Didn't wrap it up

ReaperX44 · 2020-05-22T04:13:59+00:00

Congratulations man, you're gonna be a father soon. 😂😂😂

sasakuowo · 2020-05-22T04:39:16+00:00

Okay as someone else said you basically have four weeks of anxiety to see if she’s actually pregnant. I would buy Plan B and have her take it. 40-50 bucks is worth the assurance for me as I don’t want a kid until I’m financially stable.

If you do give it to her, hang out that day. Like meet up give her the pill and hang out (she might try and throw it up if she’s trying to have a baby) you can’t be too sure of anyone’s intentions bro.

nothestrawberrypatch · 2020-05-22T07:05:18+00:00

Man I nutted in lots of broads in my 20s. She doesn’t want a kid just as much as you don’t.

When you’re 35 and have a good job and she’s done riding the CC, that’s when you gotta worry.

Stop being an idiot though.

rugged79 · 2020-05-22T05:09:06+00:00

They said tear the club up, not shoot the club up.

Zero-Milk · 2020-05-22T08:07:00+00:00

Two things you failed to do:

1 Get your head on straight beforehand.

Be prepared for heat-of-the-moment decision-making. Self-preservation must become instinct. Your fear of ruining your life by impregnating someone you don't want to impregnate should be so strong that it overrides your passion in the heat of the moment. That means, at bare minimum, no cumming inside. Ever. Even with a condom on.

2 Follow up after your mistake.

Ask her IMMEDIATELY, "if I bought you an emergency contraceptive, would you take it?" Shell out the $50 and reduce your anxiety levels by at least half.

Information for next time if this bullet misses you. If it doesn't, it's information for some other poor soul looking for answers in the future. Smarten up.

BIitheFooI · 2020-05-22T08:30:49+00:00

GET PLAN B NOW. I have two kids. GET IT NOW. FUCK THE $50. There’s nothing embarrassing about it either - nobody gives a fuck.

TFWnoLTR · 2020-05-22T13:20:07+00:00

I had a girl tell me just to not use condoms because she was on the pill. Our son turns 4 in September. My child support amount got doubled yesterday.

Don't do that again, dude.

Iluvalmonds83 · 2020-05-22T05:10:12+00:00

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leagueplay08 · 2020-05-22T07:18:44+00:00

All these guys on here sound like they’ve barely had sex with any women...what has TRP become :/. If you believe that’s she’s on birth control you’re fine man. Even if she isn’t, it’s hard to get a girl pregnant from just busting in them one time. Possible yes, but the timing has to be near perfect in their cycle. Many guys who have gotten girls pregnant came in them every time for a while. If she is on birth control and it’s near not near ovulation I wouldn’t worry, this kind of thing happens to guys all the time and most don’t end up fathers from one time.

If you think she’s lying about birth control or wants to be pregnant then ya, I would get her to take plan B but you should really reevaluate her as a plate at that point, that’s dangerous to be with someone like that.

GlowInTheDarkDonkey · 2020-05-22T09:55:50+00:00

You assume your sperg sperm can even find their way.

If you are lucky they'll be as dumb as you. Take your medication and settle the fuck down.

Throwaway-242424 · 2020-05-22T07:01:36+00:00

I get that guys are rightly paranoid about knocking a girl up, but most 20 year old girls don't want to be a young single mother any more than you want to be a single dad. I'd take her at her word tbh.

I struggled to wrap my dick up

Get extra large ones. I'm fairly well-endowed and they're so much more convenient.

yadigggggggggg · 2020-05-22T03:57:19+00:00

U have to get better at controlling yourself man, and you really don’t got many choices now besides crushing a plan b in her drink or something.

AncientDragons · 2020-05-22T09:51:23+00:00

If she’s 20 then your risk of her trying to get knocked up seems pretty low unless you have money. Or she’s in love with you. In which case Happy Father’s Day!

Much more likely is that she’s not trying to get pregnant. Which means you better hope that she’s fucking responsible about using her birth control since you absolutely are not experienced or capable enough to do it reliably. Nor are you evidently a good enough judge of character to trust that your sex partners are even really on the pill.

These are rookie mistakes. We’ve all had them (although I’ve never had unprotected sex because I wasn’t able to get a freaking condom on, and I’ve never failed to pull out if I planned to). Use this as a learning moment and learn to use condoms, dude.

