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I believe every mean should do this but having your clothes tailored helps alot
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:05 AM
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What's happened has happened already. Think about the result you have right now, and decided if this worse than if you responded. In this case "K" would have been more than enough, girls know exactly how dismissive K is. I also believe you've lost to a certain degree when you worry about acting in her frame. As a man, an individual, you make decisions based on what's best for you.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 08:50 AM
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Since it's been a day, don't respond back. In the future "K" is more than enough for a situation like this.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 09:52 AM
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Second on removing sugar, it's been two weeks and the difference is crazy. Drink water too
/r/askTRP18/09/19 04:59 PM
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FAWK!
/r/askTRP11/09/19 02:56 PM
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Your idea of trouble is my idea of fun
/r/askTRP23/03/19 12:52 PM
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This right here, she doesn't deserve the explanation. Plus, she's not stupid.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 04:16 PM
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"Ana always complains that I hit on girls and too confident when we hang out" Ana enjoys watching you work, while being excluded from that feeling you're giving to other girls. This is only my opinion, but I think it's more valuable to have a girl fiend for you then actually fucking her. Typically once a girl, specifically like her, gets what she wants; the feeling she had goes away too. There are far too many girls in this world to enjoy, fuck, etc. To sweat one in a relationship, if you're thi…
/r/askTRP01/10/18 11:42 AM
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'sigh' the search continues"
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:29 PM
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Just a brief forward of who I am. I've worked in sales my whole life and right now am the fitness director of a gym where I have to attain new personal training clients. I'd say the first thing you should keep in mind is "Like, Know, Trust." They have to like you, know you and know you know what you're talking about, and they have to trust that you are looking out for them about this subject more than they would. Probably the most important thing that's helped me out the most is understanding it…
/r/askTRP05/07/18 04:32 PM
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It's rare for a girl to be THIS direct with a guy. She obviously doesn't care how you view her, or how she presents herself to YOU specifically. If you don't want to fuck her, talk to her as if you approached her. If she's sexy enough for you to bust a nut, then get her over AS SOON AS POSSIBLE
/r/askTRP22/06/18 08:26 AM
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Too many guys up here focus on "what should I do" rather than the mind-frame of how to do it. You have to fundamentally change the way you look at yourself and the world you live in. Once you do that, the how becomes automatic. The way I did it may not work for you, but once I fully read the sidebar here, other things became clearer. I'd recommend talking to a positive guy and picking his brain a bit.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 08:17 AM
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I could be wrong, but at this point if she's been constantly complaining about it; if you now set up time for her to meet him she will see it as she got her way by "complaining" about it. Explain to her what you told us here without saying your dad doesn't give a fuck. If she ever meets him and she's smart, she'll see that on her own. At the very least let them introduce themselves to each other before you guys head out on your own.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 11:27 AM
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I agree, there was a point where everything here was gold to me. I find, now that I have to sift through the bullshit to get to the positive truths
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 11:36 AM
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This is the only answer I need to remember.... Damn
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 11:40 AM
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Think about it like this: If the roles were reversed and you didn't contact her for three weeks, do you think she'd wonder if you lost interest or would she even need to ask the question at all?
/r/askTRP07/05/18 05:50 PM
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I see it as your clothes should compliment who you actually are. I consider myself a laid back guy and I let the things I do speak for itself. Now that I think on it the way I dress compliments that, I like looking good and comfortable but I have certain accessories that people stop and all me about. The way I carry myself makes people curious about me and the way that I dress most likely does the same.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 10:41 PM
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Number 4 is a gem, I never thought how much of a simple truth that is
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 07:32 PM
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I agree with your point, but the thing that can't be overlooked is what she said and who she said it to. It doesn't matter if it's true or not, what sticks out to me more is she's saying his dick is small to HIS friend. Why? The only motivation I can think of is trying to appeal to the friend she feels comfortable enough to throw him under the bus to. Your point is hella valid, but not with this chick.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 06:41 PM
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Seconded, you just got a blessing disguised in a BIT of pain. Do not go back.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 06:29 PM
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I'm going to assume you're not a troll. Yes her own mistake, it amazes me too that she is able to admit that but you are focused on her not being held accountable for it. She stopped being what attracted him, if this was in reverse I believe you'd understand better, especially since you talked about him cheating the most. I don't condone cheating, but allow yourself to see the pattern. She's going to get back to the way she was before cheating was brought in her marriage, just to end it. Why wai…
/r/askTRP02/12/17 03:33 PM
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Umm ok, I don't get it
/r/askTRP02/12/17 03:34 AM
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I think among many things, this will damage women the most. They are showing men just how disposable they are, and once men really see that's how women view them, there's no going back from that. Men will abandon women, this isn't a lesson in how men should act, it's showing men what they should avoid. This will correct itself, but I don't think it'll be anytime soon. I haven't (yet) heard of any attractive/highly desirable men getting outted. I wonder why that is.....
/r/askTRP30/11/17 08:13 PM
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More proof that it's not the act itself, but who does it.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 05:09 PM
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You approach this as if she was ugly as fuck, in the sense of your nerves. This has been something that's worked perfectly for me. Hey, my name's Jani1157. What's your name. "Whatever her name is" Nice to meet you, I'm in a bit of a rush, but you're kinda cute, let's exchange numbers so we can do something fun together sometime. "No" (or any variation of it) Ok, take care. "Yes" From this point it doesn't matter what she wants to do, it's all on you so you might as well do something that YOU wan…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 06:13 PM
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Is this woman your boss? If so, you'll have to go along with things especially if it'll come to that or losing your job. If she's not, then you treat her like the little girl she's acting like. What do you mean send emails so you can't debate? Are other people CC'd in them? I guarantee if you see this girl as a problem, other people do to and things will come to a head sooner or later.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 01:16 PM
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Understand this girl is texting you, to get the same emotions you gave her when you were in person. What you need to carry over into text is the mindset you had in person.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 06:55 PM
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No, the majority (if not all women) want what other women want. Your job, especially when you get into a relationship, is to remain attractive to all other women. Your girl will subconsciously try to bring you down to a level where you're attractive enough to her, but not to other women. This is NOT malicious. This is where comfort is, and where you don't want to be. THAT'S dread. You must stay in practice with the skill that got her in the first place. Your girl is ALWAYS in practice whether sh…
/r/askTRP09/10/17 06:46 PM
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Since this was an evolutionary process, do you think we'll see women pass down different genes to new generations because they're trying so hard to convince themselves and men that they want to be dominate now?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 03:16 AM
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Simplest answer, make the time. I understand you have time constraints with work, but there shouldn't be any time in your life where you don't take care of yourself inside and out. If you need to cut back from five days to three or two, do it. I feel you talking about getting older and time constraints but that's not an excuse, they're just your new challenges.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 11:40 PM
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Out of curiosity, how did she find out? Something like this is going to take time. What are you really feeling guilty about?
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 09:31 PM
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Thank you! I appreciate you understanding what I was actually asking
/r/askTRP23/02/17 09:56 PM
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Thank you!
/r/askTRP21/02/17 09:21 PM
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So funny you say that. As I was writing, I thought this too.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 09:20 PM
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I've already decided not to do it, my question was about saying something to my girl and if it would raise my value or cause more issues.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 12:02 AM
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I agree, thank you.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 09:40 PM
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I want to so bad! The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak!!
/r/askTRP10/02/17 09:39 PM
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As far as driving to work? If thats the case I drive about 4 miles to one job and 14 to the other. I have no idea about other times.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 03:59 PM
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It's not the battery, the engine seized up and completely locked. It's a brick now.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 02:28 AM
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It definitely varies for sure. Regardless your process never changes, you must constantly strive to get better. Once I have a girlfriend my job (even though she's earned my love) is to stay attractive to all other women. There's a sweet spot to stay in depending on the girl, but her own lust for me will take care of itself as long as she can see/feel other women's attractiveness towards me.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 06:30 PM
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I don't think this will work as often as you think. A girl in that situation knows she isn't the best she could be. For you to accept her at that point in her life, she will see you as not the best she can do. Once she gets better, she'll want to do better
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 06:10 PM
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No, he pretty much hit the nail on the head. Your question was what does her texting you mean, what's her motivation. It's simply attention, and validation. As soon as you gave it to her she was satisfied. It is not, nor will it ever be cordial or out of the goodness of her heart. She wanted to see how emotionally invested you were. If she doesn't respond back you'll see our point, if she does she's looking for more free attention from you. Fight the urge to respond to her. "Attention with no st…
/r/askTRP30/01/17 11:51 PM
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Interesting, thanks.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 11:42 PM
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Now that your eyes are opened, what are the signs you missed? What is she doing that lets you know she's looking for a new fuck?
/r/askTRP30/01/17 09:19 PM
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While I agree with you about understanding women's logic, I can't get around the cruelty of it. If this was reversed and men choose women based on practicality, we'd constantly have a shit storm.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 03:52 PM
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Plus, if you had kissed and fucked her, you would have been rewarding the bad behavior still. At that point she didn't apologize or realize she did something wrong. She did however after a brilliant response. Then you would have been good.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 09:44 PM
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I'll be first in line to say I may have gotten a little comfortable with her. I need to tighten up and stay there in the future.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 12:13 PM
