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| 7 | The Humiliation of Aziz AnsariPart of where he went wrong was sending that apology text. It's like pouring gasoline on a fire. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/18 06:05 PM |
| 3 | 'Trained' graffiti artist angry her giant penis graffiti got painted over; cops considering felony chargeIf she called it 'street art,' it would be different. Graffiti implies that it is done illicitly. There is plenty of great street art and a good fraction of it is illegal. The point isn't whether illicit street art is great or not or whether it's possible learn the techniques that graffiti artists use. It's that she wants permission for doing something illegal because she's trained in it. It's like getting caught climbing up a skyscraper and claiming that you are a 'trained' building climber. Wh… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/12/17 06:16 PM |
| 4 | 'Trained' graffiti artist angry her giant penis graffiti got painted over; cops considering felony chargeOh yeah I forgot she's a 'trained' graffiti artist. Gimme a break. You think people should be able to do whatever they want to other people's property as long as they call it graffiti? This woman's entitlement is off the charts. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/12/17 04:46 PM |
| 15 | 'Trained' graffiti artist angry her giant penis graffiti got painted over; cops considering felony chargeI have a bachelor's degree in vandalism. Stop oppressing me. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/12/17 02:55 PM |
| 7 | Feminism gets a bad rap because of twats like this ignorant cunt.declaring feminism as retarded disgraces the term They've done that to themselves. I used to identify as a feminist but no longer due to enough self-identified feminists being cunts. It's like saying, "I saw a faggot out in the woods." Yeah, faggot originally meant a pile of sticks, but people will assume you are homophobic if you use the word now. If I tell someone I am a feminist, they assume I think gender is a social construct and that masculinity is the root cause of all evil in the world. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/06/17 01:59 PM |
| 65 | Big Lady protesting death of thug who opened fire on police gets run over while attempting to block street!The driver could reasonably argue that he feared for his life and it was self-defense. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/06/17 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Girl asks why I want to go on a date with her?"Stop being so insecure. You really have no idea why a guy would like you?" | /r/askTRP | 20/05/17 08:09 PM |
| 9 | A Yale University dean has been placed on leave over offensive reviews she made on Yelp, including one in which she refers to customers of a local restaurant as 'white trash.'I don't think anyone should get fired for internet activities outside of work. It sets a bad precedent. While I disagree with what she said, there is already too much censorship at universities. It would be a different story if she were representing the college in some way, like tweeting things as a professor of the college. But these were Yelp reviews, which are semi-anonymous. Like I wouldn't be surprised if a university punished a professor for posting on this subreddit. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/05/17 05:24 AM |
| 4 | My girl hits me, and I don't know what to doMy advice to you is that next time she does that, tell her you don't like it and leave her alone for the evening. Walk out the door. Whenever a girl does something to violate my boundaries--says something or does something--the first thing I do is take away the prize: me. I take away my attention. If a girl disrespected me in anyway, I would walk out the door or simply stop talking with her. How long I stay away depends on the severity of the violation. If she did something minor that was disres… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/05/17 08:55 PM |
| 6 | New feminist commercial declares 'equal pay is no longer enough' since 'being a woman costs more'Yeah, I don't get that people here are outraged. It's obviously a parody. They are trying to be edgy to sell clothes, or whatever it is they're selling. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/04/17 07:19 PM |
| 1 | I didn't send her money or talk to her.....and she'll never know.....mwahahahaha!Pathologist Pathological | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/04/17 11:47 PM |
| 16 | Purse Spreading?Do you mean that you pass on sitting because you're too much of a pussy to ask her to move her bag so you can sit? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/04/17 08:49 PM |
| 47 | The look on her face just before he.....The look | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/04/17 09:44 AM |
| 40 | Girl tries to fight guy Pussy pass deniedSay what you want but there were no white knights and when the girl started getting hit, another girl held her back instead of getting pissed off at the guy. I'm lovin it. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 08/03/17 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Legally topless women. I believe pushing towards true equality is an MRA objective - but how long until heads explode.A man can claim sexual assault if a woman touches his chest against his will. Granted, a court may not impose as much of a penalty, but the court should. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/17 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Legally topless women. I believe pushing towards true equality is an MRA objective - but how long until heads explode.Women should be allowed topless anywhere a man is. Ogling has never been illegal, clothed or unclothed. If they made it illegal, I would fight it. Worrying about what could be made illegal is futile. There are a million things that could be made illegal. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/17 08:54 PM |
| 4 | It's all ok until the man hits the woman. The camera tilts away because it's to horrendous to watch....Granted, I was younger then This is my problem with your argument and part of the point of this whole sub: By giving women a pass, you're not helping them, you are infantilizing them. By taking away responsibility for their actions, you turn them into children. In my ideal situation after he cheats and she hits him is that she gets legally punished for battery, and she sues him for child support and they go their separate ways. Why on earth would she get custody of the child after assaulting him… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/02/17 10:53 PM |
| 8 | It's all ok until the man hits the woman. The camera tilts away because it's to horrendous to watch....So why isn't it 'understandable' that he punches her back? Maybe she treated him like shit during the relationship or cheated on him. You're sympathizing with her simply because she's a woman. I find it hard to believe you'd say it's understandable for a man to hit a woman if he found out she was cheating. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/02/17 09:55 PM |
| 19 | It's all ok until the man hits the woman. The camera tilts away because it's to horrendous to watch....She hit him out of emotion If this were the case, you could use 'emotion' as an excuse in any situation. Everyone gets emotional but it's no excuse to get violent. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/02/17 09:17 PM |
| 73 | Saw this at my school todayUnless those humans happen to be men. In that case their privilege makes them ineligible for advocacy. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/17 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Why Some of the Worst Attacks on Social Science Have Come From Liberals: Social science has become increasingly hostile towards men and outlooks favored by men, including conservatism (see the FAQ)Related article: The Real War on Science | /r/MensRights | 13/02/17 02:35 AM |
| 8 | World Journal of Clinical Pediatrics study finds evidence in favour of male infant circumcisionThis site rebuts Brian Morris's work. http://www.circumstitions.com/morris.html | /r/MensRights | 08/02/17 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Looking for hope and intellectual place on campus.You may want to name the group after you've gotten a few like-minded people together. That will help ensure that people who are participating are happy with the direction of the group. I've worked in activist circles before. One of the things they did was non-hierarchical consensus building. The way consensus works is that every member of the group needs to be in consensus when an action is taken. If one person blocks it, the group and/or action does not proceed. While on the face this seems unr… | /r/MensRights | 03/02/17 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Having a mental health illness and being male fucking sucksDon't know why you're getting downvoted. A lot of therapist are anti-medication, which is bullshit because meds can make a world of difference. I know people who have gone to therapists who were suicidally depressed and the therapists didn't recommend meds, which is a travesty. There's no reason to go through life dealing with unnecessary pain. There are people I know who were dealing with years of depression who are kicking themselves for not starting meds sooner. Even if meds aren't for you, i… | /r/MensRights | 02/02/17 07:04 PM |
| 6 | Looking for hope and intellectual place on campus.Trying to get a group to change is like herding cats. You'll waste a ton of time and energy and it won't work. If you're not happy with the group, start your own group with very specific goals and/or a charter. You can look around on other campuses for groups you do like and model your charter after theirs. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/17 09:49 PM |
| 87 | Feminist Teacher Meets Her Match...Some credit to the teacher. She didn't seem like a rabid feminist. She didn't exactly tell him he was wrong, she just challenged his ideas, which is what any good teacher should do on any topic a student presented. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 31/01/17 09:40 PM |
| 24 | Woman attacks man trying to get past protestors to get to workthe woman took a swing at the man first. So, mutual combat, no fault. If she took a swing first, she is at fault. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/01/17 12:56 PM |
| 1331 | Woman attacks man trying to get past protestors to get to workAt 3:04 the anarchist demands that the police arrest someone. At 3:40 the anarchist starts a chant, "This is what a police state looks like!" | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/01/17 12:17 AM |
| 53 | Girl tries to scam guy for free mealShe would have said, "I forgot my wallet!" Then he would have been on the hook for her meal. Fuck that. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/01/17 10:09 PM |
| 5 | argumentative essay on mens rightsim currently enrolled in a writing class in college | /r/MensRights | 09/01/17 08:14 PM |
| 2 | argumentative essay on mens rightsTo me, one interesting debate is innate versus cultural gender differences in behavior. Feminists tend to be extreme in claiming all behavior is socially constructed so they can create policy to try to change it. It also allows them to claim that all differences in gender representation are oppression. The best starting point for this is the chapter on Gender in Pinker's book The Blank Slate. Here's a PDF of the book. Look for the chapter on Gender. Also these articles: It's not sexist to accept… | /r/MensRights | 09/01/17 08:07 PM |
| 19 | Stop self-loathing!These types of posts make me think that either people have a very low threshold for whom they remain friends with on Facebook or it's fake. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/12/16 02:10 PM |
| 4 | Oklahoma Sooners running back Joe Mixon hitting Amelia Molitor.If you look at this as a black and white issue in terms of who escalated from verbal confrontation to physical confrontation, then she is clearly in the wrong. However, he initiated the confrontation. He hit on her in front of her boyfriend and child and called him a faggot. He acted physically aggressive back to her and used far more force in proportion to the force she used. He was never in physical danger and he acted like he knew he was never in physical danger. On the flip side, she acted l… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/12/16 06:29 PM |
| 4 | This woman is not ready to get arrested today. She tries to flee from the police officer and reverses her car, backing it up in to a tree. The cop eventually gets the door open but it doesn’t stop there. The lady makes one more futile attempt to get away but denied.Yup. He was letting her make a phone call after committing attempted vehicular manslaughter. If this were the US, the cops would have beat the fuck out of her in the car and they would been right to do so. When you start endangering the lives of those around you, you need to be neutralized. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/12/16 07:13 PM |
| 8 | Sweet sweet tears of sadness...start at 3:10Agreed. But it's not sexual assault. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/11/16 12:32 AM |
| 11 | Sweet sweet tears of sadness...start at 3:10When someone lets you touch them, it isn't sexual assault. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/11/16 11:54 PM |
| 18 | Sweet sweet tears of sadness...start at 3:10She's wrong. It wasn't sexual assault. He said, "And when you’re a star, they let you do it." Women let me touch their body all the time and I've never assaulted anyone. She needs to quit conflating this bullshit with real sexual assault. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/11/16 11:52 PM |
| 13 | "Campaign Against Sex Robots warns of danger to women and children." Any "danger" to men is, of course, totally irrelevant...Great point. They'd have to ban dildos too. At what point does a dildo become a sex robot? What if you mount your dildo onto a body pillow? At what point does a nude statue become a sex robot? Would it be illegal to touch the crotch a nonsex robot that you own? Would it be illegal to sell a robot that has boobs? | /r/MensRights | 25/11/16 07:20 PM |
| 19 | Feminist PHYSICALLY assaults a man while chanting "sexual assault is not ok" after raiding and stopping a men's event on dating and pickupI used to call myself a feminist until I started having discussions with feminists who tried to tell me that women and men are psychologically identical. They even tried to say that sexual attraction was a social construct. As if men want to fuck women because they were taught that growing up. Face palm | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/10/16 06:14 PM |
| 0 | Feminists love comparing men to poisoned M&Ms, but they're freaking out over thisThe latest attack was homegrown Islamic terrorism. But take a look at all the attacks in Europe, including sexual assaults. Almost all are migrants aka refugees. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/16 08:53 PM |
| 1 | How important is eye contact before the approach?We used to make plenty of eye contact It sounds like you missed the boat with this girl. If you are getting eye contact, you want to talk with her as soon as it is possible. Eye contact is not necessary before opening. If you don't have eye contact, it's just an extra step to get her attention before you open her. This could mean a tap on the arm or putting yourself into her field of vision or just loudly saying, "Hey." | /r/seduction | 13/09/16 06:40 PM |
| 9 | Crazy lady illegally parked in handicap spot is confronted by entitled SJW.I ADMIT I'M WRONG BUT I'M GOING TO KEEP ARGUING AS LOUD AS I CAN AND ACCUSE YOU OF BEING WRONG | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/09/16 08:48 PM |
| -25 | Hope Solo Suspended 6 months (finally) and Contract Cancelled.Meh. I don't think people should be suspended for saying stuff like this. She got a 6 month suspension for calling the opposing team 'cowards.' Who fucking cares? Everyone is so over-sensitive these days. Political correctness run amok. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/08/16 07:38 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid false rape accusations in College?Make sure you text her the day after sex. Just say something friendly to get a text back from her. It doesn't mean you'll never get charged with regret sex rape but it will lower the chances that she accuses you when she sees those messages. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/16 12:56 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid false rape accusations in College?Some women are looking to turn themselves into victims any way they can. I was recently seeing a woman. One time I was not in the mood to make out with her and I dodged her kiss like I was Neo in the matrix. Later she said that the way I pulled away was "violent." I ended the relationship then and there. You will definitely come across women who will put themselves into situations where they can accuse a man of rape. Like they'll get raging drunk, have sex and then question whether it was consen… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/16 12:54 AM |
| 48 | Feminist reboot of Ghostbusters is now officially a flopIt's because of sexism patriarchy racism xenophobia arachnophobia | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/07/16 01:42 AM |
| 7 | Dude Confronts His Cousin For Stealing His Mother’s MoneyShe was family. That's why he was whipping her like a child instead of knocking her out. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/07/16 07:07 PM |
| 14 | Girl learns why it is not okay to put her hands on someone ten times bigger than herDid she touch him first, though? What he said implied that she did but it was hard to tell from the video. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/07/16 10:14 PM |
| 0 | More details emerge about Michelle Carter, who sent her boyfriend Roy, who loved her, hundreds of text messages urging him to kill himself and pushing him to get back in a truck filled with deadly carbon monoxide and must now stand trialBetween two friends voluntarily engaging in conversation, psychological abuse is covered by free speech. He could have stopped talking with her at any time. Are you saying the police should have stepped in and arrested her for what she was saying to him? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/07/16 07:17 PM |
| 5 | More details emerge about Michelle Carter, who sent her boyfriend Roy, who loved her, hundreds of text messages urging him to kill himself and pushing him to get back in a truck filled with deadly carbon monoxide and must now stand trialAlright, you can't stop with the "I can't even" bullshit. My question is a matter of legal principles and free speech. While I would love for people who say "all men deserve to die" to rot in prison, their speech is still protected and should be. Once you take away their speech you can take away other's speech. I haven't excluded the possibility that I may be wrong on this issue. I think the discussion is worth having none-the-less because this could set a legal precedent, particularly where wom… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/07/16 07:08 PM |
| 2 | More details emerge about Michelle Carter, who sent her boyfriend Roy, who loved her, hundreds of text messages urging him to kill himself and pushing him to get back in a truck filled with deadly carbon monoxide and must now stand trialI feel like this also ties into the current hysteria with protecting people's feelings from anything hurtful, that if you simply offend someone with your words, you are guilty of a legal offense. In other words, being mean to people could become illegal. /u/sebwiers makes a good point about 'depraved-heart murder', so maybe that is a good place to draw the line. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/07/16 05:54 PM |
| 1 | More details emerge about Michelle Carter, who sent her boyfriend Roy, who loved her, hundreds of text messages urging him to kill himself and pushing him to get back in a truck filled with deadly carbon monoxide and must now stand trialNot to my knowledge. There is a good samartin law that protects you if you help someone else. But I don't think you are legally required to help someone. I may be wrong about that though. Another aspect to this is if a person wants to kill themselves, if they are chronically ill or in chronic pain, many would say that they have a right to do it. This is the debate on doctor-assisted suicide. Obviously if the person changes their mind they should not be urged to do it, but the point is that self-… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/07/16 03:41 PM |
| 3 | More details emerge about Michelle Carter, who sent her boyfriend Roy, who loved her, hundreds of text messages urging him to kill himself and pushing him to get back in a truck filled with deadly carbon monoxide and must now stand trialThis stupid bitch an rot in hell for all I care. BUT... I still maintain that what she did doesn't rise to the level of criminality. She's being charged for things she said to this guy. He willingly killed himself. What's the principle with which we are charging her with a crime for telling someone to do something? One could argue that conspiracy to commit a crime is enough to charge someone, even if that person doesn't participate in the crime. But suicide is not against the law in Massachusett… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/07/16 03:23 PM |
| 37 | German model fined 24,000 Euro for false rape accusationFrom the comments: it's a bit more complicated then the article suggest. a) She is an attention-seeking Z-class celebrity. b) She has self-published similar videos on her own, before the incident, to catch the public limelight. c) The entirety of the video (which is actually much longer before, 2H AFAIK and after the sexual incident strongly suggest her neither being drugged, nor non-consensual intercourse with full motoric control, awareness and no degree of passivity Of course the rest of the … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/07/16 05:56 PM |
| 9 | A letter to … my wife, who won’t get a job while I work myself to deathThat's rough, man. It's so fucked because if you divorced her, you'd be paying alimony out the ass. To be honest, if you did want to divorce her, your best bet may be to quit your job for a few months, depending on the divorce laws in your state. I'd lawyer up, though. Unless she's raising kids, there's no reason she should get to sit on her ass. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/16 08:14 PM |
| 3 | A letter to … my wife, who won’t get a job while I work myself to deathYeah, good point. If I could afford it, I may want my wife to stay home and take care of the kids, at least for the first 5-10 years. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/16 08:10 PM |
| 4 | A letter to … my wife, who won’t get a job while I work myself to deathAre you married to her? | /r/MensRights | 04/07/16 08:08 PM |
| 60 | A letter to … my wife, who won’t get a job while I work myself to deathThis was posted in TwoXChromosomes today. It started to get massive upvotes but was subsequently removed. Feminism is about equality for men, except when it is about equality for men. Can't have that. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/16 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Thousands of people are refuting the "wage gap" and disliking the new propaganda "pay gap" commercial of Bud Light with Seth Rogen and Amy SchumerHer latest season got ten times worse. It's all political and preachy. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/07/16 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Going a little "nice guy" AFTER you've slept with a girl is actually a great way to screen out crazyA shit test to me implies some type of emotional or irrational behavior on her part. Otherwise it would just be called a test. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/16 06:24 PM |
| 2 | This girl I'm seeing confessed to me tearfully that she wouldn't be able to handle me cheating on her. I communicate sparingly and try to maintain abundance mentality and passive dread. Do I take my foot off the gas a little bit or keep going as is?It sounds like you're doing the right things with her and she is genuinely starting to develop feelings for you, which is good. You may want to continue the rest of your game but lighten up on the Jealousy plotlines. Jealousy game should be used sparingly. A little goes a long way. Her seeing you casually interact with a girl every few weeks is usually enough to remind her that you are a hot catch and can meet women without her. For example, you could strike up a conversation with a couple at a … | /r/askTRP | 03/07/16 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Going a little "nice guy" AFTER you've slept with a girl is actually a great way to screen out crazybut the relationship can come down to her wanting to leverage you for stuff You can suss this out, though. You should be vigilant of her trying to leverage you and walk all over you anyway. What OP is talking about is something I do on a longer timeline when I'm considering turning a plate into an LTR. I give her some power and leverage and see how she responds. I see if she gets demanding and selfish. It's a reverse shit test of sorts. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/16 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Found this and thought I'd share with MRYou called it. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/16 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Found this and thought I'd share with MRI have been close friends with several women who have been physically raped and several men who have been divorce raped. So what? We shouldn't sacralize the word 'rape' as being the most awful thing in the world next to death, as if no man could possibly experience the pain that a woman could feel. Men get raped all the time as well and most of them would probably prefer that to having their children taken from them. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/16 05:03 AM |
| -2 | Found this and thought I'd share with MRIn many ways it is worse than rape. When a woman is raped, it is a horrific experience. It can cause PTSD and fuck up all her future relationships. When a man gets divorce-raped, he can lose a lifetime of capital he's built and lose custody of his children. On top of that, he can be indebted for years paying alimony and child custody. There are probably just as many or more men in this country who have been divorce raped and have it worse than women who have been raped. Yeah, rape is fucked up b… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/16 03:19 AM |
| 5 | Man Sues Gym over 'Women Only Hours'I recently joined a public rec center near me in Brooklyn. A bunch of hours are women only. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/07/16 08:38 PM |
| 24 | Found this and thought I'd share with MRThere are much more important men's rights issues than not getting a drink bought for you. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/16 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Sexual Eye Contact ExerciseMy intention in doing this exercise isn't really to get attention. Attention is great. It makes me feel good. But my main intention in doing this is to get in touch with my own sexuality and lose that feeling I get of 'freezing up' when a woman looks back at me. I'm trying to feel less shame in looking at them sexually. Most of the time I don't get attention back and that's fine with me. | /r/seduction | 01/07/16 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Sexual Eye Contact ExerciseTry not smiling. Don't try to appeal to her. Don't try to engage her. Treat her like a sex object, as un-PC as it is to say. If you were looking at her through a one-way mirror, would you smile? Probably not. | /r/seduction | 01/07/16 02:55 PM |
| 6 | Sexual Eye Contact ExerciseWho cares if I come off as creepy? The whole point of this is that I don't give a fuck if I do. | /r/seduction | 01/07/16 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Sexual Eye Contact ExerciseThanks | /r/seduction | 30/06/16 10:38 PM |
| 2 | We built voice modulation to mask gender in technical interviews. Here’s what happened.Interesting point but if the tranny aspect were the problem, the male-to-female "trannies" in this experiment would have problems also. More specifically, you could say that a female communication style in general tends to be less confident and thus the discrepancy. I could entertain an argument that women in STEM feel less confident than men in STEM overall (although there are plenty of socially retarded men in STEM and women tend to be better socially than men overall). However, let's just say… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/16 05:05 PM |
| 5 | Commenters on her Instagram deny the pussy pass to false rape accuser Emma Sulkowicz, the mattress girl, after she receives "Woman of courage" award from world's largest feminist organization, for her false rape accusations, her harassment of another students and her self-made terrible XXX movieThere are plenty of reasons why women falsely accuse men of rape. To name a few: They get caught cheating by their boyfriend/husband and want an out They don't say No and go with the sex even though they aren't totally comfortable with it. Then the next day reframe it as rape, even though there is no way a guy could have known. For attention and/or pity from friends or activist groups. This woman got national attention for playing the victim. It was the best thing that ever happened to her. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/06/16 01:07 PM |
| 45 | [X-post] "My BF broke up with me because I booked a week vacation with my EX in Amsterdam" or "How my BF held frame"Victimization ideology has infected all areas of culture. People who aren't allowed to identify as victims (whites, males, heteros, etc.) are scared to death of being labeled with shame words (racist, sexist, homophobe, abuser, etc.) In my youth I would buckle at the first moment a woman cried victim. I'm sure most men do. Women know this and many are keen on taking advantage it. Unfortunately men these days need to be very politically aware--or redpill aware--to counter these accusations. I'm d… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/16 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Pop culture messages: the good guy doesn't hit on women"Gain some confidence." That's the biggest sack of bullshit advice anyone has ever given anyone. You can't even define confidence nevermind tell someone how to "gain some confidence." Let me guess, your next piece of advice is, "Just be yourself." Stop trolling this sub if you don't understand basic concepts of gender dynamics. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/16 05:34 PM |
| 205 | [X-post] "My BF broke up with me because I booked a week vacation with my EX in Amsterdam" or "How my BF held frame"I was exclusively dating a girl for a while. We were out with friends and she started talking with one of my friends. I chimed in on the conversation and she pretty much ignored me. Later, she turned her attention back to me and tried to kiss me. I pulled away like I was Neo dodging a bullet in the matrix. Later, in the cab on the way home, she expressed her anger at how I reacted to her trying to kiss me. She said that the way I reacted was "violent." I ended things then and there. You can neve… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/16 05:27 PM |
| 1 | PPD to girl who scrawled her instagram handle on several different ancient rock formations. Banned from all National ParksThis is a true PPD because no guy would post public selfies next to their own vandalism thinking he could get away with it. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/06/16 06:39 PM |
| 2 | I'll try to kill my husbandThe cops fucked up by releasing the video: But her conviction was tossed out shortly after, when an appeals court ruled that the judge should have interviewed jurors one-on-one to see if they had seen the video of Dalia at the fake crime scene and may have been influenced by it. Why did they release the video? They probably just wanted upvotes on r/ppd | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/06/16 12:12 PM |
| 21 | Privileged Feminists STUNNED by Empirical Evidence - Mike Buchanan MRA London Live TVWoman says, "Diversity makes business sense." Offers no proof. Guy offers proof of the opposite. Woman argues that proof isn't proof. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/06/16 02:51 PM |
| 1 | If muslim women are cheating even under the threat of death, how much do you think western women are cheating?This comment contradicts what you said in your previous comment that women refuse to have sex until marriage. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Why you shouldn't lean on her with your problems, even though the world is telling you toHow does this conflict with what I wrote? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/16 03:55 PM |
| 6 | Why you shouldn't lean on her with your problems, even though the world is telling you toFor the most part, it's okay to be there for her. I had an ex/plate who was diagnosed with a lump in her breast and was upset about it. I offered to go to the doctor with her, etc. The problem comes in if she starts to lean on you a lot and you become her emotional tampon. You're not her therapist. You're not there to solve her problems. You're not there to give her validation when she craves it. You don't want to give in to her irrationality and temper tantrums. In a lot of ways, the parent-chi… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/16 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Why you shouldn't lean on her with your problems, even though the world is telling you toMy therapist is actually blue pill but that doesn't bother me that much. That's because I'm not really there to get relationship advice from her and she's good about not giving advice. I'm there to get clarity about how I feel. Once in a while she gets blue pillish on me and we butt heads a bit but she is good at backing off and not being judgmental. If I want relationship advice, I talk to my red pill friends. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/16 02:06 AM |
| 6 | Why you shouldn't lean on her with your problems, even though the world is telling you toJesus, that pic is heartbreaking. Let there never be any question that we're doing the lord's work here. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/16 01:53 AM |
| 30 | Why you shouldn't lean on her with your problems, even though the world is telling you toWe should differentiate between explicit and implicit communication. I can tell her, "I don't need you." That is explicit. You communicate implicitly through your actions. By not acting needy, you are communicating to her, "I don't need you," without actually having to say it. That is always more powerful than explicitly communicating with her. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 07:46 PM |
| 41 | Why you shouldn't lean on her with your problems, even though the world is telling you tothey stopped by for 10 minutes and bailed. She was doing what you couldn't do. I recently injured my back. My first instinct now is to push her away while I heal. If I'm so fucked up that I can't get out of bed, I'll tell her I can't hang out. If she begs me to hang out, I'll let her come over. At that point, she'll give me back massages, etc. But the key is that I'm not asking her for help. I'm not complaining to her. I'm saying, "Let me make this better on my own." Since she's in love with me,… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Why you shouldn't lean on her with your problems, even though the world is telling you toBecause speaking with a sense of power, like you would to a child, makes you feel more powerful than leaning on her and helps you in the end. That's why. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 06:04 PM |
| 9 | Why you shouldn't lean on her with your problems, even though the world is telling you toDid you read my post? That's exactly what I was saying. Don't lean on her. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 04:35 PM |
| 25 | UK University equality lectures bans straight, white menEveryone here who is saying, "Just tell them you're gay or Jewish," is missing the point. The point isn't to be able to get into a shitty self-righteous social justice lecture. The point is that discrimination against a certain class of people is allowed and even celebrated. If anything, there should be protest and even civil disobedience. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/16 04:29 PM |
| 22 | Not your usual PPD, A Man running a session on dating advice for women gets asked "During the dating period, like after 4-5 months of dating... at what point does a women have to start paying when they go out?"His answer was good. If I make a ton more money than this girl, I may end up paying a bit more than her. But if we make close to the same, then fuck that. This girl better offer to pay half the time. If not, she's a self-entitled cunt and I would kick her out on her ass. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/06/16 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Can a man base major life decisions around a valuable girl and keep it RP?Because of life induced logistics If she is going away because of an elective decision she made, like to go to school somewhere else, that is different than if she is going away to take care of a sick parent. If she's made a decision that puts you below her own personal gain, then I would not remain exclusive with her. For this to work in the future, one or both of us will have to end up moving somewhere we might not have gone under natural circumstances Under most circumstances, you want her to… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 10:39 AM |
| 7 | 'I want to be a voice for the voiceless': Sister Frances Dominica OBE is calling for the law to be changed to allow those accused of sexual abuse to have anonymity ‘until and if you are convicted’.For example, the government could say 20 people were raped in Central Park this last weekend. How would you know if this were true? How would you check? Most defendants would not voluntarily reveal themselves and neither would the victims. If they kept the identities of those involved secret, they would need to keep other things secret as well--their race, whether they were illegal aliens, etc. The press would have less information and would instead need to rely on the word of government officia… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/16 01:56 AM |
| 3 | 'I want to be a voice for the voiceless': Sister Frances Dominica OBE is calling for the law to be changed to allow those accused of sexual abuse to have anonymity ‘until and if you are convicted’.As I mentioned in another thread, this could lead to secret trials by the government. That's a huge black hole of unchecked power for the government. Things are fucked up as they are, but I don't think enforced secrecy is the solution. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/16 12:18 AM |
| 32 | 'I want to be a voice for the voiceless': Sister Frances Dominica OBE is calling for the law to be changed to allow those accused of sexual abuse to have anonymity ‘until and if you are convicted’.Both victims and accusers should have anonymity or neither should. The problem with both having anonymity is that it could lead to secret trials by the government. That leads to tyranny. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/16 12:16 AM |
| 135 | 30 year old Megan Fox shames Will Arnett for dating young womenNot surprised in the least. For hot women things just "happen" for them. Or at least that's what it feels like to them. In reality, it's guys who are attracted to them who are making things happen. But to her it feels like the "universe" just wanted them to come together. Or the universe just wanted her to get that dream job when in reality she was hired because she was hot. This happens enough times to them that they start to believe bullshit like astrology. Plus no one ever calls them on their… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/16 02:45 AM |
| 7 | Johnny Depp's now ex-wife Amber Heard was arrested for domestic violence in 2009It was all for show. Gadafi could bang as many chicks as he wanted. He didn't need to make them bodyguards. Look at the position he was in. Also, women make shitty bodyguards. The average woman has 50% less upper body strength than men. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/16 08:51 PM |
| 3 | I get to deny the pussy pass on a weekly bases!Wow. The U.S. is fucked up in a lot of ways, but our founding fathers were brilliant, giving us innocent until proven guilty and the ability to plead the fifth (not have to testify if you are accused). | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/06/16 10:17 PM |
| 11 | I get to deny the pussy pass on a weekly bases!I believe in innocent until proven guilty. If not, after consensual sex, literally anyone could accuse anyone of rape and send them to jail. In fact, this is the problem now that we are seeing with 'regret rape,' where a woman accuses a man of rape because she regrets it or because her boyfriend might find out she cheated on him. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/06/16 09:07 PM |
| 6 | I get to deny the pussy pass on a weekly bases!Wow, he would have gone to jail even if it were his word against hers? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/06/16 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Lady drags police officer with car...sobs when artested.meth Bingo. Stuff = meth. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/06/16 06:24 PM |
| 3 | The anti-Milo protests at UCLA are a perfect example of why we need organized "street level" groups.There were cops UCLA. What do you think MRAs could do that the cops can't? At the DePaul event, security was negligent. But would getting physical with the protestors have helped the situation? I would have loved watching it happen but then MRAs would end up looking like thugs. We'd get arrested, etc. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/16 11:41 PM |
| 24 | Turns out that no, you can't assault the police and get away with itIt looked like she might have tried to grab his clipboard. But it doesn't matter. Either way, you can't grab at a police officer like that. It is definitely assault from a legal standpoint. Officers are armed and a person could grab for their gun. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/06/16 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Maintenance Talk with the Wife- some things observed as regards to "staying on message"Her seeing you cut other people out of your life helps, but it's not the same. It's like the spoiled kid seeing you discipline her sisters but do nothing when she steps out of line. Your presence, validation and attention is a gift to her. She stops getting gifts when she misbehaves. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/06/16 08:25 PM |
| 0 | The state of MRA today: 13 year old bangs his smokin' hot teacher, Meninists are crying "rape victim"Physical maturity is not the same as mental maturity. Idiot teenagers prove that in spades. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/16 07:20 PM |
