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Yeah apologies for not massively compiling sources at work
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 12:42 AM
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Yes. I never said cocaine isn't "addictive". It is. I can attest to how good it feels and how hard it is to say no to a line. But at the end of the day, you don't go through gigantic withdrawals. You don't throw up and feel physically sick when you don't get your bump. You might feel a bit down for a few days, but hey we've all been hungover before. Fact is, in moderation, it's truly not the product of the devil. The issue is most people can't control their urges, and it's pretty easy to slip. I…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 12:42 AM
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Again, technically, what you're describing is a psychological addiction and not a physical one. I'm sorry for what you're going through, but you're an outlier. The fact is, there are millions of stories almost exactly the same as yours but with alcohol. With prescription meds. With ecstasy. With acid. It's not entirely the drug
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 12:35 AM
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It's not just reddit, it's society in general. There's a massive stigma against drugs when really they're not that bad. We're seeing outlier cases like this one and we get emotional when there's a vast majority that can do it fine. Are we really gonna go on a crusade against something to protect a select few people? That's what it seems like
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 12:35 AM
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It's like using a cheat in a game. You're artificially improving, without doing the work. It's just a bit of fun. You don't play video games for anything other than to kill a few hours. If you're out and about and have a line or 2, nothing wrong with that in moderation. If anyone takes coke to "improve" themselves, that's an entirely seperate issue. You're right that it shouldn't be a crutch though. But I digress, others want to be on the ball 24/7. I'm happy pissfarting around and making a fool…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 12:30 AM
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Same can be said about alcohol
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 12:24 AM
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A quick google suggests that it's not "physically addictive" per se. Whilst a "physical addiction" can occur, I'm under the assumption that it's not exactly the same as a "physical dependence". This is because there aren't any physical withdrawal symptoms For my own reading, could I have a source? I've dabbled with drugs and researched things extensively before trying them. My research pointed towards a massive psychological addiction (which I can attest to) but nothing on the physical side (apa…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 04:45 AM
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Why? Am I missing something? I can easily do some coke then not do it for months, never getting uncontrollable urges. Since it's not physically addicting, it's pretty easy to get control over
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 02:59 AM
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Trust me man being in a relationship is not all that it's cranked up to be.
/r/seduction28/01/17 01:18 AM
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always refreshing to read stuff about saving a sinking ship rather than abandoning it all together like everyone suggests.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 12:49 PM
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Just because you didnt like college and they did doesnt make you better than them. Yep. Sour grapes isn't a great attitude to have, especially for something that's completely out of your control.
/r/seduction27/01/17 04:22 AM
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lmao. drugs are fine if you can handle them. People spread so much misinformation about them it's ridiculous
/r/seduction26/12/16 12:24 PM
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yep, but "reprogrammed" people need a place too. It can't be solely filled with incredibly angry people
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 01:58 AM
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Ask her out on a date? When you see her at work, say something like "I really wanna get to know you a bit better, lets do X at Y" This is why it becomes more difficult the longer you leave it. All of a sudden, after however many months of working with her; you finally show interest. She's either gonna think "finally!" or "wdf". The only positive I can think of is that no matter what you do, it'll be polarising. This means she'll either accept your date proposal, or outright reject you. If she re…
/r/seduction02/03/16 07:34 AM
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Don't shit where you eat should be enough of a reason not to pursue her. A girl is not worth losing your job over or making it difficult to work. To quote Models by Mark Manson: Girls have 3 stages: non receptive, neutral and receptive. Most girls will be neutral when you first meet them, some non receptive and others receptive. Your goal is to make a girl receptive. The longer a girl stays neutral, the more she leans towards non receptive. It's up to you to make her receptive. Judging from your…
/r/seduction02/03/16 07:02 AM
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Had a friend who had obviously just started reading TRP. We were at a party, and me and another mate who is a 'natural alpha' was sitting down just chatting at a table where a fair few people were. 'Wannabe Alpha' comes up to him (we've been acquaintances for a few years) and simply says "move". He wanted to sit inbetween us. To be fair, the table was full and we could have moved to make room, however his tone and his laughable attempt at being a 'hard ass' made us not move. He thought, being di…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 03:22 AM
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But is that not the point of a hobby? To gain next to nothing? My issue with hyper competitive games is the time sink. Sure, if you're not that good and play a few games of DotA here or there, there's no harm. However, for me I strive to be the best, and I got sucked into analysing replays and all that shit. Sure it worked, I got a very very high rating; but at what cost? I was spending hours a day 'training' for nothing. I highly doubt I would make a pro team, and the money from amateur level g…
/r/askTRP10/12/15 12:45 AM
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Agreed. I feel like monk mode is reserved for 26 year olds + who still haven't landed a part time job.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 12:04 PM
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Give a shit about high school/university. I was lucky and got into my course without trying at all, but now my GPA is ruined thanks to my first year fucking around. Still got into masters but that's a different story. Lift and take it seriously. Diet properly and take it seriously. Understand how you learn and understand how you think. Be happy in your own skin. Get a job. A lot easier to get into part time work as a kid rather than an adult, and once you have that exp you can walk into most par…
/r/askTRP08/12/15 12:03 PM
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For me it's not about trustworthiness, it's about attitude. Sure, you might be totally fine and OP was being far too broad, but from my personal experience I've found people who don't partake in the same substances you do as incredibly judgemental. They might not say it or act on it, but the "holier than thou" attitude is there for most people. Also, most of the time they're simply grossly misinformed. The body is a temple, sure, but it's also an incredibly resistant one. I don't care when peopl…
/r/askTRP28/07/15 03:45 AM
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Agree 100%. What are your thoughts on Nizoral shampoo?
/r/askTRP13/07/15 05:07 PM
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I'd prefer my sister not to know if she says no But if she says yes and fucks you she will tell your sister. Been there done that and no matter what your sister will find out. my parents will find out I turned her friendly visit into a fuck invite, which I don't want to deal with Well this is a different ball game. If your parents won't be cool with this, then you probably shouldn't piss them off just to get some pussy either way. Anyway, what I would do is in the evening take her out somewhere.…
/r/seduction13/07/15 03:14 PM
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"In case you have trouble sleeping, my door will be open all night" Woeful. If you're on this site and asking advice there is no way you are smooth enough to pull this off. I'd be shocked if Ronaldo could pull this off with his sisters friends. Approach her like you would any other girl. Chat her up, say you wanna show her something in your room or whatever and bang her. If she rejects you and tells your sister, so what? Right now, you're afraid of rejection and unfortunately even if you play it…
/r/seduction13/07/15 03:02 PM
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I take finasteride and Rogaine. Has done good things for my hair. Sexual side effects (these are incredibly low chance to begin with) go away when you stop using it, unless you're super, super unlucky. Would recommend using them if you can afford them. Otherwise, just own the fact that you're bald.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 02:49 PM
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Absolutely, but for some people before they can go out and surround themselves with women, they need to know some basics they can refer to in order to feel comfortable. Only a select few people can feel comfortable doing things for the first time with no guidance whatsoever. But you're right - you can't just read about shit and then suddenly be good at it. It just gives people the tools to be able to start out.
/r/seduction04/07/15 04:25 AM
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Yeah, but some people have literally no idea how to begin a conversation, and these "guides" or "cheat sheets" help them calm some of the nerves and give them some structure. Then it can become second nature.
/r/seduction03/07/15 09:17 AM
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Exactly. We have no purpose on this planet. 50-80 years after you die, no one will be alive who remembers you. Might as well be happy. Then you have the ones who are remembered. They gave themselves a purpose and succeeded. So, give yourself a purpose and succeed, or be happy. Nothing will be handed to you.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 07:36 AM
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How do you even compete with that? Here I was for some god knows reason thinking there was something happening, when in the scheme of things I was one of many, entertaining the same, dull, mediocre girl. You be better than the other options.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 09:21 AM
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We're constantly seeing examples of people who are denied their rights.
/r/seduction13/05/15 05:56 AM
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To get good at any hobby, you have to put in time and effort. Sure it's fun, I never said it wasn't - but you've still gotta put in the hard yards. My post was poorly written, I didn't mean "gaming her for a chance to sleep with her". That sentence was meant to imply her attraction to you. It is relatively hard work keeping a girl attracted to you - and you need to make sacrifices. Time, money and effort are all required, and therefore is a lot of work. (Obviously not all girls are the same, som…
/r/seduction13/05/15 05:50 AM
