jeebusthecat Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
159	The endgame for feminists	Rant/Venting	jeebusthecat	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/13 06:45 PM
90	She doesn't even have to a work another day in her life thanks to him and is bitter and resentful he's enjoying his early retirement. You can give her everything, and she'll still resent you.	Blue Pill Example	jeebusthecat	/r/TheRedPill	16/11/13 08:35 PM
76	So it turns out my sexuality and how I really feel isn't so disgusting after all	Rant/Venting	jeebusthecat	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/13 02:01 AM
72	Red Pill Fatigue		jeebusthecat	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/13 08:05 PM
13	Red pill responses and game for short men		jeebusthecat	/r/askTRP	13/11/13 02:01 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	The Destruction of Family and Other “Liberating Legacies” we can Thank Feminist Social Engineering for Good article but I have some criticisms. What about men who abandon their children/families or are dangerous/abusive? How many women are single mothers involuntarily or because it was actually a better choice? Women now have options to leave abusive relationships. We can't pin single parenthood solely on women or feminism. That's a pretty tenuous connection between feminism and liberty, risk, and hard work. The poor are lazy argument has been thoroughly debunked many times. There's larger forces…	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/13 02:08 AM
3	Playing the game and shit tests among varying age groups and cultures. Haha, this isn't a game of Texas Hold'em! How on Earth would you quantify any of that? Let's start with the most basic: attraction. There's no way to quantify that. My 9 might be your 6; how would your model account for that? Every single decision people make is influenced by a million factors that no model could possible include. No offense, but your model would be utterly useless because there's no way to make something so complicated and poorly understood so simple. Game isn't some set of rul…	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/13 01:55 AM
6	Playing the game and shit tests among varying age groups and cultures. 18-21: She wants a man with a job 21-25: She wants a man who's rich, handsome, fit, powerful, and good in bed 26-30: She wants a man with a job who's ready to commit 31-35: She wants a man who pays attention to her But seriously, as cool as that would be, I don't think women fit neatly into categories like that. There's too much overlap for any sort of chart to be useful. Even though I'm sure there are general trends, being too reliant on some sort of cheat sheet wouldn't be very effective in re…	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/13 12:07 AM
20	Dealing with bitching Ever watch Malcolm in the Middle? My mom is basically 80% Lois. A serial nagger who can work herself up over anything. Throughout my (BP) childhood, I tried to reason logically with her, calm her down, appease her, basically walk on eggshells. Of course that never worked. Unfortunately I only began to figure this out shortly before I moved out on my own, but what worked was not taking her seriously and disengaging. Nagging is easy. Just say something stupid: "can't take out the trash, reading ab…	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/13 08:50 PM
19	More money for K-8 CS instructors who have a 40% female class Man that's sad. My roommate, who happens to be a man, is a practicing nurse. Of course nursing is still overwhelmingly female dominated. I asked him if there were any scholarships or incentives for men to become nurses. Absolutely none. Male nurses still get jabbed at by both genders. So much for feminism representing men's issues. It really bothers me there's this obsession over encouraging women to take up traditionally male professions but no encouragement the other way around. Could you imag…	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/13 08:26 PM
5	Commodity Fetishism and the Path to Blue Pill Servitude I agree with that. Here in Vancouver, there's tons of Chinese and Indian weddings. They are effing huge, and it's abundantly clear that they're not for the bridge and groom. The parents control everything.	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/13 10:51 AM
1	I understand why women prefer "assholes" over "nice guys". But is there any type of man they would prefer over "assholes"/Dark Triad? Any nice gestures an alpha takes can be misconstrued as her having power. What about the example I gave? She's paying a fair price and is going to benefit hugely from my work. I made it abundantly clear she has to seek my favor and that she's not entitled to special treatment. Even if somehow she hamstered her way into thinking she's in control, she's really not. Nice doesn't necessarily mean going out of your way to help anyone with no expectation of anything in return. Playful teasing can stil…	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/13 10:38 AM
82	I understand why women prefer "assholes" over "nice guys". But is there any type of man they would prefer over "assholes"/Dark Triad? I don't think you understand at all. Asshole/nice guy is a false dichotomy. It's far more complex than that. This was a hurdle I and many other RPers had to get over. Most guys are naturally nice; I'd argue there are lots of evolutionary and social advantages to be a decent person. I used to think I had to change a core aspect of my personality to get respect, which caused me to be incredibly unhappy and unsuccessful (e.g., I'd do something really mean on purpose and then apologize immediately).…	/r/TheRedPill	24/11/13 07:13 PM
3	A Redpill Perspective on Costume Parties I do have to ask why though. I think it's important to question your beliefs. Otherwise, you can't grow as a person. Why are big strong men afraid of lacy undergarments? It doesn't exactly rob them of their powers like kryptonite. Frankly, I think it's a good exercise in "being yourself" in the truest sense of the cliche: clothes don't literally make the man. I think most TRPers would agree a woman wearing men's clothing isn't a man; the opposite is true too. Wearing men's clothing doesn't make …	/r/TheRedPill	24/11/13 09:48 AM