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Totally understand where you are coming from, and that's been the biggest concern I've had through all of this. Part of the reason I originally posted and also the reason why I didn't end it that Friday night. Unfortunately I have the experience working against me. Every single girl I've dated started out like that, texting "friendly" with another guy until it turns into something more which she never takes responsibility for. Although I believe girls aren't stupid, if I never made that clear wh…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 11:56 AM
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Not that it takes away from your point, she was back before midnight. The texts went on until about 3. She already fucked up. I don't want anything said that she didn't do. I agree with you on the dread, I probably have gotten too comfortable treating her well.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 08:06 PM
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I'm not that young, I'm 30 but I really appreciate you taking the time.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 03:04 PM
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This is the most fucked up part about it. I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't. Can you explain "keep trusting but ALWAYS verify?" In my experience the one who is in a girls mind eventually end up in her pussy. That's why I want to smash this shit now, in the best way for ME now.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 02:44 PM
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She has more green flags than red, but one red to me is too many. I wanted to end things that night, but thought that to be more reactionary. What i need is a relationship that works. I can't do that without a woman, regardless if it's her or not. No matter what she's already let me down, and I honestly believe every woman will at some point or another.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 02:15 PM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP22/01/17 01:18 PM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP22/01/17 01:17 PM
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She didn't want comfort, she wanted information. He could have done all that and she still would've asked again.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 07:11 PM
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"I guess I'm too much of a bore to just hang out with, and not have sex with huh?" "Oh sweety, if I was that type of guy you'd be bored with me" smirk and escalate again. The keyword that gives her away is "sex." She's not stupid, she knows what she wants to give to guys
/r/askTRP15/01/17 07:58 PM
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This is so true, it bothered me how much religion fell after reading this one story, in the beginning of the book!
/r/askTRP01/01/17 05:37 PM
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Here's something that we did here a while back, real answers to some of the most common shit tests. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3va94z/the_shit_test_buster_game_round_1/?st=1Z141Z3&sh=648d4d9c
/r/askTRP31/12/16 06:11 PM
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Yes. My girl is similar when it comes to "not knowing me." Regardless this is her first attempt of many to bring you down to a level where she knows more about you, but at the same time make you less attractive. It's not malicious, but it is what it is. Personally, I've been with my girl a year, and I can tell she's learned not to ask me about certain negative things because I won't tell her. You are doing really well though, you're staying calm and explaining things to her akin to how a father …
/r/askTRP24/12/16 12:59 PM
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Unfortunately, I don't think so. I believe most women will get butt hurt, they'll have the "well we'll just make men robots" mindset, it'll create more divide and once more women will overreact to a problem they caused in the first place None of this will happen until they "shame" guys first for getting what they need, regardless of how fake it is.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 01:14 PM
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Ex Machina is another movie that hits the points of your last paragraph really well. Check it out if you haven't.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 01:03 PM
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Something that helps is when you do masturbate, do it without porn. The time it takes to cum is going to let you "reset" your body. When we watch porn, were usually trying to hide it, have anxiety about it, trying to hurry up etc. Take your time and when you feel it coming up, chill and start again. This will take time. THIS WILL TAKE TIME. You've conditioned your body to cum quick for over ten years, but you can reverse it.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 06:36 PM
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Understand that there are men better than you, that will be hurt by women. We at TRP prepare you (at times to a fault) for the worst case scenario, so that you can handle everything less than that. You are focused entirely too much on one girl as a man with many options. You're worried that YOUR girl may cheat on you, replace the girl and you still have the same fear. Many won't agree and more will violently object, but once you get a girl it no longer is about her. Your job among many is to sta…
/r/askTRP12/12/16 11:50 PM
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I am worried, but that doesn't mean I won't handle it even if it means ending this shit tonight.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 02:20 AM
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What are you saying? To not worry about her wanting a bigger dick or not, or I'm looking at this the wrong way
/r/askTRP01/12/16 01:31 AM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP23/11/16 11:56 PM
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Not always, there's some future stuff. House, kids, traveling, but mostly it is looks
/r/askTRP23/11/16 11:55 PM
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It's not easy, anyone who tries to soften the blow isn't helping you grow. I'm 5'3" my girl is 5'5" And I understand every day she's working outside of her nature no matter how great she seems. Any day she can decide to wake up and not want to work outside her nature anymore. I continuously improve myself and find other things to add to my life. It never ends for tall guys, so you can imagine just how much more important for short guys to remember that. The process TRP teaches doesn't change jus…
/r/askTRP20/11/16 09:02 PM
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This is where the arrogance of women come in. "There couldn't be anything possibly wrong with me," "I'm a woman, I exist" in her mind she's done what she needed to do. Because the guy didn't give her attention, he must be gay etc etc
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 08:02 PM
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She's only saying something to see how you'll react, not for an actual response. You'll understand this perfectly if she brings Mike up again or (for the more bold women) tries to call you out on not responding about Mike in the first place. Regardless, she is a plate. Personally, I would immediately demote her in my mind because each stage of a relationship is a pre-requisite of the next. I think you're fine, but when in doubt agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 07:21 PM
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Episode 5, it's about 40 minutes in. Let me know what you think
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 01:17 AM
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It's about Queen Elizabeth's real life
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 11:50 PM
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Even if it's a push for exclusivity, it's formed in a shit test. Treat it as such. A comfort test feels and sounds comfortable.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 09:16 PM
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I agree with fnordsnord, what you have planned is too wordy... "Enjoy your night." She's immediately demoted. It doesn't matter if she goes or not. A girl who is invested in you won't be able to have thoughts like this. "But she doesn't want to sleep with him" She is saying she doesn't have control over her own actions, I'm open to putting myself in a situation where I can do something I'd lose him over, but if it happens it wasn't my fault hence the girlfriend and the weed. As long as she can s…
/r/askTRP08/11/16 09:14 PM
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Where is DENNIS? I thought I saw it in this forum but can't find it now.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 07:04 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP06/11/16 12:31 AM
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If that was the case I wouldn't have posted, I don't need to ask questions about a girl I don't care about.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 11:06 PM
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Wait, you let your guard down and said what she said to your own girl?
/r/askTRP05/11/16 11:00 PM
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Could you break this down more? What's the prisoner's dilemma?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 07:06 PM
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"Women want danger without the capital "D"
/r/askTRP24/10/16 06:23 PM
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What would you do if you were already in a relationship with her?
/r/askTRP21/10/16 01:10 PM
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And to piggy back, go silent. No need to spend another minute responding to her. She knows what she's doing.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 10:21 PM
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Exactly, I can agree that this may all be lies as far as her life, but when I think of her avid followers "the beehive" they literally wait to hear from her to guide what they will do in their own personal lives. Her possible fake life reflects everyday women making these real decisions.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 05:54 PM
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I agree, what do you do to deflect that has worked
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:34 PM
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I'm assuming you'd deflect any conversations about things like this?
/r/askTRP06/10/16 02:05 PM
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Took my girl to play pool on the first date, she talks about that night to this day (year later). I enjoyed myself and made fun of how bad her skills were. Since then we've gone horse back riding, drive in theaters, zip lining, but what's important is that I would have done all these things by myself. She doesn't matter in this regard, she's only along for the ride.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 08:52 PM
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As far as injuries, all we need is the basic acceptance than men are "naturally" stronger than women. Are there exceptions? Yes. Here is a citation from a physiology study back in '07: Leyk, D., et al. “Hand-grip strength of young men, women and highly trained female athletes.” European journal of applied physiology 99.4 (2007): 415-421. There's copies online everywhere, if I can find the original document I'll link it. "The N = 60 of top female athletes consisted of those who competed in judo a…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 05:47 PM
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While you only commented on one point, I'm glad you agree with the point of my entire post.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 12:26 PM
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lol, I like that
/r/askTRP12/09/16 12:54 AM
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I caught that kid thing too, dude must have realized (if he wanted kids) that she wasn't a quality woman to have them with.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 12:39 PM
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From my past experience, rules like these are almost certain to be broken by women. That whole talking about it, is just to make the guy feel better
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 12:38 PM
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The inability to take personal responsibility for yourself will get you every time.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 06:38 PM
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Weed heads hang out with weed heads Geeks hang out with geeks You telling me whores don't hang out together?
/r/askTRP29/08/16 09:26 PM
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After a bit of time, I definitely have romantic feelings for her. The more I think about it, I believe it just caught me off guard. She's the first girl who's told me she loves me. I was the dumbass who always gushed feelings for girls in the past.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 09:37 PM
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Never said I wasn't, the question is about how fast it's happening, not that it's happening at all
/r/askTRP22/08/16 07:46 PM
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I'll read it, thanks.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 04:04 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP22/08/16 04:03 PM
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Because I liked her, she has a lot of qualities that other girls have abandoned. Be that as it may I didn't instantly fall in love with her.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 04:03 PM
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You are having too many issues, too soon, for this relationship to be healthy. You'd be better off giving your time to another girl. This will not go away.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 12:47 PM
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Check out Google and type in TDEE calculator. It'll calculate it for you
/r/askTRP16/08/16 06:34 PM
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I wouldn't rely on women to be wingmen for you, the "friend" would typically see you as an orbiter and give that vibe to the other women you'd "possibly" meet. Think about it, as her friend she's able to get what she wants without giving you what you want, you get a girl she loses that. Go out on your own, or work up to that by going out with a close male friend and focus on enjoying yourself, even though you may not be checking out girls, they're always watching the guys ignoring them and havin…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:10 PM
1

