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if that was really true RP's wouldn't use women to validate their manhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 03:37 AM
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Probably fuck his bitch...haha That's lofty claim, ofc. Hell I don't know if she speaks English. It was kind of joke really. The warning is still the same. You need to know where she's putting that emotional energy, in order to know whether I love you matters.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 08:51 PM
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Haha ..give me her number and we'll see.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 04:49 PM
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You can't understand because you don't understand the role the emotions have in your SO. It's ok you will learn, or she'll cheat. You decide.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 05:03 AM
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I am reflecting what you're saying. Maybe you're not telling the whole truth, idk. If she never freaks out from anything and is calm for the most part, that's where you need look to find out if you need to worry about I love you. It's ok. I'm warning you. You'll find out.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 04:43 AM
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Again you missed the point If you want to know whether an I love you matters you need know where her emotions are focused. If she's suppressing her emotions to the point that you don't see them ever, then that's an issue. Positives are great but you should see negatives as well. Don't worry you'll realize when she's sleeping with someone else.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 04:06 AM
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Not in reality.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 03:54 AM
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The question is "who or what is getting that extra emotion?" I don't think you know.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 03:54 AM
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That's what it's called a unicorn. Real ladies freak out, cry, have extreme passion, extreme sadness, etc...
/r/askTRP15/11/15 03:10 AM
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You don't need to encourage her. But use has to feel safe have an emotional burst from time to time. That's all I am saying.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 03:09 AM
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Well she should freak out sometimes, but not to the point of absolute craziness. It's a concern.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 02:28 AM
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If she can't show emotion in your presence she is depressed or giving that emotion to someone else.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 02:16 AM
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Calm girl all the time? That's a red flag.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 02:01 AM
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Nope..if you're doing it too well she will probably "yes" then "no"..then "you're amazing" This curriculum is bullshit. When people feel something different from what that believe should be they can say "no" In midst but not actually mean"no". Also the law doesn't work like that in most states.
/r/MensRights15/10/15 11:50 AM
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That's like becoming a girl. That's really what girls do and are taught to do. If you're in seduction reddit your goal to make yourself your best self so you can be with the girls you want.
/r/seduction19/09/15 11:48 AM
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Causing stress is sitting in your room masturbating about girls you can't get sleep with.. A person may not get the TRP riches, but he will realize that he can be a force of change in his life. The "harm" far out weighs the bad. If he's really adhering to TRP he'd realize it doesn't matter if people think he's bad. If he can't realize that he is the force of his life, his actions, the people he's with, people he attracts, and it's not about bad as much as it is about action, the guy is lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 04:42 AM
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Not if your're close..people already do it, so clearly there's you're not doing. Bar basically license stand up next girl kino and talk her. If you can't hear yourself in your own head, I'm not sure what to say. .
/r/askTRP06/09/15 03:39 AM
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The point of a bar is to get close to people have a conversation. Do that. get close to people, talk to people, have a drink conversation. The end
/r/askTRP05/09/15 05:39 PM
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If the girl doesn't like the outcome, she may say she was felt used. That means she gave her pussy out and didn't get what she expected in return. Sex is mutual, but women have more choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/15 01:17 AM
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I would contact the same way you would normally...Hard to know what that it is, exactly. For me, I'd contact her once a month, and go on with my life. So first month around when she touches down, small talk whatever. A month later, and so on. If she contacts me more great, if not so be it.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 11:27 PM
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Are you planning on seeing while she's there?
/r/askTRP03/09/15 10:06 PM
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Insidious? Actually one could say both males and females are equally sexualized.
/r/MensRights02/09/15 02:25 AM
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Fuck 10 girls ..
/r/askTRP02/09/15 01:42 AM
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You're right alcohol is not necessary. I like this post most of this is good. but frankly if you're out of school i'd work on hooking with girls outside of school.
/r/seduction25/08/15 07:28 PM
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Why do we assume people that are on the site are actually cheating? I thought the data that was reveled was just members and nothing more.