11	A Redpill Perspective on Costume Parties Yeah, this has nothing to do with the post. However, I'll chime in. My highschool's theater group did something similar for all the new recruits. The one uptight guy who refused? Bullied the rest of the year and forced out of the club. Yes hazing is BS. You really have to pick from the best of a bunch of bad options. If they show up, and you throw a hissy fit over being a sissy, you will never hear the end of it; your SMV will plummet for being the uptight whiny guy. This is the worst thing to d…	/r/TheRedPill	24/11/13 08:53 AM
4	Hamster throws epic tantrum, husband (now ex) treats her like a child and ignores/laughs. Hamster eventually calms down. Of course she's texting during the tantrum. I love how she goes calm when she's using the phone.	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/13 10:02 PM
2	If a mans value peaks mid 30s, how do you explain most older guys getting NOTHING? It's about potential. If you sow the seeds when you're young (e.g., diet, fitness, work, game, life experience), by 30+, you could have a much higher status than nearly all younger men and men your own age. Around me, it's mostly men ~30 years old dating early and mid 20something women.	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/13 09:40 PM
8	If a mans value peaks mid 30s, how do you explain most older guys getting NOTHING? Exactly. People love hype. It turns out, I had a lot more partners than some of my friends, who I thought were getting laid all the time.	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/13 09:37 PM
3	The 'Game' is Rigged? It's not rigged; it just plays very different between sexes. Look at the long term: I see lots of happy older (30+) men and lots of miserable older women. Talk to some older people. See who's happy and who's not. Yes young women can fuck when they want, but they inevitably get chewed up inside for it. Even if they find a beta bucks, they're still going to be miserable sitting at home watching TV. Boring miserable life. If you don't rely on your innate talents to get what you want in the here and…	/r/TheRedPill	22/11/13 08:58 PM
1	Whats the end game? I'll check that out. Thanks.	/r/TheRedPill	22/11/13 08:42 PM
2	Whats the end game? I quite like Warren Farrell's characterization: we are moving from a survival based social structure (which is what rigid gender roles are optimized for) to a self-fulfilment based social structure. Renegotiating the social contract between the gender may be part of that transition. This is what no one's talking about when they go on about "thousands of years of gender roles." We really are living in a unique time in which a relatively large amount of people worldwide are not living hand-to-mout…	/r/TheRedPill	22/11/13 01:51 AM
1	How often do you get "stabbed in the back" by other men? (Cashier wants to make man pay for his girlfriend's food) Well of course he does, he's the man. If I went out with you I'd pay for you. I would have snapped back and left no tip. That's rude and unprofessional. Man: "So you're offering to pay for my gf's dinner? Thanks bro!" Pound it. I find salespeople try to suggest I buy stuff for the woman I'm in the store with. It's obnoxious and sets me up for the "he's not my boyfriend" routine.	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/13 07:47 PM
2	Last Minute Hesitation = World's Biggest But Easiest Shit-Test Not only is this a terrible idea, it's rape. TRP is about pushing boundaries, not breaking them. IMO, the best thing to do when she says no sex is to ignore her and disengage. Pull out your phone, a book, make a snack, anything. If she leaves, she was never DTF or has issues. However, more likely that not, she will come crawling over and re-initiate. Repeat as necessary. Thanks for fueling the BS about TRP and making us look like rapists.	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/13 07:42 PM
0	Girl I've been hooking up with now "isn't sure what she wants" anymore. Pull a Bobby Kennedy: when Kruschev (i.e., your girlfriend) makes outrageous demands, acquiesce to what you can deal with (i.e., sex) and simply ignore the rest. This tactic saved the world from nuclear war!	/r/askTRP	21/11/13 06:30 AM
7	Help the "betas" out Lots of people coming here have recently come to terms that they are BP/beta. As an immediate reaction, they distance themselves from "uncool" behaviors. "Yeah, all betas are chumps, amirite?" IMHO, people go through the 5 stages of grieving when ditching cherished long-held beliefs like BPism. First is denial, then anger. Try to figuratively force TRP down a BPer's through, and he will figuratively spew BP hatred and nonsense right back at you. This is the same reason you don't debate feminists…	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/13 06:24 AM
2	Casual sex causes depression and suicide in women.....but that's not a shocker to you..... No kidding. Humans need more than just sex. Our culture is obsessed with it.	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/13 06:10 AM
3	Dealing with anger? Write. 750words.com helps me get through a lot of shit. Freewrite everything you're thinking about 15 minutes a day. Every time I get mad at someone, I write an angry letter then destroy it.	/r/askTRP	21/11/13 12:07 AM
2	Texting on a date shit test True story: I once quietly ditched a woman in the middle of dinner because she wouldn't get off her phone. Twenty minutes later she texts me asking where I went. I replied, "so this is how I get your attention?" Next time a woman starts with the phone, I'm going to vanish and text her "find me. I have a surprise for you."	/r/askTRP	20/11/13 11:59 PM
59	Apparently "real" = hambeast. Lots of hamster v. logic in the comments. WARNING: fat women in lingerie If you don't take care of yourself, why should I be expected to take care of you?	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/13 10:32 PM
7	[Ask TRP] How do deal with unwanted kinks/sex incompatibilities in a RP way? This isn't rocket science: either you compromise and make sincere attempts to please each other or you find other partners. If he isn't willing to compromise and/or you really don't like BDSM, then there's nothing else you can do.	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/13 09:55 PM
