, the rest is up to the lawyers and his mother's discretion. I'm just a friend so in the end, it's not my business to get further involved.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 01:03 AM
1

She was ostensibly a nice partner. I’ve been through only one bad breakup but I’ve never seen anything on this level.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 10:49 PM
5

Honestly, when he was live she seemed like a lovely caring woman. Not just in words but actions. I said above, one evening I stayed over when I had too much to drink, she left out a fresh towel and a glass of water and a nice handwritten note for Seb. But this seems so uncharacteristic. A colleague said to me; you don’t know a woman until you divorce her, he was right.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 10:28 PM
11

She messaged me on his slack after he died, read all our messages and suggested I was poisoning his mind. She said he would smash glassware and was abusive. This was only weeks after his funeral where in front of everyone she cried and posted on social media she lost her best friend.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 10:17 PM
1

She's issued two stat dec's to state they were in a relationship. My text messages identify the breakup the days following his passing, she will probably testify they got back together as they had previously broken up and gotten back together quite quickly. Speaking of contracts, he lists her as his spouse on his insurance documentation. He fucked up there and he fucked up by not having a will at 30.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 10:03 PM
6

She seemed like a nice woman too, I stayed over after a big night. She left a fresh towel and glass of water outside our door and a note for my friend saying she left early for work. ​ Then this theatre, what an absolute cunt move.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 10:00 PM
16

He sent me the screenshot which I sent to his mother, it can't be used without her permission but I did submit a statuary declaration with our conversation screen cap where he states, he can't believe she ended it over text.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 09:58 PM
12

The day before he was like, I'll go for a surf, I thought he was doing okay. Then Monday night, this. When I was informed, I thought it was an April fools joke.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 09:57 PM
2

He had filled out her as a spouse on his documentation, which combined with them living together gives her some space to argue. We do not live in America, the Roth 401k was so the audience was familiar with a financial instrument used here.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 09:54 PM
9

I've already issued a statuary declartion, I can't include the screen shot of their text conversation which he sent without her permission but I could include his response to me. She’s already issued two statements so she’s prepared.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 09:52 PM
15

Correct, it's unwise to live together, from an asset protection perspective and from a relationship dynamics perspective. You have to be on your game 100% of the time, it's exhausting.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 04:51 AM
112

She ended the association (relationship) when there was no benefit. Now that he is dead and she can fight for his money, she lies that an association (relationship) exists to derive benefit ($).
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 04:08 AM
27

State law where I live states if you live together, you are defacto partners. Some nations have a time threshold of living together also. It's worth researching where one lives to determine the legal context. After a breakup, one can go through a divorce like division of assets if you're not protected and your ex-girlfriend is motivated enough.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 03:24 AM
1

I've known Alpha men who were cheated on by their wife / girlfriend. ​ Yes, it comes down to his status and frame, but mostly it's her character and ability to have integrity.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 12:37 AM
9

I'd take my kid and sail to south America before my exwife does this shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 12:33 AM
1

I thought every man thought this way, I want my children to have the best outcome. Being short stature can be a massive set back for one.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 12:17 AM
11

This is LTR. Most women fail to pass LTR threshold.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 06:30 AM
20

My “unicorn” cheated. No discernible red flags. She confessed that she cheated in a drunken one night stand a few weeks after asking for she asked for exclusivity - much later after the fact. It was an early exclusivity (<6 month vetting), I was going away for a business trip. She seldom drank (couldn’t handle it when she did), no social media, solid wholesome family, (apparently) low n count, no tattoos, was a genuinely sweet woman - wife material I thought. I have plated thots, I’ve dated in t…
/r/askTRP19/10/19 08:26 AM
7

I had the same thing happen earlier in the year. It was painful but I realised it was a blessing.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 08:16 AM
2

You see the old you as a bitch, but brother that means you've grown so much. Hemingway said, "There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow men. True nobility lies in being superior to your former self". You're becoming the best version of you, and part of that includes realising in the past you were a bitch, or made the wrong choices. Acknowledge it, accept it, and keep on the path forward. This is a war against weakness, don't surrender.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 11:45 PM
1

Yes, all of us hope to be the strong proud independent womyn of colour.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:53 AM
2

True, if one is living in sin and is able to take the sacrament, I wouldn't go to that Church.
/r/RPChristians14/10/19 07:52 PM
2

You find those who are sick in the hospital, as in Church you will find sinners.
/r/RPChristians14/10/19 09:24 AM
7

Sometimes people are busy, if you are living your mission sometimes you will flake. As long as you leave the opportunity for them to reschedule if they don't; no sweat.
/r/seduction14/10/19 09:22 AM
1

Quick question brother. I broke up with a woman who revealed she cheated in the first month and lied since about it. ​ I'm no longer attracted to her, have plates and so forth but I still constantly think of her, or rather the disgust of being cheated on. Is that normal? ​ It's been 6 months, the only thing that reduces me digesting too much on it is working out whenever I dwell on it or sex with other women.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 01:53 AM
2

I have this also, I cut off contact, picked up other women; but even during sex with other women I would be thinking of her. It's totally odd because I have the discipline to not indulge in her again. It's been 6 months and I still often think of her. I've been a smoker previously and quit cold turkey, it feels almost the same chemically.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 01:50 AM
2

I dated women with lower SMV after investing in myself. I found that higher SMV women usually don't cross boundaries as often and are better at rejecting advances of others oddly.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 01:36 AM
2

Often these women don't reveal they are in a relationship. They just want the validation of someone pursuing them / wanting new dick.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 01:34 AM
1

I dated a woman like this; she regressed to dependant status and would ask me questions that a functioning adult should. Not worth it.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 08:48 AM
1

You are the company you keep. If you spin say three plates you’re spending several hours a week with whores. Eventually you realise that you’re wasting ones time in the pursuit of nothing but a series of disposable relationships with sluts. TRP advocates spinning plates, eventually found this to be a significant time investment for little reward. I’d rather lift, or go for a run; have a round of golf with an advisor or to be honest work.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 03:47 AM
40

My natural impulse after sex was to lay back, light a cigarette and enjoy a deeper conversation. ​ I no longer smoke, but still I find a woman is most honest when she's naked and physically exhausted. ​ Often in the silence they just reveal truths they otherwise wouldn't.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 01:24 AM
3

It depends on her friends really. If she is the type to cheat, she will do it at home also though.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 02:59 AM
3

Sure, but if you genes are recessive, your genes are really expressed. Chinese are a fantastic people, and if I were Chinese I would father children with a Chinese woman. But as a white guy, I'd rather have my ancestors express my features, not another peoples.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 09:27 PM
1

Honestly, Tokyo, Shanghai, Seoul you'll have fun. It's a numbers game there. I haven't travel much in South East Asia but I've heard local women are very easy in Thailand, Vietnam; along with the tourists make it rather easy to pick up.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 09:57 AM
5

Yeah, have your own genes continue; not some China man's. Would you say Obama is white?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 04:51 AM
5

I travel there often for business, pm me if you want specifics but honestly I prefer Europe.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 03:32 AM
9

What's with the reading comprehension here, I said on a subconscious level the idea of sex and procreation are entwined. It's difficult to undo 100 thousand years of biological programming.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 12:01 AM
5

Did you read my comment, "mixed children of white fathers"? Facepalm
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 11:59 PM
5

My point is do not travel to China for a SMV boost, trust me don't. The women are not worth it, build you value at home. To answer your question, white or white passing yes. Any other race, I would not suggest China, in fact Chinese are with relation to most other races, lowkey racist.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 11:58 PM
3

In the West (Europe especially) generally you have a good distribution between a 6 and a 10, in China I found it's not proportional, it's similar to San Francisco in that it's mostly 6's, a few 7's. Seldom would one see what most men would register as a 8 or even 9.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 11:55 PM
4

I have plates, but I don't have a ton of free time to spin more than two. In the end I'm looking to develop meaning relationships; so the idea of investing time in a disposable relationship built of sex purely just doesn't do it for me. The end game for me is my legacy, and that includes children.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 11:50 PM
3

It is beta bux treatment, but one also has the same treatment with wealthier 2nd generation rich; but that scenario you're being used as a status accessory. It the end in both cases you're treated like an object. Which is kind of the point of my piece.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 11:47 PM
4

It's just a preference, I prefer suits to t shirts, it doesn't mean I think t shirts are inferior. There are far more European women that I find attractive than a 9/10 Asian women.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 11:44 PM
30

It's status. Even wealthy women will approach you but merely for the accessory of a foreign boyfriend. You have value, but it may not be purely financial. Face is important within Chinese culture, and sometimes the status is just enough.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 10:31 AM
30

It gets old fast, you realise they do it for all white men, even ugly men. One exec I met there said the following, at first you think you're fucking them, but really they're fucking you. They just want you for the status of a foreign boyfriend and if you're used to a Western woman you'll be disappointed, Chinese women typically starfish. For me half the fun is the thrill of the chase.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 10:28 AM
28

I wrote on another person, I want my children to look like me. Mixed children of white fathers look like you've been cuckolded, so on a subconscious level, it's perhaps turned me off the idea of other races.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 10:25 AM
20

They are beautiful Asian women, but on a fundamental level for me I want my children to look like me and that has influenced me on a subconscious level perhaps.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 10:23 AM
7

Silicon valley not so much, lived and worked in SF. The women are on average not so good but the men are not very aggressive at all. Places like Rose wood hotel on Thursdays though, you do get hunted. But generally you don't get approached like one would in China.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 10:19 AM
1

How does that go down? How do you convey that? The only woman I know who cheated (she confessed) didn't have social media. What I thought was a green flag was actually a red flag (she deleted it after some drama).
/r/askTRP16/09/19 12:55 PM
2

Same thing happened to me, I grinded my way to a large $ goal and when I achieved it I reflected that outside of this I had dulled myself. ​ If you are able to disconnect, take some time to reflect. ​ The reality for me was I was totally depressed; I wasn't working out enough, I wasn't investing in my relationships and to be frank all I did was live to work. This is good in your 20's but eventually it can exhaust you spiritually. ​ Do some interesting shit, reward yourself. It's September and Mo…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 05:14 AM
14

Really? I cannot wait.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/19 02:14 AM
4

Am I the only one who would prefer to no sex than a 5/10?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:44 AM
5

Hinge is fantastic. I get like 7 matches on tinder a week despite having +99 'matches'. Hinge is low investment, higher quality women that often match with me first.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:40 AM
27

I believe it's a Hemingway quote. “There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.”
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 12:46 AM
2

I'll escalate and find out, worst case I get a book. P.s I'm actually reading the Rational Male now, would recommend.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 03:43 AM
3

Thanks; personally when I fire someone I may leave it ambiguous but for dating I’ve always been direct. But the assumption is self reflection will make it easier for the next persons turn.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 11:09 PM
3

There’s no merit in being more explicit? I ended a relationship on a similar point and stated why explicitly. If he had set a boundary, is it best to state it ended because said boundary was crossed?
/r/askTRP08/09/19 11:00 PM
3

Quick question, I’ve raised in status but still have women do this. Didn’t one of the Hemsworth get cheated on. It’s funny how women test a man’s ability to walk away, to display abundance.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 10:58 PM
13

That's your gut, don't ignore that feeling. Internalise it but if you aren't in a relationship, slowly it will erode. Additionally this community is of men who sleep with mostly promiscuous women, you're getting a survivalist bias of many men who sleep with married women / men who have been cheated on and are rather jaded.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/19 11:09 PM
15

Personally ex military, I'd reveal but I would do so anonymously and so on and give it some time. ​ What risk? Are you serious? Some men kill the men that cuckold them, it's not unusual. She could lie and say he raped her.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 03:10 AM
16

Anonymously maybe even then unwise. ​ It's honestly not worth the risk. ​ At best I'd give it a few months and she will have another few new guys to direct blame to if he makes the choice to disclose.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 03:05 AM
2

I'm still going through the fallout, set yourself on the right path. ​ Plates, work and lifting, seriously takes your mind off it all.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 09:00 PM
2

I was recently cheated on and there is a virtue in confession and forgiveness. ​ Marriage is life commitment and you gave your word before God. You have failed the low threshold of not fucking women other than your wife not once but several times. ​ Talk to your Priest and reflect on why you cheated. You need to be a better man, a man of his word, and be a good husband. ​ Attend Church, take your wife on dates, have your actions reflect your values. ​ If you have truly reformed and will not do i…
/r/askRPC27/08/19 10:51 AM
2

I don't want to white knight, it's just, if someone invites you into their house and cooks you a meal; you feel like a cunt knowing they're being cheated on and exposed to STD's.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 10:31 AM
1

Look at last century, folks in the 20's were at the depth of Wiemar republic hedonism, ten years later, these folks were literally killed en masse.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 04:20 AM
3

Or you know, men act like men and stomp on this cultural shit test. There's no need to simply check out of reproduction, otherwise you cede society to those who are breeding.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 04:19 AM
5

They’re most likely sluts acting like sluts. He knew them in a professional setting and was unaware she was trash.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 09:23 PM
1

No, it comes down to her moral character, the values instilled upon her and her ability to observe them. Men cheater as much or more so than women, the reality is that women have their loyalty tested more so; and some fail because of their nature. All women have this innately, but I wouldn't say it's inevitable.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 12:56 PM
2

My ex cheated in the first month after she asked for exclusivity, but confessed the following year. She confessed without my soliciting, accepted responsibility and respected my space when I asked to no longer contact me. I loved her, but I realised the woman I loved wasn't really her. It was the woman she was trying to be, the woman I wanted. In the end, she spiraled into a depression, had to see a therapist. A part of me pities her, but I've moved on and I'm enjoying life.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 12:53 PM
2

A good solid Priest from a more traditional background made a world of difference to assist with grief. He's one of my closest confidants.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 12:42 PM
1

A culture of disposable sex is not good for a civilization; culturally recognising hyper-gamy and stomping on it is wiser. Sure it's boring, but marrying and having sex only within marriage, and raising children in a stable nuclear family will produce a society that has a future. This society will die out, people aren't even having children and we're just important cultures that value the family unit.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 04:21 AM
2

You should work on independence before women.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 04:05 AM
1

End the relationship with both.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:35 AM
3

Same thing happened to me, I had a rebound with a woman through business / extended social circle. Play it cool, keep it amicable. End the relationship with something that preserves her face and yours; you have depression, you're traveling for business shortly, you just don't feel the chemistry, whatever.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:32 AM
6

No father figure can create daddy issues, typically most women with no father figure have a void of masculine authority. Similar to a man raised by a single mother.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 11:30 AM
1

Focus on your mission. Women will hit you up, go for it. But chasing thots is really not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 09:05 PM
1

Depending on the culture but in USA perhaps higher.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 09:01 PM
5

You’re ignoring the difference between men and women. It’s far more challenging for a man to secure a ONS.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 10:59 AM
1

Do what you usually do, your life is an adventure, will she join? Visit the gallery, have a picnic, hiking, walking by the beach, going surfing, learning salsa, painting at my place, cooking a new French dish I'm perfecting. All of these are cheap and cost next to nothing.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 07:20 AM
1

For those who want to have a family (children); this is my approach. Build my value, enjoy dating, take my time.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 07:15 AM
1

This culture is dying one, it won't last. Cultures who promote healthy sexual relations, the nuclear family, and raising children will inherent the Earth. It's just demographics.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 07:07 AM
5

Focus on your mission, not plates. Plates will come.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 07:02 AM
-1

Yeah, but to be frank 10-20 guys per year is a high body count. I'm not American and my older sister dated one guy at 16, married him at 20, she now is a stay at home mom. Women fill the void their in, if they're in a degenerate culture that celebrates that shit, she becomes so. In other cultures, sure AWALT, but no where near 10-20 per year. Most women <1970 wouldn't even get 10 within their life.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 07:01 AM
2

You stare into the abyss and the abyss stares back. You are the company you keep. Maintaining a rotation of three plates, I realised that I was investing time into relationships with thots rather than my mentors, or good friends. It's best to simply ignore this scene entirely, invest in yourself, surround oneself with wholesome people who aren't degenerates. Be a leader in your vocation or community.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 06:58 AM
3

All women are capable of this, but I'd say statistically like <10% of women would be so shameless to find a chad on tinder whilst in an LTR, and share screen shot with her equally degenerate friend. ​ He's evidently LTR'd solid plate material.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 06:51 AM
2

Agreed. It's best to find a woman who is only sexually active in long term committed relationships, yes all women lie about this but actions speak louder than words. I LTR'd a plate, she revealed she was indeed trash. My close friends who married women in a enclosed Catholic subculture have wives who are significantly less likely to be unfaithful, they still can sure but they're less exposed to degenerate culture.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 06:49 AM
1

I'd say on average, religious women who are observant (go to mass weekly with family) tend to be generally less shit than secular women.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 06:46 AM
3

Really? That seems like a ton of work. I'd rather just explicitly state a boundary. If I have to play theater like this she's not suitable for an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 06:23 AM
2

Some boundaries shouldn't be explicitly stated, but it's best to do so. But at a certain point, things like, don't go on dates with orbiters, or use tinder, if she doesn't know it's wrong, you can't convince her otherwise. It's best to walk away.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 06:05 AM
4

She's low value or you are? Explicitly stating boundaries is wise. A woman who crosses low thresholds like this typically is trash. Vetting would have saved you here, read my last post - I've been burnt because of this mistake also.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 06:02 AM
5

Most men here should be dating up not down, particularly those at the start of their journey.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 05:46 AM
3

Yes but you filter out women. It's easier to do a picnic near your place and then ask her to join you for a cocktail at your place.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 05:44 AM
8

Actions speak louder than words. I've ONS women I thought were quality, the fact I can ONS them negates that. I'd like to think I'm a chad, but I'm not. Yes I work out, dress well, have interesting hobbies and have a good career but even so; there are thousands of men like me in any city.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 05:43 AM
14

Picnics are a good in between however. I've had many first dates where women say, this is by far the best first date. It also allows them to demonstrate if they will reciprocate, bring some sandwiches, or a bottle of wine. Pick a location with a perfect view, and nice weather. A basket and picnic blanket costs little. + bonus points if you have a yacht or motorboat and can do it on the harbour.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 05:39 AM
4

My sister married her first boyfriend from 17. My father was a rather strict traditional patriarch though. She's now about to have her second child and loves being a wife and mother. ​ AWALT yes, all women can be whores, some choose not to due to conditioning and character.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/19 12:46 AM
59

I dabbled myself in this area, you stare into the abyss and the abyss stares back. You are the company you keep. Maintaining a rotation of three plates, I realised that I was investing time into relationships with thots rather than my mentors, or good friends. It's best to simply ignore this scene entirely, invest in yourself, surround oneself with wholesome people who aren't degenerates. Be a leader in your vocation or community.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/19 12:36 AM
2

I did it with an ex earlier in the year, it felt like I had ascended.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:29 AM
4

It's the only move really. She no longer respects him, the relationship is dead, this is just the formality.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:29 AM
1

You'll find a woman like this in most country Catholic churches. ​ 1 in a million on Tinder, but you increase your odds if you hunt in different cultures.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 04:42 AM
1

Have her go through RCIA. Traditional Catholic is a much better foundation than Protestantism. ​ The man leads the household, do not convert.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 04:41 AM
8

