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I'm not that physically fit. I used to be pretty well on my way. I was at 22% fat (so average with some muscle). Then I got comfy in a dead end relationship and gained 64 lbs. I've dropped 45lbs of it and still working on it. He would bitch at me about my weight even though he gained some too. He wouldn't go to the gym with me and it was like dragging a dead horse to get him to even go for a walk with me. We were both gamers but let me tell you, I will never date a gamer again. After we broke up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:52 PM
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So many upvotes because "yeah, you should have empathy!! Don't be a childish dick!" I love the comment section though. Like you said, so many men going "my females friends tell me wild stories and I was blown away" and the gay men going "men are fragile, holy shit." I thought OP was a man from the content of the post. Didn't look at the post history either. Though as a woman, I def agree it is dangerous to not ghost. I told a guy once I wanted interested and he turned into a man child telling me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 12:49 AM
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Love a ruthless and unapologetic woman! 🌻🌻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 11:04 PM
10

Damn, I'm sorry that happened to you. Glad nothing really bad came out of it. I have a RBF and generally am annoyed by anyone who talks to me. I once had a guy try to flirt with me and I just looked at him and sighed and gave him a stare like "what? I'm reading, don't bother me." And he got all awkward and asked if I wanted to be left alone and I told him yes and he left. Lol No reason to be nice, just don't overtly be mean or passive aggressive. I think noncaring helps. That's from my experienc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 10:56 PM
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Oof. I thought of going to the ob/gyn, but the next day the blood was just about gone. I was just in pain and if went away in the next day or two. The guy I was with said he felt bad (might have been why he was ok with letting me cuddle him). The guy you were seeing was such a fucking ass. Omg. "Y0uR a pRinCesS beCUaSe vagInAs geT wet bY thEmSeVelEs aNd I ShOuLdNt hAvE to Do anYthIG." Like, no foreplay is like Indian burning a dick on purpose. 😒 Indian burn a b1tch next time. Sorry you had to go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:02 AM
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I slept with a guy who got us a hotel and he basically finger jabbed me red. Like oozing and it wasn't my period. I cleaned it up and said no more sex. He wanted to leave the hotel after that. I said nah and made him let me cuddle him to bed. I was still living with my ex at the time (stuck in the lease) so I made sure I wasn't going back to the house that night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:42 AM
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Right. I've noticed that. It's "ok" for them to "invade" our spaces but we [women] can't "do the same."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:50 PM
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I like that mod. A while back he posted about men complaining "thIs iS aSk mEn n0t aSk w0mEn" in supporting women who give their .2 (like me) about shitty men. Lol https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/gdhhx0/the_sub_is_called_askmen_not_askwomen/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:26 AM
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A developing scrote, unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:41 AM
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This is something I'm starting to wonder is happening. Went for drinks with a male friend. This isn't the first time and nothing like this happened before. He got really drunk (I just got tipsy and then sobered up because I was tired) and he wanted me to hold his hand to "help keep his balance" and honestly it made me go RRRREEEEE on the inside because I only hold hands with men that *I like and am dating." I couldn't bring myself to say anything. So I just felt awkward and like my hand became s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:40 AM
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... let’s stop pretending men become faithful the second they ask for exclusivity. These mother fuckers be mate guarding like no other while keeping their options open, especially during the first months of exclusivity. Keep your eyes peeled ladies. No guarantees until you get that ring. This. I was a beard for my ex of 5 years because he was too afriad to come out the closet. I ignored red flags but never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:29 AM
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My folks are always pushing me to find a man because I'm nearing my 30s, single and need to pop out grandchildren. I told my mom that I would rather be single than settle for a shit man just to say in married and give him kids just for the fact of having kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:19 AM
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Heterosexual men only like pussy. They are homoerotic in actuality. They love and respect other men, they simply fuck or desire to fuck women. If they don’t think you’re desirable to fuck, you’re non existent to them. This so hard. After my ex and I broke up, I was still "one of the guys" with some of his guy friends and I got to hear all the stuff they would say about other women they knew/were friends with who sent them nudes. So degrading. And not to mention the racism. Festishization of Asia…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:16 AM
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I know I thought of doing that along with male solo masturbation videos but I didn't even bother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:06 AM
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Right. I remember I knew a guy/had a friend who had a daughter. She was a beautiful and smart girl. She was 2 when I met her. I met the baby momma too. I can't remember why. All I know is that she got mad because she thought we were together. Maybe he brought me along to make her jealous and it went over my head. Anyway, this man stated he wanted to be there for his daughter but when the momma wanted to move to Maryland from the Atlanta area- he was just like "that's fine. I'm not ready to be a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:42 AM
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Oh man. I was about to say "Megan, girl. Wtf you thinking???" But got cha. I dont really keep up with celebs. Thanks for the clarification!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:34 AM
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"I fucked that lesbian straight." - my brother who slept with a "lesbian." Like bro, lesbians don't want to be near dick. Period. You can't "fuck a lesbain straight." "God. Why you gotta be so technical. Idc."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:32 AM