| 8 | The state of MRA today: 13 year old bangs his smokin' hot teacher, Meninists are crying "rape victim"There are probably 13 year old girls who have slept with their teacher and enjoyed it as well. But whether or not this kid enjoyed it is not the point. An adult sleeping with a 13 year old is predatory, particularly if the adult is in a position of power, like a teacher. Kids that age do not have the faculties to make decisions like that. Is this kind of thing likely to damage a girl more than a boy? Probably. But he is still in a coercive position. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/16 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Pop culture messages: the good guy doesn't hit on womenNo necessarily. Sometimes 'No' means 'Not yet.' If you go for a kiss and she says no, it's okay to try again at some point in the future. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/16 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Pop culture messages: the good guy doesn't hit on womenWrong because no matter how high your SMV, you still need game. No matter how high your SMV, you are still dealing with shit tests from women. There are plenty of successful, attractive men who get tooled by women. This is because when your SMV is higher, you are dealing with women who have high SMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/16 06:24 PM |
| 5 | Pop culture messages: the good guy doesn't hit on womenIt can work for guys who aren't afraid to be sexual around women. But women can tell when you are afraid to be sexual. No sexual conversation. No touching. Acting overly nice and inhibited. For inexperienced guys, following this advice lands them square in the friend zone. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/16 12:05 PM |
| 6 | You are enoughIf you go out attempting to get it before you are qualified, you will only endure more despair. Before you're qualified? You think you are going to reach some magical level where all of a sudden hot women want you? This statement is just another form of approach anxiety, a reason to not overcome your fear of going out and actually talking with women. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/16 02:57 PM |
| 2 | When you just tryna get some stamps but they wanna beat her assWhat the fuck did I just watch? It's one woman beating the shit out of another with no context. Nobody steps in to stop it, not even the security guard. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/05/16 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Sheryl Sandberg, Facebook COO appears to have wholly bought in to feminist pseudo-statistics, making the extraordinary claim that 95 percent of domestic violence victims are female.Thanks for posting this. I haven't read that book but I don't disagree with any of these except maybe the sexism one. Even so, disagreement is okay. You don't have to dismiss him just because you disagree with something he said, in my opinion. Then again, I guess it depends on how bad it is. His book, the blank slate, was fantastic, particularly the chapter on gender. It is by far the best takedown of the nature deniers I've ever read. There's a pdf of it online if you want to read it. Google bl… | /r/MensRights | 18/05/16 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Male Privilege. An infographic I made for my school paper.Five what? | /r/MensRights | 16/05/16 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Male Privilege. An infographic I made for my school paper.Obviously I haven't talk to every feminist but I've talked to enough that they usually believe the 100% social construct bullshit. If you check out Standford's Encyclopedia of Feminist Philosophy, you find that they push this idea 100%. No prominent feminist they quote disagrees with it. This is insane. I'm all about hearing arguments about what is more nature versus nurture, but to say that it is 100% nurture is insane. I have met self-identified feminists who don't subscribe to it, but they ar… | /r/MensRights | 16/05/16 08:24 PM |
| 0 | Does working out really help you get girls?Yeah, I could see a Zyzz type body being attractive to women. But that's what I'm saying, he's not huge. Bigger isn't better. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/16 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Does working out really help you get girls?I disagree with the general TRP consensus that bigger is better when it comes to attracting women. I think most women would prefer a male model type body than a bodybuilder body. However, if you are too thin, have bad posture, are small, or are out of shape, getting into shape will make a world of difference. It will also help your self-confidence. Most alphas you meet don't look like bodybuilders anyway. If you really want to attract women, you should learn game. Nothing else will change your s… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/16 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Male Privilege. An infographic I made for my school paper.I have sat down and talked with feminists. In many ways I do identify as a feminist or at least used to. I did a lot of activism in college. That was 20 years ago. What I found was that more and more people who identified as feminists pushed a radical feminism. They deny any inherent behavioral differences between men and women, i.e. blank slate theory. They profess that all behavior, including sexual attraction are social constructs. If you look at any prominent feminist thought, critique, etc.… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/16 07:38 PM |
| 4 | "Are you seeing anyone else?"You want to avoid telling her directly, "Yes, I'm seeing someone else." If you've been seeing her for a while and have no intention of taking things to the next level, a clear Yes is like a recording in her mind. She can no longer deny to herself that you are seeing other people. Her friends will ask if you're seeing other people and she'll have to say yes. Instead, I would recommend one of two things: joke it off or answer her like this: "I'm not ready to be exclusive, if that's what you're ask… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 08:45 PM |
| 1 | A danger of being a "PUA", on the otherside....a health and safety warningThe same could be said if you are really good looking or wealthy. Is it me or my looks/wealth? I don't disagree with you about the perils of gaming. It can become vapid. You chase that validation high of making conquests. It's impossible to not notice the outcome of your actions and start focusing on it rather than staying internally validated. But how do you stay internally validated? Become a monk. Live an ascetic life up on a mountain. But that's not really living. Use pickup to get you what … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/16 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Feminist cyberbully Amy Schumer is inciting her feminist fans to harass a black man who took a picture of her. Amy's fans are sending him death threats.I liked her before. The first few seasons were not too political and were pretty funny. The latest season is pretty much just a preachy SJW commercial. It's unwatchable. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/16 05:54 PM |
| 5 | N.Y. students accused of making up hate crime @CNNThe classic CSPD. Doesn't have quite the same ring to it as PPD. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/05/16 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Bring a Gun to a Knife FightYou reach it by developing your frame to the point that you simply transcend her frame. Awesome Improve yourself until you are a man of such quality that the petty bullshit that's weighing you down now isn't just "solved," it's totally irrelevant. Wait, what? Winning the fight is not about improving yourself. It's about having zero tolerance for bullshit. In one word: dread game. If you display that you're willing to walk away from her early on, and occasionally show her that again, then you are… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/05/16 12:17 PM |
| 3 | The documentary that made Norwegians cut all funding to its gender studies instituteAt least he's consistent. In the US, feminists will insist there is no inherent difference between male and female brains and at the same time hold that homosexuality is genetic. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/16 04:54 AM |
| 1 | My school had a student presentation to prove the objectification of women in the entirety of the workplace by looking at TWO restaurants: Hooters and the Tilted Kilt.They believe that the evolutionary act of wanting something sexually is morally wrong. If you are a man or do it in a masculine way. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/16 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Woman Swears ‘I Wasn’t Raped,’ University Kicks Out Male Student Anywayimperical The word is empirical, not imperical. You're welcome. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/16 11:46 AM |
| 31 | Wife tries to charge husband by pretending to be 17 yr old girl on Facebook, husband figured it out when he got the friend request.Great fucking article. Reads like a novel. The author should be commended. But the story is amazing. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 21/04/16 12:40 AM |
| 28 | Woman Swears ‘I Wasn’t Raped,’ University Kicks Out Male Student AnywayI call bullshit on this. The friend didn't 'surmise' the woman had been raped. The woman told her friend that she was raped. Here's more proof: “I hope you know I don’t think you did any of that, right? I may be acting like the typical girl who just got raped, but I hope you know I don’t think I did,” the woman said. Why else would she say she's 'acting' like the typical girl that had been raped? | /r/MensRights | 20/04/16 07:27 PM |
| 32 | "Rape is only rape for women then..." "Basically" (x-post/r/cringepics)Had something similar happen to me. I was dating this girl who was a little all over me too much. We would ride the subway train and she would be trying to touch me and kiss on me. Fine for some people but I'm just not into PDA. So we're on the train and she tries to touch me. I say, "Not right now." She says, "Oh, c'mon. Don't be like that," and tries to touch me again. I physically push her hand away this time and repeat myself, "Not now. No means no." It's funny but she would try to get me to… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/04/16 05:52 PM |
| 6 | Teenage girl gets tackled by cop trying to leave during an investigation (happens around 8:20)Even racists know to take advantage of feminist entitlement. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/04/16 06:47 AM |
| -2 | Michelle Carter Case: Teen Who Texted Boyfriend to Kill Himself Faces Mass. CourtI agree. If I reply to your comment telling you to go kill yourself, and you kill yourself tonight, does that make me a murderer? | /r/MensRights | 09/04/16 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Remember: A Woman Will Have Sex With A Man She Doesn't Love, But She'll Never Love A Man She's Not Having Sex WithTelling a woman you've been on a lot of dates with women who waste your time is not dread game. It's the opposite. It is a demonstration of low SMV that women treat you that way. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/16 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Remember: A Woman Will Have Sex With A Man She Doesn't Love, But She'll Never Love A Man She's Not Having Sex WithI get your point by why argue with a woman who says she doesn't want to have sex with you? You can't convince a woman to be attracted to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/16 12:43 PM |
| 105 | Gender Equality in the USMCGod forbid she get hit with a foam pad a few more times. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/03/16 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Western women are garbage. Can we have a discussion about where to find better ones?If you don't care about custody, then yeah. But what's the point in that? If I want to have kids it is so I can have them in my life. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/16 02:33 PM |
| 7 | Western women are garbage. Can we have a discussion about where to find better ones?Getting married and having kids with a foreign woman carries its own inherent risk. No matter how good the custody laws are in their country, you still run the risk of them leaving the U.S. with your kid, legally or not. Then you have an international legal fight on your hands instead of just a domestic one. There are things you can do to ensure that she doesn't leave, like make her renounce her citizenship to her mother country, but you are still dealing with a different set of risks. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 03:06 PM |
| 16 | Question/Guidance. Talked about marriage first time (dating 3 years), Gf been acting out in self destruction. Am I ready to propose or is this going to be a disaster?You're asking if there are any major red flags here. There are about ten of them. covert contracts What are covert contracts? Recently the topic of marriage came up and getting engaged. C'mon, dude. It was brought up? You brought it up. Within the last few weeks since then, Gf has been acting out. That would be an understatement. She left me stranded at a bar Major red flag number one. she locked me out in the freezing cold and was drunk enough she slept through me calling her (she apologized pr… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/03/16 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Responding to a proposed change of venue without losing frameYour assessment is correct. To me it is the same as if she cancels at the last minute and wants to reschedule. You've lost too much leverage. If you want to move forward, you need to fuck with her in some way. If she says she wants a venue you near her, you could say something like, "It depends, are you going to wear jeans or a skirt?" That way it looks like you are being choosy as well. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/16 09:25 PM |
| 8 | JJ Abrams' Bad Robot introduces diversity quota | Film | The GuardianThe problem with quotas is that the number of people from that group may not equal the number of people interested in that type of work. For example, people complain that there aren't enough women in STEM fields. But if you look at college enrollment, women simply aren't as interested in STEM fields as men are. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/16 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Any experience with marrying a foreign woman?Ha. I didn't say, "Get the fuck out!" all angry. I just stopped all conversation and told her I need some time to think about things. Told her she had to leave. It wasn't in 18 hours either. A week earlier she brought up the whole idea of how I would feel spending six months there, six months here, etc. That was a red flag. Then when she started arguing about why there was just as much reason for me to move there as there was for her to move here, I realized she didn't want to live in the US asi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/03/16 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Any experience with marrying a foreign woman?Ha. Best answer yet. You are absolutely right. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/03/16 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Any experience with marrying a foreign woman?Thanks for your input. That is helpful. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/03/16 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Any experience with marrying a foreign woman?Agreed. The fact that she is even pushing for that at this point is a red flag, either about her or about what she really things of me. You need to get control of your frame and have her live in it. If you can't do that, quit now while you are ahead. Agreed. I immediately shut down the conversation after that and kicked her out of my apartment, telling her that I need to think about things. I can dead-air her for as long as it takes. But the fact that she would even push for that at this point i… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/03/16 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Any experience with marrying a foreign woman?Great advice. Say no and see what happens. Back when I was dating my wife, she wanted me to move across the country for her degree and asked me to come. I was making money where I was, happy and content. I said no. She then demanded we have a long distance relationship. I said no to that too. Eventually she decided to stay and go to school in my town. It was one of the best things I could have ever done for my marriage. Wow, that's awesome. That's exactly as it should be. If you had compromised … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/03/16 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Any experience with marrying a foreign woman?If she's not gold or opportunity digging with USA residency as a prize, she might be a keeper, as she's willing to add value and offer a compromise. That's a good point. I'm not afraid of adventure, but it needs to be adventure on my terms, no? If I do it because she's not willing to compromise then I become the chump. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/03/16 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Any experience with marrying a foreign woman?This is exactly my concern. Whether or not it works out, I'm the one uprooting my life for her. No matter how you slice it, I'm now chasing her. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/03/16 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Any experience with marrying a foreign woman?Did the men who married foreign women move to their spouse's country or did their spouse move the men's country? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/03/16 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Any experience with marrying a foreign woman?What is holding you in the US? My job, my family (parents and sister's family, whom I don't see quite as often as she sees hers), a circle of close friends. Basically a life I've built here. Then do a cost/benefit analysis of you moving there vs her moving to the US. You're basically saying that I could find that her life in New Zealand is more important than my life here, and uproot my life to go live with her. How is that not beta? How is compromising my entire life here for a woman in any way… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/03/16 09:42 PM |
| 1 | How do I stay in the friend-with-benefits zone? I don't want a relationship with anybody.Like six months or so before it gets old for them. | /r/seduction | 22/02/16 03:39 AM |
| 3 | Girl I'm gaming tells me she was raped out of nowhere. What is the proper response?Yup. You could probably proceed just by saying this and changing the topic. But any girl who will tell a random dude she just met that her last boyfriend raped her is a ticking time bomb of attention whoring. Don't stick your dick in crazy. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/16 06:15 PM |
| 3 | The UN Sent 3 Foreign Women To The U.S. To Assess Gender Equality. They Were Horrified.The women's other recommendations for the U.S. include passing campaign finance reform that would allow more women to be elected into office, because the networks that raise money for political candidates are mostly dominated by men. http://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2016/us/elections/election-2016-campaign-money-race.html Oh yeah, I forgot. Because Hillary got more money than any man, that's a victory for Feminism. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/16 02:04 AM |
| 6 | This tho.I need some muscle over here! | /r/MensRights | 17/02/16 11:24 PM |
| 4 | This tho.This is a textbook example of the No True Scotsman fallacy. | /r/MensRights | 17/02/16 11:21 PM |
| 2 | The feminist case for naming names in sexual assault cases :Katie GlassAdditionally, if person A falsely accuses person B of rape, other people with a personal vendetta against person B may see the trial and accuse person B of rape as well. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/16 01:52 PM |
| 3 | The feminist case for naming names in sexual assault cases :Katie GlassI don't disagree with this. She's saying that people who accuse others of sexual assault should not have a right to anonymity either. I'm fine with it either away. Either accused and accuser have anonymity or both don't. The problem with anonymity is that it can lead to secret trials, etc. I'm against government secrecy because it can lead to major problems. So I tend to side with no one having anonymity. But either way we need to be consistent. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/16 01:09 AM |
| 2 | New bill requires men to get permission from their wives before buying ViagraIt's in response to a bill that requires women to get pre-abortion counseling. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/16 01:05 AM |
| 10 | I am an egalitarian and of course a "feminist", however, I am trying to find the line between actual female oppression from over/mis-generalized female oppression and wonder if you can help me find it?It sounds like you are an equity feminist as opposed to a gender feminist. Equity feminists believe in equal opportunities for women. Gender feminists believe that there is no inherent psychological differences between men and women and all that other bullshit that has been disproven by science. On this topic, try reading the chapter on gender in Stephen Pinker's book The Blank Slate. not have to feel guilty about being the sex I am This is why I no longer call myself a feminist. It seems much o… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/16 10:52 PM |
| 6 | I became permanently disabled 4 years ago. My wife of 6 years says she is filing for divorce.Yup. Women are like this. No use in getting angry at the bear when it acts like a bear. She lost attraction for you because of what you are and what you have become. Accept it. Divorce her and fight to get custody, money, and anything else you can get. But don't be angry at the bear for acting like a bear. Learn to deal with it. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 08:52 PM |
| 1 | How do I stay in the friend-with-benefits zone? I don't want a relationship with anybody.Talk. Watch movies. Fuck. | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 01:39 PM |
| 20 | How do I stay in the friend-with-benefits zone? I don't want a relationship with anybody.I would go even further. If you truly want to keep it casual, don't have a set schedule. Don't give her any expectations of when you will see her, when you will call/text, etc. Make sure it's less than once a week but don't do it every week. | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 07:31 PM |
| 8 | Wanted in China: More Male Teachers, to Make Boys MenCoincidentally, I saw this on the New York City subway train yesterday. The top line reads, "Join NYC Men Teach." This is the link: nyc.gov/menteach. Of course, it's in the name of 'diversity.' | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/16 05:22 PM |
| 9 | Never stick your dick in crazy.Also, there was a recording where Vavrinyuk said she hit Varlamov first. Thanks, Yahoo new, for throwing in that minor detail toward the end of the article. The article reads as if a jury listened to all the evidence and just decided that it was her fault. Nope. It almost always takes video or audio evidence to prove the man is the victim where as a woman is believed off the bat. Whenever there is a domestic altercation, the guy is automatically guilty as an abuser and the woman is a victim unti… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/02/16 06:16 PM |
| 59 | Woman gets complemented, complains on facebook, goes viral.We should enact some type of legislation where a man can only talk with a woman if she decides she's attracted to him. Since the predatory nature of men can make it difficult for a woman to understand her own feelings, she's allowed a few days to think about whether she was attracted to him. If she wasn't, he can be brought up on charges. It's the only way we can prevent men from acting out their predatory natures (taught to them by patriarchal society.) If convicted, the man gets sent to a re-e… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/16 07:22 PM |
| 3 | How can you all possibly think there is a so called "PussyPass" when men have so many more rights and privileges than women?Ha. Alright, so you are trolling. Well played. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 31/01/16 05:02 PM |
| 17 | How can you all possibly think there is a so called "PussyPass" when men have so many more rights and privileges than women?If a woman was about to stab my baby I would question what I had done to provoke her to such an extreme extent and apologise profusely for my wrongdoings. Are you saying that women should not be punished for committing crimes? Only biased male economists spout the continuing patriarchal no sense that women earn more. Here is a female economist debunking that. Here is another. on college campuses and that 1 in 5 women have been sexually assaulted. Here is a female debunking that figure. Here is a… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/01/16 10:09 PM |
| 10 | How can you all possibly think there is a so called "PussyPass" when men have so many more rights and privileges than women?Pretty sure this is a dude. men are the original provokers because we are paid | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/01/16 10:11 PM |
| 168 | How can you all possibly think there is a so called "PussyPass" when men have so many more rights and privileges than women?All I know is that I was raised as a gentleman and would never hit a women regardless of whether I was provoked So if a woman were about to stab your baby, you wouldn't hit her? we are paid a dollar for every 47 cents that women are paid You have NO IDEA what you're talking about. People try to say that women are paid 77 cents on the dollar for every man, not 47 cents. And that has been debunked. For the same job, women in their 20's actually earn more than men. by having women biased against so… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/01/16 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Stop a Douchebag pass denied part starts at 5:50So... what happened to the woman? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/01/16 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Opening doors goes too far?she demands Whenever a woman instructs me to do something, I never, ever do it, no matter what it is. Forget whether or not to be chivalrous, there is nothing that turns off a woman more than a man who allows her to boss him around. Many of the women I've dated have been corporate managers, etc. At some point, they will always try to bring their bossiness into our relationship. I throw that shit back in her face hard. If she asks me nicely, I'll consider doing it. But if she makes demands, she d… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 07:50 PM |
| 13 | Man catches wife cheating with friend. Videos for evidence.In states with no-fault divorce, this is always the case. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 02:20 AM |
| 90 | Guy gets taunted in public... wait for it.Am I smokin or am I the only one that noticed something different going on? It looked like the guy who eventually smacked the girl, had a laptop(?) in his bag that was stolen and he was trying to find where it went. He lost something. He was looking underneath the seats. Did he think she took it? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/01/16 06:13 AM |
| 3 | Obnoxious Jezebel blogger shames tattoo artist for not giving her a neck tattoo, artist respondsDon't tell me I can't force you to do your artwork on my neck!!! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/01/16 08:35 PM |
| 30 | Unruly female pushed into the sewerSeems like she could have been injured pretty badly doing that to her. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/01/16 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Father dropped some serious Redpill truth tonightThis wasn't a shit test. Not every incidence of bad behavior is a shit test. This was overt disrespect. She wasn't feeling him out, she was throwing a tantrum. A woman does something like this to a man after he has failed numerous shit tests and let her get away with smaller bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/15 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Father dropped some serious Redpill truth tonightThe length of time dating has nothing to do with it. If a girl does something like that, it reflects on how much she respects him. If she disrespects him after a month it is almost worse. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/15 10:08 PM |
| 1 | RedpillA girl once found my blog about seduction and meeting women and she freaked out on me. "Why do you play games?" she said. "I don't play games. This is for real," I told her. You need to understand dread 'game' in order to understand that it is not a game. When you pull away from her or shut her out, you're not playing a game in order to get her back. If done right, you will actually walk away from her. She will lose you. And you are showing her that. We call this game but it's not pretend. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/15 04:42 PM |
| 1 | "The Silhouette Constant"Yup. Men will spend months/years trying to fix a bad first impression. He could go out and meet a new woman and in literally 60 seconds be in a better position than he was with his old woman. Another part of this is not just how the woman views him, but how he feels the woman views him. If she has gotten away with treating him like shit, she not only views him as a beta, but he views himself as a beta around her and tends to act more like a beta because of the reality he has built. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 08:30 PM |
| 16 | The Cosby Show - continuedJohnson insisted that her memory was blurry after she sipped on a cappuccino that Cosby offered her. Your memory is blurry because it happened years ago. That's what happens to memories. This bitch couldn't even remember that Mrs. Cosby was there. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Dating your friends? What are some healthy ways to express your interest?This is the problem right here with having feelings for your friend. The risks are too great. While logically you may be willing to walk away from her as a friend, emotionally you are already too invested so it becomes harder and harder to make the move. You don't want to risk the friendship. | /r/seduction | 16/12/15 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Dating your friends? What are some healthy ways to express your interest?Alcohol. I don't normally recommend this for everyday situations, but with a coworker or friend, if the two of you are a little drunk, it helps when alcohol it involved. If for some reason it doesn't work out, both of you can say, "Wow, what happened last night? We were soooo drunk!" Rather than tell her your feelings/intentions, make the move. See if you can get her alone. If you can't even get her alone, chances are that she's not interested. But if you can get her alone, you can make the move… | /r/seduction | 15/12/15 11:59 PM |
| 1 | I support most ideas of the Red Pill but I cannot get behind the submission of women. It seems to be quite awful to lump one group of people into one group and then decide what is right to be done to them. I like the ideas that involvw stoicism but the idea of non-egalitarianism irks me.Do you really believe it should be used as a means for men to take out their aggression on a 'slave'? If two consenting adults are into it, who are you to judge? Have you ever put your hand to a woman's throat during sex? Try it some time. Don't really choke her, just put your hands on her collar bone so it looks like she's being choked. When I do this, 9 out of 10 women are into it. They pull my hand closer and make me do it even more. The women that aren't tell me to stop. No harm. Being domin… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 04:12 PM |
| 1 | I support most ideas of the Red Pill but I cannot get behind the submission of women. It seems to be quite awful to lump one group of people into one group and then decide what is right to be done to them. I like the ideas that involvw stoicism but the idea of non-egalitarianism irks me.You believe love making should be missionary-style only, rocking gently back and forth, staring into each others' eyes? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 08:39 PM |
| 2 | I support most ideas of the Red Pill but I cannot get behind the submission of women. It seems to be quite awful to lump one group of people into one group and then decide what is right to be done to them. I like the ideas that involvw stoicism but the idea of non-egalitarianism irks me.It's not that all women should be submissive to all men or even that a woman should always act submissive when in a relationship with a man. The idea is that women are sexually attracted to dominant men. Women are turned on when men are dominant around them and when men are dominant around other men. As much as no one likes to admit it, every relationship has components of power. Men act nice in order to not impose power on women but this generally turns women off. Women get turned on when men a… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 06:07 PM |
| 3 | ELI5 TRP.. I am not really intelligent..At the heart of TRP is the idea that men and women have different and somewhat predictable inherent psychological tendencies. While more naive people (e.g. blue-pillers) like to think that everyone is born psychologically identical (blank slate), women are born with different tendencies than men. All people are born with and try to optimize to find the best possible partner. This includes women in relationships. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 05:57 PM |
| 9 | Girl rugby player thinks she can take down college linebackerIt's called a spear tackle and it's illegal in football when done with your head. It can also cause spinal injury to the tackler. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 08/12/15 12:01 AM |
| 22 | The Tyranny of BiomechanicsThe simple hard-coded fact of nature is that the form of a semi-nude woman, by order of degree, stimulates the area of the male brain associated with tool use and thereby objectification. Whenever I hear the word 'objectification,' an alarm bell goes off in my head. From a feminist perspective, objectification is the idea that men are treating women like objects when they are only attracted to women for their physicality. Yet it's been proven in countless studies that sexual attraction for men i… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 10:53 PM |
| 35 | Little piece of advice if a girl isn't interestedThis cuts both ways. If a girl you've known for a while explicitly puts you in friend zone, you should stop investing in her. However, many guys will give up in an interaction with a woman at the first sign of disinterest. And if a guy has any kind of social anxiety, he is much more likely to over-read signals of rejection from a woman. If she's not constantly smiling at him and acting like she would suck his dick at any moment, he assumes she's not interested. Women are masters at hiding their … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 10:10 PM |
| 445 | Bodycam Footage Exonerates an Officer Accused of Groping a Woman During a Traffic Stop....Now She's Facing False Report ChargesThis needs to be shown to any police officer who objects to wearing a bodycam. Officer bodycams benefit everyone. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/11/15 05:22 PM |
| 2 | What is the proper way to handle this situation with a girl?Why do you think showing up to her birthday party would make her any more attracted to you when she's not even attracted enough to you to go on a date? She already gave you a 'No.' She explicitly told you that you are a friend. You are squarely in friendzone. She can't spell it out any clearer. If you want to redeem your pride, you could show up at the bar, ignore her and flirt hard with every other girl there. Try and meet someone new. But you are already bordering on oneitis with this girl. If… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 04:38 PM |
| 4 | Be real to Overcome Approach AnxietyThe second one understood that he had to stop giving a fuck. This is like saying, "The difference between an amateur baseball player and a professional baseball player is that the professional understands that..." Information doesn't help you get past approach anxiety. Reading doesn't help you get past approach anxiety. The only thing that gets you past approach anxiety is consistently practicing. | /r/seduction | 19/11/15 10:44 PM |
| 7 | LTRs: Even when you win you are still losing (or why the fuck do I do this)Last night my girlfriend decided that the last hour of our evening would best be spent making sure I was fully aware of her displeasure with something that I had done earlier in the day. It sounds like you did good in holding frame, but simply allowing her to continue unabated is in itself a loss of frame. I would not have let this go on for an hour. If she throws a tantrum or steps out of line, you address it and hold frame. If she continues to step out of line, she is dismissed for the evening… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 10:13 PM |
| 7 | LTRs: Even when you win you are still losing (or why the fuck do I do this)But some women are worse than others | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 10:07 PM |
| 37 | I confront a vandal on the subway. She pretends she didn't realize it was vandalism.This happened last night. If you live in New York City, you know that the only vandalism you see on subway trains these days is scratches on the windows. Spray paint doesn't stick to the new space-age material covering all the surfaces on trains but you still see annoying shit scratched into the windows. I was riding home on the train last night after a few drinks with a friend and I see someone scratching the windows on a door. At first I just film them but then I get angry and confront her. Wi… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/11/15 04:35 PM |
| 533 | Man Sues Gym over 'Women-Only Hours'He's displaying a lack of understanding for the emotional situation of women OH MY FEELZ!!! Now we're supposed to accommodate every woman who doesn't feel exactly how she wants to feel? Fuck off. Plenty of people feel uncomfortable at the gym. If a person (man or woman) is doing something illegal like harassing or assaulting someone (men or women), then take action against that person. But that's not what they're doing. Instead, they are treating every man like a dangerous predator who can't be … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/11/15 04:04 PM |
| 6 | Feminism/TRP in High School, English classPick your battles. What you are talking about here is a public, political battle which will not serve you in any way. I would go the opposite with this and purposely parody pop culture's blue pill idea of what women are looking for in a man. I would tell her women are looking for a man who: Is as nice as possible Talks about his feelings regularly Helps out around the house (choreplay) Is sensitive to women's needs and does everything to meet them Puts others above himself Wants a relationship i… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/15 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Things to look out for when your "Love Languages" are different from your SO'sHe needed to feel desired, and I wasn't communicating that. If the things you were doing didn't work, what did work? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/15 09:17 PM |
| 59 | couple of pro's getting denied in line rubbing all over a guy.They're being brought up on sex abuse charges? Awesome. Can anyone confirm whether this is real? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/11/15 09:49 PM |
| 23 | Always Default to GameI've noticed within my relationships with women (casual and more serious) if I don't rock the boat, they will. By 'rock the boat' I mean do something that could be perceived as being an asshole or risking the smooth flow of the relationship. Relationships can easily get into a smooth flow. Relationships have patterns--how often you hang out, how often you text, how quickly you return texts, etc. For both people in the relationship, their feeling of security and being cared about depends on being… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/15 01:38 AM |
| 26 | Thunderf00t: If men acted like feministsWhy does his shirt keep changing? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/11/15 09:36 PM |
| -1 | Its time for a realistic discussion about Beta-Males and misuse of the RedPill/MGTOW philosophiesGreat post. It's sad that you're getting downvoted because it is rare to see a post on this subreddit that disagrees with the usual shit that shows up on here. Way too many guys on here think they are alpha after reading a few articles and 'seeing the light.' They may logically understand the concepts but have very little actual real-world experience implementing them. It's like a professional basketball player talking about the principles of basketball and everyone else saying, "Yeah! And here'… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Don't tell women bad news"A woman would rather be dead than bored." "Whip me, beat me, rape me, just don't bore me." | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 06:16 PM |
| 9 | LTR is still friends with 3 guys she has boned, how should I respond to her about this and how to assert my dominance over the other men?Your first response to bad behavior should be to take away the prize: you. You pull away and, if possible, show her why you're pulling away without explicitly telling her. In this situation, if she invited me to hang out with her and some of these guy friends, I would decline. If I were with her and they showed up, I would take off and tell her, "Have fun with your friends." Ideally, she would bring it up and then you could tell her that you're not into her hanging out with her exes. The fact th… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/15 09:56 PM |
| 0 | PPD, quite literallyThe irony here is that her life was saved by the fact that she was riding a women's bike instead of a men's. That allowed her to jump off as the bike was getting hit. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/11/15 08:42 PM |
| 9 | Transgender Woman is told by judge she must go to an all mens prisonGoing to a women's prison instead of a men's would not be a pussy pass so I don't see how this is ppd. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/10/15 05:07 PM |
| 10 | Racist girl slanging slurs gets wreckedDidn't see the original. A search yielded this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TIcwkyaakGw Maybe someone can confirm if this was the original. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/10/15 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Girl won't leave classroom when asked by the teacher, then resists arrest.Yeah but if the student were male, this would have been okay. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/10/15 05:54 PM |
| 12 | Girl won't leave classroom when asked by the teacher, then resists arrest.In case anyone wondering whether this is PPD, it is. Reuters: Sheriff seeks probe after video of violent arrest of South Carolina student "The amount of force used on a female student by a male officer appears to me to be excessive and unnecessary," said James Manning, chairman of the Richland Two Board of Trustees. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/10/15 03:48 PM |
| -2 | Woman tries to stop man from playing his guitar. She receives a swift slap to the face for her troubles.5) I wanna see what led up to this, this black dude might have been being a complete prick, and singing horrid shit in a chinese restaurant, and that woman was the only one with the balls to confront him. She did more than just confront him. She physically tried to... do something. It was unclear if she were trying to take the guitar or to make him stop playing, etc. But to put your hands on someone like that is battery. Escalating the interaction from verbal/acoustic to physical makes her in th… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 26/10/15 04:28 PM |