Also, if she’s really on the pill you can ask to see the pill case. You can ask her to take a morning after pill but that seems really excessive if she actually is on birth control, and she will likely refuse. Nor should it ever have to get to this point in the first place.

Even if this situation ends up ok, take this as a sign that your lack of discipline in all of these areas someday WILL get you into trouble. Start by figuring out how condoms work. It’s ok to slow down or take a time out if you’re having trouble. Girls understand that condoms are sometimes difficult to get on. And if you’re one of these idiots doing Nofap- fucking stop. Nothing is more guaranteed to lead to you having no idea how to handle yourself in the sack than never touching your own dick because you “need to store energy” or some bullshit. Masturbation is fucking practice, dude. Learn how to get close to orgasm and pull back.

So many virgins on this sub, I fucking swear. OP- best of luck to you. You will probably dodge a bullet because it’s happened to many of us and we get through ok. But stop putting yourself in front of those bullets in the first place by learning better discipline.

tacosattack · 2020-05-22T09:10:56+00:00

You are most likely going to be fine, don't stress out about it. But don't do it again!

d_bakers · 2020-05-22T13:24:32+00:00

Young women generally dont want kids as much as you don't. I'd be more worried about std's. You might not be the only one she's trying to go raw with. It seems she likes it raw and thats a red flag.

EdvardMunch · 2020-05-22T15:53:13+00:00

If she was late 20s - 30s okay be weary. No decently cute youngin wants a baby right now.

Also while many factors are at play its not as easy to get someone pregnant as you may think.

We've all had these though. Consider the ego and the trades more than the trust. If shes a cabaret dancer ya know... or a career girl working toward her dream job. I give those more credit than trust.

jaw8625 · 2020-05-22T15:58:33+00:00

Once you go raw you can’t go back lol. I do it with all of them now as long as they don’t seem like trailer park trash. Probably fucked 30+ women raw in the last 2 years. I’m still negative for everything. I pull out and make sure to blow a load before they come over. I haven’t had any issues

Herdsengineers · 2020-05-22T16:03:38+00:00

She's gonna have tripletts. And she just gave you gonnasyphylherpieaids, as well as coronavirus.

Seriously, chicks like it raw too, dude (my vasectomy was one the best things i've done, i can raw dawg all day long and not create another little shit kid). Feels better to them as much as it does to us. Learn to unroll a condom better and stop being an autist about it.

skyrunner22 · 2020-05-22T06:23:18+00:00

Only answer is you take responsibility and get a plan B. Go do it NOW. Dont worry about forty bucks, losing an hour of sleep, a little gas, etc. Hopefully you have 24 hr drugstore still available. Go, or you open the store with manager first thing in AM.

Other than that you give up responsibility and you suffer the consequences. And you kinda trust her has nothing to do with it. Its your ship, your responsibility. You guide it 100%

Srv110398 · 2020-05-22T06:45:42+00:00

Just hope and pray that life won’t teach you a harsh lesson with this. I know you know this but I'll say it. Always be alert, do not trust any bitch, when you decided to do it raw you gave up your power to choose on being a father or not. It's all in her hands now, Never put yourself in that situation again. Next couple of weeks will be a nightmare though.

Lostfate09 · 2020-05-22T04:23:41+00:00

Seems there is a lot of guys on this sub who say things like " I even came in her" "I pulled out before I shot my boat"

Just to let you all know, you can still get a woman pregnant even if you pull out before you cum.

taketrance · 2020-05-22T08:25:14+00:00

Happens to the best of us. Nothing you can do now, just wait but try not to freak about it because chances are on your side anyway.

Sin-Silver · 2020-05-22T09:32:04+00:00

Take the anxiety your feeling now a lesson to always bring condoms. Stash in your car, your bag, leave them at hers if possible.

Now go get yourself checked for STD’s you can get them from just a moment of unprotective sex.

MrAnderzon · 2020-05-22T10:42:43+00:00

You be responsible about your property by buying some Plan B and watching her take it. She may or may not be on the pill. Not your problem wrap it. Be responsible for your actions. Sooner the better.

If this is a reoccurring problem practice putting one on solo. Take responsibility. Buy quality stuff. Cheap stuff can break faster.