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Yes. I had her (a child) but that (she) doesn't matter. Wow. What a deadbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:19 AM
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Who the man on the top left of the second pic? Is that the scrote??? Is that the man Megan let hit it???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:18 AM
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I was a B when it came to men that I casually had sex with talked all hype but game was not even 5 mins. Like gtfo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:02 AM
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People like to talk shit about sex trafficking in other counties like America doesn't have the same shit going on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 03:58 AM
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Right. One of my roommates is a male and he made a comment one time about how he can't cook for shit and would like to have a wife to cook for him. He stated this after I said enjoyed cooking. Yeah, I enjoy cooking for myself and for men that I like who also cook for me and themselves too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 03:52 AM
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I stopped dating due to insecurities. Then I met a guy who I felt was physically [out of my league- six pack/athletic type] because I'm a bit overweight. Due to being overweight I figured men saw me as "desperate" / "seeking validation" which I wasn't. Using someone for sex is a 2 way street. This guy "wasn't like the other guys." He cooked for me, cleaned, ate me out, asked how to better perform, took me shopping and out to eat and didn't hang it ober my head. Told me from the get go he was lea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 03:49 AM
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Goes to Italy for a vacation Gets hella creepy vibes from an American man speaking Italian following and threatening you. Smh. Glad you and your family got out safe. Edit: phone autocorrect typos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 03:55 AM
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I bet he don't even pay attention to your needs when ya'll fucking. What she talking about? Let's be honest fr fr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:35 PM
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Ah. Derp. Ok. Thanks for clarifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:49 PM
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To the person that deleted their response saying "If you care so much, start your own movement." Why you spitting and then decided to hide? Don't come back after seeing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:43 AM
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You mean to tell me that people can pay $30 to find SSN? That's all I read out of that. Talk about identity theft out the wazoo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:29 AM
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I've noticed this. Especially with the coronavirus. There were a lot attack on Asians in the US when COVID-19 hit and a lot of racial slurs and some murders. All of that got thrown under the rug when the BLM boomed. Oh, but if it was an older black woman who got acid thrown on her or older black man who got murdered, it would blow up in the media. The majority of those who attacked Asians were black. I have Asian friends that I worry about because of the attacks. A lot of blacks raid Asian busin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:24 AM
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hasn't texted you in a long time says he was busy with work asks if said coffee shop is open again asks you out for drinks "Sorry, but I'm going out of town for 2 weeks. I'll be back at yadayada time. Text me then if you wanna hang" says he will 3 weeks later- continued silence. I figured as much. Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:08 PM
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Awe. It is definitely the thought that counts. ☺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 02:40 AM
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I was trying to be a wife and still got fucked over. 🙀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:35 PM
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I'm fcking dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:18 AM
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"Yes, I have inserts PLUS a push up bra on. Why you ask?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 12:02 AM
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Saw a video of a woman who was going to do a stand up shower scene. She thought she was going to have sex with X. Then Y came in and you could see on her face the confusion. She goes, "I thought I was having sex with you (X)." He goes, "Absolutely not (she was a heavy set girl) and Y was gleeful. X goes "turn around and show off for the camera" or something to that extent. She did not consent to have sex with Y. And no, it was not a "set up" scene. The look on her face looked like she was about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 11:53 AM
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Had an old male "friend" found out I was no longer in a relationship and he got "sad" I went on a sleeping spree and didn't include him among the men I slept with. Also asked for nudes and sent me his PornHub account and said I could make a folder for my stuff I like to watch. Like wtf??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 11:48 AM
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I've met a few women who love it and over hear random women at the store or something talk about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 11:38 AM
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I watched it once with this girl I didn't like (she was a liar and drama filled) to kill the silence while she waited for her friend and my ex to show up to go somewhere (I was stuck in lease with the ex at the time). It was horrible and so badly scripted. And then the guy goes for the ugly women he ended up cheating on with instead of the pretty girl that was good to him. Bless her little heart. I do like "Say Yes to the Dress" though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 11:37 AM
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He was upfront about having to leave from the get go, never lied/hid that fact. The way he treated me was a huge eye opener for me though and I won't be expecting anything less with the next guy. So I'm not completely mad at him. I like to look at our meeting as a short term blessing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:21 AM
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I hate it when guys make fun of the guys I sleep with and pull a small penis joke and then turn around and ask me to fuck me... like they deserve to, because I "deserve a better fuck compared to sleeping with small peepee." It's fucking pathetic. Edit: And when you are "one of the guys" you can really take an inside look of how they talk about their friends and other girls they know...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:11 AM