3	So it turns out my sexuality and how I really feel isn't so disgusting after all A similar sort of thing happened with my career as an editor. After editing millions of words, you start to see mistakes everywhere. So many, that you can't possibly correct everyone not to mention you'd have no friends. So when I hear someone correct someone else uninvited, I just roll my eyes.	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/13 09:47 PM
0	Girl laments loss of her beta male friend & tries to shame all men into staying in the "friend zone" Keep posting. Get mad.	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/13 09:43 PM
-2	Travelgirls.com - "Escorts are not welcome." - Hahah I do feel sorry pity. I think men are more sympathetic by nature. Why else do we cooperate and selflessly give?	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/13 07:29 AM
1	So it turns out my sexuality and how I really feel isn't so disgusting after all I know! The more I piece together my experiences and what women did (not said), the more I realize how directly asserting my sexual desires worked most of the time. Truth is, there have been women who made it obvious they wanted my ass. Why didn't I ever do the same? That tells me, I've missed opportunities. How many women were sitting there wondering when I was going to plant one on them before we both went home disappointed? Jeez. I also see how meekly hovering around for attention in the name…	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/13 05:43 AM
7	So it turns out my sexuality and how I really feel isn't so disgusting after all Yes. Did you start to worry less about what other people thought, especially women? Although I'm working on it, I generally take people very seriously. I realized that's what's really fatiguing me: no one has the innate capacity to care about everyone's emotions. I'm starting to see BP and feminism as literally retarding adulthood.	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/13 05:32 AM
7	So it turns out my sexuality and how I really feel isn't so disgusting after all Yes exactly.	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/13 05:28 AM
7	So it turns out my sexuality and how I really feel isn't so disgusting after all It's getting fun now just saying what I want and having people love it.	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/13 04:30 AM
18	So it turns out my sexuality and how I really feel isn't so disgusting after all Sure. Basically, after learning what not to do, it was really difficult to start practicing RP theory. At first it all felt forced and incongruent, which really "fatigued" me. I felt like I was acting and had to be on 100% of the time. I worried even a single slip up could sink me. Every moment, I was thinking "is this BP? Did I just supplicate? Is that a shit test? How do I respond? Oh fuck, I shouldn't have said that..." It was tiring, and I felt bad thinking that this is what I needed to do t…	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/13 04:29 AM
12	Girl laments loss of her beta male friend & tries to shame all men into staying in the "friend zone" What makes you say that? Almost everyone here has been through that. It's pretty much a universal human experience. So few men are naturals. Maybe that was the last straw for Ted.	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/13 01:51 AM
38	Travelgirls.com - "Escorts are not welcome." - Hahah Awful really. No one deserves that no matter how dumb they are. I've personally met women who were seduced and possibly abused by rich men while traveling. Don't go off with strange men that offer you stuff is the first thing any kid learns.	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/13 01:46 AM
59	Travelgirls.com - "Escorts are not welcome." - Hahah This looks like a fantastic way for pretty and naive young women to get groomed and sold into sexual slavery in brothels in Eastern Europe. It's a short slope from "travel with me for free" to "I'll pay you $1000 if you do this" to "I'll pay you $1000 to do this to my friend" to "Do this to my friend or else." So sad.	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 11:02 PM
1	Why men are withdrawing from courtship. Still, I don't get why you would go on lots of failed dates and continue to shell out money knowing full well it's gone to waste. If anything, it's reinforcing bad behavior. Women need to learn that they're not entitled to other people's money. Too commonly, I think TRP followers play a zero sum game and its completely about maximizing your benefits while minimizing costs. I do that too but its certainly not a philosophy you should live your life by. Because if you lose, you get jaded. But that'…	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 10:57 PM
2	10 ways to know you're dating a 'real man'... What is TRP take on an article like this? Ovaries and uterus? The female genitalia are 98% internal!	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 10:53 PM
2	10 ways to know you're dating a 'real man'... What is TRP take on an article like this? You forgot vagina and tits!	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 09:36 PM
4	Blue Pill in Hindsight: The Simpsons Sure. Also, don't forget he is from a generation where being BP wasn't a sentence to involuntary celibacy. There are definitely lots of older BP men who are happy because they ended up with pre-feminist women.	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 09:30 PM
7	10 ways to know you're dating a 'real man'... What is TRP take on an article like this? Boys are generally apathetic and just look for one thing from a woman. A man, will do what it takes to make you happy, both inside and outside of the bedroom. Your happiness, is his reward. Your happiness, is his reward. Disgusting. So it's my fucking job to please her? I should be grateful that I have the opportunity to please her? And if I don't, she's entitled to run off with another guy? This is pure beta bs. Happiness comes from within. You can't be responsible for another human being's hap…	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 09:16 PM
9	Blue Pill in Hindsight: The Simpsons Homer BP? Are you serious? Bags Marge, who's way out of his league and coveted by other men. Think about his victory over Arnie Ziff: typical beta BP. Marge never cheats on him. She thinks things through and doesn't go with her feelings. Marge constantly shows affection for him. Marge disapproves of his stupid plans, but ultimately lets him do what he wants. Homer freely expresses his sexuality and pleases Marge. They have a relatively good sex life. See Mr. Plow. Is pursued by Lurleen, a famous…	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 09:11 PM