Living with a woman who doesn't have your children. Why bother.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 04:26 AM
71

Don't plate, pick up other women to replace her, she is replaceable. ​ Trying to unfuck this will take more time than a just getting a blank slate or old plate who respects him.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 04:24 AM
68

Her actions have consequences. Say, if you want to act like you're single, it's fine because now you are.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 04:23 AM
1

If it's evident she was unfaithful, don't lose your cool; you're prepared so know this is perhaps likely. If she cries, or expresses emotional distress, any other response than a clear, concise no, then it's an admission. State trust is important, you do not associate with those without integrity and you leave. Do not block (block if you do not have discipline), just delete her mentally from your life, leave everything on read. Next time vet further or next time state explicitly your boundaries,…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 11:47 PM
3

Ask her, then be silent, let her fill that silence. You will know.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 02:20 AM
3

What is his true colours? Making money?
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:03 AM
10

He's solid, approachable, nice guy. A lot of men don't have good male friends who can give them solid advice, Coach does some good work to help. ​ Red pill is a little more unfiltered.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 12:52 PM
31

I had an ex cheat, I had some plates in between. I went no contact. I have a mission, I have a purpose, I work hard and try to keep social. ​ It's a massive ego hit, it's a rite of passage though.Was mich nicht umbringt macht mich stärker. What doesn't kill me makes me stronger.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 12:51 PM
1

He looked into the abyss and found nothing. ​ He found that cashing skirt is a meaningless existence and is finding meaning in God.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 11:36 AM
1

Some of the most powerful men surround themselves with men, they don't know how to act around women. Look at Elon Musk. ​ There is always a bigger fish.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 11:34 AM
1

They wanted a relationship, I evidently didn't think they were more than plate material. ​ I expressed I simply wasn't in a place for a LTR but perhaps failed to communicate this effectively as both wouldn't concede.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 07:00 AM
1

Indeed, the reason why most men here think all women are whores is because a significant portion of men are plating tinder quality women who put out to any man that takes a little care of himself. ​ The reality is AWALT, but these women are not a good reflection of average women you meet through social networking or through day game.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 03:34 AM
1

This happened with two plates recently. ​ How does one mitigate this as stating explicitly nothing serious early on evidently hasn't worked for me.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 01:07 AM
11

They want a traditional woman without being a traditional man. ​ You know, be a masculine patriarch who is stoic, has a strong faith and observes traditional gender roles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/19 03:37 AM
-1

k.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:01 PM
1

I have two others, I broke the plate because I have others. A wise man learns from others mistakes rather than having to make them himself.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 06:09 AM
3

It's the price of admission for some women - avoid them. Approach it like this, I buy the first round, you buy the second. You can screen out women who are looking for a free ride. Personally, it's rare to see a woman expecting to be taken care of; but I tend to date young professionals who have a career.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 06:02 AM
1

First or second page of reddit, it was posted to like a popular subreddit like AITA.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 10:53 PM
0

It's like 3rd degree, like someone who works with my lawyer. I evidently thought it was a mitigated risk, but realised she was better connected than expected.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 10:50 PM
4

Part of his mission appears to have a functioning family. Raising a healthy functional child without a mother in a nuclear family seems unwise. ​ OP to answer your question, loyalty. A partner can offer complete loyalty, partnership in life. ​ The danger here is you give another person a loaded gun, and tell them not to pull the trigger. ​ If you make the bet on the wrong woman, or hell, even someone you think is the right woman, she can fall to her basic instincts, want to explore her options, …
/r/askTRP17/07/19 09:39 PM
4

You won't find happiness from plates, or from any woman really. ​ I found having solid male advisors fills this void, to give you the guidance, personal investment and reflection that you seek. ​ Having a solid first mate in a woman as you pursue your mission is nice, but get a dog. They're loyal, finding a perfect woman can take years after building one's status to find a needle in a haystack. ​ Keep doing what you're doing but work on improving your station in life.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 09:33 PM
1

Find through networks, angel syndicates, conferences, industry meet ups. Meet them for coffee every through weeks and have a monthly update email too for key metrics like revenue etc. include call outs like I need to recruit a BD who speaks Korean, etc.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/19 09:38 AM
2

You're best cutting contact and building abundance. Your SMV is too low and she's signalling for attention for others.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 03:00 AM
3

If he's invested in himself during that decade, wouldn't his SMV come with some abundance? For context (refer to post history) I'm relatively well known in my industry / have a HNW in my 20's. After my previous long term relationship ended, many female acquaintances emerged once they were aware I was single.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 06:48 AM
3

A good friend of mine couldn't see reason, some random guy pinged him on instagram and said his LTR was flirting with him. It was the straw that broke the camels back, he ended it and moved on.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 02:02 AM
1

I'd shoot him an anonymous message that she's a thot and not touch her, move on to people with some integrity.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 01:49 AM
2

The cold hard truth is no woman worth dating would even consider such immodesty. ​ State, it just isn't working, and you have different expectations and that's okay. ​ She will know it's because of this but it really isn't, it's the lack of consideration, her lack of respect in her response, and generally her approach to signal attraction to other men whilst being in a relationship.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 12:09 AM
1

What are your thoughts on a kindle to read in bed?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 06:58 AM
1

What region are you located? I'm in a more traditional country so perhaps it's dated. ​ Would you define it as shitting where you eat? She works in the same industry as me and we met in a social setting, but our mutual network is mostly professional. Even women I meet purely divorced from my role have the same implications for managing optics.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 09:30 AM
1

She's European. ​ She's brought up a relationship offhandedly and indicated that we were naturally exclusive; given the nature of our relationship. I responded that given I just exited an LTR, and naturally I needed time to before I proceed into another. She cried, and ask what were we. ​ I said, I enjoy her company, and I don't want to define things. ​ Plates break, but I know her through some professional networks and want to find an approach that doesn't reflect poorly on my character.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 06:57 AM
1

It happens with every plate and I was hoping for insight from others to mitigate or delay plate breaking.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 06:24 AM
9

Same sex attraction is by definition deviant. It's best to go for women with healthy sexual orientations.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 04:35 AM
1

Best friends with a homosexual, you are the company you keep. ​ Gay men are hypergamous, promiscuous and sexually degenerates. ​ As for sleeping in the same bed, instant demotion to plate - you have to set the boundaries and reinforce consequences for this dumb behavior. If you slept with a lesbian in the same bed, it would be over instantly. ​ Vet harder, learn from this with the next girl.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 12:14 AM
1

Don't shit where you eat, you are her supervisor; why would you fuck some one you directly advise? ​ Are you fucking retarded?
/r/askTRP02/07/19 12:11 AM
12

Really? Am I not the only one who feels empty inside after easy lays? ​ It feels like a distraction from more meaningful relationships / goals.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 12:54 AM
6

Fuck that. Take her to a quiet cafe, or a park. Say you need to talk, you need to move on for x. Keep it amicable and let her find some closure, then go no contact to give her space. It sucks but it's life, move on. In time, you'll think nothing of it.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 10:54 AM
1

They aren't your friends given their behavior. ​ Soft next.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 09:02 AM
134

OP, you gut is saying she is dressing like a whore. ​ That's probably because she is. ​ Do not LTR women with gay best friends, gay men are obsequious, promiscuous and statistically likely to be degenerates. You are the company you keep.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 03:23 AM
2

A man's actions should be true to his word where possible. ​ Accepting a monogamous exclusive relationship and violating a relationship agreement is poor interpersonal relationship management. Anyone here who has been cheated on knows on some level that cheating is a violation of trust. ​ I know TRP is amoral, but we should as men aspire to be the best versions of ourselves, I'd hope that means we can control our actions to align with our values.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 08:26 AM
3

Pornography is degenerate, but morality aside, do something that challenges you, is rewarding and is fulfilling whilst being vocationally suited to you. It sounds like on some level you don't enjoy the work. Maybe combine your creative endeavors and create MMA content.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 08:23 AM
11

The guys here spin plates, they tend to spend more time with sluts than most men. ​ The truth is somewhere in between.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 11:05 AM
3

Some men, when discovered they have been cuckolded get irrational and angry. Irrational and angry men can be violent. ​ It's happened twice, one threatened to break my legs and waited outside my place of employment. Two employees had to escort him from the building, it was not worth the embarrassment. Later he apologised, she stated it was an open relationship, evidently, it was not. ​ My point is, there are a lot of single women out there, women who cheat knowingly tend to be too much drama. I …
/r/askTRP18/06/19 07:01 AM
19

Don't be degenerate, get your health in order.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 03:55 AM
1

You are the company you keep. These people are cancer.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 03:54 AM
1

A&A is okay but with questions like this, be direct. You already have enough friends.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 03:54 AM
1

Are you concerned about blowback? I've been burnt by women who had a +1. Isn't the risk not worth the reward?
/r/askTRP18/06/19 03:53 AM
1

Well, congratulations, it sounds like you're both in better positions now, you can fill her plate with another and she's hopefully with someone who can satisfy her emotional needs. ​ It's likely she will re-engage in the future as a plate after this tryst dies.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 02:37 AM
1

A significant proportion of women aren't comfortable with just being a plate. ​ You can't have your cake and eat it too. For her to confess she loves you (comfort test), and you not to reciprocate on some level would strongly indicate that she is just a plate to you, even if she is not aware of the term. ​ The guy she's sitting on the lap probably is blue pilled, but he mostly likely reciprocates on an emotional level. ​ Sometimes one has to play a fine line of red pilled with some blue pilled e…
/r/askTRP18/06/19 02:18 AM
3

White women who date outside their race statistically tend to be of lower socioeconomic status, ie low quality.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 01:24 PM
3

Hard next. Keeping her in his life is a no-win situation, he's better investing his time in those who respect him.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 09:40 AM
2

99% is discipline and slowly improving, all overnight successes are 10 years in the making.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 09:47 AM
2

Absolutely, this community is empowering men to re-establish their natural leadership that has been too often surrendered in social and sexual dynamics.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 09:46 AM
3

Rejecting otherwise good women who present slight red flags is 90% of success, in filtering bad candidates.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 09:44 AM
1

Yes but monogamy, or pair bonding is supported by evolutionary biology.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 09:43 AM
1

Refer to my comment just above.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 09:41 AM
2

The elements I thought were green flags were red flags. ​ She didn't drink, didn't have social media, she was shy and worked hard to earn my time. ​ The reality is she couldn't do self control, and removed the temptation to mitigate the behaviour that led to her cheating. The few times she did drink, after a glass, she was a totally different woman, perhaps the real unfiltered version of her, the one who could cheat and not confess until another year. ​ She was of lower SMV and shy, when I decli…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 09:41 AM
1

One of my favourite films is heat, [here](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IMXEOtxXRiM). ​ Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner ​ I approached her in this regard, I expected the ride to end one day, and when it did, I had my affairs in order and leave wounded but I was back in the game after a short recovery.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 09:36 AM
2

I have the discipline to just not write her. ​ Sometimes I write her a letter, leave it in my journal and never send it. ​ I have realised that she is dead to me, and it's for the best I do not unbury the dead. ​ You have to divorce yourself from the emotion, and whenever that feeling emerges, because I'm human and it will, I immediately do something for myself that removes her from my mind.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 09:33 AM
2

A woman who is raised well, and invests in a relationship can be a good partner, that said it's a rare woman indeed and they have to prove themselves. Picking a younger woman from a good family with good values is the best way of mitigating the down side risk.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 09:32 AM
2

Manufacturing with a tied in Saas product.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 09:31 AM
2

I wouldn't say it's a certainty, woman have more opportunities. I wager there are few with the moral fortitude to decline most offers, particularly if in a monogamous relationship. It's best rarer than most would like to admit however.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 09:30 AM
1

You are the company you keep. ​ Your married plate is a whore, it's natural that she would act accordingly. ​ It sounds like she's more morally bankrupt than the average person.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 08:19 AM
4

What's the appeal?
/r/askTRP21/05/19 10:32 AM
7

The only woman that ever cheated on me didn't drink or use social media, green flags. Upon reflection, the real reason was is that she identified she couldn't handle moderation.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 10:30 AM
8

Nesting instinct. She wants kids, her biological impulse is reinforcing he is not ready to father and raise children. He has a domicile, not a home, art reinforces that. ​ At any moment he can move on, again demonstrating lack of stability.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/19 03:58 AM
9

100,000 years of evolution in your gut, trust it
/r/askTRP05/05/19 02:49 AM
9

My Preist said, women use sex to get love and men use love to get sex. Wise men, traditional religion has a lot of red pill truths to them.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 03:05 AM
2

Look at actions rather than their words. Keep up the good fight brother.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 11:15 AM
1

It's like a feminist who smashed through the glass ceiling and realised her cats will feed on her corpse when she dies. Find greater meaning in life, build your vocation yes, but also invest in your legacy.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 09:05 AM
1

An 8 is better quality than a 7. Grace is a reflection of confidence, knowing your value. It's inherent.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 08:56 AM
1

It's a hedonistic treadmill, would not recommend.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 07:11 AM
2

Good, read the side bar and don't be a doormat for thots.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 09:54 AM
2

It's good he's here. Dump the cunt and move on.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 09:53 AM
2

Indeed, in my case she was a broken woman and I didn't vet hard enough; there were red flags. The one thing I love about TRP is there answer is always, be the best man you can be, the rest will follow; total ownership of your life. It's a tough pill but God gave us wide shoulders, to carry the world on our shoulders.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 12:57 AM
0

He knows the truth, no need to kick a man whilst he is down. He already knows the harsh truth. ​ Not everything is black or white, it's not that he wasn't alpha, it's just he didn't give her a child, the next inflection point. ​ This man has higher value and presents mystery, something new.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 12:49 AM
1

She cheated most likely. 3 days is too kind. ​ My LTR breakup a few years ago, I moved out the next day. She should too.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 12:47 AM
3

Him probably help her process the breakup. ​ She will leave the new guy if a better offer presents. ​ This man just cut his own throat.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 12:45 AM
3

You're right but often women (men also) are good at hiding these things. ​ I've dumped women with little to no notice or obvious red flags. ​ I just come to the conclusion there were better options out there and I settled. ​ The reality here is, she probably had all these green flags, and was a 8-9 SMV and he was just an 8, she could get better and did.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 12:43 AM
3

Men are to women how jobs are to men, you're just filling her need until a better offer comes around. ​ I just had a breakup a few weeks ago, I know it's rough but it's the nature of the beast. This will harden you.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 12:41 AM
3

A lot of the green flags I saw in my ex were red flags. ​ She didn't drink, she didn't have social media etc reflected she couldn't handle moderation and didn't have the emotional maturity to find a happy medium.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 12:39 AM
1

I went for a woman lower in SMV, she confessed a year in to cheating in the first month; women of higher SMV have a higher standard and reject most lower SMV advances.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 12:37 AM
1

Appreciate the honest answer. It comes down to personal morals I guess.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 11:17 AM
2

Agreed.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 11:15 AM
2

I see your point, I'll reflect on it further. ​ Are you saying she's not a plate, but rather a woman you are dating non exclusively, that you promote to an LTR?
/r/askTRP29/03/19 06:40 AM
2

Vet her whilst you have other plates. ​ "Institute for Family Studies" report data below. The 5 year divorce rates given: n=0 - 5% n=1 - 21% n=2 - 29% n=3 - 26% n=4-5 - 24% ​ If she's getting fucked by another or by you, probably not LTR material with the data above in mind.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:28 AM
2

Read the first half, second half meanders. ​ It's literally from course notes of a y combinator class at Stanford so it's often better to go through the source material also.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:03 AM
2

What's the point of having a relationship if you plan on cheating though? Genuinely curious.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:01 AM
1

You can do everything right but in the end, she still has agency; and often women will fit the mold set by the dominant partner but her core personality remains the same.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 04:59 AM
2

29M, 10 figure startup and invest on the side. ​ I use a Roosevelt matrix, anything that isn't a 1-2 in the prioirty I don't do. ​ Use something like Toggl to monitor where you spend your time. 90% of your time is a waste, cut out friends and women with low SMV or those who lack values. Anything that doesn't get you towards an inflection point, cut it out. ​ Spend time with friends doing stuff that is good for you. Instead of drinking beer or eating out, go hiking together, go kayaking, do some …
/r/askTRP29/03/19 04:51 AM
4

If you only have one plate, she's not really a plate. ​ Acquire more plates and invest less emotions. ​ Carry on, keep lifting, spend time with close friends; this is just part of the game.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 04:46 AM
3

Do not LTR a plate. ​ She's demonstrated she isn't making the best choices as a woman in being a plate; they give sex without a relationship. It's like a man giving relationshipp benefits without sex. ​ Spend more time vetting, look for more green and red flags. ​ If she passes and earns your trust, only then; but as above, I did this myself (read my last post) and I got burned.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 04:44 AM
16

Exactly, massive red flag when a woman is surrounded by orbiters.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 04:41 AM
6

Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 02:10 AM
3

It's rare, but it's the same for men. I can only form long term friendships with very few men; I'd say smaller ratio for long term relationships with women.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 11:38 PM
5

Exactly, a woman who would plate herself demonstrates she takes instant gratification, anything easily gained has low value. ​ If she gives sex without a relationship, she is like a man who gives boyfriend qualities without sex; low value, do not LTR.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:48 PM
8

She's right though, eventually you get bored of her. ​ For me, the women I can plate tend to be lower SMV and after a while I grow tired of them.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:34 PM
7

Can you break down the red flags further individually?
/r/askTRP27/03/19 09:35 PM
3

By being valuable, have status.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 01:16 PM
3

Isn't TRP more about being the highest status man, a big part of that involves women but there's more to it than just getting more notches.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 10:13 PM
1

I do yoga weekly, it's a good location to meet women but for me it's a place I go for mindfulness, like Church; it would feel like poisoning the well. ​ I find most of my plates through climbing, dancing etc; physical activities that demonstrate skill or physical discipline whilst requiring a partner.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 12:28 PM
2

Indeed, honestly even plates I find frustrating to be around; after sex one asks to watch netflix. I usually decline but one afternoon acquieced, she proceeded to have the most vapid conversation; I can't concieve how men choose to commit to these women. She was pretty but had the personality of a child. Most women below my SMV, that agree to being a plate tend to only bring physical attractiveness to the table and not much else, virtue or character wise.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 12:14 PM
1

No contact and hit up new plates, right?
/r/askTRP25/03/19 12:04 PM
1

Religion totally alligns with RP values. The men in Opus Dei I know, they have large Catholic families, before they married their early 20's wife, they sowed their wild oats, now they have 6 children, a strong network, most have C level vocations and they are heavily engaged in their community, both socially and politically. ​ What are some redpill values which are incongruent?
/r/askTRP23/03/19 10:29 PM
11

Religion or attachment to higher values are important for young men; I've found that the religious circles I run in compared to secular tend to have young men with better long term dedication, discipline and formation than those fed on conspicious consumption and disposable relationships in the broader society.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 11:03 AM
1

It happened before relationship, I was jetting stateside for work and she asked for exclusivity; until that point I was spinning plates and she was one of the three. ​ If it happened months in, then sure, good point.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 10:38 PM
7

As someone who dabbled in this area, it's best to find submissive plates than explore the scene directly. Most of the women there have more red flags than a Chinese National Congress. ​ Proceed with caution, the hedonic treadmill can cause one to wander down more and more fringe sexual exploits.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 11:41 AM
3