What boundaries do you think he establishes for them?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 04:58 PM
2

When I started out, I did exactly what you're about to do and it was great. 12am to 8am would workout at 4 but kept the lights off, don't recommend it but I didn't tell my boss because I was thinking "who is going to be near the building at 4am?" I doubt you'll run into anyone but we're not working at the same place. If your boss says no, get in the gym an hour before you head to work
/r/askTRP18/07/16 05:00 PM
1

This right here, perfect spin
/r/askTRP12/07/16 05:26 PM
1

Thanks man
/r/askTRP12/07/16 01:56 AM
2

You could not ask for a better chance to practice. It's girls you don't care about about so up that A&A skill, when a girl you actually like comes around you'll be more comfortable.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 01:21 PM
7

This is so fucking true, an ex went out with a guy (lied, and told me it was a friend) and when she came back she literally ran to me arms open hugging and kissing me. I can't explain it, but I could see something was off.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 01:57 PM
1

The need for female companionship has never been there for you, or did it fade out as you got older?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 03:24 PM
1

Always good to hear from you man
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 01:06 AM
5

Damn that's deep, most men will never understand that level of arrogance because it requires work on our part to have value.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 09:54 PM
3

And what's more this lady had gotten death threats, if this was such a harmless book that was a lie women wouldn't need to threaten her
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 08:44 PM
5

That's true, I read on posts about the manipulated man a year back and one guy said he saw a clear difference in how poetry was written. While he wrote poems about the woman herself, how beautiful her eyes, face, voice, etc. Women's poems about men were only about what they did, and how they made them feel not the man himself. It opened the question of do women really see us for people instead of machines... Also in MM.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 08:09 PM
2

I agree, I guess that need is in our nature. I'd like to think marriage with the right girl makes it less risky, although all girls are a loaded gun.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 07:06 PM
7

Sure she was, looking at the facts she bought her own ticket. The ex didn't pay for it or lay anything out for her, she did the work to go see him. This isn't some insignificant guy to her, plus this is her ex she's already been fucked by him before. This girl isn't that stupid to be surprised by him saying "now we can have more fun" we're her audience and she has to look good in front of us.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 05:53 PM
7

Hey man, you gotta understand she's not asking you for your opinion. She's only asking to see how you react, this girl has already made up her mind BEFORE she asked you. Prime example, my current girl asked me if I mind if she went to New York for the summer. I told her to "Do whatever you feel is best," the next text was filled with the plans she already made and reasons why it was good for her to go during the summer. Girls like to make you think you have only two choices, yes (free pass on wh…
/r/askTRP16/06/16 03:40 PM
1