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What also bothers me if you get married that automatically means you will have kids. I'd like to get married and travel and have sex in different counties with my husband. (A woman can dream right?) LMAO But I have little desire to me a mother... to anything beyond my cat and maybe a dog or a rabbit. I'm tired of being more or less told it's my destiny since I was born with a womb. I just trying to travel and maybe eventually build a tiny home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:07 AM
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I met a guy who cooked and cleaned. He even woke me up one morning to breakfast. We weren't even official! and my ex of 5 years never did that for me. His roommates treated him like their personal maid and he hated it but disliked dirty places more. Things were good... other than not being a US citizen and only here for a few months for work and now living 7k miles away. We still talk sometimes though. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:02 AM
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Which reminds me, I need to clean up my IG of my ex... and the dog we got. Neither exist to me now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 02:59 AM
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I think I just immediately unmatched with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:50 PM
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Looks like a joke to me. Like I'm bored and not taking this seriously. You're probably going to be a waste of my time anyway so who cares? At least for me, when I address a guy with "What's up?" I don't plan on taking their advances seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:12 AM
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One time a guy took 2 weeks to reply back. So when I got the reply, I took 2 weeks to reply too- petty ASF. He was excited to hear from me since at that point it had been a month since we talked. He's been a lot better about responding since and that was 2 months ago now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:08 AM
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Right. And because she wasn't obedient to Adam she was cast out "to the demons/to become one." Murder of children because apparently if you don't side with men/have children- you are vile. Adam ate the apple but let's blame it on the "split tail"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:03 AM
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I had a guy text me "Make me a sandwich."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:55 AM
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This kinda used to be me. We used to play together though but we always fought and butt heads on who would lead. Then it got to me trying to hang with me to go for a walk or watch Netflix. Then it got to me contemplating on dumping him so I could go get sex because I'm not a cheater and things were lacking in that department. Then we signed a lease together and he came out gay 2 months after the lease was signed. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:54 AM
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Sorry to hear that. I wasted 5 years in my last relationship because I was a hella PickMe and unknownly a beard for the last 2-3 years of our relationship before he came out gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:50 AM
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I've only met one guy who openly express how he doesn't really watch porn and doesn't mastruabte that often. He wasn't a big hook up type either. He put his sexual frustration energy in working out and keeping himself busy with [athletic] hobbies. I feel he would be the type of guy who occasionally watches porn but if were in a relationship, would drop it all together because sex is better than your left hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:48 AM
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"Sin brought it in." But Eve was the one who ate the apple, not Adam. It's the woman's fault. " The Lord God said to the serpent: Because you have done this, cursed are you above all livestock...." "To the woman he said, " I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing; in pain you shall be for your husband and he shall rule over you." " And to Adam he said, Because you have listened to your wife and have eaten of the tree in which I commanded you..... by the sweat of your face you shall eat b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:41 AM
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Lol I've done that before and hand out my phone number. Got unmatched after that... which is fine. I ended up completely deleting Tinder anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:29 AM
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"I hope you contact influenza." 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:21 AM
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Same. It's bad though, only in the sense that my family keeps bingoing me about how I need to date so I can find a good man to have children with. I'm very CF leaning and I know a lot a men are not, so it helps me not worry about dating and focusing on myself. My goals are more weight loss, paying off my student loans and then making moves to travel Asia because it's been a dream of mine since I was little. And I'm not going to wait to have a man to hold my hand and after popping out kids to do …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:13 AM
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Right. Had this happen once and basically got the guy to cough up to say sorry to me. Then I laughed at him and he blocked me. Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:09 AM
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Reminds me of a guy who hit me up like 2 weeks ago and asking to hang out. I said, "I thought you didn't like me. When was the last time we talked?" (Since January I think, idk). He said "if I didn't lkke you I wouldn't be texting you." Funnily enough, I told my platonic guy friend and the first thing he said in response to it was "He's horny." Like, no shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:08 AM
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This is why my love language is action, not words. Tell me you love in what you do, not what you say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:36 PM
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She went on dates. You have to kiss the robot to "turn it on" and be registered as it's main user. I believe if it kisses someone else, it is then "taken over by the new user." I can't remember if she has sex with him or not. I find it interesting as in the female protagonist series, to turn the robot on, you merely have to kiss it. In another series... Chobits you have to turn the robot on by a spot near the leg. (I wouldn't be surpised if the G-spot was the inital idea). So it's much harder to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:29 PM
2