Alcohol is just a drug, you can act accordingly and the results are the same. ​ If you need a prop, order lime and soda water; people respect if you choose not to drink, and if they don't, who cares?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 03:30 AM
1

I'd probably only consider a wife from Opus Dei; I would have to wait until marriage. ​ A few close friends and advisors took the same approach, sow their seeds in their 20's, wife'd up a 19 year old woman from a good family and with the same network. Marriage 1.0 doesn't exist, but in this cultural vacum it's a less riskier bet than secular women.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 08:58 PM
1

Pair bonding should errode with plates.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 08:56 PM
1

For me, TRP is to optimise life, be the best man I can be; and a big part of my life plan is my own family. ​ I fully intend at a certain point just to find a virgin from the same or higher social circle in her early 20's after I'm done with plates.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 09:21 PM
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Pair bonding is powerful, even within men. ​ Plate spinning just removes the emotions of it all.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 09:15 PM
1

My recent ex started out as a plate, I still have two other plates whilst I vetted. ​ I failed to vet properly and she confessed to cheating in the first few weeks of exclusivity a year after a rather solid relationship. ​ What are some approaches you use to vet? For me it was validate relationship with family, no tattoos, no excessive drinking or partying, montiors actions and not words.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 09:14 PM
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Tinder is mostly hypergamous women, I wouldn't expect much. Try places where the women are more long term minded, althetic clubs, hiking meets, morning yoga at Saturday 7am, etc.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 09:12 PM
1

I understand your point. Him breaking her heart with the truth can be cruel. If he can't do that it's best he just end it with another lie. But to continue that relationship when his actions indicate he can't be faithful seems unwise. ​ In the end TRP is immoral, it's up to him to decide.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:41 AM
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Would you rather know or not know? You know the answer is you would rather know. ​ Given he couldn't not cheat on her, the kindest gesture he can give her is the truth.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:24 AM
2

Trust me, a +1 whilst you are serving is always a dangerous idea. Speak to your senior NCO's and see how many are unhappily married or divorced.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 06:21 AM
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This isn't your fault given you're in the machine. It's best to focus only on plates and later in life after you are a free man focus on LTR's after a year or two spinning plates. At this point you will get a Dependapotamus or a divorce.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:43 AM
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There are no unicorns. As an ex grunt, it's difficult to get abundancy mentality but know this, most women ain't shit. Use this time to lift, focus on being the best soldier you can be and developing brothers for life.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:16 AM
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Start on the easier digestable parts. Get a good job, dress well, make friends, lift. Then focus on the larger concepts.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:15 AM
1

Scandanavian women tend to be the sluttiest and most receptive to dominant behaviour, you do have take note that they are more autistic unless drinking however but most speak reasonable Engish. ​ If you know German you can get by.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 04:35 AM
1

Studies do show that dating a woman with a 0-1 n count has a <5% divorce rate. There is some wisdom in going for a virgin for a woman you want wife / have children with.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 04:26 AM
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Confessing is important; it reinforces that he learns to keep his word and secondly; she knows what red flags to avoid when dating chads.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 04:21 AM
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What about swallowing? I have a plate that will be submissive and give head but never swallows.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 04:17 AM
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Agreed, my last post was on this; found a lot of green flags but failed to vet hard enough.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 09:43 PM
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Bullet dodged, consider yourself lucky she revealed her stupidity early on. EDIT Unless of course you want to make it more legit and get the parents blessing, but it depends if you want to settle down.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 07:42 AM
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Read my post on when I LTR'd a plate of a few months; I dropped the other two plates in this process. Ensure you have vetted long enough, and ask yourself the question. Is a woman who will concede herself to plate status, is she making good ong term decisions? For me now, a woman I meet as a plate, will always stay as a plate.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 07:40 AM
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For me I behave how I expect to be reciprocated; different values for different folks.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/19 12:44 PM
1

I understand creating dread, but how does one game practically other women without getting divorced for crossing the line? Do you mean like, flirting on the subway, asking for the waitresses number? ​ All these acts seem like a lot of risk for no reward, no?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/19 05:54 AM
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Honestly, studies show you have to be in top 5-10% to warrant it a wise time investment. ​ Create profile but don't invest time into it, spend time a sport or other activities where you can make a better impression beyond a 1-2 second image.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 02:45 AM
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As I said, if you’re not sure it’s best to err on the side of stoic without emotions. Express emotions to close make friends or your father. 3 elements Work hard in work and fitness Know God Surround yourself with better people
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 03:12 AM
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Balance, 90% stoic and at times when appropriate express yourself. Never show weakness however. It’s a delicate dance but it’s best to be too stoic and mysterious than too emotional.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 02:38 AM
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To be frank, if you’re closing the deal but can’t convert to longer term casual; either your behavior is the catalyst or the women simply want something serious. Need more data to access.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 01:45 AM
1

Are you needy? ​ Look at your communication, are you following the golden rule? ​ Are you attractive also? As in, an 8 or above? ​ If not, work on yourself.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 12:57 AM
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A society with marriage of one man and one woman allows more men to procreate and raise more tax payers.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 10:45 AM
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Never give too much, but at times throw her a bone.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 10:41 AM
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TRP is ammoral but dating taken women is a bad move generally, they're bad long term and short term time investments and abundance mentality demonstrates easier women without the drama.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 01:52 AM
1

Agreed. No one ever regrets firing a bad employee, I think in this case it is apt.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 11:24 PM
1

Good point, I'll go the ghost option and just focus on myself.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 11:19 PM
1

If I didn't want to plate her, given I have other options that have less social fallout; just go no contact forever rather than keep in touch like an old associate would?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 11:08 PM
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Really? ​ Or is it the men fall more easily for female manupilation? ​ My closest friends are men and they absolutely make better friends, but in business, sports and other fields like warfare; men are far more brutal.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 11:07 PM
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Exactly my thoughts, I've gone no contact now but wager she will connect in a month or so. What would you do in this situation, remain true to your word and keep her at arms length forever, right?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 10:57 PM
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Homely is a strong word, I would say; she was classically beautiful but not hot. She wore consecutive clothing and little makeup.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 10:28 PM
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I agree but I must take any relationship, from friends to advisors on their word.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 08:05 PM
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Agreed, every woman is replaceable. In regards to the sex, yes it's doubful. My original point was she was terrible in bed when we met, after the year we had great sex but it's immaterial now.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 12:39 PM
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I thought so too which made ending it difficult but I can't invest in broken assets.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 06:24 AM
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Her and I are both adults, she asked for a committment and failed misreably. There are mistakes, and then there is making conscious choices violate others. For me, the latter are forgivable but not something I will tolerate with further investment of my time.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 06:12 AM
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She cheated when I didn't really know her, I unwisely dropped my other plates and conceded to a very early exclusivity. If she had done the same thing and we agreed to exclusivity I wouldn't have cared as a few weeks preceding this I was sleeping with two other women each week. I ended it on the principle. ​ In regards to having another option, perhaps; I won't know. From my understanding having had her parents contact me and speak in some detail; she hoped I would understand the context and for…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 06:09 AM
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Absolutely true, at the time dropping plates was nothing because the green flags I felt were rare; but it’s her loss and there are millions of other women.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 12:14 AM
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Never ending disgust? I don't know if for me it's healthy. In time I will feel nothing, which is perhaps worse for her; having no emotional investment. In time we will cross paths again, I've learned a lot from this and I hope she will apply these lessons in future relationships.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/19 01:32 AM
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Indeed, it's one of the worst things; I couldn't even look at her. It's difficult to divorce the thought of the genuinely good times we had, with the digust of the act.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 10:52 PM
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I mean mitigating, not removing risk entirely. If I marry a woman with family wealth equivalent or equal to mine, it’s a mitigated risk but just means a much smaller pool to date and much harder women to game. That said they typically only date men similar to me.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 09:07 PM
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I worked hard so my future offspring have the best chance, it would be a shame to basically assist someone’s genetics. Would I consider a surrogate with good genetics? Not exactly, a child without a mother is not the best. It’s better to simply marry a woman where it’s a mitigated risk and she has her own family money and try for the best case.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:38 PM
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We had a few months of casual dating. Secondly I travel extensively but usually for only 2 week blocks. It was rare except for this trip for her to travel without her parents.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:29 PM
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I could replate and then have her earn back my opinion over 6 months but she would have to have be amazing for me to want to eat food I’ve already disposed of.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:27 PM
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When you have money, you start to want more meaningful investments. Children and legacy are among them.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:22 PM
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She was a 8-9, in SMV, an 8 in looks. Previous women were better looking but lower in status.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:21 PM
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Why keep her as a plate rather than other women with less history? She used sex to get an LTR, I don’t want to repeat the same mistake.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:20 PM
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Likely, her actions indicate so.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:16 PM
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We had a few months casual, I only vetted for three months. It’s cheating given she asked for exclusivity, she asked to be in a committed relationship and went out and decided to get fucked in a one night stand. Understandable? Yes. Should I LTR this woman further? No.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:15 PM
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This is all correct. But dumping her is the only card I can play. It’s just a shit position to be in.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:14 PM
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I know, most of my assets are in the company and they are held by a trust. A prenup isn’t bullet proof but any woman I date usually comes from money, I am dating women usually of similar social class.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:13 PM
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One official date but a few months of a casual relationship. I dropped my plates when she asked for exclusivity. She would have known that is why she asked for exclusivity to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:12 PM
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What’s gullible? I said it’s likely higher than she disclosed. I don’t even know my number, but I wager she does and probably rationalises it as 2 but filters out all the men she had one night stands etc with.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:08 PM
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I didn’t give her the answer, I said she knew I was sleeping with others. I stated something like we aren’t exclusive, ‘I may be sleeping with other women’ and let the mystery remain.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 12:56 PM
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Not for me, it’s incongruent with my values.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 12:49 PM
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We were sleeping together for a few months, she knew and asked after I declined to date the second time.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 12:48 PM
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I agree, in time I’ll speak to her in time but my reaction was to be expected. I wager she wouldn’t have cheated after the connection was established but it’s important in a long term partner, if they give their word they meet it. It’s not difficult to not fuck someone else.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 12:17 PM
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They both sent rather long messages, the father’s was a little more on the - she’s disappointed both of us; the mother was more forgiving.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 11:38 AM
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It happened at a point where she felt that I would have forgiven it. It was super early and months before I typically would have had the talk. I would have understood this action in that regard, but she pushed so strongly for exclusivity to immediately fail to meet this expectation sets a standard of a woman who can’t control herself.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 11:36 AM
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Probably the best post on the thread, the underlying points you address about unraveling her character. I had misjudged her character and failed to recognize she was trying to be the woman I knew I expected. She may have met that expectation but the fact her initial actions were reciprocal is why the relationship ended. In the relationship she did mature a lot, her informing me perhaps reinforces this. Moving forward post no contact, it’s hard to say what dynamic can exist.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 11:20 AM
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No, there was no major inflection point ahead. I don’t want to overthink it but I concur, it’s likely a different number. I won’t know the actual number, I don’t even know mine.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 10:40 AM
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I added some misinformation, it’s a small pool so I don’t want to dox myself.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 10:15 AM
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For me, I totally understand your point. I could see her and I being friendly and running together maybe if it provides value to me. But pursuing her as a long term partner? Not with this history.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 09:42 AM
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My business trips are optional, I don’t have to take them but I prefer doing business and building relationships directly. That said if I can’t trust her to not get dicked in a four week trip then I best end it there. It was a very low bar she had to pass and she failed miserably. Imagine the stresses of an actual longer term relationship.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 09:39 AM
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I will take my time and learn from this, I made mistakes and hopefully when I find someone to gamble children with it doesn’t blow up. Thanks for the advice
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 09:35 AM
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It was pretty explicitly exclusivity, she pushed for it too ironically. It makes the whole thing worse.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 09:28 AM
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No I don’t believe this. She lied to me in cheating. That said, by her actions sexually, out of the sub 50 women I have slept with, I would have concurred with around 2-3 guys. She didn’t know a lot of basics sexually.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 09:11 AM
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Women with my SMV tend to be hard work and rare; they require a lot more time investment.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:51 AM
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I actually had considered this greatly. I respected she confessed totally. But taking her back when there are millions of other women who wouldn’t have to confess seems unwise, right? We aren’t married nor do have children.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:49 AM
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Perhaps so, I don’t think I’ll know exactly. She said she had buried it, it was probably the discussion on when our anniversary was that happened just prior to the confession to her parents and then me.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:38 AM
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On reflection it’s best she confessed, it’s better to know than be blissfully ignorant and investing in her with my time.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:33 AM
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She had been in this environment before and had a reputation of not doing this, most of the other women did however. Ironically the time she did she had a boyfriend which is almost funny if it weren’t me.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:31 AM
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I have written a post already on how I went from 0-1 so to speak, check my post history.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:29 AM
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I don’t like disposable relationships and I know a child needs a male and female influence. Otherwise I would spin plates.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:29 AM
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I wrote her a letter afterwards, I respect the moxy in confessing but was it to assuage her guilt, will she do it again, I cannot know. The reason why society is in its position now is that men don’t slut shame or forgive too easily.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:27 AM
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Green flag she told me. Red flag it happened. Not fucking another man is a low threshold and she failed that test spectacularly.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:24 AM
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It is better that she confessed? Yes, but would you take her back? No. I will travel again for business and she will be tested again. I’d rather not try to put back together a broken mirror, I will always see the cracks in my reflection. Friends suggested I consider her thought in confessing but what can I do that doesn’t reinforce consequences and respect myself other than walk away?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:22 AM
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Most women I meet or that pursue me usually know my work, I have had a few explicitly ask about my money but it’s rare. If I meet a woman outside of this context I usually state I’m an engineer, engineers are paid a lot in SF but not multimillions usually. I live very frugally but I do dress nicely for SF. I have my assets in a trust and don’t cohabitate unless I was getting married with a prenup.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:19 AM
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Thanks, to be frank professionally I've invested a lot so I was sharp in one area, dull in others; it's taken a lot of work to recognise where I lack and work at lifting and other areas which are important. ​ I wouldn't say 10's pursue me regularly, it's rare to meet a 10 and additionally they typically know what they want and get it; they're seldom single.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 05:19 AM
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I'm naturally introverted but in most social circles people would assume I'm extroverted. For LTR's I typically pursue as you noted, introverted woman with a nice family and low n-count, like this woman. It seems to be a good dynamic and hedge your bets on risk. Unfortunately in this case that gamble didn't have a long return of investment.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 05:13 AM
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Same as my plan before, build value, network; vet women who look promising.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 03:58 AM
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I would say it has an inherient risk due to the inexperience, but it's better than damaged goods of an older woman. I want a family so I typically pursue women from 21-24 years as they have some life experience but they're not ruined by the world. Vet accordingly and prepare for it to burn at any point.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 03:35 AM
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Pursue natural highs that take work. Runners high, that feeling from lifting etc. Alcohol, cigars etc in extreme moderation. No to everything else.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 08:59 PM
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A woman with an n count of over 3 is damaged goods to be frank, they can't pair bond. ​ Religion was simply a rule book to ensure strong stable families emerged that had many children. ​ A society of families is far easier to control also. ​ They want people to marry young, and punch out children raised in the faith. They have 5 + children, the rest of society has 1. Eventually they inheriet the society.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 09:43 PM
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How is she a good woman though, she cheated.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 07:11 PM
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Do you think it does? I would TRP would morning advocate for second chances for this act, past behavior is an indicator of future by behavior. If she had through time demonstrated reformed values it’s a maybe but I cannot conceive what those actions would be. Can you?
/r/askTRP04/03/19 11:31 AM
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Agreed, thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 06:18 AM
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She did over the month or so demonstrate qualities in a girlfriend, she took me out for a picnic and prepared the food, she gave me a book I mentioned I wanted to read and wrote a message inside and a few other gestures.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 05:47 AM
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I've already ended the relationship; there's no exclusivity now nor did I demonstrate sunk cost fallacy in keeping her after the confession. Men I know directly felt it was perhaps forgivable, I was curious from a TRP perspective if it is not; I wager so.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 05:11 AM
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"ladder of hoops a girl has to do to gain your commitment is fucked up or non-existent" Can you explain this point? I don't understand in English. In regards to scarcity, I did have a few other plates, I don't have time on top of working out and business for three + plates.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 05:06 AM
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I had dropped the other two plates because I felt this woman was relationship material. She asked for exclusivity, I agreed and then slept with someone. It seems like a dealbreaker, no?
/r/askTRP04/03/19 04:46 AM
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I had vetted her for 6 months+. Her family and my family know one another. I had known her before the date through mutual circles.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 04:43 AM
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I travel there a lot for business - we work with some of the multinationals, I don't date there as I'm only there briefly and it's best I focus on creating meaning, not disposable relationships. Go where the wholesome women will be - PM if you want some suggestions I found would be a good place if I were a Taiwanese man. You will be better for it brother. As a foreigner, I admire the Taiwanese, they are good people and very kind to guests, especially given some of the foreigners who are not so g…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 12:56 AM
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To be frank, if you go into a whore house; don't be surprised there are whores. AWALT absolutely, some women are more likely to be trash; but especially women on momo or tantan. Don't reduce yourself to low hanging fruit. Find high-value men and women to surround yourself, you will feel uplifted, not reduced to the level of these women. Go to a gallery, go hiking to Elephant mountain in the early Saturday morning, go to mass or temple, or explore the flower market in Daan; the women there will b…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 10:55 PM
1

Talk frankly with her, it's not what you're looking for. The arrangement is within the bedroom only. If she concedes, you have alignment, if not, plates break.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 04:29 AM
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“The society that separates its scholars from its warriors will have its thinking done by cowards and its fighting by fools.” – Thucydides We have a cultural struggle ahead of us, we must lift to strengthen the body, and we must read to sharpen the mind.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 02:00 AM
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Do you write any long-form content? I'd be interested to see your analysis on broader items, particularly given you read Evola et al.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 11:00 PM
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That said, the idea of instant gratification that comes from fapping is bad. Idealling you have a woman or some plates in rotation. All things in moderations. That said, pornography has mostly negative affects on a society and decreasing consumption of it is a mostly good thing.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 10:55 PM
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City of sixes. The women there tend to be solidly average, it's a tech city and the men are thirsty.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 11:08 AM
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Is this for an LTR or just a plate? Additionally, if an LTR revealed she had in the past, would it change your view of her? I'm curious to see if we have a similar view here. Thanks for the honest feedback, I understand in a way your logic.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 06:56 AM
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Pray tell, what's the appeal for anal? Where I'm from culturally only homosexuals or perverts were interested it, it seems like some straight men here like it.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 12:58 AM
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12 weeks? If you can trust her for 52 weeks of the years stateside with orbiters etc, 12 weeks in Europe isn’t a big jump. Some time apart is good for relationships but you should drop by for the Summer for a holiday with her, you’d enjoy it.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 04:33 AM
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Note, many of the men he discovered the red pill due to being cheated on so naturally, their advice will reinforce this point - AWALT. A long trip is a decision on her part to pursue her dreams which will separate you, this would strongly indicate although she values the relationship, she values her desire for travel higher - this is a red flag. If she has not discussed this with you before deciding to go, another red flag. If she has not considered how it affects you and made efforts to add tri…
/r/askTRP18/02/19 01:52 AM
2