Gotcha
/r/askTRP14/06/16 07:48 PM
1

Playing devil's advocate, wouldn't this open the door for her to say "nothing" even if she knows allowing her to repeat that behavior over again?
/r/askTRP14/06/16 01:14 PM
2

It's important that you know she has already made up her mind BEFORE she asked you. The advice you've gotten of telling her to do whatever she wants is sound. Don't make the mistake of thinking she doesn't know what she's doing.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 03:24 PM
1

I wouldn't stop focusing on myself, and looking for the next level. Period. It's easier for a guy like you to get lazy because your natural positives outweigh your negatives. Your girl (according to RP) is moving out of her prime years and starting her decline. That being so I wouldn't be surprised if she comes to you more, looking for more. Get that consistency under control, that's a weak spot and although minor we need to eliminate as many as we can. If you enjoy her, then enjoy her. Always k…
/r/askTRP22/05/16 03:56 PM
2

"I'm glad you see things my way"
/r/askTRP11/05/16 05:29 PM
1

Prince 5'2". Say what you want but he was able to wear everything he did, and still have chicks wanting to fuck him.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 05:25 PM
10

I see where you're coming from, but no-one will ever be able to tell 100% with either sex until you open up. It's a gamble for men and women no matter how you dress it. If you HAVE to open up to a girl, make it cone from a place of power, where you already know how to handle it before she nags you to hear it.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 11:04 PM
1

Movie dates are cool, but I'd advise not to take her to just a regular movie theater, I've had really good success taking girls to drive in's and theatres that serve food along with the movie. Regardless it's not good as a first date. The first is better as an action date, something simple. Took my girl to play pool our first time out and we had a good time. Once you've built some report movie dates are cool.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 02:41 PM
4

This is a form of an ultimatum. Do not agree to a relationship right now, she's ruined it by asking. I understand the confusion, because we know women want commitment and will ask. But reverse it, what if you kept asking her "when are we going to have sex?" If you agree now, in her mind she will see it as I got him to do what I wanted, and it'll be muscle memory for her that this is all she has to do again to get her way. My main asked me about two months in "is this going anywhere?" I told her …
/r/askTRP02/05/16 03:10 PM
3

First step is to be honest with yourself. Who are you? Can you devote 5 hours straight to a goal a day? No then compensate, as long as your doing something, it's no longer about if you'll get there, but when. I break my work load into hours, from 1-2 I'm going to study. From 3-4 I'm going to read RP, some days I mix it up and others I don't do shit. Image what you want your life to look life and continue to remind yourself the process is going to get you there.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 11:54 PM
5

You are at this really bitter-sweet spot right now. I can't tell you the weight that was lifted when I blocked my ex from everything. What surprised me the most was how much I didn't miss her, my life became easier once I made sure she wasn't apart of it.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 08:27 PM
2

Don't do it, you do not give in to ultimatums and this is just a small form of her trying to control you. Once you turn your settings on something will click in her, letting her know all she had to do is "this, this, and this" to make you do what she wants. Better response "I don't like that I can't see your titties all the time" Word responses however you want, but whatever you do, do not turn your settings on. She's already ruined it by asking...or rather demanding.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 07:35 PM
3

www.stronglifts.com C'mon man
/r/askTRP20/04/16 07:27 PM
2

I think what they were talking about how the sensations are different. Porn is a lot of over the top acting, especially depending on what you're into. With a girl it's a lot calmer, but make no mistake girls do want to be handled and taken. Imagine how you feel when you don't have to do anything while a girl sucks your dick, that's what they want when you fuck them, just to let themselves go. Read the Sex God Method when you have time, but aggressive and dominant are always good. The more introv…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 07:24 PM
1

Second for strong lifts, I was 128 and now 150. Eat more, get my fitness pal to track calories and the strong lifts app, you'll be good.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 07:17 PM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:11 PM
2

8 years is a while, how did you keep her ok for so long
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 07:27 PM
1

This, on so many levels.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 08:30 PM
1

I understand you'd rather have your ex cone but she's already cancelled without giving alternatives. I'd text her back, "hey, if you were still thinking of coming, don't. Some plans have changed." Invite the other girl and forget about your ex. There's a chance your ex will wonder what's going on, ask, and maybe even try to move things around for you. But I'd suggest resisting the urge to explain anything to her and move along with the other girl you have.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 08:14 PM
1

It's crazy to me that she knew you'd x her out of your life if she treated you badly and yet she did this anyway. It's good to hear you're moving forward man.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 07:40 PM
2

"Awh love, if all I wanted was sex you wouldn't be here long enough to say that." Give her a kiss, and go about what you were doing
/r/askTRP13/04/16 08:20 PM
1

"I don't fuck boys"
/r/askTRP13/04/16 07:54 PM
3

But it is interesting watching them try to come up with the reason
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 03:20 PM
4

May sound counter productive, a girl I'm currently fucking asked me "is this is going anywhere" I told her "if this stays good then yeah" she had a small moment of resistance, held frame and the night ended in more fucking and her cuddled and kissing on me. In that moment I realized I had internalized red pill and certain behaviors were running on automatic. Old me would have removed doubt all together by praising them and bending over backwards. It was a huge wake up call.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 08:19 PM
1

How much time do you give before you upgrade plates to LTR's? And do you set any ground rules or anything before you get into one
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 08:38 PM
1

Needed to hear this today, thanks
/r/askTRP08/04/16 06:08 PM
2

If you're in a gym, get on an adduction machine. It pumps blood back into your groin area that helps you get erect and stay there. I'll look for a picture or video and post it for you
/r/askTRP07/04/16 07:03 PM
2

"Unwanted attention" That's the key word right there, if all men were desirable I guarantee this argument wouldn't be here. This world is not fair and we have to embrace that's fucking fantastic.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 11:51 AM
1

Hey man, I've been a certified life coach since June of last year. If you want to get together and hash some things out I don't mind. First hour session is free.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 03:19 PM
1

If you were a Chad, most likely she wouldn't get off your dick, but I'll leave the 1% that it's possible she's just a girl that doesn't like touchy shit like that, it happens. But fuck that you are a Chad bitch, just need to work on becoming a stronger one Remember the process doesn't change because you have a specific problem with a specific girl. Stay in the gym, what's the next level you're moving to, how many girls did you flirt with today? Save some of your favorite posts on TRP and re-read…
/r/askTRP04/04/16 03:16 PM
1

Yeah man compatibility just sounds like what it boils down to. Looking at it again, something like this may have went over better: Rolls eyes* Fine, I'll only smack your ass twice once we get there. Get your shit and let's go. Then literally start ignoring her while you're there.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 03:01 PM
2

True, one wrong move and off with his dick tho lol
/r/askTRP04/04/16 02:49 PM
1

Thing is, this does bother you man. I guarantee this won't get any better. You'll either need to change what you naturally like (touchy feely) or she's going to have to change what she naturally likes, and we know you can't negotiate desire. This moment is gone, I'd turn your focus to the next time she pushes her luck, and believe me she will. You saying "of course that's what I always want to do" doesn't come off as AA, just further solidifies her knowing you'd be clingy. If I can see that, the…
/r/askTRP04/04/16 02:42 PM
4