I lost some weight when I was younger and going to the beach area with the Fam. I wanted to wear a jumpsuit and my mother basically told me how I'm too fat. I thought I looked cute and said that my bf (at the time) said I looked ok. My mother told me that my bf only said those things to me nice to me because he's my bf ans that I should worry about what other men think. Years later I gained over 50 lbs and guess what? YEAH, I'M FAT I now weigh almost as much as I did back then when my mother mad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 07:12 PM
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There is a Manga out of a girl who orders a "Dream Boyfriend" robot. It's called Absolute Boyfriend. A real life series was made for it. Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:28 PM
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I met a guy who tends to be quite feminine in his overall demeanor. Like, sometimes I think he is bi or gay. It bothered me a lot at first but now I think I'd prefer a man who is a bit softer and doesn't make me feel like I'll get chewed out for not being "the cool girl." Spending time with him was a huge eye opener. Edit: and the fact that meeting a guy who wasn't overtly masculine is proof how much toxic masculinity as affected how I view men. "Oh, he doesn't act like XYZ, so he must be part o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:22 PM
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I mean.... "perfect plastic" dolls are being developed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:14 PM
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Says a lot especially when nearly man I've ever met always states how if they were to have children, they want a son, not a daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:07 PM
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Got cha. My bad, thought you were talking about Vanessa in your last comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:43 PM
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I hadn't heard about her, but I looked into it and to me it seems she was murdered and then the guy who killed her committed suicide... because he was found dead in his barracks two days after Gloria was announced dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:35 PM
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I've wanted to join ever since I was a little girl. My grandfather was a huge inspiration for me (Navy Seabee). And it makes me sad that now I'm finally getting able to come around to it (I'm wanting to go the Officer route) I'm highly considering not to because of the type of men and BS I'll have to put up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:26 PM
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Also, the civilian charged for helping hide the body...I wonder if she was a giant PickMe for the guy who shot himself This is exactly what I told me mom. The biggest of PickMes. And the guy who killed Vanessa was mad a beautiful girl like her didn't want to get his pee pee wet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:23 PM
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It was ruled as suicide???? Oh yeah, go shoot and chop yourself up and try to pour cement over your dead body. Fucking insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:19 PM
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I'm right there with you and I'm having a hard time finding answers. A part of me feels it has to be much lower.... since about every story I've seen like Vanessa's is enlisted and if Officers were attacked at the same rate, it would probably be easier to find online complaints/stories out it. But I don't want to assume either. Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:14 PM
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😂😂😂 "I'm a freak as in- you letting me doing what I want to you." [the things men don't say]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 05:13 PM
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Ah! Thanks a bunch for the info! Much appreciated~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:35 PM
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I think rate me subs are absolute garbage. Like how damn insecure do you have to be to have people say you're fucking trash when you're not? 🙄 It's so pathetic. Whew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:31 PM
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Reddit is really starting to piss me off. There's a lot I don't like about it and it irks me my favorite places are getting crushed when rape subs and shit like r/roastme still exists. Fcking pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:19 PM
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I was with a guy who would make an hour drive to see me every weekend. He was a horrible snorer and would wake me up sometimes. Anytime I'd gently get him to sleep on his side or nudge him to stop snoring he never got nasty with me, say he is sorry and just cuddle me before instantly going back to sleep. Lol Kinda cute tbh. Anytime my ex snored and I'd try to get him to quit, he would just wave his hand at me like I was an annoying fly. One time I was sick during the week and I let the guy from …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:18 PM
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Shit. I'm dead. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:00 PM
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Ugh, all my favorite subs getting banned/gone into hiding. Fck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:00 PM
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Ah, so this explains why I can't look at r/PinkPillFeminism. RIP. Glad that this community is willing to migrate to different platforms (esp. IG .. that's my jam). Looking forward to the website.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:19 PM
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I've come to realize this but it is tiring because my family believes otherwise- how I need to hurry up and find a man to get married (which I don't mind. Not going to hurry up though) and give them grandkids (kids I don't want) because they are getting older and my bioogical clock is ticking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 10:34 PM
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Also "You'll be unhappy your entire life if you put others above your own needs."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 02:43 PM