1	Tried to turn around a friend zone situation, but actually miss being her friend. How do I reconcile with TRP theory? Has she contacted you? If not, how interested do you really think she is in maintaining your precious friendship?	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 08:59 PM
4	How to avoid being beta bucks? Before you share your hard-earned resources, ask yourself "are you doing this to be nice or change her mind?" If so, don't pay. Beta bucks feel good about spending cash on women; they're indoctrinated to think it's an investment and that it positively affects the outcome. You can just purchase sex if you need it so bad. Anecdote from last weekend: I had a woman over, had her help cook dinner (really $1-2 more than if I cooked alone), went skating (didn't pay for her), and went to dessert. In a t…	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 08:57 PM
5	Girl laments loss of her beta male friend & tries to shame all men into staying in the "friend zone" I'm here for some romance. I can hear the wheel spinning. Gold.	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 08:42 PM
1	The link between male gender roles and suicide, and how the rationalizing (the hamster)protects women The Freemasons are huge and extremely well known. I would still give it a try.	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 08:32 PM
1	Why men are withdrawing from courtship. Many I'm just vindictive or a cheap bastard, but I see this as solid "win" for her; "meh, he's not my type. Might as well get a free dinner." I would rather have $30 in my pocket to spend on something I want. I think whether you like it or not, dating with that sort of woman is a competitive situation. Many women are trying to extract time, money, and validation from men--not trying to determine if there's potential for a meaningful relationship. By spending money on an ungrateful woman, you rei…	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 08:29 PM
4	'I get offered sex all the time, but no-one asks me out for dinner': Hamster who spent £22k on her body says men can't see past her fake breasts and fillers No kidding. She could have saved herself thousands of pounds and the sheer agony of surgery. Have you ever seen plastic surgical procedures? It's literally carpentry on your face.	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 08:22 PM
6	The link between male gender roles and suicide, and how the rationalizing (the hamster)protects women I think it's more to do with the fact that women tend to try in a fit of emotional despair (e.g., down a bunch of random pills), whereas men generally think it through and plan. Either way, it's terrible. I've had both male and female friends and acquaintances commit or threaten suicide for various reasons.	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 09:31 AM
2	The link between male gender roles and suicide, and how the rationalizing (the hamster)protects women That's why it needs to be secret. You can still have a private club on private property. In fact, this wouldn't work as a public organization; you'd have too much negative attention and too many hangers on. Membership should be strictly limited to men whom other members can vouch for. It needs to be small (<100 people) and quiet (no activism, no political agenda). This is solely for the benefit of members. It's true, open a male-only gym and you'll have the press and a horde of hairy harpies sho…	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 09:26 AM
11	Here's a good one: Girl grabs guys crotch so guy grabs girls boob, she flips out. "I said (to her friend) 'she touched me, I touched her. It's that simple.' She said 'No, it's different." Women grab my butt fairly often. I always grab theirs back. Sometimes they get mad, sometimes not, but I always respond with "that was a little disappointing. You got a way better deal grabbing my ass."	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 08:02 AM
23	I met a woman who has taken testosterone. Very interesting conversation. Holy hell, that just clicked for me. Maybe I've just never had great sex, but after sex, I'm just like "ok, I'm good now." It's the same feeling after eating a good meal. It really is just a need.	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 07:57 AM
3	Why men are withdrawing from courtship. Why didn't you ask her to pay? If you've already lost, it can't possibly get worse by being "rude."	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 07:50 AM
7	The link between male gender roles and suicide, and how the rationalizing (the hamster)protects women Precisely. So it really comes down to men supporting each other to get ahead...oh fuck, that's literally patriarchy. I guess we'll have to keep it secret. Haha. But seriously, I would like to see men create real "fraternities" and clubs where the focus was on self-improvement and mutual support, not partying. Maybe this is extant (like Freemasons or whatever), but I think it would be pretty cool if a bunch of men payed monthly dues to fund a clubhouse, essentially a mancavern that could even hav…	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/13 07:47 AM
7	The link between male gender roles and suicide, and how the rationalizing (the hamster)protects women Society needs to encourage and destigmatize healthy modes of release of the emotional and sexual frustration of disaffected men before it ends up in suicide or mass murder. Of course, feminism would never allow that as all male-centric forms of entertainment are oppressive to women nor would it admit to being the cause of these problems.	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/13 10:57 PM
8	I'm losing my attraction to women due to resentment. As for how to appreciate women, rejoice in the contrast of your strong nature to theirs. Be amused by them as you go in the direction of your life that you want--a life that is NOT focused on women, but a life that they want to be a part of. I.e., start realizing, you are valuable. Your worth as a person isn't innate with diminishing returns, it's cultivatable.	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/13 10:33 PM
1	Red pill responses and game for short men gold!	/r/askTRP	17/11/13 04:04 AM