Exactly the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. Even if (let's say) he never found her diary, and another huge argument happened her past experiences would kick in and remember what she can do to feel better again
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 08:51 PM
3

The conversation should have ended after "i'll make it up to you," ignore this girl. No girl that's into you is going to confuse you Once you told her that you've been confident and charming etc, it just confirmed for her that you had a motive. Women already know this they just don't want to be told this. They are covert speakers, not overt like we are "She doesn't want to feel like she's answerable to a guy. So I tell her that she doesn't need to worry and I'm not that guy," this is a bullshit …
/r/askTRP01/04/16 07:13 PM
1

Block her number, hardest thing I had to do but gave me the most relief.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 07:52 PM
1

Do something active. Can't stress this enough, I took my current main girl to play pool, it really takes the pressure off unlike going to dinner or something.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 07:49 PM
2

Not fighting, showing from a different angle that it's not as bad as you think
/r/askTRP29/03/16 10:17 PM
1

It does matter to you. Regardless you need to come to peace with the understanding that you aren't mad that you're short. No matter how you've spun it, no matter what girls, friends, etc have made it about you that's not your issue. You're upset at how the WORLD treats you because you're short. A dark skin girl isn't mad that she's dark skin, she's sad because the world tells her she's ugly because of a fact she cannot change. If you were never told it's bad to be short, that you would never get…
/r/askTRP29/03/16 09:35 PM
1

How tall are you?
/r/askTRP29/03/16 09:12 PM
1

Thanks, I'll look into this site again.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 09:08 PM
2

There is a fuck ton of information there and to go through. You know of any good companies you can pay that'll do this with you?
/r/askTRP29/03/16 08:49 PM
1

No that's not the point, the issue I had and the only issue was that she was texting this guy while with me. See what I'm saying. That aside what's done is done, I'm more concerned with how I'm reacting to it, whether I'm handling my own reactions right or if I could be doing better in that regard.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 12:53 AM
1

Right, thank you.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 12:51 AM
0

Me, she doesn't use my wifi, she cooks and pays my way if not more then just as much as i pay for hers.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 12:49 AM
1

Thanks man, I'm trying to make sure the way I've been responding is right or if I could tighten up by doing something different.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 12:47 AM
1

Look up, read, and internalize the "law of attraction"
/r/askTRP27/03/16 04:20 PM
6

Trust your gut, you're knowing and feeling that your SMV is off. Add to the fact she is clearly shit testing you and you've been dealing with it for a while. She doesn't believe what she's doing is wrong because she is outright saying these things to you. Raising your SMV is not enough, implement that lovely dread. Not nearly as overtly ridiculous as she's doing but follow 12 levels of dread. This is not good behavior, and you know it.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 05:57 PM
1

You did or she did?
/r/askTRP24/03/16 03:10 PM
1

I feel you, I know she wants a relationship but do so I with the right girl. It's only been three months and that's not enough time for me to know if she's that girl. I've never lied to her and I won't. But I understand girls a bit more and if this one gets a whiff her time's being wasted, she's gone. I need to get my point across that me taking my time isn't wasting hers... Even if things don't work out.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 12:18 PM
1

Definitely need to tread carefully, what could I do that would be a mistake at this point. I'm already fighting the urge to try harder.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 12:08 PM
1

Its not like she said "I want a relationship, and if you can't give that to me I'm leaving" Exactly, before she left she said I don't want to go but I need to get up early, this was after everything was said so I know she's not at that point. I believe this was a comfort test, do you think it was the same?
/r/askTRP21/03/16 12:07 PM
2

Oooo that's good, thank you.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 08:21 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/askTRP18/03/16 06:39 PM
1

Nice, thank you!
/r/askTRP17/03/16 11:39 AM
2

I don't believe a woman would ever need to say "just be yourself" to an alpha. Might be a good indicator of where you are
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 03:37 PM
1

Having a dedicated "done by" date will help you with to do lists. You'll be amazed at how many things you'll get done before the date you set.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 08:58 PM
2

God this hits real close to home, I battle with perfection and I'm constantly losing. Understand though your face that attracts girls is still there, even underneath all the insecurities you may have in that moment.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 08:53 PM
4

This is extremely good advice, will second this works
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 08:42 PM
1

Fawk! If this doesn't hit the nail on the head
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 08:27 PM
1

Set a specific time these things will be done. Your goals and progress need to be measurable. You have a lot you want to accomplish so even if you take three things and give yourself three months that's better than having a list of things to do.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 04:48 PM
3

Do you know off the top good resources to get started as a relationship coach (already certified) working the business part isn't easy for me. When it comes to drop shipping is there any resources you recommend that will set me on the right track. I know about the "warrior forum" any others are greatly appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 08:26 PM
2

I started looking people in the eye a lot more especially girls, taking my time when I spoke and I've gotten really blunt and bold maybe even to a fault but the feeling is amazing so is the response from others
/r/askTRP29/02/16 03:13 PM
3

I was done at "i'll be an awesome friend, don't say no and don't be mean" who is she to give you ANY sort of ultimatum? You are not in the game for female friends or crazy females period.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 03:00 PM
2

Second that for meetup.com.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 02:50 PM
4

Look at it this way, women operate different than us. You just spending time with another girl is the sex in her mind, you giving up time and attention to a chick IS your pussy, where the actual act of sex is sex for us. No guy unless he's beta will hang out with your girl for long without sex happening sooner or later, she knows this.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 09:50 PM
1

She was fucking a guy while we were together and she's with him now, lying the whole time. I was a bit different back then because I made excuses for her
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 11:08 PM
2

Beauty, good looks is an extremely powerful tool with women. They know just how easy their life is for the simple fact that they're cute, pretty etc. They don't like seeing that tool in the hands of the "enemy" which is why you see older women hate on younger woman and ugly girls hate on pretty girls. Women knew just how many options you have or could have just because you're attractive, because that's what they've experienced. To piggy back off these guys, there is a limit. I think there was a …
/r/askTRP23/02/16 10:15 PM
1

For the sleeping, pick a time of the night where no matter what you will be in bed, comfortable, without a lot of distractions. Once you get used to that time add 30 min, an hour and keep going until you have gotten 8 hours of sleep. Not that you've been in bed for 8 hours, but actually sleep. Look into meetup.com you'd be surprised how many people in your city or close to you are looking to do the same things you are.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 09:04 PM
1

Your relationship's breakup is really recent, most people aren't able to move on without giving themselves time to do so. Don't stop what you're doing, continue to approach and as time moves on you'll get better and the struggles you're having now will become extremely easy.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 08:54 PM
1

Block her number, this was the hardest thing for me with my ex of 5 years. It took me 6 months to do it, but it gave me the peace I was looking for and opened me up to start talking to other girls. The girl I'm with now treats me better than I could have imagined. Block her man.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 08:49 PM
2

