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GLOBAL RESISTANCE_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:37 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITY_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:04 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNY_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:01 PM
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REMINDER 👑_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 04:10 AM
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STAY WOKE_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:49 AM
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FDS HUMOR_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 02:08 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITY_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 06:45 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTE_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 09:12 AM
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LVM LOGIC_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:26 PM
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FINE AF FRIDAYS_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:35 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNY_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 12:45 AM
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DISCUSSION_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:10 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNY_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:04 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITY_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:21 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:52 PM
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STAY WOKE_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:59 AM
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NAH, SIS_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 04:33 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNY_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:00 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITY_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:26 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCE_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:46 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCE_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:34 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCE_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 04:39 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNY_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:30 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCE_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:25 PM
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STAY WOKE_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:59 PM
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FDS HUMOR_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:32 AM
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FDS HUMOR_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:30 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITY_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 10:12 AM
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STAY WOKE_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 09:56 AM
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STAY WOKE_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:08 AM
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DISCUSSION_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:47 PM
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PICKME CULTURE_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:41 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFE_electrafire/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:11 AM
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If you’re direct without enjoying it then the guy will accuse u of enjoying it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 11:41 PM
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Yep, and unfortunately it can’t be both ways. If she’s direct then the guy may feel she’s reveling in rejecting him, and if she isn’t direct to soften the blow, he’ll feel led on. Hope u can see why it’s frustrating for women to be put in these situations. It seems that the men take issue not in the way they were rejected, but just by the fact that they were rejected. It also makes women give up on trying to be nice to men because they feel that no matter what they do, the guy still won’t be hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:48 PM
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Idk I think it’s pretty awkward to turn a guy down in person. When women do this do you never see visible signs of discomfort? This is the reason why women won’t be direct about it too, which also upsets men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 10:29 PM
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Exactly. This has also helped me leave toxic relationships. A lot of us women love to go on about how we “can’t stop loving/caring” etc etc and we’re too nice. But when I said to myself “If I’m rlly such a great person then I should be donating to charity instead of wasting my empathy on a psychopath” everything clicked! This is also why virtues need to be moderated. If it’s too far on either end you are either a narc or an enabler. I want to make the world a better place, not enable evil which …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 10:24 PM
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They are totally fine with us scavenging dumpsters and living on the street if it helps the chances of their ducks getting wet or helps manifest their revenge fantasies. The fact we need to survive barely occurs to them and is seen as hugely unimportant compared to their sexual needs. Keep in mind that due to sperm banks, the human race (at least on a biological level) could continue on without men. No man even needs to have sex for the human race to go on. However, despite it not being needed f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:32 PM
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Any evidence of this at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:26 PM
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This guy doesn’t care lol. He thinks you should be willing to subject yourself to violence to quell his “panic attack.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:25 PM
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Save your sympathy for the children in Yemen being killed by bombs dropped on their schools. You only have so much energy and empathy to give. To deprive it from people who really need it in order to give it to someone who is probably manipulating you is honestly immoral IMO. There are people who are suffering much worse. Ik u have good intentions and I did too, but being soft to this degree is truly a waste of your gift of empathy. It should be used to make the world a better place not to enabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:23 PM
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That’s all very true!:)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:19 PM
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Yeah even very attractive women will get more attention online than in person. I’m sure kim Kardashian gets more ig DMs than men who just straight up approach her in person. The latter is more intimidating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:19 PM
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Lmao imagine the uproar if women used this to scam men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:33 AM
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Going for safer rather than dangerous people is definitely meant to be used as a form of “control” to protect you from getting hurt - it isn’t an invalid defense mechanism you need to get over. It’s more like wearing a bulletproof vest If you aren’t attracted to this guy sexually and don’t want to sleep with him or worse, are repulsed by the idea of sleeping with him, then id reconsider. However, the idea of getting butterflies in your stomach from his texts is a bit much - do you really want to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:21 AM
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I’ve also noticed that many people in the BDSM community seem a little autistic - anyone else pick up on this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:03 AM
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I mean if there are people you don't want contact with then blocking them is enough. You don't need to delete your socials - just don't unblock them. But ik it's easier said than done and deleting socials can help. HG Tudor says to deactivate social media after escaping a narc relationship which I think makes sense. maybe start off by just deactivating stuff instead of deleting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:21 AM
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Some of these are a little old, but I thought I’d add some other gems from my saved folder: Why Is No One Preparing A Generation Of Women To Partner With The Brokest, Most Sexually Depraved, Infertile and Useless Generation Of Men? https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/oq40cr/why_is_no_one_preparing_a_generation_of_women_to/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Selectively Ignoring What You Say https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/nbppbu/selectiv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:13 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/p1ae2z/submit_your_handbook_recs/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf This is just so fundamental to our philosophy - and it directly targets a manosphere concept
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:07 AM
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One of the things I learned in business school is that the way to network is to first offer other people stuff. Many won’t return the favor, but some will. You don’t just out of the blue ask someone for a favor! That’s so tactless If this woman wanted something from you, she should’ve offered something first. And the fact that she reached out ON BEHALF of her husband as if he’s paralyzed and can’t type an email is incredible. My own parents wouldn’t even do this for me - I have to wonder if many…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:55 PM
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Their greed and avarice are a never-ending black hole. It’s like like staring over the abyss. It would be awe-inspiring if it weren’t so vile. Demonic energy through and through
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:40 PM
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This is an amazing post - just shared with my GBF or “gay best friend” who I’ve told all about FDS. It’s also funny because I’ve confided in him about how I think I may be bi too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:36 PM
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Thanks for pointing this out and naming specific countries instead of just a general region
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:14 PM
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Just want to point out that your notes are super helpful and tailored towards FDS values. As for RC Blake, while the bulk of his content is quality, I’ve heard he has some shady associations - potentially with T.I. or at least someone connected to him. I’m kind of neutral as to whether he’s worth listening to or not because while his content is quality, I feel like the same info can be found from many other sources, and that it can be the most dangerous to mix good and true advice in an overarch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:30 PM
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exactly incredibly manipulative and covert-narc vibes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:19 PM
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lol he’s too anxious to flag down a waiter yet not too anxious to ask his date a stupid request? I smell bs, he just wants her to take on all accountability and do all his work for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:17 PM
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So glad this intel can be shared for us to put 2 and 2 together when on the other side of the equation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:10 PM
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I like how he was too stupid to just do 2*365=730. This dumbass has the wrong number. I thought boys were good at math...🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:58 PM
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handbook level insight here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:14 AM
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He’s so stupid he thinks a yeast infection is an STD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:43 AM
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He wasn’t being fragile, he was purposefully gaslighting her and will continue trying to gradually break her down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:41 AM
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The fact that they fear vetting tells us everything we need to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 09:09 PM
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Lmao I swear that if there was Reddit back when Ted Bundy was around and his ex posted her suspicions to the relationship subs she’d be gaslit and shat on to hell and back. The fact that anti-snooping culture on Reddit serves the interests of serial killers and pedos really tells you everything you need to know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 04:18 PM
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I think we need more laws in the form of misdemeanors punishable with fines and things like that, because the standards for due process when it comes to prison tend to be so high to the point that scrotes can get away with it 90% of the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:33 PM
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I was laughing out loud by the end of this, they really do humiliate themselves - maybe it’s a porn fetish?🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 05:35 AM
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His brother who works at CNN wrote a letter defending his innocence or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 05:10 AM
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He sounds like a psychopath
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 05:06 AM
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This is so horrible I am livid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 05:05 AM
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Lmao if u don’t spit on them they’re like “she’s DTF bro”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:38 AM
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THIS! The suffering black women are expected to endure is surreal, and it rlly annoys me when white feminists try to act like they have it just as bad - as if BW need anyone else, much less OTHER WOMEN, invalidating and gaslighting them. The emotional abuse you’d have to endure as a BW just surfing the internet would be horrifically traumatizing, much less what they have to go thru in real life. It’s 24/7 emotional abuse and I’d go absolutely INSANE if I had to go thru it. BW are gaslit and call…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 08:01 PM
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Yes! While it’s of course best to wait 3 months, it’s really only a vetting technique. If waiting makes the difference of him wanting to commit, and he wouldn’t have done so if you slept with him when you first met, then he’s only in it for the chase and sees you as an object. I think it’s really harmful that when women are ghosted after sex they’re told that if they had just waited, the LVM would’ve magically turned into a HVM and decide to marry her, since she’d be “worthy” at that point. That…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:48 PM
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It’s the least they could do. Even the rich ones should be grateful that we tolerate them. Do they even realize that there existence isn’t even necessary for the survival of the human race? I feel like this critical point goes over their heads
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:44 PM
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Lol I love this - if a scrote wants to “take it slow” act all confused and be like “oh wow don’t worry! I actually got more friend vibes from our connection too so I think we’re on the same page:)”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:31 PM
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Yep, it literally says in the Bible that a husband should be willing to be crucified for the sake of his wife. These trad guys are full of hot air, and their “iNtEgRiTy” is paper-thin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:10 PM
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Satan is literally the NVM mascot. Medieval depictions of the devil often included a giant penis - I think it was meant to symbolize phallus worship, which was considered a demonic spiritual practice. Many people today say that pornography is actually a form of this pagan spiritual practice of phallus worship as well. It tended to include “temple prostitution” which is literally just human trafficking. The canaanites especially hugely exploited women in this demonic way which is why the jews fou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:07 PM
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cuomo asked for the details of a woman’s sexual assault (so he could masturbate to it) and said he’d date women as young as 22. don’t trust men just bc they’re liberal fake feminists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 06:53 PM
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Lmao im just waiting for these pseudo-trad guys to claim that Jesus would’ve been a 50/50 guy. He used to be a symbol of masculinity, which was supposed to be about self-sacrifice. He was also the only person who defended Mary Magdalene, a prostituted woman. I’m convinced that if these fake trad/Christians ever met Jesus back in the day they’d call him a simp and probably cheer in the background as he was crucified. LVM are so utterly envious of and vitriolic towards HVM - it’s a tale as old as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 04:29 AM
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Honestly I’ve been wondering this. I’ve gotten so much out of reading books and doing the work on my own. It can feel really invalidating when people pretend it counts for nothing bc I don’t go to therapy. I feel like there are so many whack therapists out there who could end up making ur issues worse. Like how tf am I even gonna be able to tell a therapist that I’m anti-porn? It’s bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 10:08 PM
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She sounds brain-dead it’s so unreal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 10:05 PM
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Narcs are known to be more likely to keep exes as “friends”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 10:02 PM
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It was so sad to learn the Yoko Ono is a pick-me :/ so many women are prisoners to libfem idealism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:59 PM
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Keep a note in your phone - whenever you catch yourself having any kind of fantasy about him or even just thinking about him, draw a tally (or an emoji, letter, whatever) in your note. We have narratives that play in our minds like broken records because we aren’t conscious of them. Once you start becoming conscious and aware of these patterns as they happen in real-time, though, you break the cycle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:52 PM
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I just listen to extremely hard female rap (unless it contains misogyny) a good example is meghan thee stallion’s older music, Rico Nasty, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:44 PM
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I totally despise George Soros and the majority of people he’s associated with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:41 AM
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The fact she was considering this to the point that she posted about it is mind-boggling to me. I truly will never understand. LVM have the easiest prey and it seems like nothing will change lnao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:37 AM
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Interesting how she described her first husband as abusive but not as a full-on narcissist. Didn’t know there’s a difference?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:31 AM
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All about putting you on the defensive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:25 AM
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Lmao yes they think disputes between women occur on another dimension of reality😂like no they don’t bro
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:15 AM
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Honestly this is why lately I’ve been gravitating more towards the seemingly dumb and simple-minded matured ex frat bros. They may be able to maintain a career in finance, but they don’t have the critical thinking capacities to think outside the box. Sure, these relationships are a bit less emotionally fulfilling, but that’s the point. If you have a “deep, intellectual connection” to a scrote, this is where you get too invested and get hurt. This is where he becomes too unique and irreplaceable,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:11 AM
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I’ve seriously NEVER liked rom coms and cannot for the life of me comprehend why someone would spend their free time watching an Adam Sandler movie. I’d go to the gym, open a brokerage account, or level up professionally before I’d do any of those things. Bores me to tears
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:37 AM
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Any guy who asks a woman to do that is a piece of shit. Automatic block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 03:18 AM
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THIS!! My ex pretty much did this - we didn’t meet on OLD but he messaged me and initially said his friend was having a small kickback. I declined. The next day he said his friends were going to a bar downtown and asked if I’d come. After not replying all day I finally said yes after my mom encouraged me to go ugh. Of course the night ended at his friend’s apartment (I hadn’t anticipated I’d end up sleeping downtown cause I’d be tired but I’m sure my ex calculated it) so ofc we ended up having s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:38 AM
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This too!! And yes I’m planning on posting soon:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 07:39 PM
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AHH I would absolutely love to make a post about this!! I can’t think of another group of women I’d love to brainstorm with regarding guerilla radical feminism. The women here are so intelligent and savvy, and if we put our minds together I think we could create something hugely worthwhile. Putting this post on my to-do list - will most likely get to it this weekend during study breaks for my licensing exam! I also agree that making bold statements incites curiosity in critically thinking women.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 07:39 PM
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LOVE THIS!! I know these small forms of activism can seem petty, but feeling like I can even make a small difference and have a cause to fight for has hugely helped me gain a greater sense of purpose and meaning in life. Feminist activism has been more fulfilling for me than all of my relationships with men combined. And knowing that I’m not taking shit not only for myself but for other women too is just so motivating and awesome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 07:28 PM
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Advice like this is why FDS is such a game-changer. Even the “harsher” women’s advice typically only calls out overtly shitty behavior in men, but FDS taught me to pay attention to those more covert signs that a guy is emotionally abusive and refusing to take accountability. The signs are subtle, but you can always FEEL it. I’ve always been able to feel it, but for whatever reason I wasn’t able to believe in the validity of those feelings before coming here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 07:26 PM
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I used to be of the camp where I’d refuse to even position myself in a man’s vicinity because I followed “The Rules” to a T. All I did was miss out on opportunities with better guys because I’d end up going back to my ex out of loneliness/boredom. AND due to this super closed-off phase I was in, if I actually did get to dating a guy, I would only ever date one at a time. So I think it’s great that you made a distinction - just because we don’t straight up ask men out doesn’t mean we don’t strate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 12:15 AM
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This is what’s so amazing about FDS - it’s far more relatable and consumable for the average woman, whereas other forms of feminism can be more alienating (sex pozzy libfems but also radfems.) for example, I never would’ve gotten into radical feminists like Andrea Dworkin had FDS not presented it to me in a way that seemed relatable. It just never occurred to me that such an ideology could be relevant to me, and the wonderful thing is that FDS repackages it in a way that actually resonates with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 12:00 AM
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YES! In Lundy Bancroft’s book “Why Does He Do That?” He says that if a man claims a woman physically abused him, he is most likely physically abusive himself!! This made me realized how brainwashed I was by listening to men’s victim stories. After an NVX I used to sympathize with all people who claimed to be abuse victims. I didn’t have a gendered perspective and thought that these various men must be sincere. WHEW, that has all changed drastically. You can’t understand abuse without a gendered …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 11:58 PM
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THIS!! Women also seem to be generally clueless as to the degree by which men’s “passion” is driven by malice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 11:41 PM
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I also find it so so so sad that she disrespected the so-called “simp” for bringing her to the hospital....she has so little respect for herself that when a man treats her with actual respect, she looks down on him or has to insult him. She’s also doing it to rationalize why it was “okay” for the guy who assaulted her to not even help. She’s excusing him because apparently him lifting a single effing finger would be “eMaScUlAtInG.”The self-gaslighting is so sad to see, it’s unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 11:33 PM
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Some frats include WATERBOARDING in their hazing. Let that sink in. They are so profoundly desperate for approval that they will CONSENT to torture in order to get it. It’s so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:05 PM
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I personally think that if you’re already susceptible to schizophrenia that weed use can totally trigger it. Men are much much more susceptible to schizophrenia, and it personally doesn’t run in my family, so I think I’d be unlikely to experience this effect - but I’ll admit that this post has me rethinking my marijuana use! I’d also be especially concerned if a man who had issues with depression and especially bipolar uses weed. Bipolars especially can be susceptible to psychosis and BP diagnos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:22 PM
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This is incredible. I think it also goes to show that as women, it’s okay and preferable to use covert aggression as a defensive response to this crap. Wouldnt abdicate for using covert aggression on the offensive, but because we women aren’t allowed to respond in an overt manner, we have to stick to being covert (and assertive if we can get away with it.) in these types of situations out only choice is to be 10 steps ahead of everyone else and not give them any leverage to manipulate us with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:13 PM
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If it were because he were black then how come only women tensed up but not men? It’s not like women are more anti-black than men are. Men are more racist than women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:59 PM
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Ugh this makes me want to gain weight. I feel like guys who are into my body could have something wrong with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:23 PM
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Straight DARVO lmao... he thinks it’s exploitation when she takes away his ability to financially exploit HER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:07 PM
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Same here, love Lundy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 10:13 PM
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Lmao the notion that trauma can be healed by being retraumatized is fucking insane. It works the OPPOSITE way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:54 PM
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Holy fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:16 AM
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I’ve heard Greek men can actually make good husbands - similar to the stereotype of nice Jewish boys making great husbands. So I guess the info is conflicting? Cause Mediterranean machismo is real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:59 PM
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There’s this thing called the warrior gene. Maybe they’re more likely to have it? It causes violence and sociopathy in males
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:54 PM
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Imagine the backlash of an article normalized women using weapons against men. I think they need a taste of their own medicine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:52 PM
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Bill Burr? He’s a disgusting and repulsive loser, so that’s why I ask😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:51 PM
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Reminds me of when Bill Burr tried to pretend he was virtuous for resisting his overwhelming animalistic/demonic urge to beat up a 90 year old woman for accidentally cutting him in line. The fact that was his tendency in the first place proves that he’s lower than dirt, but he’s too retarded to see that of course! He also peddles paranoid delusions that women see men as “walking ATMs” because he’s projecting his parasitism on us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:49 PM
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Lol by telling women that most men fantasize about killing us, they’re only telling us what radical feminists like Andrea Dworkin have tried to convince women of for years. If the same message came from a woman it would be “mIsAnDrY.” We aren’t even allowed to imply that we believe that men are this depraved, yet the men themselves joke about it as if it’s the most normal thing ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:48 PM
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This shit makes me wonder if they even have souls. Can you even call them human? I’m truly not sure and haven’t been for a very very long time. As I get older, the more it rings true as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:44 PM
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This was the last shit he had to say considering her (kinda) recent comments: In a tweet posted in June 2015, Turner-Smith wrote, “Someone said to me that they always thought I only liked White/light-skinned men. No. Reality: Growing up dark men told me I wasn’t attractive.” In another post from 2015, Turner-Smith wrote, “The first men to make me feel beautiful were White men. Sad but true. Sometimes Black men would say I was ‘pretty for a dark-skinned girl.’ ” She also wrote in 2015, “The White…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:40 PM
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Lmao wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:30 PM
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Fuck I can’t say that I don’t do the same thing...it’s why I only date men who cook for me tho, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:15 PM
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And they want to defile us like parasites. They want to steal from us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:11 PM
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“Come stab it” WTF🤢that sounds like the LAST thing I’d like to happen to me, what’s wrong with them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:10 PM
1