It’s a wide spectrum, there is being dominant and then there is impact play (using a crop on her buttocks). Most women want a naturally dominant partner, I wouldn’t state they are into BDSM. This assumption is dangerous particularly as a man in the West.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 05:13 AM
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Be attractive. Don’t be unattractive.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 05:10 AM
1

Victory will defeat you. I travel a lot for business and I found that white men in Asia had such terrible basic game after literally years hitting with low hanging fruit day after day with no effort. Don't be a sexpat. Build your value, you'll be a better man for it.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 10:00 PM
1

ASD - Anti-Slut Defense. Read the side bar.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 10:29 PM
1

Agreed. Read her body language. It actually seems like a green flag. Ask her to take you to her favourite place, or go dancing etc. If she doesn't indicate interest, chalk it up as a learning experience. Have fun.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 10:29 PM
2

I'm not sure about others but spinning plates made me feel more alone, half of my plates had partners usually and plates typically tend to be lower quality women inherently. Pursue one's vocation with conviction, surround yourself with good friends who uplift you and date higher quality women (still AWALT).
/r/askTRP07/02/19 10:26 PM
1

Date and marry a man 5 years older who is of a good family, has traditional values, a good career and intends on raising a family. Outside of this, has passions, her on direction vocationally and has a happy social and family life.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 10:23 PM
2

Outside of prescribed prayer, like the Our Father, it's usually for me a stream of thoughts. I was an atheist as a boy and I found near death (military service) when I was younger it helped calm me more than a cigarette or sleep could - I would pray for those who died, ask for intercession. Now it's more silence, a point for reflection. Most of my working day is business meetings, phone calls, business dinners, cooking dinner with my partner; I find the point of just silence meditative, it helps…
/r/askTRP07/02/19 02:13 AM
1

Build power just to adapt to your world and not have it adapt to you. Even within business I have created an impact with my businesses, I intend to do the same within the social.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 09:31 PM
2

For me it’s like lifting / fitness. Most people ignore it entirely. Some people meditate, but this is a totally inward. Spiritual health I find is as important as mental or physical health. I try not get caught too much in religion but for me and my closest friends it’s an important foundation. It is at the core of my discipline, everything I do is for the goal I have from God, It keeps me focused and appreciate through suffering I can understand meaning. I run my own businesses, even with mento…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 09:25 PM
2

It’s more than just men’s rights, immigration, restoration of traditional values, creating strong families. Faith, family, fatherland. Three pillars of the West.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 09:14 PM
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Build my businesses. Get to the next stage in bouldering. Achieve a podium finish this season in sailing with our crew. Get conversational in German. Get closer to God and know Him better. Each month I set OCR's for my quarterly goals in fitness, business, spiritual health, and personal development.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 09:21 AM
13

Members here unironically wonder why society is collapsing whilst at the same time advocating to enjoy the decline to pursue some easy pussy.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 09:18 AM
2

To answer your question, look at actions to know a woman's thoughts; not he shit she says. All people say one thing and do another.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 02:12 AM
2

Personally, I'd suggest u/onpuzzle go for a woman who isn't 28; she is two years from the wall and he's a decade from his prime. It may be too early to settle down.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 02:05 AM
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Look at her actions rather than her words.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 10:23 AM
3

It’s a University society, my secondary education was so-so. But extend yourself to other networks and associations. Sailing a great sport to get in - teamwork, a great community of older men with wealth / experience, you can learn quickly and most crews are looking for new hands.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 09:44 AM
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Relax son. It’s the periphery of my network, not an employee. In a city like San Francisco try meeting a women outside of the tech ecosystem. At least this way I can exploit an increased SMV and vet from mutual contacts. I am indeed aware of the risks of engaging with women, I spinned plates mostly but there is practices one can do, vet plates, have a security system in your apartment, get post sex confirmation in text, know your rights and have a good lawyer etc. You can’t eliminate the risk ju…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 09:41 AM
1

Agreed but after I achieved abundance I realised just how dangerous it is to pursue taken women.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 03:39 AM
16

The concern is the middle class is being eroded, it's a lie. Most people who think they're middle class are wage slaves. Financial independence takes a lot of hard work, networking and fucking luck nowadays.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 01:32 AM
10

You can do both. I run two businesses and I found that the exposure and engagement from these mean women chase me. It's useful to try to build your profile, speak at conferences, write and get published every other month (journaling really helped me here), and secondly, it helps to acquire talent. In my industry women are rare (technology) but I've been able to plate reporters, lawyers etc in the periphery on my business network that I don't engage with directly - this isn't shitting where I eat…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 01:28 AM
8

I found that the quality of the women, particularly of the good looking ones on apps was low; they typically didn't have much substance like values, good families or a strong direction in life. They literally were just physically attractive, which is how one really filters on these applications; sub-second decision on a photo or two. Additionally spending a few hours with 2-3 plates a week meant I was investing time in women who although satisfied me on one level; I really didn't enjoy their com…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 01:25 AM
9

I've killed it on apps, but just as you noted; you have to be high status and not need them; as do most women. After awhile the chase becomes boring, and most women there are simply not high value. Sometimes however the best way to play the game is not play at all. Men who decide to concede society to women, to enjoy the decline or simply check out entirely to a life of solitude aren't going to inherit the earth; what makes men broadly speaking is to take the world on our shoulders. To sow oak s…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/19 09:50 PM
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It's not really worth it though, women who have partners are inherently low trust (more than most women) and their partners will more likely want to break your legs than realise their perfect partner betrayed them. A beta betrayed, a man who invested too much in his partner can be unpredictable at best, dangerous at worst.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/19 09:44 PM
2

For those who aren't familiar with hiking and camping. Don't go straight to one week, I've seen a lot of tourists in Australia try this and get lost, and not prep with enough food and water. Take a tracker and inform family and friends before you go too. Great advice otherwise.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 02:07 AM
1

Wise move by your friend, as long as you’re moving forward in life; and challenging yourself. With anything, if you apply yourself it’s possible to be financially independent but it takes hard work for some vocations.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/19 10:11 PM
1

They will use being a plate to slide into a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/19 10:05 AM
3

"The optimist thinks this is the best of all possible worlds. The pessimist fears it is true" - Oppenheimer
/r/TheRedPill23/01/19 07:17 PM
2

Personally I reached out to people that inspired me, I read their book, or they exited a company; I sent them a short message on linkedin, or found their email using contactout extension, something short to the point. "I'm in my 20's, started my own business, we've grown to 30 and I was listed on Forbes; I wanted your insights into growing from 50-1000 employees". That type of shit - most people who have done inspiring things are too busy doing shit to talk about it. That said, people love to gi…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/19 07:15 PM
2

Agreed on perk point, but in spending time with a woman you're investing the one thing you can't return.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/19 12:54 AM
10

Girls like this, I slowly reply but keep it weak; they will use plate status to drag you into a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 06:49 AM
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A personal trainer is pretty low in the grand scheme of things to be frank, he'd had been better off investing in improving his own station in life. Hypergamy didn't fuck him, Mark fucked himself by investing in someone who wouldn't reciprocate.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 06:47 AM
1

I added an update, she made some good choices to consider the importance of the relationship; I've decided not to terminate the relationship given her approach and prioritizing remaining here whilst still pursuing the opportunity.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 11:50 PM
1

Opus Dei is a Spanish orthodox Catholic group; the closest way I could describe it is a group which focuses on the formation of its members to be the best one can be and also encourages its members to march through the institutions; so attain status within media, academia, politics and business. It's a little more shadowy than other religious groups, with most members not being obviously affiliated and it's churches than to be concealed. For me, I worked briefly in Politics whilst I was a studen…
/r/askTRP13/01/19 10:43 PM
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A wise man learns from his mistakes, a wiser man learns from others. I appreciate the counsel of men who have more experience, the Priest is in his 50's, he only became a priest in his 40's; likewise, men like my mentors and father gave good counsel. It was only younger more blue pilled friends who advised an LDR was a good idea.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 08:06 AM
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This. Depending on the culture; this would seem too high. Get yourself a young 21 yo girlfriend with much less history, your family will be happier and so will you.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 03:53 AM
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For me, once she decides to go, I'll invite her to somewhere public and just end it on those terms; I'm not one to downgrade relationships to plates due to personal preference. I appreciate the thoughtful words, Ronaldo.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 03:48 AM
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It's all about priorities; actions speak louder than words. I can't see why I'd want to re-invest in a woman who just spent 6 months getting plowed in Europe. I have other plates I can reopen without the baggage.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 02:13 AM
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Agreed, if she takes the offer; end of the ride. Thanks
/r/askTRP10/01/19 02:11 AM
1

Praelatura et Operis Dei is fantastic; one of the best things I've done besides fitness. They put everything into perspective; career, vocation, relationships, my meaning of existence and the command to execute it accordingly.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 01:05 AM
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I concur I have expressed it's something we would have to discuss if she accepted; she knows that this implies a breakup but I haven't said explicitly. Do you suggest I express this directly? I think I shouldn't and observe her decision independently.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 11:33 PM
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I've spoken with her regarding this, I earn reasonably good money that I intend my wife not to work when I have children, she agreed for the first ten years of a child's family; she'd expect to stay at home like her mother did. That said, women say what men want to hear, her traveling for 6 months indicates her statement is simply this.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 10:08 PM
1

I'll wait for more feedback but I appreciate your points; my gut agrees. Pull the trigger.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 10:05 PM
1

Agreed; I'll end it on Friday; my close friends felt I was being to rash but this was my gut feeling.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 10:00 PM
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Mine told me she was BPD, I recall asking, why are you so bipolar, and she responds, I'm not bipolar I'm borderline silly. She was a solid 9 and good in bed but in the end, I dropped her for other plates without the drama.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 08:48 AM
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Marry up social class, when I made myself reasonably independently wealthy, I only dated women who were the children of a higher class. Marriage to a good family is an excellent move to mitigate divorce and some social circles can't be entered through money alone but through blood.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/18 07:29 PM
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He will more than likely vector his anger toward the man and not his wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/18 05:23 AM
30

This is why hambeasts feels entitled, because there is always some guy so thirty they would consider laying pipe to a what they define as a 3.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 07:10 AM
7

He's a shift supervisor at a carpark in his 30's.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/18 07:21 AM
4

Million dollar extreme. It was known for mostly 4chan like jokes, most of it was satire but from an external individual, the jokes may be seen as insensitive to the holocaust etc.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 02:59 AM
1

Because this way you can cheat on your partner because that's alpha. /s
/r/TheRedPill30/09/18 05:48 AM
3

We will rebuild because we are men.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 01:57 AM
1

When I was earning insane money and overseas for an extended business trip I tried seeking arrangement; it's literally being a John but if you earn +300k and work long hours it's a good stop gap - particularly when you're in places like San Francisco where the women are rare in Silicon Valley and usually not so good looking (city of sixes).
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 08:35 AM
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Correct, but as my SMV has increased so has the value of the women I pursue. I can get a one night lay with a 7 or 7.5; but higher value women usually don't unless I'm overseas for business where I have an SMV bump. The higher I go, the higher the women I prefer - the SMV difference is usually little.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 10:24 AM
78

An easy rule of thumb is if I can close her on the first night; she's never going to be more than a plate.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 02:08 AM
2

The inherent truth of women and men speak all languages.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 09:45 PM
86

Fucking a slut without protection is pretty unwise.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 09:31 PM
125

6. Always carry protection. Women like this are likely to have STD's; get yourself checked. Great post otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 07:20 AM
2

You do realise that’s not appropriate behavior though? I can’t inserstand why a man would try to hamster an excuse.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 10:50 PM
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And some Joe will marry her, have 2.4 kids and just be a constant disappointment to those glory years before she surprises him with divorce rape just as the wall hits.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 05:28 AM
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What's funny is that the hotter women I've dated haven't had this as big of a problem. With 7's this happens all the time, return from the bar, bathroom whatever and a new orbiter appears. But with 9's, it's super rare. Usually, if you ask politely, "We're in the middle of a conversation that's private", and gesture for them to leave.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 05:15 AM
4

Club's are fun with your boys, but don't bring meat to a lion's den.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 05:10 AM
3

Tattoo's a poor long-term decision. Those who make bad long-term decisions typically make short terms ones also.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 05:05 AM
2

Really? He when unsolicited masturbated in front of women he knew professionally not once but several times. Secondly, I'm rather certain indecent exposure is illegal.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 05:02 AM
1

Beautifully put.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 04:19 AM
1

Passion and purpose should not be mutually exclusive.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 03:01 AM
2

I've updated the post. I find that speaking to friends and family is an easier first step but a professional is absolutely great advice; especially for those without that support structure.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 01:48 AM
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We mourn those so hopelessly lost that they quit on fighting the good fight. It's not a celebration of the act but the intent of the act; to disconnect from the endless loop her was in, wake, work, eat, sleep, repeat.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 11:21 PM
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I already quit my job to do what I'm doing. Once you do what you once thought was impossible, you have to find another impossible goal to achieve.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 11:16 PM
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I will concede there is some glorification of this act as a spectacular display of self-destruction. My point was more that everyone can learn what one can do to help their friends or themselves pursue a for meaningful existence where a spectacular display of self-destruction is not considered, or that mental illness is identified and treated.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 09:46 PM
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I earn more money than I could spend; whilst it has enabled me to do many things it's not a panacea. When you can do anything, one asks yourself; what do I want to do? This is the hardest question of all. I love my vocation but at times self-actualisation is the most difficult challenge. You may not be Richard, but all who work to survive certainly share traits that he expressed.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 09:42 PM
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That was my point, you miss the entire crux of my message. It was, escape the grinder, but make sure it's not a Faustian exchange where one loses everything. He was a simple guy but he demonstrated he could have certainly done more with his life, a few pilots I know were shocked at his ability to perform this manoeuvre.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 09:37 PM
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I would concur. Russel states during the flight "I'm just that broken guy, I've got a few screws loose, I guess. I never really knew it .... until now.” My point is that even he didn't really know.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 12:43 PM
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If a girl direspected my entire race, I would have told her to gtfo of my apartment; not tried to invalidate her view. It's like if white guy before fucking an Asian girl said something like, you're good looking for an Asian - most are ugly, and she just powered through it and then wrote a piece afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 05:14 AM
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As a European in the West I note manny solid Asian men settle for a lower value but higher perceived value white woman simply because she is white. It’s similar how Asian women date ugly white guys.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 11:57 PM
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I don’t know why Asians put white women on a pedestal over their own race. Is it because you’re overcoming that bias?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 11:02 PM
1

Having several plates for me helped me establish a no fucks given approach which reinforces frame when trying to close p&d.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/18 01:01 AM
3

She will be waiting for me to return. I will not return. It seems cruel to do so.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 12:14 PM
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I will have to wait months before I can do it in person. Leaving it to wait seems like a burden, i want to pull the bandaid off fast.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 12:13 PM
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I’m away indefinitely, I don’t plan on returning given a recent development which I professional have to pursue (7 figure job). She is a nice 28 year old doctor but I don’t feel a spark and I know she should settle down with someone not like me. She’s a 7.5, nice, has green flags, but lacks confidence, doesn’t want to move to Europe like I do long term.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 12:11 PM
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I wager the guy who fucked her in a bathroom called her worse things. You're overthinking it. Don't call her a bitch is good advice generally, but in the end, it depends on how attracted she is to you. Hold frame and work on yourself to build your value.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 12:13 AM
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EDIT He asked, how easy is it to get women in China. I'm not really into Asian women but one doesn't require much game for locals if you're a tall well-dressed foreigner. The best way I could describe it is as being a woman in the West. People approach you, sometimes buy you a drink, you can get free entry and free questionable alcohol at some establishments. That's not to say that all Chinese women want foreign men, but in a city like Beijing that has over 20 million people and really are two a…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 07:16 AM
12

Using this technique or on average? Around 20-40 depending on on the year and business /travel commitments. Some cities are easier, like Shanghai it's easier to close a few Western women in a week, whereas in Sydney I'll get 1-3 a month. If it's a busy year, +10-20 as escorts also but I have D/S kinks which usually require a time investment to find the right submissive.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 04:10 AM
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I usually just answer directly, I travel every 6 weeks; mostly between West Coast, China and Australia; and my title is CEO of a startup so it usually leads to a solid first impression. My company makes an interesting / somewhat high profile product so it's usually my go-to line to show her to my room. The most common question is where are you from? I usually answer with a question, "Guess? If you guess correctly you win a prize" as I have an odd accent in English and it's an easier opener. I'm …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 03:52 AM
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Feel free to also share what works for you in these situations.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 03:04 AM
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Most men here only have enough time for a finite number of plates, for me it's around two or three. You can do both, but time invested with your ex; a relationship which has already died, could be invested elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 02:32 AM
13

Why do people plate ex's? What's the logic there rather than try to hit up a newer, younger or better-looking woman?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 12:50 AM
8

Read my comment, I actually stated not to do this. Secondly, if you have a career as an executive; like many here do. Eastern Europe is a pit for one's career.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 12:24 AM
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There are no nations without sluts, but there are communities within nations which are. Most are exclusive within a race, network and faith, say for example Opus Dei, Ultra-Orthodox Jewish faith etc. In my home city, Opus Dei typically is the wealthy enclave of Catholics; they only marry one another and typically it's a marriage between families. The women there are slightly autistic, very religious, some plain, some beautiful without knowing it. They all come with strings attached, however. If …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 11:44 PM
9

I would concur, an old mentor of mine lived a successful life as a businessman, big family, young wife, three children. In his youth he was in the Russian organised crime. When we would play squash, he removed his rings, on his wedding finger he had this tattoo of a cirle with a dot in the center. One evening drinking I asked him what they meant, the one his wedding finger he said "Trust no one but yourself". Wise words.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 05:03 AM
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These guys look in the gutter and are surprised they find trash. Outside of secular society is societies where women go to mass daily, don't use social media, have strong patriarchal families and marry/fuck one man in their life. Still AWALT, but you don't mitigate your risk going for anything other than this.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 05:31 AM
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*In America. I lay waste when I am stateside for business, but try that shit in other countries, women make you work a little for it. Some girls don't even want the circus of a date, invite direct to their place after she had dinner with some guy who bought her dinner.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 05:29 AM
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Really? Subjectively I'd say the market is fantastic for men, you just have to be fit, have a good job, and interesting passions and you're ahead of 90% of men. I'm hitting 8's and the odd 9 consistently and I'm not swole - I try lifting but I prefer hiking and climbing. That said I am relatively well off and have a good career/status so maybe I'm biased.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 05:27 AM
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The reality is, not every woman has such a low threshold to cheat - and most if not all have a relationship with a man who simply is not performing; he's overweight, his career has hit a wall, he doesn't initiate sex (so many women who are good looking confess it has been years for them). Also try to understand, when I go to a hotel bar, 10% of women on business trips are there, the remainder are in their rooms getting a good nights sleep or on a video call with their families. AWALT exists abso…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 01:59 AM
1

I'll line up a quick post in the next day.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 12:37 AM
37