If you jerk off to porn, stop. Porn and a real girl won't give your body the same responses. Jerk off once a week if you want to a girl or your imagination. Sounds crazy but it will help you.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 10:04 PM
2

This guy right here gets it, best video about eating pussy I've seen.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 01:11 PM
1

I could be dead wrong, but have you ever looked at a really gorgeous chick and thought "I will never be able to get her" I think that's what goes on in a woman's head when she sees an attractive/unattractive guy doing well. We as men inherently know how much competition we have when dealing with a beautiful woman. Women understand how many options a man has who's doing well for himself. That means they have to continuously work to stay on top, which most women don't want to do.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 01:43 PM
1

"Well it didn't end in sex, so it was a waste"
/r/askTRP19/01/16 09:54 PM
2

You need to see a physical therapist or a personal trainer if you don't have anyone that can help you with a very easy test. I work as a personal trainer and from what you're saying you may have scoliosis it doesn't necessarily mean you can work out. What I do with clients is have them stand against a wall and line-up a piece of paper right above their shoulder. Do the same with the other shoulder then measure it, if you have a difference more than 1/4 of an inch it's a minor problem, any more t…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 01:11 AM
1

That's what I was thinking too, no matter what don't offer a second date
/r/askTRP03/01/16 01:43 AM
1

She just texted me: I'll most likely be with my family tomorrow. Thanks for the invite though. Do I automatically next because she didn't reschedule or let it slide because I actually didn't ask her out on a date but to something that I'd already be doing? Or does it not matter.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 12:27 AM
1

I will
/r/askTRP02/01/16 11:11 PM
1

Got cha
/r/askTRP02/01/16 08:51 PM
1

When you say every time you physically separate, that paragraph.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 08:41 PM
1

I'm sorry, the changing context bit went over my head. Could you break that down
/r/askTRP02/01/16 07:48 PM
1

I appreciate it, I ask nothing even though I want to go out with her
/r/askTRP02/01/16 07:42 PM
3

That flows so much better thanks!
/r/askTRP02/01/16 05:35 PM
2

When we were talking and she gave me her number she said I promise it's my real number, etc etc. I thought it could be something to use
/r/askTRP02/01/16 04:01 PM
1

"You know so many girls have said that to me... Is that a thing y'all say?" "As long as you keep doing what you're doing we're going to be just fine"
/r/askTRP24/12/15 08:25 PM
5

This is so true, I used to be terrified of making my ex angry
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 02:18 PM
1

How do you even disarm the please don't leave me if I don't put out. Let's be real we want sex and women want commitment. What if we said please stay with me if I never commit to you.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 03:13 PM
1

"Don't do this to us, we're so happy right now" or You: "Two really attractive people who just had sex(or whatever)" Her: "You know what I mean" You: "Oh you want to be more?" Her: "Yeah" You: "How do you plan on changing that?" She's asking the question, not you. Your conversation may go differently because you're not that into her. But if she wants to be more to you, she needs to offer more than what she's giving.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 02:39 PM
2

Number 6 is great, you can replace it with almost anything "only to the ugly girls" and she'd drop it because she doesn't think she's ugly
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 07:05 PM
2

I think you'd be able to gauge it better face to face, you can usually tell when someone genuinely doesn't understand something. Over text is different and I'd have to agree with others it's best to not respond or keep it simple with a "you'll get it next time"
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 05:20 PM
1

Couldn't link it on mobile but go to the red pill and search "text game cheat sheet" hope it helps out man
/r/askTRP01/12/15 01:22 AM
1

I'm running into the same problem, another user pointed me in the direction that talks about texts and texts to get girls on dates. I'm going to find the link, see if I can post it here.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 01:19 AM
1

I well next time, I wasn't asking her out this particular time, just wanted to get a feel for her
/r/askTRP29/11/15 08:01 PM
1

Foreal? That's how I talk in person too. Think that ruined things with her?
/r/askTRP29/11/15 08:00 PM
1

We should all be doing this daily, but this is the perfect time to kick your SMV in high gear, go into hibernation and decide what things you can improve drastically on in the next three to four months.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 06:52 PM
1

I never looked at it like that, you may be right.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 02:15 PM
8

Well I am only paying 7.99 for Netflix.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 01:14 PM
0

You can say that about madea maybe
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 01:07 AM
10

Possibly but in the context of what the movie showed he was an ass and the chick was the perfect wife victim. The real world is different for some.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 11:04 PM
19

First thing that stick out to me was "I can't" notice how the new fun thing for girls to say is: "I can't even" or "I just can't"
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 02:16 PM
1

Winter is the best time to take a step back and focus intently on raising your SMV. You should always be striving but this is cuffing season for most who will break up once it gets warmer. What measurable goals can you accomplish in these next three months? Practice on girls, pay attention to the ones that show more skin during this time too.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 10:30 PM
1

Damn that was good
/r/askTRP17/11/15 01:18 AM
5

How do you turn that bad example in a good one?
/r/askTRP16/11/15 10:33 PM
1

I'm in a similar situation, except my ex was manipulative and cheated. Whether she's asking for your advice or wants to see if there's another shot, you're doing the right thing by not answering. It's all a pull to get you to respond, "if he responds to this, maybe he'll respond this time too." If you wanted her back it would be a different story. Use the knowledge that you have a woman texting you fuel your abundance mentality if and when you talk to other girls, it's helped with me
/r/askTRP15/11/15 01:54 PM
3

This is my question, how the hell do you nip that in the bud. Just listening to her pissed me off, "just take the fucking nail out of your head." Clearly we don't have anything invested I this girl, but what of one you do care about? Is it a comfort test to listen about her pain that's so easy to fix, or do we tell her "if you need to complain talk to your girlfriends about it?"
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 09:01 PM
4

Yeah please get on that, I like the strategy posts you do
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 04:44 AM
1

She just called me, didn't answer. Then she texted me this: "call me back when you get a chance. I promise not to annoy you. I just wanted to apologize." I don't buy that shit, her apologies usually sound like: "i'm sorry that I kept asking things from you that I know you just can't give me blah blah blah" Or something similar
/r/askTRP06/11/15 02:46 AM
1

Thanks man
/r/askTRP04/11/15 02:16 AM
1

Thanks man, I'm going to keep reading this.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 02:04 AM
-1

Have you ever used ginger beer as a chaser?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 03:18 PM
1

Try not to let this eat at you too much, no matter how true or false any of the comments are, they're still speculation. I agree that it could be a red flag if she overreacted, but this could be a point when you sacrifice cultivating yourself to focus more on the negative side of your girl, don't do that shit. If she's flirting with another dude it'll come to light, cross that bridge when you get to it.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 01:42 PM
1

Yeah, I'm actually pretty booked this weekend which is cool, I know she's going to try to finagle her way into staying over my place while I'm gone
/r/askTRP29/10/15 11:42 PM
1

Damn, what did you say to that?
/r/askTRP29/10/15 08:25 PM
1

Religion= regulation
/r/askTRP29/10/15 07:11 PM
4

How does one protect themselves from a false rape accusation?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 07:25 PM
1

I agree she was lucky, but she didn't know he paid for those things. Where do we put that?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 09:25 PM
1