The truth is hardly popular. People like to be told what they want to hear
/r/ExRedPill21/07/21 02:24 PM
5

Exactly! Scarlett is a freakin goddess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:42 PM
11

Jeez - I predict he’ll stay with her just cause he’s getting old and probably needs a caretaker, but that’s basically a good breakdown of his character
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:41 PM
58

This is so disturbing. The fact IS terrorists target the site says more than enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:20 PM
99

The overlapping relationships and triangulation part for narcs is so spot-on. Scarlett is a pretty outspoken feminist as far as I know - Scarlett Johansson shutting down sexist comments- she gives off such queen energy, especially in the video, and Blake gives off a male-pandering, cool girl vibe. Maybe she’s more like the girl next door, not quite a full-on cool girl, but I can’t put my finger on the internalized misogynistic aspect as easily. It’s definitely there tho, and we can see she’s all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:31 AM
89

I see it - he said he started becoming interested in Blake on the set of Green Lantern but he was still with Scarlett then...not a trustworthy guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:16 AM
35

Of course normal people distinguish. He’s saying it to excuse Louis CK though. Scrotes use these underhanded covert aggressive manipulation tactics in “dEbAtEs” toooo often
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 12:01 AM
72

Just read a comment on a forum called dc urban mom referring to Blake Lively “She was widely rumored to be one of Harvey’s girls but never really came out against him”....holy shit. Do you guys think that’s true?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:16 PM
52

It’s so so so sad and tragic to see their downfall. Nowadays this guy would be asking for a wife who “brings something to the table” since they no longer have value to provide
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:56 PM
5

Their projection of their shame onto us is so incredibly vile. Realizing it was always one big lie has opened my eyes in a way I can’t unsee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:52 PM
164

I searched “pick-me” on Urban Dictionary yesterday - what a coincidence lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:12 PM
36

This gets me every time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:58 AM
22

Great points. The energy they’d otherwise channel into things like going to war is now directed to video games and porn. Why play Call of Duty when they can quench their desire for violence in a way that benefits society? If that’s what they’re demanding then they should have to face it in real life to experience it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:19 AM
35

Felt this HEAVY 🔥🔥🔥👑👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:16 AM
41

Unreal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:09 AM
60

At my college, the sororities were extremely strict on GPA and you couldn’t even rush if it was below like a 2.8, yet the guys got into fraternities while on academic probo. The standards disparity is literally institutionalized in society
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:07 AM
5

The idea that the most dangerous sociopaths target HVW they see as a challenge is so demoralizing - once we see the great results from repelling LVM via high standards, the fact an even greater threat lurks in the background is horrifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:31 PM
15

Lol we’re not insecure that the other woman is “hotter,” we’re insecure because we’re questioning whether we’re wasting our valuable time on an NVM parasite. Difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 09:44 PM
38

An LVM once said he’s glad I’m not the jealous type and said he was talking to his friends and saying I scored high on the “hot/crazy matrix” a manosphere concept. Lmao little did they know I couldn’t give a fuck because I’m a “mIsAnDrIsT” and my identity doesn’t need the validation of a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:30 PM
52

I always wonder what “manhood” is to them? Is it a type of entitlement that they think goes above and beyond their humanity? Or do they think the only people entitled to “humanity” are those entitled to “manhood”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:25 PM
1

Honestly it’s so easy to threaten them by doing this stuff disingenuously too. For example, I’m personally not all that into sex toys, but I definitely won’t tell any guys that a vibrator isn’t enough to keep me 100% satisfied
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:22 PM
32

From this post alone I can tell this is a high-quality advice site!! Seems to align w FDS values and I see there’s a podcast, have you listened? We need more of this kind of media!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 04:39 AM
110

I’ve also heard from Lundy Bancroft’s book, Why Does He Do That?, that younger men may treat their SOs nicely in private and badly in public to look cool to their friends but that older men are more likely to do the opposite - treat their SOs badly in public but put on a nice-guy facade in public. Guess their gaslighting techniques improve over time....yet another reason to avoid dinosaurs😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 04:26 AM
2

We can also tell that he isn’t looking for “friendship”😂😂😂women who have been nice to random men have gotten killed for it. I could give less of a fuck if some random guy thinks I’m shallow for not giving him a chance to try and fuck me
/r/ExRedPill18/07/21 04:15 AM
2

If I were you I’d suggest meeting halfway just to make sure he isn’t luring you to his apartment AND to force him to go to more effort. You’ve only met this guy once and 9 times out of 10, it won’t work out, so who cares? If he drops you over that then “losing” him is a gain. Even if he seems a little annoyed at your suggestion to meet halfway, he will most likely give in and it’ll set a precedent to have things go your own way from now on. Don’t let him take the driver’s seat because if he has …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:22 AM
79

Girls are adultified while boys are coddled to oblivion. I do have to say that part of the issue is that while boys in the past were raised by men (more male teachers, and they worked at home at the farm w their dad) now they are raised by women (women are more likely to be teachers now and since the Industrial Revolution, men haven’t been present at home) who are less likely to be harsh with them. The result is that boys are coddled and enabled to an insane degree. I think gender-segregated sch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:43 PM
23

This is so fried I can’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:23 PM
41

If a woman had this reaction to a man buying her jewelry scrote would have a nuclear MELTDOWN and screech that she’s “uNgRaTeFuL” ~with LVM no matter WHAT you do they’ll find a reason to hate you for it. Don’t bother wasting a penny on these scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:21 PM
5

Lol so women aren’t allowed to complain about CP now? Who are the pathetic degenerate scumbags running that sub? Beyond contemptible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:29 PM
6

You won’t regret it:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:28 PM
81

Yeah this is why I can’t browse Reddit relationship subs. It’s bad for my mental health
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:27 PM
3

PLEASE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:24 PM
3

Ikr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:23 PM
5

Yep, agreed. Hopefully it sets a good precedent and leads to the implementation of the Nordic model, but maybe I’m just naive...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:23 PM
9

Now they need to just ban prostitution again. Hopefully this step means they’re getting closer to the Nordic model
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:21 PM
6

The endless hypocrisy is utterly disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:21 PM
188

This makes me so livid I can’t. I’d actually go crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:23 PM
58

Love how u explicitly stated that misogyny is a seemingly contradictory combination of envy and contempt. I’ve always sensed this but was unable to put it into words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:26 PM
70

H O L Y F U C K
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:18 PM
50

Block & delete, don’t reply!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:07 PM
356

Sounds like a narc. He’s literally enraged by your contentment and thinks every moment of your life should be dedicated to servicing his needs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:06 PM
26

Ew wtf is wrong with them??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:08 PM
2

This is beyond true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:06 PM
20

This guy is the ultimate NVM. Literally profiting off of PTSD and has caused suicides. I despise him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:06 PM
171

Highly HIGHLY recommend the book “Shanghai Girls” for every woman on this sub. It’s literally the hypergamy Bible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:03 PM
3

I don’t think she’s a pick-me for dating a man who isnt into skincare - she’s instead a pick-me for trying to “build her man” in the form of building up his looks. Going as far as posting in an FB group is a bit extreme. She’s not his mom and shouldn’t have to do those duties for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:39 PM
80

Socioeconomic status can be used to look at men thru a critical lens whether it’s high or low. For example, my mom thought my dad would be a good catch bc he’s old money. However, the only reason he made money in real estate is bc 1.) he got lucky when the market was good and 2.) his dad gave him money to invest and he lost more than he made at the end of the day. My grandpa was wealthy during the Great Depression. His father was wealthy, and so on. But don’t be fooled - a working class man who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 05:27 PM
45

Honestly, even the TRP tactics are mate-guarding - it’s just reverse psychology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:10 PM
2

Oh 100% agreed. For example, if I liked Game of Thrones, I’d keep in mind that men who are fans of it probably have a different motive for that than me and that it betrays a level of misogyny. Guess it comes down to the fact that ppl work in shades of grey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:21 AM
28

To be fair, even I didn’t finish season 6😂got turned off by the show not because Claire became President, but because Kevin Spacey was exposed as a pedo. Kinda ruined it for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:33 PM
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And on top of it, boys (and men) are never told to “cut some slack” for young girls. In fact, society at large is called to cut some slack for GROWN MEN moreso than for young girls!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:28 PM
1

Lol love how they openly admit that they’re porn addicts and that porn addiction exists as long as it’s prompted by an uncritical question that protects their egos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:18 PM
12

Thank you sm for this post. The extreme pick-me tales just end up making me mad and hurting my mental health too. We are here to learn and grow, not to be derailed into providing pick-mes supply and nothing else. Some of these tales are ridiculous and once you see adult women over 35 acting more naive than I was in high school, it really just isn’t a good look and adds nothing of value here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 06:00 PM
73

Agreed, we also sniffed out the libfem bs quick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 01:00 PM
62

Look at the vein popping out of his forehead. Is that what happens when men use their superior lOgIcKaL powers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 08:16 PM
43

Also, how do children benefit when one of their parents forgoes money that could be directed towards their college fund? Kids don’t benefit from powerless/incompetent parents. Doesn’t matter which parent it is. It’s still an opportunity cost and will largely dictate their future. It makes no sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 06:06 PM
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Also if u want to “focus” on your husband as a means to an end to contribute to society/community, then fine. But pick-mes who do this are doing so as a means to an end of gaining male approval and validation, which is disordered imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 06:04 PM
5

Would a good example of this be if a guy watches a movie like Legally Blonde? I feel like most straight men who watch this would be (most likely) motivated by having a crush on Reese Witherspoon. This is just one specific example
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:01 PM
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Lol I’m pretty sure the insane Jennifer Molewski is heavily involved in that. I watched one of her videos last night and I truly pity her. She really does not seem okay. A couple years ago she made all these videos about how she “hit the wall” and now she’s finally gotten picked by her current manosphere husband...I’d be surprised if he wasn’t emotionally abusing her at the very least. Full on 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:53 PM
57

This post is 🔥 - the nice guy vs alpha scam is part of the false dialectic they peddle...patriarchal double-think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:29 AM
14

This made me laugh out loud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:31 AM
3

SO CRINGE IM CRYING😂😂😂WHY DOES HE THINK HES EDGY IM DEAD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:31 AM
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Lmao imagine if a woman did this to a guy lying saying she’s 300 lbs when she isn’t? No one would sympathize with or get on board with her teaching a scrote a lesson lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:29 AM
1

Why ru mgtow if u think women aren’t very dark triad? You’re implying that men are more likely to be dark triad which means you think men are more likely to be bad people. Isn’t that what mgtows say that feminism claims? I thought these claims were perceived as false and unfair?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:12 AM
319

I love how we can take action outside of the legal system in this way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 07:08 PM
27

It also shows that these scrotes come in all forms. When Bernie bros and Islamic fundamentalists start spewing the same bs, it raises an eyebrow to say the least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:32 PM
58

This reminds me of when my ex-NVM Bernie Bro told me he’s “in charge of me” “because he’s the man.” He said it’s a gun vs a knife if we got in a serious altercation. I was in highschool :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:13 PM
2

Marilyn Monroe never said that - only a scrote would
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 03:23 PM
65

“Femcels” who happen to have boyfriends like me? The mental gymnastics they do is hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 03:00 AM
29

BPD is such bs. Male doctors who use it just want to label women as crazy when they react to trauma in a normal way lol. This stuff has become so transparent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 08:35 PM
17

But apparently we’re “controlling” if we have a no porn boundary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:30 PM
25

People say the same clichés over and over again until they think they’re law. Our pop culture needs some FDS cliches / mantras instead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:24 PM
25

Yes I hate hearing this bs. All meant to protect predators
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:21 PM
1

That too! The utter depravity is unforgivable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 04:58 AM
2

Hustler got away with depicting child rape in “Chester the molestor” cartoons. Let’s throw that shit right back at them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 12:38 AM
2

I BURST OUT LAUGHING OUT LOUD WHEN I READ THE “women aren’t funny so men won’t read a women’s comedy magazine.” I’m fucking dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 12:38 AM
4

I bet they’d all go if there was public wifi for porn😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 12:36 AM
6

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 11:53 PM
28

IKR!! FDS did an amazing job exposing this for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 11:24 PM
50

Honestly I’m beginning to wonder more and more if the liberal men are even worse. I think the risk of a guy being an EXTREME LVM is probably higher if he’s on the right, but I’m realizing a more nuanced perspective is needed to fully understand the hellfire lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 11:23 PM
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Lol I love how you pointed out how men foolishly day trade. I work at a top bank in the US and all I can say is that men are generally too impulsive and irrational to invest. They’re blinded by delusions of grandeur and aren’t grounded in reality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 11:20 PM
10

YES YES YES IVE NOTICED THIS SO MUCH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 10:18 PM
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CRYING😂the fact men don’t listen to us is advantageous to us sometimes at least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:31 AM
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Thanks! I see no reason not to brainstorm solutions - especially with you intelligent ladies. I’ve learned SO MUCH here it’s ridiculous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:58 AM
23

It’s their arch enemy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:56 AM
16

Yes I think she’s a positive and supportive influence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:55 AM
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YES YES YES - I’ve suggested this here before actually!! There are legal limits bc of defamation, but if you put “allegedly” before any claim, it’s a good way to get out of any liability there may be We’d need to get creative on how we’d keep it between us women so we’d mitigate the inevitable backlash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:01 PM
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Exactly - small can also mean “feisty” instead of “docile.” Not that u need to think about it in the context of your body type, but in that way you can think you’re strong BECAUSE of how you are, not IN SPITE of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:35 PM
12

Read Gail Dines’ book ‘Pornland’ - she has a chapter about pseudo child porn (PCP) which uses adult actions but often mirrors real CP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:33 PM
5

I used to be a lot heavier and had huge boobs. The attention I got from men was very pornsick, creepy, and scummy. I don’t get that as much now, but after looking into radfem issues I realize now that I am very thin/small and have a baby face, and that the men who are into me may also be attracted to the “teen” look and the innocence that comes with it which isn’t appealing either. I don’t get catcalled nearly as much but I think it goes to show that as a woman, you just can’t win either way and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:59 PM
24

Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:45 PM
28

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:36 PM
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Lol I highly doubt ANY Victoria’s Secret model would say that. This is literal propaganda
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:34 PM
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Why the fuck did they post a photo of Rosie Huntington Whitley implying that she said ANY of this?? I highly fucking doubt that a world-famous Victoria’s Secret model is going 50/50. These scrotes are so fucking delusional. They want to suggest 50/50 and think they’re entitled to a SUPERMODEL. Delusional standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:33 PM
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SO MUCH WORSE! It’s crazy that he was peddling MRA talking points too. I doubt he even knows what it is too - he’s probably just picked up the narrative and rhetoric from other men he’s friends with. Goes to show how insidious the influence of the manosphere is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:20 PM
90

He could’ve Venmod her too. I’d be disgusted if it were an accident, but this guy clearly did it INTENTIONALLY. I’d literally fly into an explosive rage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:18 PM
31

Yeah except for the fact that he’s a fucking parasite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:17 PM
41

If a guy said he “left his wallet at home” I’d be outta there faster than I can blink! This woman is an insane pick-me for going thru with that. I understand that even some adult women are incredibly naive, but unless you’re under the age of like 24, it gets to a point where you have to get your shit together. Seeing women in their thirties and forties giving in to this crap is extremely cringe. We as women need to take accountability for not being savage enough. There’s no excuse to not be ruth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:14 PM
17

Holy fuck this is so surreal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:11 PM
21

Poor baby! Even the most leveled up queens among us know how hard to was to enforce boundaries and even UNDERSTAND men at that age. She’s only 16 - dating at this age is never ends well, even with peers of the same age, much less someone 6 years older🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:57 PM
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It’s disgusting but I’m glad sub members are browsing the rest of Reddit with a critical eye and are pointing out that deviance like this really does exist. We can’t just assume a given scrote is a “nice guy.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:42 PM
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Lmao I’m totally on board with using OLD to troll scrotes. Mind as well show up with the exorcism props on the first date. We’d be doing them a favor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:42 PM
5

Mirroring is an even bigger red flag than lovebombing. Why? Because while lovebombing is used by narcissists and sociopaths, mirroring is used almost exclusively by sociopaths - I’d block him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:53 PM
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Gotta dump a bucket of holy water on them at 5am for good measure. When they wake up and get mad just say you were only trying to help since he mentioned how bad “his demons” are😂oh and don’t forget to blast Gregorian chants with his speakers and hold a crucifix for an added effect. These scrotes need exorcisms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:47 PM
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Also, his “better option” could be porn because a real woman with emotions and needs will always be his second choice. Some men’s “dream girl” isn’t actually feasible in reality, and many “emotionally unavailable men” are just infatuated with/idealizing a woman they haven’t met yet and may never meet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:33 PM
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“kys” is something I’ve only heard from my abusive sociopathic NVM who also threatened to bury me alive. Never have I seen it used on FDS, however. This is just an NVM impersonating us lmao - as if we’d even bother PMing these psychotic guys we want to liberate ourselves from
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:25 PM
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Lmao I love how these degenerates think they’re a protected class for having a “kink.” It’s so disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 03:06 PM
22

🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:07 AM
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Enabling BM to be agents of patriarchy doesn’t do BW any favors - aka the group of women w the highest DV and femicide rates. The fact our culture is actively contributing to cultural misogyny within this community is unconscionable - regardless of the race of the victims. Even if they were all non-black, this verdict will embolden misogynists in the blk community. It’s very horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:05 AM
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this shit is INSANE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:28 PM
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The more I level up mentally, the more my capacity for infatuation lessens. I have a bf who I love, but I honestly skipped over the honeymoon phase this time around - I don’t think I have the capacity to be infatuated with a man any longer. What I feel for him is more like affection, and I definitely have a (healthy) attachment to him. But the way I used to become infatuated with men and put them on a pedestal in the past is no longer a mental capacity/tendency of mine! And it feels good. I no l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:53 PM
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Notice when your imagination is getting too ahead of itself and choose to stop. If this is challenging, practicing mindfulness will help - consider a meditation app. The more you level up mentally and change your attitudes, the more easily this can be done as well. It isn’t overnight but it’s effective
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:46 PM
12

Great insight! It reminds me that oddly enough, many women who go for emotionally unavailable men are emotionally unavailable themselves. When we don’t own our desires/needs and see them as invalid, we deny ourselves and are more likely to attract men who validate what we already believe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:39 PM
16

Of course even his first relationship is an age gap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:14 PM
25

Ikr, classic😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:07 PM
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The sad thing is that as much as they make those videos to convince others, they’re mostly just trying to convince themselves. I guess they can do whatever helps them sleep at night tho - it’s hard not to pity them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 05:04 PM
20