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This is awesome! My ex broke up with me after 5 years by coming out gay. I should have broken up with him 2 years prior due to lack of intimacy. (How pathetic of me for putting others before me because "love"). This fall I will finally be getting my B.S (after being in school for too long due to changing majors and major depression). I'll be getting a graduate ring with diamonds on it and that will be my ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 02:14 PM
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Right. Everyone has their own "love language." Like for me, action speaks louder than words. So *show* me you love me, not *tell* me (I mean, you can do that too... but I still need the *action* to go with those words or else they become hallow to me). Some women are fine with words because the *fact* he said XYZ *means it real*.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 11:26 PM
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She sounds like a cringey14 yr old. LMAO "I'm a vampire... but don't worry, I don't bite... much." *hissss* ​ I. CAN. NOT. XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 11:04 PM
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"DAAVVVIIIIDDDDD" - tennis girl tired of David being a fck up. (Inside joke, I'm sorry, I had to). ​ *Anyway* that's creepy asf. Sounds like a lowkey pedophile. *"You look innocent....like you haven't been with a lot of men....so you'll taste good." Cringe alert!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 11:02 PM
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I did this to a guy once (because I did have a bf [who lived an hour away]) and he was like "When you get back into town, we should go out for dinner." Like A, I'm not going to see some other guy just because my man at the time lives out of town. Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 09:48 PM
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Love BoJack Horseman. Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 03:38 AM
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Tight~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:24 AM
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my goldfish's hamster's cousin I fcking CANNOT 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:19 AM
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My thoughts exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:47 AM
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Lol YW. I was poking at my ex who made me his beard. This is what ended up happening in the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 04:15 PM
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"I keep denying I like men's fists up my ass."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 03:34 PM
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Same same same! Welcome! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:31 AM
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I say it is both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 07:23 PM
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Right. Most guys on Tinder are just looking for a quickie anyway. You gotta put in work to find a guy who will take care of your needs too instead of merely his own. (And isn't creepy/gives abusive vibes, etc). Haha, but you're right, when focused on leveling up, it doesn't matter much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:14 PM
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I quit Tinder to pick up a foreign language. Let me tell you, learning another language has been such a positive in my life. Talk about using the time I would spend on apps and dates to being way more productive. I only use Tinder now for a quick hookup once in a blue moon but I try to stay away to focus on better things... like this sub. Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:16 AM
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I moved out from under my ex and now live with 2 guys idek. One is an alcoholic and the other is a firefighter that is never home nor gives me issues. But the one who is an alcoholic drinks my beer without asking me, I have to TELL him to fucking clean the his cat's litter box he leaves in the empty bedroom bathroom like I'm his damn mom. He huffed and puffed outside my bedroom door drunk when his cat LICKED peppermint and was mad I wouldn't come out to handle the situation. Texting me "what are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:28 AM
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I personally like shaving. I find pubic hair annoying, coarse and not comfortable. I don't do Brazilians though (so not 100% bare) and I like how soft my legs are afterwards and my pits don't hold stench as much when shaven. So I shave for me. Haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 08:53 PM
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Story of my life. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:26 AM
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I put a guy before a degree and I try not to let it eat me alive almost every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 11:30 PM
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I feel that way too. When you go on male dom subs men tend to say "I don't talk about my sex life with my friends." Yet when I was with my ex and heard ALL the stories his guy friends would say about the girls they were friends with- like how much they wanted to lay so-and-so, XYZ sent titty pics and hers aren't as great as 123. "I haven't gotten to see 123's titties yet." "I've heard ABC has beefy lips." "Oh yeah man, she does." "If I'm in a serious relationship I don't talk to people about tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:25 PM
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Oh girl I am so sorry that happened! I would have melted and died if I saw something like that be done to something I wrote. I only wrote a paragraph once about one guys BS and how I wanted him to call me to apologize. He always beat around the bush and didn't call me. He told me to just text him and I told him I wasn't going to write out a long text again. I wouldn't be surpised if he sent it to his friends. But just in case he did, he only got one to use instead of more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 01:59 PM
1