Around the 45sec mark will back me up https://youtu.be/lle4ilOHrXg

dtyler86 · 2020-05-22T13:09:05+00:00

Relax dude. I’m on a low dose of anti anxiety meds, oh and a teenage dad!, well, I’m nearly 34 now, but was then and still am a dad. Unless a lot of her personality is seemingly psychotic, she’s probably really on the pill. Be cognizant of any side effects; stds would be the likely concern here.

2020-05-22T15:30:35+00:00

Mathematically speaking if she's 18 to 25, 25% of the time you will be a father and 75% of the time you won't be.

Best of luck too you, wrap it up from now on. If it's on backwards just flip it around and wipe the tip off, before you go in.

Greaterbird · 2020-05-22T06:09:00+00:00

Lol. Congrats daddy, she's got you for 18 years.

dokuringo20 · 2020-05-22T06:23:28+00:00

If she tried this last time, she obviously wants to get pregnant or at least acting on it subconsciously. I would suggest either to either next her since, she will keep trying to fuck you raw while you have bad self-control. Or you could just... control your hormones... Yeah, just be careful dude lmao

2020-05-22T06:43:31+00:00

Congrats on the kid

Red_Raze · 2020-05-22T08:01:51+00:00

No STDs and taking their word for it? You can be asymptomatic to em so have fun with your itchy dick in a few days.

Never trust people on that unless you got them checked. That shit is nasty.

CareIsMight · 2020-05-22T10:02:23+00:00

Watch out for STDs. Once you contract it it's there for life. How are you going to tell your future wife? Don't give in to them.

CelestialAmorphous · 2020-05-22T10:58:40+00:00

Hahaha, get yah self checked lad. It's above you now don't dwell.

anonboi4ever · 2020-05-22T11:07:20+00:00

Its time to go ghost 💪

Number1sun · 2020-05-22T12:10:23+00:00

You're fine lol, use your judgement

travlingsomewhere · 2020-05-22T12:57:53+00:00

Go buy a plan B they work. You have like a 2 day window. It’s $40 or $80.

I have a friend who’s spent about $4,000 on plan Bs i shit u not lol

oatsinside · 2020-05-22T13:03:43+00:00

If there’s a seed of doubt in your mind that she would lie about it why do you think that is?

Alcatraz-12 · 2020-05-22T13:05:51+00:00

fucking spike her drink with plan B or whatever. Or you know, buy her one and tell her to take it. If she doesn't want to or gets offended, then you got your answer

AboveAll2017 · 2020-05-22T13:40:32+00:00

See sidebar on how to properly sneak plan b in her breakfast. And next time pull out dumbass.

Don_Draper27 · 2020-05-22T13:49:53+00:00

Sorry, I made the same mistake in trusting the girl with birth control and now I’m celebrating my daughters 1 year next month.

Get a plan b pill now or get ready to fight for abortion.

If you’re really that stupid with conforms then get a vasectomy.

19abto · 2020-05-22T13:54:47+00:00

Plan b ASAP!

zephenrage · 2020-05-22T14:28:22+00:00

I’ve been there before. Around the time I was your age, in fact. It was the time I lost my virginity. I had all the same thoughts that you’re having now. I didn’t get any STD’s and I didn’t get her pregnant but I was anxious as hell about it for 2-3 months just like you’ll probably be. Learn your lesson from this. Going forward, it doesn’t matter how hot she is, if you don’t wanna risk pregnancy or STD’s, no sex. I’ve turned down some beautiful women in my day simply because I didn’t have a condom. I never took that risk again. It’s been 15 years that I haven’t had that kind of anxiety. I hope that you’ll start playing it safe and smart from here on out too. Now as far as condom use goes just practice. This is gonna sound weird but trust me. Go buy a pack. When you have some down time and alone time and you’re in your room “doing your thing” practice putting the condom on. I did that and it worked for me.

kay-kitty · 2020-05-22T15:31:14+00:00

Get her a plan B!

00chuffer · 2020-05-22T18:11:22+00:00

Antibiotics eliminate the pills usefulness.

JazzyHustlah · 2020-05-22T18:12:37+00:00

Don’t be a shitty dad!

vorgriff · 2020-05-22T18:50:14+00:00

Dude why tf dont u practice putting on a condom? If u know u're gonna get all confused about it in the moment, buy urself a box and practice.