I’ve started this book because of this post and it’s f*cking amazing! Im thinking it’s going to be one of those breakthrough booms like “Why Does He Do That?” & will hugely influence me for the better. Want to know why? It’s because it’s entirely based on women’s experiences rather than imaginary theories dreamed up by pompous intellectuals who think they’re above taking the FACTS into account. It’s a collection of women’s real experiences and observations, and it draws conclusions from there. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 12:23 AM
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If anything, a guy who’s truly out of your league won’t have an incentive to lie to you and string you along. He’ll just move on. I’d rather deal with that lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 12:19 AM
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As if we haven’t heard that argument millions of times. I’m 23 and have heard it constantly since I was in high school!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 12:16 AM
22

YES, MEN WOULD RATHER BE WITH THEIR SECOND CHOICE THAN ALONE!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 12:14 AM
17

I love how men think we’re so clueless that we don’t understand men will use women for sex who they don’t see as gf material. He also assumes the “ugly” men will have self-awareness and realistic standards, despite the fact that he has zero evidence to back this up and if anything, the increasingly pornsick supply of men are developing increasingly delusional standards for women’s looks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 12:14 AM
54

Agreed, the key to getting over my trauma and pattern of going for abusive/unavailable men was learning the difference between accountability and blame. Lots of pick-mes get defensive and take these suggestions personally because they still hold onto self-blame deep within, which is why they vehemently deny it. Accountability on the other hand is impersonal. It’s not about judging your behavior as “good” or “bad” in a really black and white way. It’s seeing that your behaviors just “are” and tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 11:51 PM
156

Just another parasite, nothing new
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 11:45 PM
8

AHHH THIS IS AMAZING😂😭We should make this into a poster I’d actually cry laughing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:22 PM
84

It sounds so nice in theory but never works out in practice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:20 PM
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A couple years ago I never would’ve admitted it because all I knew about was lib feminism and I wouldn’t want him to assume I’d be down for rough BDSM anal pornsex after paying for half the date and becoming a FWB he can hit up for easy sex for the next couple months😂I seriously thought a feminist and a pick-me were the same thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 10:04 AM
9

If they think they’re incompatible with us and hate who we are then why do they want us to “declare war” on us to change our ways and give them a chance for a romantic relationship with us? I thought they didn’t like us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:00 AM
23

The guy who runs that thing is super annoying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:55 PM
158

It’s also interesting how cats’ independence and lack of loyalty is viewed as feminine, even tho men are 10X more likely to abandon their female spouse after she’s given a cancer diagnosis than vice versa. Our “disloyal” stereotype never holds up in reality, however, men will project this quality of theirs onto us in order to justify our dehumanization. So a man who hates cats is probably doing so because he hates women since he buys into misogynistic myths about us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 07:58 PM
30

Love how you point out that it always comes down to an “attitude.” Unconscious attitudes are very predictive of behaviors like rape and abuse, and they tend to be very subtle, so if women point it out, we are easily gaslighted. Lundy Bancroft’s book “Why Does He Do That” explains how mental illness doesn’t cause abuse - only abusive attitudes cause abuse, and these attitudes aren’t picked up by negative experiences with women, instead, they’re picked up from other men (homosociality) and the cul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 07:54 PM
5

SO TRUE! Pre FDS I went on 2 dates with a guy and the second ended in sex ofc. This guy kept texting me every day for like a month and asking me to “come over” which I’d turn down, thinking he’d ask me out properly again. Asked what was going on and he said he wanted something casual or some crap. I was annoyed because he was acting like he was doing me a favor by texting me every day and wasting my time, as if I’d be crushed if he stopped breadcrumbing me. I was like ok well if that’s the case …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 08:50 PM
15

You’re so smart for seeing thru that crap and courageous for getting up and leaving. Good on you, queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 08:39 PM
9

Also the fact that they let off men who raped an 11 year old and are now dealing w this makes France look like shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 08:23 PM
22

France is so much more fucked up than it’s given credit for. Apparently a survey of French and Italian men shows that 50% cheat on their spouses, which is a lot more than for British and even American men. Not that America especially isn’t uniquely misogynistic and that some of the romantic Mediterranean culture could contribute to it.....it says something. Men in france never want to pay for dates either and will catcall you to levels you’ve never seen before if you’re from the US
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 08:22 PM
29

Despite the libfem agenda sucking, we can’t deny how critical financial independence for women is. It’s easy to take for granted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 08:17 PM
14

Lmao were literally expected to invest all our money into appealing to them then go 50/50 even if he makes twice as much😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 05:39 AM
47

A completely parasitic exchange
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 04:02 AM
3

If he treats cats worse than dogs then he’s a misogynist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:42 PM
22

Men literally always reach out. Instead of making a bus deal about him “coming back” we need to ask why they left in the first place or at least behaved in a way that allowed them to be left
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:40 PM
4

Don’t you think the amount of time off he needs from dating should depend on WHO in his life passed away? If it included immediate family members, then a year makes sense. But 4 grandparents he wasn’t super close with? Second cousins? I’m not sure if he needs an ENTIRE year off of dating for that, especially if he was somehow prepared for these deaths and they weren’t a shock. My grandfather unfortunately passed away at the age of 90 from covid in January, for example, but his health was rapidly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:33 PM
1

It clearly happened after the first date lol. If it happened beforehand but the first date happened then there’d be no scheduling conflict....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:26 PM
3

You don’t need to be there for him in an emotionally supportive way necessarily, but I personally would be understanding because this is a freak situation and absolutely exceptional. This is the type of situation LVM will pretend/imply is the case when they stand you up over nothing. We’re so used to these bs excuses that if it happens for real, we may overlook it. I wouldn’t worry that this means he’s a lying LVM for a couple weeks. But if it becomes a pattern or goes on for longer than a month…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:24 PM
8

Since they don’t socialize and can’t gain info that way, they rely on the internet! That’s why they’re so out of touch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 06:25 PM
5

Yeah true true, either way you can’t win and the point is to not give you an out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:40 PM
11

Ugh, can’t believe she’d wait till her eggs expired at 21 to have a kid!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:39 PM
11

Some people may see blocking as a way to avoid confrontation - at least female friends. That’s how it could be losing you points. They think you’re too scared to b*tch them out. Doesn’t mean it’s necessary tho - better you block than start a fist fight or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:25 PM
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Tbh, it’s because Reddit is for nerdy, socially awkward guys who are into TRP and lie to themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:08 PM
34

Great idea! She can also help him work through his porn addiction. Never forget to not kink-shame!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 02:39 AM
29

He will be fertile until his very last coom! Coomer boomers are the best😍luv their dad bods!!🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 02:38 AM
3

The comments are gold too😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 02:37 AM
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This is so good! I love how women’s experiences centuries ago can still resonate with us today, even tho it’s lowkey sad too. Gonna get this book forsure tho if I can find it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:54 AM
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Ugh this goes to show that there’s no point in OLD if you’re gonna be half-assed about it. I was too lazy w it and would meet w like 1 guy a month. Ended up wasting a huge amount of time and I’d get way too hung up on them. Better to do a couple weeks of speed dating than half a year of false-start relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:46 AM
12

Russel Wilson is my man crush who makes me a little less cynical...patriarchy beats us down by making us hopeless. Gotta rise above it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:35 AM
8

That IS why he cheated - spot on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:29 AM
2

Pretty sure this is the first time PH has been named in connection to the Epstein case: this is HUGE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:16 PM
11

I hate how we’re expected to lie and say “people of all orientations” are affected by abuse even when it’s actually only women who experience it disproportionately. The article simply pointing this out felt so validating and relieving because the gaslighting is nonstop and seemingly never-ending
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:19 PM
12

OLD is such a draining and stressful pain in the ass! After meeting all these disappointing scrotes you’ll burnout fast. Not worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 05:56 PM
26

Nothing should be put off worrying about until after you reach exclusive status. You’ll feel trapped at that point. FDS women shouldn’t be encouraged to give out exclusivity so easily that we hand it over without first addressing dealbreakers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 05:49 PM
3

I like how you used the word “ambition” instead of hope or dream in terms of your goal of finding a HVM, btw. This is exactly the way to approach it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 05:47 PM
25

Wtf - do they force victims of robberies to hand over their phone for a full download of its entire contents? I think not. It’s just another way to intrude on women who have already been intruded upon via rape and re-traumatize them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 05:45 PM
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Not responding to an OLD msg & thus ending the entire communication isn’t even significant enough to count as ghosting in my book. On top of this, ghosting a man who bought you dinner or who you slept with should be okay too. We shouldn’t have to feel so guilty. Society wants to deprive us of boundaries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:51 AM
2

Exactly! They really think we’re their property. We want independence from their domination and that is interpreted as wanting to dominate - classic projection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:44 AM
2

Or “phew, I was worried you’d think I’m your type, what a relief!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:22 AM
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Lmao as if they’ll admit “yeah I’ve beat the shit out of and raped dozens of women”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:10 AM
9

This makes my blood boil
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:08 AM
3

Is her name Chris??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:08 AM
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I’ve also noticed that back when I used OLD, if I rescheduled on a guy he’d have no issue moving on and seeing me as a waste of his time. Men don’t give us the benefit of the doubt so why give it in return?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:06 AM
21

Especially on OLD!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:04 AM
10

WELL SAID! Its so important especially to have the consciousness to see that the last parts show it’s all about finding someone who will give to him without reciprocation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:03 AM
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Lmao yeah it’s so transparent. Tricking us was as easy as switching the word polygamy to polyamory! When’s this freakshow gonna end?? 🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:01 AM
8

A couple in New Orleans tried to sell a dirt bike on Facebook marketplace and a man who replied to it ended up killing them I’m pretty sure. Be super careful - it seems like the new Craigslist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 11:02 PM
20

They only mention video games and not porn🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 10:56 PM
35

Love this! I was thinking similar things recently - that even when women can support themselves financially, many are still chained to the approval of men because we’re basically psychologically enslaved due to the collective grooming in our pornified culture, among other things. Breaking free isn’t impossible, but it isn’t easy or accessible to everyone either. It also goes to show how patriarchy doesn’t just appear in one form - most brands of feminism seem to imply it works that way which is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 09:10 PM
1

Very insightful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 08:12 AM
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Saved your comment - very well said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:24 AM
27

I’ll literally throw a party
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:20 AM
22

Finally!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:19 AM
8

SAME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:11 AM
45

When circular logic can literally make you nauseated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 01:03 AM
24

That’s unreal! I’m glad you’re okay and have decided to not tolerate him. Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:51 PM
12

Ikr lol he doesn’t even care if someone recognizes him! Like...okur
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:27 PM
18

How can we fight against this collective internalization? Is expression key? And can this be done in a number of contexts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:25 PM
20

I like how the first guy at least has the decency to not show his face but the second guy could literally care less. They only keep pushing the envelope with their audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:30 PM
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Sexual objects aren’t allowed to have preferences because we’re not seen as sentient
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:06 PM
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Exactly! This is also why men are able to sexually objectify women they aren’t even attracted to! They’re NOT the same thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:02 PM
9

Yup and I think even if society doubles down on shaming them, we’ll still need law enforcement to control sociopaths ESPECIALLY because they’re totally immune to all social conditioning. That means that even if we entirely get rid of rape culture, it won’t really stop them. Shaming has no effect on them. They cannot be controlled unless it’s via law enforcement. Only harsh consequences do. Ugh makes me wish so bad for a world where everyone has empathy :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:50 PM
1

PMing u pics!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 12:27 AM
1

Ikr I’ll PM u pics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 12:27 AM
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Lmao and THEY have the audacity to claim women use male friends as “emotional tampons” I swear projection is their first language
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 11:28 PM
3

Sounds like an autistic PUA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 11:20 PM
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THIS except for the fact that eating a man’s ass is literally one of my worst fears😭they don’t even clean their buttholes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:53 PM
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I think it should all be banned too. The industry would need to be regulated despite this tho since a VPN easily circumvents a ban. It shouldn’t be easily accessible either way tho, and even the fact that a VPN would be needed would drive down the traffic to those sites
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:46 PM
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Yes, that is a sickening fact It gives me hope that mainstream media outlets are covering this though. Today Instagram banned pornhub’s page. I just bought custom stickers that say “refuse to date men who watch porn” and I think now is a great time to circulate that message in women’s bathrooms around my neighborhood. Gonna strike while the iron’s hot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:44 PM
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K what’s up with the boxing gloves?? Women do NOT want sex that more closely resembles a WWE fight or a fucking boxing match. It’s absolutely INSANE that we even need to address this. I find it hard to believe that this wasn’t drawn by a LARPing male, not that there’s any shortage of kinkmeishas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:58 PM
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So glad that here at FDS we are conscious of performative feminism. I also think it’s so important that we clarify why many of us are attracted to wealthy men - being attracted to competency isn’t an indication of our “greedy hypergamous nature,” rather, it proves that the men who call us those things are simply incompetent. We don’t have a moral obligation to want incompetent men, in fact, we have a duty to stay away from them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:54 PM
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Zona state needs this...pretty sure they have the highest STI rate out of every university in the US - meaning it’s full of pornsick depraved men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:11 PM
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Lmao it’s like giving my puppy Power of Attorney but worse😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:53 PM
13

There is something to be said for the push into the workforce being guided by the interests of the 1%, as the Rockefeller Institute pushed this quite heavily. We should also observe that the cultural elites profit off of pornography, which we’ve covered many times on this sub. It’s all about neoliberal capitalism. I still acknowledge how critical it is that women are represented in the workforce however, irrespective of whether it benefitted cultural elites or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:47 PM
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Yeah agreed, the tax hit won’t be as bad as the scrote-hit. Straight up we as women are doubly taxed because the gov’t collects our money along with LVM who redirect it to the patriarchy😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:20 PM
12

I’m glad you mentioned Leo - he is often overlooked as an LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:11 PM
8

THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:11 PM
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And honestly, men who read Vice and call themselves “feminists” may be even worse than men who are into Jordan Peterson, Ben Shapiro and the like. THAT’S how low the bar is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:49 PM
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LIBERAL FEMINISM IS AN MRA MOVEMENT, TRY TO CHANGE MY MIND
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:43 PM
72

To call him useless is to flatter him: he’s a parasite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:43 PM
107

Men are so stupid when it comes to managing money. Allowing them to influence your finances is like hiring a 2 year old to be your financial adviser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:41 PM
14

Well, technically getting “accused” of gold-digging isn’t losing if you’re the one laughing all the way to the bank. It just goes to show that we as women need to do what’s beneficial for us and never bother explaining it to others. The moment we feel we need to explain ourselves, we’ve already lost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:35 PM
9

The first red flag is that he’s a pig lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:30 PM
19

THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:06 PM
58

AGREED! Like NO you can’t just proclaim the man you’ve been dating for 3 months as high value. I know these comments are well-intentioned, but it’s honestly insulting for the women who have been married to men they thought were HV and ended up realizing they were deceived. Don’t assume your judgement over 3 months is better than the judgement of other women on this sub that took place over YEARS and even decades. It’s pretty arrogant to think that way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:04 PM
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This is so disgusting and pathetic wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:02 PM
66

They are golddiggers because they have all the audacity. 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:56 PM
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Loving this vibe of calling out new age bs. Just like we don’t share our trauma with men, we should stick to professionals. Gurus can be similar to cult leaders and prey upon vulnerable women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:51 AM
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I’m only 23 so I can’t offer that much wisdom but still - I’ve grown SO MUCH since I was 20, it’s like I’m a different person. I’d take NC with exes more seriously. I’d avoid any bars/frats that they frequent. I’d never give a ghoster a chance to slither back in by failing to block them. I’d go thru guys’ phones. And while career-wise things have worked out better than I imagined, I’d still be more consistent with time management and studying little by little instead of just cramming. I also did…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:25 PM
9

Soo true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:24 PM
3

This woman is a queen, so much respect😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:14 PM
20

Yes, the cultural elite have entirely benefitted at OUR expense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:08 AM
24

UM WTF?? Why has lockdown hurt us women more than men?? In EVERY way??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:06 AM
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Lol the MRA sentiment is too real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:23 PM
2

Thank you💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:47 PM
1

Thank u❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:47 PM
6

Ewww porn leaking into the movie industry🤮so dystopian
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:45 PM
3

Also, the reason a dominatrix wears a costume while a “dom” male needs no such costume is because femdom isn’t in line with the societal conception of femininity. Men don’t need a costume to be considered “dominant” because it’s considered the default
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:43 PM
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Exactly, I’d often feel disgusted when I watched and turned it off but thought nothing of it somehow. But looking back, seeing the crassness of it all didn’t go along well with my empathic nature, so I never liked it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:41 PM
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I’m sure! This is why I don’t trust male narratives on reddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:07 PM
9

LOVE IT AND HER❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:38 PM
17

This is so upsetting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:10 PM
11

Lmao men aren’t even attracted to adult women’s bodies because they’re disgusted by our body hair. Nice fucking try. Their victim complex is so revolting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:23 PM
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Lmao I found out my ex was cheating throughout our entire relationship 3 months after I dumped him because he was acting off and I had a feeling the whole relationship was a lie. No, didn’t take him back but had a lowkey ceremony where I lit his sweatshirt on fire in a rage and crafted a very mean text so I could do a quick unblock, send, reblock. It was cathartic and I was completely disgusted with him. Even pre-FDS I was grossed out that he had sex THAT often like he was some nasty sex addict.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:03 PM
13

Lmao I hate Donavon Sharpe. Pretty sure he’s also one of those guys who claims that degrees are worthless, despite all the evidence pointing in the opposite direction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:58 PM
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Agreed, and I think the work he’s doing is at least better than nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:00 AM
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Especially if she has a life insurance policy on him😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:20 AM
56

This is why it’s so important that if we have boys (and girls) we need to make sure they don’t look at porn and are socialized to be feminists! The pornographers get them while they’re young, but we can do that too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:07 AM
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I think Dr. Dines explained it well on the podcast - while there are men who don’t watch it, they’re few and far between, and you basically need to find a man who’s receptive and trainable. Before finding out that porn is unethical, I personally had looked at it maybe every 3-5 months and stopped immediately the moment I found out it was harmful. I have no idea how I could’ve been that dumb and ignorant, but I never questioned it because it was so normalized. Part of the reason I was receptive t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:01 AM
35

Stories like yours are so helpful - I’m sure our sister who posted this week about discovering the lengths of her husband’s infidelity and depravity could benefit from hearing your success story. It’s never too late to dump a man, and even then, getting a high-quality replacement is totally possible. It’s hard to keep a balance between not being naive yet not being so hopeless to the point that we settle. Good for you queen👑🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:55 AM
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You’ll see that the friendships will weaken by summer 2022, but ESPECIALLY the summers after that. Each year people drift more and more, and lots of people who hold onto high school friendships are doing so only because they couldn’t meet new people at college. You’re going to have plenty of opportunities to meet new people regardless of what you’re doing post-graduation, and this is the perfect time for something shitty like this to happen. Also, make sure you don’t even say anything about your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:31 AM
12