1	French Philosopher shows how feminism leads women to wage slavery (video) I wouldn't call living off welfare "living." Being a single mom with a low-paying job must suck ass.	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/13 03:44 AM
8	She doesn't even have to a work another day in her life thanks to him and is bitter and resentful he's enjoying his early retirement. You can give her everything, and she'll still resent you. "But I also think it sets a bad example for our son to see a father who doesn't have some productive purpose in life." "Your father is such a loser. Even though he busted his ass, made tons of money securing our entire futures, was excellent at what he does, spends loads of time and money on you, he's just a lazy selfish bastard."	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/13 03:28 AM
1	What's the most bluepill thing you've heard another man say? It's not so much one particular thing, but I hate it when men try to rationalize with a woman's (or man's) shitty behavior or decisions and feel sympathy for them. For example, the guy who has been cheated on hears, "I cheated, because you were neglecting my needs." Instead of thinking, "this is unacceptable, I'm leaving," he thinks, "I need to be sensitive and mindful of her feelings. Perhaps I didn't consider how my actions affected her. It was my fault she cheated. It's not worth throwing awa…	/r/TheRedPill	16/11/13 10:46 PM
1	French Philosopher shows how feminism leads women to wage slavery (video) You're also going to need a job if you don't find beta bucks by the time you hit the wall. Even the government won't completely support you through that.	/r/TheRedPill	16/11/13 10:40 PM
21	She doesn't even have to a work another day in her life thanks to him and is bitter and resentful he's enjoying his early retirement. You can give her everything, and she'll still resent you. No man, she makes it clear she resents him just chilling (actually self-improving with gym and reading). There was no mention of him not managing his money properly or excessive spending. It doesn't sound like his retirement hobbies are expensive either. However, she does mention he busted his ass for that money. Now he's reaping the benefits how he sees fit. He's an economic winner and she's jealous of his success. She wants to compete but can't. Instead of being grateful that such a successful…	/r/TheRedPill	16/11/13 10:27 PM
3	Do you know what I was doing at 25? Dancing on bars after 4 too many shots of Jagermeister. Dating as many men as possible... Well, we do our part. Again, despite the groveling and entitlement, they're not happy. They like groveling betas but they don't actually want them. They're rare, but I have met women who get massively turned on when a man puts them in line. One of my exes couldn't hold her liquor. One night, I told her to stop acting like a child, that she's embarrassing both of us, and if she didn't get her shit together, I'd leave. She promptly apologized, sobered up, and asked me to rail her later that night.	/r/TheRedPill	16/11/13 08:41 PM
2	Teens React to Blurred Lines I think you posted the wrong link.	/r/TheRedPill	14/11/13 06:04 PM
2	Op/Ed: It's Time For Companies To Fire Their Human Resource Departments So you essentially ran your own business and made money for someone else? Your sales paid her.	/r/TheRedPill	14/11/13 06:00 PM
3	Do you know what I was doing at 25? Dancing on bars after 4 too many shots of Jagermeister. Dating as many men as possible... You're welcome! I often find myself jealous of the average 20something woman (i.e., attention, validation, excused bad behavior, free shit, sex on demand, etc.) until I realized how downright miserable most of them are. They love showing the world how wonderful and exciting their lives are on social media, but get to know most of them and it's just emotional misery. They let man after man wreck them. They focus so much on how other women perceive. They're in constant competition with both women …	/r/TheRedPill	14/11/13 04:13 AM
7	New Subscriber: Help me understand the hate towards Betas This. I recently had some new friends over, and we ended up discussing this guy's shitty first relationship. He's 19 and just come from China. Needless to say, he's naive and BP. However, he's got massive potential: a little makeover and gym and he went from 4/10 to 8/10. Oh and he's filthy rich. He's only beginning to have life experience away from his overbearing mother who keeps sending the checks. Everyone except started jumping on him for obvious mistakes. Do this, don't do that. I told him…	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/13 08:57 PM
32	Do you know what I was doing at 25? Dancing on bars after 4 too many shots of Jagermeister. Dating as many men as possible... Well, it's schadenfreude, but we can take solace in the fact that these women aren't happy, are becoming unhappier by the year, and more and more of them are ending up spinsters. To me, TRP is about taking control of your happiness and not letting others, especially women, dictate your life.	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/13 08:44 PM
2	Red pill responses and game for short men Fortunately, I was blessed with an above-average and proportional physique despite my height. Body is coming along, everything else has recently come into place and has already made a huge difference.	/r/askTRP	13/11/13 08:34 PM
1	Red pill responses and game for short men Thanks for the constructive input. I was worried you were going to use the "I know a short guy and he has confidence. Just be confident." I'm working on saying less because I sometimes say game-killing things without thinking. Most of all, and what I think gets glossed over too often when one discusses game, it has to fit you. That's the biggest thing I've recently learned on my RP journey. Like many other guys, my first introduction to game was Neil Strauss and Mystery. There's no way I want to…	/r/askTRP	13/11/13 08:32 PM
1	Red pill responses and game for short men Cool site! It's great to hear this specifically from a short guy. Too many people just say "just have confidence!"	/r/askTRP	13/11/13 04:35 AM
24	101 Everyday Ways for Men to Be Allies to Women I vomited in my mouth a bit. This guy must be so successful with women...as friends. How do I think men should be allies to women? (1) Give/tell them what they need, not what they want, (2) don't pedastalize them, (3) don't be a murderer or rapist? It's that simple really.	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/13 11:03 PM