/r/MensRights24/08/15 04:58 AM
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good question. we're still working on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 08:45 PM
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Juicy J is a proponent of period sex. I am can't look at him the same. Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:21 PM
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I mean in a bag. But if a girl was literally carrying it around in her hands, I prefer her not to touch me and exit our home, my home; or I will leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:20 PM
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Versus not having to worry about a washing a think 7 days a week a in a public place and reinserting with no way of knowing if it's fully clean? Compared to that those things you mentioned aren't terribly valuable. I don't own a pet cause they are a waste of money. I can buy products and detail my own car, for much cheaper. 150 for work boots isn't bad that, and a tax write off. Etc.. Thrift is thrift. Nothing wrong with how you save or spend, but 150 is small hill to climb, IMO. This fictitious…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:07 PM
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nope..haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 05:44 AM
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I expect tipping on removal, not inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 03:26 AM
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Yep squeamish..it was just my thought that it was unsanitary. I don't what you girls do. For me just pulling string and it's done just make sense. This cleaning opening ordeal is out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 02:42 AM
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Nope. But if a girl is carrying around a sex toy with blood I might question that. Silicone toys take moment to clean. Regarding the cup, If the lady has to remove her cup she's not going to have anything but hand soap available to her to clean it What is she to do? Reinsert a partially cleaned cup? Please no..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 02:24 AM
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That's how imagine it, if was less viscous I'd be ok with grabbing my red wings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 02:22 AM
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I don't see how removing a cup and washing it in public is more sanitary than just throwing away a sponge. She's not going to have any special soap in a public bathroom. So a lady will have to reach down, pull it out, pour it in the toilet. Then wash it in the sink with regular hand soap and reinsert it. Versus, just reaching down pulling a string, or removing her underwear and dropping the piece in the garbage. First options she's likely getting hard hand dirty and possibly clothes. Second opti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 01:44 AM
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you know blood is actually blue right? haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 01:41 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 01:27 AM
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It's only a character issue of it's more prone to spilling or the lady has to carry around a dirty cup. Other wise it's no different from gauze or a bandaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 01:22 AM
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$150 bucks a year... well, that adds up. I'd rather throw the extra $125 towards some quality boots for work instead of my shitty standard issue pair, or to getting my car detailed, or maybe take my dog to the vet. I guess it's more of a principle of thrift. Can I afford $150? Yeah. Is it more within my personal values to put it to better use when there is a superior option? Absolutely. Thrift is always a value assessment. To me all of those are wasteful activities. :) But you still have the abi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:50 AM
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I'm sorry, I don't think you understand the usage of a menstrual cup You're 100% right, that's why I made a thread. :) It is, in fact, the most sanitary, efficient, hassle-free and economically favorable option on the market. I figure that I probably use, ehhh, 7 or 8 pads and maybe 10 or so tampons per period, which occur every 28 days, not including rogue periods that go on a good deal longer or have heavier flow. That probably puts me at a little shy of $12 per period with about 13-15 periods…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:13 AM
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No problem with bleeding, I feel like it's a character issue to run around with cup full of blood. Or worst a dirty one in her purse till she gets home to wash it. My original feeling is that it could spill easier than a tampon, or pad. Apparently the ladies here seem to think that's not the case at all. In fact, it's less likely to spill or drip. Unconventional wisdom since I don't have a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:10 AM
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It actually is the most sanitary. Cups are made of silicone and are meant to be washed between uses, then washed and boiled between cycles. Fun fact: they also pose no risk of TSS, as opposed to tampons. Why no risk? If you leave the cup in too long how would it be different from a tampon? Plus the blood gets flushed so there's nothing nasty and rancid smelling up your bathroom, unlike pads and tampons. It's literally the cleanest, most discreet way to handle your period. I dislike that smell, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 12:06 AM
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So it's just a clamp. You open when done pour it out, and clean it. Why go through all that when you could just use a tampon or pad?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:41 PM
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asked real people.. :) my bad.. how could I have been so silly?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:40 PM
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hah fixed it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:39 PM
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depends on the girl of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:34 PM
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This amazing. My mind actually blown right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:34 PM
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Technically anything can be grounds for a break up if it bothers you enough. Though personally I think it would be better than a tampon or pad since it's not drying in anywhere (shudder) You would rather just pour it out, clean it and use it again? Asking it in the beginning? M: I have a question to ask. W: you mean like are we having sex to night? The answer is yes. M: Nah.. M: Do you use period cups? W: [blank stare]