YES! Let’s make radfem rap a thing please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:20 AM
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Holy shit - good for you for standing up to him! What a fucking nut job. And you’re right, do you think if you were a man he would’ve hunted you down like that? Nope, he was trying to intimidate someone who he thought he could easily dominate. Too bad he can’t fuck with you because you’re an FDS queen. Of course we aren’t invincible no matter what though, and I’m so glad you’re safe. He sounds like a sociopath
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:18 AM
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The fact this shit even pops into their minds tells us EVERYTHING we need to know🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:13 AM
15

Love this! Do you ladies have any examples or red flags when it comes to signs that a guy is trying to change you? My pick-me days were hyper-focused on trying to change the guy, so I haven’t really considered it the other way around
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:19 AM
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Lmao and apparently WE’RE the ones who have “nO eMpAtHy FoR mEn”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:15 AM
52

IM CRYING LMAO😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:14 AM
1

I know this is old but just want to note - women when they’re OFF of birth control prefer partners who are more “masculine.” Unfortunately, I think that means you’re actually less likely to choose a narcissist on birth control, so you could end up with a HVM you lose attraction to once you’re off of it. Birth control helps us choose partners who are more cooperative and empathetic, traits associated with estrogen not testosterone, which is more associated with narcissism. I don’t want to believe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:04 AM
3

Literally like Terry Crews
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:44 PM
5

Lmao I wonder how they’d react to non-consensual choking during a sexual encounter. I have a feeling they won’t be as enthusiastic when the roles are reversed....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:40 PM
55

Men don’t have self-love, only narcissism, that’s why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:40 PM
11

YES!! Do they really think it’s upper class white women most at risk of human trafficking?? NO, IT’S WOMEN OF COLOR, ESPECIALLY IF THEYRE POOR. Misogyny causes the most profound levels of devastation in the lives of black and brown women to the point that white women’s tough experiences look like a walk in the park in comparison. And to see these types of racialized misogynistic inequities propagated by fake woke “anti-racism” is actually profoundly racist, as you said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:29 PM
11

THIS!!! While intersectionality is so important, we need to be increasingly cognizant of “anti-racism” being used not only as a divide and conquer strategy, but also as a way of enabling misogynoir. It’s getting more covert and insidious by the minute, and we must remain vigilant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:23 PM
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Yeah it’s funny too because most of the me too allegations weren’t against men of color either. They were against white men mostly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:21 PM
24

Yeah, apparently if we don’t allow men to rape us we’re oppressing them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:20 PM
42

And funnily enough, it mostly benefits white men to shut up white women. Men of color have a much smaller stake in that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:16 PM
30