1	Red Pill Saved Me From Pure Manipulation That's the said part. I knew this was bad. I knew it. However, I chose to silence the alarm because I thought I could fix it.	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/13 07:58 AM
2	Perfect TRP example in r/relationships. [29F] shocked her [29M] BF of 1 year loves her, doesn't love him back, yet wants marriage and to move into his house "to experience having her own place". Says "I know I'm not going to find anyone better than you and you're what I'm looking for". I metaphorically spit out my coffee hearing that first one. My ex said almost exactly that about me and her last boyfriend.	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/13 07:55 AM
0	Korean women are using special female military programs to build their careers whereas all able-bodied Korean men are conscripted for 2 years Honestly, besides mandatory service, Korean women do not have privileges over men. It's a far more traditional society. Women are openly mocked and ridiculed by men including their bosses. Women take their appearance and weight very seriously, unless they want to be left over (look up bean paste girls). Sexual harassment is largely tolerated compared to North America. Men generally make way more than women. I've met lots of Korean alphas resembling 1950s Western men in character. They're way mor…	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/13 09:13 PM
3	Red Pill Saved Me From Pure Manipulation You raise a good point. However, I didn't mean to imply that I fucked her or any of my ex-girlfriends on first dates. I don't think it's so bad to hold off on all out sex for 2-4 dates (which I never pay exclusively for) excluding escalating things like makeouts, groping, etc. I'd almost rather play a more "traditional" game, where the rules, roles, and expectations are more established. I really hate free-for-all combat dating. It's true high partner count bothers me immensely. However, I don't…	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/13 03:24 AM
3	Red Pill Saved Me From Pure Manipulation Everyone has different needs from the red pill and I can greatly relate to wanting sex to be emotionally fulfilling too and it prevents you from being put into orbiter mode so it's a good mindset. Thanks for respecting that. I've gotten some shit from RP types for not wanting to have as much mindless sex as I can.	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/13 03:07 AM
13	Need help, RedPill. I know I can rely on you. Ask teacher if you can use the restroom. Walk into random senior classroom. Find a girl and ask her in front of everyone. If the teacher gets mad and gives you detention even better. Bitches love bad boys. This was my method and it has no downside. ...and then see the video on /r/cringe and be tormented by your entire class. Why on Earth would you tell OP to make an ass out of himself?	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/13 03:04 AM
1	Thoughts on Crying I don't see why some people are slamming crying. Just don't cry in front of women. In ancient Rome, men cried all the time. It was a sign you felt something.	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/13 03:02 AM
15	Red Pill Saved Me From Pure Manipulation This may sound effeminate or whatever, but I do attach a great deal of emotional meaning to sex. I really don't like ONSs. I genuinely find sex better if I actually like the person in addition to physical attraction. For me, it's an absolute prerequisite for commitment. I work backwards: we screw good and early, then, once you prove your commitment to me, you get the benefit of me being your boyfriend. I'm the goddamn prize. If you want unconditional emotional support, go find some fucking orbit…	/r/TheRedPill	08/11/13 09:36 PM
27	Red Pill Saved Me From Pure Manipulation I literally stood up and went ice cold. I lost my frame a little bit and she ended up leaving anyways. Next time, can you promise to cum in her mouth, say "thanks babe, that was alright, but I gotta go, see you later"? Embarrassingly I have a similar BP story. I had only recently discovered TRP when I was at the end of trip when I met a sweet shy innocent girl. Boy did she play up the innocence factor. I fell for it hard. I thought I was really in love. I work online and like her city, so I woul…	/r/TheRedPill	08/11/13 08:32 PM
1	Why Good Girls Have Become Unicorns: A Response From A Unicorn The thing that really grinds my gears about the apex fallacy is listening to some woman tell me how easy it is for guys to "just get laid," namely because they fuck guys who seemingly put in relatively little effort. Yes, the rich handsome guy you fucked last week gets laid a lot because he can act like an idiot and you'll drop your panties for him.	/r/TheRedPill	07/11/13 10:17 PM
20	Why Good Girls Have Become Unicorns: A Response From A Unicorn Implying all guys just want to do is ONS. If you dangle meat in front of a dog and it eats it, do you blame the dog for going after something it likes? It's his nature. There's a good chance that same dog would also gladly follow you home and unconditionally be your best friend for the rest of its life if you'd let it. That's also his nature. But instead, you'd rather judge it. All dogs are the same: they just want easy meat. The problem is, self-proclaimed unicorns like herself would likely nev…	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/13 11:47 PM
36	What I learned from Narcissism and how it applies to women This. A hard RP lesson I learned a year ago was being there to support a close female friend through her self-made problems. I was away from home and any close male friends. When I went through a low point myself, she was impatient, dismissive, unsympathetic, and unhelpful. She constantly made it about her, e.g., "oh you think that's bad? I have it worse." When I finally pulled myself out of it, she said, "thank god, you were being really annoying." The moment a man is down, women see "loser" an…	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/13 11:30 PM