Girls in LTR's are easier to game than single women in my experience. I try to avoid taken women but during business trips, married women and women in LTR's were my bread and butter when I was looking for easy lays (sex without taking on a date). The easiest logistics is nice hotel bars in an international city, weeknight at around 8-10pm. Take, for example, one common location for my business trips in China, I often stay at the world trade tower in Beijing, there is a jazz bar on the 100th floo…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 02:56 AM
14

Agreed, you play the gamble of her being frustrated with not exploring the sea but you have a blank slate without the baggage. Both are risks, the 19 is smaller I'd wager (lower n count, pair bonding less eroded).
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 02:41 AM
0

Technology assists change in both directions.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 09:46 AM
1

Society is declining because the few who are aware of it's discipline would rather enjoy the pursuit of easy pussy rather than engage to change it's direction. Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men and weak men create hard times. Whisper is the product of good times. Our forefathers knew of the sentiments expressed within the red pill, it's only within our context that such common sense truths spoken by us and men like Dr Peterson are seen are a s…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 07:01 AM
2

There is more to life than fucking; loyalty is one of them.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 06:19 AM
5

Post Weimar Republic to National Socialist Germany would suggest otherwise, no?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 06:15 AM
3

" I don't need to disparage other guys to make myself feel superior." Proceeds to disparage other guys. Good luck with your future Lav-Man.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/18 02:21 AM
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Possibly more appropriate for asktrp but I’ll bite. A man biologically must spread his seed, where as a woman has to find the partner of the highest status to secure her children’s future. This is why men would sleep with 70% of women and conversely women would sleep with 30% of men. A woman who sleeps with 60 men with no effort. But the converse cannot be said of men. It’s a reflection of the biological realities of the sexes. This is why most men value sexual attraction over status and vice ve…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 11:37 AM
1

He can't keep a conversation with a 19 year old girl. They love talking, especially about themselves. This should be on Asktrp.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 06:00 AM
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Don’t shit where you eat. You have a family to provide for and it’s rather unwise to chase tail when you have sources elsewhere that don’t threaten your employment and reputation.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 11:27 PM
10

I used SeekingArrangment whilst I was traveling for business. Despite doing rather well with Tinder in other cities, , I'm at the point in my life where I have more money than I can spend and little to no free time; so I thought I would invest in a membership and explore arrangements. I'm a relatively well-off engineering executive in my 20's in SF for business; I created a profile and within a day received an insane amount of messages (what I wager being a woman on tinder is like). I selected t…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 01:10 PM
9

She sounds like a cunt, life is short son so dump her. Lose weight, learn how to cook a healthy meal and then start a relationship with some who respects you and doesn't have a child.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/18 12:08 PM
6

3000 approaches?! Instead of investing time in women I invested that time in myself and I've become infinitely more attractive to women since; just two weeks ago I closed three different women in three days with relatively little effort than what I used to preTRP. A 7 can with lifting, dressing well, and applying himself in his career; be an 8 or 8.5.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 03:52 AM
3

Because that is marriage; it's the ebb and flow til death do us part. I'm not advocating that one should marry, but merely that marriage isn't a commitment before God to preserve that relationship and within that union raise a family despite things like loss of attraction during periods. I would only ever consider marriage within my cultural context; an extreme ultra-orthodox religious sect where marriages are between families and divorce is an almost non existent aberration (it exists but it's …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 01:49 PM
3

Culturally I want to have children and cohabitate with the mother. Legally this is marriage in my country.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 03:09 AM
551

The most powerful word in negotiation is no. It's a cruel irony that women want you to invest increasingly more time in them, but the moment you do you lose value because you acquiesce.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 12:48 AM
0

Women are also attracted to hot men with lower status, they just happen to filter status for LTR's. My question, is there data to suggest I am an outlier?
/r/askTRP09/07/18 12:00 AM
1

I invested in myself, I really didn't date until I was in a position where dating was not effortless but options emerged reasonably organically. I would wager I am the highest value male in most women I plate currently. Women lose attraction, you can be on the top of your world but she sees you half awake after a 12 hour day closing business. These things happen, mitigate the damage her moving will cause and have options.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 10:31 AM
0

I think you misunderstand my position, social status is how I filter women; I plate lower status women but for relationships, the primary filter is her family within the upper echelons. Would you not concede this as hypergamy? Other men I know who run their own businesses etc and are on the surface well connected and successful have expressed similar sentiments or have basically married into established families.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 10:14 AM
2

NNN agreements with manufacturers, patents, distribute your supply chain across multiple vendors, establish key partners with binding strategic agreements with monopoly suppliers or invite them to your board through investment or as an advisor.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 07:35 AM
1

I am perhaps an outlier but my question is, what provokes these almost uniform observations; on a scientific or anthropological level? Another poster suggested a biological implication. As in, a man can fuck many women without consequence to spread his seed whereas a woman get's one shot due to pregnancy; henceforth she has to be infinitely more. I think this is it, but then why are men also like me, and display the same characteristics of hypergamy etc?
/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:14 AM
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Good background on the context. Most men have no idea, they are cruising through life and this Jimmy is the second point I tried to reinforce. Be the best version of you, and secondly if you aren't the best man in your woman's life - work on it and ensure her character isn't questionable (all women are but to a point, but each woman has a different threshold).
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 06:02 AM
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Your post shows solid observations and at 25 I wasn't where you are so it's impressive. My feedback is purely points which I have learned which may be valuable insights to you and others who have hit a point where easy lays present themselves and when it's best to use the abundance you have and decline for safer bets.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 06:00 AM
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I'm a man and hypergamous ( I apply strictly within a relationship context). My question is, is this common sentiment amongst the men here, or just myself and a few other men I have discussed TRP within my close social circle. If you're dating an HB8 (to your values) and another woman who you perceive to be an HB9.5 demonstrates sexual interest in you for example. Would you not consider ending your relationship and branch swing?
/r/askTRP07/07/18 05:50 AM
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Marry a woman who displays as little red flags as possible - there are many posts here which illustrate points you want in a potential partner; ie solid father, good family values, low n count or is a virgin etc. I won't reinvent the wheel. Secondly, make sure you have rather solid SMV and are continuously improving. This will only mitigate being cheated on, but the key point here is to improve yourself and be very discriminating in who you select. It's not as bad as some men suggest; most women…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 05:42 AM
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Solid post but my feedback is to tread carefully. Women in relationships when caught cheating can and will drop allegations of rape; particularly if there are signs of choking. Sending messages on instagram to married women that work at the same firm is also rather unwise. If discovered, HR will not hesitate to dispose of you. This is aside from the reality that you're cuckolding another man; this is your moral choice but many here would concur, it is best to stick to women without the drama / i…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 05:33 AM
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This was the answer I was looking for; you touched on the biological imperatives which drive this behaviour.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 04:57 AM
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I mostly agree with everything you stated - I do give it more credit; somewhere between us lies the truth. European values mean free exchange of new ideas and change; it has however in recent year meant some rather bad ideas but this is temporary (I hope).
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 02:04 AM
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I agree, but you're applying a uniquely European post Enlightment view of the world to Islam. I can argue that the pursuit and understanding of science helps one understand Him and the world He fashioned but the reality is within Islam, submission before God is above all else. That is not to say that there isn't a history of acadmerics, science etc within Islam but it's not identified as a cultural high point, but rather the establishment of a society which is healthly (observant, chaste, charit…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 12:44 AM
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It is a historic fact that girls from the ages of 9–14 were married off in Europe, Asia, Africa and America. Saint Augustine ~350AD married a 10 year old girl. King Richard II ~1400AD married a 7 year old Henry VIII ~1500AD married a 6 year old The guy was an orphan who gathered an army of converts and conquerred most of the Arabian Peninsula and teachings are taught millenia after his death, and the only thing you can say is he married a 9 year old.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 12:13 AM
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How is anti-science misalligned with the red pill? Even as a person who personally dislikes Islam (at least in Europe) I would dispute your claim; as you only observe the last 100 years and not the 1400 years previous to that; including the but Islamic Golden age. They developed mass shifts like introducing parchment, Madrasa's which taught early Muslims to explore concepts like law (Sharia), theology and philosphy. Ibn Sina and Ibn Rushd played a major role in saving the works of Aristotle for …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 12:08 AM
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This is why Sharia law existed.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 12:00 AM
2

I'm in my 20's and have a higher profile which women assume means easy wealth (rich on paper but it's all tied to assets). I'm considering it but I want to actually have a large family one day, is it easily reversible? I've had a few women drop the "I'm pregnant line" and it's a stress I'd rather not have. I use protection, try not fuck gold diggers and dispose of condoms appropriately so I haven't felt an urgent need despite the risk.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 01:14 AM
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I understand the logic but TRP is best used not for easy lays, easy lays are easy and I'd often prefer to masturbate and then go for a run then invest time with a thot.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 07:27 AM
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I dated a BPD; it was a fun ride but I have the TRP to thank for pulling the trigger before it consumed me. She confessed she had been diagnosed BPD and even without knowing the nature of the disorder I dumped her twice (she wasn't Japanese but I had to drop the bomb a second time) to end the relationship. Not even worth a plate, 2/7 would not try again.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 07:22 AM
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Do not become a Mason, it's basically Judaism for gentiles.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:22 AM
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Don't become a freemason, they will use you as a instrument as you jump through more and more bizarre hoops and rituals. You're better investing your time networking and building your position; rather than seeing how far the rabbit hole goes in an occult society.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 05:19 AM
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Agreed, but a man who marries up typically still earns more. Statistically women of higher status inherent wealth through a trust, they don't earn it.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 12:31 AM
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Marrying your secretary and surprised it crashes and burns? Marrying down is always a bad idea.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 11:52 PM
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I wouldn't hamster it as being a grey line, we all know the line.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 01:40 AM
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You have choosen to be married and also invited your wife to cuckold you with men I assume who are higher in status than you. If you think this is awesome, all the best with the divorce.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 10:56 PM
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This sounds like an incredibly unwise decision.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 09:03 PM
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It's a personal preference but as a white man, there is no substitute to a tall European woman.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/18 02:51 AM
2

Absolutely, the biggest eye opener was plates telling me they just went on a date before they come over for sex. This guy wines and dines her. Last Friday night I was in an Uber home with a plate and in the silence she confesses the following. "I just had a date". "Did he get a kiss? Tell him I said hi". "Haha, no. I don't kiss on the first date". This was a woman that I plated after a coffee. I'll write up a FR on this woman as it was somewhat textbook in alpha / beta bucks dynamics.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 01:00 AM
1

I know it's not a panacea, but it's something which is a milestone I believe most men should do within their life.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 10:01 AM
2

I wrote a more detailed piece on this, read it. I started off later than most given army service and here I am.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 06:42 AM
1

Indeed, I used the analogy earlier, I'm like a climber who when at the apex sees there is another mountain, taller than the one before. I just have to move to take in the view and then climb the next one. I also recognise that the greater meaning is a family and a career that has more of a social impact but I'm working on that target concurrently. Thanks Apex.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 03:32 AM
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I have a lifelong mission but it feels like, you want to conquer a mountain, this is your purpose. You do it faster than anyone else, and yourself expected and the view from the top is another mountain, taller than the one before.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 10:20 PM
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Connect with startup founders, those who present at conferences in your selected vertical, men who inspire you, professors and alumni. These guys will be the people who will use nepotism to get you your first good roles, or at least open the door where one would have to be from a rich family otherwise. Consulting clubs, and management consulting is a good career choice for an accelerated career (lots of experience in a short period). It sounds like you're on a good direction, set quarterly OKR's…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 10:18 PM
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I feel intense melancholia. I'm at the peak in my career, I'm sleeping with women almost effortlessly and financially I'm far ahead of my peers in their 20's. I have close friends I see regularly and I've been investing more time in hobbies like sailing and hiking. And yet I have this apathy for it all. The more money I earn the less it means - it's just an abstraction, I realise that women (and most people) are a pointless time waste, goals which I thought were lofty were crushed. I don't think…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 02:16 PM
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CEO of a start up and make 7 figures in equity / cash. Surround yourself with men 10 years older who are where you want to be, learn from their experience. Work like a dog and have varied extracurriculars, network network network and get some solid undergraduate experience. Cut your teeth on a few years of solid roles and jump from company every 2-3 years with a promotion. If possible, get an MBA before you're 30 or at least an executive position. Have fun, travel light and save your money, get …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 01:58 PM
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Really? I make a killing off my social media which I have to do for my business anyway. Speaking functions, attending conferences in new cities, milestones I've killed at work and illustrating my passions and adventures for family and friends. My point is social media can be a low investment that many engage with already and is an effective complement if used accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 09:34 PM
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I'd assume you're right but I thought I would share my insights and hope someone would prove otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 09:20 PM
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I agree he should try to go for a younger woman but as later 20's guy, it feels odd to hit girls who were born after 911, I can't imagine the cultural difference one would get as a 50 year old.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 07:56 AM
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Leave this type of content for your diary.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 04:54 AM
1

Confirmation bias. Google engineer got fired for what reason then?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 12:03 PM
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I hate the sentiment that if x% of the male population degenerate, well better for me. It's like these men live in a vacuum. As Nietzsche said, those who dance are considered insane by those who can’t hear the music. When these corrupted values become the norm, as it is today; healthy values will be ostracised, challenged and then suppressed.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 02:58 AM
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This sentiment is always repeated. Think as you like but behave like others. TRP is like any unorthodox opinion, if you can illustrate some digestible points and it's well received, continue onward however know this. The TRP is so counter to the public narrative, that most people cannot understand or will not believe sentiments that challenge decades of programming.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 02:51 AM
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I had interns at my company make the system which I also use at my office also; it was originally a test project to see how they perform as engineers. They used modified arduinos that broadcast and save data to my companies server. You can probably buy your own IoT camera that has a subscription service. They used a sensor package to only film with an x minutes of motion. I have NBN at my work and apartment property and the resolution isn't incredibly high given it's a small camera so data wise …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 12:36 AM
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It is not sarcasm.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 12:19 AM
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I'm the CEO of a startup.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 09:30 AM
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When I think of far right I think of national socialism and fascism. What do you think of Pepe?
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 05:55 AM
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Because I'd rather not be in prison for a false rape charge.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 04:03 AM
5

The actual title is Multi - PMS & Period tracker. An easier approach is simply just create a monthly recurring calendar item in your schedule.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 03:56 AM
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Honestly it's not witty one liners. I thought it was my wit and dry sense of humour that got me laid, but I haven't gotten incredibly funner in the last decade since I was 18, I've realised 90% good looks / fashion, good logistics, status (I have an excellent job). If anything I probably speak less and use a drier sense of humour now.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 03:51 AM
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I have several nanny cams in my home for security purposes, most can store data for the last year online. If you have a nice apartment with expensive assets like a library collection it's a wise investment. I also have a travel one I use whilst away on business to monitor assets like my laptop, suits and any thing I do within the bedroom if there is no safe at the hotel or airbnb. If you're taking many women back to your place it's also relevant; however filming without consent is broadly illega…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 03:48 AM
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He stated far right. The far right is pretty explicit broadly when it comes to degeneracy, homosexuality, and family values.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 03:41 AM
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Most fighting aged men were placed in POW or work camps so it was reasonably common for French women to date German officers given the lack of men, rationing and their higher SMV (rank, uniform, salary, German had conquered most of Western Europe).
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 02:59 AM
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Wants easy sex as a homosexual. Far right. Pick one.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 02:33 AM
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So would being celibate. In a healthy societies, there is significantly lower BS associated with heteronormative sexual relations. The BS associated with sexual relations with women is because our society failed to promote healthy cultural values, promiscuity, homosexuality etc is a by product of this. The destruction of traditional gender roles, masculinity among males and destruction of femininity among females is such that men stoop to sodomy and a meaningless life of hedonism rather than hav…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 02:27 AM
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I was a nerd in highschool however my peers never grew out of it; it's the arrested development of men in a perpetual childhood. Men dressing as characters who display alpha qualities, Indiana Jones, Darth Vader, Mal Reynolds etc are men's men. I enjoy video games, cinema, anime and general popular culture, but the in group preference amongst nerds to an almost religious nature is destructive to young men.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 01:34 AM
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Feminism was a shit test that collectively the West failed to identify and shut down. Accordingly normalisation of divorce, secularism, homosexuality, transgenderism, mass immigration etc are all efforts to deconstruct the institutions of the West; these being, Family, Faith, Fatherland and Flag.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 01:22 AM
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I'll be contrarian, it can be done but know your audience and don't be an autist. I will drop a few sentiments which are red pilled, if the conversation is well received proceed forward; I had a close friend who actually revealed some very similar sentiments but without the jargon. We bounced ideas off each other and I suggested he explore TRP, and since it's made our friendship closer. That said, if it's not a close friend, or someone who isn't open to such sentiments, don't disclose what won't…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 01:14 AM
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Your posts lack a coherent thought, you haven't established an opinion and use a nihilistic facade to conclude it doesn't really matter anyway.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 03:42 AM
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In one post you suggest we should return to the natural order of things, restore man to his most basest instincts. And in the other you lament that reproduction and the desire to continue one's genes is merely a meme, ignoring the inherent biological imperative that is to go forth and multiply. The nihilist concludes death is the end of all things, but the actions you do within this life continue onwards, be it in literature, in architecture, in artwork, in legacy. Children are your genetic and …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 03:20 AM
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I absolutely would be, but I don't want to be content, I want to challenge myself. I would also suggest that mankind since domestication of animals and establishment of agriculture has never followed caveman programming, in fact I would say it's within our programming that as apex predators to create our destiny, man made shelters, literature, mechanical engineering and the internet etc.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 02:33 AM
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Good question, the number next to the names of certain users are flair points. Points are awarded to users by ECs for insightful comments and constructive participation. While points do not represent official endorsement, a user with a high point count is well on the road to a full endorsement.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 02:23 AM
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If a man has abundance, these non physicalqualities can make one more discriminating; as women are with men. If a woman is hot but a SJW, or uses heroin, is a mudshark etc I will most likely not even plate her. You neglect to recognise this at all which is the inherent point of his statement.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 09:18 AM
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I've read / am reading his work after seeing the recent television series on his capture. It's rather interesting and I agree with his observations but not the conclusions. In Fight Club their goal was the reconstruction of the modern world due to degeneracy, I think however there is a way to be advanced by observe traditions. Archifuturism is a great book on this sentiment, if you read French or can find a translation it's worth picking up.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 09:12 AM
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I appreciate your honesty, I think my pursuit will challenge me to be the best person rather than the assessment that we are fucked. I will do the best to defend my family and by extension my race to secure their future. Nihilism is the ideology of a spiritless people without direction.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 12:23 AM
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Savitri Devi writes some interesting contnet on the Kali Yuga, the Kali Yuga is the last of the four stages. The Decline of the West or The Downfall of the Occident, is a two-volume work by Oswald Spengler which I think is more coherent and academic.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 12:00 AM
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History is not in that direction because the men who know something is wrong, are enjoying the decline rather than as in previous generation taking leadership. It's such a joke that even women are taking leadership roles within our societies because most men do not step up to this responsibility. What is your view of a good use of human effort, don't tell me a problem, tell me your solution.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 11:57 PM
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I'm reading Ted Kaczynski's Industrial Society and Its Future, and your sentiment is quite similar. You're both correct, I would agree that the struggle of survival is perhaps above my current existence. But what is the end game of pre civilised societies? To become civilised. Humanity will move to the next frontier; my work I hope will help enable that through applied robotics. Meanwhile, you're celebrating men to lift, fuck bitches and hunt animals. What is more like the dog? The man who dream…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 11:34 PM
1