YEAH!! Most white women expose white men anyway, because those are the men were around the most. It is women of color who primarily have to deal with misogyny on the part of men of color, and this misogynoir is being enabled by blaming white women to delegitimize the claims!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:15 PM
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“Accompanied by a cartoon of a crying white woman” This is straight up dehumanization. Countries that enabled the dissemination of such dehumanizing images encouraged genocidal consequences, and this is meant to normalize, dismiss, and even promote femicide and rape. Femicidal consequences. It’s no different than pornography that encourages men to masturbate to our tears. It legitimizes contempt as a response to our suffering rather than empathy. Left-wing misogyny is getting out of control. If …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:12 PM
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Honestly it’s a miracle that Catharine MacKinnon, despite being a genius, is even recognized or given any credibility in mainstream academia considering that many academic institutions, especially ivies, embarrassingly uncritically hold the pro-porn position and aren’t even open to considering peer-reviewed studies in their analysis. Mainstream academia has become a joke. You cannot reason with them - postmodernism has rotten their ability to think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:02 PM
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Yep that’s exactly the text I read!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:46 PM
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This story made my day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:26 PM
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Realize he’s a parasite and that you only need to feel guilty for not getting enough out of him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:19 PM
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And Catharine MacKinnon wrote a piece pointing out how sometimes, people express contempt towards white women under the guise of anti-racism when really it’s just misogyny. It represents the hatred you get for simply being a woman, and it means that this is the bare-minimum level of misogyny women of color have to deal with, because they have misogynoir working against them additionally. So while white women aren’t above criticism, enabling misogyny in all its forms is harmful to every group of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:18 PM
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Yeah I’m so confused
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:57 PM
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Lmao he’s totally lying about that woman hitting him up over zoom. He definitely made the first move on her considering he also got w a 19 yr old. Always be skeptical of men’s explanations and narratives around their relationships, especially on Reddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:56 AM
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They are MASTER gold-diggers and so much moreso than women are. We have more opportunities to find people who actually WANT to give us money, but they are FAR more coercive and manipulative in terms of financial exploitation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:13 AM
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I think the point is that women go into these relationships not knowing that the guy is faking his personality and actually a bad person. It explains why snooping is something we’d even bother engaging in in the first place. Men love to say “not all men” but the issue is that for us women, we don’t know which men. If we did, then we wouldn’t find ourselves being abused and deceived. Men love to blame us and gaslight us for this, as if we should magically know, but I’m not going to be so arrogant…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:10 AM
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Yeah I think w shame it can teach a person that they’re fundamentally flawed at their core and can do nothing to change it. It hurts ones sense of agency and capacity to take accountability, which requires a more detached, impersonal look at things. Shame makes people identify with a behavior, and the more you identify with something, the more cognitive dissonance you feel if you try to act against that. Just an idea. Maybe fear of shame is better?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:07 AM
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Yeahhh I know. Honestly tho, he was a victim of my NVM father who fucked us over and didn’t support his development. My brother had a much huger capacity for empathy and shame than my dad, and he actually was deeply ashamed when I found out. He started refusing to go to school in 7th grade so my mom and I were the only women he knew basically. People would bully the shit out of him and tell him to kill himself. He tried but ultimately passed years later (april 2020) on a drug overdose. I’d still…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:43 AM
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The Wolf of Wall Street is an LVM FAVORITE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:17 AM
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They want the birth rate to go up and have the audacity to say this shit? Yeah, FUCK NO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:08 AM
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Yeah unfortunately my late younger brother had pics of me in his porn collection. He was extremely isolated and didn’t interact with women in real life, so if that’s the case for your brother then it’s probably what you think it is:/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:00 AM
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“The meaningless babble of a lowly beast”😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:44 PM
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HAHAHAHAH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:43 PM
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Yes exactly. I’m also skeptical of people who claim “shame makes it worse.” Do they really have any evidence of this? Sure, maybe it’s better to stress guilt over shame, but doesn’t shame help people STOP bad behaviors?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:39 PM
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Btw I’m pretty sure a group of radical feminists stuck these stickers around their college campus. Vandalism I can get on board with!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:34 PM
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Now we need Catharine MacKinnon on the pod next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:39 PM
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This is so surreal and amazing - I deeply admire Dr. Gail Dines and am so excited to see how her involvement with FDS will help the movement spread. Finally, there’s some hope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:38 PM
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What baffles me is the normalization of pejorative terms against women like whre and slt. As a society we’ve learned why it’s dehumanizing to use racial slurs like the n-word and a multitude of other words, yet misogynistic terms are par-for-the-course and entirely normalized. What’s that about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:36 PM
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You are NOT a failure to FDS! While most of us have dealt with abuse, we most likely haven’t had a man actually attempt to kill us and almost succeed. Plenty of women who haven’t gone thru even 1% of what you have are way bigger pick-mes. The fact you still have your head on straight after what you’ve been through is incredibly exceptional, and you should be proud of your resilience.❤️I’m so sorry you were attacked by a soulless scrote and that your current bf is being so callous, you deserve mu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:28 PM
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Yes she actually seems like she’d be receptive to us, she just hasn’t gotten the opportunity to come across this info
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:07 PM
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Holy shit, if this doesn’t expose them then I don’t know what will. Mainstream feminism is an MRA movement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:02 PM
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SAME! I only realized after finding FDS how much I internalized manosphere scare-tactics without even realizing it. Taking a critical look at “the wall” and seeing how men literally age worse has taken all of the power out of that myth and the role it plays in my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:38 PM
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He was probably desperate for cash after blowing it all on benzos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:39 AM
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I feel like this factor is also overexagerrated since this info is only available from men who actually try to quit porn. The majority probably aren’t even guilty because narcissism, which includes an incapacity to feel guilt, is predictive of porn use in the first place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:37 AM
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Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:58 AM
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They try to put us on the defense so that we’re working via their “frame.” We need to just respond with offensive attacks. The defensive position is always weaker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:31 AM
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Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:16 AM
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Heeding the warnings of other women is so critical! After leveling up, it’s easy to slip into arrogance, especially when you see other women engaging in pick-me behaviors. You start to think “I’m not like that” and even subconsciously feel “iM nOt LiKe OtHeR gIrLs”.....thinking that you’re immune to being played is exactly the thing that makes you even MORE vulnerable to being played. Believing you’re immune will give you a false sense of security, not real immunity, and if anything it’ll make y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:43 PM
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either way, at the end of the day it’s unfair and unjust to make black women, especially dark-skin black women, the face of a controversial issue like this. They already have the highest rates of femicide compared to every other group of women, and to irresponsibly represent them in a way that puts a target on their backs for even more acts of violence against them is unconscionable. I’m also pretty sure that the artist who consistently uses the DSBW phenotype in his political art is married to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:06 PM
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Yes, and real intersectionality, rather than just conflating the interests of BW w those of BM and never addressing the issues that only BW face, like femicide. Check out this video: king critical gaslighting of intersectionality a lot of times what intersectionality is in practice is the opposite of that it’s supposed to represent in theory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:55 PM
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He sucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:03 PM
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Love how they promote “traditionalism” for us women yet believe men should be entitled to jack off to internet porn. The hypocrisy makes me sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:00 PM
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Hey true! At least there’s a bright side
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:50 PM
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Yeah they’ll accuse us of being “controlling” as if we’re holding a gun to their heads. Really, they are just the ones who are trying to control US by shaming us and trying to FORCE us to be in relationships with porn users which we don’t want. Why aren’t we allowed to have a preference???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:41 PM
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They feel they’re entitled to us choosing them over ourselves. Apparently we aren’t even allowed to have any morals or values. As ridiculous and annoying as they are, all I can really feel in response to this is a deep, deep sense of sorrow. How can they respond this way to a woman who’s against porn because she wants to make the world a better place by stopping human trafficking and pedophilia? These men are so far gone and evil that it makes me not even want to live on this earth. It’s too muc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:37 PM
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The sub is literally called “entitled b*tches” btw. I don’t want to encourage brigading but I couldn’t contain myself but to share that. The misogyny is so profound I’m actually sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:32 PM
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Their reaction makes them appear overly emotional, unhinged, and hysterical - all traits they surely project onto women. Painfully transparent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:30 PM
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This is just like when Jordan Peterson, “defender of free speech” sued a woman for calling him a misogynist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:55 PM
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Interesting!! Honestly it’s odd tho - wouldn’t they want to keep the family unit strong because it’s in the interests of capitalism?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:41 AM
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Lmao literally being vanilla is seen as an alternative sexuality at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:53 AM
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OUR VAGINAS AREN’T HOMELESS SHELTERS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:45 AM
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What a piece of shit wow. This also is an example as to why I only engage in relationships with men that’ll provide a tangible financial return. You always need collateral. Engagement rings are supposed to be like an insurance policy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:30 AM
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Men are this parasitic and still have the audacity to call us gold-diggers. Unreal. I’ve heard so many stories like these, yet it is rare to hear about a woman swooping into a man’s life and being this much of a leech. The male collective projects and gaslights 24/7
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:27 AM
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I’m so surprised that journalism is higher up on the list than police officers!! And chefs?? WTF. Also I’m shocked that no finance-related jobs are up there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:59 PM
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It’s shallow as all hell, you can say that again. Saved this insightful comment🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:41 PM
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THIS 🔥🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:40 PM
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I’m also another non-needy lazy woman, but trust me, being too chill will get you into bad situations. It’s about being vigilant, proactive, and using critical thinking. Refusing to strategize because it’s too much work will come at a cost, and a hefty one at that. Going thru followers and phones will be a tedious process for a person like you, but if you allow a guy inside of you, you’re not doing yourself any favors by not getting up inside his business too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:37 PM
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SMART
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:33 PM
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Ooh what’s WLW??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:40 PM
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Lmao the same exact capitalistic exploitation of women’s labor, but under a communist regime which only makes it more hypocritical & adds insult to injury. It’s all a bunch of bullshit and why I strongly advise women to be suspicious of far-left idealistic fantasies - they typically are nothing more than grooming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 08:36 PM
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Yes exactly! They reduce motherhood to like a consumer good or something, stripping it of all honor and dignity in the process
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 08:19 PM
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They despise mothers in a really perverse way especially
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:23 PM
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Honestly I think the misogyny of communist regimes is hugely hugely downplayed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:22 PM
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Yeah lol they should make themselves useful for once
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:22 PM
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You can say that again - a starter husband is all he ever was
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:38 AM
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H O L Y F U C K🤮 I am so so sorry - please know that this wasn’t your fault. Men are deceptive creatures who can turn on you just like that. His behavior says nothing about you and everything about him I know you can probably barely even breathe right now, and I want you to know that it’s okay. It’s okay to not be okay right now. The tumultuous emotions youre experiencing right now are completely normal, and I bet your body is freaking out right now due to the betrayal trauma. Before you do anyt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:27 AM
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Lmao why don’t they have conversion therapy for hetero women? I’d sign up ASAP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:53 PM
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Thanks! Realizing that their objectification of us takes this form as well was a huge key for me. Men try to make it seem like when they objectify us, at least it’s because they think we’re pretty or something. But the truth is that most of the time, their objectification of us takes the form of believing we don’t meet their unrealistic standards of a trophy, as if we’re a bunch of subarus but they’re waiting on a photoshopped Ferrari
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:37 PM
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It’s BRAINWASHING at this point. The fact that barely ANYONE points it out makes me feel like I’m gonna go nuts. Society has made their commitment to gaslighting and traumatizing black women very clear. It’s absolutely reprehensible, appalling, and heartbreaking. Black women deserve so, so, so much better - and I’m ashamed to admit the obvious that white women have done a ridiculously, almost comically, shitty job at doing the bare minimum to help black women and represent their interests in pol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:30 PM
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Thank you❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:20 PM
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Go ahead :) thank you❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:20 PM
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Tru, at least we can LARP as men online tho - prob be more convincing if we did anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:20 AM
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Yep! And maybe they act like this testosterone makes us “masculine” but it actually makes us fertile adults! Testosterone is a part of puberty for BOTH genders, and the only females who lack testosterone to the point that they have no body hair are girls under the age of 8. They say femininity is about fertility but if we have any of the hormone that we need to be fertile AT ALL then we are apparently manly...and we’d be more feminine if we lacked testosterone to the point that were infertile? C…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:01 AM
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Lmao men’s double standard when it comes to gold-digging disgusts me to no end. Surreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:47 AM
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How did OLD win???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:41 AM
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We need to spark a movement maybe via a Twitter hashtag #onlinedatinghateswomen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:39 AM
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Agreed! 100% of the blame is on the perpetrator. While there are still things we can do to protect ourselves, this isn’t an obligation - it’s going above and beyond. We at FDS take accountability for our well-being because we’ve chosen to hold ourselves to a higher standard. This is NOT the expectation or obligation of regular women - however, it definitely benefits the female collective when we encourage one another to go above and beyond in this regard Funny how going above and beyond as a wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:23 AM
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THIS. They use the fact that we aren’t pornsick perverts who use people we aren’t attracted to as human fleshlighrs/dildos as evidence that we’re “hypergamous.” Men don’t have low standards, they just feel entitled to use the women they feel don’t meet them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:17 AM
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Ikr! Men who “pump and dump” don’t realize that us women don’t even care enough to NOTICE. I once analyzed my “body count” (used to have a list in my notes) and realized that I didn’t hear from only like 3% of them after the fact, and the majority of the time it’s because they were visiting from out of town or something. In fact, if I hadn’t gone back to my notes, I never would’ve recovered the memory of what happened or even their name/face. I truly wasn’t aware of their existence. When it come…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:14 AM
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Well if a guy has a high body count for those reasons, he could be even LESS exploitative than a creepy ugly guy who has a lower body count. Some men may also have a high body count due to having lower physical standards and lots of time on their hands. Maybe they don’t have a job, for example. Lazy irresponsibly men ARE more likely to be parasitic, but I do want to point out that this isn’t always the case. One sociopathic man who has a job may have a lower body count that a run of the mill, ir…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:00 AM
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Oh they’ve already started
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:52 AM
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The standard that BOTH men and women should be promiscuous benefits men at women’s expense. I think that a better standard would be to promote a lack of promiscuity in BOTH sexes. However, if we want a double-standard, while it doesn’t benefit women to promote promiscuity since it leads to trauma, we could EXCUSE promiscuity in women by sharing the truth that they are mostly victims of manipulation and rape, and the double standard is that men with high body counts are predatory rapists. This cr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:48 AM
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It’s also ironic because these men think their high body counts mean they’re “alpha males” rather than rapists. They think that their proficiency in using coercion and manipulation means they’re “alpha,” even though studies of chimpanzees show that the alpha is the male who has the best conflict resolution skills to maintain tribal cooperation. They tend to be even more agreeable than the FEMALES. On the other hand, your average beta male chimp is the disagreeable rapist - the alpha male oftenti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:48 AM
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THIS IS SO SPOT-ON WOW!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:40 AM
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Golden! I have a pick-me friend and this crap gets under my skin. However the one saving grace in terms of our friendship is that she exclusively dates men of only a particular race that I very rarely date, since I’m open to all. If she didn’t limit herself to only one group of men and we had similar tastes then it wouldn’t end well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:46 AM
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Nice job with the vigilante porn-shaming, comrade! If more civilian women did this, imagine the impact! You’ve inspired me to BOLDLY call these guys out and make them feel uncomfortable as fuck. It’s time they get a taste of their own medicine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:39 AM
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Ik this is old but wanted to comment - there is literally “satanic warlock porn” on mainstream sites. I wish I were kidding. Alastair Crowley is the “father” of the majority of modern occultism today - his influence even seeps into the new age movement and innocent stuff like the law of attraction. He was a disgusting pervert and rapist who created “sex magick” and horrified the general public with his depravity (before everyone was pornsick.) basically, anything witchcraft-related can’t really …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:30 PM
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Anyone else on board with the idea of us creating GoFundMes for FDS members like OP in dangerous situations? I see no reason why we can’t band together to support one another financially as well as emotionally - would love OP’s input as well. Would you like it if this were a thing, or do you feel it would be a privacy threat and only add to the stress of what you’re going thru? Would a platform other than GoFundMe work better?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:58 PM
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Learning Krav Maga could also benefit you - again, I apologize if this seems tone-deaf since this is a long-term solution to an immediate issue, but I thought I’d throw that out there. I also think you probably need a license to even go to a shooting range, but i think this a great idea for women who want to increase their confidence and sense of agency but are not yet comfortable owning a gun. And it goes without saying that you shouldn’t own a gun if you have never been to a shooting range/don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:48 PM
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I agree that this is the topic that’ll have the broadest appeal among women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:38 PM
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Makes sense and thank you for pointing that out. Ancient Greece was an incredibly misogynistic culture so it isn’t a valid comparison. More women would’ve deviated from heteronormative sexuality had they been given the opportunity to have even a tiny scrap of freedom, and as you said, in similar cultures where women are also isolated, gay men are murdered. The intersection between homophobia and misogyny is very real. And going off of that, do you by chance have any recommendations in terms of b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:33 PM
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Straight up! All about male socialization and the cult of toxic masculinity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:22 PM
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Lmao, he was also projecting because studies prove that men who watch porn can’t pair-bond with women because they constantly seek out novel, new partners
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:16 PM
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Thank you so much, I appreciate it! I think it occurred to me to see things in this light after discovering that the social “scientist” who created those studies saying women wearing red and high heels are more attractive to men literally FABRICATED the results!! We as women really underestimate not only men’s narcissism, but the level of PSYCHOSIS inherent in narcissism. Men are straight up out of touch with reality, and it’s not an intellectual limitation, but a cognitive one. When it comes to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:13 PM
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Love this! I’m not sure if you’re able to answer here, but what are your ideas in terms of media allies? The niches are def there but would imagine it took some creativity to figure out since even more “woke” media outlets like Vice have started a hate-campaign against us, and it goes without saying that conservatives will hate us too I also especially love the hashtag idea. #boycottdatingapps is perfect because it appeals to the average woman’s lived-experience. You guys have also mentioned how…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:03 PM
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I’m so disgusted by this that I’m crying. I’m not even angry anymore, all I feel is grief and utter revulsion. The fact that almost all men are complicit in this makes me want to vomit. The place where their souls should be has been replaced by an endless void, vacuum, or black hole of sheer greed and evil. It’s so surreal and disturbing that it’s too much to bear. I am absolutely heartbroken
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:37 PM
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Good point! I can see how being “pro-snooping” can confuse members into thinking that if a bf offers up his phone for you to go through, you’re in the clear However, I don’t consider that snooping. Real snooping is secretive, meaning the other person is totally unaware that you’re looking. You’re doing it secretly, and the point is the catch him off guard Having a partner offer up his phone is def a red flag in many ways - think about how Derrick Jaxn claimed “your relationship isn’t solid if yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:27 AM
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How can we market FDS to compete with the red pill and mgtow? I know they’re on the decline, but how can we make FDS as popular as these manosphere movements were in their peak?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:08 AM
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Would be amazing if we found a way to trick stalkers into thinking their victims changed their numbers and live in residences that are actually men’s. If 1% of the harassment women face was redirected to men, I guarantee 90% of stalkers would be locked up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:49 PM
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Lol by “date ideas” he probably means inviting women over to Netflix & chill at 1am and being mad when they don’t respond by bootycalling him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:45 PM
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Pretty ironic considering MGTOWs pretend to go “monk mode” and meditate to escape the gynocratic society controlled by women who are too vapid to care about things like meditation and spirituality!! But then, if we do meditate and are spiritual, apparently this makes us whores too!! This proves that men’s elusive, rational, and deep nature is clearly beyond our conception. They are so profound and enlightened!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:41 PM
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❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:03 PM
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HAHHA I love how they start off saying they sleep on the floor to ward off gold-digging whores but in the same breath imply men don’t take care of themselves because they’re oppressed by society!! Which one is it?? Vice and the culture they represent disgusts me to no end
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:41 PM
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Well I think that if a man wants a bisexual lifestyle, it isn’t on us women to accept that if we aren’t comfortable with it. I’ve heard so many stories of women ending up with HIV because their male partner was cheating on them with other men. While it’s important to not shame gay men so they aren’t pressured to remain in the closet and have a beard, the fact remains that sex between two women is far less likely to result in a serious disease than sex between two men, AND on top of it, as a woma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:31 PM
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Very true! Just look at Ancient Greece - pretty sure more men were having sex with eachother than women having sex with one another. What’s changed? It’s to the point that studies show straight men have little to no physiological arousal while watching gay porn while women are aroused by lesbian porn. It’s definitely homophobia, which also proves that men have FAR more control over their sexual arousal than we give them credit for. It’s just that they don’t feel ENTITLED to unleash that upon oth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:18 PM
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They also talk about felons as if every woman has slept with one, and if we claim we haven’t, they say we’re lying. Just because hundreds of mentally-ill women wrote Ted Bundy love letters when he was in prison doesn’t mean all women are into that. A couple hundred women are less than 1% of the female population in the US. However, when we point out crap that scrotes do, it’s always “nOt AlL mEn”😂they call us hypocrites as if we’re using “AMALT,” which we aren’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:10 PM
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Or taking a shower...?😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:07 PM
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Lol that’s like saying the cartel is ethical because they aren’t a corporation😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:42 PM
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This issue has made me largely lose faith in men. They are unmarriageable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:37 PM
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Ofc they have zero respect for AOC tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:46 PM
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I find it so ironic that feminists are stereotyped as not liking kids and being anti-family when really, most of us are pro-family. We realize that if we ever want to have the happy families we’ve dreamed of, we cannot tolerate degeneracy in men. Having high standards for families doesn’t mean we’re against families lol. It is MEN who are anti-family! This is evidenced by the fact that many of us women so badly wish we could have lots of kids and live that kind of life, but it is only low-qualit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:20 PM
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This is gold
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:47 PM
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It’s ironic how they have no respect for us yet at the same time, have no respect for themselves either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:18 PM
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Men straight up have the world convinced that a sex shortage is more oppressive than the conditions people who cannot access water face. It’s truly disgusting. I’ve lost the last shred of respect I ever had for them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:34 PM
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CONSENT IS EUGENICS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:06 PM
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Please more conversations like this!! There are so many practical caveats when it comes to having porn-free relationships and discerning a man’s attitude regarding porn. If we want to make a difference and shame this behavior on a broader level in society, we need tips on practical implementation. Getting him to agree to a no-porn boundary isn’t enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:04 PM
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Hahaha THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:53 PM
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Men shit on each other for not having physical standards too! They’ll reject a woman they’re physically attracted to if they don’t think she’s objectively that good looking because it embarrasses them. It’s all about ego. Sometimes they just want a flesh light but at other times, it’s more of an esteem thing than a sexual thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:51 PM
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Honestly it’s hypocritical but it isn’t. It’s just fair. We’ve asked them to stop objectifying us but they won’t. We tried to play nice and they never give that to us in return. It’s time they had a taste of their own medicine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:50 PM
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This is INSANE. I’d have no idea what to do in a situation like this because if you file for divorce, it doesn’t end there. The scrote who’s probably barely involved in raising his child will fight for custody out of pure spite. If I were somehow trapped in a marriage like this I’d just try my best to detach and try to line up a very wealthy replacement. Remaining emotionally involved in a situation like this would destroy your mental health
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:44 PM
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Lol the only guy who’s been able to consistently hit my g-spot is my current bf and he’s on the bigger side, I’d guess 6 inches, and his dick is slightly curved in a way that works with my anatomy, as mentioned in other posts. There’s no chance a 3 inch dick would do that for me, so whoever wrote that article is spreading a lie. It also doesn’t mean bigger is better. I had to end things with a guy who has the hugest dick I’ve ever seen (straight up might’ve been like TWELVE inches and the girthi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:36 PM
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You shouldn’t feel ashamed to admit that you’ve been coerced into sex. That’s the perpetrator projecting his shame onto you - it doesn’t come from within, it comes from an external source
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:28 PM
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They’re useful idiots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:31 AM
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THIS! Thinking of following FDS on my personal IG act for this reason (hard to decide tho bc these scrotes are obsessed stalkers lmao)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:28 AM
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You can also consider buying a gun too, but I know that it isn’t an immediate process so it’ll only go so far in your situation :/ I’d consider getting wasp spray as well - apparently it works better than pepper spray
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:41 AM
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This bullshit is always marketed to black women. Makes me livid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:38 AM
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Sperm Wars is a pile of bullshit and has done so much damage. Once you see the lengths male scientists will go to try to prove a narrative they already believe because it soothes their egos, it really makes you wonder if men have ever been capable of impartial, unbiased, and objective thought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:37 AM
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Lol I hate how they act as if they’re somehow deeper or superior to the rest of the world because they’re weird and rejected by society. Like sorry, no, you don’t deserve a trophy for being socially awkward
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:21 AM
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It’s also ironic because when women are angry we’re either accused of being masculine or of being “too emotional” since “women are so emotional” and are PMSing 24/7. Like ok....which one is it then? They accuse us of being too masculine and too feminine at the same time. Misogyny always includes circular logic, because it’s based on lies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:18 AM
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I’ve always been so disgusted by furries and could never put my finger on why, since they come across as harmless and non-violent. My intuition was on point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:37 PM
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Lmao even OUR ORGASMS ARE LIES (usually) but men of course condone these types of lies because it feeds into their delusions of grandeur. Yes, they’re literally THAT pathetic and fraudulent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:10 PM
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Why the fuck do they all dress like furries? Sick of these deviant freaks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:14 PM
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Did it occur to him that she could replace him with a man who makes $450K?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:48 PM
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We need to do this to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:31 PM
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Yep! But then men “hate” the Kardashians in this misogynistic way because they consider her vapid, even though her whole character is the way it is because of straight men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:22 AM
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Seems like a bunch of virtue-signaling to me. Too little, too late
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:24 AM
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Yes, as if our end goal should be trying to make it “work out” or gaining the approval of a sociopathic parasite. Like lol no....? It’s like telling a cancer patient that the goal is to make life with cancer cells work, rather than GETTING RID of the cancer cells!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:31 AM
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Literally I agree so much about making a deal with the devil and the sale of my soul. Satan is also depicted with a large penis, and many pagan religions that were considered demonic by the Jews were involved in phallus worship - porn can also be considered phallus worship. The canaanites, who Jews are unfairly blamed for mistreating, engaged in temple prostitution which was basically the same trafficking we see today! Jewish men were discouraged from exploiting these prostituted women and saw t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:26 AM
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Honestly the stereotype that Jewish men make good husbands seems to be basically true! It’s also confusing due to Weinstein and Epstein, but I wonder if they were unconsciously rebelling from the religion/cultural values they were raised with - not saying I’m even aware of the degree to which they were involved in serious study of Judaism, but I’m thinking they may have resented the Jewish culture that generally honors women and were reactionaries of some kind. It’s just ironic because judging b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:21 AM
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Lmao zero capacity for critical thinking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:16 PM
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Block & delete. I only met my bf in the middle of February and he’s already taken me on vacation with his parents and never had tinder in the first place. I’ve never had to text first and he won’t go hours without texting unless he knows I’m at work and don’t want any distractions. Never followed any ig models either. Literally not even one. You have a lot of work to do in terms of leveling up mentally! It’s not as if I didn’t run into trash before meeting my bf. In fact, before meeting my bf I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:08 PM
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The lack of self-awareness alone is absolutely disgusting and despicable. And it sounds like he didn’t even have the decency to kill himself at the end. This is the type of crap that makes me want to be a spinster
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:01 PM
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100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:59 PM
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Never! Not one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:36 AM
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Holy sh*t I’m so sorry you had to go through that. He’s disgusting! And I’m sure even 1yr and 2 months out of the relationship is still tough since it was 5 YEARS! These scrotes will normalize crap not only on a broad scale in society but in ur life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:00 AM
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Exactly. They were in TX too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 07:51 PM
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Makes sense - it’s unjust that it should even be on the woman to need to go to these lengths and invest so much energy into exposing the man. However, I will still seize any opportunity to defend my own interests, because I cannot afford to forgo it. I love these types of FDS comments and would love to see more of them! Being savvy about the legal aspects of divorce and learning this information as a Zoomer could save me from a ruined life in the future, and I’m so grateful for your input. Most …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 07:46 PM
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HAHAHA RIGHT! But only the party who’s exploiting the other for labor would ever be able to enforce any non-compete clauses because only their interests are considered valid!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 07:35 PM
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The concept of reclaiming terms is meant to obfuscate what we’re really supposed to do: normalize degrading terms to describe males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:52 PM
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Even my diet has changed! Dick is no longer a primary food group in my life👋🍆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:51 PM
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Yes! Even pre-FDS I was still into my level-up journey and naturally became more disgusted with male misogynistic rappers and gravitated towards listening to women rap. However, once I found FDS I started noticing the pick-me and handmaiden themes within certain female rap as well, and I can’t stand the pro-sex work, onlyfans, sugardaddy propaganda. So much fake empowerment, but I still enjoy female rappers. I’m just more selective now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:49 PM
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SO SMART
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:30 PM
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Lmao ya it was def a pack of male and female Christian youth group ganglords on a campaign to destroy liberal feminism and TOTALLY not her boyfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:28 PM
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Yes! It’s manslaughter. And if it happens in a marriage, the manslaughter occurred due to the male party violating a written contract, and if it happened in a relationship, he still violated a verbal contract. This would be considered fraud within securities industry law - so why does the law only selectively apply to situations in which the scrote benefits? Why does the law apply to protect gullible scrotes from crafty broker-dealers? Why is it never applied when women are victimized? Why does …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:03 PM
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Yeah my friend went to the Louis Vuitton store with her dad and they thought they were dating. I wouldn’t even call him a HVM but even he was totally disgusted and offended
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:54 PM
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🤮I’d imagine he’s the one who called her “exotic” in the first place too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:48 PM
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Yes!! HUGE sign they’re sociopaths - these types engage in thrill-seeking behavior because their brain’s amygdala is shrunk, so they need tons of arousal to feel stimulated. Their brains are also more likely to get hooked on dopamine, which is why they’re more likely to be addicts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:02 AM
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MESSAGE TO MALE LURKERS: PREPARE YOURSELF FOR A GLOBAL RESISTANCE EQUAL TO THE FORCE OF TEN THOUSAND SUNS🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:55 AM
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Great points! Some dating advice books literally seem like they’d tell the one woman who escaped being murdered by Ted Bundy that he abused her and treated her like crap because “he’s just not that into you” and “I guess you’re just not his dReAm WoMaN” lmao ya cause obviously the perfect woman would magically make him stop being a serial killer!!!🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:49 AM
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Lol we’re “wicked” because we have “bent ribs”? The fact anyone ever took him seriously is equally hilarious and disgusting. They’ve always been in denial and will desperately twist any point to fit the narrative they want to believe because it feels good. Totally irrational, cowardly, and utterly contemptible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:31 AM
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Literally makes me mad thinking about that fictional scenario😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:44 PM
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And to add to this - how are BW supposed to defend themselves without access to guns when a black woman is murdered every 8 hours? Police sure as hell won’t help. If they’re banned, organized criminals will still have guns (including cops)...and no one else. it’ll basically just end up being women who don’t have them lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:59 PM
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!!!! I’ve never thought about it this way!! The gun rights issue has always been hard for me to come to terms with - mass shootings are a huge issue, yet I’ve heard stories of women who’ve been raped, bought a gun, and used it to kill the rapist when he later broke into her home to kill her after reporting the initial rape and not getting any help from police! What are we as women supposed to do when police won’t help? (Not that we won’t be in prison 10X longer than when a man does the same exac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:54 PM
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Yep! They totally have the potential to change, but that potential is VERY unlikely to ever be realized
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:45 PM
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I’ve heard about this too but more in regard to the West Bank in 2001
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:29 PM
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And that doesn’t even take into account the gender discrepancy. 53% is probably closer to like 100% of the men and 6% of the women. I hate when articles lump gendered statistics together and claim “wow humans are just so messed up” trying to get women to take half the blame for something they didn’t even do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:29 AM
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“6. In 2005 alone, 25% percent of rapists used online dating sites to find their victims. Let me repeat that: twenty-five percent of rapists used online dating sites to find their victims. Dinner for Six, a matchmaking service in Denver, Colorado says that 51% percent of online dating singles are already in a relationship, yet are putting themselves out there as being single. More than 53% of Americans fabricate parts or all of their dating profile details, according to Huff Post. They go on to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:27 AM
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Well in that sense, it only makes it more oppressive that we’ve been withholding their ultimate pleasure from them for all these years:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:16 AM
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I hope he’s an ex now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:55 PM
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Thanks! We cannot afford to forgo using effective strategies. Men have never deprived themselves of this, so why should we? The reality is that no intelligence agency can remain competitive if they do not infiltrate and subvert their competitors. It’s just how power and influence operates. Opting out of the game is an illusory option - either you play the game, or the game plays you. Women have been in the latter camp for FAR too long. Men don’t play fair, so neither should we. Using covert stra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:43 PM
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Well, I work at one of the most ‘elite’ companies on earth, so hopefully that’s a start. It’s like to reallocate their resources into causes that benefit the female collective, especially trafficked women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:27 PM
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Agreed. Just because something is illegal doesn’t mean it’ll be treated that way. Police officers are biased and don’t even enforce the law as it is in most places now. They don’t play by the rules. I’m glad it’s at least a step in the right direction too tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:51 PM
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Yeah! I think a great way to overhaul the gender norms would be if he allows this woman to peg him! He needs to explore this side of his sexuality, as he’s been oppressed and limited by social constructs that tell him taking it up the u-know-what is degrading. 50/50 and pegging is the antidote to our cultural woes! Men need to be freed and liberated from their dehumanization. And if he cries while being pegged, she should just tell him that it’s okay for men to cry :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:23 PM
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Literally this is what men mean when they call themselves feminists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:17 PM
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Yes, some guys have actually run into women who truly only want something casual, when they themselves wanted something more serious. They might feel like the woman will be turned off and see him as desperate if he offers dinner, and this effect is amplified if he sees everyone around him doing low effort dates. However, if he truly is only trying to follow what he sees as the social norm, if you suggest dinner he won’t make a peep or complain whatsoever, and he won’t try to lowball after the fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:08 PM
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Also why tf did he make a Reddit post about it if he has such an issue with it? If he demands only walking/coffee dates, why is he still entertaining this woman? Apparently she isn’t entitled to her preference of a dinner date but he’s entitled to his preference of a low value date WITH HER SPECIFICALLY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:48 PM
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As a feminist, I believe I am entitled to free sex from any woman I want!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:45 PM
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I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:52 PM
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Idk, is it really pick-me behavior to admit that you won’t find anyone by sitting around alone in your room? I get where you’re coming from in terms of male-pandering, but if a guy assumes you’re low maintenance because of your hobbies....who cares? It doesn’t matter at all if you refuse to accept coffee/walk dates and only go on dinner dates. While we don’t need to pander to men and try to seem like “cool girls” to show we’re special, we don’t need to avoid hobbies that we like just because the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:11 PM
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AHH SAW THIS ON A ZOOM MEETING AND HAVE TO TRY SO HARD NOT TO LAUGH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:37 PM
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Lol I love how our society defines women who worship men at the expense of their own children as “virtuous” - there is literally no moral integrity in pandering to men and loving them too much. Women are taught to be so empathetic to the point that they’ll compromise their integrity And I’m going to go even further than just saying snooping is “not that bad” NO! Snooping is honorable and I’d go as far as saying that it’s your moral duty to do so! Of course verifying that the father of your futur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:42 AM
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Lol Dave Portnoy😭😂 For fun, who’s your most hated out of the three: Jordan Peterson, Dave Portnoy, or Joe Rogan?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:00 AM
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They try to live up to this caricatured ideal of masculinity and are willing to sell their souls to do so. It couldn’t be more vile and pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:46 PM
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This is why radical feminists need to infiltrate the cultural elite. We need to work more covertly, because that’s what we’re up against
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:33 PM
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We should infiltrate their groups for some vigilante intelligence work too. If it worked for the KGB then it’ll work for us:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:30 PM
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Me too! Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 11:03 PM
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Snooping only works if u catch them off-guard! Totally agree w this sentiment tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:56 PM
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I have a proton email just cause I’m interested in cyber security, but men who use the platform most likely are hiding cheating/porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:44 PM
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These scrotes feel entitled to shoot their sperm inside of us but if we look inside their iPhones we’ve “violated” them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:43 PM
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They’re so incompetent that they invest enough energy into abusing successful women that otherwise could’ve been invested in themselves to level-up. They never miss out on an opportunity to be destructive parasites, even when it doesn’t benefit them ...at least over the long-term
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:32 PM
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Lmao imagine if women saw relationships with men as a “necessary evil” to take his money😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:28 PM
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I get where you’re coming from! They don’t want a relationship, they want a slave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:27 PM
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Honestly even tho society tries to do everything to make single women over 40 feel ashamed, the reality is that no one wants to do business with an unmarried middle-aged MAN because he’s seen as untrustworthy and unscrupulous. It hugely limits his status in society. However, while single women are taught to feel like crap, notice that being unmarried doesn’t limit their status. In fact, they lose status when they’re married. And while people call older unmarried women “selfish” people won’t refu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 07:17 PM
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Same here I work at one of the most prestigious companies in the world at the age of 23 and smoke every day. I know plenty of people who don’t smoke who have neither graduated nor have a job. If I didn’t smoke it would throw off my sleep and hurt my performance. I’ve quit for long periods of time and saw no benefit whatsoever. Not a reason to lie tho ofc - we all have the right to our preferences and anyone here who doesn’t want to date smokers, I support you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:08 PM
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NORMALIZE SNOOPING AND STOP THE “mUh pRiVaCy” propaganda!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:11 PM
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Feminism today is about proving something to men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:12 PM
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👀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:14 AM
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Wise words👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:26 AM
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Nightmare scenario
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:25 AM
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This is such a thing and it’s so unfair The only technique that really works is what Shera teaches. I also saw a comment on this sub about OP’s father being manipulated by his mail-order brides by basically “fake submitting” What works is subtly detaching - before cOmMuNiCaTiNg, if you think it’s worth it to say something, being passive aggressive and reassuring them nothing is wrong for a couple days works well. Not using exclamation points, emojis, “haha”s, and “lol”s in your texts for a coupl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:58 AM
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The majority of narcissists are unaware of their true motives and aren’t purposely abusive. It’s still a form of willful ignorance tho. It’s kinda like back when we were pickmeishas...we didn’t know...but lowkey in the back of our minds we did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:48 AM
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You don’t need to be nice! Just be a good person - and that entails refusing to enable bad people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:44 AM
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This is the shit that makes me strongly consider never ever getting married. It’s tragic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:41 AM
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One thing I hate about liberal feminism is how they’ve encouraged men to be raised to grow up into weaklings who make excuses for everything - this is that last thing we as women needed. Men were held to standards, but now they aren’t and only we are! Also, many liberal feminists have claimed that men are forced to be too “stoic” and that this promotes misogyny...I don’t know about you guys but I really doubt Elliot rodger’s issue is that he was too “stoic.” I also really doubt that my ex who th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:28 AM
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The fucked up thing is that I’d actually ENJOY doing stuff like this because it’s FUN (for me at least.) But I CAN’T do it because for whatever reason, men will hate you if you do these things for them! It’s like a switch goes off in their brain and they view you as a slave unworthy of all respect. When I begin to view being considerate to men as a type of guilty pleasure, like eating junk food, sleeping in, procrastinating, etc, is raises all sorts of questions regarding their warped psychology…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:21 AM
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Ugh I’m sorry you were given bad advice that fucked you over. No one gives women advice that’s in their best interests...except at FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:13 AM
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I’m glad you shared how you detached and how that worked for you! While we don’t break up with men in person here at FDS and stick to block/delete, this is unrealistic to accomplish on a whim in an LTR because it can trigger you to chase them if you felt you didn’t think it thru. It’s also 10x worse emotionally when you dump someone after skipping the “detachment” stage. If you go thru the detachment stage while still in the relationship, you won’t be crying every day (or at least the entire day…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:10 AM
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Men have the audacity to complain about paying child support for their OWN children when many women actually have to pay child support for CHILDREN THAT ARENT THEIR OWN. They’re so weak and disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:03 PM
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I’m so surprised she ever tolerated him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:58 PM
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Lmao if we reject the guys who would make us single moms they call us “gold-diggers”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:56 PM
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Also - why tf doesn’t he get a vasectomy ???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:53 PM
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YEAH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:52 PM
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Because they’d rather protect the interests of predatory men than protect women from abuse - rlly goes to show how largely useless they are considering one of the main reasons they claim men are worth a damn is because they “protect” women. And I’m glad u like the privacy propaganda term! Really the only word I could come up with to describe the indoctrination and brainwashing taking place on other subreddits. We FDSers should start using the term more often. We need to fight via language
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:40 PM
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Enormously! Good for you for advocating for yourself. It truly disgusts me that most subreddits would criticize you for going through his phone, as if you do not have the right, esp as a BW, to protect yourself from being eaten alive by a useless POS. But despite the bs, you still have a mind of your own and had the strength to follow your survival instincts...and that makes you a QUEEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:30 PM
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I love how men came up with the term virtue-signaling - probably because they’re the worst offenders
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:57 AM
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👏👏👏BRAVO to you for going through his phone and finding those vile texts! Imagine if you gave into the pRiVaCy propaganda and found yourself emotionally involved with a racial fetishist! So much respect 👑👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:56 AM
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Hm..so in my situation, me, my bf, and his friend were all hanging out. His friend said when he sees that women get fired from their jobs for having an onlyfans account and sue for discrimination, it makes him really mad because it’s unfair they could be fired for that. (He is lowkey of the camp that supports full decrim and normalizes OF culture tho - seems to disingenuously pander to women) and my bf responded with “there are so many arguments against that. You can get fired for things you do …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:21 AM
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This is so exploitative and gross! OF needs to be shut down ASAP. It’s grooming young women into prostitution. Also, how do we judge men based on their stance on OF? Because it seems that the only guys who appear to empathize with the backlash women face are the ones who want to normalize, legitimize, and totally decriminalize “sex work.” However, when it comes to guys who aren’t about the OnlyFans culture, they seem to not really see anything wrong with the fact that employers will refuse to hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:24 AM
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Exactly!! When a woman has a shred of dignity she’s treated as if she’s insane and needs a therapist ASAP🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:14 AM
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This is so sad - what a vile man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:32 PM
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❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:36 PM
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And btw, I’m 23 - I’m a cusper “zillennial” but still technically Gen Z like you! I’d love for us gen z FDSers to open up some type of dialogue. We’re subjected to next-level porn culture and need to protect ourselves from pornsick men who use “surprise BDSM” and other forms of abuse. What sucks is that other generations of women didn’t have to deal with male peers who’ve been raised on high-speed internet porn, so I feel like it’s crucial for older gen z women to support younger gen z women/gir…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:33 PM
3