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;)
/r/seduction13/05/15 05:31 AM
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and needed company/validation Most likely. Still doesn't mean you can't bang her. Personally, I think you played it wrong. It's all well and good to be all "alpha" and be aggressive in wanting her, but if its not reciprocated it puts her in a massive position of power. Maybe your escalation needs work. Having said that, you've gotta ask yourself a question - is it worth spending hours escalating and validating her just to bang her? Or would you rather spend that time doing something more fun or …
/r/askTRP28/04/15 09:35 AM
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Not sure if you're taking the piss, but simple things such as dressing better, smelling nice and having a good haircut are all things which make you more attractive and can be done fairly easily with little effort. Not just talking about genetics.
/r/seduction23/04/15 05:34 AM
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Yeah. Wanking is pretty bad when it comes to girls tbh. You think it's normal, which I guess it is, but only because most guys don't get laid ages 13-25. It got so bad with me that I was into some depraved shit, that when I got with a girl who was attractive, it didn't feel good or it became a chore. Don Jon the movie pretty much summed up what sex had become for me, except I wasn't slaying every night. I'm at that stage now where I've improved myself enough that finding a lay isn't too hard, bu…
/r/seduction23/04/15 05:11 AM
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Be attractive. If a girl you're not attracted to flirts with you, it's seen as a compliment at best. Same applies in the inverse. Don't give a fuck. Say what's on your mind, talk about whatever and smile. Being confident is key. Having said that, know limits. Then again, if a girl is gonna get offended/upset at something you say and mean, is she worth the time?
/r/seduction23/04/15 04:13 AM
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Be attractive. It's flattering when a sexy guy wants a girl, but creepy when an ugly one does.
/r/seduction23/04/15 04:00 AM
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At the end of the day when we're not arguing technicalities, it's immoral and dishonest. Essentially she wants to try new cock, but she's telling her bf another thing trying to keep him there. She's not saying "I want to meet other people" she's saying "It's not working out so far, let's have some time apart" which insinuates that there's a chance they'll get back together, and no mention of other guys or other people whatsoever. If they say "we should see other people" then its fair game. If sh…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 05:39 AM
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I've been down this road before. However, I made the mistake of feeling pretty bad and inviting her out with my friends. This was bad, because then she got super keen, and kept pestering to see me, and I had to reject her fairly openly. Safe to say it was over completely from there. Girls like sex too. You gave it to her. She isn't owed anything and neither are you. If you want to keep fucking her, do it. If you don't; don't. It's really that simple and it doesn't make you a bad person no matter…
/r/seduction31/03/15 04:53 PM
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Most people are pretty honest individuals here
/r/seduction31/03/15 04:00 PM
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Difference between us and animals is that we can fight in many, many different ways. We can be bigger, stronger, we can have more money, more power, better looks or just plainly have better game. A bear can only be bigger than another bear.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 06:29 AM
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If you keep on starting a conversation with her, she's just not that into you. Girls who want to talk to you, will. you are always the one to end the previous interaction that had a good reply pattern? Good, but doesn't mean shit in the scheme of things. She still sees you as a friend if you're the one texting her first. It sounds like you're asking if you can end up sleeping with someone purely majorly from texting. That answer is a flat no.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 07:50 AM
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My full time job is programming which I always dread bringing up when women ask because it's basically repellent Lmao. No it's not. You just struggle to make it sound interesting or exciting. I once pulled a girl by telling her about my World of Warcraft account that I sold for $500. I fucking lost the genetics lottery pretty much Probably. But so have 80% of guys technically. Looks make a girl want to fuck you, how you act makes a girl want to be with you. Girls that want to be with you, will f…
/r/askTRP14/03/15 03:57 AM
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Some success online, yet to bring a chick home from a bar/club/party/anybody I've met first. Club/bar game is highly reliant on aesthetics. I love clubbing, but I never go out to pull there. Partly because I also love MDMA, but mostly because I'm not the top 10% of guys there. Befriend the top 10% of guys, and your chances will improve. You're probably not gonna slay the 9/10 girl, but her friend who knows about you will wanna meet you. I've got a much better looking body but I can't change my h…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 06:38 AM
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Yeah thought the 3rd one was a tad off. Glad that one was sorted!
/r/seduction05/03/15 02:41 AM
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Could be any number of things. "I like him but don't want to seem to keen" "I'm scared he's just gonna use me just for sex, we already made out the first date" Sometimes shit just doesn't work out for whatever reason. Maybe she dropped her phone in the toilet that very moment whilst texting you after taking a dump. Or maybe she's just not that into you despite doing things mostly right. but for now, I'm just going to let the chips fall where they may Yep. All you can do really, from what I can t…
/r/seduction05/03/15 02:40 AM
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I'm gonna go ahead and assume you texted for more than an hour. She probably got sick of it, and you probably showed neediness. Texting should be used sparingly. You need to leave them wanting more, but she got all the attention and validation from your texts. Or I could be completely wrong, and she could've just thought to herself that she'll deal with it in the morning. not a big deal to text rather than call I wouldn't have even called. I would've said something like "was nice seeing you!" an…
/r/seduction04/03/15 12:52 PM
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Maybe she doesn't like smokers, or her friend was into you. I find when people say "wow my friend is soo into you" they're tryna turn you off them. The text was pretty meh as well. Sounds like she legitimately forgot, or is a total bitch and only wanted your attention. Perhaps with the facebook interactions you appeared too needy and responsive and she got bored. I find girls that approach are generally attention seekers. Girls sometimes may just want a root as well. I have a feeling she thought…
/r/seduction04/03/15 05:12 AM
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And generating discussion is explicitly what I just did here, by making a statement. Yes you did, hence why there are no downvotes. But your initial comment just said "don't text" rather than give reasons why you shouldn't. "Read beyond the writing" It's kind of pointless to downvote something because you don't like it or disagree with it. Of course. Most people don't downvote when disagreeing. Others do, but they're doing it wrong. A lot of people seem to come to r/seduction for advice and then…
/r/seduction02/03/15 04:23 PM
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Absolutely. But sending little pings of humour or "value" can help build attraction in the long run. Sending something she'll find funny and having a small exchange over it can't hurt you - provided you see her in person as well.
/r/seduction02/03/15 04:11 PM
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Absolutely. I didn't like the article either. Very cringey openers and shocking "emoticon list". Some good basic tips but nothing groundbreaking and nothing which hasn't been posted before. But that's beside the point - your initial post was like going into a discussion about improving your soccer game and saying "don't play soccer". For the record I agree with you mostly. Texting is a losing battle, especially with someone you haven't built much rapport with. It does have its place though. I wa…
/r/seduction02/03/15 04:03 PM
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Because the article was about texting girls, and he's adding nothing to that particular discussion. Sure, it may be a valid or effective strategy; but it's completely irrelevant. People in here are learning how to text
/r/seduction02/03/15 05:56 AM
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Don't text just "hey whats up". You don't want to have those conversations over texts. Text her things she'll find funny/interesting, give her little "pings" of humour. Don't expect a response. If she responds, try and steer it to a meet up. Have conversations in person. If she doesn't respond, she's not interested so you shouldn't be either.
/r/seduction22/02/15 06:38 PM
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Look at things like SnapChat. They don't initially have any ads etc. They grow their base then start offering ads/premium services (snapchats "discovery" probably costs companies a fortune to feature due to its reach) As /u/Mustaka said, investors are froffing over it purely due to popularity and eventually they'll add features which you/other companies pay for to make a profit. Patience
/r/askTRP03/02/15 03:02 PM
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Do you guys have any experience with this. Yep. And it's shit. To be fair, she's just not that into you. Personally, I would break it off with her because speaking from experience it's gonna end sooner rather than later.
/r/seduction03/02/15 05:48 AM
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I think the RP as a general rule of thumb is a good guide. If you were told to deal with the most average person ever, following the red pill will net you results. Having said that, everyone's different. You can't read it and listen to it literally. It's not step by step instructions. It's just something you read which opens your eyes to how the world really works. Tips? Finish your degree, make lots of friends and contacts, go to the gym, eat properly, dress properly and you'll succeed.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 05:27 AM
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but I hate the fact that women have it easy i feel like i am/was being used Yeah, totally normal to get mad at it. But the RP way is to acknowledge that unfortunately that's the way people are. You can't change it you just learn to deal with it. A strong man is in control of his emotions, and doesn't let them affect his actions. I am young and i feel like i am missing out on the fun ...i want a pussy carousal etc Another RP truth is to understand that only the top 10-20% of males slay pussy on t…
/r/askTRP01/02/15 11:08 PM
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The thing with the RP is that though it's true, it's greatly exaggerated. This is due to echoing on the subreddit and community. Not all women will fuck you over. Not all women will cheat. But the main thing that RP teaches is to be confident in yourself and be a man in a world which is increasingly keeping you down. If you want to serenade a girl with songs and write her poems, do it. Random internet people shouldn't change your mind (having said that, you should listen and learn to people who …