So a man attractiveness is the combination of his aesthetics, his status, his interests and passions, his ambition and success vocationally, but a woman's attractiveness is one dimensional? Women who give away their only asset to many men are not low quality? I would disagree and suggest a woman's virtue in absolutely her appearance but other elements should factor into this, per behaviour and personality included. Holding beauty on a pedestal as the pinnacle of everything encourages the exact b…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 11:22 PM
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Men here who preach that the modern world is dead spiritually, monogamy is dead, don't have children, lift and fuck bitches, and then wonder why modern men lack direction or meaning in their life are I wager a part of the problem. You observe the symptoms of societies decline, and then encourage the same false Gods that lead to this. Pre civilisation society was short, brutal and even more meaningless than today. I have vocation which challenges me creatively, I travel a third of the year for bu…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 11:09 PM
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They are impossible to find on tinder. Not impossible if one looks within cultures where statistically they're common, ie Opus Dei church etc. A woman who is at 6am daily mass is more likely to not have had a late night partying, if she's vetted accordingly she's a safer bet for marriage than some thot you picked up on tinder. Most men know this, but they both want a woman that will have sex with them but also to be not promiscuous. This is impossible.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 09:42 PM
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You make an assumption then call that inaccurate assumption foolish. That isn’t at all what I said. My point was don’t marry a whore, you will mitigate the risk inherit in marriage.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 06:57 AM
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Men marry whores and are surprised they cheat on them. Statistically if you marry a woman with 0-1 partners, divorce rate is single digits, extremely low. Yes, a woman can cheat without getting a divorce; but the majority of men I know who are divorced are because they committed to very low quality women. Are there such thing as high quality women? Not exactly, but you can mitigate the risk by avoiding the red flags if you're set on getting married and having children despite the inherit risks.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 12:49 AM
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History is the autobiography of great men. I’m 28, I’ve served in the military, deployed alongside Norwegians in ISAF, created my own company, invented and patented new technologies. I intend on making a difference before I die. Children extend my legacy and continue it. You have no meaning and see none in beyond your life. I can’t convince you to be a man of reason when you are so myopic. No further responses are required, this conversation is over because I am speaking to a dead man.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 01:23 PM
1

Good, I look forward to your removal from the gene pool. In the meanwhile I’ll have as many children as one can sustainably. The future belongs to the people who inherit it.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 01:17 PM
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Because as a man we hold the burden of civilisation on our shoulders. Your nation, your extended family’s culture will be deracinated, and the civilisation your forefathers built will be destroyed. If this doesn’t concern you, please then by all means do not procreate.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 01:12 PM
1

This is why Europe is dying.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 12:47 PM
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I run a startup and one of my friends was a VC early on in paypal and retired after that fund. Mind you Musk founded x.com but his reflection on musk was that it was Thiel who was the operator and executor. Musk wanted to create something more like bitcoin, highly conceptual but difficult to regulate and finance through traditional venture capital. Thiel was more commercially focused, pivoting towards a payment solution for eBay etc. Musk's following ventures are successful but heavily engaged w…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 03:47 AM
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I explored BDSM and I will confess, from my experience it's a hedonic treadmill where you continue to push the envelop for that new taboo. You start with choking and impact as the gateway, and the destination is something which I would broadly not encourage - for me it was sadism. It almost corrupted normal sex for me and the women I found who enjoy it are almost uniformly ruined (!) women. Breaking in new girls is preferred but exercise caution and record everything, last minute regret can and …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 03:04 AM
1

I am talking about within friends not random individuals.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 11:53 PM
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I appreciate your honesty, but with friends like this who needs enemies. The red pill is without morals, but I must confess; I would cut a friend out like cancer if he did that to my friends or I.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 11:29 PM
1

Would you do this to a friend? I would disagree, most men would understand there is an expectation of good behavior between friends , i.e don't fuck your friends sister, don't fuck his girlfriend, if your friend is pursuing a woman move to another etc.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 11:14 PM
1

I appreciate the feedback. I have penned in some time next week where I’ll step back, if I change my mind I can reopen but at the moment it’s too early to settle particularly when my SMV is increasing dramatically the last few years.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 05:14 AM
1

I've been dating a 28yo Doctor, should I pull the trigger and end it before an LTR. Positives, well-educated doctor with a solid career ahead of her, she's hardworking and years ahead of her peers, she's literally a virgin and spends most of her free time horse riding and with her family (most of her friends are female doctors). She's incredibly loyal, easy to read, she know's my value and is a blank canvas with very little experience with men. Negatives, she has no life outside of work and hors…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 03:31 AM
1

Are you a working professional? If yes, no. If you are a student, ask someone who is not a friend, are you more attractive with or without long hairs (reddit has a place to ask this question). Thirdly; if you ask the question you know the answer.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 03:17 AM
2

Trust you're gut, I did a post here with a similar question. Pull the trigger, absent father is usually a positive sign and your value with only increase whilst hers with do the opposite.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 03:13 AM
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Agreed, over 35 is death for women in dating dynamics.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 04:58 AM
2

What is the Buddhist thought towards desires which are immaterial, i.e personal goals, career driver KPI's etc?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 02:18 AM
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I'm going to be contrarian here and agree with the statement, there are few good men. To be a good man, one has to invest in his career, have varied hobbies and passions, be successful, taller and dress well. 90% of men do not do this. To be a good woman, in contrast one only needs to reasonably friendly, employed and have a healthy weight. There are far more female 8's than there are male 8's in the 20's age bracket. Most good men are locked down in their early to mid 20's I've found.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 02:16 AM
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My father raised my siblings (my sister included). He was strict, had rules and was uncompromising. He instilled in us good values and demonstrated leadership. At the time I thought he was sometimes an asshole but I was fortunate for him being the father he was.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 02:02 AM
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I'm self employed and have <20 employees, mostly engineers; but I would disagree with the sentiment employees are making their boss rich. Being an employee has it's advantageous, you can be paid to learn skills within an industry without the risk of managing your own company. That said, it's difficult to become financially independent by being purely an employee but if you flip between corporates it's possible without exhausting hours being a director can entail.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 02:01 AM
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I'm in the same position, great girl, low n count, good family. I should be interested but I'm running my own firm and we are about to double in the next year. I have no emotional energy or time to invest in a LTR but the thought of ending it makes me feel like a mistake. I'll bite the bullet next week when I jet home. All the best.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 07:38 AM
3

Starting a business and applying the same thinking totally changed my approach with women. We only pull sub 100m revenue which is great but no way in his ballpark, it's staggering how one managing several multi-billion dollar companies can be so bad at managing recruitment & HR for the most important role, the mother of his children.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 07:32 AM
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I won’t cross the rubicon but I have thought about it. It’s like knowing riding a motorcycle is dangerous but doing it anyway. I’m in my 20’s, I have plenty of time to delay these mistakes.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 12:41 PM
4

Understood.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 12:19 PM
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But studies have shown marrying a woman with 0-1 partners, divorce rate is <10%. If one wants to have children, in many nations it’s a civil marriage by the law. My lawyer suggested in my jurisdiction that a solid prenup and establishing a trust can mitigate financial exposure (he has similar net worth and it worked for him during his divorce). I think marriage is broken as an institution but within the parameters of family is it not a necessary evil?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 11:43 AM
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His sentiment is lift and then go for taken women. I would argue lift and then cut your teeth on single women. Taken women want drama and or to branch swing, it’s unwise counsel to do otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 11:27 AM
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I’m not surprised but it’s less characteristic to not care even about appearances amongst the wealthy. When I mean wealthy I mean 7 figures or so.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 11:21 AM
2

Any men here in relatively solid LTR or married with kids have any advice on how they juggle it? I exited a 4-year relationship recently and felt like I was Atlas holding the world on my shoulders. I have a relatively high status now but the women I see now are more challenging than before taking the pill (better looking etc). I want to have a family one day so I appreciate any insights.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 08:01 AM
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Higher class girls cheat absolutely but I've found girls from wealthier families tend to have a higher degree of shame around cheating (especially if they come from solid families). She didn't even entertain the facade of a mea culpa.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 07:55 AM
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What's the benefit of gaming a taken woman? The risk/reward is low. She's unfaithful so clearly not worth anything more than just sex, and for sex, there are plenty women who aren't taken with lower barriers to entry. That's ignoring the threat of physical violence and/or morals that may or may make it questionable.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 07:52 AM
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6,2, I’m assume you’re in the US. Surprised at that height you are not killing it. Drop by men fashion subreddit and get some good clean outfits that are versatile. I also found a few tailored suits with some nice pocket ties made women open me, around half the women I pick up randomly have been due to clothing openers.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 10:24 AM
2

Sexual behavior in pre-civilised societies typically had men in higher status with many females, but seldom the opposite which we observe in post sexual liberation Western societies. What is natural is irrelevant anyway, our nature is to beat another male to death with a stone to aquire the female.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 04:36 AM
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TRP is ambivalent ethically. Personally, I've been the other man and I avoid it for a few reasons, it's risky, there is an abundance of alternatives and I'd like to less of an asshole where possible. Some men are more pragmatic, if not them then some other man.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 04:31 AM
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I have to ask, what is your fashion / facial aesthetics like? I'm not tall but I walked into a few easy lays in my blue pill days simply due to facial aesthetics.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 04:29 AM
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"The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark." Michelangelo
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 07:00 AM
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"Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely." John Dalberg-Acton, 1st Baron Acton
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 06:39 AM
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I'm anti abortion, it's surprising to see others see it as common sense that abortion a baby is killing it. Most women my age straight face see my punching a pregnant woman as murder but abortion as removing a bunch of cells.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 05:32 AM
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Also from Sydney, I'd love to connect with others here IRL; pm me if any lads interested.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 05:30 AM
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Men have always struggled with their meaning. It's just the struggle for survival was more present than it is today. Nietzsche said 'He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how'; the why is obvious. Self-actualisation, be the best man you can be. But when your own civilisation is deconstructing itself, Western men see no reason to throw themselves over the trench and into the machine guns; they choose to opt out. At this time we should do the opposite, double down. It's not blaming othe…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 04:06 AM
2