When I was younger (like 10 or so) I wanted to get into dirt biking but my mother refused because "it's a boy sport" and she didn't want to have to pay for hospital bills if I hurt myself. But I'm glad that women are getting into these kind of sports and that it is being done the right way instead of corners being cut because "fEmAle" Thanks for the link!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:00 PM
1

Idk if you play PC, but I would suggest it. You can avoid going to stores and just use Steam to buy games. I have a Switch and PS4 also, but I always just order from Amazon. I haven't stepped into a gaming store in years now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 12:05 PM
3

You don't realize what you have until it's gone... I suppose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 03:30 AM
9

This is cool. I'm big into cars, but unfortunately it isn't as female friendly despite a good number of "gearheads" are women. Like I don't think there are any female Formula Drift drivers in America (and Japan also) if I remember right. I did get to meet Leilani Münter, a Nascar driver. It was great getting to talk to her. https://i.imgur.com/MYQy0d7.jpg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:17 PM
27

Same. Last two relationships was with guys who were into video games (and most recent one a gearhead/car guy also). Long story short, I don't want to date a guy who is big into video games even though I am. Im trying to get more into outdoor sports and I want someone to do them with me, not tell me they are "too tired" and play video games with their bros until 2am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:04 PM
2

Oo, I'll have to give that a try. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:11 PM
3

I've only seen it on one. Even more pathetic being a copy pasta. Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 05:24 AM
16

I never saw that post, but the topic reminds me of a show on Netflix- Godless. It's about a guy who goes hunting down some gang/outlaws who got betrayed by one of their own. But the main town in which the story revolves around is a town full of women, run by women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:29 AM
6

Reminds me of this one profile I came across and it said "My dog will probably like you more than me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:18 AM
3

I am dead. XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:12 AM
10

I have a male roommate who is 29 and an alcoholic. I stated that I like to cook and he went on to say that he sucks at cooking and hoping to maybe one day get a wife that will cook for him. The other day I noticed my Whiteclaws I had sitting in the fridge bottom drawer went missing all but one. I texted him straightforwardly not to drink my stuff. He said he didn't do it and if I asked if the other roommate (also male) had it. No, I didn't ask him- he is a firefighter who is NEVER home and had n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:09 AM
2

Sounds like all he really wanted was to lay you and then you leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:59 AM
5

No. I used to be quiet and over the years give less fucks. I'll probably be seen less attractive for it, but oh well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:56 AM
2

I knew a guy who had an ex who acted like this. She knew he still had feelings for her and would toy around with him, make him an easy lay and pull him away from women and talk about getting back together and then never would. ​ He liked me a lot, but he was a disaster because of her so I skipped out. Don't know what happened to him after he graduated- he just kinda disappeared from everyone he knew. ​ I'm mad at my own past relationships, but I'm glad I don't have to deal with any of that kind …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:54 AM
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Sounds like something a guy would say: "I went over there to fuck and they were so boring, I decided not to and left. Waste." I lowkey support women who treat men that way until they find the right one. Men do the same thing anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:31 AM
3

You sound awesome... this would be me if I wasn't such a slow reader. Ugh. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:28 AM
10

People tend to treat things badly when they feel threaten by it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:26 AM
7

Out of all the men I've met only two I actually enjoyed talking to: one we could could talk about religion, music, science and philosophy. The other, we can kinda touch on politics and culture. A lot of men seem to not enjoy cooking/ expect their gf to cook for them or just eat garbage like they are a trashcan, so it's nice to come across those that like to cook FOR me and not the other way around. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:25 AM
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Right. I saw some clips of the show and he was with a Filipino woman and when she saw him you could SEE it in her eyes she was disgusted and later on "in the series" she was low key using him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:18 AM
14

Me recently. Wasted 5 years after a man left me for coming out as gay. I wasted my 20s on that relationship. I try not to beat myself up for wasting so much time on one person. Earlier today I was just ranting and told my mother how happy I am being single. I don't have to worry about anyone else but myself and my cat. I can like what I like and not have to hear someone gripe about it. I'm learning a second language and I don't have to hear how it is a waste of my time and not be useful. I was m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:09 AM
1