/r/askTRP01/02/15 08:47 PM
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I think AWALT is misinterpreted in a lot of ways. It's not "All Women Are The Same" it's "All Women Are Like That". It means they're similar and have similar goals, but they're not looking for the exact same thing. A dog is like a cat in many ways, but they're not the same thing. I get the feeling that the type of chicks the majority of TRP guys go for are AWALT simply because those are the types that make good plates. Pretty much.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 08:17 AM
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The thought of her being with other people almost brings me to tears. This is pretty much the reason why no contact is the best course of action. You shouldn't care about this or her anymore. Keeping her around will just open wounds, and why should you? Tell you what. Go no contact for 4 months. Then if you even feel like texting her, do it. Gives you enough time to realise if she was worth it or not, or if your emotions are just playing a part in it. We've even talked about seeing each other ag…
/r/askTRP30/01/15 08:04 PM
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Breaking up sucks. There's no two ways about it. When you invest in something and you lose it, it's always gonna be shit no matter what it is. RP teaches you to treat women as secondary to your life. Essentially, they are along for your ride, not the sole purpose of it. This makes coping with losing them far easier. The "first everything" thing is a load of shit. You're gonna feel crappy when you lose someone decent no matter what. Even if she was a total cunt and you realise it, if you liked he…
/r/askTRP30/01/15 06:31 PM
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Look, The reason you're posting this is because you're worried. In your mind you're thinking "shit, did I take it too far?". The only thing you can do in this situation pretty much ever is soft next. Don't message, don't initiate contact and focus on other girls. If she leaves, so be it. The whole idea is not to care about 1 girl, let alone a plate. Also, if you're only seeing her and only her she's not really a plate.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 09:14 AM
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I know the feels. It pretty much is oneitis. When I was properly single, I never had feelings of loneliness. Then I got in a LTR. After it ended, I had those lonely feels. Best thing you can do is get some hobbies. Or build a LTR. Spinning plates is all well and good - but sometimes building meaningful relationships with people is better. Don't neglect that just to "be alpha" - it's ok to be a bit beta.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 04:12 AM
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You'd consider being friends with an ex that left you? Well I dunno the story, but sometimes different social groups come together and tbh it's good to not have enemies. Good terms is probably a better way to phrase it. Plus, it gives you access to their social circle. I think the point of this talk is going to be about the break up. Talk about it a bit if she keeps pushing, but treat it as a first date. If you want to fuck her, reopening old wounds isn't the way to go about it.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 11:13 AM
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Depends what you want. Friends? Go on the coffee and just play it out. Plate? Escalate a bit physically and gauge her reaction. Not too much to scare her though. Want nothing to do with her? Ignore her. Don't abuse her. Don't talk about your relationship problems or why you broke up etc, just act as if that never happened.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 11:04 AM
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Sports people/movie stars/models are the 0.01%. Yeah, could happen but chances are it never will.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 02:37 AM
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Oh, it doesn't bother me. I was just thinking about it.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 12:57 PM
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"If you're physically unavailable, I'm emotionally unavailable." I dunno if this works on these sort of girls. Hot high school girls are like minor celebrities. Thousands of instagram followers thousands of FB friends. If you're not emotionally available, someone else will be. This ends after high school, when the boys actually have shit to do and start ignoring them. Plus, assuming they get into Uni, they'll have stuff to do as well. Also, their social circles disintegrate. I've watched it happ…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 03:16 AM
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Oh. In that regard you've just gotta play it by ear. It depends on the situation. If you wanna "topple" them you gotta make them seem like they're trying too hard. I just ignore them usually, or "amused mastery".
/r/askTRP12/01/15 11:35 AM
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Yeah. Become alpha as fuark yourself. There's a reason they're top dogs, if you can't beat em - join em.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 11:03 AM
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Talk about experiences. Women (and men, but mostly women) want to be excited. Talking about theories they don't care about doesn't excite them unfortunately. They don't care that you went to Paris. They want to know why you went, why it was so amazing. Even something as boring as walking on the beach can be made to sound exciting. "I went for a walk down on the beach, was pretty relaxing" "I went for a walk down on the beach, water was ridiculously blue and the sand was the whitest I've seen it.…
/r/askTRP12/01/15 11:02 AM
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Literal same thing happened to me except not fucking, just kissing. Snapchat numbers too high, guys on her top messaged list, unable to see me due to "parent" regulations Exactly the same situation. 17F and me 21M. I dumped her though. Found out she cheated after the fact. Younger girls don't know what they want. They think they want an older guy, but in truth they just want attention. She was attracted to you, but when you were working or at Uni and couldn't respond, she had about 1000 other gu…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 10:16 AM
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Benchpress, Squat, Deadlift and Overhead press are your bread and butter. Supplement these with accessory lifts which isolate smaller muscles. For a beginner, I would recommend starting strength. That is basically: Workout A Squat 3x5 (or 5x5) Bench " " Overhead press " " Workout B Squat 3x5 (or 5x5) Bench " " Deadlift 1x5 (go relatively hard but get form 100% downpat first) Workout goes AxBxAxx, So Monday = A, Tuesday = rest, Wednesday = B etc If you want/have more time incorporate accessory li…
/r/askTRP12/01/15 09:41 AM
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I'm only 21, but I've been on "end of season footy trips" with my football team who are all 28-35, work full time some of them on 6 digit salaries. I can tell you I've had more fun and they're far more loose than the friends I had during high school/uni.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 12:43 PM
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Lastly, do I just casually place my hand there or what? Kiss her, gauge her reaction to the kiss. Explore her body with your hands, don't touch places you know she's insecure about Move towards her ass, if she likes it that's the green light to slowly go for her puss. Lightly rub. It's all about gauging the reaction and using that to go forward.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 11:31 AM
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but she doesn't like being touched on her stomach. (redflag?) No, she's just insecure about it and thinks you'll judge. Just don't touch her stomach. Weird thing is that she is leaving for the summer to work at an all-girls camp, which I assume is the reason for her social weirdness sometimes. She's also leaving for college in a place far away so I'm out of the picture no matter what. She knows this, and knows she wont give up sex for someone she'll never see again. My current plan to just isola…
/r/askTRP11/01/15 08:20 AM
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If the girl was simply taken from you then she wasn't that into you to begin with
/r/askTRP11/01/15 07:24 AM
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Had a similar experience recently. Girl would text me less and less and with less enthusiasm than the start of the relationship. She ended up cheating on me. Had the gut feeling as soon as texts were different. However, to me it sounds like she's worried you will break up with her, so she's letting you know her plans. Also, her texts seem likes she's sort of into you. Tbh, you can tell through the way she talks to you if she's not into you. Maybe she feels guilty that she's using some beta orbit…
/r/askTRP10/01/15 05:29 AM
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Not OP, but the most common LMR I get is "i'll be too noisy" because 9 times out of 10 there's someone else in the house. What's a good response to this?
/r/askTRP04/01/15 09:24 AM
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Don't have to roid, but if you want any girl worthwhile in Australia it's pretty much a necessity to lift. Australian guys are just higher SMV. You're pretty much playing in hard mode, or as another guy said: training in x10 gravity
/r/askTRP03/01/15 01:09 PM
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Its pretty much all over Australia. Straya has a massive gym/roid culture. Most people are shredded. I lift and am pretty big, but I don't juice. I do ok, but in Europe I slayed because instead of being just another average relatively shredded guy I was a swolelord, and easily top 10% in hugeness anywhere I went. That's where the whole "Aussie boys are sexy" comes from. Pretty much roids
/r/askTRP03/01/15 09:58 AM
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Doesn't look like a shittest... more like a "show you off to her friends to try and upgrade to gf" situation
/r/askTRP03/01/15 01:24 AM
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Nothing specific. Bodybuilding.com and exrx all have examples of pretty much all lifts, same with youtube. Really easy to find. Form is just practice. Practice with the bar and record a video of yourself to compare with videos online. Better yet if you can find a friend or something to help you and guide you that'd be good too. To be honest, I'm intimidated with the gym No need to be. Find a routine which suits you and stick with it. Branch out when you're more comfortable
/r/askTRP30/12/14 12:01 PM
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The barbell when benching will not just fall on your chest. I've failed many bench presses without a spotter, and its really, really easy to just lower it and then roll it off (up to about 80kg bench I've done it). If you're lifting weight where its dangerous, then you've been lifting for years and will most likely have a spotter. Benchpress, Squat, Deadlift and Overhead press are your bread and butter. Supplement these with accessory lifts which isolate smaller muscles. For a beginner, I would …
/r/askTRP29/12/14 02:53 PM
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mirin. intimacy really felt a lot better with my old girlfriend. There's a reason the most popular "style" of sex at a whore house is the "girlfriend experience" Am I misunderstanding the mindset of red-pillers, when I say most don't seem like the type to "fall in love"? There was a good comment on here. A guy will take a bullet for a women he loves, but a women wont do it for a guy. She'll only do it for her kids. It's a different kind of love, and in the end the guy will probably fall harder f…
/r/askTRP29/12/14 02:34 PM
2