Well obviously he’d know it’s because you’re jealous of all the 14 year olds!🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:22 PM
96

Being bothered by this behavior is actually a symptom of self-respect and high self esteem. The people gaslighting her into “raising” her self esteem actually want her to lower it, as only a person with low self esteem would tolerate this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:31 PM
13

YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:27 PM
104

I do want to point out that I’m pretty sure when a man finishes inside of you, the chemical reaction actually causes you to lose attraction to other men. The confusion probably arises from the fact that the woman will be more attracted to the particular man who inseminated her, but it doesn’t mean she ends up being more attracted to all men - it’s the opposite if anything However, in many ways this is WORSE because if an NVM finishes inside of you, it actually may prevent you from finding a HVM …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:16 PM
4

Eh, I’ve heard of women going thru their partners’ phones and finding child porn. They never would’ve been reported otherwise, so I think it’s actually good for society & that shaming women for this behavior benefits predatory men only. I agree that obsessively going thru a guy’s phone out of neediness is degrading, but if a guy is allowed inside of me then I don’t see why I’m not allowed inside of his phone. My last ex was cheating the whole time and I was too oblivious to even think of going t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:01 PM
13

Lol this alt-right pundit Nick Fuentes also claims that “feminists” enforce age of consent laws because we’re jealous of young women who get exploited by pedos. And he claims he’s Catholic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:04 PM
3

Makes sense! And honestly, the thing that helped me leave my abuser and stop going back was taking accountability, so I can see how harmful it can be to withhold a solution that will benefit a battered woman. Honestly, I suspect that the toxicity of the co-addiction model applies more to relationships where one partner is a sex addict (includes porn addicts) and the other is a “co-addict.” In a situation where physical abuse is present, it’s more obvious that the abuser is destructive and that t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:31 AM
4

Honestly we need to shame them and be like “aww I know things are tough right now because of the pandemic but thanks so much for the offer! Honestly I’d imagine you have other more important issues to worry about right now, so I won’t burden you by wasting your time”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:43 PM
7

It’s funny that the “debate” online is men insisting that they shouldn’t have to pay considering that NOT ONE OF THEM has EVER had the balls to ask me to split the bill on a date. I’ve never paid for any part of a date in my entire life. These guys talk a big game behind a screen but when they’re put to the test in-person they’ll cave because if they want to keep you around badly enough they won’t even dare to ask you to go 50/50....especially on a first date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:36 PM
3

Lol scrotes scream that they don’t want to date “whales” but apparently our biological preference for men with resources isn’t valid? Seems like they selectively use bIoLoGy as an explanation only when it benefits them (and enables their porn addiction😂)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:31 PM
4

The co-addiction model is victim-blaming and inaccurate. The trauma model has much more evidence to back it up. These women aren’t “addicts,” they’re victims of trauma. NOT the same thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:13 PM
15

They are so infantile - it’s pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:17 PM
2

Yes, this depraved crap is hiding in plain sight as usual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:30 PM
3

So insane and horrific. Absolutely horrific. And I was unaware of where the claim originated from, but I think you’ve answered that for me. So many countries won’t recognize the Armenian genocide and literally lie to cover it up. Absolutely reprehensible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:51 PM
4

Why’s that? Genuinely curious lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:10 PM
6

Yeah it’s a specific organization that played a role in the Armenian genocide (TYT.) Definitely can’t pin the blame on an entire ethnic group as that would be wrong and denies the facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:04 PM
1

You’re right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:02 PM
7

YES! I’m so glad I’m not the only person who acknowledges this fact. I’m almost positive TYT, and not just “turks,” we’re involved in the Armenian Genocide. I heard they crucified women. I’m not joking. Crimes against humanity and suffering beyond all conception
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:02 PM
8

YES! Pretty sure they refuse to acknowledge the Armenian Genocide because TYT had a hand in it at the time. Pure evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:00 PM
7

I despise TYT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:58 PM
0

Pretty sure the Young Turks were involved in the Armenian genocide...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:57 PM
35

Lmao I saw Leonardo DiCaprio at this club called Marquee in NYC summer 2019. I’d only bother showing up for the free table/alcohol, and he’d literally just stand at the bar. Alone. This was pre-FDS, but I was already judging the fuck out of him. I was thinking about how he should have a family at this point but was literally dating a 21 yr old model...I was like tbh, he could try to fuck me rn and I wouldn’t even bother. He has nothing of substance to offer. He talks a big game about saving the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:48 PM
3

Ew I swear men NEVER FAIL to overestimate their depth and originality. Endlessly obnoxious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:58 PM
2

Sorry for my cynical tone! Your post didn’t make me think that at all - I guess I just wanted to point out that a lot of people who call themselves intersectional feminists still don’t fully take the interests of black women into consideration, and more public awareness of this fact is a good thing, because many are under the impression that the interests of black women are being addressed in mainstream conversations, when they’re largely ignored
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:19 AM
1

How can we redefine law to not blame victims?? I’ve noticed this paradox as well but can’t seem to figure out the root fallacy / false assumption. Is it some type of dialectic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:01 AM
1

Only if by “intersectional” you don’t mean representing only the interests of black men at the expense of black women and then call it “feminism.” Because that’s what seems to be mainstream intersectional feminism today. Probably because no one even bothers listening to BW and taking their lived-experience into account. It’s so infuriating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:23 PM
2

At least he isn’t one of those porn-obsessed hypocrites who refuses to date sex workers...military men still suck tho. Just pointing out that the bar is so low that this guy probably isn’t even one of the worst ones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:19 PM
3

Before the rise of Hollywood men didn’t even choose wives based on looks...they just used her for domestic labor lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:15 PM
7

Sociopaths buy you stuff to lovebomb you all the time. Anyone can buy a gift. It doesn’t mean they’re capable of empathy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:18 PM
15

My NVM father tried to use my brother’s death to gain sympathy from a younger woman who wouldn’t give him the light of day even though he didn’t speak to him for 6 months before his death
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:06 PM
1

Men’s IQs are extremely polarized compared to women. They’re more likely to be on either the upper or lower limits, so there are more low IQ men than there are low IQ women, even if men’s and women’s avg IQs are largely equal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:00 PM
1

Yeah I’d never say I don’t care about men I’m not interested in watching porn because the demand for porn drives human trafficking. It doesn’t matter how attractive/unattractive the men are. Their actions are STILL driving HT and the reason why it’s even profitable to kidnap a woman in the first place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:16 AM
1

This is so stupid because even men who lost their virginity at like 14 and have been sleeping around since high school still watch porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:12 AM
2

Yeah I’m not even kidding he like went on a rant about Harriet Tubman last summer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:58 PM
81

The type of kink I can get on board with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:30 PM
40

My boyfriend deleted his search history and had an incognito window open....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:41 AM
23

Is there an actual anti-kink sub on Reddit? I want in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:25 AM
134

They think we’re violating their rights by protecting our own rights - but the only thing we are violating is their sense of entitlement to violate our rights
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:20 AM
114

Correction: it’ll spiral THEM towards loneliness forever😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:14 AM
7

They’re the kings of circular logic. ✨difference✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:02 AM
9

Just goes to show that even if you’re doing research at Harvard he’ll always view you as an object
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:52 AM
6

Lmao too bad they aren’t God and can’t overpower nature. I like to call it “natural law.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:48 AM
10

At least this article seems a bit critical about polyamory. I’m honestly surprised
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:47 AM
4

Absolutely! I think it’s important for this sub to have real-life examples
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:28 PM
82

They see their feelings as facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:18 PM
17

Lmao ya and they conveniently forget that laser hair removal for your hoohaa DEFINITELY didn’t exist in the medieval times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:06 AM
17

Lmao imagine if Daenerys from Game of Thrones had armpit hair😂scrotes wouldn’t be so enthusiastic about the rape scenes of course!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:04 AM
135

HAHAHA YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:50 AM
10

It’s also hilarious men claim Future is superior to the “simp” Russell Wilson. Notice that no one has posted Future on Fine AF Friday, and women, on a global scale, swoon over Russell Wilson and aren’t attracted to Future. Scrotes are just bitter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:10 AM
7

BLUEPRINT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:08 AM
6

Jordan Peterson exposed his scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:49 PM
9

He’s an amazing person too! LVM scream at him for being a “simp” while I simultaneously swoon over him😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:46 PM
3

Yess lol I totally prefer the football body type and no (or minimal) tattoos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:43 PM
10

The EPITOME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:42 PM
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He’s literally so so amazing and a great example for other men. When I think HVM he totally comes to mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:42 PM
2

Curious, what are Elizabeth Warren’s handmaiden traits?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 04:45 PM
3

And then they expect us to have sympathy if they get scammed after going for a young attractive woman! They’re the biggest hypocrites it’s so disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:04 PM
3

We need to be more aggressive in using their language against them in a reactionary fashion (not that they aren’t the reactionaries...)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:03 PM
4

YES! They make it seem like it’s an equally valid, “different” form of sex. They are normalizing it and effectively grooming young girls into fulfilling their male peers’ porn fantasies. They are being collectively groomed from childhood
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:01 PM
2

I feel there’s a difference between accountability and blame too! Accountability is just meant to be empowering. All it is is taking into account our past experiences and using the knowledge gained to our advantage. Totally impersonal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:15 AM
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This is one of the reasons liberal feminism is so poisonous. Their rhetoric traps women in a cycle of thinking that if she does anything to empower herself, it’s self victim-blaming. This is a new psychological trap meant to hinder women’s agency and disempower them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:05 AM
6

Lol and no one tells manosphere “divorce-raped” men that they should’ve “chosen better”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:01 AM
6

They’re using our language against us so we need to do the same. Let’s start talking about “men’s agency” when they agree to get married and then play the victim after being “divorce-raped”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:57 AM
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I feel like the signs usually are there but they’re largely unidentifiable to the vast majority of women who haven’t extensively studied abusive men and insidious manipulation techniques like gaslighting. Lmao but then the same people who tell us to overlook red flags will blame these women for not knowing better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:55 AM
5

Well-said!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:52 AM
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Lmao as if scrotes aren’t benefitting from my 11 year old cousins learning about anal sex in sex-ed😂they claim to be pushing the barriers on heteronormative sex but are rlly just pandering to the porn lobby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:48 AM
7

We should start feminist charter schools for this purpose
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:46 AM
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I like how there are consumer protection agencies meant to protect ppl from coercive business practices, but when women are coerced sexually it’s somehow “not within the scope of the law” 😂 classic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:45 AM
3

Exactly! It’s just common sense. Women’s issues taught me to stop looking at things solely thru the lens of the two-party system. It’s a much more effective means of discovering the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:40 PM
3

I think Q is ultimately a psyop, however it would be carried out by an intelligence agency (like the CIA or the KGB....I mean FSB😂) however, very powerful people have lots of influence over these organizations (ex - Harvey Weinstein getting ex-Mossad members to harass his victims into silence.) they can easily infiltrate these organizations to push their interests. I think Alex Jones is also a disinfo agent, for example
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:14 PM
41

....narc NVM!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:02 AM
9

Very true!! Next time scrotes shit on women for that I’ll just say we’re looking for bodyguards...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:00 AM
39

Totally been through this stage! I’d look back and feel ashamed, but now I luckily don’t really experience this anymore. I think you’ve still internalized the blame, as if there’s something fundamentally wrong with you to your core, but the truth is that you were conditioned to be this way - you didn’t get to choose your father! Plenty of other people would have a similar reaction to those circumstances as you, so remember that it’s nothing personal and to let go of the self-judgement. It is act…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:38 AM
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And guess who created that concept of “fairy tale love” in the first place?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:30 AM
3