Oh, congrats on the baby btw

whiffofass · 2020-05-22T18:50:53+00:00

I don't get it. You guys must be fucking low quality girls if they wanna have a child with you. The women I've fucked would be insane to get pregnant and throw everything away.

breakdatass · 2020-05-22T03:56:38+00:00

I never use condoms, I just aways pull out. (10 years, 100 different women)

You should be fine, but there is no way of telling so you got 4 weeks of anxiety ahead.

Worst case you have a kid, it's not the end of the world, it's actually the way of the world.

And next time, just get her to show you her pill packet, they always carry it in their bags.

lilgoatedboy · 2020-05-22T05:54:55+00:00

If she's on the pill you're 100% fine man. I've had sex with my girl over 1000 times and never once worn a condom or pulled out for that matter.

DeathByToilet · 2020-05-22T08:18:20+00:00

You chose a name yet?

2020-05-22T09:19:17+00:00

You are going to be fine. I came inside some girls aswell. Usually always pull out though.

It's still a horrible feeling being helpless and not knowing what's gonna happen.

skizzum97 · 2020-05-22T10:03:16+00:00

How does anybody cum inside the pussy of a woman they don't intend to impregnate? I've even had some girls ask me to do it but fuck that shit. Some guys here are even humblebragging about doing it!? Wtf??? It's about the dumbest possible thing you could do...

MSotallyTober · 2020-05-22T10:25:22+00:00

You’re the type of guy Bravo television was made for.

WolfofAllStreetz · 2020-05-22T14:34:12+00:00

Why the fuck you dropping loads in plates. Go porno style fool.

2020-05-22T05:41:04+00:00

There's a good chance she was telling the truth and you will be fine. But even if she was telling the truth she could always miss a few days and get pregnant or take a medication that cancels out the effects of birth control by accident. Even if you came in her raw without any birth control it's less than a 10% chance anything will happen. But still there is a chance. Feel that anxiety for the next few weeks and really stew in it. Next time you are going to do something stupid like this, remember this feeling and ask if it's really worth the anxiety and the possibility of having to pay and care for a baby with some random ho. You need to take the responsibility for something like this, don't trust other people to do it for you.

th3_WhoDini- · 2020-05-22T06:13:34+00:00

Idiot.. beta in all respect. “She’s tried this last time to” what? Hopefully for your sake it’s nothing but u have a lot to learn bruh

HereToReadDirty · 2020-05-22T06:48:02+00:00

Sounds like you need YouTube to help you, you shouldn’t be having sex if you can get a condom on. Damn, don’t you have a male in your life?

alphakari · 2020-05-22T06:57:34+00:00

Get a pack of condoms, and literally sit there and waste the entire box practicing, tard.

__TheDon__ · 2020-05-22T07:26:56+00:00

Been there done that. Meet with her ASAP and buy a Plan B. Make her take it infront of you.

Also, did you cum inside of her? If so, I’m coming to where ever you are and personally beating the fuck out of you.

Edit: Just read the post again. You came in her. I’m coming over to beat your ass.

Furi0usxStylez · 2020-05-22T06:17:40+00:00

Shove that bitch down a flight and run nigga lol

hockeyaddict87 · 2020-05-22T05:45:45+00:00

She could be psycho and want a baby for many reasons. And most girls are too dumb to take birth control properly. I would find a way to get plan b in her

takka1013 · 2020-05-22T06:01:41+00:00

Well did you pull out or not ?

BAE_LEAF · 2020-05-22T06:10:08+00:00

It’s way harder than you think to get a woman pregnant. you for sure have HPV now though.

JohnnyOmm · 2020-05-22T12:25:16+00:00

Lmao how do u cum in someone. It's easy to pull out. Plan b

XanJamZ · 2020-05-22T12:39:39+00:00

Is this supposed to be comedy or nah

downvotesanimals · 2020-05-22T14:22:26+00:00

"fucked her raw" - whoops

"even came in her" - WTF?!

PayneGreyWolf · 2020-05-22T15:40:28+00:00

Good luck being a father

strainer123 · 2020-05-22T08:00:44+00:00

lol what a pussy

HeXio05 · 2020-05-22T07:07:03+00:00

Didn’t even read the whole thing. Fucking pre marital sex. Absolute degeneracy.

Title	Didn't wrap it up
Author	zeitdruck
Upvotes	63
Comments	154
Date	May 22, 2020 3:51 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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