Damn, that's really fucked up. I'll take another look at text game
/r/askTRP25/10/15 07:37 PM
1

So I texted her yesterday about this time asking how I spell her name so I can save it right in my phone and I haven't heard anything from her, I'm ready to count this one as a loss
/r/askTRP25/10/15 07:01 PM
1

Very true, I had a moment of weakness
/r/askTRP24/10/15 04:02 PM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP24/10/15 11:58 AM
1

Ok, I'll try to keep it short without leaving anything out. I pulled up in the drive-thu to order my food and at the end I said thanks, but the way she said thank you made me laugh to myself, this is the convo once I got to the first window: Me: "you didn't say thank you like you really appreciated me (smirking)" I repeated what she said in a deeper voice Her: "(smiling) Really! What did I say?" Me: "you said it, but it left me wanting." Her: "I'm sorry, I'll make sure I say it better for you." …
/r/askTRP24/10/15 11:57 AM
2

Got cha, thanks
/r/askTRP24/10/15 02:45 AM
2

Does it matter how soon I text her, or do I need to wait a few days
/r/askTRP24/10/15 02:29 AM
1

Thanks, I really appreciate it
/r/askTRP24/10/15 02:01 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/askTRP24/10/15 01:25 AM
1

Right. Dammit, thanks
/r/askTRP23/10/15 12:51 AM
1

Thanks, I really appreciate your answer.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 12:50 AM
2

I appreciate you taking the time, long story short I asked on a separate thread: if women need a constant supply of feel goods why doesn't treating them well (being more positive etc) work instead of being a jerk. I know it works I just don't know why it works, I was pointed in the direction of dark triad.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 01:44 PM
1

If you trollin' you got it
/r/askTRP21/10/15 09:47 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/askTRP21/10/15 09:16 PM
1

It's funny because when I said "yeah but I know how that worked out for me" I can't explain it but it felt wrong in that exact moment.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 02:52 PM
1

Nice
/r/askTRP21/10/15 02:45 PM
2

Thanks a lot, that's the same frame of mind I was in as not taking pre red pill women who come back seriously at all. Funny how they've been contacting me recently, this is like the third in the last month or so.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 02:01 PM
1

Thanks man
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:56 PM
3

Damn, I appreciate your answer, I didn't think about it like that.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 01:56 PM
0

Damn I never thought of it that way, you guys have any insight as to why they don't?
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 09:38 PM
1

Wouldn't it be safer to assume the first example is more desire and the second is crazy neediness
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 02:00 PM
102

I really paid attention to her saying " and now it's really hard to get closer to any guys." That showed how her pair bonding started getting fucked up once her oxytocin level couldn't get as high as it did with Chad. It's like cocaine when you think about it, her first hit was amazing, then went down after he was gone. She'll always be chasing that first high.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 12:52 PM
1

I really appreciate that man, thanks!
/r/askTRP13/10/15 11:54 PM
1

Appreciate it man, thanks
/r/askTRP13/10/15 10:18 PM
1

I have read the sidebar, regardless it was a question I needed answered
/r/askTRP13/10/15 10:17 PM
2

I feel you and agree with you, i guess I'm wondering why that translates into good feels for her. Is there something specific that clicks in her mind
/r/askTRP13/10/15 08:26 PM
3

Yeah I'd like to read over that if someone has the link, I want to know why a woman loses the ability to pair bond and we don't when it comes to sex
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 08:08 PM
1

I feel you, I'd rather approach life with as little fear as possible, you know what I mean?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 06:50 PM
1

Honestly with the world going the way it is I'm more terrified to have kids then to get married, I've read the risks and understand it better. I just haven't lost faith in the institution, that being said is vet the fuck out of my girl before I marry her and would still be willing to walk away.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 06:49 PM
1

I was listening to Patrice o neal and he said the best way to look at women is to throw away the 1-10 scale and put women on a scale of 1-30. 1-10 is where ask the ugly chicks fall 11-20 are the cute chicks 21-30 are the drop dead gorgeous chicks. I wish I could put into words how much better my perspective on women is, but it literally took a lot of my anxiety out, keep in mind too that every guy has a different idea of what a 5 is 10 etc and what may help too is to put yourself on that scale, …
/r/askTRP08/10/15 01:26 PM
2

When I read stuff like this it depresses me a little. I get the message and believe it but what can a guy who wants to get married and have kids do in today's age?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 12:31 PM
1

Makes so much sense, thanks man
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 04:28 PM
1

What if a woman asks "how can I fix this" or something to that effect.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 01:06 PM
1

Appreciate the advice man, thanks!
/r/askTRP15/09/15 08:22 PM
1

Thanks man
/r/askTRP15/09/15 03:36 AM
2

Finding things to do without it is really new to me. Is there anything that's worked for you?
/r/askTRP14/09/15 11:31 PM
2

She never responded back, back in town, texted her and we talked a bit. I won't have the time or money to do anything until next week should I contact her then or take the first time with no response as a bad sign and move on.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 11:13 PM
1

You're missing the point, it's not the act of doing it, it's what to say
/r/askTRP14/09/15 06:23 PM
1

Honestly man you should never move in with a woman until you two are looking at marriage. Because that can be unreasonable for some I suggest you move in when it doesn't matter one way or the other if you do or not. If the idea is by moving in together you'll get stronger, the relationship will get better then don't do it. As long as there's pressure it's not the step you should take
/r/askTRP10/09/15 09:36 PM
2

Ohhhhh that's good
/r/askTRP10/09/15 09:33 PM
1

What are things that you had to (or currently) remind yourself of that keeps you sharp? The life you have is where I'm moving towards, any wisdom is much appreciated.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 11:40 PM
3

It's important to know that this chick is the on the extreme end of the spectrum we call AWALT and would do this with any man. Onward and upward gent.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 06:01 PM
4

I'm sorry, what's happening here?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 12:21 PM
1

Just from experience man, having ingrained in you by someone you trust (mom, etc) that's not the way to do things trumps everything you see outside of that. I didn't catch on until I was about 25. I'm here now like you, it's important to remember that things could always be worse but they're only going to get better.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:55 PM
2

Man she's a Richmond, VA 4
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 08:56 PM
1

Oh my god thank you! I thought I was losing my mind for a minute.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 08:55 PM
2

Looking at this made me realized I wasn't as beta as I thought I was. My heart goes out to some of these guys, but seriously WT actual F!
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 02:21 PM
4

http://dailymediabuzz.com/mother-sues-netflix-after-netflix-n-chill-session-resulted-in-her-daughters-pregnancy/ I literally thought this was a joke at first.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 02:47 PM
6

Interesting you say that, right now there is a woman who's sueing Netflix because a guy used "Netflix and chill," and she ended up getting pregnant. No responsibility for her own actions.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 12:44 PM
4

The whole word has so many different definitions it's ridiculous, probably why it's thrown around so much.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 05:58 PM
7

Thanks, it just dawned on me that "Commitment with no strings attached," is to women what "sex with no strings attached" is to us.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 05:39 PM
2