Exactly! It’s a preemptive diversionary tactic. So so so manipulative it’s unreal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:33 AM
10

Makes sense! It’s reactionary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:31 AM
6

YES EXACTLY!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:28 AM
2

Lmao not surprised the libfem women at Sarah Lawrence are pressured into threesomes with entitled men. Imagine going to what is known as a “women’s college” and “feminist institution” only to be disrespected left and right by the men they decided should be allowed to attend...? I feel this is a cultural motif describing how liberal feminism has screwed us over in the most devastating ways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 11:02 PM
2

It’s easy to ridicule these girls but we all know most of us were in their shoes with this cringe attitude. We should focus more on persuading and rehabilitating them rather than just using them to mock them for fun just like LVM already do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:48 PM
4

Men are SHEEP, although they project this quality o to us in discussions with their “boys” beneath a “Saturday’s are for the boys” banner. This is also why so many frat boys will drink themselves to DEATH during hazing. They will literally sacrifice their lives for peer pressure, validation, and social clout, then call US “vapid and shallow sheep.” It’s so pathetic it’s hard to even put it into words. They are the Machiavellian ones who care more about social status than life itself. Effectively…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:42 PM
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The “plausible deniability” trope in the manosphere is such bullshit. As if we revolve our lives around not seeming slutty to our friends? The reason they get better results with that approach is because they are genuinely making us think they are only inviting us over for something other than sex, but then we arrive there are realize we were tricked. This is why women wise up to “come over and chill.” If we were truly intending to have sex but just wanted plausible deniability, there’d be NO “w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:16 PM
7

I think that the butterflies COULD say something about the man, but in your situation they say less about the man and more about your emotional state, and it goes without saying that feelings of anxiety and overall emotion do in fact make you more vulnerable to abuse. In my opinion, why not just use the first couple months-a year to vet? Just cause you meet a decent guy doesn’t mean you have to hand him over your heart right then and there. You could wait until you’re married to give him your tr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:59 PM
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Married women are unhappy so that says a lot. I agree with this I do have a question for my sisters though (out of genuine curiosity): why is it that only the wealthy are (mainly) getting married? If marriage is a trap to exploit women, how come the women with the least privilege and greatest likelihood of being sex-trafficked also have the lowest likelihood of getting married? I doubt that it’s meant to benefit them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:52 PM
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Thank you! This is such a great point. I also think sensationalizing serial killers like Ted Bundy does us a disservice because they pretend they’re one-off, isolated incidents when it’s just a symptom of a systemic issue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:49 PM
16

I’m anti-Q because it’s a psyop meant to obfuscate the truth. They mix in lies with the truth so then they can call you out as being a “conspiracy theorist” when you point out the ESTABLISHED FACT that Gates and Epstein had close ties. Intelligence communities are very, VERY sophisticated. It’s terrifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:47 PM
5

Yep, more satanic than anything😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:43 PM
11

YES EXACTLY! Critical thinking is the ultimate sin in our culture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:42 PM
29

Stuff like Qanon is meant to confuse and gaslight the masses. They spread ridiculous lies with a little bit of the truth, so if you share just the true parts, everyone will think you’re crazy and not believe you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:15 PM
19

I heard Bill Gates visited Epstein in prison. And as I mentioned before, my very wealthy friend’s father met Gates. He’s fake-humble and tries to be lowkey because he has something to hide, believe. He’s probably being blackmailed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:10 PM
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I get where you’re coming from - white men absolutely benefit from manipulating black men into taking on pimp culture. How do you think white men have most influenced black men in this way? Do you think it’s mostly huge music labels along with things like MTV? I’ve heard that “black music” used to be more about wholesome things like love (soul music, for example), but ever since the labels came in they’ve been spreading toxicity like crazy. Also, do you guys think that colorism in rap benefits w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:02 PM
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Just got a sample and I’m at the part where the future pimp’s mom leaves the good man for a “snake.” Don’t these men realize that women only have this tendency to go for assholes in the first place as a result of patriarchal social conditioning, which is particularly unique and severe within the black community? If women inherently loved thugs as a part of their nature, why aren’t women from upper-class neighborhoods addicted to thugs? What’s up with that? “Pimps” like to claim they are just rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:43 PM
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I’m a white woman and have been following the divestment crowd for a couple years now. Out of the 4000 students at my highschool, only 15 were black, so it was hard for me to gain insight into this phenomenon. Now that I see the full extent of the truth, I try my best to spread the message and wake people up, even if most of my opportunities to share are with other white people in my area. While outsiders can pick up on this dynamic, they can only do so very subtly. I think people would be surpr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:58 PM
13

Thanks for offering practical advice like this! Love that we can share things and actually apply them to our lives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:40 PM
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Men who have been genuinely abused arent the ones to get on a hilltop and share with anyone listening, especially as being abused by a woman is considered to be very humiliating to men: if it actually happened, he wouldn’t be so eager to share and he’s just projecting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:37 PM
14

I think he was the big mean bully and she was innocent, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:36 PM
3

Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:03 PM
2

What an amazing response!! So much insight here. It isn’t about being dismissive, it’s about healing! I think liberal feminism in particular also promotes this harmful ‘disease model’...and when we don’t heal we benefit men by having no boundaries. But apparently that’s “freedom”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:19 AM
2

Agreed! And I think narc support groups suck because part of what holds us back from recovering from trauma is actually, contrary to popular belief, constantly rehashing the incident either mentally or verbally by talking about it excessively. It becomes this loop that plays in your mind on repeat and it’s the worst thing ever. These groups end up making the fixation 10X worse and thus the suffering endured 10X worse. All I know is that from my own personal experience, the only thing that helped…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:42 AM
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I totally agree with this! It’s insane that we’re shamed for this freeze response, and it’s dangerous because those who recommend fighting back of course aren’t considering that we probably won’t benefit from that. While women have the right to respond any way they see fit, those recommending things that’ll escalate the situation to promote your safety are giving bad advice, imo. I usually just pretend I can’t hear them or something. I just don’t see what’s to be gained by fighting back. What ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:59 AM
2

The collective grooming is in plain sight!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:53 AM
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Agreed - white men gave the vote to black men before they did for their own women too. Men promote race politics and race loyalty for women but never adhere to it themselves...makes me wonder if it’s all just a ploy to benefit themselves...?🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:39 AM
14

Lol I bet that’s why Kanye West hates Harriet Tubman😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:37 AM
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YES!!! And imagine how black men would react if someone like Breonna Taylor had a track record including violence against black men. They’d have no sympathy for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:36 AM
15

YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:35 AM
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Black misogyny is a HUGE problem and libfems won’t even talk about it. It seems like intersectional feminists promote feminism for white women but black nationalist patriarchy for black men and women, maybe due to multicultural “cultural relativism” which claims that all cultures are of equal quality, irrespective of misogyny and every other moral concern. I’ve never heard of an “intersectional” feminist who doesn’t prioritize the interests of black men above black women. Maybe that would be “fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:33 AM
13

The thing that sucks is that I actually ENJOY doing domestic chores but have to hold myself back because scrotes will take you for granted and totally disrespect you if you’re nice to them lmao. Cleaning is very therapeutic for me but I can’t partake in this de-stressing activity at a scrote’s place bc he’ll take that as a sign that I’m his literal slave!! If you engage in any of the things that men say they want they will truly hate you for it. You can’t win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:23 AM
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Agreed! While there are men who make less money who can still have HVM character, it doesn’t mean they can give YOU the high-value marriage you’re looking for! A high-value marriage is one in which you won’t need to pay alimony if you divorce. So while a man who makes less money can still be a HVM, he can only offer a high-value marriage to women who make less money than him, as he has value to contribute to those women’s lives while he has less value to contribute to the lives of women who make…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:12 AM
2

Yep! While I advocate for the use of operant conditioning on men, this isn’t the way to do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:55 PM
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Literally if a man did this he’d be considered the simp of the century
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:54 PM
2

This seems like a good way to incentivize your son not your bf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:53 PM
7

EXACTLY! It’s almost like feeling “exposed” when you’re just showing your bare face!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:51 PM
12

YES! You can still have a type of beauty routine (only if you want) while going makeup-free. I take spiro and tret for my acne, and while it’s still a cosmetic thing (aside from cystic acne being legitimately painful) I feel that wearing a literal mask every day would make you lose confidence no matter how gorgeous you are, because you’ll always be lowkey uneasy when it comes to showing others what you “really” look like. It’s as if you’re telling yourself that how you actually look isn’t good e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:48 PM
3

Yes! The part between their dick and back door is literally getting smaller and smaller! It’s been happening over the course of decades - men are literally becoming hermaphrodites or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:42 PM
2

Overweight men (who have more estrogen) are also more likely to be abusive!! There’s no link between high testosterone and abusiveness which proves that red pill guys are coping LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:41 PM
6

Their level of vitriol exposes themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:50 PM
2

Cleopatra was the ultimate alpha female. She had so much finesse and I have so much respect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:39 PM
5

Dude the teachers unions are screwing over women!! So sorry you have to deal with all that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:35 PM
10

It really annoys me when people prioritize things like rights for pitbulls but won’t acknowledge misogyny in our society. Like ok nice you have more empathy for dogs than women. Noted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:34 PM
17

It’s like considering a car to be a “long-term investment.” Men in the manosphere are incredibly financially illiterate, it’s almost sad to watch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:36 PM
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Lol and then they have the nerve to call us “cliquey”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:40 PM
2