| 1 | how to reply her?It's fine to say, "Cool. What day works for you?" Throw the ball back in her court. If she says she's not sure yet what day, just tell her to get back to you when she knows. It's not like you are keeping a specific day open for her. Acting like you NEED a definite answer right now is lame. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/15 07:48 PM |
| 10 | A deeper analysis of men's and women's N countWhat I hear a lot here is this false dichotomy: Sluts bad. Virgins good. In reality, most women you date will not be virgins, particularly as you get older. So what you see is a range of sluttiness. Some women are more slutty than others. Finding out exactly how slutty a woman is before you date her can be a daunting task. There are signs to follow but in the end you will be making a judgement call. If you want a more serious, long-term relationship, then you need to decide whether your perceive… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Neil Strauss, author of "The Game", prostrates himself before womankind and begs for forgiveness.TRP is about improving the product. PUA is about marketing that product. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Neil Strauss, author of "The Game", prostrates himself before womankind and begs for forgiveness.If all you care about is picking up women then by all means focus purely on PUA. And here is the typical straw man argument against PUA. No one is saying that all you need to be happy in life is PUA to bang chicks. It's like me complaining that TRP is bullshit because you need more in life than lifting weights. There's the product (improving yourself outside the context of women) and then there's the marketing (PUA). No matter how good the product is, if it doesn't get marketed, it won't sell. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 12:31 AM |
| 0 | How many strikes should I give a girl that gives me her phone number before I delete her contact info?Send her a 'ping' first, see if she responds. If she is texting back and forth with you, invite her to hang out on a specific night. If she says she's busy but doesn't offer to reschedule, there's not enough interest. I may text her a week later or so to test the waters, and if she is super responsive might ask her to hang out again. If she is busy again but still trying to have a convo over text, I'll tell her, "Say hi when you're less busy." | /r/askTRP | 09/10/15 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Decisions: Why Women Are Incapable of Making ThemSo you're saying that the woman who frivolously spends her husbands money without consideration and then demands he earns even more wouldn't frivolously spend taxpayer money or raise taxes? In 40% of households, women are the leading breadwinner. So your question doesn't even make sense. Do you have any science or statistics that show that women shouldn't work and vote? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Decisions: Why Women Are Incapable of Making ThemYou're conflating problems that arise when you let a woman take the lead in a relationship with the idea that women shouldn't work or vote, which is patently ridiculous. This sub is based on science, so if you have some science to support your theory, let's hear it. Mental differences between males and females are not as oblique and stupid as you make it out to be. Outside of the mating game, the innate mental differences between men and women are proven but they are a small percentage. Women ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 05:45 PM |
| 4 | Need advice with my "feminist" SOYour very first mistake was taking her seriously when she was angry at you. You said another girl was hot. That's not something she has a right to be angry over. So what do you do in that situation? You shrug it off. If she gets mad, let her get mad. Don't apologize. Don't tell her she's right just so she won't be mad. Her anger is her own problem. When you apologize for something that you shouldn't she loses attraction for you and gets even more angry. Let her walk out. Let her leave. If you ap… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/15 09:33 PM |
| 9 | Young woman beaten by old man for not surrendering seat on busJesus fuck. THIS IS NOT /R/BEATINGWOMEN. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/09/15 07:32 PM |
| 48 | Piers Morgan stops an awful woman in her very tracks."When a man calls you a tramp and a bitch and a whore..." She was trying to use her pussy to get a pass. This vile cunt would stoop to nothing to get at him, including calling him gay. Hopefully this woman will never get hired again after people see this video. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/09/15 08:22 PM |
| 20 | Aggressive woman gets arrested after attacking a guyPeople would jump in to defend the woman when it looked like the guy was being the aggressor but when they realized it was the girl, they just walked away. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 21/09/15 01:41 AM |
| 21 | Aggressive woman gets arrested after attacking a guyHe deserves an oscar for how good this was filmed. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 21/09/15 01:41 AM |
| 8 | French tourist violently assaulted by man at Melbourne hostel after being a fuckwit.While she doesn't deserve to get her nose and arm broken, she still did an extremely stupid thing. If someone is sleeping in a public place, there's a good chance they are homeless, crazy or a drug addict. Playing a 'prank' on these people is just not funny. Antagonize them and you could get beat up or killed. Yes, she got assaulted but she's lucky she wasn't killed. I have little sympathy for a person who plays 'pranks' on these people. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/09/15 03:32 PM |
| 4 | Why do so many men from failed marriages don't be more alpha before the divorceMost men improve with women between relationships, not within a relationship. When you are in a relationship, you are very attached to a woman. It's difficult to change your behavior if you've been acting a certain way. If your woman sees you as a weak beta loser, it is very difficult to change her perception of you. It is much easier to meet a new woman who has no perception of you as a beta and practice being alpha. That new woman is much more likely to 'believe' the way you're acting. First i… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Hungarian camerawoman trips Syrian refugees, gets firedShe also kicked a child. Mirror here. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/09/15 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Her place or yours? [Escalation]My place. Definitely. I've dated girls for literally months without going to their place once. You're the man. It's your castle. She's the one entering your domain. You feel comfortable there. You know the lay of the land. You're in charge of everything. Particularly after the first date, it's way more alpha to have her come to your place than to meet her at hers. She's doing the traveling. She's packing her overnight bag. She's making the effort. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/15 03:51 PM |
| 2 | How to conceal your intentions with women?in this forum people tend to say to be more direct and to the point with your interactions. Women are actually more attracted to men when they aren't sure if the men like them or not. And there's science to prove it. As other research has found, women who believed the men liked them a lot were more attracted to the men than women who thought the men liked them only an average amount. However, the women who found the men most attractive were the ones who weren’t sure whether those men were into t… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/15 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Need some serious life advice right now and I have no one to turn toThis right here. OWN IT. Be willing to laugh at yourself. When someone says something funny, laugh about it. Agree and amplify as abdada says. Believe it or not, some people use joking as a way of communicating and being friendly. A lot of people may not even mean anything negative about it, especially if they say it to your face. A lot of people simply communicate that way. And if you can roll with it, you'll win them over. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/15 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Girl takes forever to reply to textOne of the biggest indicators of how much a girl is into you is how quickly she responds to your text messages. It sounds like there is not enough interest from this girl and she is writing long messages to make up for the fact that she took so long to reply. She saw the message right away. She just didn't want to 'lead you on.' I would put my attention elsewhere or at least stop texting her for a while. If she's interested in you she can take initiative to text you as well. | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Asking girls out in dating sitesDO NOT spend too much time getting to know her. If you are using messages/emails, ask her out by the third message, tops. Say something like, "I'm not really online too much. Let's grab a drink. What's your week looking like?" | /r/askTRP | 02/09/15 04:52 PM |
| 0 | I cannot take this. I seriously can't.The red pill is too harsh. While it does offer value, it is also a big echo chamber with a lot of keyboard jockeys repeating things about how fucked up women are to make themselves feel better. Yes, women are fucked up. But men are fucked up too, in a different way. Constantly focusing on how fucked up women are will leave you negative, sour, and distrustful of them. The only thing people care about is the value you offer. This is true. But you don't need to be a multi-platinum rock star with a … | /r/askTRP | 02/09/15 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Improve Text GameHere is a simple formula: Always start with a 'ping.' Send her something non-needy that doesn't ask a question or make it seem like you are thinking about her. For example, "I think I need a job earning twice as much with half the hours." or "I just ate the most delicious chocolate chip cookie in the universe." See how she responds. If it is positive, then invite her to hang out. Try to avoid "asking her out." Instead try something like, "I'm going to this art gallery opening tomorrow night. Wan… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/15 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Girl takes forever to reply to textNeed more information. Have you met this girl in person? What was the situation? | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 04:20 PM |
| 22 | Woman makes guy wait 3 months for sex, while fucking Chad on the side.The irony here is that we all talk about avoiding sluts on this sub, yet if a girl makes a guy wait, he's blue pill. Which is it? Obviously the problem with this particular situation was that this whore was fucking some other dude, and on top of that, she was trying to become a born-again virgin after having ridden the cock-carousel. But if you really want that pure-as-snow woman who hasn't ridden the cock-carousel, do you expect her to put out by the third date? I'm not saying you should not be… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 07:39 PM |
| 2 | My lack of female interaction is becoming an issue. A convo with my grandfather...You don't need a girl, but having a girl changes things for you. Getting laid regularly and interacting with women regularly does generally make a guy better adjusted and mentally healthier. It lowers stress and takes away a lot of the antagonism you may feel about the opposite sex. I'm not done reading the side bar. Don't get me wrong, this sub is great, and most of it is truth, but be careful reading too much here. Much of the conversation here tends to reflect negatively on women, mostly to c… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/15 04:20 PM |
| -6 | Update On Girl Who a Encouraged Boyfriend To Commit SuicideIs this really coercion, though? It was more goading than coercion. She wasn't threatening him with anything. Let's say your friend wants to buy a car. He keeps being wishy washy about it at the dealership. You tell him, "Get back in there and buy that car!" You're not really coercing him into buying the car. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/08/15 08:02 PM |
| 21 | If she has/had 'friends with benefits' she's not worth the commitment.So you've been in relationships with women who have never been in uncommitted sexual relationship? The reason I ask is because in this day and age, most men and women have sex before commitment. If a girl is into a guy she will typically sleep with him on the 3rd date or sooner. Are you saying that you are looking for a woman who won't sleep with you before you're committed? We have a term for guys who get into relationships with women before any sex: beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 07:40 PM |
| -10 | Update On Girl Who a Encouraged Boyfriend To Commit SuicideThat's a very slippery slope you've presented that in no way reflects the situation at hand. It actually exactly reflects the situation at hand. What we are talking about is degrees of closeness in relationship and how much the person was encouraged. How would you prosecute one case and not the other? As horrible a human being as this girl is, I don't think there is any way to prosecute her without setting a dangerous legal precedent. Edit: Another scenario. Let's say I have a close friend who i… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/08/15 06:33 PM |
| 7 | (x-post r/pusspass) Former Baltimore Ravens cheerleader convicted of felony, sentenced to part time jail and sex offender registration for life. She raped a 15 year old boy. Anyone think the judge went easy on her compared to what a man would get?The news report makes it not sound that bad. But how do you know she didn't manipulate the 15 year old boy? Women are manipulative as fuck, not to mention a 40 y.o. woman versus a 15 y.o. kid. By default it is manipulation when you aren't old enough to make that decision on your own. That's why it's illegal no matter what the gender. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/08/15 12:06 AM |
| 19 | Cuddles and yapping are tools of dogs, not menSo communicate less nonverbally Communication is a reward. Your attention is a prize for her. If she is being noncompliant, for example, doesn't want sex, then you take that away from her. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 07:25 PM |
| 9 | We need to talk - letting girls goJust because a girl lets me fuck her (or begs me to fuck her) doesn't mean she deserves to know anything about what I do when I'm not with her. If we've agreed to be exclusive, then it's valid. She deserves the opportunity to make an informed decision when it comes to her sexual and emotional health. You are not withholding information from her. You are telling her, "We're not exclusive." That leaves open the possibility that you may be fucking someone else. If she doesn't want to deal with that… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 04:39 PM |
| 8 | We need to talk - letting girls goIf the girl asks if I'm seeing someone else - I tell the truth. This is generally a bad idea unless you are ready to end it. Unless you're exclusive with a girl, it's really none of her business who you are seeing. By not agreeing to exclusivity, you are communicating to her that you are seeing other people--or at least want to. She gets the message. But if you explicit tell her, "I'm seeing another woman," she now has a recording of that in her brain. Now she's forced to deal with it. For examp… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 03:08 PM |
| 13 | What do you feel when someone cheatsTo add to this, if you don't cut her off, you are tacitly telling her, by your actions, that what she did is okay. She WILL cheat again or leave you before she does. She will be unable to respect a man who let's his woman cheat without an repercussions. And no, a strongly worded letter is not a repercussion. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/15 08:11 PM |
| 13 | Cinema PPD by Ronda Rousey (retelling on Jimmy Kimmel)after Ronda had instigated a fight by first grabbing a (high school) girl's boot If Ronda's telling is to be believed, the girl deserved it for sticking her boots over the seat and hitting Ronda with it. And it sounds legit. I don't see any other reason why Ronda would throw that girl's boot. she got off so this is actually a textbook pussypass Sounds like they started the physical part of the altercation by not letting her pass. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/08/15 06:38 PM |
| 72 | Milo bends over the feminist pay gap myth in front of two womenIf they are just going to not listen to any evidence that they want to hear, what's the fucking point on turning up to a debate. This is why there are so many comparisons now between feminism and religion. You can't debate with someone who won't accept science as a factual basis. Contrary to a wealth of scientific evidence, most feminists will try to tell you that there are no innate behavioral differences between men and women. They argue that gender differences are 100% social construction. Ev… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/08/15 01:38 AM |
| 194 | Milo bends over the feminist pay gap myth in front of two womennot only was it a female, it was a feminist! Unfortunately, most women who call themselves feminists hate Christina Hoff Summers because she doesn't tow the party line. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/08/15 01:30 AM |
| 7 | How to show a woman the importance of low partner count to SMV.No, she rejected you because you told her your partner count, not because it was too high. You should never tell a woman how many women you've slept with. If she asks, you can respond by saying, "You think I'm the kind of guy who keeps track of that sort of thing?" | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/15 04:14 AM |
| -3 | Woman tries to hit cop making arrest, gets slammedLooks like it might have been a rock in the dirt. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 08/08/15 03:55 AM |
| 18 | Woman starts shouting 'You're sexually harassing me!' at lifeguards for no reason during fight involving others, gets put in a headlockWow. The lifeguard and that dumb bitch had never been physically near each other when she started accusing him of sexual assault. This is exactly why we have this sub. Due to the current political climate, women think that accusing a man of sexual assault is a free pass for them. And unfortunately in many cases it is. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/08/15 06:01 AM |
| 20 | The dangers of echo chambersHeartiste, a.k.a. Roissy in DC, has been pioneering Red Pill thought long before it was ever called Red Pill. 60% of the concepts I read on this subreddit he already said in some way. Don't believe me? His Sixteen Commandments of Poon was posted in 2008. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/15 10:34 PM |
| 4 | "Why you should never hit a girl"Why you should never hit a girl person: why you should never be sexist. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 21/07/15 01:15 AM |
| -8 | Ray JDid he keep telling her to stop after she was under water? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/07/15 03:33 PM |
| 25 | Girl, 13, Arrested For Vicious Videotaped Attack On Classmate, Young BoyJust because it's white on black or black on white does not make it a hate crime. It becomes a hate crime when someone is attacked because of their race. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/06/15 04:03 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is Not PUAIf you were having trouble with women, it just means that you had not empathized with them enough. Do you even see what you're saying? This statement is 100% PUA. You are trying to point out a specific thing you think I was doing wrong with women. You have no idea what I was doing wrong with women. It's highly possible I was too empathetic with women. Your blanket solution, be more empathetic, is 1 out of 30 things that a guy could be doing wrong with women. He could also have too much outcome d… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 06:00 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill is Not PUAif you're building status and getting things done in the world, you will not hurt for sex. There are plenty of men who have status who cannot get laid. Granted, if you have status, it will be a lot easier to adopt a red pill mentality and put it into practice. Deciding to attain more status is great. Having passions and goals is central to feeling good about yourself. You can work to become a famous DJ, but guess what? 98% of guys WILL NOT become a famous DJ. Then what? The idea that you should … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Anesthesiologist berates sedated patient and gets suedThis is justice but it's definitely not pussypassdenied. At first I thought they were just joking around, which is fine. But making up diagnosis, etc. That's bullshit. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/06/15 08:43 PM |
| 21 | [PSA] Drastic rules change to this sub.... had to do it because of recent events on redditSo why make a post about it, dumbass? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/06/15 10:35 PM |
| 8 | [PSA] Drastic rules change to this sub.... had to do it because of recent events on redditSounds good to me. How is this different than what was in place before? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/06/15 05:54 PM |
| 10 | Can mods please keep submissions on topic?If the woman had yelled and said "you can't say shit to me because I'm a woman!" then maybe you'd have a pussypass denial situation. Most of the time this is the subtext of her actions. When a woman punches a man who is much larger and/or stronger than her, she typically expects to not get hit back because she is a woman. If we only allowed posts here where a woman explicitly says she deserves something (or doesn't deserve retaliation) because she's a woman, we would have one submission every 3 … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/06/15 07:40 PM |
| 8 | Mother loses custody after preventing father from seeing childNot women-hating stuff. That stuff's disgusting. Right. Like all those posts of a man hitting a woman after she hits him first. So misogynist. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/06/15 12:05 PM |
| 3 | There are no “nice guys” or “assholes”, there are just “boring” men and “interesting” menMaybe it happens a couple of times in your life but not a couple of times A YEAR. The nice guy also easily confuses loneliness/neediness for love. We all experience loneliness in our lives and moments of anxiety in a new relationship. Pop culture teaches us to wear that loneliness/anxiety on our sleeves and express it to women. Think about the constant popular love songs played everywhere. You are taught that that's what women want, that if you don't express your neediness, you are 'playing game… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/15 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Just thought I would share my recent victory over the pussy pass.It's fucked up that they simply take her word for it. Just curious, if you decided to hire a lawyer and take this to court, could you have gotten off? It's your word against hers. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/06/15 10:30 PM |
| 41 | Ellen Pao to appeal against sexism trial defeatShe ain't the CEO of me! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/06/15 04:30 PM |
| 9 | Subway pusher Erika Menendez gets 24 years for 2012 shove that killed a man.I dunno, man. It seems like this chick really was deranged. Do a google image search for Erika Menendez. Some of those pictures are WTF. Especially this one from the NYPost. Like she's a beast descending into madness. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/05/15 04:05 AM |
| 7 | Fewer Sex Partners Masks 20 / 80 RuleDuring the Sexual Revolution there was no Game required. Bullshit. Women are and have always been hypergamous. At no time in history did the majority of women generously spread their legs for the lowest status males. Women's selectivity is biology, not socialization. It's like trying to tell me that in the 17th century men were attracted to fat women. Bullshit. You've been influenced by too much by the 'socialization is everything' lie that feminists are perpetuating. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/15 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Canceling a date after signs...am I getting this now?There are certain times to call out her attitude, but in this case you probably would have been better off just canceling with no excuse, just saying "something came up." This usually makes her hamster wheel spin harder if she's not already gone. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/15 02:50 PM |
| 26 | Am I an asshole for suspecting the mother cried rape to look like the victim? Even though the daughter suggested the idea?Man, I hate when I want to have sex with a girl but she says I'm too big and that I should have sex with her mother instead. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/04/15 07:12 PM |
| 3 | My Ex Gf pulled the pregnancy cardWow. I had no idea how fucked up those countries are. How can it be illegal TO FIND OUT THE TRUTH? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/15 01:13 PM |
| 23 | My university just passed a new policy.Feminists will proclaim that all psychological differences between men and women are learned/culture. I've even had feminists try to argue with me that sexual attraction is based on culture. In other words, the reason you want to stick your dick in a pussy is cultural. At the same time, they (rightly) believe that homosexuality is inherent. Got it? Heterosexuality is cultural while homosexuality is inherent. There's a little wrench to throw in their cog. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/15 06:55 PM |
| 31 | Virginia fraternity in retracted rape story to sue Rolling StoneWith any luck, she will have to testify in court and incriminate herself. Then they can sue her also. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/04/15 02:47 PM |
| 26 | Great comment on /r/deadbedrooms. So many great redpill themes in it.The easiest thing a woman can do to keep her husband happy is to spread her legs. You think it's easy for a woman to fuck a beta? That's like a woman telling you that the easiest thing you can do is fuck your fat land-whale of a wife to keep her happy. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/15 01:05 AM |
| 8 | Pao Loses Meritless "Gender Discrimination" LawsuitThe technology field is difficult for EVERYONE. Plenty of people don't get promoted or come to standstills in their careers. And women assume it is because of discrimination. Nope. If you can add value to the company, you get promoted. Not every warm body in a chair gets promoted. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/15 01:58 PM |
| 13 | Ellen Pao Loses Lawsuit Against Kleiner Perkins On All CountsThe grueling five-week trial revealed troubling aspects of the Kleiner workplace in particular and the world of venture capital in general. Troubling to whom? Obviously not the impartial jury. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/03/15 11:31 PM |
| 27 | Michigan Teacher Sentenced to Prison for Sex With Her Student. Female Judge Says, "there would be people here hanging from the ceiling trying to get every drop of blood," if This Were a Male Teacher and a Female Student."I'm so sorry for the victim and his family, for the school and the community, my family ... and I'm so sorry for my husband," she said ahead of the sentencing. "With treatment, I'm getting better. I know I have to go away, but this is a lifelong journey, and I am meeting it." As if this is a health problem that was out of her control. As if we should feel bad for her because she has a pussy and she can't control it. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/03/15 06:14 PM |
| 4 | TRP CareersThis comment should be preceded by the disclaimer that if you follow the status instead of doing what truly interests you, you probably won't be too happy and success will be difficult. That being said, if you want a high status job, picture what would impress a hot, dumb chick. Lawyer. Doctor. Professor. Something that could be described in a single word. There are of course many other jobs that are just as prestigious but once you get into enough conversations with women, you realize that a si… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/15 12:43 PM |
| 18 | Sex with jail inmate in supply closet earns woman 4 years in prisonThe judge rejected the claim that the 25-year-old inmate, a gang member, seduced Curry. This poor woman was unable to control her pussy. She really should get a pass. Whatta you say, judge? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/03/15 09:45 PM |
| 254 | Developed light feelings for a plate- she destroyed us in moments.You learned a valuable lesson: if you do ever want to get into a committed relationship with a woman, let HER bring it up first, then say No, then say No again, and then eventually let her win you over. A commitment from a woman means NOTHING. All that matters is how she feels toward you. Getting her to logically agree on exclusivity will not prevent her from cheating on you. In fact, it will make it much more likely. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 05:51 PM |
| 2 | My Free Ebook Release: "Why Get Married?"I don't disagree that it's probably a bad move. But you know how difficult it is trying to convince your friend when he's in love. Can you confirm or deny his assertion that being married will put him on better legal footing for claiming custody of the children? I would at least like to dispel this if it isn't true. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 10:01 PM |
| 2 | My Free Ebook Release: "Why Get Married?"Honest question here. I have a close friend who is considering marriage to his girlfriend. He is independently wealthy and Red Pill in his thinking. Except that he's in love, so I think his view is skewed. His girlfriend is pushing and pushing to get married and has even presented him with a (supposedly) iron-clad prenup that has held up in court at least once before, he tells me. I've asked him why he wants to get married instead of just having kids with her. His reasoning is that he will have … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 06:27 PM |
| 24 | Japanese man awarded USD 160,000 after being imprisoned for three years on false rape chargesthis man deserves more money for spending 3 years in jail. $160,000 for five three years in jail = $32,000 $53,000 per year. Fuck that shit. He should be getting way more. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/03/15 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct OpenersI don't do negs, I just don't think they're effective, but I will tease the piss out of a girl with a goofy grin on my face all day long. You're too nice to use negs. Yeah, well, it's all the same. When you use a neg correctly girls will laugh at it just like teasing. They fucking love it. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 01:04 AM |
| 25 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct Openersno wonder you've been rejected a lot He gets rejected a lot because he approaches a lot. You don't? You have a magic opener? No. Of course you don't. If you'd done as much approaching as OP has, you would know that this type of thing works pretty well. Being too direct puts too much pressure on her. She thinks less of you because you immediately put her on a pedestal. Her first instinct is to get away. The giraffe part is a bit negative. That's what makes it work. It fucks with her a little bit.… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 09:31 PM |
| 20 | This sub is fine.Feminism is for all fucking sexes and all fucking genders. I am a man and used to consider myself a feminist. I was even a member of the National Organization for Women at my college. This was over 15 years ago. I still subscribe 100% to all the things feminism supposedly stands for, like fairness and equality in the workplace, equal opportunity, etc. However, most people who call themselves feminists are advocating for the wrong things these days: Women's rights without the responsibility. Prof… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/03/15 05:49 PM |
| 16 | You don't need to punch a girl to PPDWhile it's not justiceporn, this post is PPD more than 90% of the posts on here, which are pretty much just women getting some kind of comeuppance. Not the same as PPD. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/03/15 04:07 AM |
| -1 | 17 year old girl charged with manslaughter after encouraging and coaxing friend to commit suicide.As fucked up as it is, it's still not technically illegal to tell someone to kill themselves. There have been instances where a person was on a ledge thinking of jumping and people down below started yelling, "Jump!" Fucked up. But not illegal. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/02/15 10:05 PM |
| 21 | boyfriend defends the woman he loves against attackersSome context would have been nice. All we see is one dude and chicks getting punched. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/02/15 12:52 AM |
| 15 | Woman yells at man for not giving his seat to her. (X/post PublicFreakout)You can also say, "Do you want my seat?" When she responds, "Yes," you say, "I bet you do." | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/02/15 03:49 PM |
| 12 | Cheerleader claims domestic abuse, cellphone video taken by boyfriend shows her as the aggressorRape is a little tougher. But for domestic violence the guy really has no chance. They'll charge a guy with no evidence just based on what the woman says. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/02/15 08:22 PM |
| 136 | Pussy Pass Finally Denied - Woman jailed after 11th false rape claim in a decadeCCTV of the house in which Jones claimed to have been attacked did not support her story. This did not support her story. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/02/15 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Woman attacks cameraman with dog leash. Cameraman calmly maces her. Her dog consoles her.She had a look on her face like she'd done it a thousand times before with no consequence. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/02/15 04:42 PM |
| 126 | When sexual assault data doesn't back feminist claims, data must be wrong. Aka "Sex assault reports on Canadian campuses too low, say experts"Translation: I can get women to make up stories about sexual assault by providing them with tons of validation and attention when they do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/15 04:20 PM |
| 10 | Personal PPD - She cheated on me and claimed it wasn't cheating because females don't countInteresting. I had a similar experience (not the girl-on-girl part). But I handled it differently. I met a cute and punky asian girl on new years at a friends party. I'm not particularly into asian girls but I liked this one because she was super artsy, had a mohawk, into dance and theater--and she was hot as hell. We started dating. We became exclusive. But she was a party girl. I was not that into partying. But beyond that, I could tell I didn't fully have this girl. I could tell by the way sh… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/02/15 12:22 AM |
| 33 | Wife tries to hire a hitman to kill husband, but doesn't realize he's really a copHe probably still had to pay alimony. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 31/01/15 05:34 PM |
| 127 | fat drunk girls get their ass kickedThis was enraging. It was a huge pussy pass. If a guy were doing what these two were doing, he would have been knocked out at the beginning of this video. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/01/15 04:41 PM |
| 20 | A lesson from 2xc of all fucking places (get ready for another influx of subs)Yeah. Ridiculous. Suddenly everything makes sense. He has been emotionally abusing me a lot and just recently began heavy phusical abuse. That was never like him You don't just throw that in without giving specifics. If this were true she would have given some concrete examples about how this guy hit her or what specifically he did to her. Instead she just throws that in as icing on the fake cake. "Oh yeah and he physically abuses me." "And rapes me." "And rapes the cat." | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/15 12:01 PM |
| 6 | A lesson from 2xc of all fucking places (get ready for another influx of subs)A little knowledge is a dangerous thing. One of my close friends went through an agonizing divorce where his wife started seeing another guy while she was with him. He came to me for advice because he knows I know about this stuff. And I gave him great advice. But he hadn't been using this stuff and kept slipping back into beta mode with her. For every step forward he made two steps back, making it twice as bad for him. Sometimes I think in these situations it is better to let the relationship d… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/15 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Woman Tossing Raw Bacon at 'Pig' CopsBeautiful to watch that smile melt off of her face. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 21/01/15 11:17 PM |
| 3 | French Bulldog Puppy Gets His Bed BackI thought it was disproportionate. He could have asked her nicely for the bed back. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/01/15 01:12 AM |
| 6 | Woman shoots man in face after fistfight involving her father. She receives conviction & minimum required sentencing for her crime. Public perceives sentencing as "unprecedented" & "despicable".Seems she's full of bad decisions. And self-righteous entitlement. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/01/15 08:23 PM |
| 18 | Female charged with Murder in Fairbanks result of false rape accusationThis isn't really pussy pass denied. This is pussy pass gets a man killed. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/01/15 09:52 PM |
| 80 | Falsely accuse a cab driver of assault in order to skip on $13That's when he said, "What about my reputation?"... He wanted the girls charged but police closed down the investigations saying there was not enough evidence either way. The police heard the girls accuse him and he showed them the tape of the cab ride. How much more evidence of false accusation could you possibly want? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/01/15 08:34 PM |
| 5 | Woman Gets Life Sentence for Forcing 13 year old to touch her breastsThe same could be said for violent offenders. They tend to have been brought up in violent or abusive homes. I don't totally disagree with you. Our prison system needs to be geared more toward rehab than just incarceration. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/01/15 03:24 PM |
| 17 | Woman Gets Life Sentence for Forcing 13 year old to touch her breastsIt is excessive but it is both justice and PPD. First, the lawyer is trying to argue that her client shouldn't get the same punishment because she is a woman. Second, increasing punishment for sex offenders is an easy platform for legislators to run on and criticize their opponents for not supporting. And so you get problems like excessive mandatory sentencing. Plenty of convicted men get thrown to the wolves and so there is no reason a woman should be spared. Just like men who were over-sentenc… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 31/12/14 02:51 PM |
| 11 | Cyanide and Happiness pass deniedReminds me of this reddit saga: https://www.reddit.com/r/AdviceAnimals/comments/224lz6/update_on_my_roommate_who_was_kicked_in_the_balls/cgja8vw | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/12/14 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Negative Game: Women Can't ResistThis is not core to red pill theory. This is your personal opinion only. Okay. Then what is core red pill theory. Let's hear it. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 01:30 AM |
| 0 | Negative Game: Women Can't ResistDark triad will attract WOMEN who are that way So what you're saying is NAWALT. First you said A man improved is a man who is out of place using negs. And now you say guy who over-uses or misuses negs is unattractive This is a straw-man. No one denies that over-using or misusing negs is unattractive. That is obvious. What I'm talking about is negative game. Not just 'negs.' Treating women like you're unsure about whether you like them. Making them work for your attention. Always keeping a slight… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 09:27 PM |
| -1 | Negative Game: Women Can't ResistAs soon as you act like you need to knock her down to have a chance at some level she'll consider: why? You can phrase it any way you want but being a nice guy repels women. Dark Triad attracts women. It's in their nature. If you think otherwise, then why are you here? There are plenty of self-improvement subs where you can be nice to people all the time and improve yourself. This sub is not just about self-improvement. It is about understanding the true nature of women and part of that is what … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 01:00 PM |
| 0 | Negative Game: Women Can't ResistYour distinction between PUA and TRP is comparing apples to oranges. PUA is about getting better with women and TRP is about understanding gender disparities. PUA's exploit TRP theory to their advantage. PUA's don't necessarily have a high SMV or low SMV; it depends on the person. You can focus on improving yourself with women (PUA) as well as other things at the same time. Pretty much the only people in this sub who don't like pickup are MGTOW (men going their own way). Not that everyone here o… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 12:55 PM |
| 8 | Negative Game: Women Can't ResistYou got me, man. I'm so sorry I ever went out into the real world and experimented with what really works with women. I should have stayed in my bedroom whispering affirmations in the mirror and just waited until women came to me. Thanks for the tip. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 03:44 PM |
| 7 | Negative Game: Women Can't ResistSo it basically boils down to PUAs tending to have low SMV Did you even read what I wrote? If the PUA has low SMV, then he'll need negative game with mediocre women. If the PUA has high SMV, he may not need as much negative game with super attractive women, but nice-guy game will get you thrown in the can no matter who you are, unless you happen to be a rock star. because they don't self-improve Guys trying to get better with women improve more than anyone I know. But you can only improve your p… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 12:57 PM |
| 25 | Negative Game: Women Can't ResistThere's no reason to incinerate a woman who might be open to a confident situational opener. First of all you shouldn't open with a neg. Second, it depends on how naturally attractive you are. If you are physically attractive with high status and great body language and she's a 6.5, then absolutely, you don't need to use a lot of negative game. But if you are physically unattractive with low status, etc., then you may want to use a lot of negative game with a 6.5. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 03:20 AM |
| 8 | 77 year old pussy pass deniedYou only have to show your ID if you are suspected of a crime or if you are driving a vehicle and an officer asks for it. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/12/14 02:34 PM |