Nice! Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 05:23 PM
5

How can we get access to that podcast?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 04:44 PM
2

I have to agree, it's not your issue directly because it isn't your marriage. You could talk to your parents and suggest therapy, but they'd most likely see it as "this is my child" why are you talking to us about a situation we're already aware of. Your dad most likely knows he's not giving the comfort your mom needs, and (if I'm understanding correctly) your mom knows she isn't giving up the pussy. At the end of the day they have to decide the marriage is greater then their personal hangups ab…
/r/askTRP05/08/15 12:05 AM
2

This eventually it's going to crack. Going off the pure proof that Dani "feels" like she's getting the short end of the stick (which she is). She doesn't love this guy, and is only tolerating him for Melinda's sake. Melinda is the opportunist and can tell how devoted Dani is to her. Dani didn't want this shit! Just like it's been mentioned below, Melinda doesn't feel bad that Dani isn't fulfilled, because she believes Dani is and should be fulfilled solely by her (Melinda). The way she said "If …
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 05:40 PM
1

How many sets do you do?
/r/askTRP22/07/15 10:03 PM
1

When you do high reps of 20 do you lower your weight and how much. Noob question why does that get you ripped?
/r/askTRP22/07/15 07:44 PM
1

Lets you hit your protein intake before you workout, do you need a shake or bar after?
/r/askTRP22/07/15 07:36 PM
2

That's a really good point I never thought of before.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 05:06 PM
2

There is a post on the sidebar at theredpill that's dedicated to shit tests and comfort test, check it out it helped me
/r/askTRP21/07/15 08:09 PM
1

I'm curious how tall are you compared to her? I'm not a RP God by no means, from what you're saying it would serve you best to not care in the least what she thinks or wants. She has already shown you that she is not relationship material from the simple fact of being insecure about your height. If you want to fuck her then let her suggest, initiate, or whatever first. You know that you had plates before, that means you can have them again. I don't know exactly why she stuck out to you more than…
/r/askTRP21/07/15 07:56 PM
1

I would definitely benefit from something like that, I'm branching out as a relationship coach and need to stay on track.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 07:41 PM
2

Shed some light on this for me, as women get older don't they see an increase in that testosterone level, and for us it starts to decrease as we get older? If thats the case do women ever get as high levels as 1200 like we do?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 09:41 PM
1

Appreciate you responding man
/r/askTRP19/07/15 04:42 PM
1

I feel you, this is my struggle man no doubt about it. It's been such a strong relationship for so long before we were together that it's a challenge to let go (beta shit) I appreciate your comment, you're saying exactly what I'm thinking
/r/askTRP19/07/15 04:42 PM
0

You have any pointers on one liner bios, I'm drawing blanks and the only one I could think of is "We know why you swiped right"
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 10:39 PM
0

This really opened my eyes to a lot, with that being said this post bothers the fuck out of me. I understand AWALT as a spectrum and every woman falls on this spectrum at some level. Some are high and some are low. Is the solution to this making sure any negative feelings given to the woman is rectified before you leave each others company or if she does cheat, drop her hard?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 05:25 PM
3

What sticks out to me is your use of the word irrational. On a subconscious level you know your limiting beliefs aren't real, and that's why you still go for it. College, women, jobs, etc Believe it or not you're at a really good place, you're smart enough to see those thoughts are baseless. You have to take some time and understand what outside event(s) made you start creating those beliefs. I think you also see yourself at a level that's lower than where the things are that you want...that's a…
/r/askTRP14/07/15 06:57 PM
1

I'm by no means an expert, but I know quinoa is really packed with protein and doesn't take look at all to cook. Quaker oats or any kind of oatmeal. What do you usually eat for lunch and dinner that gets in your protein and stuff? I'm looking to get better at my own diet.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 06:39 PM
7

This is a struggle for me too, someone here suggested to check out meetup.com and joining some groups with people who are going out doing things you may be interested in too. I have something set up in a few days, and it might help others break out of that shell.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 06:03 PM
3

That's the Kharl Drogo lol
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 05:43 PM
6

The poster itself is fucked up! Look at how Josie is smiling happily looking away at the guy enjoying herself, and Jake has the cup up to his mouth only showing his eyes looking straight into the camera. The effort to paint men as sinister is strong
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 05:22 PM
2

"Did you really message me to tell me something I already knew? You're cute" blah blah blah. "If I love myself this much, then I'll love you the same if you're cool enough" "Thanks!" "I sure as hell hope so!" Keep in mind the girls who shit test you like that, took the time to message you first. They already like what they see, some may need to know if they should.
/r/askTRP11/07/15 01:13 PM
2

As an occasional gamer this was a great example!
/r/askTRP11/07/15 12:40 PM
2

I see your point. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 05:19 PM
1

No, as I'm growing I understand I don't owe it to her because even though she got me through a rough patch I did all of the work. She was just the spark
/r/askTRP29/06/15 11:24 PM
1

No nothing like that, it's more of a bond. When we met I was bad. Suicidal, angry, just a fucking wreck and she put in more time and energy than anyone to get me where I am. So I feel like I owe her my life. The more mature I get I understand that I actually did the work and the less I feel I owe her. What she did was no small thing but she was only the spark. I feel you on everything you're saying, much appreciated!
/r/askTRP29/06/15 06:15 PM
1

Yup, that's the one.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 07:10 PM
2

There is a REALLY good documentary on YouTube about feminism. The origins, ideals, and lesser known issues. It's called "Man Woman Myth" each video is about 6-10 minutes. If you can't find it let me know and I'll post the link to the first vid.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 06:41 PM
3

Saying "real woman" is actually some really rude shit to say to someone. Because the models body looks different, and for a vast number of men, more attractive doesn't translate into fake. Taking the context of what these ladies are saying, Victoria's secrets models are real women because we can fucking see them! Buzzfeed's women are "real women" because we can fucking see them.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 06:10 PM
3

I'm 28 and 5'3" in my professional opinion you have to get to a point where you don't worry about what others "think" of your height. They will let you know and save you the trouble of fucking with them. Most of the time you're doing all the thinking for them. I've had many girls date me and wanted to date me, the attitude I nurture is there are too many girls and guy friends that care nothing about my height to focus on the few who do, you'll get there man.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 04:45 PM
1

I'm noticing most guys are saying they don't cold approach, what do you do instead?
/r/askTRP18/06/15 06:24 PM
1

Introverts unite!
/r/askTRP18/06/15 06:05 PM
1

Gotcha, thanks.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 06:10 PM
1

Not disagreeing in the slightest, but can you explain why it's unfeminine behavior?
/r/askTRP12/06/15 05:30 PM
3

Really good response.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 07:40 PM
2

That's not a concern, I have a bit more freedom at my job.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 12:43 PM
16

LMAO! People at my job have come over to ask if I'm alright for laughing so damn loud.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 07:13 PM
1

I feel you when you talk about having a better word. I've been listening to a lot of Dr.Paul's teachings, and he refers to men like you guys as "omega males." It's the combination of both the alpha and the beta that complement each other
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 08:27 PM
0

Everything about this mini thread made me laugh!
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 08:24 PM
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