Music. I love melbourne EDM so I pump a few bangers and then I'm ready to rumble
/r/seduction27/12/14 03:36 AM
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If you're a virgin the only reason you're not doing this is because you're scared. Not because if they find out you lied but because you've never had sex before, and you're nervous about it. The mistake part is, you can only root her once or twice. Even then she's not fucking you, she's fucking someone you made up. If you hit it off with this girl and like her, well too bad. Nothing more can come of it coz you lied. If I was you, I'd root and boot. Get your virginity monkey off your back and don…
/r/askTRP27/12/14 02:10 AM
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Meh. You're in too deep already. Go for it and realise that lying can only get you so far. Live n learn
/r/askTRP27/12/14 01:58 AM
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Define clubbing. If you go clubbing to a mainstream place with girls in tight dresses and heels and guys in shirts and nice shoes then yeah solo is totally fine. These places exist for pick up and literally nothing else. If you go to "underground" places where everyone takes ecstasy and is in singlets and girls are wearing flat shoes so they can shuffle easier, you're probably not gonna pick up there anyway so there's no point. You'll look a tad odd being by yourself as well. However the brights…
/r/seduction14/12/14 07:22 AM
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All that stuff does for a man though is get you through the door easier. In other words, being 5'7 some girls wont give me the time of day at a club, no matter what. But if they give me a shot then all the other attributes come into play and I might as well be 6'3. Protip: get shredded as fuck. girls like being 'smaller' than guys so if you're strong as shit and can throw them around it doesn't matter if they're slightly taller.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 06:11 AM
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Generation of men raised by women
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 03:57 PM
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of course it can, but it was said in a playful manner. girl in question knew she was hot. you've gotta read/know what the girl's like and if she's in that sorta mood
/r/askTRP11/09/14 03:50 AM
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Depends on the girl, usually it's them seeking validation. Had one snapchat me her "pretty face" and I'd give her a 5/10. She then sent me more and more provocative pics till I finally gave her an 8/10. I think for the most part she has to initiate it, but you can guide it.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 02:42 AM
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ecstasy is a hell of a drug
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 02:48 PM
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No. Drinking is a common way but there are other alternatives. I hosted a party where I didn't drink much at all. People will say the whole "oooo get a drink in ya!!!" but if you laugh and say "maybe later" they'll go away/wont care. It's all about being fine with not having a drink and getting involved and not being judgemental. At a bar, I see plenty of guys hit on people without a drink in hand.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 01:58 PM
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after he puts the number in the phone, he could text himself saying "Hey (his name), lets get coffee some time :)" and the 'convo' is already started
/r/askTRP03/09/14 06:10 AM
2