Address your thoughts. Why does it bother you now?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 03:35 AM
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Delay your response and either agree and amplify "My wife said the same thing, we should proabbly we should have less sex Sally", or address it directly with a simple response "I like sex, you like sex, let's not overcomplicate it Sally". You have a bigger sexual appreptite than her, make sure you're rotating her with other women. If she's you're only plate, get another. Women want men with options.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 03:35 AM
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Teach your son a new language, it's not podcast related but seriously it makes a world of difference. You want to be the best father you can be, listen to podcasts that make you a well-rounded man, my father I could talk to about politics, theology, women, history; listen to podcasts so you can be his fountain of knowledge. Kids ask a ton of useful questions, why do bubbles hold tension, who made the borders of France, how do engines work? Also, listen to podcasts at 1.5x or 2x speed, your mind …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 03:28 AM
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No, not wanting to fuck another man's wife is not white knighting. A cheating married women displays in inherent a lack of loyalty. It would be white knighting to give your most greatest resource (time) to unloyal women.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 03:15 AM
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Women want you to be a man. They look to you for strength. It's like when you're growing up and you see your father cry, it confronts the position that this man is a stoic rock in your life that is unmoving. Accept this reality, it is what it is. Vector that energy where it can be used, go to the gym and hit a speed bag.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 03:12 AM
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The reality is she doesn't like giving headjobs, this suggests she's done it before. You don't have enough value in her eyes to warrant a sexual act for your satisfaction. You're already having sex so I assume she displays some interest - just not enough, perhaps it will take more time or perhaps not. That said, if she doesn't do it during the honeymoon phase, it's unlikely you've presented enough value for her to concede. If she doesn't want to make you happy, then you should reciprocate. Termi…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 01:16 AM
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"Next time you fuck her, climb on top of her face, jam your dick in her mouth, and literally face fuck her. Women love that shit, I promise." Don't do this. Unless you have solid frame, it's a good way to get slapped with a rape charge. If he doesn't present enough value for her to give him head, it's difficult to assume that position of power, especially in sex.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 09:57 PM
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She's 23 and works as a waitress. She clearly isn't making good long term choices.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 03:35 AM
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If you refuse to have children, you consign the future to those that will.
/r/MGTOW11/03/18 03:27 AM
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Men going their own way. My way is business - women exist in business. Men don’t give up their lifetime for acquiring unnecessary high amounts of money, I do it because I love my vocation and money buys options. Your way is unique to you.
/r/MGTOW08/03/18 11:22 AM
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What about your legacy, I subscribe to a lot of values with MGTOW but want a family despite knowing the inherent risk. Does one simply know this is a false God and live life accordingly?
/r/MGTOW08/03/18 07:37 AM
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Jews.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 07:56 AM
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I researched the market using sources like IDG and determined it was worth the gamble. Around $200k USD so save everything.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 09:52 PM
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I never stick to whatever comes my way, women will pursue you purely for money. At first I assumed I had got better with women, I merely was a better mark. Honestly I care less about women than I did before, they’re time parasites. The reason why I denote wealthy daughters is is alignment of direction; they have more to lose entering a relationship and the ones who are raised well are worth the investment. If they are sailing on every Sunday dawn, less chances they were out partying the night pr…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 09:29 PM
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One C level and early employee up to 10%, the lowest a fraction of 1%. Depends on how early they came in and what type of risk they took. It's not too expensive, golf club fees will kill you. Sailing is more for leisure, you network with good people though but not my industry. Good place to meet daughters of wealthy men though. Another good place is male only gentleman clubs, they cost a lot but given you access to international venues and networks. Mostly older / retired professionals but being…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 07:49 AM
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We're B2B hardware, the margins are too low for domestic manufacturing or to go outside of China /Taiwan. People will fuck you everywhere where you can make money, there are ways to avoid it. Languages are useful if you're in an international setting particularly if it appears you cannot speak said language. Chinese will speak openly in Chinese at a board room meeting and assume you can't understand. If you're doing oil and gas, Arabic or Russian, if you're working in manufacturing, Mandarin, et…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 07:40 AM
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Equity? A lot. 30% in total. Hobbies. Fuck hobbies. My work involves my hobby. I go golfing a lot for work. I sail on Sundays. I go hiking and camping when possible. I sometimes take a day off just because, but I like my work as it's always changing and it makes me learn new things. *Skills I know 3d modeling, basic electrical engineering, code (is shit but I know c and c#). Honestly, in the first few months it's good to know and from a fundamentals perspective it's useful but hire to fill these…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 06:18 AM
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All manufacturing is in Mainland China.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 06:10 AM
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Wake up at 6 or 7, walk and feed dogs. Cycle to work. Breakfast and respond to US emails / phone calls. Stand up meeting with team at 10. Work until noon on mentally engaging tasks. Lunch at desk or walking and eat whilst I take calls with China. Back to work, work until 6. Cycle and listen to podcast on 2x speed or take more calls. Cook a meal. Work out and take calls with China / Taiwan concurrently. Walk and cook dogs meal. Work on laptop for last minute emails so US team is moving forward. R…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 08:37 AM
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Flexibility, tax neutral, low cost, efficient structure (no annual filings etc), confidential, quick to establish. BVI is perfect of off shoring assets.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 03:59 AM
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Not yet but I'll add it to my list and pick it up on my kindle.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 01:55 AM
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Try to be multi-disciplined, have knowledge in 3d modeling, basic software development (c#), rapid prototyping (CNC, 3d printing) and also manufacturing processes. Bonus points if you can speak a little Mandarin. Any experience like the above will put you ahead, or demonstration that you have independentlydesigned and made a project.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 01:54 AM
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Keep up the great work, but it's important you position the business that it can reward the founders so that you're putting coin aside as the business grows.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 01:50 AM
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It's useful socialisation absoutely, I never did it and regret it but yeah, you could invest that time more wisely. That said, life is serendipitous.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 01:44 AM
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It gets better, trust me. You have the world at your feet, kill it.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 12:18 AM
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True, I spend more time in China's VC ecosystem and it's performing quite differently from the SF VC scene. Do you think it's a bubble stateside?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 11:26 PM
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Needing to work something that pays the bills is cool but if you can extend yourself further and get paid also, go for it.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 10:51 PM
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We went from unknown to news of us working with the largest OEM and their main customer. Customers came to us. It's very easy to generate this type of press exposure. We were covered in WSJ, and Guardian and it then distilled to a few hundred publications. I spent $0 on advertising. Leverage the press.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 09:54 PM
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Thanks. The rise and fall is fast in this industry so I'm under no illusion. That said, once this business is sold I can repeat much quicker with my own capital and with an exit under your belt, getting VC capital is significantly easier.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 09:51 PM
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I turned 100k into a 10m+ in 2 years, double that a year later. It's best to stick to investments you know rather than riding industries which I'm uninformed.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 09:48 PM
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Achieving something which you value as a challenge, publish a book, run a marathon, paint a self portrait, master French, finish a tour of Saxony. I have a bucket list that I'm slowly working through. Aquire experiences and talents that make you a more well rounded man.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 03:08 PM
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I'm not European, most of my business was in my home country and remaining 50% split between China (Shenzhen, Beijing and Taipei) and SF. I have EU citizenship through family.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 02:13 PM
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I wanted the product, it didn't exist; or at least cheaply ($1.5k - $70 with our solution). Honestly, there wasn't a significant degree of forethought after patents were filed, in hindsight I would have went with a nonhardware startup that could engage B2C to lessen the early stage financial hurt I put on my shoulders. Our approach had custom components that had massive MOQ and several under thousand in NRE alone. It meant we went from wanting to make around 1,000 units a year to selling it only…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 02:11 PM
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Who you know is important, but your opener has to capture their attention. The initial email has to be an illustration of a product that is compelling. Later on, if your product has exposure or warm intro's from mutual connections absolutely helps but in early days, and to also close deals, it's all down to the product and your technology. For procurement and contract related networking, establish who the decision makers are, we hired a guy from their team; he ended up selling our tech to his ma…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 01:32 PM
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Honestly, I was dating a much older women who made bank. My father had also been successful before his business collapsed in the 80's. I wanted to try it before it was too late, I had no kids, no wife and no excuses. I was working long hours and wanted build something of my own. A big part of what drove me is I knew I had a good product and once we hired people, I didn't want to let them down. They invested in the idea, and I wanted to make sure their stock, and mine also didn't die. First mento…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 01:22 PM
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We developed the MVP and sold that to strategic partners (our technology used their display). They loved it and helped sell it up the value chain. If we went direct, it would have been a hard no. We manufacture it through Contract Manufacturers; we take the risk and sell it to the OEM that integrates it into the full consumer product like laptops. B2B is also leader takes all, lower margins but we partner with the leaders and leverage their volume. We make small margins but small margins * large…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 01:15 PM
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I've mentioned some books before, How to Make Friends and influence people, Hard things about hard things, Zero to One. Role models, I can't directly but my father, the SVP of the company acquiring us, and the Director of a Strategic Partner. Terry Guo, Barry Lam are some other inspirations.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 01:13 PM
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It's an interesting perspective, but sex as a bonding activity because she "doesn't have anything else to offer" would suggest she's pretty basic. If she's smart wouldn't she build rapport without going for the low hanging fruit?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 01:03 PM
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I knew the market was large because most consumers have two or three of our products integrated in consumer electronics they own, we didn't work from market backward but rather consumer demand. The first point of being able to hire was done through a matched funding state grant, for every dollar I put in the Govt matched. We later were able to secure a grant from a strategic partner before they invested in a Pre Series A round. This funded most of the intial staff but I didn't pay myself for a f…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 12:40 PM
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Most of our founders were technical. I developed a lot of the skillset during selling the vision to strategics and investors but to close our large B2B deals we hired two BDM who had experience working for the company we were selling to. Sales is difficult to master but typically for our product the most compelling sales element was product and specification focused, sale leads came to us due to press exposure so it made the job much easier.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 12:37 PM
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I was lucky in some respects, my first corporate role had a massive restructure and a lot of senior engineers and management were fired so I was thrust into a must senior role quite early. I reinvested that experience and increased sallary to start my company.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 10:32 AM
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No but the company aquiring our company is.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 09:59 AM
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Listen to their actions, their behaviour and not what they say.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 09:58 AM
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No but company buying our company is.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 09:55 AM
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Hemingway said “Any man's life, told truly, is a novel”. I found when I first started approaching women, on the train etc to ease into I started having conversations with anyone, not just younger attractive women. I developed a genuine interest in people's story. Simple stuff but FORD (family, occupation, recreation, and dreams) are easy platforms to learn a lot about a person very quickly and if you do 10% of the talking. People will fill silence and tell you what's on their mind in an unfilter…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 08:57 AM
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PM the mods and they can verify. I'm not going to dox myself. Thanks for the kind words too.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 08:17 AM
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Appreciate the kind word Ninja.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 07:46 AM
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Keep at it, one tip I have is pre-rev, if you have good metrics and growth hit up some early seed investment to accelerate the growth. SaaS startups tend to raise well on potential alone if the team is solid.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 07:41 AM
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Good product first, a good 30% that demonstrates potential. Then sell to partners to leverage their market and customers. I'm around 40% technical / 60% commercial on time investment currently. That said, a good product will make selling easier.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 06:20 AM
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We did one round given to lock in our strategic partners and reinvested profit. Some business models aren't sustainable without doing SC + rounds like Amazon. Razor thin margins but incredibly disruptive. I do agree that companies like Snap are incredibly overvalued but they're incredibly rare within the industry.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 06:18 AM
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Interesting stuff, thinking of starting something in this area. I'd love to hear what your thesis is on.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 06:10 AM
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We manufacture a component which is used in consumer electronics. It's 10% thinner, uses 90% less power (makes laptops thinner) and has a significantly better user experience. We were able to partner with a large OEM and leverage their customer base to secure large volume B2B contracts (not licensing as margins were unsustainable). I studied engineering - it was almost free to attain my degree in my country. It's useful for engineering and hard sciences and for validation to investors but to ans…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 06:08 AM
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Exactly, in my post I stated "It is only through a life struggle that you will achieve greatness. The good life will kill you long before you are dead" and it was absolutely true for me at 25. I thought if I was getting n count and working 9-5 I was good, I invested way too much time in good times and chasing pussy. The more time I invested in me, the more pussy chased me.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 06:03 AM
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Basically what I'm doing now. Start another company with early employees in robotics - it's a little more cash intensive. Donate some more money to charities I'm passionate about - veterans and homelessness. Set my family up so they are financially independent. Invest more into political campaigns and lobbying - assist the funding of far right grass roots movements like Génération Identitaire and other Nouvelle Droite movements.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 06:01 AM
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I bet that content already exists - if anyone finds one please link it. I sold my bitcoins (I sold early and didn't make bank). Crypto is interesting but currently a lot of unsophisticated investors are doubling down, i.e when Doug from next door is day trading, you know it's a bubble market. There are some interesting emerging applications of blockchain outside of currency though.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 05:55 AM
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Doing what you love is success. Be financially independent is your goal, outside of that and you're good.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 05:52 AM
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Honestly, after I sell this business I want to do another focused on an area I'm passionate about. Mostly applications around robotics and AI; but using the skills I've learned in optimisation and design for manufacture to bring Boston Dynamics type of products to affordable level that consumers could purchase one (<$10,000 COGS). Mostly for simple applications like household tasks like dog walking, folding laundry etc. After this, maybe something to do with politics. I'm a joint European citize…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 05:30 AM
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Name me one post Series C startup that didn't utilise networks for seed capital or government grants? As a government employee, you clearly don't know the industry you're commenting about, these grants specifically exist to be spent. Most will have published KPI's on how many grants were issued in a highly competitive process. What's sleezy about this process? Early stage employee's made 7 figures on their equity, they built the company, why wouldn't they be issued substantial equity? Most of th…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 04:31 AM
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Thanks, appreciate you highlighting the parallels that translate very well to sexual dynamics. It reminds me of the quote by Oscar Wilde “Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.”
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 04:12 AM
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Most firms do this. Even well funded startups like Spacex overwork and underpay their talent - people do it for the passion and experience. You will have to take advantage of people to get ahead sometimes; but reward those who make this sacrifice. In regards to the account history, new account. When I started the company in 2016 I didn't have time to post, I mostly lurked and dropped by once a week to read top posts.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 03:47 AM
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Doing it solo is near impossible. If you can't recruit someone then get another founder.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 03:41 AM
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There was no big events for the first two years, work like a dog in obscurity for 2 years. Then one day you're an overnight success. You will work on the small pivot points, seed funding, govt grants, locking in early partnerships with strategics, and then securing first large contracts. Mentors will point you in the right direction - get this federal grant, meet with the BDM to sign off a strategic supply agreement etc, follow their advice as you won't know everything. The moment you stop faili…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 03:38 AM
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I founded the company with a good friend. He was smarter, sharper and a better executive in every category. He bailed early on in the company due to personal reasons, long hours, low pay, bitch girlfriend et al. Persistence is incredibly important. In regards to authors, yes. Social influencers are very easy to connect with, if you look at the twitter handle and forgot my password, you will usually be able to find anyone's email or through five minutes of googling. 100% of 60% of the time they'l…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 03:33 AM
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Get experience, during summer instead of backpacking try to get some industry experience or volunteer at a company to cut your teeth. If you tutor at college, pay other students to tutor other students and cut your margin from the top. A good friend of mine had this hustle and it paid more than his post grad engineering job - simply having having Chinese students teach Australian students physics and math at inflated prices.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 03:25 AM
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To answer your question, as per the post. Your board of advisors and mentors should be your early investors and network to other early investors. Rich people know rich people. Use platforms like angellist, events and linkedin to generate intial leads, then exploit network to expand it. If you can, avoid dilution and bootstrap with money from customers. Early stage / angel investors aren't worth the dilution unless they have network that can shift you into a Series A round. If you dilute, do your…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 03:21 AM
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Anyone else at Stage 5 feel isolated? The easier it is to get laid, the lower I value women. Most women I'll close on the first interaction, in the back of my mind I'll conclude she's a slut and not worth committing. Pizza is good, but I don't want half eaten pizza. I have a good circle of close friends and mentors, after you've done everything in business the next item is family. Most of my mentors are from a generation where women were ostensibly more loyal due to societal pressures. I'm seein…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 03:05 AM
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She's still a parasite though. Still a fool and his money...
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 01:35 AM
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Is that predicated on current society context alone? I would argue that this rule is correct but would you suggest that (nostalgia aside); women in previous generations could love a man (or more so than women do today)? My mother is a good example of this, and grandmother cared for my grandfather before he passed away. That said, these are biased individual observations so I'm hesitant to suggest the rule only applies to today.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 01:16 AM
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Tell her you're going for an evening run, or you're going upstairs to the office to write, or learn coding or whatever. The only thing holding back your dreams isn't your woman, it's you.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 01:41 AM
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If you're not autistic about it, it can be done appropriately. Drop a few remarks and see if they bite. If your statements are received positively then reveal further. The TRP is like politics, theology etc; shut your trap if the other party doesn't want to hear your soliloquy. I don't talk TRP with friends who don't have an interest in contrarian or unorthodox ideas. However, some of my closest friends are that because we can share and talk frankly. Not all relationships are built on transparen…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 06:56 AM
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Mentors are usually better than books. As is practice. Leadership in a football team, organising anything which involves people is the best way to become a better leader. I could suggest books like How to Make friends and influence people but it’s best to learn this content by doing.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 07:12 AM
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Opes Dei marriages I've observed particularly; especially between the higher socio-economic level. It's the only community in which I've dated seriously.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 04:47 AM
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What was the fallout, I'm curious.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 04:45 AM
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I agreed with everything until MGTOW part. Can you expound on your life since you made that shift? I'm curious as I still want a partner in life but the pragmatic side of me knows it's pretty fucking retarded.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 04:44 AM
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Also in Australia. I ended a 4 year relationship last year. For 12 months my ex-has a window to claim my assets. I ended up having to move my company equity (90% of my net worth) to a BVI trust which is ridiculous. It costs a few k a year in accounting fees and is a solid tool for any man with assets he can shift overseas that are worth a few million dollars US. She had said sarcastically (read not sarcastic) that she would divorce rape me; despite her being a Doc and making around $250k.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 04:43 AM
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Personal question but do you find the further you push that point, it becomes like a hedonic treadmill?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 04:27 AM
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I'm loving seeing authors like Evola are getting a renaissance today.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 04:25 AM
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Why is it worth fucking her after the breakup? I find expressing the breakup concisely, and then never talking or minimal engagement is apt. I wager you're further along than most guys in the TRP; but for those who aren't; fucking a girl you have history with is not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 04:20 AM
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I've slept with married women during business trips. I used to have a rule against, I still kind of do but I break that rule occasionally. I don't feel great about it, it's usually a spontaneous decision but I have felt pangs of guilt when I see social media photos of the happily married couple. I try to avoid investing in women which clearly demonstrate low loyalty (ie if I can fuck her whilst she's locked in, she'll do it again). It's also unwise as some married men will vector their anger tow…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 04:13 AM
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Create objectives with quantifiable milestones. If he is a mechanical engineer, design this component by the project plan timeline, if he is a sales executive, close this contract or get the MSA signed by the client, etc. Appeal to their competitive drive. Men want a challenge, they want to grow, they want someone who recognizes their hard work and rewards it. If you close x or perform beyond my slightly high expectation, we'll have a glass of whiskey to celebrate, I'll note your high performanc…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 01:20 AM
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It's called empathy. Grinding on some girl that is evidently on a date is a cunt thing to do, you can do it but I'll still think you're a cunt. You've been on the other side of the equation; I think you understand the sentiment.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 01:13 AM
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Your company is only as good as your team, they execute on your vision. If you only select replaceable drones, your business is fucked. Hire the best, the best just happen to be mostly male in my experience.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 12:57 PM
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Marrying outside race is a terrible idea, what's the point of having children if your children don't even resemble you?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 12:53 PM
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Women are easier to work with - perhaps but men get shit down. We have a few dozen employees (engineering startup) and kept mostly male even for non engineering roles. That said our best employee is a female Havard grad but she's a gem. Women broadly as you noted aren't ambitious - the best thing I did was give equity to early engineering employees; they earned a shitty first year salary but that sweaty equity paid off for the first 20 employees. We closed our Series A, have good salaries + bonu…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 12:29 PM
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The hard things about hard things Zero to 0 The American Challenge by Jean Jacques The Black Swan Honestly, the best knowledge you will find will be from books and mentors; but I stress mentors. My company has offices in three continents and the universal thing is understand people, how to find good talent and manage them, how to sell a product, how to sell a vision to VC's, these skills can be learned but usually by action alone. If you don't have a good idea or vision, cut your teeth on workin…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 12:19 PM
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How did you find your girl and how do you know she's into you and not your wealth? My startup hit an inflection point and I've come from being $0 man to being worth 8 figures. I live frugally (no car, rent a bedroom in my brother's house) but dress nicely and work out. Recently my business has had more exposure so whenever I date women and they google my somewhat distinctive name (it's not Anglosaxon); they automatically assume a millionaire has most of that money liquid, just sitting in a bank …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 12:17 AM
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A friend I wing does this consistently; even with married women (ring on) - he likes the challenge/amusement. I personally think it's a low-class move, there's a social contract that would respect another man's place. It's a challenge to his dignity. In the three countries, he's done this, around 20% of the time results in a fight or escalation which ruins the night and your reputation with the staff. Pussy isn't worth getting glassed in the face.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 06:29 AM
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There will be a war before the collapse. “If the day should ever come when we must go, if some day we are compelled to leave the scene of history, we will slam the door so hard that the universe will shake and mankind will stand back in stupefaction..” ― Joseph Goebbels
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 02:35 AM
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Feminism was a shit test and men failed it collectively. Speaking of conspiracy, funny how 1% of the population is coincidentally involved.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 02:33 AM
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"This is why a "enjoy the decline" is the only mentality you should have." There are things more important than fucking pussy. The reason the decline exists because the few men that recognize the decline choose to exploit it for pussy and cede control to the left, women and migrants. Men collectively are Atlas, we hold the eternal responsibility of civilization on our shoulders. Western Civilisation needs men to be leaders. If you see the destruction of your civilization, would a leader enjoy th…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 02:31 AM
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Honestly, with a woman from a religious family? Unlikely. There are no unicorns. If you're already fathered a son and have gone through marriage, I'd focus on raising your son to have a strong father figure and keeping an amicable relationship with the mother of your child. Also confirm he's actually your son if he's under <5. Try the above anyway as it's always best to increase your status and date in new circles.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 02:44 AM
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As a traditionalist man you must recognize the nature of women, hypergamy exists. Therefore one must retain a sufficiently high SMV whilst selecting a woman who by her actions is a mitigated risk as an investment for a life partner / bear your children. I focused on myself for three years, built up my status and wealth, started my own company, I build up an incredible team and was able to become independently wealthy. As much as I control my business, it controls me, I do have to work 60 hour we…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 02:29 AM
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Treat women according to their actions. If she's a whore, treat her like a whore. Treating all women like whores will basically filter your success for whores only. "Pump and dump and start looking for a new whore". Where is the value in men spending time looking for new whores or spending time with whores generally? They're low hanging fruit.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 10:11 PM
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Nurses gossip insanely, this seems like playing with fire especially if you're married. There is no need to fish for validation, you know your worth.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 02:27 AM