| 32 | Ramsay don't take no shit.Yup. If a guy tried to punch Ramsay like she did, he would be in a jail cell right now. Instead, everyone gathered around her to see if she was okay. Bullshit. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 08/12/14 12:14 PM |
| 10 | India was giving an award to these girls for beating up so-called molesters. Now, the country has turned against them!A while ago rape wasn't even a big deal. Agreed but there was never a time on my 40+ years on this earth when rape wasn't "even a big deal". It's always been a big deal as far as I could tell. I can't speak for the '50s or '60s but I know in the '70s there wasn't much worse you could be than a rapist. Granted, date rape wasn't as much a thing back then. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/12/14 07:22 PM |
| 12 | Woman talking about not treating husband fairly enough, respondents hamster is so fast, it goes backwardsWhether a man or woman wrote this doesn't matter. We've seen this story a thousand times before and the answer is always the same: it is the man's fault, and I'm not kidding here. It's not his fault that he got the wrong hamburger meat or didn't tell her about the broken glass or any of that. It's his fault that he doesn't manage his wife's anger. If you let a woman treat you like shit she will treat you like shit and you only have yourself to blame. If you gave your child everything he wanted e… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/14 04:57 PM |
| 38 | Some story that happened to me at a hockey game.Agreed. But this with him screaming "why are you touching my girl, I'm gonna kill you" isn't whiteknighting. Whiteknighting usually means coming to the defense of a girl you don't know simply because she's a girl. Defending your girlfriend or friend is kinda different. Not saying she didn't deserve to get hit back. But if he was her friend or boyfriend it's not really white knighting. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/11/14 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone have a good response that I could say to this?Your post implies that some men deserve to get hit sometimes while a woman never does, regardless of size. Is there any reason you didn't say, "No one should ever and I repeat ever hit a PERSON."? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/11/14 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have a good response that I could say to this?Sorry but women don't get a free pass to do whatever they want to a man (like hit him) without suffering the repercussions (like getting hit back). If you act like a lady I'll treat you like a lady. If you punch me in the face I'll punch you back, no matter who you are. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/11/14 01:37 PM |
| 29 | "...it was a duck, it was a huge duck. It was scary. I'm a woman, it scared me."She's a fucking idiot for thinking that because she's a woman she has a right to not yield to pedestrians. That being said, if a person took a step into the road and then moved back to the curb, you shouldn't have to stop. Hard to tell exactly how the police deemed a pedestrian being in the crosswalk. Because it was a blinking yellow light, the cars should probably have stopped if they sensed a pedestrian was in the road. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/11/14 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Walmart security tackles female shoplifter who literally shouts "Please, my coochie is out!" Other annoying woman falls for the pussy pass but security guard grabs the theif's wallet so she can't leavYeah. One of my friends manages a gap store. It's the same way. By law they can't restrain a shoplifter. Security will try to make them think that they can, hoping the thief will just stay. And sometimes they do. But if the thief tried to leave there is nothing security could do. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/11/14 12:18 AM |
| 48 | Never Apologise: A reminder from the Shirtstorm/Shirtgate controversyAs some other people are saying in this thread, sometimes an apology is the best thing if you truly did fuck up. However, whenever I am getting ready to make an apology, I like to ask myself whether I can thank the person rather than apologizing. For example, if you are running late. Instead of saying, "Sorry I'm late," say, "Thank you for waiting." It makes him feel better about himself. Instead of feeling slighted, he just did you a favor for which you are grateful. That's a much more positive… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 05:05 PM |
| 3 | She says, "What are you going to do hit a girl?" Then punches a guy in the nose, denied hard.Not only that, but if he had done it right away he could have claimed he hit her in self-defense. It's possible he could still claim self-defense but this makes it harder because she was not attacking him at the time he attacked her. That means both he and the girl could be charged with assault. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/11/14 03:26 PM |
| 5 | Aggresive woman takes a good punch"I hope you have the video of him punching a woman in the face." This woman thinks she has carte blanche to do whatever she wants because she's a woman. Glad the whole thing was on video. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/11/14 02:20 AM |
| 10 | Woman stunned into silence that someone has the balls to shut her upRead the sidebar: THIS IS NOT /R/BEATINGWOMEN. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/11/14 02:12 AM |
| -2 | Nope....DENIED!!At what time is the cut in footage? I don't see anywhere there could have been a cut before she steps in front of him in front of the camera. And that's when he pushed her. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/11/14 07:37 PM |
| 0 | Nope....DENIED!!Nah. She stands in front of the camera but she doesn't push him at all. He doesn't move an inch or even brace himself. It's possible she hit him with her backpack but she certainly didn't push him with her hands. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/11/14 06:20 PM |
| 32 | Nope....DENIED!!That woman was a dumb annoying stuck up bitch. But still... unless the shakey cam missed something, she didn't touch them physically and that means they have no right to do what they did. You don't push a person to the ground no matter what they say to you. If you do, you are in the wrong. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 07/11/14 05:37 PM |
| 4 | Girl gets humiliated by two guys for cheating on them.Really? Now we are promoting physical assault? Fuck off with this. If she hits first, then yeah, deck her. But she did not physically attack these men. Anyone who thinks this is okay is an idiot. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/11/14 08:13 PM |
| 14 | Man creates a video with him walking through the streets of NYC as a reply to the earlier version of the lady walking through NYC. Results are unbelievable!This is exactly it. It's a barrier. They are reinforcing the evolutionary mechanism of approach anxiety. Shame is the huge disincentive for the average man in taking this kind of initiative with women. The potential fall-out has always been a collective punishment of men who tried and failed. Whereas alphas are relatively immune to shame. The problem for women these days is that a lack of shame does not necessarily make you an alpha. But as long as it keeps all the middle guys away, it's fairly … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/14 07:01 PM |
| 12 | Director of viral 'walking in New York' catcalling video admits edited out white men from itmidtown Bullshit bullshit bullshit. It was not midtown manhattan. I have worked in midtown manhattan for the past 15 years. She was walking through Harlem and other low-income neighborhoods. In the past 15 years I've lived and worked in New York City, I've seen catcalls maybe a handful of times. The people who made this video are strident feminists who would have LOVED to include non-low-income white men catcalling women. But they didn't because it does not exist. It would be a great service for… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/14 04:56 PM |
| 18 | Oh, we're cute and on TV let's give the Chef (Gordan Ramsey) a piece of our minds. Fail.Not saying it isn't scripted, but how do you know? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/10/14 09:34 PM |
| 36 | Bridezilla gets denied at the clubThere is not a hot enough place in hell I could reserve for this cunt. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/10/14 11:36 PM |
| 2 | No pass in this dog parkI thought this was pretty good. He manhandled the dog because it was bothering his dog. She got pissed off and then he manhandled her. He didn't punch her back but he ragdolled her pretty good. That arm is gonna be sore for a while. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/10/14 11:27 PM |
| 3 | We've Been Too Serious Lately Around Here, So I'm Gonna Tell You How To Do Vegas Correctly.Great post. Tip that security guard standing right there. How would you go about doing this? How much would you tip? Does this ever backfire? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 08:34 AM |
| 5 | Megan Fox explains how to get out of the friendzone. Spoiler: Wait until her carousel ride is over and maybe she'll realize you exist.Beta bucks is different. It's not typically an orbiter. An orbiter rarely gets out of friend zone. 99% of the time an orbiter could hang around until kingdom come but the girl will still see him as a friend. Beta bux is typically a new guy. She lowers her standards year after year. As fewer and fewer men cast eyes at her, her standards get lower and lower. She swings from Alpha to lower Alpha to greater Beta, etc. An orbiter won't make the move. He's been friends with her too long and is complet… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 02:31 AM |
| 2 | What Henry Kissinger's Ladies Tell Us About What Men WantSo some supermodels are attracted to men with jobs like janitors who look like trolls and have zero social confidence? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 05:51 PM |
| 0 | What Henry Kissinger's Ladies Tell Us About What Men WantA lot of them couldn't get a date to save their lives. Just because some high-status or good-looking men can't get dates doesn't mean that women aren't attracted to those features. Some men have such terrible social skills that they actively repel women or they have so much social anxiety that they can't get the ball rolling. You see a lot of big name dating coaches who are gorgeous and talk about how they couldn't get dates because their social skills sucked. This is believable. But that doesn'… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 04:48 PM |
| 6 | Making you wait for sexThe more alpha you are, the faster she'll drop her panties. The more beta you are, the slower. But that does not set up realistic expectations or take into account other factors. You shouldn't take the fact that a girl makes you wait as an insult to your alphaness. If you did, you would never ever ever get laid. How long do you wait for a girl to put out before you move on, ten minute? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/14 04:08 PM |
| 11 | Making you wait for sexIs this "making you wait" strategy something strictly reserved for betas ? No and anyone who says otherwise doesn't understand how social dynamics works. Yes there are famous rock stars out there for whom a woman would drop her panties in 6 seconds flat but this isn't a good yardstick with which to compare yourself. Some women will put out faster than others and most women will put out faster if she senses the guy is comfortable with escalating faster. Some women absolutely refuse to put out bef… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/14 01:34 PM |
| 6 | I flat out insulted a woman and nothing happened. Starting to learn to speak my mind.The reason she was playing farmville on her phone was because she had zero attraction for you and didn't want to talk to you. And when a girl comes across as super boring, chances are she's just not trying with you. You were probably sitting there asking questions about herself like, "So what do you do?" and she was bored to death by it. This isn't a knock on you personally. We all sometimes get into interactions with women who aren't attracted to us, some of us more than others depending on how… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/14 12:52 PM |
| 2 | 84 Red Pill issues with Emma Watson's UN speechFor reference, Watson's original speech. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/14 10:16 PM |
| 32 | A woman's inability / unwillingness to communicate during a sexual encounter now deserves a new "rape-ish" label.A commenter nailed it I feel like what you should be campaigning for here is for girls to know that they can have courage under any circumstances. To know that no matter what’s already happened or what position they find themselves in, they can always say no. Most of us guys out here wouldn’t want to have sex with you if we knew it wasn’t going to be enjoyable for you as well. But if you go through the entire process: flirting, going to his room, having a heart-to-heart, making out with him, get… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/14 09:44 PM |
| 45 | Guy's girlfriend sends nudes to another dude. Male hamster kicks into overdrive, despite even /r/relationshits telling him to bail.From the comments So he physically forced her to send those pics? Like he had a gun to her head? I'm confused. As far as I understand it is something like being very pushy towards it. I don't really understand either. But I think it is something like ciberbullying which we have never both experienced. so I don't know whats he told her to make her send those pics. Hey guys, it wasn't her fault!! She was cyberbullied into it!! Edit: More self-delusion I've known a few girls that will send a boob s… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/14 08:18 PM |
| 10 | Are Male Feminists Getting Laid?I used to do feminist activist work back in my blue pill days. In and of itself, it definitely did not get me laid. It did get me to be around a lot of women though. But I was also a musician who had trouble getting laid if pussy was waved right in front of me. I think if a male feminist had great game he could probably get laid a lot but they'll never learn game and are such pussies about making the move with women that they probably don't get laid much at all unless they have natural game, gre… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/14 04:40 PM |
| 11 | "For every single rape I’ve had, I’ve had 20 that are total bull----." -NYPD officerThis right here. Why would she wait two fucking years to report the rape to the police? Here's why. She wanted to write about how rape victims are supposedly treated by police, how they're not taken seriously. Yeah, no shit. You don't take it seriously and you expect the cops to? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/14 01:18 PM |
| 9 | "For every single rape I’ve had, I’ve had 20 that are total bull----." -NYPD officerPolygraph is bullshit pseudoscience. Not even worth doing it. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/14 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Male students at the University of Chicago are now being publicly slandered as a result of rape hysteriaI don't think they can sue the school for this unless the school knew about it and supported it. They can sue Jezebel for libel though if Jezebel hosted this. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/14 09:02 PM |
| 30 | You're a manHis comment is getting upvoted because it points out something legitamate: we all seek validation in one way or another. Reddit is a form of validation with its upvotes and downvotes. To seek validation is human. I would argue that it's the most human part of us. Human beings (and chimps) are separated from the lower animals by our hierarchy. Every animal is social to some extent, more or less, and social living requires hierarchy in order to function properly. Without it, everyone would be at e… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/14 10:46 PM |
| 5 | She wants to know your SMV, and she will try to figure it out by getting you to reveal it. Don't let her. Stay mysterious.Agreed. I stopped coming to this sub regularly for pretty much the same reasons. Destroying the pedestalization of women (including my own) is interesting to me. Constantly trying to show how men are better than women is annoying. It's tiresome to constantly point out that there are confirmation biases in both directions. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 06:24 PM |
| 2 | She wants to know your SMV, and she will try to figure it out by getting you to reveal it. Don't let her. Stay mysterious.instead of realizing the truth: that it's all just social conditioning This is one of the biggest lies of gender feminists, that men and women are inherently psychologically the same and just have different bodies. This is a lie. Men and women have inherent behavioral differences and there are a litany of studies that have proved this. When I first subscribed here, there were no specific advice how to deal with shit tests with canned-fucking-lines. So you've never said the same thing to two diff… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 04:15 PM |
| 3 | When She Pulls Away: Turn Your Wheels into the SkidThe whole thing may just fizzle out. That's fine. That's what you want then. There's no way to force her to be intimate. If you do push and constantly invite her out when she's not interested, then the worst may happen: she may actually go out with you even though she's not into you. You might spend money on her or at least a lot of time on her when she has no intention of hooking up with you. You become her orbiter. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 03:18 PM |
| 4 | When She Pulls Away: Turn Your Wheels into the SkidHow do you make sure that it dorsnt totally collapse You don't make sure that it doesn't totally collapse. That's the whole point. It goes hand-in-hand with dread game. If you're not getting the respect and attention you deserve as a man, then you don't start to give her MORE attention. You give her less. Many times it does not work. And you lose the girl. But if it is going to work, it will work this way. She has a reason she's losing interest, and lowering communication would just reinforce he… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Because Uber was built by misogynists...This does not jump out at me as a sign of females getting yet another privilege not afforded to men, or somehow having some agency men do not have. Can you imagine if men started their own cab company that would only pick up men? Not in your wildest dreams. In any event in america businesses reserve the right to refuse service to anybody they choose. Not true. Take a look at the famous civil-rights era photos of the diner not wanting to serve black people. You as a business can't discriminate fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/14 11:03 PM |
| 6 | Why isn't dread game working for my friend?Damn, what a chump. I wouldn't call him a chump. Even if you are 100% in agreement with RP principles when you are in that situation it's a different story. Your brain gets scrambled. I know a lot of guys who are excellent with women, including myself. We can give excellent advice and it is easy to see what's going on when you aren't in the middle of it. But when you are in the hot seat your brain turns to scrambled eggs. Your mind comes up with a million reasons why this girl is different and w… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 08:52 PM |
| 35 | Bill Burr Immediately Shuts down a HamsterNah, she was at the start of a feminist rant and he knew it. That's why he cut her off. After she asks him if women can be funny and he says yes, her rant begins. "Some people have a hard time saying yes! There are a lot of angry young men on the internet who say women can't be funny..." Bill knew exactly where this was going. She was trying to have him account for every single thing any MRA has ever said. He realized this and quickly turned the frame around stating his personal cohesive opinion… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 01:03 PM |
| 3 | So... whatever happened to my ex-wife after the divorce? The first 12 months.Ha ha. Awesome. I was thinking about writing a post about that. Maybe I will. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Is it bad that that i still tried to figure out how people do shit like this and wonder why they are objectified?I've lived in NYC for over 15 years and have never, ever seen anything like this. I have never seen a man grab a woman on the street in any way. Not saying you're lying, but I've just not seen it happen. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/14 09:12 PM |
| 3 | "I’m Tired Of Feeling Grateful To My Husband For Marrying A Single Mom"Seems like she resents her husband for being a nice guy. She says, my husband can often seem to be too good to be true. Honestly, the guy is saint-like. But I really resent... Where as if her husband were redpill she would be saying something like He treats me like shit by doing X, Y, and Z. But I really love... | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/14 08:59 PM |
| 39 | So... whatever happened to my ex-wife after the divorce? The first 12 months.I've snooped in the past but I don't do it anymore. An old plate had given me the password to her mail account and I logged on every once in a while to check shit out. I did learn some very juicy, interesting stuff. But I would not do it with any women in the future unless there was something on the line, like in a divorce. The more I did it, the more suspicious and jealous I became. Jealousy is not an Alpha trait. An alpha isn't jealous of his girl, he's jealous of his time. If you suspect your… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/14 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Be a good person if you want but it won't attract womenIt doesn't hurt to be 6'5" and 225 either. You may think that women are attracted to you because you do nice guy things when in reality they are attracted to you in spite of doing nice guy things. It's not easy to discern the two if you haven't explored both ends of the spectrum. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/14 03:08 AM |
| 9 | One guy takes down entire gang girls beating up another girl.Not saying I disagree with your point but that dude was kinda big. He is almost a whole head taller than her and is built. I've seen plenty of dudes go down after a sucker punch like that. She probably should have called for backup before trying to make that arrest. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/14 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Guy is tired of being berated by his Feminist GF. Responses confirm the blatant ignorance and hypocrisy of feminists.This is a great demonstration about the state of social justice warriors. This guy's girlfriend is directing her self-righteous anger at him. Because he doesn't tow the line and agree with every single viewpoint of the feminist extreme, he's now the target who needs to be changed. He's considered the problem and she's not afraid to let him know. If a woman can treat her boyfriend this way, and all of the feminists at /r/askwomenadvice support this, how do you think they treat other non-minoritie… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/14 01:57 PM |
| 2 | What marriage REALLY means for a womenCan you imagine being married to this? I have to go surf /r/WTF to get her image out of my brain. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/14 09:07 PM |
| 28 | Wherein a guy's GF suggests cuckolding, and he drops her instantlyunless you are Jared Leto-level of SMV. But in that case, she would not be asking for an open relationship in the first place, because she knows what will happen. Excellent point. The fact that she is asking for this in the first place strongly suggests that she believes you aren't capable of walking out of your house and pulling ass that night or the next night or within a few weeks. This is why I believe that the foundation of dread game is the ability to meet other women. If she senses you ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/14 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Recently single, and need advice on a sexy chick. Read for more info.Don't tell her you're single, particularly if she has a boyfriend. If she asks about your current relationship status, tell her, "It's complicated." Women are attracted to you when they think you're in a relationship. Also, if you declare to her you're single, that's like telling a girl, "I like you." Never tell a girl you like her. Instead, invite her out for a drink or coffee and take it from there. | /r/trpGAME | 23/07/14 08:13 PM |
| 40 | What is The Red Pill and Why does it existI'm an uncle. My nephew is getting to the age where I can engage in more rough and tumble play with him. I spin him in the air and throw him on the bed while he keeps coming back and fake attacking me. The play is more antagonistic than when he was younger and a bit rougher. I love playing with him like this. I also feel it's my duty to introduce him to more antagonistic physical play because I suspect he doesn't get that much. Of course, when I do it, I make sure all the doors are open and ever… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/14 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Beta man lets girlfriend of two years arrange a date with another man because her mother 'pressured her to'. She assures him it will be a 'brief date' but she will not tell the other man she's in a relationship.She says it's the best solution to the problem, that maybe if she just goes on 1 date and explains to her mom why she didn't like him, then it'll thaw the situation. The problem is that when you give in, it only feeds the monster more. Even if everything went as planned, you can sure as hell bet that the mother will continue to push and push even harder now. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Lifelong Feminist realizes flaw in Modern Feminism.This is a great synopsis about why everyone should shun the word 'feminism.' I used to consider myself a feminist and still believe in equality but I would never call myself a feminist and would be automatically turned off by someone who did. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Easy Way to Practice DominanceYeah, if a sidewalk is super busy and a bunch of people are blocking traffic, it's annoying. But even then, you wouldn't run into them. You might say, "Excuse me" in a loud tone. More often though, the sidewalk isn't that crowded. People will stop to talk with their friend for a moment or stop to send a text message. Often they'll stand to the side. If those people are in your path, you need to go around them. A clearer example would be if someone is walking slowly in front of you in the same di… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/14 01:08 PM |
| 24 | Easy Way to Practice DominanceI've been doing this for years. Wrote an article about it here. This is a great thing to practice particularly if you live in a crowded metropolis. To refine this a little bit more, you can play this game at anytime and it doesn't matter how dominant the other person is. Here are my rules: Walk straight ahead. Do not move left or right for anybody except if that person is standing still. If a person is standing still, you need to walk around them. If a person walking walks into someone standing … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/14 07:10 PM |
| 7 | "Addicted" This movie trailer shows basically everything you guys talk about.Yup. I was thinking the same thing when I was watching this. To be fair, many famous male celebrities have used the laughable 'sex addiction' card to rationalize their alpha seed sowing. It's all bullshit though. Just like food addiction, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/14 12:57 PM |
| 2 | You only want me for sex!Wow, that's sad. But I could see it happening exactly like you told it. It's almost impossible to cater to both women and men at the same time when it comes to relationship advice. Any useful advice you could give men will not be of the 'play-nice' variety most women want to hear. Most of it is kinda the opposite: don't play nice. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/14 11:37 PM |
| 2 | You only want me for sex!Really? That's a shame. I haven't read too much of his stuff but the stuff I read I did like. He seemed on point to me. I was reading it to help a friend of mine who was going through a divorce and was reluctant to swallow the red pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/14 10:29 PM |
| 18 | You only want me for sex!The problem here isn't that she's accusing you of wanting her just for sex, the problem is that she doesn't want to have sex with you. "You only want me for sex" is just an excuse. If that stops working she'll come up with another excuse. She's not in the mood or she has a headache or she just doesn't feel sexual and needs to see a doctor, etc. Your wife should want to fuck you. If she doesn't, all this verbal repartee means nothing. You could pass her shit test with flying colors, and you would… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/14 06:00 PM |
| 10 | Beta opens up his marriage .... Fall out as expected.The title of his post says it all. I feel like my wife hasn't treated me fairly He runs to the internet with his grievance like a child running to a parent. "She's not treating me fairly!" This is what you get when you look for equality in a relationship. Instead, when you manage your relationship like a parent manages a child, you pre-empt that whiny, needy feeling you get that you've been wronged. Instead, whenever you feel wronged, you act on those feelings with power and grace, up to and inc… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/14 02:37 PM |
| 8 | Beta opens up his marriage .... Fall out as expected.Can you please tell me when you want me to be more dominant? I just want to know. /s | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/14 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Show Me the Ho FactsSo it's better if you got a slut without using game? That doesn't make sense at all. If you have no game and you're dating a slut, you're in worse shit because you have no control over the relationship. If you understand power dynamics and how to retain it in relationships with women (i.e. game) you'll be far better off no matter who you end up with. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/14 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Show Me the Ho FactsPlease, do enlighten me. How should I have read it? And these comment post minimums are really stupid. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 10:44 PM |
| 9 | Meet The Man Who Apologized After Being Falsely Accused Of RapeAgreed. It's almost a blueprint for the best way to respond to this sort of thing if your main goal is to get the situation to go away. Like it or not, the judge, jury and executioner in public opinion will the vast majority feminists who rise up to support their comrade. This takes a way a lot of their ammo. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Fucked up on hottest girl in club. What would you have done?Looking back, there is always something clever you could have said in any situation. I'm sure I could think of a few things. And there are many ways to handle a situation like this. But the default way to handle any situation that isn't going your way: ignore it. If she shit-tests you and you don't have a good verbal response, ignore it and move on. If she says something stupid and it's not an appropriate time to cut her down to size, ignore it and move on. Yes, if you can say something clever o… | /r/trpGAME | 13/07/14 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Plate 'caught' me with another plate.I know that if my bf cheated on me He's not her boyfriend. They never agreed to be exclusive. Unless I agree to be exclusive with a woman, she has carte blanche to do whatever she wants with whomever, as long as she doesn't start treating me worse for it (canceling dates, etc.) | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/14 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Plate 'caught' me with another plate.Exactly. Pretty much every girl is going to try to be exclusive, particularly if you don't push it in that direction. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/14 11:13 PM |
| 93 | Plate 'caught' me with another plate.In this thread: people who have never held down a plate trying to give advice on what he should have done. You did the exact right thing here. You played it perfect. No, you shouldn't tell girls up front that you never want a relationship. You shouldn't tell them you're exclusive if they ask, but you don't need to tell them about who you're dating. It's none of their business. Waving at her and leaving was perfect. Best thing you could have done. It showed that you weren't rattled by seeing her … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/14 08:35 PM |
| 1 | How can men protect themselves from false rape accusations?Sounds good to me. But I'm not a lawyer. I would speak with a lawyer if this is something you wanted to do. We all know how the law can be unreasonable at times. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 07:12 PM |
| 1 | How can men protect themselves from false rape accusations?If there is a reasonable expectation of privacy, like in a bathroom or bedroom, then it's definitely not legal to videotape without their consent. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 05:21 PM |
| 10 | trouble keeping my plates because they all want relationshipsContrary to what a lot of people say, if you want to keep a plate as casual, you shouldn't tell them outright, "I want to be casual." If you've read much red pill, you know that you should ignore a woman's words and listen to her actions. Women do the same with you. If you want a casual relationship with a woman, the main thing to do is see her less often and less regularly. After you hang out with her, put a few days in between with zero contact. Then set up another 'hang-out,' but keep it up i… | /r/trpGAME | 27/06/14 04:34 PM |
| 1 | How can men protect themselves from false rape accusations?Threaten me again and the cops will see it. And it might get leaked. Threatening to leak a video on the internet treads very close to blackmail. I would be careful about saying something like this, particularly over text. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 03:59 PM |
| 2 | How can men protect themselves from false rape accusations?This contract won't do shit for him. She can say she changed her mind and he didn't stop. The only way he could actually be totally sure is if he filmed the sex and in that case he wouldn't even need a contract. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Looking For Advice On a Chick That Wants To "Take It Slow" [Serious]This I don't want anything more than a casual hookup Doesn't jive with this We've been talking for three and half weeks If you've been talking with a girl for three and a half weeks before hooking up, it is NOT casual. In fact, it's not even serious. You're already in friend zone. No guy with options would spend three weeks talking with a girl over facetime with no sex if he had other options. If you want to hook up with this girl, stop talking with her over facetime. Tell her you've gotten real… | /r/trpGAME | 24/06/14 01:29 PM |
| 1 | She is not your shoulder to cry on - UPDATE: I slipped upI know this sounds crazy, but this is one reason why it's good to have a therapist. You pay someone so you can dump your problems on them. You talk to him/her about all this shit, get a sympathetic ear, have them ask you how you feel about things. We all suffer from mental and emotional stresses. Better to talk to someone who won't fuck you over for revealing them. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/14 02:41 AM |
| 16 | "At least 25% of college educated women will not be able to marry college educated men"It actually makes sense for a woman's sexual prime to be in her 30's-40's. I suspect that this often-quoted statistic is bullshit. It's possible some women have a spike of horniness in their late 30's, but I think their sex drive decreases along with their ability to have kids or at best stays steady. I'd really love to hear how they came up with this statistic. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/14 02:35 AM |
| 3 | How do I go out alone? (alternatively- how the feelings I get going out by myself make it impossible for me to talk to anyone)The way to get comfortable going out alone is by practicing it in small increments. If you want to go to bars, go out alone to a bar every day and get comfortable being in that environment. Stay for ten minutes at first. Don't put pressure on yourself to talk with anyone else. Just hang out there. After a while, start staying for longer. Part of the reason you may feel uncomfortable going to bars alone is because most people go with friends. You can make up an 'excuse' in your mind why you're th… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/14 02:52 PM |
| 6 | How do you confirm that there is a date when you just text?This is why you never send out a date invitation as a first text. You ping her first with something a bit flirty. See if she responds. Then you text her where/when to meet. It's a lot less needy that way. If the date is not today, I would wait until the day off and then text her something like, "Shoot me a text if you can't find the place." If you don't hear back from her, she probably won't show. If she's unwilling to text back at least an, "Ok", she's not going to show up on a date. | /r/trpGAME | 18/06/14 06:54 PM |
| 1 | She's going to get away with whatever she wants. Accept it. Stop caring.It depends on your current looks, status, level of experience and how hot/how many women you want to get. If you are average and are happy with average women, then you don't need much. But if you're average and gunning for tens, you'll need a lot of practice. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/14 11:55 AM |
| 1 | She's going to get away with whatever she wants. Accept it. Stop caring.When did I say anything about my game being adversarial or conquering? No where. But if you demonstrate low value for a woman, she will lose attraction for you. End of story. And if you want to use the dance analogy, take a look at Salsa or Tango. There are steps. It is an interaction where the man leads with a preset role. There is nothing 'natural' about approaching women. 90% of men out there have too much approach anxiety to even approach one woman in their life. 'Naturals' are not 'natural,… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/14 02:28 AM |
| 1 | She's going to get away with whatever she wants. Accept it. Stop caring.That's not how women communicate. You can communicate with women like that. If you're already dating a girl you can say, "I want to fuck you." You should examine why you believe you can't be honest with women when you first meet them. If it's grounded in any sort of shame or fear, that is your issue. And you can stop talking down to me as if I have an issue. I have no issue. I am fucking as many attractive women as I want. I communicate with women effectively and emotionally. I let them know whe… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 06:51 PM |
| -2 | She's going to get away with whatever she wants. Accept it. Stop caring.I also loathe talk like 'getting the upper hand'. Having hand simply means that they view you as higher status than them. They are chasing you rather than you chasing them. If you play games with women, you will only attract women who play games. It's all game whether you like to admit it or not. No guy is completely honest with women. If you were completely honest with women you'd walk up to them and say, "I'd like to fuck you." And don't give me this bullshit about wanting to get to know their… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Man being assaulted. The imgur-cummunity is burried in feminazisHere is a redditlog of the comments. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 04:20 PM |
| 11 | Man being assaulted. The imgur-cummunity is burried in feminazisHere is a redditlog of the comments. This comment is great: Occasionally a story will hit the media about a jealous or otherwise irritated woman cutting off a guy's dick while he's asleep. I've been in a couple of workplaces where women giggle and laugh about the news story. When it happened most recently, I'd devised a response to the idiots: "Yeah, I know! It's funny right? I saw a news report about some woman in the Middle East whose tits were hacked off by her husband, and it was hysterical … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 04:19 PM |
| 1 | She's going to get away with whatever she wants. Accept it. Stop caring.There's is far too much focus on women in this sub. The focus should be on what we can do about it. That's why I think it was a mistake to ban game from this sub. Getting the upper hand with women is entirely relevant. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/14 04:08 PM |
| 18 | What it's like to be the victim of a false-rape accusation. Brown student speaks out.From the comments, one of the best I've read on this issue: When I was in college, I sat on my university's judicial board, and we had to decide on a case very similar to this one. These cases are difficult not because someone is lying, but because two people clearly believe what they are saying. Now, I believe this woman felt she was raped, but to be honest, her story lacks logic in so many places that it simply doesn't add up to scrutiny. I am in no way attacking the alleged victim here, but w… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/14 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Retards, Retards Everywhere. This is the world we live in.In these situations, you can easily predict the top replies, "You dodged a bullet." That's what everyone says to a person who's relationship has just gone to shit, man or woman: "You dodged a bullet." It's never her fault or his fault. There's never any accountability or things about themselves they need to change. It's always that this just wasn't the right person. "You dodged a bullet." It allows the person to go on with things, the destiny of their dating life out of their hand. Love is a mag… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/14 06:49 PM |
| 6 | Is it a bad idea to approach other women in the same venue after getting rejected by one?The key here is how you responded to her rejection. If you laughed it off and were okay with it, then go ahead and approach other women. If you were totally crushed by the interaction and other people saw, then your value will drop. That being said, I would practice opening someone else right away as soon as possible after a rejection, with the same exact opener if possible. That way you won't have time to stew over the rejection in your mind. And you'll teach yourself that rejections don't matt… | /r/trpGAME | 09/06/14 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Be confrontationalYou should not hesitate to be confrontational when necessary but at the same time, most situations call for finesse, diplomacy, indirectness and social savvy. Confrontation is a last last resort. If you overplay your hand, it is a sign of weakness. If you have an employee who generally does pretty well but happens to be doing something wrong, you would not confront him and say, "Don't let it happen again." You would first let him know in a friendly manner that he's doing something wrong. I had a… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/14 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Just found out casual friend's wife cheated on him. Should I somehow tip him off?Even an 'anonymous' tip could be traced back to you if so few people know. I wouldn't do it for a casual friend. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/14 03:54 PM |