Ah yeah of course, ez game ez lyf
/r/seduction02/09/14 01:35 PM
1

i tell them to meet me somewhere. girls who are keen will put in some effort to meet you. ive even had a girl drive to my house, park her car there and we walked to get coffee then came back to my house
/r/seduction31/08/14 06:11 AM
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yeah. i could've. if you wanna submit some good examples then i'll be more than happy to put it up
/r/seduction25/08/14 04:06 PM
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i meant jokes as banter or joking around, not "knock knock whos there"
/r/seduction25/08/14 03:57 PM
1

it's hard to make banter with an imaginary person
/r/seduction25/08/14 03:56 PM
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Of course, but at the same time in this day and age younger girls love texting and its entirely possible to build slight rapport before you ask them out (ie when the conversation is at a peak). Obviously you shouldn't go balls to the walls but it's good to make them laugh a bit before they agree to meet you
/r/seduction25/08/14 05:27 AM
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Where I was getting at was that's usually reserved for SnapChat, at least for my age group. You're right it did affect me seeing a girl have heaps of fun on snapchat, but if I got it in a text I'd think it's a bit too intimate. I guess what I'm trying to say is that snapchat and facebook tagging has made sharing pictures something close friends do. Potentially snapchat hasn't taken off in your area or different age group? Still though, if it works for you it works. more power to ya
/r/seduction24/08/14 07:28 PM
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I dunno. If a girl is on the fence leaning to no this will just put her over the edge in the creepy factor. Imagine if a girl you're not keen on started sending you dumb pictures. It works to build an already solid rapport base, but not to build one from scratch. If she's not responding she's not responding. It's over.
/r/seduction24/08/14 06:09 PM
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askSeddit not askReddit :P but ye. Key is to not message too much on facebook/texts etc. Always more fun to meet the person and talk there.
/r/seduction24/08/14 06:07 PM
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Shouldn't post real specific questions here (/r/askseddit is the place to post) but I'll answer for your sake anyway. This is too easy. A simple "god last night was fun! how you holding up?" will get her talking. Then you can work in "btw your friend left her sweater here" and ask her out from that. Would recommend getting a number though, as texting is more intimate.
/r/seduction24/08/14 05:59 PM
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I wouldn't recommend calling. In this day and age it's pretty weird to call people for like 3 minutes just to organise stuff. I only call close friends who take ages to respond to texts - you don't want to do this to girls. Girls aren't gonna think "woah he's so brave calling me" They'll think it's weird unless you're already close. I even called a girl friend once and she asked why I called her. It's not something youngish girls do. Also, girls aren't gonna say think you're weird for texting th…
/r/seduction24/08/14 05:55 PM
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Potentially, but don't wait too long. I like to wait a couple of days of texting sporadically and ask them out then if there's still attraction. Find what works for you, part of it is gauging the girls interest. Near instant responses with attempts at keeping the convo flowing? Go for it. Cold, 1-2 worded answers? Wouldn't bother.
/r/seduction14/08/14 02:48 AM
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We don't know what you're doing wrong in the texts. I find texting less is better for some girls and texting more is better for other girls. Maybe you're coming off as too needy. Another thing, maybe the girls are just looking for validation. They wanna know they can get a date for the ego boost. Just move on from these ones.
/r/seduction13/08/14 07:50 AM
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I dunno, I always do first dates as a screen test to see if they're worthwhile, coffee's all that's needed usually. Could do shit like walk through a park etc but I feel like doing that with people you barely know will become awkward if you don't "click"
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 07:20 AM
2

I'm assuming he meant kino which is just physical touch
/r/seduction13/08/14 06:47 AM
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Not just meet up for coffee?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 06:42 AM
2

Did you rack a pill or what? Curious what you snorted to pass out.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 04:51 AM
1

I have a similar issue, and I pin it to the fact that in order for guys to be friends with each other they NEED mutual interests. Girls don't really need mutual interests to be friends with guys, and are happy just hanging out. I can't see myself getting coffee with my mates, but my sister does it with her friends all the time. What I'm saying is, if you chat about random stuff in a college class all that's gonna happen is you'll become a situational friend. You'll just entertain each other duri…
/r/seduction10/08/14 08:13 AM
1

melbourne. its more of a bogan country term though, lol. i just think it sounds funny
/r/seduction08/08/14 09:31 AM
2

Flog is Australian for douchebag pretty much
/r/seduction07/08/14 03:19 PM
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One of my girl friends uses Tinder, she's above average looking, I'd say about a HB7. The only people she swipes right to are 9-10/10 6'2+ shredded guys, and low and behold 9 times out of 10 she'll get a match. It's definitely in the woman's favour. This issue I think is to do with most guys 100% swiping right, and then choosing after they've matched. This gives girls a heightened sense of "their league" and anything below that is not good enough. If you're not in the top 10% you wont do well. A…
/r/seduction07/08/14 12:13 PM
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i think it depends man. as a 20 year old, girls my age text constantly. sure i can call them and we can talk for an hour or so but at the end of the day they like doing things and just chatting during the day. texts have their place, i think what you're trying to say is try not to have full blown conversations over texts which i agree with. but sometimes it's good to chat for a bit for 10-15 mins over text, just be sure to not bombard or overdo it
/r/seduction23/07/14 06:36 AM
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pretty much. or money, that helps too. I find it pretty offensive that you assume I spend my life at the gym. stop being a little bitch and do some work on yourself. become a better you, and stop complaining that god or allah fucked you over. you're not special.
/r/seduction14/07/14 09:11 AM
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No shit. The only success I've had was after I put on 15kg of lean mass and changed my wardrobe to shit that actually fitted me. Work hard, get results. You only get out what you put in. At the end of the day, humans are superficial. Luckily we've invented gyms and ways to monitor what we eat so that even if we are cursed by genetics we can still save ourselves and become solid 7's.
/r/seduction14/07/14 09:00 AM
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Coming onto strong from my experience is appearing far too keen and needy straight up which is a turn off for girls. Eg a girl shows a slight interest and then all of a sudden you pursue her and act really sexual... sort of like skipping a step. Reactions depend on the girl. Same with gauging interest
/r/seduction14/07/14 08:35 AM
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Don't say "went to europe in the summer, was awesome" - explain why it was awesome. you have done shit and experienced things differently to people. even if you went to europe and did the exact same trip as someone, they way you'd feel about it is different. even if you literally did nothing all day like I used to, I still was able to talk to a girl for an hour about my world of warcraft account.
/r/seduction14/07/14 08:29 AM
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Not much you can do. All it means is that monday I get like 3 hours sleep but then sleep like a baby monday night and get regular sleep till the weekend again. Heard melatonin is good, just too much of a pain to get in Australia
/r/seduction11/07/14 05:58 AM
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Next time get her phone and text yourself from her phone "hey, we should get coffee :)" or some shit and then next morning reply to that text. Ez. Sounds like her "slut shield" was activated, and you may have come across as desperate when you decided to stay. I don't think enough comfort was built etc
/r/seduction25/06/14 06:14 PM
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fact is, if you go out to try and pick up especially at a club you'll have a shit time. im thinking you're pretty inexperienced with clubbing. my advice is go clubbing to enjoy the music. find clubs with music you enjoy. i love clubbing, but if the place has trash music or shit DJ's or a shit crowd i wont stay long at all and get bored... unless im on pills then i can dance to a car alarm. key is to find a place you enjoy, not what everyone else does or what your friend from high school is promo…
/r/seduction15/06/14 12:15 PM
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"what is your top made of?" "uhh i dunno cotton" "looks like girlfriend material to me" just say funny witty things. if the girl is attracted to you physically anyway you can say almost anything
/r/seduction05/06/14 05:55 AM
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that's with everything though. tall poppy syndrome
/r/seduction04/06/14 09:17 AM
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experiences. I find talking about hobbies doesn't do shit and you tend to ramble. You talk about the time you nearly broke your leg playing soccer, not the fact that you play soccer or what soccer's about
/r/seduction04/06/14 08:46 AM
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Maybe irl, but there doesn't seem to be a sense of competition online.
/r/seduction04/06/14 08:44 AM
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i disagree. i think getting a hooker for the first time would be depressing. the reason these guys for the most part are still virgins is coz they have such low confidence. they will feel that hookers is a last resort and then become depressed etc.
/r/seduction04/06/14 07:31 AM
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Welcome to the manlet club. Only thing we have going for us is we can look muscular easier then our taller brethren. Go to the gym, get shredded. Your jawline will look more muscular plus girls like jacked guys anyway.
/r/seduction02/06/14 02:07 AM
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man dancing is just that. i've had girls try and get with me after i've racked a few pills and am absolutely flying all over the place. just have high energy, big smile on your face and look like you're having fun and not looking to get any
/r/seduction02/06/14 01:51 AM
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far more confidence boosting when girls tell you how much they like your arms
/r/seduction03/05/14 02:45 PM
1

Well when I was younger WoW was my life. I was pretty very good at arena and back then it meant something to have good gear in the game. Sold that toon when I stopped playing seriously for $1,000. (traded levelling up my WoW toons for levelling up my gainzzzz) Just talked about that and then transition into what the game actually is etc. I guess it just helped that I offered a different perception on something she assumed was for neckbeard nerds. Main thing is, don't be afraid. If you show you d…
/r/seduction29/04/14 04:55 AM
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experiences really. anything you enjoy becomes interesting. i once had a conversation with a girl about my world of warcraft account, it all depends how you say it. quality over quantity.
/r/seduction29/04/14 03:55 AM
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You're assuming the 6'6 guy is full of confidence. If the tall guy got insulted and stayed silent, put his head down and walked off then that's not really 'shrugging it off'. However, what you're saying is true as well. There is a preconceived notion that tall guys are all confident etc. It's more about how you carry yourself rather than your actual height. You can tell when a tall guy is an absolute loser much in the same way you can tell a shorter guy is. Only issue I've had with height (being…
/r/seduction30/03/14 08:21 AM
1