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Ethnicity is West European. Father was raised religious but I was raised agnostic; I was baptized as an adult. My mother's relationship with my father is good, my father can be difficult to be married to - traditional genders roles etc.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 03:01 AM
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My sister is 30 now, married her first boyfriend (from 16 years) and has two children in a middle class home. My brother is law found my father to be cold, difficult to impress etc but he did confess one thing; he knew how to raise a woman. Strict values, uncompromising, he set the rules and he refused to assimilate to the broader culture. When I joined the military at the end of high school, I recall thinking; wow this is freedom as my peers were breaking at the new structure. (The Australian m…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 10:28 PM
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If you want, PM me your profile for feedback. You should be killing it on TT.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 02:17 AM
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Tantan is Chinese tinder. If you're white you don't need game to get laid on tantan. I'm not into Asian girls but having traveled Shanghai and Beijing, it's the closest thing to being a celebrity I have experienced. If one visits a museum in Beijing, all the provincial tourists will want photos with you if you're tall, handsome and well dressed; my colleague and I got 27 requests for photos in just two hours (mind you a third of these were from a highschool tour). To answer your question, it's c…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 11:28 PM
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Jews are the masters of sophistry. The leaders of corrosive moments are overwhelmingly Jewish. Your people have created cancers like feminism, mass media, Hollywood, neo-conservatism, communism and overwhelming per capita are engaged with deconstructing their host civilisation. You ask the question because you want to know why. The question you should ask is why your people coincidentally time and time again emerge at the vanguard of these movements. There is just one solution to this question.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 12:53 PM
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It isn't ironic mate. She argues that women in their early 20's lock in a guy whilst she's in her peak, and invest time through a stable and supporting relationship for him to get to his. It's like dating a broke medical student before he becomes a orthopedic surgeon 8 years later. The man's SMV increases in time, whilst a woman's SMV decreases. The happiest marriages I know to AF follow this principle, they met whilst at university, he had a solid SMV but hadn't hit his stride yet. They marry i…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 07:57 AM
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I've worked in Beijing and Shanghai for business. This is pretty typical Chinese woman behavior, women in China (unless they are laowai hunters) use sex as a transaction to establish a marriage. You can plate a girl for a few year or so, but after 26, she's a left over woman. Culturally, from tier 1 cities to tier 88, she will be expected to marry and have a child. Sure she could be Westernised and educated in America; but her upper middle class parents will have an expectation of a higher statu…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 07:43 AM
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I had known about the TRP for about five years; worked diligently on my self, my company, and invested in an LTR. I kept fit, worked hard to build my own company, but never really advanced in value. It was only really in the last year I found the principles most pertinent - particularly in regards to the truth of hypergamy. My long term girlfriend ended it, I doubled down on my work investment to an almost obsessive point, gained weight and lost it, and finally closed a big business deal; I went…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 07:14 AM
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Sue for libel? If he were wise, he would make an arrangement out of court rather than an extended public court proceeding where x other women emerge with similar stories. And there will be I bet, given his inability to escalate appropriately or handle LMR; and secondly his attempt to fuck a groupie. His immediate focus should be to try to bury this shit. Metoo movement wants martyrs. The higher in status you are the more you should try to mitigate the risk of being played, i.e don't try to fuck …
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 06:28 AM
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Cautionary tale? Louis straight up masturbated in front of female peers, the key part to note is it was unsolicited. I wouldn't put Aziz in the same category.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 05:49 AM
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Jews deracinate the society of their hosts and are parasitic in nature. History of some of the times they have been removed Refer to my previous comment to this on why people have and will always hate Jews. They undermine traditional life for rootless cosmopolitanism.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 03:46 AM
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"They just happen to be Jews". Stereotypes exist for a reason. Jews per capita significantly over represent themselves in corrosive movements, be that in pornography, Hollywood (Weinstein et al), communism (Marx, Lenin, Trotsky et al), usury (most banks were established by Jews due to Christian law), NAACP (Jewish founders), the media, feminism, liberal politics etc. Mr Dredle will encourage degeneracy for the host but not for his tribe. He will support tolerance and diversity in his host countr…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 03:21 AM
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Civilizations are more important than getting your dick wet.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 02:13 AM
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Germany has a history of removing unwanted populations. Send them to Madagascar ;)
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 02:09 AM
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We shouldn't step back from society but double down, the reason we are in this situation is we let the meek inherit the earth. Avoid military service? Every fighting aged men should know how to use a rifle and fight.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 02:06 AM
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My father left Europe in the 60's, he's a time capsule of 20th-century continental European man; incredibly hard worker, smokes cigars, drinks too much whiskey, swears in French, shamelessly flirts with women at any opportunity, looks down on other races but respects their cultures, well read, has strong opinions from 19th century architecture to agriculture reforms. Europeans didn't conquer the world by being timid.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 02:04 AM
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I never once said mass genocide was the answer. That was your implication. Mass repatriation through force.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 12:02 AM
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Define "Extremely unnecessary measures"?
/r/TheRedPill14/01/18 11:18 PM
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Hypergamy. No job. Can’t speak German. No apartment. Less attractive, shorter and less educated than Germans. Literally a peasant. “Hypergamy”
/r/TheRedPill14/01/18 11:02 PM
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I am looking forward to the restoration of Germany by any means. If that means forced repatriation or a war. You would rather the Germans submit and be replaced lest they be seen as genocidal merely for wanting Germany to be German. You’re on the wrong side of history. History only about who is the strongest to survive by any means necessary.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/18 11:00 PM
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You fail to understand history because you are on the wrong side of history. You would look at Germany in the early 1930’s and conclude they are destitute and a broken nation. A decade later they controlled Europe. Germans are a special people, that should and will be preserved purely due to their ability to adapt, submit, survive and conquer. In another decade Germany will lead Europe towards the march to the right.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/18 10:53 PM
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You don't. Network within existing social networks and apply these values. Then connect and surround yourself with mentors from a higher status.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/18 03:32 AM
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Why reinvent the wheel? These organizations exist for under 60 crowd; they aren't filtering on age, they are filtering on status. It's just older men typically have a higher status like barristers, politicians, retired Prime Ministers, professors etc. I mentioned before, exclusive male-only establishments that are for the elites like the Australia Club in Sydney, Pacific-Union Club for SF, Knickerbocker Club in NYC just need you to be a professional, have good values and are vetted by a member, …
/r/TheRedPill14/01/18 03:19 AM
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Women are broadly the same everywhere but quality does increase in certain regions of specific countries. In the end, keep focusing on your career and surround yourself with good networks, you'll eventually connect with a woman worth investing a little more into. In the end you're a man in his 30's you'll hit peak next decade so no rush. But if you're wanting kids, I know what it's like, the standard is high, don't let it slip.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 04:51 AM
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You're being ridiculous, the Germans survived being bombed by the combined forces of America and the Soviet union and three decades later was an economic powerhouse. A collection of refugees are nothing. Forced repatriation or a conflict are more likely than the fall of Germany.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 04:46 AM
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He’s probably not German, given his answers he’s probably a black guy who loves the fantasy of white German whores.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 02:27 AM
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Spinning plates is fun but I find after a few times with a good looking but dumb girl it lost its appeal. Finding a first mate through a plate is impossible; any higher quality girl will have higher standards.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 02:17 AM
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If you’re a poor Algerian who is unemployed, no car, can’t speak German, shit job and shit apartment, do you think he’s getting anything above low hanging fruit? The reason why there are millions more is these women are trash, no job and mixed kid, no options. German guys can smash a 9/10 Russian for change.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 02:04 AM
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White men are in their thirties dominate the sexual market. In fact when I travel anywhere, be it China, Argentina, Germany, Russia; Morocco et al as a well dressed and reasonably wealthy white guy, I get treated better than the locals. Are you white? Would you prefer to not be white? The answer to the questions above will be telling.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 01:58 AM
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They’re the mud sharks of America, fat white trash with bad genetics and no options with German men. The suggestion that wealthy white Germans sleep and have children with basically homeless brown people on masse is an American narrative.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 01:50 AM
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German men are realising the writing is on the wall. Germans will go down fighting before they concede their nation. They refuse to report it within the media but every week a Mosque or housing ministry apartment housing migrants is burnt to the ground. When a man has nothing to lose, he will do anything to survive.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 01:47 AM
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The quality of a nation is a reflection of the people and culture. Import trash and your nation becomes trash. In my country (Australia) after Federation the first act granted was we restricted immigration from ethnic Europeans only. My forefathers were wise men.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 01:44 AM
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It’s only the German female trash that would sleep with them. They can’t speak the language, they have little to no understanding of the culture. Germans have shown with their back against the wall, they will do terrible things to save their future. I’m looking forward to it.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 01:39 AM
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It’s not an age thing, it is status. The higher in status I became (made bank through my startup), the less fucks I give about women. I’m still in my 20’s. It’s a combination of a few things, when you can f close good looking women on status alone, it no longer has the appeal of being a challenge. Your time becomes more valuable that outside of sex, a beautiful women is a waste of your time unless she has a degree of charm, or makes you work for it. My focus now is finding a women that basically…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 01:34 AM
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We won the battle but we lost the war.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 12:16 PM
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Europe is the calm before the storm. The far right is one election cycle away from dominating and aggressively stripping back the last 70 years of excesses under liberalism.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 04:07 AM
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Secular marriage is dead. In ultra-conservative circles marriage from my social observation seems to be isolated and preserved. All the red pilled religious guys I know in their 40's and 50's, married ten years younger, girls from the same Opes Dei circles and punched our half a dozen good solid kids. Most of them are realitvely wealthly (status) so that may factor in. I can't think of anyone in the top 10% that would be okay with sharing a woman; no less their wife. Rich people don't even like …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 04:05 AM
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It's fucked because those who know it's fucked would rather enjoy the decline than work to restore it.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 03:58 AM
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Beta men built western civilization, and they've realised they're being taxed, divorced raped, and deracinated. The average man is a wage slave to fund 'undocumented workers', single mothers, and parasites. The massive political shift to the far right is the average man concluding that radical measures are required to establish radical change. I was in Germany last year and this suit I did business with had this long hushed conversation about his disastifcation with the direction of his country.…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 03:54 AM
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What would you grandfather do in this society? He would organise, he'd counter-demonstrate, he wouldn't submit. He would laugh at the challenge before us, it's nothing. A family friend of mine volunteered for the Blau Division (Iberian soldiers fighting for Germany in WW2), the endless horizon in the east. Before he died he said, he told my father and I; it is only through the hard fight that you can create a future better than this, they were going to conquer everywhere. They knew it was worth …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 03:36 AM
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The 1930's would disagree. We saw the clash between socialism, feminism, sexual liberation, internationalism against nationalism, militarism and radical conservatism; in every nation that had no external influence, France, Germany, Italy, Romania et al; where the right stood to fight the left was crushed.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 03:24 AM
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What bankers or technologists are you talking to? I work in tech and the one thing about the valley is it's infinite optimism. The rate of technology change is incredible. 19th century: steam engine. Railway. the light bulb 20th century: the automobile, television, nuclear weapons, spacecraft, internet. 21st century: biotech, nanotech, fusion and fission and M-theory, terraforming new plantets, cryto, AI. Most tech companies are white and some Asian men building the future, only very large post …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 03:19 AM
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We're not already dead. Splenger wrote Der Untergang des Abendlandes about the is a rise and fall of civilizations, I would say that this can be halted and reversed, and has been demonstrated in history.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 03:18 AM
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Your politics may be different from mine, but I am working towards a political movement to reform society. The Nouvelle Droite movements are growing (most are 1st, 2nd or 3rd largest parties in most EU nations), Trump is also a symptom of this shift. People, the beta's you speak of yearn for strong leadership. People know there is a problem, a sickness in our society, yet they aren't equipped with the words to express it. Only through a radical shift will the masses follow, as they are now. The …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 02:54 AM
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Evola wanted an enlightened aristocracy to control society, he’s the antithesis to the degenerate above.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 11:01 PM
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Because we are members of a dying society. We know why it's dying. Your myopic because you know this and you think your tribe is somehow immune to the pervasive broader society. If your aspiration is to enjoy the ride down, your drug isn’t tv or fast food it’s fucking whoever you want. My last comment referenced the Weimar Republic, many young men saw the same decline and decided to change that, they conquered most of the continent a decade later by inspiring the mass to follow them.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 10:57 PM
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Enjoy the decline? The reason the decline exists is men have a responsibly like Atlas to hold the world on our shoulders, raise our sons to aspire to greatness and so on. Why surrender this responsibility to women and deracinate our society? 1920's Weimar Republic had the exact problems we face today. If we don't seize control of the direction of our society, others will.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 10:44 PM
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Work on the poor and uninteresting parts before investing time on tinder. If you're good at what you do, the women will follow.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 11:27 PM
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It also depends on your location, I kill it in SF, NYC and even more so in cities where white women find dating hard (Shanghai, Seoul, Tokyo). In cities with smaller populations not so much. Drop by tinder subreddit and have them give feedback on your profile; once you've selected images which show good facial looks, travel, social life, and interesting hobbies, you'll kill it. Don't overthink the bio, put something that invites conversation, 2 truths and a lie is dumb but it works; or ask them …
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 11:01 PM
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I dated a girl who revealed she was diagnosed with Borderline. Father passed away at 5. After a few weeks of intense sex and mood swings I cut it off. She wasn’t Japanese but I had to drop the bomb twice before she understood. I would advise against plating a BPD, far too erratic to warrant the risk just for good sex.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 09:09 PM
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Knowledge is power. What he does with it is up to him. I've disclosed anonymously via a quick email to a friend through business that his girlfriend was cheating whilst he was a Resident (Doctor) interstate. He pulled the trigger on the relationship. The TRP advocates harsh truths. This is the pill you can give him, he can choose to swallow it and take the medicine or not.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 01:38 PM
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9-5 isn't a soul killer. Not having a reason for existence is a soul killer. Find the intersection of your talent, education and what pays and pursue that. In the end not everyone can get paid to do what they love; sometimes you find you love what you do. My father didn't love construction, he didn't love getting on site at 6am, he did it because he had to feed our family. But after 4 decades, he's rewarded with a senior position, a fantastic salary, and a genuine passion in his industry. He sti…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 01:30 PM
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It reminds me of a quote from Palahniuk’s Fight Club. “We're the middle children of history, man. No purpose or place. We have no Great War. No Great Depression. Our great war is a spiritual war. Our great depression is our lives.”
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 03:48 PM
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He was a radical but a man in his 20’s and 30’s can be. Japan and Japanese culture has been deracinated under Western influence and he wanted to preserve the values of the empire. He lived and died on his own terms which one can respect.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 07:20 AM
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Absolutely; I travel a lot for work but I can still carry a library of thousands of books. Education doesn’t finish at university. I read a fiction and non fiction book concurrently; I’m finally working through Plato’s Republic which is an incredible read.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 07:12 AM
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Really? Having lived in Central Asia briefly for work I’d argue that under Sharia one doesn’t observe the same problems.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 07:06 AM
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Most men here will say AWALT, do not marry unless of course you want to have children. It takes an Alpha male to maintain a marriage. Most of my network of advisors who are alpha's; half are married with great children and the other half are single by choice living a good life. Being alpha is living life by your way, if you want a large happy family, then go for it but know it's an investment.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 08:48 PM
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You can't. This is why if you do want children, marry a virgin and be very discerning (good family, good values, you have status). The reason for existence is our legacy, either through our actions and the children we raise.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 08:40 PM
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Knowing something is bad for you doesn’t require experience ; a wise man learns from others mistakes rather than making them himself. I’m not expecting a woman to be loyal; but rather play along social paradigms. To remain successfully married you need to have a high SMV that is increasing in value. As a man with a woman with a declining SMV due to age, it’s not an impossible task. Studies show if you marry a woman before she gets on the carousel it’s statistically very unlikely for even a beta.…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 08:05 PM
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You miss the entire point about marriage. It’s not about female sexual strategy but rather the creation of stable children. In a patriarchy where female nature was stomped on, marriage was built to ensure that a next generation was established and the nuclear family has shown to be the best environment for raising children. You are also ignoring that having children to a women concedes most of the obligations as marriage. The key to a restoration of a broken society is a restoration of its insti…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 07:58 PM
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Lesson learned and appreciate the sentiment.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 07:36 PM
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It’s sloppy advice and you know it. I’m being rational here. You failed to counter the point by attacking my character rather than the sentiment. The best way to mitigate risks is not put a loaded gun in someone’s hand who displays a clear lack of loyalty. It’s not being ethical; it’s self preservation.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 07:34 PM
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With friends like this who needs enemies.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 12:50 PM
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I don’t sleep with married women. I’m in my 20’s. Why would I sleep or invest my time in a cheating, validation seeking older married woman? The TRP for me is about being the best man I can be; not how many low hanging fruit married women I can fuck. All the best with your path brother.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 05:37 AM
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4) Married woman are safer? This is bad advice; there are so many easy lays rather than fucking a married woman at your workplace. Not only aren't you factoring ruining your professional reputation, compromising a marriage, and thirdly the husband who may vector his rage towards you, the man that 'ruined' his marriage. If she is ready to betray her husband, she will have little to no hesitation to throwing you under the bus if HR is informed; or rather when HR is informed, women love to gossip. …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 03:12 AM
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If you fail to plan you plan to fail. Set you expectations, add rewards for achieving your weekly metrics. Google and other startups / corporates use OKR's. Set yourself quarterly goals and then what your expectations/ milestones to get to that goal. I use smartsheets (basically online MS Project) to direct my team for engineering and business development tasks. For personal use smart works (but it's like a few hundred $'s a year) but googles notes or trello work too if you don't like spending m…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 03:03 AM
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Conversely if possible avoid RAPE. Religion Abortion Politics Economics
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 10:36 PM
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There is a disparity between city and country. But women don’t say it; when I’m stateside people can’t pick the accent because they expect a strong rural accent unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 10:04 PM
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You’re surprised that in a subreddit of those trying to become alpha’s that some members display alpha qualities?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 09:45 PM
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Interesting perspective;you're absolutely right, observe what she does and not what she says.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 12:08 PM
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She had called me as she was going to bed, I was in Shanghai so a few hours behind and at a business dinner. "can't wait to tuck you in" "*fuck" This was before we had gone out mind you so it didn't float well. I think the part to note was the context, text is bad generally as it doesn't convey tone. In person on the first date I dropped another such line and (wine permitting) she loved it, To contextualise, in Australia there was a recent vote for gay marriage. She asked, how did you vote? I st…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 09:44 AM
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Women want to be pursued but not too aggressively that it indicates desperation. They want a man above them in status not below. After you've established a rapport you can be more direct; however like dating, most girls go to your place and sex "just happens"; if you invite her over for sex explicitly she will most likely decline. I was trying to plate a HB9, before sleeping with her I had said a pun in poor taste, she was outraged; and further outraged because I didn't apologise (I doubled down…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 09:02 AM
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I served for four years in the Royal Australia Engineers as a combat engineer and another 6 in reserve. In all honesty, it's the best years I regret (deployment injury that meant I couldn't run for a year and lost a mate to PTSD). I would suggest young men join the reserves rather than commit entirely. Study something with solid opportunities like engineering or commerce, attend the reserves during your student breaks to get the best of both worlds. By the time you have done 4 years, you'll have…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 10:39 PM
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Why fuck her if she's clearly below his value?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 10:25 PM
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Financially independent is the aspiration. I agree with most of your sentiments though; that said the higher your SMV the more women that will be attracted to your status and not your character, it's the nature of the beast. Many rich powerful men who aren't divorced are with the women that invested in them before they were rich and powerful. Loyalty is a virtue that these men value over looks because looks depreciate, loyalty does not.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 10:15 PM
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I run a startup, the more successful you become the greater the value of the people that orbit you. But you can artificially do this. Network in your industry, find a mentor who is 10 years older and a leader in your vocation, go out for coffee, then find 4 more mentors - see them monthly. If you don't have a vocation, find your raison d'être, be an expert in what you do. For hobbies, mix business and pleasure, play squash or golf with good quality men - alpha's in life, join establishments like…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 03:46 AM
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I'll say attractive women are around top 30% of women, attractive being <7. To get a n>2 I observe that you'll have to stick to conservative or religious circles; or secondly, a young woman engaged in a lifestyle with limited to no time for dating/ social life (i;e medical student or PhD student). It's rare, I'd estimate around 5% of the general female population in their 20's. Some of these girls can be sluts, just they are better at hiding it absolutely. You have to do your due diligence and t…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 03:43 AM
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Marriage is giving your woman a loaded gun and spending the rest of your life convincing her not to pull the trigger. That said, you never want to be the man worth pulling the trigger on. Some men can live up to that expectation, this type of motivation works well for me but I thrive under pressure. That said, you can do everything right but if you marry badly; which many men do. Studies show a woman n count exponentially reflects divorce rates. Basically, marry a virgin or a woman with n=1 (n b…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 03:16 AM
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I run a startup, the more successful you become the greater the value of the people that orbit you. But you can artificially do this. Network in your industry, find a mentor who is 10 years older and a leader in your vocation, go out for coffee, then find 4 more mentors - see them monthly. If you don't have a vocation, find your raison d'être, be an expert in what you do. For hobbies, mix business and pleasure, play squash or golf with good quality men - alpha's in life, join establishments like…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 02:29 AM
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Correct but in most anglosphere nations, cohabitating with your children and the mother of your children is the same legally as marrage. 90% of marriages fail because you marry a whore or you didn't sustain value / invest in being the patriach of a family.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 02:18 AM
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Because most older men who are natural alpha's and are happily married are too busy living successful lives to need TRP, they're living it. Multiple houses, big happy family, a loving wife, successful career, a man with a purpose and direction. This place is a great library of knowledge for those on the path to that (married or otherwise).
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 02:18 AM
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Life without children is a meaningless existence. My father is a natural alpha; sired a large family of well educated children, he lives better than most of his peers because he has a life rich in experiences - raising children among them. The fear that marriage is divorce is irrational; if you marry a woman with a 0-2 n count statistically it's incredibly unlikely you will be divorced. Don't marry a whore, be a man, establish a trust in the BVI if you have to protect yourself, don't cheat on yo…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 02:14 AM
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I'm an exec at a startup; beta men built this world. They follow orders and like most men work hard to exceed your expectations. To put it concisely they make good employees. That said an alpha engineer engaged in a Business Development role is worth his weight in gold but can be more difficult to manage.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 02:59 AM
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Women want strong men. Be that man she seeks, a strong father to many children, the patriarch of your family. Be discerning on the woman you take as your wife, and be vigilant that you keep increasing your value. It's not easy, after 30 she will have had children with you and be decreasing in looks, whereas you will be at the peak in status and growing.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 02:29 AM
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Choose the hill you die on. If he's close like a brother you have an obligation, but you've done what you need. It's good to have a friend to tell you the harsh truths,
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 02:24 AM
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My engineering startup is less than 20 headcount; but with the choice between two candidates one male and one female, I'll always select the male engineer. I have only one female employee and she's outstanding lawyer as our CLO, Harvard Grad, a straight shooter, unmarried in her late 30's. My experience working in corporate is women love corporate politics, gossip and often take unexpected long breaks. That said the best leader I've worked under was a post wall female engineer/exec who took no p…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 02:03 AM
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Everything in moderation, including moderation. I stopped drinking, smoking, and coffee however on occasion I'll have a glass of whiskey on Christmas day, or a cigar at NYE. Don't let the drugs control you, as long as you're in control you're good. If you find something has a negative influence in your life, like beer with your diet, tv and good sleep, cut it out of your life like cancer.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 01:57 AM
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I'd say mothers raise you to be like your father. I come from a traditional household; there was an expectation that I would conform to my father's example (1950's European gender roles) and I was better for it.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 01:53 AM
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It's wise to not shit where you eat.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 01:41 AM
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I was seeing a virgin and it was frustratingly easy to take her to bed than I had expected. Am I the only man who prefers a challenge? Background on my girl, doctor, 28 years old; good looking but works insane hours.
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