Honestly even unsuccessful men can totally lack empathy too. Apparently research on sociopaths reveals that they have LOWER IQs, contrary to popular opinion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:20 PM
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Yeah I also don’t think his advice is special or effective. I don’t know why he thinks he’s even in a place to give advice. At least GL has a track record proving the results. Tony is full of hot air and sharing opinions, not what works
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:18 PM
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WOW: I’m so glad I trusted my gut and never went to therapy after my trauma. Deep down I felt it was a bunch of BS and it would make me worse. I’m so sorry you had to go through that :/ I recognize legitimate and effective forms of therapy exist, but I still believe most therapists don’t know what they’re doing. I feel that the majority don’t even bother keeping up with relevant research within their fields. It defeats the purpose of hiring a “professional.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:10 PM
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And the ironic thing is that if you’re addicted to codependency in that way you’re addicted to a drug, wouldn’t the logical solution be to LEAVE the relationship you’re allegedly using like a drug??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:02 PM
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Thanks so much for sharing this book! I just ordered it And I totally agree in regard to these codependent support groups. Similarly, support groups for victims of narcissists tend to more of a sabotaging influence rather than a supportive one. Seeing the dissemination of all this misinformation regarding trauma makes me so upset, as it clearly shows that patriarchy and male interests always take precedence over facts and reality. Effective advice is withheld from trauma survivors because our so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:00 PM
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Dude I totally think that the stats on narcissism are so off. At least 30% of men have to be full blown narcs and the majority of the rest are very very narcissistic...and that’s me being optimistic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:52 PM
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I GASPED when I read that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:27 PM
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Yes I think he’s absolutely fake and a bad person. My very wealthy friend’s dad met him and he’s the type who downplays his wealth to humblebrag but is actually incredibly calculating, power-hungry, and manipulative. I do not trust him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:19 PM
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Yes! He taught me more than anyone how to stop comparing myself to other women. And the above commenter claiming GL peddles “not like other girls” crap would mean that FDS does the same by acknowledging pick-mes vs HVW, which we all know isn’t true. If you think GL is pitting women against each other by calling out pick-mes then I’m assuming you believe pick-mes don’t exist, which even FDS totally disagrees with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:55 PM
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He recommends phone sex and you’re saying he’s forcing women to be “madonnas”? Seems like you just want an excuse to keep giving scrotes you date the benefit of the doubt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:51 PM
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He never said all men cheat...? I couldn’t care less about defending this guy’s reputation but I’m desperate for his content to reach more women as it’ll hugely hugely benefit the female collective. Men have better game than us as it is. We cannot afford to overlook his advice. The situation is too dire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:49 PM
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GL stresses this a lot tho - he says you can’t reset a relationship and usually just need to throw the whole guy away. He taught me this more than anyone, before I found FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:47 PM
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Eh Tony Gaskins doesn’t have much to offer. GL offers WAY better game on a whole other level, they cannot be compared. At least judging by the results in real life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:41 PM
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Exactly. These standards only count if they’re truly implemented in real life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:38 PM
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YES literally most of the women who think they’re with a HVM are with an NVM or LVM (if they’re lucky.) this isn’t to say we should praise LVM, but that we’re sometimes a little too naive, idealistic, and desperate to be in love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:37 PM
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Yes I’ve seen so many women on this sub really naively jump to the conclusion that a guy is in the clear after he does one nice thing and jump to the conclusion that “he’s a HVM!!!” After reading some of these types of posts I thought that said women would hugely benefit from reading GL’s content. Also, I appreciate that GL is so frank about male nature and doesn’t peddle #notallmen. Ofc when we set the bar too low it benefits men, but when we assume a guy is legit because we’re so desperate to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:32 PM
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THIS MAN CHANGED MY LIFE Honestly, I think he gives the best “game” available on earth. I’d go as far as saying he’s taught me to finesse better than Shera However, while his advice will help you gain the maximum benefit as an individual, it prioritizes your individual interests over that of the female collective - here at FDS we’re more likely to encourage women to not date, as socially ostracizing LVM may change our culture. GL just says to go out and get what you want. He also never points ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:13 PM
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I mean that once you become aware of patriarchal social engineering it is no longer repressed deep into your subconscious so it won’t have as much of a psychological hold on you. It’s only when we can make the unconscious, conscious that we can deprogram ourselves. Manipulation only works if the victim is unaware of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:31 PM
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Agreed - It seems that the misogyny is almost a bait or a means to an end for these guys to become far-right extremists! It goes sooo much deeper than being a pick-up artist. The red pill is far far FAR more political. Their subreddit was started by a senator I’m pretty sure. FDS women straight up need to infiltrate politics if we want to fight this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:36 PM
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Yes exactly. And if you’re a college student they have WAYY more ways they can punish you (suspensions, etc) versus if you just post flyers in a gym bathroom they have to call the police and prove you’re a criminal, which would be much harder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:26 PM
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Yeah I’d also prefer to post in public bathrooms at a gym rather than a college campus. Maybe I’d post at a college campus I don’t actually attend tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:19 PM
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Here—-> The Red Pill handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:17 PM
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Tbh I was an “anti-feminist” (CRINGE) at one point (wasn’t right-wing tho) just because I was critical of liberal feminism and wasn’t aware of radical feminism. Back then, I thought feminism meant being a free prostitute who financially supports male parasites, has their children out of wedlock, pays for her own abortions, stays on birth control despite side effects to give men the free sex they’re entitled to, and lets men try out BDSM moves they learned from porn - “being called a slut is empo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:44 PM
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This is so disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:35 PM
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The Babylonians also engaged in temple prostitution, aka trafficking. Similar pagan religions throughout history have done the same - Greek/Roman temple prostitution for Aphrodite/Venus, even certain sects of Hinduism today include temple prostitution! The weird thing is that all these cultures have different names for the deity, but Christians believe they’re all ultimately worshipping the same entity, which explains why all these different groups of people throughout all these different period…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:28 PM
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Or when they call us damaged goods for not being virgins while they’re so pornsick it literally causes BRAIN DAMAGE. Straight projection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:12 PM
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Want to point out that atheists in general are more likely to be sociopaths, and I’m sure atheist men moreso than atheist women fit this description. It seems you’re an atheist because you actually CARE about this question. However, I’d bet that most male atheists are the opposite - they probably haven’t thought too deeply about the topic or just hold those beliefs in order to feel superior and gratify their egos, like Richard Dawkins (who defended pedos and is generally unoriginal.) Just some f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:44 PM
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I still think their desire for power is still an inherently sexual urge tho, in the same way that sadism is. It’s said that bullies actually gain sexual gratification from others’ pain, even if their bullying isn’t sexual in the slightest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:37 PM
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Lmao are we supposed to be their life coach too? What about mEn’S aGeNcY??¿?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:29 PM
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Guess we’d have to be careful but agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:49 AM
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It’s just a way to evade accountability they’re literally so transparent and predictable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:46 AM
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No I don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:31 AM
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Yes, colorism is absolutely a gateway to red pill crap. Don’t let anyone gaslight you into thinking otherwise. Colorism in itself is a red pill concept and it’s spread in rap music (even tho colorism came first from white people, however it wasn’t only directed towards women - the misogynoir aspect seems newer but correct me if I’m wrong) And yeah it doesn’t change the fact that white men are in the majority, but I guess I meant that if 80% of men in the US are white while 13% of them are black …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:24 AM
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Not that white men haven’t been the main corrupting agents
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:48 AM
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The black manosphere seems to be even more influential in a sense because Id think a higher percentage of men within the black community would be involved in it since they’re overrepresented in the manosphere (even if they’re not the majority)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:47 AM
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Like red pill is more like rollo tomassi and that freak Roosh V who looks like a rodent😂jordan Peterson annoys the living shit out of me but the other two men are way worse. Like WAY worse. Rollo might’ve invented “dread game” or whatever and Roosh is a r*pe apologist. They make Jordan Peterson look like Andrea Dworkin lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:44 AM
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I feel like the red pill is the next level beyond jordan Peterson
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:40 AM
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THIS IS GENIUS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:36 AM
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I’m down to have a poster/infographic to stick in women’s bathrooms. Sometimes if you try too hard to get thru to people on a topic their first instinct is to be dismissive and assume you have a fixation. Posters and things like that seem like a more efficient use of time and energy than going in circles trying to tell friends in person (depends on context tho.) also, people are more likely to be curious if they feel an idea is introduced to them, but they’ll have to kind of chase (maybe via a G…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:32 AM
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kills your entire family That happened in the PAST. Don’t bring up old stuff. Stop keeping score!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:20 AM
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The avg pick-me is a free prostitute straight up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 10:07 PM
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Yeahh I think they’ll just lie and then know to be sneaky
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:56 PM
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Apparently people who don’t like gossipers are narcissistic because they don’t want people to share how they behave with others!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:58 PM
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No, bad looks in men are correlated with lower income levels. Men who are tall and attractive make more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 06:50 PM
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Sometimes it’s because they don’t become financially stable until they’re well into their forties. Doesn’t mean they were focused on their career, just that it took them 10X longer to get their lives in order. Example - just because Jeff Bezos didn’t have as much money when he was younger didn’t mean he didn’t have enough to get married at the time, which he did
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 06:48 PM
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Hm that pokes a gaping hole in the red pill narrative. I thought men who get married late are “alpha”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 06:45 PM
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My awakening in this regard happened YEARS ago. However I was unaware of radical feminism and basically thought the only feminism out there was liberal feminism which advocates for things that hurt women and benefit men, like 50/50 and hookup culture. I already knew men were fake and using women in the vast majority of relationships, but still was unaware of the full scope of male depravity and porn. I’ve just lost all respect for them and am more disgusted with them than ever. I’d already given…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:33 PM
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Check out HG Tudor on YouTube - this guy is a narc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:15 AM
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Russia legalized spousal abuse so everything is on the table. Putin is a sociopathic KGB piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:51 AM
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Which movie?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:45 AM
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Lol even within the Catholic Church during the MIDDLE AGES, the rule was that women/girls couldn’t get married if they were under 14. Keep in mind that life expectancy was way lower during the medieval times vs Thomas Jefferson’s presidency too. What a freak🤮 & 14 is still way too young but the fact the bar was set that low at a point in time and he went beyond it is v appalling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:42 AM
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Lol my last ex said he was scared he’d hurt himself while we’d be long distance over the summer if I went out and didn’t hit him back. He was cheating the ENTIRE time HAHAH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:47 AM
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YES THIS IS SUCH A PROBLEM - the people it hurts most are BW too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:35 AM
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I USED TO WATCH THIS EW EW EW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:59 AM
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AGREED - one of the 48 laws of power is “conceal your intentions”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:52 AM
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Honestly I always come back rejuvenated and 10X stronger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:46 AM
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I want to get this framed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:40 AM
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Yeah lol the artificial womb crap is a mgtow pipe dream and they know it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:38 AM
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PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:34 AM
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Might be a dumb question but how do we post TikToks on here? Tried sharing via link and via video and it didn’t work - also I love her, shared this TikTok w my mom and she said she’s following her on ig lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:34 AM
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I kinda like that she articulated why in order to shame him. When ss like these circulate the scrotes get nervous, no matter how loudly they screech that it’s “not fair” - they know their time is coming to an end
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:41 PM
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Lol u forgot to mention wanking off to porn right after eating the dinner his wife so thoughtfully prepared for him😍makes me sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:36 PM
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Lol yes like Cosmo tips
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:46 AM
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👏👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:46 AM
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Wait fuck I meant to say that the right sees us as private property oops
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:13 AM
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❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:11 AM
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yep, you literally can’t escape them. They’re trash on the left, right, north, south, east, west....just wherever they exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:11 AM
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Yeah no I think it’s destructive but meant it’s enlightening in the sense that it’s “de-programming”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:09 AM
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I find it so ironic that Soros types pretend to be Marxists but are literal capitalists. If bankers fund a revolution, that is not “grassroots,” it’s a bourgeois revolution meant to benefit THEMSELVES😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:07 AM
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Not surprised whatsoever as he’s an egomaniac
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:06 AM
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Yeah that’s creepy af - good on you for trusting your instincts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:04 AM
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Neo-Platonism is also HUGE HUGE HUGE within the occult - quite demonic to say the very least! (Whether you believe in that stuff symbolically or not)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 10:23 PM
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Lol I was wondering if this story was going to end with him being hired - wouldn’t put it past the scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 10:09 PM
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My jaw DROPPED after reading your friend’s reaction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 08:40 AM
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An LVM I dated for a bit and blocked also blocked my Instagram - I had previously been following him well before we started dating, so when I looked him up and couldn’t find his profile, I assumed he deactivated it. It wasn’t until he GHOSTED me that I thought to look him up on my throwaway ig acct - low and behold his profile was there, he just blocked me! I looked him up the day after we matched on Hinge and couldn’t find him, so I understood in hindsight that he blocked my ig from the beginni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:20 AM
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This is also why fake male feminists stress wOmEn’S aGeNcY....in order to deny their own!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:47 PM
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Honestly I hate it when guys try to groom their pubes because even if they only trim it, it’s still prickly af. Idk who they think they’re gonna impress w that cactus shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:07 PM
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Literally we could be radfem detectives and spies👀👀👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:35 PM
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YES YES AND YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:34 PM
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And Marx was a deadbeat dad lol. It’s so hopeless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:12 PM
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Agreed! I’ve noticed that tiktok seems to be marketed more towards women or is simply more appealing to us. Makes sense to focus on that platform for that reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:19 PM
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And the men who deny this don’t understand how economic markets operate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:03 PM
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And his open borders activism mainly prioritizes male migrants. I’d prefer to prioritize supporting women who’d like to escape male violence. Recently, a woman from Ethiopia who migrated to Europe was raped and hammered to death by a male migrant. She was an iconic, hardworking woman who probably had to go to hell and back to escape her situation, only to be faced with this horrific fate. My question is: where do we draw the line? If background checks were stricter she would’ve been let in while…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:59 PM
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Start here ->Nordic Model Now Full decriminalization is the policy that results in MORE women being trafficked. Banning it altogether is more beneficial to women, however, decriminalizing prostitutes while keeping johns and pimps criminalized, the Nordic Model, is by far the best policy to limit trafficking as it addresses the root cause: male demand for prostitutes. The reason women are even kidnapped and trafficked in the first place is because the male demand for prostitutes will always outwe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:49 PM
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Also the topic of social engineering, especially within a feminist context, is very fascinating and enlightening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:31 PM
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Agreed, although I do believe many of these people are just so rich that it can’t be only money they’re after - a lot of times it’s power. And that doesn’t require the presence of any shady cabals or secret societies, only human (male..) nature
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:30 PM
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SO TRUE!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:09 PM
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Yeah but most of us have seen plenty of bent penises and 99% of them probably weren’t due to an “accident”....unless scrotes have been claiming they “accidentally” watch porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:08 PM
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They’re projecting 24/7. It’s like breathing to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:04 PM
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That would require a level of competence they’re incapable of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:02 PM
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This news will open up a whole can of worms if every woman knew what Peyronie’s Disease is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:01 PM
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Pornsick, bent dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:00 PM
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How do we know the difference between Peyronie’s Disease and a naturally curved penis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:51 PM
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Law 14: Pose as a friend, work as a spy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:43 AM
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Good for you - I as a white woman used to date black men before realizing that they probably were only into me due to the color of my skin and were in fact using that as an excuse to mistreat black women. Some white pick mes get off on being “chosen” by black men for this reason, which is disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:39 PM
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I don’t think that book will teach you much about the exploitation of black women - even acknowledging this reality is considered very politically incorrect, so it’s not allowed to be mentioned in mainstream rhetoric
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:36 PM
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Honestly, while the “I’m not sure it’s my place to say this” sentiment is well-intentioned, we as non-black women are complicit in the exploitation of black women when we don’t have the courage to call it out. We shouldn’t have to feel guilty for telling the truth: black women deserve better. Giving in to the culture of silence prevents black women from sharing their lived experiences and contributes to their systemic discrimination, abuse, and dehumanization. I am very vocal about this issue be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:31 PM
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The only reason I even know what the word “mammy” means is from listening in on BW divestors. I’ve never heard a white person use that word. Not once. Seems like this is more about silencing BW and smearing the divestment movement than genuine anti-racism. It’s very difficult to find the language to describe ones own lived experience being exploited as a marginalized demographic, as any linguist will attest to. Weaponizing language in this way is meant to silence the oppressed in order to benefi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 07:43 PM
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Can’t wait to see this post too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 07:33 PM
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YES - refusing to hold BM accountable hurts BW the most! White people who enable this call themselves “anti-racist” when really they’re just further enabling the exploitation of black people (BW & girls specifically) as if they haven’t been doing that enough!! This is also why cultural relativism is messed up - femicide, abuse, and misogyny are not “morally relative” issues, wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 07:33 PM
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I’m a white woman and follow the divestment movement as a supporter. I know it must feel like no one sees this stuff except for you guys, and while that’s mostly true, more and more outsiders are beginning to wake up to the injustice you guys have been forced to endure. And many of us are LIVID at the injustice. If you guys have any suggestions as to what I can do as a white women to help advance the divestment movement and the interests of black women, feel free to share. I’ve tried to spread t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 07:27 PM
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Also, if he seems to mirror all of your interests, that can be a rlly bad sign. Sociopaths, not narcs, but full-on sociopaths will try to decipher your interests via social media and other intel so they can mirror you. So if he seems to know things about you that you didn’t tell him, that’s an enormous red flag bc even run-of-the-mill narcs will use lovebombing but mirroring is next-level manipulation. Lovebombing paired with mirroring is the #1 thing to look out for - lovefraud will attest to t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:18 PM
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Good job on your cautious mentality and not being so eager to believe men. Whether he’s a love bomber or not, this attitude will serve you well. At this point, think of it more as objective intel gathering, and don’t be quick to jump to any conclusions - positive or negative - because at the end of the day it’ll cloud your vision which is never helpful. Of course run at legit red flags, tho. I used to browse this site called lovefraud for people who were scammed by sociopaths. They were all love…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:07 PM
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Their lives have no purpose it’s so sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:45 PM
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Cause he’s a power-hungry narcissist with a God-complex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:39 PM
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Exactly! Apparently the new NY laws implement some Nordic Model style policies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:38 PM
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YES! So glad I’m not the only one who noticed that mothers are really really devalued in our culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:33 PM
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The most pretentious people are men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:37 AM
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Do u guys have any creative ideas as to how we can raise awareness? FDS as it is is great, but I’m wondering what else we can do - even if it’s just creative ways to promote FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 12:57 AM
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Literal womb envy! Andrea Dworkin was right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 12:55 AM
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Yes, I think positive reinforcement is the missing piece of the puzzle. We shouldn’t praise men for doing the bare minimum nor be fooled by male “feminist” panderers, but if we want to change male behavior we can’t afford to overlook operant conditioning. Also, the more women level up, the less toxic masculinity/manipulative behavior will be incentivized in men, bc it’ll no longer work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 12:52 AM
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These manosphere idiots have no idea how many women, similar to me, have been lurking their subs since HIGH SCHOOL and flipping all the info to benefit ourselves and use against them. Little do they know many of us have been studying them right before the prime of our lives, so we make sure to get THE most out of every single drop of our youth. Little do they know they’ve lit a FIRE within many of us before the prime of our careers, motivating us to gain money and power by any means necessary to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:06 PM
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Lol and don’t they realize that plenty of us are MORE THAN WILLING TO PAY to spread FDS’s influence throughout the global female collective? Maybe we pay because we believe in the message and care??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:49 PM
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My mom definitely agrees with this - all the men have been divorced or never married aka a woman got rid of them or never picked them in the first place so something is wrong w them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:39 PM
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Apparently the Rockefeller Institute was huge on co-opting the feminist movement to double the workforce and halve the price of labor. They facilitated the exploitation of women for labor and called it “feminism”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:52 PM
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I think marrying for money is the bare minimum. But ON TOP OF IT, you must vet for character as well. Neither are enough on their own, and it’s not because a man of good character on its own isn’t enough - it’s just that most of the time, the woman THINKS her husband has good character, while this reality exists only in her imagination and not in reality. If the guy has money, it’s a type of insurance in case he turns out to be a POS. If you get with a guy based on his PERCEIVED character ALONE,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:21 PM
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It may have something to do with the fact that men who make 30% less than their wives are more likely to physically abuse her! I’m not sure why people are so invested in hiding this established fact from women - wonder who that benefits?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:15 PM
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No worries at all and I’m glad you gave that warning! It’s definitely a very context-dependent type of thing. Maybe a good rule of thumb is that 20% of the offers have potential while 80% are trash, just like the male population lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:11 PM
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I also feel like “communicating” advice always goes hand in hand with recommendations to suppress your gut instinct. Like nope, byeee👋👋👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:04 PM
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Once I found out the truth about porn, I lost all respect for men. You’ll never again be able to look at them in the same way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:00 PM
13

Even men with supposedly high IQs aren’t very articulate or well-spoken
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:55 PM
7

I also have a pick-me friend I recently dropped. My mom and I were staying in a hotel but I had made plans with the friend before I knew this would be the case. Got another room for the two of us and she stopped responding like an hour before she was supposed to come. Got her bday gift via next-day shipping and let her stay at mine when we went out. A couple weeks later I needed to do this survey thing for a job I was interviewing for (luckily got a diff job cause if they have u do work beforeha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:45 PM
47

My new rule of thumb after going thru something similar is that if u need to ask if you should make backup plans, definitely make backup plans anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:29 PM
5

Honestly this may be why I’ve always avoided therapy. Now that I’m aware of trauma-informed therapists I’ll reconsider, but I always got the vibe that they’d be full of it and make my issues even worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:13 PM
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Lol my toxic ex friend told the (very wealthy) man who approached me to “wear a condom cause she gets around” despite the fact she got an abortion after forgetting to remove a tampon and having it shoved up her IUD during sex(💀) and a couple months after the fact she got abortion #2 and chlamydia. She could easily take birth control pills but is literally too much of a hot mess to remember to take them. I found it really infuriating bc I never would’ve dreamed of “slut-shaming” her for her stuff…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:47 PM
5

This sounds exactly like a pick-me I just dropped - good riddens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:37 PM
10

👏👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:13 AM
4

💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:10 AM
3

She just doesn’t know what radical feminism is so she thinks liberal feminism represents all feminism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:51 AM
5

I’d be down for a less expensive engagement ring if the honeymoon is at the Four Seasons Bora Bora😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:39 AM
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Also, not trying to discount the value of your post. Male-centricity permeates almost every level of society, and we as women owe it to ourselves to re-program our minds and realize we literally don’t need men and are complete, esp on an emotional level, on our own. Feeling like we depend on male-validation is absolutely harmful to women in every possible way, and we need to fight against this conditioning to stop being pick-mes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:10 AM
4

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with seeking a partner! However most of us do this for validation, which isn’t good for us. I do think there’s a difference between being opportunistic and being a pick-me, though. Confident people in general go out and almost take what they want in life (not condoning LVM who do this in a predatory way towards women) while us women are conditioned to “wait to get picked” and “wait your turn.” In nature, female are the ones who get to choose which genes live …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:02 AM
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Great points!! Sometimes we can be tricked via socialization that claims to be “rooted in biology” so I see what you mean. People do really underestimate the effects of gendered socialization and how far it can deviate from biology. For example, Chinese foot binding is an example of “gendering” and is an entirely fabricated social construct. But at the same time, who created the social construct? Men. Why did men create this social construct that hurts women rather than the other way around? Unf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:47 AM
2

Gotcha - I’m sure there are scams out there, but I got my first job out of college via Monster. If I didn’t have that experience on my resume, I never would’ve gotten my new dream job at an extremely prestigious bank. However you’re totally justified in warning about scams via the app - it can be lowkey sketchy like Craigslist. I also get those emails and ignore them, but I’m sure those of us who are more impressionable or simply less privileged and more desperate (through no fault of their own)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:37 AM
2

I’m proud to admit that even well before I found FDS, I knew his advice was bs (though I thought he was just clueless). However now that I’m FDS, I know that MEN KNOW WHAT THEY’RE DOING and this only proved it further
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:44 PM
1

I literally thought he was just a naive and clueless guy giving politically correct libfem advice, but no, he’s actually a sociopathic red pill scammer...unreal. He makes Derrick Jaxn look like an angel!! Unfortunately, it goes to show that many men who seem genuinely good on the outside can actually be the worst of them all - the “nice guy” trope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:38 PM
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“Screaming into the void with their impotent rage.” 😭😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:48 PM
2

And ironically, boys are more affected by “daddy issues” than girls! They’re projecting, as usual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:02 PM
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He’s mental
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 10:57 AM
3

SETTING STANDARDS IS ONLY A MEANS TO AN END WHEN IT COMES TO BASICALLY ALL NON-FDS ADVICE FOR WOMEN......WOW🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:46 AM
1

Even if it is the 2nd option it doesn’t mean we need to submit to their oppression. Nor does it mean men are biologically superior. All it would mean is that the root cause of the issue is biological, not social. The first option definitely seems like a less hateful attitude, but if we want to solve a problem we must address the TRUE root cause, not the cause we want it to be :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:42 AM
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Having a gay sexual/romantic orientation and engaging in sex with other men are lowkey different. Apparently sociopaths are like this bc they have no identity and therefore their sexuality is more fluid. So, they won’t really identify as LGBTQ+ outwardly and probably present as/seem/identify as straight - they’ll just sleep w anything that moves pretty much. In no way meant to be homophobic btw - just pointing out that narcs/sociopaths can’t love, so it makes sense that they don’t rlly have a so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:37 AM
15

I also highly recommend Monster! You can set it so your resume is shared with employers and they can email you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:27 AM
1

Not sure if people were questioning the validity of the entire concept of vaccination! Just because we take into account the fact that modern medicine prioritizes men’s needs over women’s doesn’t mean we’re rabid, irrational anti-vaxxers. There is nothing wrong with women seeking out information before putting something into our bodies - it’s called informed consent. We shouldn’t be shamed and gaslit for considering these things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:19 PM
1

Lmao “consent=eugenics” ~scrote logic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:09 PM
2

And I feel that the culture within big tech (and STEM overall) is generally pornsick as those scrotes have like a million gigabytes of porn on their computers and have no social lives. And ofc without the internet, porn addiction wouldn’t be as huge of an issue. I also feel we as women really underestimate nerd misogyny since we have so much pity for nerds. Unfortunately, we underestimate them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:02 PM
3

I’m seriously considering creating some type of private non-for-profit security/law enforcement agency to defend women. And more of us need to infiltrate the legal system. Most judges are male
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:54 PM
34

My abusive ex NVM parasite literally worshipped future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:48 PM
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Wtf 🤮🤮🤮anyone have the attacker’s name?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:07 PM
11

As someone who started reading Teen Vogue at the age of 11, I can attest to this. We need alternatives to these sEx PoSiTivITy magazines - so far all we have is Evie for pick-mes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:28 PM
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Lol they say it’s us women who “love being degraded” when it’s literally men who have CUCKOLD FETISHES LIKE WUT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:26 PM
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I often fantasize about creating a vigilante private police force/security/intelligence agency for women. Could include investigative and detective work along with logging reports of women’s claims so they can spread to other women. Could just label it all “allegedly” to avoid defamation lawsuits lol - I’m sure that wouldn’t stop the scrotes tho And it could include a non-for-profit sect meant exclusively or especially for WOC Also, found some interesting takes on vigilantism regarding sexual vi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:57 PM
2

Well if he wasn’t paying every single one of your bills then he was just a ‘roommate’ too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:18 PM
1

Check out this service called deleteme!! It’s paid, but it’s the best service out there in terms of wiping your personal info off of the internet. It’s a subscription service, because more and more background check sites will keep popping up and your personal info can unfortunately resurface even if everything was deleted at one point....but it got me thinking that this service could be a great way to protect women from male violence. Planning on buying my subscription once my bank transfer goes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 11:34 PM
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I feel like the main takeaway from the 2-year rule is that you shouldn’t remain in a relationship longer than two years with a man who doesn’t PROPOSE (or at least makes his intention to propose very clear.) This rule doesn’t necessitate that we must ACCEPT this proposal. On top of it, a regular bf/gf relationship with a man who WOULD propose after 2 years will probably be happier and healthier than with a guy who’d keep dragging it along, even if you don’t even intend to get married. I see it m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:50 PM
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