| 4 | Possible negative correlation between alpha personality attributes and intelligence?Being kind, generous, "soft", is only a negative where most of the population does not work according to those traits Wishful thinking. These 'higher intelligent' men are good at more technical tasks but lack social intelligence. They can do quantum physics but can't make another person feel comfortable in conversation at a party. They lack social calibration. The fact that a lack of social intelligence correlates so highly with an abundance of scientific intelligence suggests that this combinat… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/14 03:02 PM |
| -4 | Thread in /r/AskWomen right now is literally called "Is cheating a decision?" You can't make this shit up.Why is it so hard to believe that men cheat more than women? Red Pill Truth does not mean that men are angels and women are evil. From my personal observation, I would say that beta men tend to cheat less and alpha men tend to cheat a lot more. Some of the most alpha guys I know are entirely scummy and immoral when it comes to fidelity. They'll even fuck their friend's friends. Being alpha should in no way be equated with morality. And accacaaccaca is not wrong that many studies do support the f… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/14 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Get-out-of-the-friendzone how toYup. Once she's lost attraction for you, it's almost impossible to get it back. It's 100 times easier to start fresh with a new girl. And if you are unable to meet new girls, then you sure as fuck won't be able to get out of the friend zone with this one. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/14 01:12 PM |
| -7 | Guy Puts Tabasco in Used Condom. Girl pays out $367,000 settlement in counter-suit.Inspiring story but... why not just flush the condom down the toilet? It seems like a lot more work to put Tabasco sauce in a condom. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/14 01:06 PM |
| 9 | Plate + female friend stripped me naked while passed out drunk and took pictures: hilarious. Roles reversed? Jail M*therF*cker. What is your go-to for explaining bullshit gender differences?Your particular example doesn't show a difference in privilege but rather how men and women respond to something like this. Yes, if you were truly upset, you probably would have gotten less support than if this happened to a woman. But what happened to you was illegal and you could have pressed charges against them if you wanted to. But you didn't, largely in part because you're a man and something like this is a lot less likely to upset a man than it is a woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/14 08:33 PM |
| 15 | Feminists attack interesting post about rape statistics on Imgurthese rapes are being largely committed by immigrants, minorities, and illegal aliens Let's see a source on this or else it's just made-up bullshit, which is as bad as the blown-up feminist statistics. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/14 09:42 PM |
| 3 | "My fiancée used to snort coke, drop acid, and sleep around, but now she's perfect for me! Oh yeah, it was a year ago."I think his comment was sarcastic. But I agree with you, I've dropped acid and done shrooms about ten times in my life and it was a great experience each time. Particularly shrooms. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/14 06:21 PM |
| 5 | You can not show weakness.You're falling for one of the most common misconceptions about Red Pill Theory. Sadness and vulnerability are not unattractive to women in and of themselves. Look at the bad boy with a bad past. Look at rock stars crooning about how awful the world is. Women love to fix men that are broken. The crime is when that vulnerability is accompanied by neediness, when you act like you need her because you're afraid or sad or vulnerable. That's where the problem comes in. In general, that neediness can b… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/14 12:28 PM |
| 4 | Negotiations with a woman I barely knowAs long as you do all the cooking and cleaning. Because you're the woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/14 07:07 PM |
| 31 | OP's wife stops having sex with him, OP talks to wife about counseling, wife tells OP to use a dildo, OP is angry but considers itNot every shitty thing a woman does in a relationship is a shit test. This certainly isn't. Women shit test men when they are attracted to them. This woman has lost attraction for her man. She's struggling because she doesn't want to be the bad guy and leave him. So she's getting him to end the marriage by demanding absurdly demeaning things. She would much rather fuck another dude. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/14 01:36 AM |
| 3 | On basic GAME, PICKUP, and the direction of TheRedPill, RULES REVISITED 4/2014Are we not allowed to post things discussing the specifics of game? If so, I think that's a bad idea. It's one thing to disallow repetitive posts that ask what to do for every shit test but I think deleting all posts that discuss the specifics of game is a bad idea. I don't see how you can not allow discussions on the specifics of navigating male-female relationships when this sub is almost entirely about the differences in gender and how to navigate it. Beyond that, Seddit is terrible. It's fil… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/14 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Guys who cold approach, what do you normally talk about?I think a canned opener is good, but having a whole canned STORY is too much What's the distinction? I like to have enough material ready to go to move the interaction in the right direction. That means about five minutes or so of stories, routines, etc. It's all about making the best first impression. After that, the relationship is moving in the right direction. I open a lot of women. And I like to improve. When I'm consistent at the beginning of the interaction I can keep what works and get r… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/14 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Guys who cold approach, what do you normally talk about?I'm not mocking. My point is exactly geared toward new guys. A lot of so-called experts push the idea of being a 'natural' to newbies because newbs are uncomfortable with the idea of routines. They feel they need to say something special and different to each new woman and treat her special. It's a function of their anxiety and a fear of getting 'caught' rather than the excuse they normally give, which is that she'll be able to tell you're saying something you've said before. It's actually the o… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/14 01:04 PM |
| 3 | Guys who cold approach, what do you normally talk about?Awesome. You're a naturally excellent with women? That's great. I'm not and a lot of other guys on here aren't. We are learning to get better with women. We are learning this as a skill that can be improved upon from interaction to interaction. That means you need to have consistency. If you say something different with each woman you have no consistency. And if you're not a natural and think you can get better without consistency, you are fooling yourself. There is no skill on this planet you c… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/14 10:08 PM |
| 4 | Redpill in real life.Nope. That's not how you deal with depression. If you really are depressed and it does not seem to subside, the first thing you should do is see a good therapist. Simply talking about your feelings to another person who won't judge you is one of the best things you can do. True depression tends to isolate you. You feel worthless. You feel like you don't want to bother your friends. You feel like you aren't interesting enough to talk to other people. If the therapist knows what they are doing, th… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/14 02:42 AM |
| 50 | Guys who cold approach, what do you normally talk about?This is important to figure out because if you have no idea what to say, you'll come off as having no confidence. What you don't want to talk about: Don't just start asking her questions about herself, e.g. Where are you from? What do you do? What are you up to today? etc. This is called rapport-seeking. Every guy does this. It makes you seem try-hard, like you're trying to find out things about her so you can build a connection. It puts too much pressure on her. Her answers will be boring and y… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/14 02:34 AM |
| 8 | Redpill in real life.Depression is dealt with by exercise, diet and sleep. No it's not. Exercise can help depression, as can dieting. But it's not a solution. This is like saying dieting can cure cancer. If exercise and dieting cured depression, no one would have it. And you don't 'deal' with depression by sleeping. Depression can disrupt sleep or it can make you sleep 14 hours a day and not want to leave your bedroom for weeks on end. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/14 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Redpill in real life.Alright, I'll be the one to ask. Why the fuck did you take a girl back that dumped you five times?? Even if she came crawling back on her hands and knees, I would slam the door in her face. If you're saying you were beta back then, then your point isn't even relevant because the girl left you because you were beta, not because you opened up to her. Opening up to a girl does not necessarily equal beta. It can, but it depends on how often you do it, when you do it, and how you do it. If you give h… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/14 01:08 AM |
| 106 | One guy adds a badge to his tinder profile, gets 2000 matches [X-post from /r/socialengineering][Comment of the Week] I've learned a valuable lesson here. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/14 01:27 AM |
| 6 | Hamster bitter that MIT is - gasp - competitiveToxic. Whenever that word comes up, you know it's a feminist whining about something. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/14 10:54 PM |
| 3 | The myth of the alpha-beta-omega etc hierarchyAll social animals (wolves, bees, chimps, primates) have social hierarchy. Human beings are no different. Social hierarchy is formed so that individuals can enjoy the benefits of group living without constant costly physical infighting to find out who defers to whom. Unlike all other social animals, humans and chimps form social hierarchy based on contribution rather than physical dominance. This means that the individual who contributes the most to society (nobel prize winners, rock stars, CEOs… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/14 01:50 AM |
| 12 | On the TRP and LoveFirst, the dude described in the story did not love that girl. He barely knew the girl. That was not a two-way street of mutual appreciation. It was what every oneitis is: a fantasy the guy created in his mind, fueled by a lack of options with other women. It was a way out of all the work he knew he needed to do on himself. From the video: It has less to do with what's inside you and more to do with what's inside her Wrong. Wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong. She rejected you. You were too inhibited.… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/14 02:17 AM |
| 1 | The state of OneitisAll good advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/14 04:04 PM |
| 8 | The state of Oneitisform the pair bond first and then mate. This is what we're taught in society growing up. It's what every love story romanticizes, that a man falls for a woman before they start fucking. It took me a long time to get past this and start putting sex first in relationships. The corrollary here is that you should start to get sexual and escalate with a woman as soon as possible, within minutes of meeting her. This does a few things for you: It shows your manliness because it takes big balls to risk … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/14 06:16 PM |
| 36 | GF cheated on me. AWALT.Sorry things went south for you. me : Are you in love with me? Ask yourself truthfully Never ever ask a woman if she's in love with you, how she feels about you, how the date is going, etc. It's the height of neediness and displays a huge lack of confidence. If she feels it, she'll tell you. If she's not sure, it will surely crowd her and push her into no category. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/14 02:45 PM |
| 10 | I notice a lot of attitude "Women have it so easy with sex its unfair!" but sex like anything is only valuable if its scarce.Sex is like air--it's not important unless you aren't getting any. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/14 10:21 AM |
| 16 | Update: Polyamory Failure Lets Wife Fuck Other Men... The Gruesome AftermathIn many ways, he caused this behavior in her. It's likely she was damaged before the start of her relationship with him, but he is just as culpable for this as she is--if not more. His lack of backbone gave her leeway to act like this due to a loss of attraction for him. Her 'honesty' in having an option relationship with him rather than cheating in many ways makes this worse for him. She started to lose attraction for him before she sought outside sexual fulfillment. Instead of cheating, she te… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/14 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Yale makes girl's life a living hell for being naturally thin [Fat movement needs to be stopped]Exactly. I don't think this has anything to do with obesity. I live in NYC and once in a while I'll see an anorexic girl walking around in a short skirt. Her legs are as thin as baby arms. It makes my physically ill. Those people are seriously fucked in the head. If this girl didn't have an eating disorder then Yale needs to review their criteria for classifying people with eating disorders. But I don't think it's wrong of them to step in when someone does have an eating disorder. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/14 01:14 PM |
| 8 | Woman leaves man for half-brother. If this story is even remotely true, it is just a train-wreck account of exactly what not to do. My sympathy for the man.Promise not to lie to me again Promise not to hide things from me again Promise to stop talking to [the guy you're cheating with] This never ever works. It's amazing guys even try to do this. A woman's words are worthless. Her promises are worthless. The only thing that matters is how she feels and asking her to make promises doesn't change that at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/14 12:58 PM |
| 2 | More TRP in Bill Burr's Monday Morning Podcast, but this time actually from a womanI wanna punch that fucking woman in the face. She's going off about the guy being shallow because he doesn't want a fat girlfriend. Fuck her. She's 5'2 and is 60-70 pounds overweight! Holy fuck. I would have dumped her at 15 pounds over weight. If a dude stopped being ambitious and spent all his time sitting on a couch playing video games, skipping work and going into debt, any woman would dump him. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/14 09:26 PM |
| 2 | "You're not trying to hook up with me are you?" shit testThe responses here who are saying that you should move on are getting downvoted but they are correct. This isn't a shit test. If you're hooking up with a girl and she says, "We're not having sex tonight," it's very different than if you haven't done anything with her and she says, "You're not trying to hook up with me are you?" The second is basically her saying something like, "Just to be clear, I only want to be friends with you." Girls throw shit tests at you when they're interested in you an… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/14 05:37 AM |
| 7 | Female friend on FB posted this nonsense. It basically says that consent is never talked about and it's up to the man to get a clear verbal "yes" because unspoken consent doesn't count.This idea of explicit consent is one of the most retarded "rape-culture" blame-men ideas to come out of ostensible feminism. She starts off the video admitting that most people express consent non-verbally. What are the numbers on that? When you really look at their argument up close, it makes zero sense. Here's why. Let's say you ask the girl, "Can we have sex?" Even if she says, "Yes," that doesn't mean you can jump on her and fuck the shit out of her. Even if her mouth is saying yes but her b… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/14 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Ali Wong - TRP Stand UpShe's not wrong about that either. The way marriage is set up these days, why should she? Women are incentivized to be lazy, fat and unfaithful. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/14 09:45 PM |
| 8 | Neuroscientist claims no innate difference between male and female brains (xpost from /r/cogsci)How about this for an innate difference between males and females: 90% of men are attracted to women and 90% of women are attracted to men. Everyone has conceded that homosexuality is not a choice, yet somehow straight people's sexuality is social construct? As a man, your predilection to want to stick your dick in pussy is a social construct? There are millions upon millions of species on this planet born with innate gender-specific behaviors--wanting to fuck the opposite sex--but somehow human… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/14 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Rachel Feinstein demonstrates how women see blue pill men.The beginning sucks. When she talks about getting a beta boyfriend it's pretty good. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/14 04:03 PM |
| 113 | Male stripper on reddit declares he gets a blowjob from nearly every bride-to-be at bachelorette parties.He fucks nearly every bride to be as well. Makes my stomach turn. Every bachelorette party I have done I've been touched by the bride to be. All but two have blown me and I've fucked all but 4. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/14 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Filipino-American girl desperately draws attention to her past car modeling career while also claiming she "doesn't want to be known as just a hot body"I'm a born-again feminist! I could choose to continue with “modeling” and be known as the other “Nikki” within the car show scene Thank God I'm not as pretty as the other girls or I would still be a self-objectifying exhibitionist. I’ll save you the time and energy of searching on Google for any pics of me bending over a hood of a car in short shorts and a sports bra… because there are none! Whew! All my sins of poor judgement are washed away. I am now self-righteous. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/14 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Deep Strategy for Keeping Her Crazy Into YouThe reinforcement is at random intervals, so it is still random. You don't reward her good action every 3rd time or every 7th time. You randomly change the interval between the time you're rewarding her so she doesn't know when to expect it. The fact that she doesn't know when to expect it is the important part here. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/14 05:10 PM |
| 4 | Deep Strategy for Keeping Her Crazy Into YouThat's how they train dolphins and other animals at Seaworld. They don't give the animal a treat every time it does the trick. They give it a treat randomly. That way it keeps doing the trick hoping for a reward even if it doesn't get one for a while. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/14 12:56 PM |
| 15 | Once again, Reddit prime displays they agree with Red Pill theory.Ladies, if there's any possibility of you experiencing a negative emotion, I'll do everything I can to absorb it. I'll even try to anticipate the possibility of you feeling negative emotions, and pre-absorb that. That's what a great guy I am. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/14 03:42 AM |
| 5 | Some hilarity from Mystery, Matador, and LovedropReally? We're hating on Mystery now? I see some people ragging on Mystery in this sub because of his peacocking and the use of routines. But let me telling you something, it took me years of experimentation before I could truly see how brilliant Mystery is. Mystery got it right all those years ago. He understood this stuff better than anyone else since and his principles still stand. He understood female psychology. He was the first to document the process of getting women addicted to you. How t… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/14 08:02 PM |
| 7 | are women really aware that we men aren't mind readers?There's a very special word we reserve for women that has no real equivelance when it comes to men: SLUT. In general, women are afraid of being called a slut. If you take initiative with a girl and you get rejected, it sucks. No doubt there are a whole host of negative emotions, from humiliation to embarrassment to rejection. But for a woman, she gets all those same feelings, plus she gets called a slut. As a guy, at least you can blow it off and still remain a man. As a girl, if she makes the m… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/14 01:07 PM |
| 12 | I thought up a quick test just now - a way to gauge the veracity of what I've been reading from this page - and it speaks for itself.Interesting. 60 million hits for "my husband wants an open marriage and i don't". 207 million hits for ""my wife wants an open marriage and i don't". What does this tell us, that men use the internet more than women? ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/14 04:09 AM |
| 16 | Just wanted to post this conversation I had with a girl I used to have a lot of phone sex with. She ends up threatening to accuse me of harassment for doing virtually nothing. Not sure what I should do now in terms of exacting justice... Any tips?Exacting justice? What? Dude. First, you sound like a girl while texting. Dropping into the conversation exactly where I did, if I didn't know which was the chick and which was the dude, I would have assumed you (the green) is the chick. You are acting EXACTLY like a chick. Don't get mad, I'm just saying this for your benefit. This is the truth. I wish somebody had told me that long ago. First: You're asking too many questions. Cut with the fucking questions. "How do you feel now? Now? How about… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/14 02:18 AM |
| 16 | Chivalry IS dead. And women KILLED IT. - Dave ChappelleI have noticed though that a lot of women don't acknowledge when men are being chivalrous or courteous. Yup. Men are a lot more likely to say, thank you if I hold the door for them. In fact, it happens so often that if I hold a door for a woman and she doesn't say thank you, I'll say, "You're welcome." I was on a crowded subway the other day and there was an open seat next to me and a guy on the other side of the open seat. A woman walks in with her 5-year-old daughter and tells her to sit in th… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/14 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Do women sometimes say no when they mean yes? The prevalence and correlates of women's token resistance to sexNice find. Here's a link to download the full study. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/14 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Dating Coach Teaches Men how to be sincereIt's not that it works. I'm saying that his version of 'sincerity' is not really that sincere. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 11:21 PM |
| 65 | What happened to the design here?I agree. I appreciate the work that must have gone into it, but it was a lot better before. The bold headings are too much and there are too many boxes. I just switched off 'Use subreddit style.' | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 08:32 PM |
| 29 | My Girlfriend Tried to "take a break" Last NightYou didn't do the wrong thing per se, but the fact that she came to you in the first place with this indicates a deeper problem in your relationship. We need to take a break. I’m just not sure about us and need some time to figure it out. If a girl said this to me, I would not have responded with, "How long?" I would have immediately agreed with her. "I think that's a great idea." Then I would have iced her for a few weeks with zero contact until she came crawling back, at which point I would re… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 07:27 PM |
| 25 | Understanding Your Market, Understanding Alpha/Beta and Attraction (AKA Why red pill advice might be completely useless)I agree with this 100%. Guys are all too ready to shout, "NEXT!!!1!!!" whenever some poor sap posts his relationships problems. Yes, many times this guy hasn't demonstrated a willingness to walk away and that's his problem, but a one-word answer won't help him at all. You don't set ultimatums It should be clear here that you aren't talking about explicit ultimatums, such as, "If you don't start sleeping with me more often, I'm leaving you." Explicit ultimatums are more than worthless, they demon… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Dating Coach Teaches Men how to be sincereI hate when people talk about sincerity in pickup. If you were truly being 100% sincere with women, you wouldn't compliment them on their clothes or their hair. You would say, "I would love to fuck you." Or, "You've got amazing tits." | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 03:27 PM |
| 6 | How do you introduce your woman to TRP?You don't mention it to her. If it comes up in conversation, like if you're talking about relationships or male/female dynamics, then talk about it. You shouldn't feel you need to talk about it with her. The fish doesn't not need an explanation of how it was caught. You simply use the techniques and mindset with her to keep her loyal and happy. TRP is like politics and sausage. They don't want to know what goes into it. Women don't want to know you've engineered the relationship or the pickup. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/14 10:29 PM |
| 10 | Scenario, how would you react?If by 'badly' you mean that she cheated on you or something equally egregious, then I would ignore her. Otherwise if if it just didn't work out, I would walk over and say hi to her. Ask how she is. Talk for a moment. Then say, "It was great seeing you. I have to get back to my brother. It's his birthday." | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/14 10:24 PM |
| 1 | What is your rule about adding women on facebook?Facebook is the worst. Whenever a girl tries to friend me on facebook I just tell her that I don't use facebook too much. Why? Girls on facebook get a ton of validation from guys. They post a stupid comment and 50 orbiting guys 'like' their comment. They post a pic and 150 guys tell them how hot they are. You don't want to compete with that. Girls will 'mark' their territory if you're dating them. When I used to do facebook and was dating a girl, they would like and comment on everyone of my pos… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/14 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Show spends entire segment making fun of woman who advocates that women marry when they are youngThanks. Corrected. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/14 09:37 PM |
| 0 | Stefan Molyneux dispenses Red Pill advice to a caller.The more attractive a woman you buy, the more precarious your marriage will be. The more alpha a male you bag, the more precarious your marriage will be. I don't agree with this at all. First, if you marry an uglier girl, you're likely to be less happy as you both age and that makes the marriage unstable. Second, the hotter the woman, the more alpha the guy needs to be to keep the relationship stable. But a guy being alpha is a good thing. Relationships tend to be more stable when the woman is a… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/14 07:16 PM |
| 7 | The only winning move...This idea that seduction tactics are only good for short term relationships and same day lays is complete hogwash. Every other post on /r/TheRedPill is talking about how guys in relationships have gotten screwed because they don't understand what really attracts women--and it's not mutual respect and honesty. No woman ever loved a man for his virtue. In order to have empowered relationships with women, you need to be able to bring women into your life or you're at her mercy. From there, staying … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/14 04:18 PM |
| 5 | Girlfriend repeatedly publicly shames her boyfriend on social media, he asks: "How do I fix this? Or is this a valid reason to end things?"Yeah but he takes a lot of the blame for cultivating this behavior in her. When I'm out to dinner with a girl, if she pulls out her phone to send text messages or whatever, she typically apologizes afterward because she knows it's rude. This guy has let it go for so long and so far that she's starting to push the envelope just to piss him off. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/14 12:58 PM |
| 66 | The only winning move...If you are practicing game, you do not have game. If you are not practicing game, you have game. Substitute 'game' for anything else--a sport, a life skill, an art--and you'll see that this is wrong. You get better at something through consistency and repetition, not from just winging it every single time. If you take anything away from Red Pill, it's that there are certain predictable human behaviors that aren't just mysterious woo. 'Falling in love' is a biological function. Hot girls like to … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/14 12:13 PM |
| 9 | Best response to a girl telling you "maybe we can hang out tonight?"Exactly this. You don't want too much chatter over text, especially when she won't commit to hanging out. It's a perfect time to leave her wondering why you aren't responding. Send her a signal that you're not going to be text friends with her. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 05:20 PM |
| 8 | What the fuck, how can anyone, regardless of gender bias, downvote this post?There's no way you can physically prevent a woman from cheating on you. You can't be with her 100% of the time. If she really wants to cheat, she will. However, most women (who aren't total whores) will be happy in monogamy if you game her right. If you remain dominant to some extent and don't turn needy, she will be happy and will be a lot less likely to cheat on you. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 04:15 PM |
| 16 | r/askmen talk about their experiences regarding womens revulsion toward emotional vulnerabilityWow, these examples are excellent. A lot of 'feel-good' types in the PUA community talk about how important it is to be emotionally vulnerable with women. It's a load of horseshit. It's what nice guys want to hear. They think acting vulnerable makes them genuine. I used to believe that myself but enough experiences have shown that too much can easily turn women off. You need to demonstrate your capacity for deeper emotions in one way or another, through storytelling, etc., but a little goes a lo… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Muscular Dudes are Like Anal SexGreat post | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 04:25 AM |
| 3 | Muscular Dudes are Like Anal SexDo you have any evidence that women prefer ultra-muscular guys? If I remember correctly from studies I've read, women prefer some musculature on men but not a lot. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Need some texting adviceIf a girl you liked asked you to hang out on a specific day, but you were busy that day, what would you do? You would offer up another day to hang out. If you ask a girl to hang out on a specific day and she says she can't and doesn't offer an alternative, that's a pretty clear no. If she were showing A LOT of interest over text, I may text her a bit more, but I would not ask her out again right away or offer another day. I would wait at least a day or two before asking her out. If she said she … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/14 06:19 PM |
| 5 | There are lies, damn lies, and then this list of lies.The comments are great. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/14 03:43 PM |
| 8 | There are lies, damn lies, and then this list of lies.I've gained a bit of weight since Olivier and I first met, and he's not only fine with it -- he accepts and loves it. I'm sure he 'loves it.' She gained 25 pounds. 25 pounds. Holy fuck. That is not the same woman he met. If her husband lost his job and had to start pinching pennies, do you think she'd love him 'just the way he is?' Nope. (Unemployment increases risk of divorce for men) | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/14 03:39 PM |
| 9 | Don't discuss the Red Pill with women.In your defense, you almost can't help talking to your therapist about this stuff. I've talked to my therapist about some of this stuff. I'm confident in discussing my convictions on things so I'm not too worried. But if she reacted like your therapist reacted I would be done with her. A therapist isn't even really supposed to try to change your views necessarily but help YOU understand how YOU feel rather than tell you how she feels. She shouldn't be talking about herself or share anything abou… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/14 01:32 AM |
| 4 | Topless women protesters 'surprised, upset' as men show up with cameras (X-Post to /r/nottheonion)I love this article. It's like they could have quoted the girl say, "I'm really upset at human biology." It's like a microcosm of modern-day feminism. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/14 10:21 PM |
| 4 | I don't feel pressure. I apply it.By your logic displaying any kind of confidence could be considered manipulation. You tell her to meet you somewhere as opposed to asking her? Manipulative! You go for the kiss without asking for permission? Too much pressure! You don't constantly ask her, "How are you feeling about stuff with us?" every five minutes? Manipulative! You don't try to be friends with her for 10 dates before making a move? Manipulative! She wants to have a couple of drinks and you encourage her? Manipulative! Fuck o… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/14 12:27 AM |
| 5 | How to deal with my girlfriend...You're coming here for answers but you will walk away with nothing. You are too emotionally invested to accept any solution that disengages you emotionally from her (end it, walk away, spend time away from her, etc.) There is no relationship management tool that works from a place of disempowerment. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/14 05:51 PM |
| 8 | Log your days.Both. I incorporated a lot of game techniques I picked up from many different sources and tried them out. Sometimes I would stumble across something that seemed to work well by accident. Other times I purposely tried out certain things like negs, stories, etc. It can be very difficult to figure out what 'works' with women because there is so much noise in the data. Sometimes if you're lucky, right after you try something out you'll get feedback from women. They'll push you away if it doesn't wor… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/14 05:23 PM |
| 12 | Log your days.I would take this one step further. Have structure to your interactions and conversation. Last night at a music venue I fumbled an opening chat with a decently cute chick and bored the shit out of myself and her. This is all well and good, but how do you improve on this? It doesn't help to mentally think to yourself, "Make the conversation interesting" as you do an approach. That's meaningless. Instead, come in with some interesting conversation. Be consistent. Try things out. Keep what works an… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/14 02:56 PM |
| 1 | The case for a Heartiste donation driveI'm not too worried about Tucker Max. He had one good book and has been trying to sell shit for years. Countless others have been repackaging Red Pill self-help concepts for a decade and a half. It was just called PUA before. There are already a million splintered sites out there trying to sell PUA advice by making it more palatable to the average entry-level blue pill guy. In fact, the whole concept of Red Pill is really just an aggregate of PUA and MRA concepts. No doubt Heartiste is a trailbl… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/14 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Good sexually loaded topics?This is a good question because being willing to talk about sex shows confidence and gets women thinking about sex. First experiences: First date, first kiss, first orgasm. Weirdest date you've ever been on. Ever made out with someone of the same sex? Ever had a threesome? You can also play the "Never have I ever" game. Google some questions to play during the game. You'll probably find a lot of great sexual stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/14 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Good sexually loaded topics?I don't buy this at all. Unless you are escalating physically or talking about sex, you may as well be a friend to her. It doesn't matter how deep your eye contact is. Somebody has to make the move to bring it there. I typically escalate the conversation sexually in some way. Sometimes I do it through banter, ("Don't make me pull your pants down and spank you in front of everyone"). Sometimes I do it by escalating from less sexually charged questions to more sexually charged questions, ("What wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/14 09:29 PM |
| 4 | [Mod] Remove yourself from LULU (Scroll to bottom)This would lead me to believe that you actually have to sign up, contrary to what I heard elsewhere (from that page): How do I know if I'm on Lulu? Have you signed up? Guys must sign up to appear or be reviewed on Lulu. Once you sign up, you can watch your Lulu fan club grow and get feedback from girls about sex and relationships. Then again, maybe a girl could sign you up without your knowledge? | /r/askTRP | 20/03/14 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Two and a half weeks into TRTI was considering TRT. I'm 42. I had my urologist test me and he said I was "fine." Whatever the fuck that means. One of the main reasons that I wouldn't do it is that it seems like once you start, you're on it for life. You're body starts to reduce it's natural testosterone production. Does that bother you? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/14 06:02 AM |
| 62 | Why women don't like men that hire prostitutes.I think it was Charlie Sheen who said, "I don't pay prostitutes for sex, I pay them to leave." | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/14 05:58 AM |
| 8 | Wife vs. TSACouple years ago I hooked up with a hottie I was sitting next to on a plane. Push came to shove and we wanted to join the mile high club, so we made our way to the bathrooms. But the flight attendants were making the next person in line waiting for the bathroom wait like three rows back. It's like they knew I was coming. Goddamit 9/11. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/14 02:26 AM |
| 18 | Response to "What Do Women Really Want?" written by a Blue Piller lets us step inside the mind of a betaThis is actually a great article. For once, an intelligent guy is being completely honest about his situation as a beta without making bold pronouncements about the way forward--because there is no way forward as a beta. It is difficult for men, especially those of us who appreciate and embrace the importance of being respectful and considerate toward women, to balance those attitudes with the animalistic, nonrational expressions of passion and desire that women want from us. And so he does what… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/14 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Does TRP encourage cheating?I don't talk about other women I'm dating when I first meet a girl and start hooking up with her. It's none of her business who else I'm seeing if her and I are not exclusive. If she asks whether I'm seeing someone else I tell her that I'm not ready to be exclusive and we'll talk about who else I'm seeing when I am ready. At that point she can stay or she can go. Up to her. It's not cheating because I never told her I was exclusive. Talking about other people only rubs her face in it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/14 07:28 AM |
| 18 | The Language of MonogamistsWow. This woman is a horror. But I blame the guy as much as I blame her. My husband took me to a therapist, who explained to me that a marriage needs boundaries so that the other person feels secure. He asked me what boundaries I was willing to abide by. I told him none. When you met her, it was like she was sitting on the cold concrete floor. Your relationship was a soft, plush wall-to-wall carpet you let her sit on. Now she's all comfortable on that carpet and declares, "All bets are off! I ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/14 08:25 PM |
| 0 | Fraudulent/Fake red-pill blogsFor someone 'unmasking' supposedly fraudulent blogs, he supplies very little evidence. He's 'seen pictures'? What does that even mean? He posts his own picture (which has since been removed) as evidence that he's not a fraud, but a picture doesn't provide any evidence that a guy is good with women. Even a pic of him with girls would not be evidence. It's fairly easy to get a pic with some hot girls. Even video of you opening women isn't even really much evidence. It's not that hard to get women … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/14 08:02 PM |
| 10 | Female colleagues collect taxi fare for drunk girl.He wasn't neglecting his duty. His duty is to be a nurse, not pay for people out of his pocket. She is sober. She just has a long walk in the cold. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/14 06:30 AM |
| 13 | Scientific evidence that negging works.Wrong. The whole "negging is playful teasing" is one of the biggest capitulation to feminism. Guys like to say it is playful teasing because it fits into the female narrative on pickup. Just like, "Pickup is all about self-improvement." Bullshit. Negging is not playful teasing. Playful teasing is playful teasing. Negging is disqualification and it's said as if you're serious. If you're at a bar and you meet a girl and you say, "I don't date women I meet at bars," that's a neg. You're disqualifyi… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/14 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Male insecurity at an all time highYou're arguing that because now the main people reproducing are beta, that betas must have had some advantage for their genes to have been passed on. I'm saying that betas have always been around, even if they didn't have sex. A certain number of males turn out to be betas, kind of like bees where only the queen can reproduce and there are sterile worker bees. Or, more likely, the beta male humans stayed around and helped raise alpha male humans' kids. Now that there's birth control, alpha male … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/14 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Male insecurity at an all time highIf lack of aggressiveness and focus on resource gathering didn't have any advantages on our species we would all be mindless brutes. Not so. In many species, only the highest ranking male(s) contribute to the gene pool. In some species only alphas or an alpha pair are permitted to reproduce. (In one population of macaque primates only three males were responsible for over 75% of mating. Source: Samuels A, Silk JB, and Rodman P. - 1984. Changes in the dominance rank and reproductive behavior of m… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/14 06:31 PM |