11	Feminism's Terrible Blunder -- A great read for women new to the Red Pill My mother is roughly following those suggestions: married at 26, 2 kids, re-entered the workforce when we were in university. Now she's making almost as much me. Effing baby boomers and their well-paying jobs.	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/13 11:51 PM
1	"Their standards are too high." What Could 34 Million More Men Than Women in China Mean for the World? Nope. The best part is, the guys she dates are either entrepreneurs or finance guys, so really don't have time to emotionally support women while pulling down 80+ hour weeks.	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/13 11:28 PM
1	What part of TRP makes all these men openly come out against it? Exactly. If she's looking to hook up, and you make it happen, you both win. If she's looking for a fulfilling relationship, and you make that happen, you both win. If she's a loser and you tell her no, at least you win. Unfortunately, feminism has made intergender relationships adversarial rather than cooperative. To me, TRP is about getting others (both sexes) to cooperate rather than compete.	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/13 11:17 PM
36	What part of TRP makes all these men openly come out against it? Embarrassingly, I've been that guy. Basically, I was just shocked about hearing a series of actions that ran contradictory to the narrative that was pounded into me my whole life. What's that phenomenon when you hear a counterargument to a cherished belief and just get angry and deny it? Then I realized all it was true and that what I had been taught (basically to cede all power to women and pray they pay attention to me) was a fat fucking lie. Regardless of what a woman wants, you being awesome…	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/13 01:21 AM
13	The Best Attitude For Successfully Dating The Modern Single Woman I like it. Sometimes Heartiste is a little too aloof asshole for me, but this is great. I kind of realized I do this when I'm in a relationship. I know I'm going to get laid tomorrow, so there's no pressure to "impress" any woman. It's tough to just act like it doesn't matter but I think I'm getting there.	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/13 01:07 AM
13	"Their standards are too high." What Could 34 Million More Men Than Women in China Mean for the World? If you think hypergamy is bad in the US, you should see China. The gap between the average guy and the elites is immense. The elite are all about flash on a level you rarely see in materialistic America. They have their pick, and there's no shortage of naive pretty girls among 1.3 billion people. Married? Not a problem. Many women would rather be a kept mistress than have a loving husband. These guys genuinely have the resources to elevate the status of an average woman through gifts and connect…	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/13 10:16 PM
11	(X-post from TrueReddit)“Girl behavior is the gold standard in schools,” says psychologist Michael Thompson. “Boys are treated like defective girls.” I find it fascinating that we take so many steps to encourage young girls into math, science, and engineering fields (and I agree that we should), but that we don't do something similar for boys who are just having trouble concentrating in school or don't like to read. Personal narratives full of emotion and self-disclosure are prized; stories describing video games, skateboard competitions or a monster devouring a city are not. Tell me about it. I was fortunate to have awesome 1st and 3rd grade…	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/13 07:07 PM
0	Why women encourage beta behavior? A short thought. Isn't it obvious? Because it directly benefits them, even if it doesn't make them happy. Having need fulfilled does not necessarily mean someone will be happy. For example, do you feel particularly good about eating crappy fast food over starving to death? When they tell men to "man up," they really mean "give me attention, money, and do shit for me." However, the amount of loser women (think of all the things women call men losers for and realize how many women fit that bill) in the West is sta…	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/13 06:27 PM
14	The pill is better again, only now it's men I loathe. My dad is mostly blue pill; my mom runs the show. However, that doesn't mean I have no respect for him. Quite the opposite. When he goes to work, he's the goddamn boss. Whenever I see his subordinates interact with him, you can tell they respect not fear him. When one steps out of line, their colleagues force them right back in. He's supportive, dedicated, and wise, just not when it comes to women. Yeah, I wish he could stand up to my fearsome mother, but no one can--disengaging and treading car…	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/13 06:45 AM
1	Red Pill Fatigue Thanks. It's kind of ironic that I feel free yet tired. I guess that's the price you pay when you sit back and think about who you are and what you do. I wouldn't go back if I could.	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/13 06:33 AM
1	Red Pill Fatigue Haha that's a good way to look at it. However, I don't feel like it's an act as many people are commenting. It's more of a musical performance: there can be 10,000 keystrokes in your concerto, but if you miss one, your audience will know. You have to hold yourself to high standards before everyone else can.	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/13 06:38 AM
1	Red Pill Fatigue About the utterly worthless bit: I meant that when my night goes to shit. Bad paragraph break. It's really just on a date. I still take rejection pretty personally. I haven't been on an enjoyable date in a while. It's really worn me down. I hope that clears it up. Overall, I honestly think things are going well in my life. I'm my own boss and I've got a very active life with few obligations. It's just the effort I put into consciously thinking things like "don't be a wimp, don't pedastalize her,…	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/13 06:34 AM
3	Red Pill Fatigue You're taking yourself too seriously. You need to learn to forgive yourself for your screw ups, cause there will never be a day where you are a perfect human being who can do no wrong. So get that mentality out of your head right now; it's useless. Haha, my parents both agree. I do take human interactions too seriously. Even when I rightly kick someone out of my life, I continually relive and re-justify it. I shouldn't. The truth is, I'm screwing up less. The way women respond to me is improving…	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/13 12:02 AM