I befriended a chinese guy from high school (full international student) and he took me "asian clubbing" where all the expats hang out. For every 1 asian girl who'll give you the time of day (if you're not asian) there's about 100 who don't even want to speak with you. This could be just because it's Melbourne and they're expats so they "feel" like the odd ones out and could be scared. Maybe it's different in China for them but the expat girls here don't really wanna have anything to do with whi…
/r/seduction12/03/14 06:37 AM
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Everyone's fashion is different. Just go with what looks good on you. Don't forget about cologne though. /r/fitness is a good place to start. If you're skinny eat a lot more and probably go to /r/gainit as well. Good place to start is do Starting Strength for about 6 months then depending on your goals swap it up to a brosplit or a more advanced strength program. You'll know what you wanna do in 6 months of solid lifting. Gains are made in the kitchen for the most part, so make sure you eat a sh…
/r/seduction06/03/14 02:01 PM
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did this. had the girl originally not message me. Couple of weeks later she sends me stupid videos every couple of days to which I reply "haha ok". Now she wants to go do something just us 2
/r/seduction06/03/14 10:28 AM
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This last summer, about July or so, I became very depressed in the fact that I couldn’t really get a girlfriend. Why do you want a girlfriend? Waste of time unless you're older. Biggest mistake was having a girlfriend when I was 19 (21 now). Here's a post from a few weeks ago "The main reason virgins are virgins isn't because they can't get laid, but because they have Disney movie visions of what love is in their heads so they turn down every opportunity for sex. The reality is that in our socie…
/r/seduction06/03/14 06:59 AM
1

pretty much friend her until she's on her own then go in for da kill. key is while you're friendly to keep up "sexiness"
/r/seduction21/02/14 11:35 PM
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Read the FAQ etc, most is answered there. What you wanna do is sort your shit out first. People will want something from you. Most girls didn't give a shit that I was a gladiator in World of Warcraft, it's irrelevant to them. They don't care that I'm "nice" - that's baseline. You need to offer them something. For me, I offered them gains and was able to entertain them. Just go to the gym. I was in the same boat, out of shape looking like trash. 1 year later of eating and lifting properly, got la…
/r/seduction21/02/14 08:59 PM
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sounds like she just wasn't keen. maybe the note threw her off tbh. just ask her next time
/r/seduction21/02/14 08:36 PM
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It still sounds youre too focused on asking questions rather than bantering. Maybe try turning the conversation sexual as well. Its hard to judge when you cant see what youre saying
/r/seduction16/02/14 02:04 AM
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I tried a sarcastic, backhanded compliment to all of them. Was probably the way you delivered it. Should've been said in a jokey manner, don't think "sarcastic backhand" would work well at all; maybe even touched a nerve. She said I had no chance with them because I was a 4 and they were all 9s and 10s. Was she serious? Or just banter? If she was serious just bail or say something to "bring her down" to your level... "if i'm a 4 that means we'll be perfect for each other"; stuff like that. it so…
/r/seduction15/02/14 06:36 PM
1

So you're getting into a club for free and getting free drinks? Also which city has public transport running after like 2am? I'm intrigued.
/r/seduction08/02/14 01:39 AM
2

being good at something means doing the simple things well goes for anything. Best soccer team is the one that can pass the best etc
/r/seduction07/02/14 04:08 AM
1

It's similar, but in my football team when you're told to be aggressive it's not to foul, it's to put all your strength behind the tackle. I think assertiveness is going for what you want, but being aggressive is ruthlessly pursuing it using all your 'strength'. Or whatever.
/r/seduction07/02/14 01:28 AM
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Nerdiness isn't just doing high level maths or playing computer games. It's doing maths/playing computer games instead of going out to see people/be social. Aggressiveness comes from going for what you want. You can be aggressive without being a douche, it's just a weird word to hear in a good way.
/r/seduction06/02/14 08:05 AM
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true. well if gaming isn't affecting anything (as in you're not skipping shit due to playing games) then that's ok. If you want something productive there's not much you can do weeknights... maybe join a sports team or learn an instrument/read books
/r/seduction04/02/14 12:55 PM
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Gym. level yourself up.
/r/seduction04/02/14 09:51 AM
3

just talk to her? go up and say "hey how are you?"
/r/seduction31/01/14 09:11 AM
1

eh sometimes I just say "all girls are bi" and then it turns the conversational sexual as they discuss attractiveness in women and then sex etcetc
/r/seduction29/01/14 04:22 PM
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Can agree, was in the same boat. Putting heaps on emphasis on Gym though, it just makes picking up that much easier when you look far stronger than everyone else. Also helps with insecurities which in return make you far more confident which translates to clunge
/r/seduction27/01/14 03:24 AM
3

that's 2 drinks in australia, or 1.5 in perth
/r/seduction25/01/14 02:54 PM
3

if the guys being an absolute dick, just call him out on it. if you're not entertaining, no one will be interested in you. good tip i found was that if you have a story, make it interesting. Instead of saying "I walked up the sistine chapel steps to the top, was pretty cool" say "i walked up about a thousand steps to get to the top of sistine chapel and the view was ridiculous. absolutely amazing, you don't realise how good it is till you go there; pictures don't do it justice". Just try to make…
/r/seduction25/01/14 02:53 PM
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There's no easy fix mate. It comes with the i don't give a fuck frame of mind
/r/seduction20/01/14 12:17 PM
2

Gonna disagree. Dunno what your clubbing experiences are like but clubbing with girl friends is the worst thing of all time. They dance in a circle and there's very little talking going on in the club therefore not a huge chance to meet the other girls. Moreover, you don't have a wingman to help open other group of girls... good luck trying to dance your way up to a group of girls by yourself and pull one or finding a girl by herself at a club. Bar/quieter/chiller scenario I'd definitely go to..…
/r/seduction19/01/14 01:12 PM
2

"what are you drinking" or "what even is that drink" if it's some weird cocktail
/r/seduction07/01/14 12:02 PM
2

when did i say violence is?
/r/seduction09/12/13 01:35 AM
1

I haven't completely shaken AA yet. It still happens from time to time. It's getting better, I suppose it's like giving up smoking or something. Small steps. Talk to 1 girl a night, then 2, then 3. Just set goals and beat them. It's easier in a night/bar setting.
/r/seduction09/12/13 01:23 AM
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Think of it like a muscle. You don't work that muscle, it'll deteriorate. It's the same thing really.
/r/seduction09/12/13 01:14 AM
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Gym. Have a body that you love and that you wanna show off. You know you're attractive. There is no bigger confidence booster than knowing you can make a girl wet just by looking at them. It sounds like you are a sexy man, so just smile at girls Go out with your friends. Girls rarely approach 1v1 I find, but although it doesn't happen often, groups of girls sometimes approach groups of guys. Do shit you're interested in. Go to that shit. Talk to women there The best thing to build your confidenc…
/r/seduction09/12/13 01:13 AM
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Well that's a separate issue entirely. I know how fighting works, especially in the real world with "back up" and no rules. Point was about self esteem, and knowing that you're actually stronger than people and seeing people at your gym who are bigger than you who struggle to lift weights you do with ease really opens your eyes that maybe you're not as pathetic as your brain seems to think you are. Im not saying go out and fight, but the knowledge that by just looking at someone, excluding exter…
/r/seduction09/12/13 01:06 AM
1

