"Choke me like you hate me"

Shot_Sir7902 · 2021-06-07T15:33:51+00:00

I feel like it’s damn impossible to find a man who isn’t into choking or being “daddy dom” yawn.

I met someone who was telling me all about how kinky and dominate he is. I yawned and said that’s like the “basic girl” stereotype. He looked shook.

Then I asked him if the woman gets to slap him in the face and choke him first.

They’re disgusting

starfighter07 · 2021-06-07T15:23:09+00:00

I agree and I especially worry for younger generations that seem to think it's a perfectly normal sex behaviour. I generalize here of course but I see so many tik toks of teens praising BDSM (and even hardcore BDSM). A lot of them seem worried about being "boring in bed". Hey, sex is not a circus, you do not have to perform or entertain anyone here. It's about sharing an intimate and vulnerable moment with someone you trust.

Moreover, i think it goes along with the "virgin shaming" that have been going on for a while. I see so many posts of teens (boys and girls) being lile "omg i've never kissed at 13, omg i've never had sex at 16". Ugh. It's perfectly normal, the vast majority of people don't too, despite what you see on social media.

Entire_Affect_8350 · 2021-06-07T16:33:08+00:00

Also why is female domination not more prevalent? I want to see more women whooping ass if BDSM is going to become mainstream.

If everyone's claiming to be so kinky, can we at least be a bit adventurous instead of devolving to the usual "let's martyrise a girl" to get off?

They think it's boring to have vanilla intimate sex when they're the boring drones that follow mainstream trends like sheep.

engineergorl · 2021-06-07T16:14:40+00:00

All this is doing is giving men who strangle their girlfriends to death during sex a pass. “I didn’t know what I was doing!” “I didn’t think pressing that hard would hurt her!” “She wanted me to choke her!” Wait for all these excuses to be rolled out in court. Absolute clowns, both the men and the pickmes.

thatjimmylove · 2021-06-07T15:48:30+00:00

Young women who have not even had sex confuse their "desire" for it with the misogyny that I mean LITERALLY is being shoved down our throats.

The grooming is so obvious, They'll move past their kinkmeisha stage hopefully. After they realize the reality of such sex and how most sex is not fulfilling in the way you think it is.

CatherineWinkworth · 2021-06-07T22:12:51+00:00

Even before I learned about FDS, I realized that porn was causing dudes to try to choke me like without even asking first!!? This never happened when I was in my early 20s and in my mid to late 30s more than one guy just went for it without the decency to even talk about it first? Hard pass. That was when I realized that porn is ruining men and that I'd never date a guy who was really into porn again.

AriaLuz · 2021-06-07T15:08:26+00:00

That phrase came from a rapper named Corpse called Egirls are ruining my life. He’s a great rapper and a great person overall but that phrase has become so popular it does worry me for the young and impressionable men and women.

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Title	"Choke me like you hate me"
Author	bluebird_wings
Upvotes	0
Comments	27
Date	June 6, 2021 10:38 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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