6	Red Pill Fatigue Be a cynic, expect little, but give people the opportunity to demonstrate themselves to you. That's a healthy philosophy to replace "see the good in everyone" with: Give everyone a chance to show you the good in them. Buddhism incorporates something about a detachment of desire as unfulfilled desire is ultimately the cause of all unhappiness, I have desire like anybody, but it is aligned with a detachment of expectation, I expect only of myself on a personal level, not of others, so the fulfillm…	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/13 11:56 PM
5	Red Pill Fatigue The Red Pill is NOT about women. It's about you. It's about being a man. It's about truth. Now that you know so much more than you did, you're supposed to take this knowledge and enjoy life, not stress out about it. If gaming women isn't fun for you, go read a book, work out, learn a new skill, work on your career, and when you're horny, go out and find a girl. You're damn right. I realize I framed my post around women, which is the only thing I'm not satisfied with in my life. It's just making …	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/13 09:58 PM
12	Red Pill Fatigue Holy hell, thanks for your detailed response. You're right about my inner game. I'm only beginning to become aloof. I'm only beginning to believe I'm the prize. Also, I will try trial texting. My texting game sucks, namely because I hate texting and think it's obnoxious how people do it when they're with me. I prefer face-to-face. TBH, I'm often the one who lets texting die. Here's another example: You're at a party where your target is present. Assume you and your target are past attraction and…	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/13 09:55 PM
5	Red Pill Fatigue Thanks for your response. Maybe I'm not the happiest I could be. Maybe I'm worn out. But I'll tell you one thing: I could never go back to the previous lifestyle knowing what I know now. Yeah you're right. I responded to someone else saying I'd rather be a lonely free man than a well-liked slave. I am happier. I am making progress. It's true, I am in a nasty dry spell right now, but my goal is not to have lots of ONSs; I briefly went through a flood (opposite of dry spell?) and it just didn't fe…	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/13 09:32 PM
11	Red Pill Fatigue You're trying to reinvent yourself. That will always take time. It's like those four stages of competence - unconcious incompetence, conscious incompetence, conscious competence, unconscious competence. Very true. I reckon I'm in stage 2. The making of mistakes can be integral to the learning process at this stage. Yeah, I'm definitely learning. I have a hard time letting go of people. I got it pounded into my head to see the good in everyone.	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/13 08:39 PM
12	Red Pill Fatigue I gotta respectfully disagree with you on that. Like most RPers, I spent my entire childhood and early adulthood just being trodded on by everyone. It feels great to have that stop. I'd rather be a lonely free man than a well-liked slave. I starting adopting RP before I even knew it existed, which suggests it's just a natural progression for me. There's only so much BS a person can take before they realize there's something wrong with how I think and act if this keeps happening. In other words, …	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/13 08:37 PM
5	How I Get Girls to Buy Me Stuff I've had great success with this: if she's late with no excuse (which is like all the time), when she half-assedly apologizes, tell her lightheartedly, "If you're so sorry, how are you going to make it up to me?" Basically, turn it into a shit test of your own. Outcome A: "I don't owe you shit"/"deal with it"/"It wasn't my fault." She has zero respect for you. Response: "You're not sorry at all. I've got better things to do than wait around for you." If she's more than ~15 minutes late, leave. "…	/r/TheRedPill	27/10/13 07:29 PM
2	The endgame for feminists These were the first generation of "liberated" women, born after WWII.	/r/TheRedPill	27/10/13 04:42 AM
16	A girl named Mackenzie: a tale and translation of despair Of course, had he called her back, she would have have written him off for being too clingy. He's lucky he didn't get accused of rape the way he viciously took advantage of a naive drunk girl. Seriously, what misogynist! (sarc) Now, the next decent man who fancies Mackenzie and is looking for an actual relationship is going to have to deal with the fallout of her immaturity. She's going to be the commitment-phobe and friendzone him. Maybe she'll go on a few dates, but she'll hold off on sex, bec…	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/13 10:03 PM
1	Why women lose the dating game Haha, that's what consumerism is! Actually, that's a great allegory: you can go for the flashy cheaper product, but it won't last long; or, you can go for the plain-looking, most-expensive, and longer-lasting one. What do Americans usually choose?	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/13 06:19 PM
10	Why women lose the dating game What's really always frustrating is sheer unwillingness of women to even acknowledge the existence of the bottom 80% of men and that they have problems and feelings too. In many ways they literally only see the top guys. We always hear how "most Fortune 500 CEOs are men!" Well, most men aren't CEOs, whereas most janitors and homeless are men, but you'd never date them right?	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/13 05:00 AM
1	The White God is Dead: Caucasians still need game in Japan That post makes me puke a little. Does that guy not know about the concept of saving face in Japan? He could have written a simple short post, but instead we got this rambling ignorant drivel. Japanese people will even ask you to hang out with them and then never speak to you again to help both parties save face. It's infinitely more polite than rejecting you outright like in America, which is frankly very nice. You can collect numbers all day long in Japan like a creep and it won't mean a thing…	/r/TheRedPill	24/10/13 04:50 AM