| 2 | On "hotness vs. commitment" exchange rates and transactional vs. validation sex - economic models of the SMP...Critical Detail #1. Sex is “priced” in two major currencies of exchange: Sperm Donor Currency and Provisioning-Protection Currency. The key relationship is the SD:PP exchange rate, and this is what realistically should be quoted. Another way of putting it would be the “Hotness vs. Commitment” exchange rate. The fuck does this mean? Explain it like I'm 5 please! | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/14 04:18 AM |
| 33 | Science confirms the 2/3 ruleI don't disagree with this. Shorter texts. Less texts. Shorter sentences when you're hanging out with her. If things are going as they should, she should be speaking more than you. The only place I would say that this doesn't necessarily hold true is at the start of the conversation. When you open a conversation with a woman, you sometimes need to do more talking. You need to be able to lead a conversation and sometimes the best way to do this is with a story or something similar. Guys who are p… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/14 11:43 PM |
| 23 | "5 Reasons You Should Major In Women’s Studies"I never saw a more bastardized usage of Psychology as a science as I did in that class... Much of the class argued that differences in men and women are "socialized" and "cultural" - relying on behaviorist and blank-slate theorists.. and completely ignoring biology and evolution. She even taught us that boys are stronger because they are socialized to play sports and engage in rough play, while girls are given dolls. Additionally, case studies of people with rare afflictions like Gender Identity… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/14 04:11 PM |
| 135 | [Mod] They're talking about us again... and we don't care.... quick guidelines.There are also a ton of random articles posted here about women doing evil shit that really has nothing to do with red pill, like this one: Teen Girls Accused of Torturing Boy, 16, With Intellectual Disability. Other than the most basic level in figuring out that women aren't angels, this has nothing to do with red pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/14 02:10 PM |
| 6 | Teen Girls Accused of Torturing Boy, 16, With Intellectual DisabilityHow is this red pill??? Are we going to post every single thing a woman/girl does wrong as red pill? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/14 02:00 PM |
| 6 | What is the stronger move? Delete a text from an old flame, or go gorilla on her showing her your improved self?The hard truth: it's very difficult to change a person's perception of you. You may have changed a lot since you last saw her, but she still perceives you the same. Which means you'll probably act the same. If you're looking for a quick bang, then go for it. But something tells me you want a lot more. Stay away. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/14 11:44 PM |
| 3 | On Fake Alpha MalesSemantics aside, your answer doesn't address the content of my point at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/14 08:02 PM |
| 6 | On Fake Alpha MalesIt's difficult to parse exactly what is meant here by 'vulnerable.' If this is referring to risk-taking, then I agree. Betas are typically averse to taking risks. They don't approach the woman they want for fear of rejection. They don't sexually escalate with a woman because of fear of rejection. However, if this is referring to emotional investment, then I disagree. In a way, a guy is making himself vulnerable by approaching a woman, but, for example, if he says the same exact thing to every wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/14 05:37 PM |
| 9 | Petition to recall the judge who gave a teen drunk driver probation for killing innocent people. Yep, the judge is a woman.This sub is turning into Something Bad Happened, Yup It's a Woman. Who fucking cares? Men do plenty of stupid shit too. If it's relevant to displaying female-specific thinking, then post it here. Otherwise, this is not Red Pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/14 12:33 AM |
| 17 | TBP lurkers, we know you're here.Great write-up but it's pearls for swine. You're arguing into the wind. I would love to see some honest, scientific criticism of Red Pill Theory but instead, 98% of TheBluePill is this: They quote from something said in TheRedPill Then TheBluePill commentary: "Wow. Just wow." Or: They quote from something said in TheRedPill Then TheBluePill commentary is TheRedPill quote taken to the extreme. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/14 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Why I think we should discontinue the use of alpha and beta to describe behaviors.How exactly are you pro red pill and anti pua? They are two sides of the coin. Appearing powerful is about communicating power. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/14 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Minocycline, a microglial inhibitor, reduces ‘honey trap’ risk in human economic exchangeThey gotta make it in red. And make the placebo blue. Then I can stand there with my blue pill friends and say, "This is your last chance. After this, there is no turning back. You take the blue pill - the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill - you stay in Wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit-hole goes." | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/14 05:13 PM |
| 11 | Minocycline, a microglial inhibitor, reduces ‘honey trap’ risk in human economic exchangeA literal red pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/14 04:11 PM |
| 7 | Yoga Pants On Dates ShamingIf she knew Leo DiCaprio was as into yoga pants as I was, she probably would. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/14 12:01 AM |
| 61 | Yoga Pants On Dates ShamingI love chicks in yoga pants. But I have had chicks show up on dates dressed bad. That sucks. Her real crime, though, was showing up fat. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/14 10:30 PM |
| 4 | Evil bitch or a shit test? How the red pill changes a story.Sorry for the confusion. By 'like' I meant 'is attracted to.' She may like him as a person but not be attracted to him. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/14 07:07 PM |
| 26 | Evil bitch or a shit test? How the red pill changes a story.He's an orbiter. This happens all the time. Girls pick up orbiters, spend time with them, get validation, etc. A girl spending time with you talking and joking doesn't at all mean she wants to date you or fuck you. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/14 05:22 PM |
| 25 | Evil bitch or a shit test? How the red pill changes a story.Sorry, but she was not shit-testing him. A girl will shit test a guy when she likes him. She does not like this guy. (Edit: By 'like' I mean 'want to fuck/date' him.) Desperation is the worst cologne. A woman can smell one-itis a mile a way and this guy reeked of it. It's such a turn-off to her. If you ask a woman out and she is busy, she'll usually offer an alternative day. This girl wasn't busy and just made up an excuse not to hang out with him. She's his coworker. She doesn't want to blow hi… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/14 04:53 PM |
| 38 | Never, ever interact with feminists. A reminder from Canada. 4 guys about to get destroyed because of a FB chat with a feminist.It's probably this guy The one participant in the conversation who is not threatening legal action said the entire incident has been a huge learning experience. "There was some conversation with some pretty violent, like, some pretty demeaning words," said Pat Marquis. "I didn't say much in that conversation, but I didn't stop it either." And check this out: Marquis was a vice-president in the student union until he resigned this weekend, reportedly after receiving hate mail and threats related … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/14 06:06 PM |
| 70 | Never, ever interact with feminists. A reminder from Canada. 4 guys about to get destroyed because of a FB chat with a feminist.To be clear, the men in question didn't actually chat with the feminist. It was a private chat conversation about her that somehow got out. In some regards, this is an interesting privacy ethics dilemma that has nothing to do with feminism. If you say fucked up stuff with your friends in a private chat and someone gets a hold of that chat, can you be held responsible for what you've said? Likewise, is it a punishable violation for a third party to disseminate a private chat between two (or more)… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/14 05:07 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill will not generate long-term positive results for individuals or for society. A discussion that challenges commonly held beliefs.I think it's fair to say that if a woman says "no," you can call a time-out for at least the evening. If a woman says "no" and you are trying to pull her pants down five minutes later, you're a poor excuse for a man and a lover. So 24 hours is what you deem acceptable to try again. Trying again in five minutes makes the guy a misogynist. Do you see how arbitrary and vague this is? It's all about what you're comfortable with. The woman can leave anytime she wants. No one is keeping her there agai… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/14 11:24 PM |
| 6 | The Red Pill will not generate long-term positive results for individuals or for society. A discussion that challenges commonly held beliefs.Things like threatening to throw someone out of your hotel room if they don't have sex with you, Please tell me why a man should continue to invest his time and energy into making a woman his mate when she is not interested in him. This benefits no one. or interpreting "no" as "last minute resistance" surmountable by escalation, Women can and do change their mind all the time. So now you're telling me that once a woman says no, she can never, ever go back on it? or applauding people who beat gir… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/14 05:35 PM |
| 13 | One of my plates asked me a good question last night, Redpill how long do you wait??If your plan is to wait, you'll want to keep your dates really short. 1.5 hours tops. Have one or two drinks with the girl and then you be the one to end the date. If you do this with every date, it's fine to wait until the 2nd or 3rd date to invite her back to your place. What you don't want to do is spend too much time with a girl and get too emotionally invested in her before sex happens. If you spend hours and hours with the girl every time you see and you're not having sex, that's a problem… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/14 05:02 PM |
| 8 | Depressing thread about dead bedrooms on the front page right nowTRP really needs to come up with a relationship- problem solving technique besides "dread game". This is one of the biggest misunderstandings of relationship game. There are not a host of relationship techniques that you can use. There is one single technique. There is one language that women understand. It is a binary language. You are either moving toward her or moving away from her. You are rewarding her or you're punishing her. You're giving her your time and attention or you're taking it aw… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/14 12:50 PM |
| 1 | "I feel like you're not as interested in me...""Is this a marriage proposal?" | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/14 01:53 AM |
| 5 | "I feel like you're not as interested in me..."Keep it sexual and fun. Acknowledge what she's said but don't give her the personal validation she's seeking. "Weird. I was just thinking about how sexy you look in your panties." Or if you don't need to game this girl harder, you could just put the kibosh on all her worrying. Ask her why she would say that. After she responds, say: "Stop worrying so much. You're fine." It really depends where you're at with this girl and where you want her. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/14 11:31 PM |
| 10 | Hamster in action. Girl talks about how she was successfully picked up by a RedPill man. In two paragraphs, she goes from calling him "perfect/amazing" to calling him "contrived/creepy".That was the one weird part to me about this whole story. I can't tell from this story whether: They didn't have sex at all. That would be really beta of the guy to keep seeing her, introduce her to his friends, etc. This seems unlikely to me because in that case he would just be an orbiter and she wouldn't have been so suspicious of him. She was lying about not having sex with him. Considering how much she revealed, it also seems unlikely that she would lie, but it is possible. Or... They did o… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/14 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Is people who have cats and dogs more needy?How did you catch that? Brilliant! /s | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/14 04:21 PM |
| 9 | The Key To Never FailingFor the most part you're right. You need to consistently be learning, and that requires failure. But one thing to keep in mind, for guys with social anxiety is that sometimes there's nothing to learn and you just need to keep pushing forward. Sometimes you get rejected by a girl and you can learn something from the situation. But other times, you get rejected and there's nothing to learn. You did the best you could and the situation was out of your control. You can still progress and grow from t… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/14 03:33 AM |
| 84 | Austin Institute releases video about the economics of sex in modern society. Jezebel explodes.Great video. And not one single logical counter argument in the Jezebel whine-piece. This is perhaps the most telling line in the Jezebel article: And I literally do not give one shit if you disagree, because this is not a debate. My human agency is not one side of a thought experiment—it is an objective fact. In other words, my opinion is fact. It is fact because I believe it to be true. Nothing you or anyone else says can change my mind. This reminds me of the Bill Nye creationism debate, wher… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/14 09:50 PM |
| -6 | True Confidence: An excerpt from Mark Manson's book "Models"That's not TRP. That's mainstream bullshit. It's what your grandmother would tell you. Ask any average person on the street what you should do to get better with women and they'll tell you exactly the same thing. Become a better person. Not that it's untrue, it's just not part of any of the pillars of Red Pill theory. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/14 03:58 PM |
| 2 | The damage of SlutteryYeah, but that's not really the problem here with correlation versus causation. Even though there is correlation, the two may be completed unrelated. For example, it could be that poor women are both more likely to be depressed and likely to be more promiscuous. That doesn't mean that promiscuity caused the depression. If you're middle class and meeting women who are middle class, there may be no correlation between promiscuity and depression. There could even be a negative correlation that's sk… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/14 01:32 AM |
| 21 | In encounters, capitalizing on the sensitive areas of the female body.I wish women would understand men's erogenous zones. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/14 10:29 PM |
| 12 | The damage of SlutteryAlright, I'll be the one to say it. Since we here at TRP abide by science, it must be said: correlation does not equal causation. If women who have had more sexual partners are more likely to be depressed, it's just as possible that depressed women are more likely to sleep around. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/14 10:24 PM |
| 6 | Wives often divorce husbands who lose their jobs, says Govt. research...This will be rationalized away the same way all other undesirable traits about women's attraction is dismissed. They'll say that the man loses confidence in himself when he loses a job (or is short, is ugly, is bald, is poor, is low-status, etc.) and that's why the woman isn't attracted to him. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/14 02:48 PM |
| 2 | I'd enjoy hearing TheRedPill's thoughts on this article, especially concerning the people mentioned in it. "Up for Polyamory? Creating Alternatives to Marriage"In most open marriages/relationships I've seen, the man is really beta. It typically goes hand-in-hand with the whole sex positive/feminist idea like in the book The Ethical Slut. I would not recommend an open relationship unless the guy is truly alpha, in which case, he doesn't really need this type of definition anyway. If you as the guy can't go out and get pussy on almost any night of the week, open relationships are a bad deal for you because typically the girl can go out and fuck whomever … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/14 09:57 PM |
| 11 | The Myth of Sexual OrientationA better theory would be one that treats something that appears to be incredibly disadvantageous to actually be disadvantageous How on earth is hating on gay people red pill in any way? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/14 05:41 PM |
| 7 | If you were a woman insteadI can't believe how many people here are saying how easy it would be to be a woman. There are so many reasons I would not want to be a woman. You're trapped in your current SMV. Your level of attractiveness is almost completely determined by your physical appearance. Although few men take advantage of it, we have far, far more mobility since attractiveness is based on other things beyond just our physical appearance. Women lose their SMV at an alarming rate when they hit the wall. Men can pretty… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/14 02:16 AM |
| 2 | What defines small talk?It's easier to say what small talk isn't: Anything personal, about you or the other person. Anything that someone may have a strong opinion about, such as religion or politics Small talk is typically mundane stuff like the weather, what you had for lunch, local sports teams, etc. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/14 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Is this a shit test and if so, how do I respond?First of all, whenever a girl "tells" me what to do, I don't do it. "Close the window." "Make reservations." etc. I just sit there and look at her with a look on my face that says, "Really? You're telling me what to do?" It's one thing if she asks or at least says please. Secondly, you should be very careful with compliments. You should almost never give out a physical compliment to a girl. If you do compliment her, compliment her on something she does. "I like your eyes" versus "I like the way … | /r/askTRP | 20/02/14 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Dating and the Myth of the Patient MaleAwesome, yeah. My rules might be a bit different than other people's. Season to taste. The idea though is that you should have some rules in place so you don't get too emotionally wrapped up in a girl before she's into you. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 03:33 AM |
| 12 | Online dating and massive discrepancies in SMVNah. Girls know what's up online. Guys have zero approach anxiety like they do in the real world. So girls get a ton of messages with bad spelling errors ("Your so hot") from dudes with selfies wearing no shirts. It doesn't make them feel good because they know those dudes are dogs. Would you feel better about yourself if 20 fat chicks a day were hitting on you? You wouldn't. I meet women all the time online and fuck. It's almost easier than in the real world because you get instant dates withou… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/14 02:22 AM |
| 3 | Cisgender? What's going here?The argument here isn't that people should or shouldn't use the word 'normal.' It's that I shouldn't be asked to call myself cis male instead of male. Why should I use a term that offends me if trans people can decide for themselves what term offends them? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/14 10:42 PM |
| 1 | How to handle a 'flaky' girl.I would typically cut off contact. If she's super friendly over text, I may ask her out at another time. But the fact that she didn't offer up another time is a pretty big sign of disinterest. Only a guy with no other options would keep asking the that girl out. If a girl you liked asked you to hang out on a certain day and you couldn't, most likely you would offer an alternative. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/14 10:18 PM |
| 10 | I what age will relative market value turn to favour men over women?Right around thirty years old. (From The Rational Male) Note: A man's SMV does not just automatically improve. Part of this is that he has enough time to raise his SMV by accomplishing things and more importantly--improving his game) | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/14 06:30 PM |
| 62 | How to handle a 'flaky' girl.If you had a super busy life but you really liked a girl, do you think you could make time for her? Of course you would. You are option #2 or #3 or maybe even #4 for this girl. Some alpha keeps switching plans on her and you're left out in the cold. Every time she cancels on you and you allow her to reschedule with a 'Yeah, no problem', it lowers your value. If you finally get this girl out on a date, your value will be so low that you will have zero leverage with her. You don't want to go out o… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/14 04:24 PM |
| 1 | When to know to stop trying.If she is really out of town or has a boyfriend and is just saying hi, then feel free to shoot a few texts saying hi. Flirt a little. I would just be very careful to make sure you don't validate her in any way. Don't compliment her. Don't let her know you like her or that you want to fuck her. Don't have long deep conversations with her. Keep it to a few (3-5) texts back and forth every few months. If she is around and could hang out with you but won't, then fuck texting back. I have no time in … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/14 10:57 PM |
| 38 | When to know to stop trying.This is an important question because knowing the answer will keep you from turning into an orbiter. To preface my answer, let me explain what a 'ping' is in case you don't know. I generally don't ask a girl to hang out out of the blue. When I first contact her, I send a ping, a text testing the waters. It could be anything from telling her I saw something that reminded me of her to a bit of banter, etc. After she responds to the ping, then I ask her to hang out with me. So here are my cut offs:… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/14 07:34 PM |
| 6 | When to know to stop trying.There may be a case where a girl is very busy She is never busy. She's just too busy for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/14 07:18 PM |
| 10 | Woman decides to grow out her beard and feminist hamsters proceed to pretend she looks beautiful.I love how she's putting on mascara. You go girl! Maybe a dab of rouge can hide that beard. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/14 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Trans People are a Great Counter to FeminismIf you're looking for a wedge in popular feminist thinking, there is a much better one. One of the (laughable) foundations of feminist activism is that men's and women's brains are identical with no inherent behavioral tendencies. The differences between men's and women's behavioral tendencies, they claim, are all nurture. I've had feminist friends claim that even sexual attraction, a man's desire to fuck pussy, is a cultural construction. The easy counter to this is to bring up homosexuality. N… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/14 10:31 PM |
| 1 | "I'm not ready for a relationship right now" should I continue with her?You fucked up long before you even thought about making chocolates. All this texting back and forth and hanging out with a girl without getting sexual with her demonstrates to her a deficiency in being able to take initiative. A girl will put you in friend zone fairly quickly if you don't make the move. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/14 07:58 PM |
| 17 | How to break up with an LTR?There's no reason to not be compassionate when breaking up with a girl if you're just not feeling it. This no longer has anything to do with being alpha, being red pill, etc. Like leading an animal to the slaughter, your goal is to make this as clean and quick as possible and minimize the amount of pain in the process. My preferred way to break up with a girl is to sit her down and say this. "I think we should break up." The reason? "I feel like this relationship isn't going to the next level." … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/14 06:27 PM |
| 3 | In honor of valentines day, this is a man.I love this man more than life You said everything you need to say there. Your heart is in the right place which means he's doing something right. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/14 01:23 AM |
| 6 | Just visited The Blue Pill.Dude, the Blue Pill is AWESOME. There's an entire subreddit of women (and some men) where all they do is talk about US. How fucking awesome is that? They're on here right now, reading what you wrote. What I wrote. They're following us around, trying to parse our words. Waiting for a moment to pounce. "Wow, look at how fucked up ____ is." Our words. They're pouring over them. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/14 01:17 AM |
| 5 | Currently popular post on Reddit: What's one thing that someone does that just screams "I'm a douchebag"?Why should I be the one to move instead of them? Give me one good reason. Should I jump out of the way of very person that walks toward me? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/14 01:11 AM |
| 2 | What is your #1 rule when it comes to women?ApproachAnxiety.com: Listen to Her Actions, Not Her Words | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/14 05:23 PM |
| 6 | Shitty/sarcastic sex relationship advice from Louis CK & Dan Savage taking it seriouslyThe problem is that if you don't have game when you're young, nothing is going to change when you get older. I do agree that things improve when you get older, but it won't "just happen." Things have improved for me exponentially but only because I've gone out and worked on my game. I've had ten years of gaming under my belt and that has made all the difference. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/14 03:23 PM |
| 6 | TRP's Toxic TerminologySouth Park didn't invent the phrase. It was being used in TRP circles before that episode ever aired. The Ring South Park Episode aired March 11, 2009. Here are at least two comments from 2007 on the TRP blog Chateau Heartiste that use the phrase Gina Tingle: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2007/07/06/love/ http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2007/06/07/dennis-kucinich-alpha-male/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/14 01:40 PM |
| 1 | TRP's Toxic TerminologyWow, you're offended that TRP uses the phrase 'gina tingles' but not South Park? Why not put a target on South Park and call them out for being gross and infantalizing? I'll you why. It's the same reason vegans target people wearing fur instead of leather. If they targeted people wearing leather, they would get the full wrath of a group of people who would make them look worse than they already do. Take this up with the creators of South Park, not TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/14 01:20 PM |
| 14 | What is your #1 rule when it comes to women?Women are typically adept at obfuscating their actions with words. They tend to be more in touch with their feelings and have more experience and natural ability at communicating. This allows them to manipulate men. Guys tend to be more straightforward and their words tend to line up more with their actions. That being said, this does apply to anyone. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/14 11:54 AM |
| 7 | Currently popular post on Reddit: What's one thing that someone does that just screams "I'm a douchebag"?Unless the sidewalk is super narrow, I never get out of the way for someone walking toward me. I prefer to slow down and stop if I have to, and let them walk around me. I particularly enjoy doing this with hot women. They get all huffy and puffy because men get out of their way all the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/14 01:33 AM |
| 191 | What is your #1 rule when it comes to women?Ignore her words. Listen to her actions. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/14 12:45 AM |
| 2 | My marriage and possible divorce - Thoughts from the Red PillIt is this day, that for some reason she starts picking a fight with me when her sister is over. I don't do anything around the house. My new found confidence and lead taking in the home a way of me controlling her. I looked at her... why are you being some rude? Nothing. It is possible that this situation is unfixable and that she is unfixable. Still, in this instance, I would have handled it differently. I would have immediately pulled the rug out from under by refusing to say another word to … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/14 05:44 PM |
| 3 | So... What's the endgame?The other night I fucked a feminist. She kept insisting on communication and mutual respect. Those are great, but what she didn't realize was that one part of her brain was trying to turn me into a manboob while the other part of her brain got wet when I dominated her. Her pussy knew better than her brain did what was good for her. A woman, by nature, does not understand what she is attracted to. By nature she is programmed to defeat every man she can so that she can find a worthy mate. Her logi… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/14 01:31 AM |
| 6 | Dread Game = Instant tingles.It's not a good idea to tell her you're seeing other women. And I'll tell you exactly why. When you tell her, "I'm seeing other women," she has a recording of that in her mind. You gave her clear-cut evidence. The majority of women want some type of exclusive relationship and that gives them a clear-cut reason to deliver an ultimatum like, "I don't want to be in a non-exclusive relationship, so stop seeing other women or we're through." Their friends will ask them, "How are things going with ins… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/14 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Checked my girls phone, found exactly what i was expecting....Alright, then he should drop her down to non-exclusive. Problem solved. She sounds like a bit of an attention whore anyway so I wouldn't want to be in an LTR with this girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/14 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Checked my girls phone, found exactly what i was expecting....Even in those multi-partner relationships, you'd want full disclosure Are you kidding me? Until we're exclusive I don't ask who she's dating and she's not allowed to ask who I'm dating. Anyone with any relationship experience knows that if you ask her whether she's dating anyone else, she's going to turn around and ask you the same exact question. And if I'm not ready to be exclusive with her, I don't want to know. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/14 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Checked my girls phone, found exactly what i was expecting....It does matter. If I'm not exclusive with a girl, I don't care what she does. I don't ask her. I don't snoop her phone. She's a plate. She can do whatever she wants just like I can do whatever I want. Once I start to care, she's not a plate anymore. And sending a 'cute' picture? It wasn't even nude. Who fucking cares. If she's my girlfriend it's a different story. Are you really gonna snoop a girl's phone when you're not even exclusive with her? Welcome to the land of insecurity. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/14 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Checked my girls phone, found exactly what i was expecting....Where in his post does it say he's exclusive with her? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/14 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Checked my girls phone, found exactly what i was expecting....Well, it's not clear what the situation is. Is OP exclusive or non-exclusive with this girl? If he is exclusive with her, one of his options is to drop her down to a plate and see her every three weeks. I've had girls straighten their shit out and get in line after doing this. If they're not exclusive, then who fucking cares what this girl does? It's not cheating if they were never exclusive. I'd continue to fuck her. It sounds like they were exclusive and he put a lot of thought and energy into… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/14 09:37 PM |
| 4 | How to tell if you're an orbiter or a branch?Is she fucking you? If she's not and you continue to flirt with her, give her attention, or validate her, then you are an orbiter. Your certificate will arrive shortly in the mail. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/14 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Girl claims sex with her ex-boyfriend of 3 years was rape and blames her school.Validation can also mean recognition, acceptance and attention. A girl mentions the word rape then expects to be treated far better than anyone reporting any other type of crime and expects the school and state to convict the guy without any evidence. She expects special privilege simply for being a woman. A culture that validates unethical behavior like this is pathetic. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/14 08:41 AM |
| 1 | RP, how much do you think people can change?Talking recently to a new girl whom I'd probably have attempted to "fix" in my younger years has me contemplating this. OP, can you give more info on this? Are you trying to change yourself? Are you hoping this girl can change? Are you hoping her view of you can change? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/14 11:07 PM |
| 80 | Girl claims sex with her ex-boyfriend of 3 years was rape and blames her school."I'm not sure I would've come forward if all these people hadn't done it before me," Espinosa said. "I needed the validation." She needed to feel better about herself after he dumped her. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/14 09:00 PM |
| 9 | My ethnicity is killing my dating life. What can I do?Also, your accent. If you have a strong Indian accent, work to get rid of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/14 07:43 PM |
| 154 | Girl claims sex with her ex-boyfriend of 3 years was rape and blames her school.CNN should have titled this article, Girl Wants School to Convict Ex-Boyfriend of Rape Without Any Evidence. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/14 07:36 PM |
| 4 | When should a RP man consider nexting his LTR?It depends how much you care about her and how bad she fucked up. If she didn't fuck up and you're just not into her anymore, then don't be a dick. Just end it with her. If she fucked up really bad and cheated on you, then never speak to her again. If she did something questionable but not deal-breakingly bad, then demote her to non-exclusive. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/14 03:26 AM |
| 20 | Presumed Fathers Act makes it legal for women to name whoever they want to pay child support.As if we needed another reason to not get married | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/14 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Shit test from a girl I met on okcupid?Your response was fine except this part: so I just got reaaaally drunk lolol. Typically if the girl is annoying and/or doesn't look like her photos, I leave right away. It's a little bit nice-guy to hang around when you're not into a girl. There's been times when I've left without even having a drink. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/14 10:13 PM |
| 7 | How many femenist does it take to screw in a lightbulb ?I always heard the joke like this: Q: How many feminists does it take to screw in a light bulb? A: That's not funny | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/14 10:03 PM |
| 10 | Engaged guy decides he's mentally ill and irrational because he's secretly never trusted any woman and ends his engagement over it. Turns out his fiancee cheated. r/relationships straps on their white armor anyway and rushes to save the fair maiden from this sick deranged monster.If you as a guy are extremely jealous and possessive like this guy said he was, that will increase the likelihood of your woman cheating on you. A lot. It kills attraction and turns you into an unlovable, insecure basketcase. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/14 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Good articles on punishing bad behavior/crossing a line?Wait, so you're saying in the case I presented, where she didn't return your text, you would talk to her about not returning texts? Would you have a talk with her if she didn't fuck you? What if she wasn't physical enough with you? These are problems that can't be talked out. Talking does not do anything. You talking to her is not punishment for her. You talking with her is a reward for her. The punishment is you pulling away. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/14 05:04 PM |
| 0 | Good articles on punishing bad behavior/crossing a line?I don't buy all this bullshit about having talks with her and confronting her on things. It shows neediness. And here's why. Her 'misbehavior' is also a form of her pulling back. Let's take another example. Let's say you send her a text asking her a question and she doesn't respond until 24 hours later. That's bad behavior. But she's also pulling back. Would you sit her down and have a 'talk' about this behavior? No. I would simply not text her for two days. When she pulls back, you need to pull… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/14 01:11 PM |
| 0 | Good articles on punishing bad behavior/crossing a line?But should you still let her know explicitly that her behavior was unacceptable? Every. Time. Me personally, I wouldn't. Let's say she's late and doesn't text or call. The first time I would mention it to her, "Phone's not working?" while I display disappointment. Maybe I don't give her a hug/kiss when she shows up. If she did it again, I would not say anything. I would escalate the punishment. I would be stand-offish for the first half hour we hung out, almost ignoring her. I would let her brin… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/14 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Good articles on punishing bad behavior/crossing a line?To reward/encourage good behavior: Show interest Give her more eye contact High fives Hugs Smile Connect more with her Show more sexual interest Text and call more often Invite her out more Take her on vacation with you When you do reward her, you want to be careful to take it away afterward. In other words, show a little bit of disinterest after showing interest. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/14 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Good articles on punishing bad behavior/crossing a line?If you engage in actual punishment, like yelling or "corporal punishment" as I've seen at least one user promote, you fulfill a sense of drama and risk INCREASING the behaviors you're attempting to correct because the essence of your punishment is still attention. Absolutely. Yelling shows an emotional investment on your part. It empowers her. And corporal punishment... that's a reward for her in the bedroom! WITHOUT explicitly stating it to her unless something has gone terribly wrong between t… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/14 04:00 PM |
| 10 | Good articles on punishing bad behavior/crossing a line?When it comes down to it, there is really only one way to punish bad behavior. You are the prize. Your attention, your presence, your time, are all a gift to her. When she misbehaves, you take that gift away from her. You can do this at all different levels. With the most minor infractions, you simply give her negative body language (such as turning away, not giving her eye contact). With the most major of infraction, you refuse to ever see her again. The amount and severity of the punishment de… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/14 03:08 PM |
| 8 | We've all been lied to. This is the long list of lies.Most girls are nice, only she was a bitch The girl I'm in love with is different than other girls, that's why it's okay for me to let her get away with shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/14 01:44 PM |
| 2 | TRP makes a lot of sense to me, but I'm still learning. How do I deal with this situation?You've still got some leverage with her, but it's doubtful she'll put herself in the same position she did last time. She won't make it so easy this time. You'll need to show you're ready to make the move. Have you even made out with this girl yet? I would tell her you need to meet up with her to discuss something. See if you can get her in a very private place and make out with her. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/14 01:00 AM |
| 3 | TRP makes a lot of sense to me, but I'm still learning. How do I deal with this situation?If you were watching movies with her and cuddling but didn't make the move on her, then that's where you fucked up. Plain and simple. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/14 12:41 AM |
| 6 | Wikipedia is ‘very masculine,’ so feminists pledge to fix itIt's not like you just set up an account and start editing multiple Wikipedia pages at will. It takes time and energy before you become a trusted Wikipedia editor. Here's what's going to happen. About 50 women will all set up accounts and try to make a few changes. Their changes will get rejected. They'll huff and they'll puff and realize it's more than just hitting 'edit' and being done with it. And they'll quit. Because none of them really give a shit about Wikipedia. All they care about is th… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/14 04:28 PM |
| 7 | Be a good person if you want but it won't attract womenPlease enlighten me. What kind of 'good' actions attract women? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/14 07:22 PM |
| 2 | If Anything, Caring About What's Beta IS Beta: A Response to "Why Being Polite is not Beta"This should be the top comment. I can't believe the self-delusional posts getting upvoted in this sub lately. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/14 04:58 PM |
| 17 | Why Being Polite is not BetaWow, what's next, a post saying that being nice is not beta? This sub is turning into r/seduction. Why Being Polite is not Beta This is a straw man argument. You're implying that Red Pill people are saying that being polite is beta or that alphas break all the rules all the time. No one is claiming that alphas break all the rules. There are more societal rules than you could possibly count. Wear clean clothes. Don't speak with your mouth full. Don't cut in line. Don't push people in front of you… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/14 11:56 PM |