What do you mean? "look at how strong I am!!!!" Do you mean he'll fight someone and get the shit kicked out of him?
/r/seduction09/12/13 12:30 AM
1

this is a problem with his selfesteem No shit, being trained and knowing you're stronger physically is a massive boost to the self esteem.
/r/seduction08/12/13 11:34 PM
1

Gym. You'll get a good, imposing physique and you'll realise exactly how much stronger you are than the untrained masses and that you can easily pick them up and throw them around after a year or 2 training. Plus, you get aesthetic as fuaaark
/r/seduction08/12/13 11:33 PM
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Night clubs are very superficial and your actions speak louder than words. As long as people think you're funny and have a good time then so will the girl. Dance with her, tell her to go somewhere quiet, have a chat (briefly - name, etc), escalate and then just be blunt (ie, let's go back to mine, exchange numbers etc.). girls dont really wanna sit and chat at nightclubs, so keep it brief. make sure before you take her to the "quieter place" you know she's attracted to you and you've danced for …
/r/seduction25/11/13 02:25 PM
1

the infamous circle of no hooks. not much you an do, you can try and be ballsy and get involved. get a few of your friends to get involved, 3v5 is actually not such a bad deal for them. make out > let's go have a smoke/go somewhere quiet etc > get her number build normal attraction. smokers area is usually quiet just dance. smile have a good time. don't scope out and try not to but if you see a girl that looks good let her know make him have fun. clubbing is a different kind of beast. get a few …
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:00 AM
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pretty sure it's just reddit's algorithms which give "fake" downvotes to stop spam somehow. good AMA though, enjoyed it.
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:45 AM
1

being tall is an attractive quality, but what's FAR more attractive is being tallER than the girl. if you're 5'7 dating a 5'2 girl that's just as attractive to her as a 6' girl dating a 6'5 guy. only issue with being 5'7 is that your options are limited because you're below average height. i find that girls honestly don't care about facial aesthetics. as long as you're not a trainwreck you're fine. if you work out, present yourself well and are above average height - there's no reason why you ca…
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:31 AM
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from my experience, girls just flat out refuse to date guys shorter than them. maybe it's an australian thing.
/r/seduction22/10/13 04:53 PM
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are of or above average height this is the kicker
/r/seduction22/10/13 01:27 PM
11

Gains. Physical gains helped my mental gains
/r/seduction01/07/13 04:27 PM
1

i had the same issue. with guys you don't really care about getting to know them or if they're random friends from high school etc there's no interest. best thing to do is make banter which is pretty much guy flirting.
/r/seduction01/07/13 12:46 PM
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Yeah, but it's based on personality of the girl I suppose - depends who you wanna attract. I got a friend who has a great body and shows it off and he gets a lot of messages from girls. The ones who say "don't bother" are probably looking for something more than a one night stand or don't want to come off as superficial/wanna prove that they prefer personality over looks.
/r/seduction12/06/13 05:10 AM
2

If you have a 10/10 body, the shirtless bathroom mirror shot works wonders.
/r/seduction12/06/13 04:15 AM
1