"A human or an onion?" I'm done. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:46 AM
1

Yeah I've never seen anything talking about self-love this far. Shared to see what others thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 08:09 PM
24

My ex came out gay and left me for a man who was 29. Two years older than me. I thought this guy was in his 30s because he looked like a dad and his hair is starting to thin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:24 PM
10

This reminds me of a meme I saw a long time ago Something about a woman bein a Unicorn and when she died, her ash was glitter. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:22 PM
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Me but on AskMen. LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:04 AM
15

Yeah I've heard stories. I read a story the other day of an enlisted female here on Reddit about how she got really wasted (believed to be drugged) and one of her male peers wanted to help her to her hotel room or whatever. Luckily she had a good female friend who was like- nah, I'll take care of her. She was glad too because the author expected he had bad intentions and she had every right to think that. I have been looking to join the AF as well, but as an Officer. I haven't come across many s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 03:16 AM
17

"I am so above you I won't even bother responding." Ayyy. You right though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 05:22 PM
180

Men get mad at women for their own vicious cycle that they created. Astounding. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 05:21 PM
81

Shit women get raped even when there isn't one. It's a huge problem over in Asia among Asian women and fellow female soldiers alike. Japan and Korea has had to change/tighten laws because of it. IT- WHO??? MEN. Absolutely vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 05:17 PM
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A-fcking-bless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 05:15 PM
3

Yeah. My ex stopped talking to him and got out from being a roommate with him after he found out what happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 08:19 PM
42

This. I was going through a breakup and my ex's "best friend" was "there for me" only because he wanted to get in my pants. He acted like "since I listened to your shit about So-and-so let me hit it." He never got it. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:29 PM
16

That is so sweet of your daughter. Anytime I lowkey talk about things I've learned here to my mother/father they tell me that I shouldn't be a radical feminist. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 06:44 PM
13

Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 06:42 PM
7

dates a girl freaks out that she bled through on her period that man needs a boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 10:27 AM
12

Same. I thought after this they ended up getting married. So that's the story I heard a long time ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 08:20 PM
89

I was seeing a guy for a few months before he left the country and I mentioned in passing I like coffee a lot. Next time I saw him he had brought me two mugs because "it made me think of you." He is in Korea now and I mentioned how I really want to go see the Cherry Blossom blooms in Spring over there. A few days later he surprised me with a picture of some cherry blossom trees. These are all little things and I wasn't trying to hint anything. The small things count too. I've talked to guys here…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 04:18 PM
4

ABSOLUTELY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:52 AM
10

So I'm a gamer... but ALL of the people avail to talk to are guys. I tried once play PS4 with a girl I had met because she played too but she flexed. So I just play games by myself like a loser/ I just workout more instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 04:09 PM
4

Awe. Thanks~ 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 11:28 PM
6

True; but I bet dating women, lesbians don't really worry if their potential partner is going to end up becoming abusive, or rape them and all the other vile crap men are more likely to do than women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 11:28 PM
62

This is the shit that makes me wish I was a lesbian. But I can't just magically snap my fingers and like boobs. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:29 PM
5

And let's not forget to underline "these creatures." Absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:28 PM
3

I second this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 05:43 PM
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My ex and I both gained weight when we were together. He would complain about my weight and would never work out with me when I asked. I didn't need him to hold my hand, I just wanted a workout partner. He made more money than me so when he did things we did things he wanted. He did go do things he didn't really want to do like VEG FEST and see Amon Amarth because he knew it would make me happy and he over all enjoyed himself. But those rarely happened and I feel like if I did have money to go d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 08:31 PM
7

I snorted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 07:42 PM
3

I am dead! 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 01:43 PM
2

I recently made a post on my IG about my weight loss victories and how I don't give fcks anymore (growing out of my Pickmeisha ways without saying it) and this guy from high-school (that I haven't spoken to in ELEVEN YEARS) other than just comments here and there slid into my DMs. 🙄 Asking me about a song I played. There's an app for that, it's called Shazam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 01:40 PM
2

Lmao yeah. He is back in Korea. ; - ;
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 08:04 PM
2

Depends on what all you do. If you go hella hard, I dont expect or suggest you to go everyday. I have a friend who runs, lifts and cross fits and came out on top of all their peers in their platoon fitness wise. He said he goes hard but doesn't completely destroy himself so that way it's easier for his body to recover and he can workout at least 5 days with the weekend to rest or just do easy runs. It makes me so happy to come across other Vegans! 💚💚💚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 07:58 PM
2