| 10 | Be a Feminist, and other Red Pill AdviceBe A Feminist Don't "be" anything. Never talk politics or religion with a woman when you've just met her. It's always, always, always counterproductive. It never helps. I've even tried it with women who have the same exact ideology as me, and even that is counter-productive. It gets them thinking logically and puts them into a bad emotional state. If a woman brings up politics or asks you if you're a feminist, treat it as a shit test and change the subject. "Am I feminist? Hell yeah. I just burn… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/14 02:44 PM |
| 1 | "It's always the guy's fault" [BLUE PILL EXAMPLE]You'd be surprised. Dudes can be just as delusional as chicks when in the throws of one-itis | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/14 01:23 AM |
| 27 | Question About the Wall (From a Lady)I'm a 40 year old guy and have dated women in their late 20's and early 30's. The biggest factor there is weight gain. It's a HUGE boner killer. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Stay thin and in shape and you're ahead of 90% of the competition, at least the competition here in America. That number is probably a lot different than in Scandinavia. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Emotional connection is the only pickup skill (learnings from YaReally)Instead of digging for an emotional connection, you can do a few different things at the beginning. Make statements about yourself. "I've been having the most amazing day building snow forts and hitting old people with snowballs." Fuck with her a little bit. "Nice pics. But how do I know you're not a 300 pound dude in front of his computer in Cleveland, Ohio?" Qualify her. "You're not one of those girls who's never read a book in your life, are you?" In general, you want to avoid questions or ke… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Emotional connection is the only pickup skill (learnings from YaReally)So you can't think of any examples and instead link me to a 200 page pdf. Sorry but I know this stuff already. I know what works with women and what doesn't. I've done literally thousands of cold approaches. No offense to you if you're still trying to figure this out, but your assertion that "all you need is emotional connection" is wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Emotional connection is the only pickup skill (learnings from YaReally)Hey! Are you having a good time? Okay, that's fine for your opener. What's your follow up? Trying to emotionally connect with her after that opener will come across as rapport-seeking. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Emotional connection is the only pickup skill (learnings from YaReally)if you actually build that emotional connection, you're in. That's like saying, "If she lets you fuck her, you're in." Yeah, no shit. But a gorgeous woman is not going to just let you sit down and build an emotional connection with her without attraction first. And you know nothing about her at the start. So what deep emotional questions are you going to ask her? If you try to ask her a deeper question, ("What is your deepest fear?" "How close are you with your parents?") she won't open up to yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 08:22 PM |
| 87 | Shit Test FeedbackMy frame in interactions with her is always the same: father-daughter. This is the best frame to have. Guys try to listen to women and have conversations with them to find out what the girl wants and needs and that's always a mistake. Women do not know what they want and need. Particularly when she gets upset, you need to treat her like a child. 90% of the time, when a child cries, he's just throwing a tantrum. Your job is to semi ignore it while acknowledging the child is upset. You can't get u… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Emotional connection is the only pickup skill (learnings from YaReally)Here's what rapport-seeking looks like. You see a cute girl sitting at a bar. You walk up to her and sit down next to her. You say, "Hey, saw you here and wanted to come say hi." She says, "Hi." Then you start rapport seeking. "What do you do?" you ask her. She says she's a librarian. "Wow! You're a librarian? That's cool. I used to love to go to the library as a kid." Alternatively, rapport seeking might be asking her where she's from, or some other question like that. You're trying to build an… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Emotional connection is the only pickup skill (learnings from YaReally)Emotional connection is the only pickup skill you need This is some of the most blue-pill advice out there. Rapport is important, but certainly not more important than attraction. If you are very physically attractive or have very high status and she knows it, then yes, you can get by with just rapport. But for most guys, they try to connect too much with women. They do too much relationship building. It's called rapport-seeking. Rapport-seeking is one of the biggest hinderances for guys trying … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 06:13 PM |
| 25 | Best example of Women's Lies I've ever seen in my entire lifeShe first says, "There was only me and the camera person." (Meaning James Deen.) Later they ask her about the camera crew and she says there was no crew. They ask her about the camera person and she says, "I don't know if I said camera person..." That's really just confusion on her part. If you want to look for hamstering look at where she says, "I don't want people thinking I do porn." That sex tape was as porn as it gets. She did anal on camera with a fucking porn star. And she knew it would g… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/14 01:37 PM |
| 39 | Best example of Women's Lies I've ever seen in my entire lifeNah, she didn't lie in this case. This chick is delusional in a lot of ways, including calling James Deen her 'boyfriend' but these chicks were twisting her words around. I saw the sex tape. It really was just James Deen filming the entire thing himself with a few different cameras. Deen was holding the cameras. When Farrah says, "There was just the cameraman" she's referring to Deen. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/14 12:05 PM |
| 5 | On r/askwomen, hamsters start to break down; women are forced to admit that "verbal consent" is unsexy.Asking for permission is always interpreted as having a lack of confidence. You never want to ask a woman's permission for anything. You're always better off telling her what you want to do or just doing it. When you ask for permission, you come across as submissive and unsure of yourself. You're like a child with a parent. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/14 12:00 AM |
| 3 | How Do You Ration Attention?You're right to be thinking about how and when you validate women. This is one of the most important concepts surrounding game. Giving too much validation is the biggest ways guys communicate their niceness and lack of options. That's why you want to be very conscious about how and when you compliment and show interest in a woman. On social media, never ever give women validation. If anything, sneak a neg in. An ex of mine who I still sometimes hook up with posted a sexy photo I took of her on s… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/14 07:13 PM |
| 1 | I'd like to have a discussion about the reversal of gender inequality.I meant the facebook post. When I click on the link, Facebook says, "This content is currently unavailable" | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/14 01:31 PM |
| 1 | I'd like to have a discussion about the reversal of gender inequality.Post is removed. Anyone have a mirror? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/14 12:35 PM |
| 25 | How can women be better?This is a great analogy right here. Every time I see bitterness toward women on this sub, this is what I'm thinking. Why are you mad at the bear? No doubt most guys go through a "Fuck Women!" phase when they first start to figure out how things work. That's natural and healthy. But guys who have been here a while rarely get upset over seeing this over and over again. The feeling is typically amusement. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/14 12:48 AM |
| 8 | How quickly/aggressively do you "next" women, and is it possible to be too quick to "next" them?We text fairly regularly until she leaves There's your mistake right there. Why would you 'text regularly' with a girl you haven't slept with, much less even met? You're doing too much relationship building. Here's how to avoid agonizing over how long to keep women around: have a system in place. I've used Tinder before but prefer OKCupid. I write a whole bunch of women with the same thing. Then have similar follow-up messages to ask them out. If it doesn't go to a date soon, or there's some waf… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/14 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Can we talk insecurities and how to not let them get in the way of happiness?Wow, cool reply! How does she challenge you to grow? When she has her own interests and hobbies, when she's not constantly waiting on me, when she goes out and does interesting things on her own, she makes her own friends, has her own life. I don't think this is that different from the attraction a woman feels for a man who is independent, successful and passionate about something other than his SO. I think "game" can make a HUGE difference for women. Guys talk about game all the time because we… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk insecurities and how to not let them get in the way of happiness?I think most men looking for a LTR would rather pick a red pilled 5 over a feminist 10. A 5 is probably a bit of a stretch. I guess it depends on the guy and his options. But yeah, a guy will sacrifice some physical beauty if the girl is a great person, although there is a minimum. Guys have a certain minimum would-fuck standard of attractiveness with a woman, whether she's an LTR or someone he doesn't know. This is purely based on physical attractiveness. Is she physically attractive enough to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Can we talk insecurities and how to not let them get in the way of happiness?Guy here... I've been put on a pedestal too many times for my looks and it puts such awful pressure on you to be perfect all the time. Great insight. Never thought of it this way... we have to do our best to remember that we are 10s to our men and that's what's most important here. I don't really agree with this. No matter what woman I'm with, there will always be someone younger and hotter. There's been times when I had amazing sex with a gorgeous woman I was dating and right afterward, we go o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 03:15 PM |
| 5 | Reputation - Good or Bad?When a girl asks you about the rumors, neither confirm nor deny, just pointedly refuse to comment Exactly this. Not knowing will keep the tingles of excitement going. Not talking about it is by far better than the other two options: If you deny it, it makes you look like you are shameful of your past. That would be a huge turnoff. If you confirm it, it makes her worry about her reputation. If she sleeps with you, will you tell everyone and make her look like a slut? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/14 02:57 PM |
| 59 | Being the "funny guy" isn't getting you laid -- here's whyIt's actually the other way round: when women are attracted to you, they think you're funny. When there's attraction there, women will find everything you say entertaining and funny. This can include harsh negs, busting on them, fucking with them, etc. They forgive almost everything because they see you as someone who just doesn't give a fuck, someone who says stupid shit for the hell of it. A lot of great alphas are not funny at all, at least in the way comedians are funny. They're just good at… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/14 12:47 PM |
| 6 | Unhappy with my 10 year old marriage.This is pretty much the guy saying, "I'm staying with you just because of our kid and some vague sense of commitment. I was attracted to you at 32 and willing to tolerate your personality because you were hot, but now at 42, you're ugly and the thought of fucking you makes me sick. I'm too much of a pussy to just leave this unhappy marriage so I'll cheat on you instead." | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/14 12:16 AM |
| 7 | How do I introduce my brother to "The Red Pill"This is a much larger question than just Red Pill / Blue Pill. When one of your close friends/relatives is making a big mistake but has their heart set on it, how do you intervene? If you've been reading TRP for very long, you know that sitting a person down and explaining things to them is often counter-productive. I have a very close friend who is going through a separation due to him slipping into beta behavior. He heeded some of my advice when the problems originally began, but now the situa… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/14 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Being aloofDing ding ding. Correct answer. If there's not already some kind of attraction, being minimal and aloof won't do anything for you. However, even as you take initiative, you do want to remain somewhat aloof. Let her talk more than you after a certain point, let her text more than you, be unreactive, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/14 01:35 AM |
| 3 | What do you guys think about looks theory discussed on PUAH?Women are attracted by three things: looks, status, and behavior. I throw money in as a form of status. If you have high status or are physically attractive, you will get laid as long as you aren't too too beta. To me, PUA is about optimization. If you're ugly and/or low status, you can only raise your SMV (sexual mate value) so much by using game. Maybe if you're a 4 you can get 7's. The higher you're trying to get, the more you'll have to refine your game by taking more and more initiative. If… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/14 03:21 AM |
| 59 | TestosteroneInstead of accepting baseless assertions about what does and doesn't increase testosterone, try reading some scientific studies. There are a lot of assertions on this list and most of them have very little or no scientific studies to back it up. For example, not masturbating will increase your testosterone temporarily, but then after 7 days it goes back to normal (source). Not saying there aren't other benefits to NoFap, but let's see some sources backing this up. For example, Examine.com review… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/14 05:38 PM |
| 5 | Cenk of TYT Brutally Debunks Woman's Dumb "OKCupid Study," Says Her "Hot Stupid Goldigger" Fake Profile Reads Like an "Average" Female Profile on OKC. Ana is Shocked.The woman in the video argues that There's obviously a really clear difference between men and women in that regard. There might be women that will sleep with a racist guy or totally loathsome guy just because he's hot, but I think of [some guy], he was one of the most gorgeous men I ever encountered in my life, and he was so incredibly dumb that I had no interest. But for a man in a similar situation, it's on. Yes, men won't give a shit if a girl has a loathsome personality if he wants to fuck … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/14 03:09 PM |
| 10 | Millionaire poker player Antonio Esfandiari has never been turned down in Vegas by a woman in an LTR.Transcript of the part from the interview: "It's unbelievable, Howard. When a girl lives in Ohio or where ever she lives, she could be whoever she is in her life, the second she steps foot away from her life as she gets to Las Vegas with her girlfriends, she completely forgets about her life back home and becomes an entirely different creature. Us men get such a bad rep for going and screwing around on our girls all the time but I'm telling you, I swear to you, in eight years of going around and… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/14 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Besides for medical condition do you think there is a lot of merit to people having different libido's besides their attraction to their partner?There are definitely women with lower or higher libido. Some girls want to fuck 3 times a day, wake you up in the middle of the night for sex, etc. Others are fine with sex less often. If a woman isn't having sex with you enough, it can be difficult to discern whether she's losing attraction or her libido is low. The best way to tell is her demeanor towards you in other areas of the relationship. First of all, does she initiate physical contact with you? How much does she initiate touch, hand-ho… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/14 12:09 AM |
| 1 | On the subject of self improvement, some posture tips from James DeanYes I can. And I am. ;) No you can't and you aren't. You can tell me and yourself you are, but if you were put into a bar with Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, etc. and you all tried to pick up the hottest girl in the bar, what would happen? You know the honest answer to this question. Here's your answer: You would think back to your past experience with women. Have I ever picked up perfect 10s before in bars? If so, can I do it consistently? Maybe you have done it before. If so, you would have some conf… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/13 11:00 PM |
| 15 | On the subject of self improvement, some posture tips from James DeanI couldn't disagree more. You can't simply decide what to believe. You can't decide that you believe you are the sexiest guy in the world. Confidence doesn't work that way. Can you decide to believe that cows can fly? No. No matter how many times you say it to yourself or try as hard as you can to believe it in your mind, you will not believe that cows can fly. Yes, reading good things can help you keep focused. And affirmations can help out a lot. But the main thing that will change how you fee… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/13 06:26 PM |
| 9 | As of Today, I Hate My GirlfriendWhy would you do that? Any 'talks' you have with her are a sign of neediness, no matter what you say. You want to make her suffer? Shut her out of your life completely without any explanation. It will drive her crazy. You want to be a chump? Spill everything to her. Get mad at her. Show her how much she hurt you. That will only give her closure. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/13 10:37 PM |
| 6 | On understanding the difference between codependant and interdependant relationshipsThe difference is healthy boundaries. When you are codependent, you try to take responsibility for her feelings. "Are you sure everything is okay, honey?" When you are dependent, you may still rely on her, but you let her take responsibility for herself. If she wants to come talk to you about a problem, that's up to her. But you're not going to feel like you are responsible for coaxing it out of her, or trying to make her feel better when she throws a tantrum. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/13 05:00 AM |
| 3 | The harmful effects of early sexual activity and multiple sexual partners among women: a book of chartsFor our purposes, the correlation is good enough Sorry but I don't believe in things simply because I want them to be true. If we are willing to look truth in the face, then be honest with what the data is saying and what the data is not saying. The title in this post says, "The Harmful Effects of Multiple Sexual Partners..." If the data does not definitively show which is cause and which is effect, then we cannot make pronouncements like this based on this data. This isn't to say that there are… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/13 11:46 PM |
| 6 | I hate sex with my girlfriendMOST. Noicce. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/13 03:38 AM |
| 17 | The harmful effects of early sexual activity and multiple sexual partners among women: a book of chartsIt should be noted that there were links between the data but correlation does not mean causation. For example, sluttiness could cause lower poverty or it could be that women in lower poverty are more slutty. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/13 03:34 AM |
| 32 | The Essential Difference Between Blue and Red Pill Mating Advice.Here's one of the biggest differences between Blue Pill and Red Pill advice: talking about things. Blue Pill advice: The problem is communication. If both people are more honest and open and talk about their feelings, the relationship will work out. More talk is always better. Talk about how you feel. Be as honest as possible. Have as many talks as possible. This is the worst advice for men who are disempowered in relationships. I have a friend who's wife cheated on him and is still cheating on … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/13 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Why would women who have good jobs care about a man's ability to provide? Can't all the issues with women outlined in this subreddit be circumvented by dating women who are financial stable?Did I give a fuck? Only because it bothered him, otherwise I wouldn't have cared at all. This is one of the biggest excuses women use when dismissing men for objective measures. A woman will eliminate a man because he's too short, he doesn't earn enough, his job is too low-status, or he's too ugly. Some women are honest with themselves and say that this is the reason they aren't attracted. And yes, less attractive men tend to be low confidence, making them even less attractive. But your excuse i… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/13 08:15 PM |
| 23 | How do you handle uninvited flirting from men towards your girlfriend in an alpha fashion?There's really not much you can do about a guy yelling something on the street--and not much you want to do. Do you really want to get into a fight on the street? That never ends well. Yelling things back will just make you look stupid. The situation is different if you're in a bar and the guy is trying to start a conversation with your girl or trying to dance with your girl. In that case, the best thing you can do is physically put yourself between him and your girl. Briefly engage him in order… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/13 01:55 PM |
| 13 | Are we as men not even supposed to talk about how easy the average woman has it in the dating world?The average man has it more difficult than the average woman, but that's because the alphas at the top are hogging all the pussy. That's why I would never tell a woman that women have it easier than men, especially not if I were interested in dating/fucking the woman. You're outright telling her that dating is hard for you because you're not an alpha. On dates, this is what I like to tell women: Women have it a lot harder than guys. (Just saying this makes it seem like I'm an alpha who has no pr… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/13 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here bald or going bald? How bad has it hurt you game? Is it harder to get with younger women?Funny, I just clipped my hair for the first time last night. It is starting to thin and I felt like I was constantly trying to cover up problems with my hair--trying to grow it out and style it in a certain way to cover up my deficiencies. For a while I was fantasizing about shaving my head. Finally, last night I got to the point where I was like, Fuck it. I'm not compensating for anything anymore. This is the way I am. I clipped it super short with a beard trimmer. Holy shit. It felt amazing. N… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/13 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Any suggestions for gold mines for plate-spinning? I suggest Couchsurfing...Do you get to see what these girls look like before they stay with you? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/13 04:10 PM |
| 17 | Above the Game, almost stopped by Kickstarter, why so much hate against this project??So you've never made any "moves" on a girl, including kiss her? She's always done that to you? Isn't that sexual assault on her part? The idea of asking for permission before getting sexual with someone is patently ridiculous. Why? Even if she gives you permission to fuck her, that doesn't mean you wouldn't stop at any time if she were demonstrating she wasn't into it. You're reading her body language any way. Words are meaningless unless she's saying she's not into it. | /r/seduction | 21/06/13 04:54 PM |
| 4 | Asking girl if she would like to go on a date, she replies "sure, if you play your cards right". Shit test? Hoop? What is this.Saying, "Let's go out on a date," is like telling a girl straight up, "I like you." It's counter-productive because it takes away the challenge. She feels like she's already won you over. The 'date' turns into you wooing her and trying to win her over instead of her wondering if she's won you over. I agree that you don't want to go out with a girl if she has it in her mind that it's just a friendly hang out. The solution to this is what you should be doing anyway: being sexual and flirty with he… | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 12:07 PM |
| -2 | Study confirms what Seddit has know foreverYes, you'll bang her, but will you consider her a prospect for a serious relationship? Less likely. It may take longer for you to realize than a woman does, but clingy, needy, insecure women are just as much of a turn-off for most men. Yes, he'll bang her, but but most men won't feel inclined to keep her around for long, the exception being nice guys who feel a sense of duty to date her after banging her. | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Listen to Her Actions, not Her WordsIdeally, you'll take action right when it's happening, that way she'll know why you're doing it. The underlying issue is this: if she's doing something like this, she's not into you enough. She feels comfortable enough to show interest in other people while you're around. That's disrespectful. By walking out midway through the date, she doesn't know what's up with you. She starts to worry that she's losing you. That serves the purpose even better than telling her what specifically upset you. She… | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Listen to Her Actions, not Her WordsThanks man! Appreciate the feedback. | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Listen to Her Actions, not Her WordsThat's fine. You are using both explicit and implicit communication. You aren't just having a talk with her about her actions. You are taking action yourself. | /r/seduction | 20/04/13 04:45 PM |
| 4 | If you want to learn pickup, here's the number one tip, that matters more than anything else...NOBODY expects the Spanish Inquisition! Our chief weapon is surprise...surprise and fear...fear and surprise.... Our two weapons are fear and surprise...and ruthless efficiency.... Our three weapons are fear, surprise, and ruthless efficiency...and an almost fanatical devotion to the Pope.... Our four...no... Amongst our weapons.... Amongst our weaponry...are such elements as fear, surprise.... I'll come in again. | /r/seduction | 20/04/13 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Listen to Her Actions, not Her WordsEarlier on in the relationship is more often where you show people your boundaries. You show her what is acceptable and what is not. You show her that you're independent and that she can't walk all over you--and she should be doing the same with you. In a fully mature relationship, negative reinforcement happens less often. You don't need to do it as much because you've both figured things out. But, once in a while, she will step over the line. She will still occasionally check to see if you are… | /r/seduction | 20/04/13 01:50 AM |
| 11 | Listen to Her Actions, not Her WordsYup. I agree 100%. Often you will mix implicit with explicit communication. Sometimes you do need to outright tell her what she is doing wrong or in the very least, clue her in so she knows. I'm not saying you should never use explicit communication, just that most guys who aren't experienced with women tend to rely on it way too much. The best and most powerful way to clearly communicate with her is through implicit communication right when it happens. To go back to my original example, if she … | /r/seduction | 20/04/13 01:41 AM |
| 5 | An easy way to impress just about anybody. [Field Tested]Look, remembering a woman's name is fine. That's great. Say her name. That works. It makes her feel like you know her already. But what this guy is saying is different. He's saying he tells women that he always forgets names but then remembers her name and he's saying that THAT is what is working to make her like him more. I'm saying that that is bullshit. | /r/seduction | 18/04/13 03:56 PM |
| 2 | An easy way to impress just about anybody. [Field Tested]The original post was about a minute detail but it was wrong in its assumptions. No girl is going to "like" you for any one single particular thing you do. It is the sum total of all the things you do that will make her feel challenged, and thus attracted to you, or make her feel bored, and thus lose interest. However pretending to forget her name can make you look like a complete ass. Exactly. You're getting it now. This is risky and bold and could make you look like an ass. That's the nature o… | /r/seduction | 18/04/13 03:22 PM |
| 4 | An easy way to impress just about anybody. [Field Tested]Bullshit. It's exactly the opposite. So you're going to pretend that you can't remember anyone's name, but you remembered hers? She's so special to you already before you even know her? The people in this forum get so confused about what works DESPITE what they've done rather than what works BECAUSE of what they've done. If she's into you and you remember her name, then yeah, that's great. You could also get her flowers and take her out to dinner and write her poems. Fucking great. Make her feel… | /r/seduction | 18/04/13 02:28 PM |
| 2 | An easy way to impress just about anybody. [Field Tested]Yes, this depends on how attractive the woman is. If she's not attractive enough, this will easily push her away. But if she's hot, she'll wonder why you're so aloof with her. | /r/seduction | 18/04/13 12:32 PM |
| 5 | An easy way to impress just about anybody. [Field Tested]Why would you want to impress women? Trying to impress women comes off as try-hard. You actually want it to be the other way round. Attractive women are accustomed to men trying to impress them and they only pay attention when a guy doesn't give a shit or accord her the amount of attention that other men do. The point is not to figure out ways to put her on a pedestal but to let her know that she needs to impress you. You're better off fucking with her and saying something like, "What was your n… | /r/seduction | 18/04/13 11:30 AM |
| 5 | Is anyone else getting tired of the constant spamming of blogs on here?If the articles are good and provide value, then it's fine with me. I'd rather see good material upvoted to the top no matter who it is. | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 06:38 PM |
| 3 | I have exponentially increased the amount of girls I successfully date by using free online dating/meetup sitesOnline dating is a great way to meet a lot of women but you won't have the leaps and bounds of improvement in confidence you get with cold approaching. I have done online dating on and off for years since 2001. I didn't get into pickup until 2006. Before I got into pickup, I could get dates every night of the week through online dating, but they were mostly with girls whom I considered 7's. Once in a while I would get a date with a hotter girl and I would freeze up. I wasn't used to speaking wit… | /r/seduction | 24/01/13 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Can we discuss "keep doing what works"?Some people say that you should come up with something clever, new and original every time you talk with a girl. This advice is from people who don't regularly talk with women. Naturals do not do this. Can you imagine if a natural, who talks with 100 women a week, tried to come up with something new and original every time he talked with a new woman? That's laughable. Use what works. Get comfortable with it. If it works, keep using it. No opener will work 100% of the time. So if you don't repeat… | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 07:31 AM |
| -1 | An interesting read about the end of "dating" for the younger generations. I feel sorry for you, kidsI've only seen this article posted to Seddit two other times in the past 24 hours. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/16h3l2/interesting_new_york_times_article_about_the_end/ http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/16kie3/im_curious_as_to_what_you_sedditors_think_of_this/ Try using the search. | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 07:06 PM |
| 8 | Sedditors, 2 Questions. 1) Do you call or text after number closing? 2) What is your first message/phone call after number closing?2-3 days is far too much, unless it was a really long interaction. Text her the next day. | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 04:21 AM |
| 1 | I'm curious as to what you Sedditors think of this article? "The End of Courtship" published a couple days ago on the NY Times.I can tell you exactly what they think: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/16h3l2/interesting_new_york_times_article_about_the_end/ | /r/seduction | 14/01/13 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Sexy music suggestions for the "Cook dinner at my place" date. What do you use?Burial | /r/seduction | 11/01/13 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Make sure to remember thisYou came and posted in r/seduction to give us this advice? 90% of the guys here are already too self-conscious about their sexuality. If you have something to say in this subreddit, then just say it. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 12:46 AM |
| 2 | This subreddit is, to be frank, fairly pointless and very much misleading.Thank you for this amazing advice! I love the way you broke it down for me. I was walking around trying to be somebody else. No one ever told me to just 'strike up a conversation' with a girl before. I thought I was supposed to throw food at them. You don't need to plan your social life step by step as dictated by some guy on the internet Oh, wait a second. Now I'm confused. Aren't you just some guy on the internet. Shit! Now I don't know what to do. Please advise! Edit: I heard somewhere that I… | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 08:09 PM |
| 8 | how do I walk like an alpha?Sorry but this is fucking retarded advice. You could say this about anything. "What should I say?" "Not caring what you say when you talk to women would be step one." "How can I improve my body language?" "Not caring what you do with your body language would be step one." Not being dependent on outcomes with women is completely unrelated to caring about your own actions. Your advice is not even remotely helpful. | /r/seduction | 28/12/12 03:05 AM |
| 4 | Dinner Dates FAQYou don't want to take a girl out to dinner on the first date. You're better off making it more casual and meeting for a drink or coffee. Dinner puts too many expectations on her and puts you in the position of a typical suitor trying to win her over. There's some other good advice about first dates in this article, 10 Rules for the Perfect First Date. | /r/seduction | 27/12/12 04:31 PM |
| 6 | Negs only work if you're funny.Negging is NOT teasing. This has been discussed so many times on Seddit, it's ridiculous. Negging is now commonly referred to as disqualification. It's not an insult. It's not teasing. It's disqualifying yourself as a suitor. It's used with very attractive women who get guys hitting on them all the time. These women assume you're into them simply because you've started a conversation with her. When you disqualify yourself, it takes the pressure off her. "You're trouble. I should probably stay aw… | /r/seduction | 06/11/12 06:36 PM |
| 9 | Master Class.Seduction is both a cooperative and competitive process, just as evolution is. The male is competing against the female and they are conspiring together as well. Pure cooperation (nice guy) or pure antagonism (asshole) are poor strategies. Somewhere in the middle lies the optimum for every guy. The majority of guys who are bad with women in our society (and definitely the majority of guys who seek help with pickup) tend to be far too nice and cooperative. It usually takes us guys a lot of practi… | /r/seduction | 30/10/12 11:10 PM |
| 9 | Master Class.I agree with you. I take issue with him coming in and saying we're "fucking up," as if all of us don't know what we're doing. Maybe that was just him getting his point across. | /r/seduction | 30/10/12 11:04 PM |
| 85 | Master Class.No dude, you're fucking up. Here's a point-by-point rebuttal about why you're wrong and arrogant to bust into a forum from the outside, tell us we're wrong, and assume you know everything about what we do and why we're here. 1. Learning body language from a book is like learning tennis from a book. Sure, you can pick up the very basics, but once you get out there and try it, you are dealing with a whole different world. Your prescription that two body language books (for which you are getting Am… | /r/seduction | 30/10/12 08:58 PM |
| 0 | Help! Any tips on how to handle dating / sleeping with multiple women?Are we moderating comments now on Seddit? I think it's fine when newbie question posts get moved to /AskSeddit, but in my opinion, deleting comments--even shitty comments--discourages participation from newcomers to seddit. They see a pre-ordained set of rules and don't bother to contribute. Part of this comes from stuff I've seen on SRS (/ShitRedditSays). I hate the way they censor comments and treat certain opinions as invalid. I feel like comment moderation devolves into totalitarionism, no m… | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Hey, some advice plz!Sorry, I was sorta being a dick. IMO, if a girl says she has a boyfriend early on, like right when you open her, there's not much you can do to recover. She's blowing you out. If she says it later, its cuz she really does have a bf and continuing is a low percentage chance. I've played around with, "Just one? Stick with me and we'll get you at least two more." | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Hey, some advice plz!Is it that hard to type "boyfriend" into the 'search reddit' box up on the right? Jesus Christ, this question is asked like twice a week here. | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 04:07 AM |
| 9 | Got banned from a subreddit for defending /r/seduction. But do they have a point?Here is the post in question: http://www.reddit.com/r/SRSDiscussion/comments/10zgno/how_do_become_more_confident_with_women_without/ The advice that got upvoted to the very top was "seek therapy." That is all the advice they can provide when a guy wants to understand how to make himself more attractive to women. That community claims to be about acceptance and egalitarianism, yet deletes posts and comments and bans people with any differing opinion. Good luck with that. I come from a background … | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 12:54 PM |
| 2 | What women really think about the PUA communityHi, I'm a mildly attractive woman living in a fantasy world about the realities men face in dating. I think guys shouldn't try to learn specific social techniques because before they master those techniques, they inevitably do it the wrong way. That sometimes leads to uncomfortable social situations. Instead of risking social discomfort, men should settle for whatever they can get. I like the thought of men having to stay in relationships without any real choices. That makes me feel better about… | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Seddit has a problem and so do you.Ah, so first you write this: You don't need to objectify women, build an overinflated sense of ego to become a natural "PUA". You just need to be a cool guy that respects people. And then you write this: that sounds like scapegoating the fact you were just *socially a wimp and afraid of women. Do you not see the incongruity in what you're writing? There are plenty of people on here who will tell you that 'routines' don't work, just go out there and do it. That's fine. But no one on here says bul… | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Breaking upMy question is, what is the correct, most chivalrous and decent way to end a relationship? All articles and suggestions are welcomed This article covers a lot that: How to Break Up with Her and Deal with the Anxiety. | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Is it just a coincidence that all these PUA's are hot white guys?Not saying that you don't need to up your game. But just because a good-looking guy can't get women, it doesn't mean that it's possible for an ugly guy to get women. One does not prove the other. | /r/seduction | 22/02/12 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Is it just a coincidence that all these PUA's are hot white guys?Simple pickup aren't white, but they're attractive guys. | /r/seduction | 22/02/12 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Is it just a coincidence that all these PUA's are hot white guys?Yeah those guys sure are trolls. Seriously? Yeah, they're not white but it doesn't get much better looking than that. | /r/seduction | 22/02/12 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Um. I think I just got negged? (I'm a stripper.) Does this technique ever actually work on anyone?Well, true and not true at the same time. He got me thinking about him, but not about HIM so much as apparently strange behavior, as in, "what the fuck was he trying to pull on me?" He made you feel unsettled, as if there was something that needed resolving. That's exactly the purpose of negs. | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 09:55 PM |
| 10 | Um. I think I just got negged? (I'm a stripper.) Does this technique ever actually work on anyone?Yes, he negged you three times. 1) Talking about his tiny penis. That's a disqualification. I have friends who do this. A girl will start talking to him and he says, "I have a small dick and I'm terrible in bed. You don't wanna hang out with me." Most guys do the opposite, trying to earn her interest. By doing this, you are showing the girl that you don't see her as a prospective mate, because who would tell a prospective mate this? This (is supposed to) make you wonder why he doesn't see you as… | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 09:02 PM |
| 1 | My thoughts on PUA community and fulfilling healthy relationships. Long read, please take the time.The fact that these type of posts get upvoted reflects a newbie discomfort with game in general. Over and over you hear guys talking about how "that isn't me" in reference to a particular style of game. While different things definitely work for different people in different environments, most of the recalcitrance is based on a fear of acting over-confident. It feels incongruent to be confident. It feels incongruent to not be the nice guy. There is a deep-seated fear from those who haven't exper… | /r/seduction | 20/08/11 04:34 PM |
| 1 | My thoughts on PUA community and fulfilling healthy relationships. Long read, please take the time.wouldn't you agree living your life by a script is not conducive to a happy life? So let me get this straight, you've never told the same story twice? You've never changed around which details you include in a story in order to make it more effective the second time around? You've never repeated a joke you heard or repeated a joke you've told previously yourself? | /r/seduction | 20/08/11 04:23 PM |