well, whole point was that you can say anything. this wasn't meant to be some routine, obviously if you make this conversation boring/not genuine nothing will happen
/r/seduction02/06/13 05:09 AM
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"Hi, just want to say that I like your (anything)" "Yeah it's great, where'd you get it?" "You got it from (area/store)? Nice, I used to (do something) there, I remember this one time (story)" "Yeah haha, that guy was (what that guy was)! What do you do for fun anyway?" "Awesome, always wanted to (her hobby)" "Anyway, gotta go. I really enjoyed talking to you, (name). Maybe we could do something sometime? What's your number? Great, see ya" EDIT: this isn't some foolproof routine (or a routine at…
/r/seduction01/06/13 06:22 PM
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squeeze your gluts and flex ur abs. Issue comes from your hip flexors so stretch them too.
/r/seduction01/06/13 05:18 PM
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It does in Melbourne. Melbourne club scene is notoriously dirty so keep your cities rules/culture in mind, haha
/r/seduction21/05/13 07:55 AM
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pretty much, just gauge her interest. I've seen one of my friends k-close in 10 seconds. if she's grinding into you she wants the D
/r/seduction21/05/13 04:28 AM
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It's different depending what city/country you live in but I'll give you a basic run down for Melbourne. Walk up to a girl, look at her, (don't "orbit") say anything ("i love this song, dance with me" or my favourite "Hi, I'm anon") You get close to her and sort of yell in her ear, something short and sweet. Smelling nice is important Then, she'll either start dancing with you or she wont. If she doesn't move on. If she does, grind her for a bit, spin her around and make sure she's having fun. A…
/r/seduction20/05/13 06:35 PM
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I have a few mates I took out who are pretty timid and suffer from intense AA. What would happen was I'd approach a girl, do my thing etc and start dancing with her. Thing is, my mates were sorta looking and tryna pick the hottest one of the group and 'orbiting' around. The other girls caught on that I was with them and dragged my girl away because they didn't want anything to do with my friends. This happened a few times. In hindsight, I should've isolated her but I felt like a hero and wanted …
/r/seduction20/05/13 06:31 PM
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be the best damn 5'4 bro there is, bro
/r/seduction13/05/13 11:58 AM
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As a 19 year old, this is how they act. It gets better once you get into Uni -- in high school everyone just inbreeds within their groups. It is however still ok to approach girls out of school. In school though I wouldn't. For instance if you see the qt "Sarah" in the year below out having coffee it's alright to go have a chat outside of school, but in school when everyone's watching it's a bit weird plus the girls would probably get a tad nervous. Who knows, though? Maybe your body language is…
/r/seduction08/05/13 03:57 PM
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Th-thanks
/r/seduction07/05/13 02:22 PM
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i like goin 7 thursdays (more so coz i get free entry) and cloud 9 on sat. Ritz is also good fun on thursday
/r/seduction07/05/13 01:32 PM
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Yep. Also you're wog, it's in your nature to yell so it should be easy
/r/seduction07/05/13 01:12 PM
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ew code. Heard it's full of underagers these days: confirm/deny? But you don't really talk, you just yell in their ear a few times. That's why smelling great is important
/r/seduction07/05/13 01:06 PM
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It's just a basic guide on how to enjoy clubbing. Cool your jets. Too many people just go to the wrong club with the wrong music/crowd and blame the entire clubbing scene.
/r/seduction07/05/13 01:05 PM
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you are a douchebag can't deny that mate I am a bit of a dick "most" suggests at least 50%+1, when in reality this percentage is closer to 30-40% (max, in the sluttiest of clubs) Have you been to Melbourne? "it is sort of ok to randomly grind with a girl from behind" no it isn't, but it's not like you've shown a shred of respect for women in your entire post, so I'm letting this one slide True, if you run up behind her and grope her. If you do it smoothly most girls (in melbourne anyway) seem no…
/r/seduction07/05/13 10:23 AM
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There's definitely girls who don't like it, but if you look good, smell good and dance well then there's girls who do like it. It's all about how you interpret the situation, from my experience I can tell pretty quickly if a girl isn't interested. Also the fat girl joke... Classic example was from a few nights ago I used that as an opener. I pretty much just said "well, she's having fun" with 'implying' tones because she was kissing a guy and then danced with her friend and got a laugh out of it…
/r/seduction07/05/13 10:18 AM
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you will not enjoy Melbourne then, unfortunately
/r/seduction07/05/13 10:07 AM
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pls don't compare me to him, I am not worthy it wont do him justice
/r/seduction07/05/13 06:42 AM
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wesley lel
/r/seduction07/05/13 04:31 AM
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haha not as weird as you think. omg had a stalk of your post history and you play soccer n love fifa. you might be me. protip: kroos is a beastly CDM and muller is a better CAM than striker, from what I found anyway. low driven crosses to gomez from robben/ribery are the most OP shit. also alaba and dante are the greatest
/r/seduction07/05/13 04:05 AM
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cloud9 sat, seven on thursdays are my favs. Sometimes I go to ritz/levels places like that. I'll probably start going out fridays now for the next few weeks coz I'm injured so I can't play on sat
/r/seduction07/05/13 04:02 AM
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It depends where you're from I guess. Melbourne girls will let you know quickly and discretely if they're not interested. I'm not saying grab her and throw her in the air, but just bring her close, gauge her interest then start the spinning or w/e. Grabbing is probably not the right word...
/r/seduction07/05/13 03:45 AM
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It's a culture thing, I can see myself struggling if I ever go the the US from what I've read from a few posters, lol.
/r/seduction07/05/13 03:41 AM
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Can attest to this Use my list for cheaper entry
/r/seduction07/05/13 03:36 AM
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What do you mean? Like after you hooked up with her? It really depends. Jimmyayo nailed it in his post: It's your job to make it SPECIAL, and not just another cheap club hookup. You can do this by leading and isolating - after having fun dancing, you isolate: grab her hand and tell her to walk w/ you to a quieter part of the club, where you can grab a drink and talk, or maybe go out for a smoke. You need to build some emotional rapport if you want to see this chick again. Otherwise, you're just …
/r/seduction07/05/13 03:32 AM
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saturday can't go wrong with Cloud9. Warehouse is OK, not my cup of tea. Also Boutique if you have expensive taste. Thursday Ritz/Seven And yeah I <3 7... more so because I get free entry and skip the line with 2 friends... but that's beside the point
/r/seduction07/05/13 03:30 AM
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naw there's some dubstep and indie shit around the place, just gotta look!
/r/seduction07/05/13 03:27 AM
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where's a good place for someone new to this town to pick up girls or or just get in to things? How old are you? It's different depending on your age. Every night there's good places open. If you like Melbourne music, monday there's nothing. Tuesday there's Room (not a good club) and the Hawthorn. I'm sure factory or something is open Tuesday as well but I don't go out this day much. Wednesday there's a few upscale clubs but I don't enjoy these. Thursday is when it begins - Seven nightclub or Ri…
/r/seduction07/05/13 03:26 AM
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Manlet is a short guy not qualified to be a man ;_; I remember my first time like it was yesterday... I was tryna dance with this chick not knowing what I was doing, just sorta looking at her and hoping she'll notice me. This shredded guy comes up "this is how you do it mate" and proceeded to grab her, spin her etc and hook up 10 seconds later. Confidence and fun is important, but looking good is your #1 priority. Plus, looking good translates to confidence anyway.
/r/seduction07/05/13 03:10 AM
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banger is a song, usually associated with Melbourne's "unique" club/dance sound wog is an 'ex-racist' term to describe greeks/italians pretty much all ethnic immigrants. back in the day it was racist now it's a pretty funny word manlet is a short man ;_; nah Australians love a bit of banter it'll be very hard to start WW3 with us by just insulting. You'd need to insult AFL or something
/r/seduction07/05/13 03:07 AM
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It's not for everyone man, but most people go clubbing to some random club with the wrong crowd, wrong music and expect to have fun and hook up
/r/seduction07/05/13 03:05 AM
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like a deadbeat or a loser.
/r/seduction07/05/13 03:04 AM
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5'7" ;__;
/r/seduction07/05/13 03:03 AM
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used to be one of my favs like 2 years ago ;__; rip code red 2011-2011
/r/seduction06/05/13 04:49 PM
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Where you from? In Melbourne the club culture really gets ingrained so from 18-23 it's pretty much your only option to go out. House parties become non existent and Uni parties are usually just cheaper entry to clubs. Most bars have a really older crowd so you can't just chill and meet people. The ones that do have a younger crowd are incredibly loud and packed they're just clubs with tables and pretty much die down by 11pm when everyone's drunk enough to go clubbing
/r/seduction06/05/13 04:30 PM
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I was the same man. When I first went out I went with a bunch of guys who were like "omg we're gonna slay tonight fuck oath" and obviously they didn't and got all depressed "clubbing sucks" etc. Then, I started going with a good mate of mine who was a DJ somewhere so we went for the music and it was great fun
/r/seduction06/05/13 04:17 PM
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it was just bad wording, you sort of go behind grab her hips and have a chat. Or, you just fuck around and pretend to grind her, most non stuck up girls play along and some even initiate an actual grind. If they're not interested you'll know Again, maybe it's just a Melbourne thing. I've had some success where I've just been dancing, sort of pushed against a girl and she pushed back. Grabbed her hips and was smooth sailing from then on.
/r/seduction06/05/13 04:11 PM
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All good points, cheers if you have a hot girl that you're friends with (and not banging), bring her to the damn club Maybe it's just my friends, but they make it very awkward for me to approach because they're always by my side.
/r/seduction06/05/13 03:59 PM
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born and raised in Melbourne, lived in the northern suburbs but a few years ago moved to the east. If you're talking about my family they're from thessaloniki, well i think kozani to be exact.
/r/seduction06/05/13 03:47 PM
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scottishredpill pretty much nailed it, but i'll add a few tips. basic hygiene stuff, most nights you will sweat so make sure to keep that covered. I like to put some eau de toilette or w/e it's called on, some basic antiperspirant deodorant (lol) and touch of my nice cologne. The mix of what I wear seems to be working, I've been complimented on it a few times but it's just experimentation. EDIT: should add as a guide, the stuff I wear doesn't have a strong smell, it's more soft if that makes sen…
/r/seduction06/05/13 03:41 PM
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wog is a greek/italian immigrant. back in the day it was considered really racist now no one cares. flog is just a loser or deadbeat.
/r/seduction06/05/13 03:25 PM
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Practice being sober is the only answer
/r/seduction05/05/13 06:24 PM
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Protip for clubs: get to know the bar staff/bouncers. If the music is shitty find a better club (this club in my city has a shocking line up most saturdays but the music is great on thursdays). Drinks are overpriced, sure, but you really should be meeting up with people beforehand and drinking if you're going clubbing. I live in Melbourne, so clubbing is pretty much my only option with regards to 18-21 year olds. I used to hate it but I've grown to love it. Unfortunately, as a skinny 18 year old…
/r/seduction05/05/13 06:14 PM
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because I planted the idea in at least one of the two girls' mind prior to in happening threesomeception
/r/seduction22/04/13 08:33 AM
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haha come to australia where half of the 20-30 year olds are on roids and be mediocre!
/r/seduction28/02/13 09:51 AM
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hitting the gym is an easy way because you see yourself get physically bigger and stronger and as a result respected more. it really is a confidence boost when other guys are admiring your physique, because it's easy to love yourself when other people love you. plus it's a great hobby, always trying to beat your personal best on the lifts and become stronger and stronger.
/r/seduction26/02/13 06:25 PM
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i dunno it's just practice, just touch her lightly and build from that. like on the arm etc when you're saying a joke or some shit
/r/seduction16/01/13 03:11 PM
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you're right, but I believe if you better yourself you start feeling good about yourself. Feeling good about yourself translates into confidence; for me anyway. great pic: http://i.imgur.com/1gb3a.jpg
/r/seduction13/01/13 02:24 AM
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it's more playful banter cockiness rather than 'im better than you' cockiness
/r/seduction12/01/13 02:51 AM
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honestly no reason why you shouldn't. should always aim to get that 10/10 body
/r/seduction12/01/13 12:19 AM
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what worked for me was going to the gym. as soon as i got noticeably bigger/leaner i guess i got cockier/more confident
/r/seduction12/01/13 12:10 AM
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