I know a few people who manage to workout everyday. You make time for the things you want, not find the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 07:47 PM
4

Thank you! And happy cake day! 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:36 PM
18

Cannibalism on their rapist. Metal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:33 PM
10

My ex and I both gained weight during our relationship and he would complain to me that I needed to lose weight and that he became slightly unattracted to me because of it. I called him out on his weight gain and he told me that he doesn't mind the look (to be a cub). I would ask him to go on walks with me and he refused. But our roommate/mutual friend who was bigger than him would go to the gym with me to lift weights. Like ok. I've dropped 40 lbs since the breakup and have about 45 more lbs to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:28 PM
1

This. This this. I tell people all the time I'm not going to have kids unless I PERSONALLY can shit money. I want to travel and I know in the future I'm probably not going to be able to afford travel and kids so I'm picking traveling. Plus, as shallow as this sounds, I don't want to wreck by bosy from having kids. Not for the sake of a man, but for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:50 PM
19

The Coronavirus has exposed a lot. I've always wanted to get married, but I'm not in any kind of rush... in my late 20s. I see SO many posts of people beginning to HATE their SO. I've seen articles that lawyers are expecting divorce rates to go up due to stay at home rules. Men are becoming abusive or more abusive and I'm just over here like- my cat is awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 11:22 PM
3

This is a KDrama, but it basically has the man bending over backwards for the woman. A self empowered woman who built her own fashion industry from the ground up finds herself in N. Korea after a freak accident and tries to get back to S. Korea before her two older brothers and their wives try to take over her company due to her being "deceased." She is looked down upon because she never settled for men who just threw themselves at her to not only get at her money and business but her father's t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 11:14 PM
2

Yeah, if he fighting me about his breath, I'm out. Glad you never slept with him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 10:56 PM
21

This sub has been a real eye opener for me. I've been reading through the Handbook/Wiki just about everyday since I've found it. I've deactivated my FB, deleted more than half of my SC "friends", deleted my Kik, and basically went ghost on all of my ex's friends trying to keep in touch with me (aka trying to sleep with me), blocked some people and currently cleaning through the Subs and people I follow on IG. I told a male platonic friend this and they were like why are you doing this and I was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 10:32 PM
3

Ah. Defined shoulders are a favorite of mine too. AND he is a sweetheart. That's great. I'm so happy for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 11:54 PM
1

How did you get pass the bad breath? I went on a beer date with a guy who RANCID breath. He would just breath and ew. The alcohol didn't even HIDE IT. I completely shut down, uninterested in what he wanted to do, I didn't care about his money, I made myself seem absolutely boring and short. I probably came off as a (b)witch but I will never tolerate that ish again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 11:42 PM
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I wish I did this 4 years ago. 9 months in guy breaks up with me. 2 months later we got back together because I believed in second chances. 5 years down the drain because the reason he broke up with me in the first place was the reason we broke up the second time. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:31 AM
1

I hate the butterfly feeling. After getting out of a 5 year relationship I went on a "hoe" phase for about 8 months with attractive but LVM. Idk what it is about sleeping with someone else to help you get over someone. But anyway, after that I picked up a foreign language to occupy my time and use that time to learn something and be progressive because talking to guys on dating apps is such a waste of time and I want to use that time to work on myself. I'm really glad I found this sub. Blessed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 03:26 AM
2

This made me giggle. Haha Best thing to do, simply delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 10:18 PM
24

There was a guy who made a post in r/dating about how he kept going over about how he treated some girl he dated in his teens. He was verbally abusive and aggressive and he found out this woman ended up with a verbal and abusive relationship after him. He was overwhelmed with guilt and thought of reaching out to say sorry for his own selfish reasons. I'm glad fellow redditors told him not to. So I hope he didn't reach out and is still feeling like shit over it because he deserves to feel that wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 01:39 PM
2

"Drunk man's words is a sober man's thoughts." At least this is what I try to go by. Bf is a POS. Kick him out. "Why? I was drunk? Blah blah." Standup for yourself and he'll gladly kick himself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 11:42 AM
2

Could try picking up a new hobby. I picked up a foreign language and it really helps me focus on myself. Cant get better at the language if I'm busy wasting my time on those that don't appreciate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 04:09 AM
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