| 5 | xpost from /r/fffffffuuuuuuuuuuuu A day in the life of a nice guy.Right, because women are only attracted to guys in bars. | /r/seduction | 03/08/11 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Women are attracted to older men: the scienceThis study discusses earlier studies that found a preference for younger faces. This study supposedly proved that it works differently for males and females and it suggests why: Females in animal societies frequently acquire access to resources indirectly through the social manipulation of dominant males. If immature characteristics generally elicit caretaking and cooperative responses, and stem aggressive/competitive responses, perhaps human female mimicry of childlike characteristics serves th… | /r/seduction | 30/07/11 06:34 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend isn't physically attracted to me. Any advice?She is about to dump you. Do yourself a favor and end it first. Believe it or not, this can be turned around, but you may not want to. At least end it on your terms. If you do want to revive this relationship, it will involve using her remaining feelings for you in order to create space so that she wants you like crazy. For example, you may want to tell her that you need some space and that you will talk to her in a week. Then wait 8 days and call her. Or you could tell her that you don't want a… | /r/seduction | 24/05/11 05:07 PM |
| 10 | The dangers of the game in untrained hands. The words of an older man.I stayed in most of my relationships way too long out of guilt/anxiety. I stayed with my first girlfriend for two years longer than I wanted to simply because I felt too bad about ending it. Having gone through that awful experience enough times, I wrote this article: How to Break Up with Her–and Deal with the Anxiety | /r/seduction | 15/04/11 01:00 PM |
| 14 | KassemG once again does a good interview with two girls where he displays some nice PUA techniques.He's really good. Going Deep, where he interviews porn stars, is even better. He rips on them so much. Kassem: What turns you on in a guy? Porn star: I'm turned on by confident guys who make me laugh. Kassem: So you must be really turned on right now. Porn star: Um... I guess... Kassem: Ask me what turns me on in a girl. Porn star: What turns you on in a girl. Kassem: Flip fops <rolls his eyes sarcastically at her footware> | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 10:02 PM |
| 1 | How often do you encounter a woman who knows exactly what you're trying to do, and won't fall for PUA techniques? How many women consciously avoid PUAs and seek out men who don't use PUA techniques?As a guy, I actually wish women had more game. I like when a woman has game. I like when a woman can keep the tension. Let me give you an example. You meet a fairly cool girl and go on a date with her. She's not the hottest girl you've ever met, but there is some girlfriend potential. On the first date, she's talking about marriage, kids, and moving in together. The next day, she calls you three times just to say "What's up." She won't get off the phone. She asks if she can see you tonight. You … | /r/seduction | 26/02/11 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Neil Strauss on Howard SternYeah, it could be that he was trying not to brag. But its a tough sell to try and say that you're excellent with women and also you don't want to talk about it. Once Stern started interviewing him, I think he should have owned it. The way he was talking about his phase shift move it was like he was ashamed of it. His demeanor was like a kid in grade school being pressed to talk about stuff. | /r/seduction | 25/02/11 08:39 PM |
| 5 | Neil Strauss on Howard SternYeah, Neil does have an effeminate quality, which can actually work for you in certain situations, even though it isn't classically alpha. Roeper is just great though. It's like nothing sticks to him. He laughs off everything Stern is saying as if Stern is a child trying to get answers out of him about his girl. That's exactly the attitude you want. My favorite part is when Stern asks how old they are (he's 50 and his girl is 21) and then asks what he did to get the girl. "I just had to wait aro… | /r/seduction | 25/02/11 08:23 PM |
| 7 | The Debate: Do we really need AskSeddit?Unlike conventional forums, there is no easy way to split a subreddit into further subreddits without completely alienating the two reddits from each other. Most people may just continue to go to Seddit without visiting AskSeddit, particularly if there isn't enough traffic in the main Seddit to begin with. I'm wodering if there there is another way to solve the problem. First, what is the problem? Can we agree on the problem? What is the problem? Newbies come to Seddit and post newbie questions:… | /r/seduction | 12/02/11 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Mini (FR). 6 texts to closeYeah, really good. | /r/seduction | 11/02/11 08:38 PM |
| 30 | An interview with someone who was on VH1's "The Pickup Artist"I just don’t get why, as a culture, we abandon asking for consent. This sounds like it was written by the author of the article rather than "Dylan." A lot of hardcore so-called feminists have a problem with pickup because it is teaching guys to supposedly over-step boundaries because they approached a woman or because they've taken initiative sexually. It's the stupidest bullshit ever. I've argued with so-called feminists who have this opinion (I consider myself a feminist) and there's no logic … | /r/seduction | 09/02/11 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Fuck me, I'm balding.I'm assuming you're not balding. My hair actually is thinning. Hair transplants are aweful. I hadn't seen that Bosely site. It looks to me like this is more of a site against Bosely than hair transplants in general. I'm not saying that hair transplants are great. I actually don't know too much about them. But if you do a search on the net for Hair Transplant Fail or Horror Stories, not that much comes up. And the bad stuff that does come up seems to have been done years ago. Do you know of anyon… | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 08:58 PM |
| 6 | Match.com just acquired OKCupid.If they make OKC a pay site, they risk alienating their user base. Another free site could pop up and take the competition. There are already some out there like plentyoffish.com. Admittedly, plentyoffish is not as good, but someone else could make one as good as OKC. | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 06:46 PM |
| 0 | Fuck me, I'm balding.Look into is hair transplants. From what I've read, the technology looks pretty good. It's really expensive, like 10-20k, but it might be worth it to you if this is that big a deal. The upside is that it's permanent. From hairstylist friends I've talked to, it seems to work pretty well. Supposedly there is a risk of scarring if you want to shave your head bald at some point in the future, but that may have been with the older technology. Propecia carries with it a risk of erectile dysfunction an… | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 05:44 PM |
| 23 | Match.com just acquired OKCupid.If Match is smart, they'll keep OKCupid free and let them operate somewhat independently. A lot of companies do that when they acquire a startup. | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 03:57 PM |
| 5 | How can you tell if you're good looking?Hot or not isn't that great. I've noticed a lot of inconsistent results. In other words, I'll post a photo, get a result, then post the same photo a few days later. And the variation is pretty large. This is because one person's 8 may be another person's 6. Or there may be some douchey guy on there one day who hands out zeros to every other guy. A much better test is OK Cupid's MyBestFace. This rates photos the correct way, by comparing two photos at a time and having the user decide which is ho… | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 02:00 PM |
| 6 | How can you tell if you're good looking?I have to agree with this. When I was younger, I thought I was good-looking. Then enough repeated failures with women and I started to think I wasn't. Now I've done a lot of pickup and a lot of affirmations and my self-image has changed completely. I still notice my imperfections like small eyes, thinning hair, weak chin, etc. But I feel like I'm really hot now. Part of this is experience with women and realizing that they are attracted to different things than men are. For women, if you ask if … | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 01:54 PM |
| 15 | Kino escalation? Isn't it just awkward as fuck?There are three reasons to touch someone in a friendly way: To emphasize something that you're saying. "and when he came out of the bathroom... <touch> he wasn't wearing any pants." When you bust on her or joke. The touch helps to emphasize you're joking. "Oh my god, <touch> you're such a brat." When she says something interesting. Tap her on the arm and say "No way!" When you do start touching someone, the first way you will touch them is friendly touching. This is the same type of touching tha… | /r/seduction | 30/01/11 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Conquering one-itis.If she's hot she will probably at least have orbiters, guys she's friends with who validate her and want to fuck her. Part of the benefit of assuming she's dating other guys or at least has the option, is that when she mentions other guys, you don't get super jealous. You take a measured response. | /r/seduction | 28/01/11 11:59 PM |
| 31 | Conquering one-itis.These are good, especially the part about opening up to your friends. Having feelings for a girl isn't a bad thing, in and of itself. When you meet a girl you really like, you will be slightly off balance. That's a good thing. The problem comes in when you move too fast and your feelings get you to do things that ruin your chances. So I would add a few more things: Always start relationships casually. Even if you like the girl--particularly if you like the girl--don't see her more than once a we… | /r/seduction | 28/01/11 06:30 PM |
| 25 | Why ApproachAnxiety.com anti-nice posts are wrong and flawed.Hey Guys, I'm Eric Disco from ApproachAnxiety.com, the original author of this article. First of all, thanks for the feedback. I love criticism and I love Reddit. I'm honored that we are even having this discussion. I wanted to clarify a few things about my "Ode to Nice." If you met me in person, you would probably characterize me as a cool guy, maybe some would even say I'm a “nice” guy. I will sometimes hold the door for my friends so they can go through first, and I’ll also sometimes do this … | /r/seduction | 21/01/11 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Sick of winding up at total sausage fests? this app is for you. program aggregates 4square and other social location services to display bars/clubs with a higher ratio of women to men.Yeah, the stats definitely aren't up to the minute. They have stats for bars and clubs which aren't even open during the day. I wonder if it's stats aggregated over the last few weeks, etc. women use those services more than men. Over-all though, if you switch it to "All Categories," it says that the ratio of girls to guys in NYC is 45 to 100. This would indicate that more men are using these services than women, if this map displaying the gender ratio by city is accurate. | /r/seduction | 20/01/11 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Sick of winding up at total sausage fests? this app is for you. program aggregates 4square and other social location services to display bars/clubs with a higher ratio of women to men.This is really cool. Who knows how accurate it is, but it's worth checking out. | /r/seduction | 20/01/11 04:29 PM |
| 2 | How do you dodge a grenade?I'm guessing your not asking how you can use these older women to meet women that you are attracted to. It seems these women are too aggressive and you can't shake them when you need to. What is the worst type of response a guy can get when he opens a girl? No response is the worst response. A guy cannot work with that. The most effective way for a woman to show disinterest in a man is silence. If she says anything or shows any kind of emotion--even negative emotion--the guy can use that to cont… | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Alright I need some help, or an explaination at the very least...It seems like the two of you started growing closer, which is natural. But you weren't able to judge how she truly felt because of the month off. You might have opened up to her too much or become too available during that time. She continued to respond and enjoy your validation because she missed you and she missed her friends. But then when she got back she realized she had this "thing" with you that hadn't built naturally, but at a distance (where everything is fonder). In addition, if her fr… | /r/seduction | 19/01/11 06:35 PM |
| 1 | How a tall, good-looking, professional athlete blows a date by being too niceI bet he has learnt from it. Don't count on it. Before I learned about game, I went on many, many dates like this and never learned anything. I just walked away consoling myself that I'm a really great person and that women would continue to reject me because I was nice. I believed that was my fate in life. | /r/seduction | 15/01/11 06:19 PM |
| 6 | David Wain & Paul Rudd demonstrate how to make negs work.You look a little chunky. You're going to need to lose some weight first. | /r/seduction | 12/01/11 06:30 PM |
| 5 | let me hear from other over 40 pua's with an opinionI'm 38 and regularly date women who are in their early 20's. I think the most important factor when dating much younger women is being able to flip the script. She's a hot, young, stylish 20-year-old with a very active social life. Constantly getting hit on by guys. I'm almost 40. I don't party. I rarely go out to bars or clubs. Your average guy would look at this situation and think that she has much more power than me. And most guys fall into the trap of approaching it that way. If most older … | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 08:19 PM |
| 3 | At a certain point in an interaction with a girl, I make sure to turn my attention from the girl to our environment.I think the fact that someone could swoop in and take her away is what actually makes this work. If you're all over her, such that no one could swoop in and takes her away, she's liable to feel crowded. Part of making the take-away work is reading her signals and knowing that she's truly into you. You want to leave at that high point when things are going really well as opposed to waiting until there's nothing there anymore. | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 07:47 PM |
| 16 | Has anyone else gone to a gay bar to learn what it's like to be hit on and on the other side of the pick-up interaction?It is actually a really enlightening experience to get hit on by a gay guy. Whenever it happens, I just roll with it for as far as I can to see what he does. Gay guys get laid A LOT more than straight guys, like ten times as much. And because of this, they usually have a lot more experience and know what the fuck they're doing. Most of them have also developed their game naturally. Have you ever heard of a gay guy in the community? Not really. That's because it's much easier to get laid and prac… | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 10:39 AM |
| 15 | How to receive a compliment?How you respond really depends on the depth of the compliment. If it’s a surface compliment, like about your looks, or something you’re wearing, then go with something more flirty. This is especially good if you’ve just met. Let’s say she compliments you on your shirt. You could say: “Thanks! Flattery will get you everywhere!” “Stop, you’re making me blush!” “Thank you! But you don’t have to butter me up, I like you already!” “You women are all the same, first you compliment me, then you buy me … | /r/seduction | 11/01/11 09:57 AM |
| 3 | PUA resistent womenWhat you're dealing with here is a little different than pickup. You picked her up. It worked. Many pickup skills, particularly negs, are designed to be used when you first meet a girl. You do not want to continue to neg a girl over and over or she will smell bullshit. This is more relationship game/management. A lot of relationship management is about staying a bit aloof, not slipping into niceguy mode and maintaining the sexual tension. But it's not an easy thing to go back and start over with… | /r/seduction | 07/01/11 10:34 AM |
| 1 | PUA resistent womenWhat does FWB mean? If I read your post correctly, you did manage to attract her and sleep with her, but you lost her. She wouldn't see you after the first or second date? If this is the case, any number of things could have happened. Maybe you got needy after sex. Maybe you weren't good in bed or didn't stimulate her imagination. Maybe she sensed you were a player and closed off. Also its possible she started dating someone else or was even into another guy when you started dating and she went … | /r/seduction | 06/01/11 11:16 PM |
| 2 | We need a "Rules for Dating Multiple Women" guideYou never never want to talk about other women you're seeing. Ever. No matter how open she theoretically is, once you actually confirm to her that you are seeing someone else, those words start to run a loop in her mind. Part of this is that her friends are asking her how serious it is with you two. If you say that you're seeing someone else, her friends will tell her to break up with you. Your best bet is to joke it off. When she asks if you're seeing other people say: "About 30 or 40." "You go… | /r/seduction | 06/01/11 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Back in the dating game after 2 years. Need help!In terms of getting back into things after being away for a while, one thing that comes to mind: it's easy to forget how much rejection is involved. As human beings, part of confidence is living our lives and remembering the successes. When you get a great job, you don't remember how many people rejected all your resumes. It's the same thing with women. You have a certain picture of yourself, how you were before you got with this girl. You obviously had some level of success if you found yoursel… | /r/seduction | 10/11/10 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Oh look, more supplicating feminized men dispensing advice to Reddit"Hey hon, can I do anything for yo--I mean--to you? | /r/seduction | 03/11/10 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Oh look, more supplicating feminized men dispensing advice to RedditYeah, I read that about randomly asking her if there is something you can do. It made me vomit a little bit in my mouth. | /r/seduction | 03/11/10 03:57 AM |
| 1 | If a chick flakes, then how am I supposed to treat her when I run into her again?I really don't care that much how I should treat her, I Okay, well you wrote in your original post "how am I supposed to treat her" and that you weren't interested in her anymore. I was responding to that. | /r/seduction | 31/10/10 08:18 PM |
| 1 | If a chick flakes, then how am I supposed to treat her when I run into her again?SHE flaked. She agreed to meet up with you then ignored you. It's not like she just didn't return a text or phonecall. She was disrespectful. That doesn't warrant you pretending like nothing happened. It warrants you treating her with the same disdain. Why be nice to someone who wasn't nice to you? | /r/seduction | 31/10/10 05:51 PM |
| 4 | Tips for a wingman?Since he's somewhat introverted, I'm guessing he's not going to initiate any interactions on his own. In that case, you might want to open a group of two women and let him wing for you. See if you can isolate your girl so he can get alone with his. | /r/seduction | 31/10/10 03:49 PM |
| 4 | If a chick flakes, then how am I supposed to treat her when I run into her again?So in other words, she treated you like shit, less than a human being who doesn't even deserve the courtesy of a phone call saying she can't make it? She deserves all the wrath you can bestow upon her, short of disrupting your social circle. If I saw her again and she even made an attempt to be cordial, I would backturn her or neg her and walk away. Harsh? Girls do it to guys all the time simply for even talking to them. | /r/seduction | 31/10/10 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Negging without bad conscience?Actually, I don't think you went overboard. It worked. I was more responding to the fact that you felt bad about it and that you don't need to feel bad. | /r/seduction | 30/10/10 04:50 PM |
| 4 | What do women want?!A woman wants to feel like if she were slightly less cool than she was, she wouldn't have been able to get you. Eric | /r/seduction | 30/10/10 02:33 PM |
| 5 | Negging without bad conscience?In any interaction there will be push and pull. You may bust on her or disagree with her for a certain effect. To be conscious of that effect doesn't make you a bad person. If you wait an extra day to call her after a date, does that make you a manipulator? If you take her out for drinks instead of buying her dinner on the first date, knowing that she'll be more into you because she perceives you as more of a challenge, does that mean you did something bad? I like when a girl has game. Getting s… | /r/seduction | 30/10/10 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Is Survivor Bias killing your game?Yeah, I guess it could work either way. If you're too much of an asshole all the time--or over game like a lot of guys do--then when you are successful, your bad game will be re-enforced. You see this a lot with text game for some reason. Guys just go over the top with harsh banter or sexual texts when they could pull back a little bit and be normal once in a while. But I think that most guys, particularly introverted guys, don't take enough risks. Most guys who are learning game have some type … | /r/seduction | 29/10/10 12:41 PM |
| 7 | Is Survivor Bias killing your game?I'll put together a post on that within a day or two. I've been meaning to write it up anyway. Eric | /r/seduction | 29/10/10 03:33 AM |
| 4 | Is Survivor Bias killing your game?In the beginning I had huge approach anxiety. It took a lot for me to get past approach anxiety. But eventually I got to the point where I could consistently get into friendly, innocuous conversations with attractive women. The problem was that I wasn't taking enough risk. I was "learning" how to extend conversations and even get phone numbers, but this "learning" was based on faulty data. It was based on NOT getting rejected. If I did something to turn her off, then I stopped doing it so that I… | /r/seduction | 29/10/10 03:33 AM |
| 10 | What are good ideas to dress up for Halloween parties and clubs?I've gone as an underwear model. I put tighty whitey's on over my jeans and a wifebeater on over my shirt. I stuff a sock in my underwear as well. It's fun because it facilitates a lot of cocky funny humor. This year I'm going as a sexy nurse. I'm going to be a male nurse. I haven't quit decided how to make it 'sexy.' In the very least I'll go as a regular male nurse and when they ask how it's a sexy nurse, I'll flex or say something cocky funny. Eric | /r/seduction | 27/10/10 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Why you're better off without [verbal] gameI couldn't disagree more with this. Assonava has admitted before in his posts that he's a good looking guy. If you want more of the type of women that you've already gotten--women in your physical caliber--then by all means, drop game. But if you're looking to improve yourself, to become more ballsy, then you need to take risks. You need to be willing to amp up the sexuality or do some other things that risk getting you rejected by the woman. I could play it safe. In fact I have in the past. I c… | /r/seduction | 15/10/10 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Date in NYC, im cluelessMeet up with her for a drink somewhere quiet where you can get to know each other. That's what the first date is for. Don't spend much money on her. Check out this article, 10 Rules for the Perfect First Date Eric | /r/seduction | 05/10/10 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Disaster nightHey Man, Congratulations. You fucked up. There's no way to learn without taking some risks. You did a good thing. As long as you are out there taking risks, things like this will happen. This feels like a "disaster" because of your emotional state. You feel embarassed/rejected over what happened. Most likely you are ruminating over this, thinking about it over and over again. Every time that happens you re-trigger the initial sting and beat yourself up for having taken that risk. That's bad beca… | /r/seduction | 30/09/10 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Qualifying a girl you already know well.Once you know her pretty well, qualification isn't needed as much and isn't as effective. Why? If you know her well, you have already in some ways allowed her into your life. Qualification comes in at the beginning when she's shows interest in you and you're looking at her going "Hmmm... I don't know about you yet..." You can continue to challenge her in other ways. You can disagree with her sometimes. You can banter with her and bust on her. You can show leadership both physically and conversat… | /r/seduction | 29/09/10 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Will girls consider not having a Facebook page a red flag?I hate facebook. I NEVER friend girls on facebook if I'm interested in them. It just causes problems in too many ways. You start to look at their profile and which guys are talking to them, you have to keep yours up and make yours look good. You post comments and try to get people to 'like' them. Really, it's just a big circle jerk. Stay away from facebook. You don't need it. All of my coolest friends have facebook pages but they never update them. Why? Because we're too busy doing shit in real … | /r/seduction | 29/09/10 06:36 PM |
| 3 | HB 8 flakes on me, what do I doIt doesn't matter if she has an "excuse." If she likes you, she will ask to reschedule. If she doesn't ask to reschedule, then it would only sink you deeper to keep trying. But the fact that you have "lost all emotional control" says something. You're too into this girl. You need to distance yourself. Eric | /r/seduction | 29/09/10 06:33 PM |
| 4 | How do I pick up a girl on a train?Which technical terms bother you? I would be happy to elaborate about what they mean or why I used them. I tend to dislike technical terms and like to write so that anyone can read it. But I could see how there are a lot of technical terms in the comment. Also, what "strategies" bother you? You're reading /r/seduction, so I'm assuming you're not against all considerations on how to elicit positive reactions within your interactions. | /r/seduction | 29/09/10 01:32 AM |
| 29 | How do I pick up a girl on a train?I've done a ton of approaching on the train and on train platforms in NYC. I love it. In fact, if I take a walk during mid-day, even on a gorgeous day, I'll sometimes go down into the subways to game instead because it's so good. Why I Love Meeting Girls on the Train It's really good for two main reasons. Firstly, most of the women are alone. If I go out in midtown around lunchtime, one of the business centers of New York, there are a lot of hot women out, but they are all with co-workers or fri… | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 05:47 PM |
| 2 | AMOGing: The biggest issue.I think the easiest thing to do is introduce yourself to him. "I'm so-and-so" and put out your hand. Most likely he'll introduce himself. Then hit him with a ton of logical questions. So where are you from? What do you do? What are you studying? What brings you to this part of town? By doing this you accomplish two things. You make your presence known instead of sitting there in silence. And you fuck up this guys game. You engage him instead of letting him engage the girls. Eric | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 04:31 PM |
| 6 | Top 10 Qualities for a Good WingmanGood post. I'm gonna throw one other thing out there. I've gone out with a lot of wingmen. But very few of them have become close friends. The main reason for that is that they can't fucking chill. They're always running game. I can't bring a girl around them without them going into game mode. It's like they're laying the groundwork for a sarge every moment of the day. Bring a girl around and all of a sudden every guy in the vicinity is invisible to them. This is more a tip for your social circl… | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 04:21 PM |
| 1 | What on earth do you talk about on a blind first date?Not bad. I stay away from talking about things like music. Those conversations never go anywhere. "So you like blah blah band?" "Yeah." "Oh cool, so do I!" <crickets> Specific topics of conversation I do like to talk about with women on a first date or when I first meet them: Childhood and the past. If you are reminiscing about childhood, you know you’ve hit gold. Keep going there. Ideally you want her in a childish state, so this is perfect. Passions and goals in life. Find out what she’s passi… | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 03:42 AM |
| 5 | Advice for a girl who also wants to play.Firstly of all, it's awesome that you're out there practicing this stuff. That's exactly how you're going to get better. Most of the stuff that guys do works for women, at least the indirect stuff. You can indirectly approach a guy by asking for his opinion or even just asking a simple question like "What time does this place close?" Keep in mind, that most guys are not quick enough to take advantage of the beautiful opportunity that stands before them (you) so if you can think of other ways to … | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 09:13 PM |
| 0 | Advice for a girl who also wants to play.I agree that looks account for 80% of what guys look for in a woman. However, women can do a lot to improve their looks. For me personally, the way a woman dresses is huge. If she's wearing some frumpy college sweatshirt vs a killer stylin outfit, I will be so much less attracted to her no matter how good her genetic composition is. She can wear clothes that compliment her, wear make-up in the right way, etc. etc. I probably don't have to go on and on about this point, because chicks have a ton … | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Number closed, now what?Yeah. South Asian is the PC term for Indian. I guess it depends your age, demographic, etc., whether you're gonna go PC or not. You can even just leave out her race and mention something else about her like cute punk girl or whatever describes her. | /r/seduction | 25/09/10 10:11 PM |
| 4 | Number closed, now what?The endgame is that you want to meet up with her again in some way. You can do anything you want, invite her out biking, go shopping at the mall, get coffee, etc. You probably want to lean toward something where you'll be able to get to know her and talk to her, so something like a movie is a bad idea. In this day and age it's usually cool to invite a girl out via text. But you don't want to just send a text to her out of the blue inviting her out. That would come off a little try hard. You want… | /r/seduction | 25/09/10 06:35 AM |
| 3 | [FR] - Subway Ride on BARTLook, I meet women on the subway all the time. And I run into these girls again, more often then I'd like sometimes! I would bet anything that you'll see this girl again at some point. And when you do, you're in. Especially because you walked away from her. In any case, give yourself mad props for doing this. And keep up the great work. Trust me, as you get out there, this won't be the first girl that you lose to some stupid mistake. Get used to it. This means that you are out there improving yo… | /r/seduction | 25/09/10 06:11 AM |
| 7 | Avoided LJBF zone, but I still need some advice here.She's an attention whore. And the sad part is that you are feeding it and giving her 100% of what she wants: validation. Never ever tell a girl you like her or 'want to be more than just friends.' There is never any reason for it. Just sexually escalate with her. If she's into it, awesome. If she's not, there's your answer. The problem is that you started to have feelings for her long before you had any opportunity to make the move--or were willing to make the move. You spent too much time with … | /r/seduction | 25/09/10 06:04 AM |
| 11 | Hey guys. I have my first date in probably about five years (just got out of a LTR of that same length) and realize I have *no idea* how to date. Do you guys have any quick protips or advice? Thanks!From somebody who's been on tons and tons of dates, including online dating which I've been doing for almost ten years, I think it's okay to pay for one drink. I usually say something like "I'll get this round, the next five are on you." See if you can get her to pay for the next round. If she doesn't, don't freak out about it. But chances are, if she likes you, she will pay for a round. Here's some more tips: Try to find some couches so you can sit next to her rather than across from her at a t… | /r/seduction | 24/09/10 06:59 PM |
| 1 | For those of us that just picked up a girl: Why to take it slowYou keep it chill by not constantly contacting her too much. As the nice guy, I would feel like I need to see her a day or two later rather than spacing it out a little bit more, particularly after sex. You should definitely text her the next day if you have sex with her. But don't be overeager to set things up with her or try to become her best friend right after sex. | /r/seduction | 24/09/10 11:39 AM |
| 2 | [MiniFR] Neighbor girl is being difficultYou've got the right idea saying "We can hang but..." in that you're qualifying it so that she doesn't focus on the "We can hang" part. But you don't want to joke about how she's blowing you off. This is the opposite of cocky funny. Instead, say something like, "We can hang but..." ...you can't try to take advantage of me. ...I'm kicking you out if you get out of line. ...don't wear anything sexy. There are laws, you know. | /r/seduction | 22/09/10 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Natural Born Killer - How a Natural Approaches on the SubwayIf you click on any of the pieces they take you to the artist. | /r/seduction | 22/09/10 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Building compliance / asserting dominanceYes and No. Yes, I did do some physical contact, some banter, some emotional connecting. But by looking her deep in her eyes and and shutting the fuck up for a minute, I made it a bit uncomfortable for her. Then when I pulled her up by the hand and said we were leaving, I was TAKING A RISK. That was the point. That's part of what turned her on. I was okay with losing her. I didn't give a shit if it creeped her out. So yes, I did build up to it in a way, but not THAT much. I was taking a gamble. | /r/seduction | 22/09/10 02:09 AM |
| 21 | Improv? Has anyone taken any classes? Has this helped?Improv is awesome. It gets you out of your head and can really teach you how to banter well. They teach you the most important parts of banter and flirting: "Yes And.." and role playing. "Yes And..." is important. When she shit tests you--and all hot girls will--you better know how to respond and play back. She'll say "You have an ugly shirt." The wrong move is to disagree with her. The right move is to agree and amplify. "Yes and I wear it all the time because I need something to keep all these… | /r/seduction | 21/09/10 05:26 PM |
| 4 | Laid back men 'more attractive'Wow, great study. This can be compared with the study that most men get very stressed out in the presence of a beautiful woman. Their cortisol levels go through the roof. The lesson here is that the more interactions you have with attractive women, the more you get comfortable with them. Your stress levels start to become lower when you interact with all women, thereby making you more attractive to all women. | /r/seduction | 20/09/10 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Tip: There are little to no formal social statuses.I like this. Really good. | /r/seduction | 17/09/10 01:05 PM |
| 9 | Building compliance / asserting dominanceTwo examples: I'm in a bar with a girl on our first date. We’re toward the end of our first drink. I’ve been bantering with her a little. Connecting with her a little. A little bit of physical contact on the arm. Then I drop all conversation. I could continue to banter or connect, but I don’t. Instead I just sit there and look her in the eye. I don’t care if it makes her uncomfortable or makes her feel like she has to say something. I’m not smiling. The tension begins to build. “Let’s get out of… | /r/seduction | 17/09/10 01:03 PM |
| 1 | This guy has only been in the game for about a year, but I'm convinced he'll soon be one of the world's greatest PUAsInteresting. He certainly writes well. | /r/seduction | 17/09/10 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Is it loud at a party and you can't hear?You really don't want to lean into her. Let her lean into you. You're the guy, you hold your position. If anything, turn so that you're facing even more away from her and slide in without leaning over. | /r/seduction | 12/09/10 04:36 AM |
| 1 | What if her insecurity is a bigger issue than mine?Make her feel good about herself. Connect with her on a deeper level. Find out what she's into, what she likes, and explicitly show interest. "Wow, I really like that you're blah blah blah." | /r/seduction | 11/09/10 02:50 PM |
| 2 | How do you respond favorably to someone's physical advances? How do you clearly let them know you are interested/open to more?If a woman is escalating on the dance floor, you can just escalate back. Have you tried this? Where did the problem come in? If you are interested in her, always assume she's interested in you. | /r/seduction | 11/09/10 02:46 PM |
| 5 | I get in the same opening situation a lot, help me find a good way to handle it.Whenever a woman asks me where I'm from I like to have fun with it. You can have her try to guess. Or you can joke with her. I usually do something like this: Her: Where are you from originally? Me: Oh, this place you probably never heard of... Her: Yeah? Try me. Me: New Jersey. At this point she'll usually joke along and say 'Nope, never heard of it' or 'Oh wow, I heard that place is amazing' Me: Yeah, you would love it. It's got unicorns and rainbows... and nobody ever gets sick or dies. | /r/seduction | 11/09/10 02:39 PM |
| 1 | My Favorite Banter to Kill Boring ConversationAh, I'm in the states. Maybe that's part of the issue here. When I say Banter I'm not talking about light conversation. I'm talking about joking and flirting. This isn't the only thing I'm saying to these women. I'm injecting some playfulness into the conversation. I do this a little bit here and there in order to have fun. Have you ever used cocky funny with women? That's what this is. It's not a pickup line. It's a way of having fun with them within a conversation. You lighten things up and go… | /r/seduction | 10/09/10 10:58 PM |
| 2 | My Favorite Banter to Kill Boring ConversationI don't disagree that banter is better when there's an exchange. Banter works better when she plays along. It's about including her in the fun. That's why she likes banter, because she gets to play. But how do you start that exchange without some banter? Please give a real-world example of what you're talking about. I am totally willing to hear negative things about my articles. I welcome feedback. I'm not going around downvoting comments that disagree with me. I love to learn and try improve my… | /r/seduction | 10/09/10 07:15 PM |
| -3 | My Favorite Banter to Kill Boring ConversationIt's all well and good to say "think on your feet." Wouldn't we all love to be able to walk up to a gorgeous woman and just be able to be ourselves and come up with awesome stuff off the top of our heads. If that were the case, none of us would really need Seddit or any other type of help in improving our abilities with women. These are lines. They aren't meant to be thrown at a girl. They're better when you understand the concept behind them. Banter is roleplaying. By saying that you're looking… | /r/seduction | 10/09/10 04:53 PM |
| 0 | My Favorite Banter to Kill Boring ConversationLol, I'm surprised to hear all these negative comments on Seddit. It's called banter. What normally happens when you say this to women in a fun, playful way is this: they giggle. I would love to hear what the naysayers do/say instead of being fun and playful, and if they are playful, how they do it. Eric | /r/seduction | 10/09/10 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Ask Seddit: I suck at flirting... I know this chick digs me but how would you have responded?Rather than tell you exactly what to say, here's what you can do to come up with your own thing to say next time. Try to understand the ''role'' behind the banter line. She's a brat. Picture what a parent would say if their kid was acting like a brat. Picture what a big brother would do if his little sister was being annoying. What would they say to them? Maybe something like... You better watch it with that mouth of yours or you're going to be in trouble. Another peep from you and you're going … | /r/seduction | 08/09/10 12:31 PM |
| 1 | I suck. I really, really suck. The thing is, before learning about pickup, I never had any idea how much I sucked. How do/did you stay motivated to continue?Hey man, congratulations. You've arrived. You're there. Not kidding. Ever learn a new skill? Let's say you want to take up piano playing or drumming or mma fighting or surfing, and you've never done it before. Looks easy, right? Fuck no it's not. When you first get out there, you feel like a total dumbass. You've seen it a hundred times before. You know what you want to do, but your body won't let you do it. You're doing something fucking awesome right now. You're allowing yourself to suck. This… | /r/seduction | 08/09/10 12:20 PM |
| 6 | OkCupid suggestions?Firstly, let me preface that I agree with the other people here who say that internet dating can be a waste of time. You are better off learning how to meet women in the real world. This is the only true way to change your confidence. That being said, you can still meet some great women online. Your Profile. The key here is qualificaiton. Make a list of exactly what you want in a woman and list that. For example, if you want a girl who's creative and artsy, write "She needs to be brilliant, crea… | /r/seduction | 04/09/10 03:26 PM |
| 10 | How to make a girl fall in love with youTo me it comes down to one single thing: being able to see something in her that nobody else can see. That separates you from everybody else in the world and makes you irreplaceable. | /r/seduction | 03/09/10 04:04 AM |
| 3 | Hey Seddit. Just wanted to share this with you. It's /r/2XChromosomes giving their opinions on pick-up. At the very least, take the discussion as another viewpoint on how to be confident, but not an asshole. The discussion on negs in particular is helpful.There are a lot of stories about zero to hero guys posting on the thread, but as a guy, I'd like to put this out there: I like when a girl has game. People who profess they aren't into games say that if you really like each other, you shouldn't need to play games. This is like saying that if a person is qualified for a job, its okay if he shows up for the interview in jeans and a t-shirt--or better yet--rolls out of bed and goes to the interview in his pajamas. Love isn't simply seeing a snapsho… | /r/seduction | 03/09/10 03:52 AM |
| 11 | Something funny happened to me on a date tonight.I once walked up to a girl in a mall who had a dog. I had terrible gas and so I let one fly, silently. A moment later she looks down at her dog and says "Oh my god, my dog farted!" and she yells at him. I looked at the dog and silently thanked him for letting me off the hook. | /r/seduction | 02/09/10 07:48 PM |
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