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:34 PM
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Old enough to be appalled by period cups. Old enough have dealt with many periods over the course time. Strong enough never to suit for the red wing challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:31 PM
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can change color if it has been a while.. maybe other reasons..idk I'm not sure you want to be with that guy. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:12 PM
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Dude, it's not like it would get EVERYWHERE. Are you picturing her taking the cup out and, like, waving it around? Picturing the lady coming home from work, removing it tipping over during removal and spilling all over the floor. Why do tat when you could just use a tampon or pad? Maybe it will spill but it only be a few drops. What kind of person is willing to risk a big spill? You know? Have you ever missed the toilet and got a little pee on the floor? What did you do? My aim is pretty fantast…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:11 PM
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The cup is the most sanitary? Are you shitting me?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:02 PM
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Okay, if you pulled it out wrong, maybe. I've never used one so I can't speak on that. But even if it did spill everywhere...so what? I kind would have little problem with a girl that cavalier with period blood. I basically imagine that Pulp Fiction blood scene in the bathroom. What kind of person would want risk something like that? It screams bad character. Or risky vagina life style. Maybe even character. Unless your girlfriend is a disgusting slob, she'll clean it up and you'll be none the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:02 PM
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Yes, that's literally the entire point. Cups cost something like $40. You think she's buying 20+ cups a month? OMG.. Good luck ever moving in with a girl. I doubt she'll want to vacate her home for a week every month so you don't feel icky. I've learned deal with it, it's only once a month. I have skills. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:57 PM
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The vagina has muscles which help keep it in place, and it creates a sort of suction. It'd be hard for it to just tip over within (see this as my reply to both of your replies) Tip over during removal though? How she going to stop that? Ask any woman. Pads do not always work. They can get bunched up. You can place them wrong, lay on your back and then get blood in the back of your underwear. You can sit odd. I know pads work actually. In fact i know a woman that had serious condition that could …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:56 PM
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Well, with the cup she doesn't throw anything away, so there's nothing to see or smell. She pours it out and re uses it? Really? But again, if you're THAT put off by the existence of menstrual blood (and the sights and odors that go along with it), you probably shouldn't date women. It's just a fact of life. There's no pretty way to deal with it. Easier to just stay away limit exposure during that time. I got it figured out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:54 PM
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Leaks happen sometimes regardless of what method you're using. They're no more likely to happen with a cup. It's lodged inside your body. How is it going to spill? Well it would be a she. :) Really an open plastic cup? That's like that's spill is just as likely in a cup versus a sponge? That can't be accurate. I feel like if you pulled the cup out wrong it would just spill everywhere. Could happen with a pad, or tampon but surely not as likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:49 PM
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After a period there's usually an odor of the tampon or pad. I see the box & I smell it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:48 PM
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true.. and has happened. However, you could buy the more absorbent Tampons and pads. The cup doesn't have that option.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:45 PM
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Then you don't know how they work. They don't just become unlodged suddenly and spill blood everywhere, and period blood is much thicker and disgusting compared to normal blood. How does it work? Cause it seems like a cup of liquid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:44 PM
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It's not just sitting so it spill? Pads, I've seen enough pad commercials some of them have the nice things so blood doesn't spill out everywhere .. All period solutions involve carrying blood around. Not exactly actually. Most modern options put the blood in a cloth, or container that won't spill. This cup seems eschew those ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:43 PM
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If with a girl while she's on her period yes you will see, smell, and care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:37 PM
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yeah i know.. tampons and pads are more sanitary.. I'd say it's akin to dating a a lady not willing to at least trim.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:37 PM
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How does this have anything to do with PPD? relationship based.. grounds for breakup. , it is the safest as it poses no threat for toxic shock syndrome and allows women to maintain an active lifestyle because it moves with your body Toxic shock syndrome takes a while. How is a cup any less gross than a piece of cotton in your vagina or piece of cotton in your underwear? I imagine blood spilling all over things, quite gross
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:36 PM
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i was being quick.. it's reddit :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 02:20 PM
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it's 1 line.. :) The thing is you don't need to manipulate someone with falsities, you can manipulate someone just by knowing more about a situation than they do. The choice aspect is the biggest thing. Manipulate assumes that the choices is taken from them, for some reason other than her own reasons. Manipulation could be causing someone to believe something that isn't true. This often said of guys that give a lot expecting sex in return, knowing that as soon as sex happens he will lose interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 01:17 PM
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Coercion is part of manipulation? There are a lot of ways to manipulate a person. Usually, we frown on the person that uses falsities to manipulate someone. What are you getting at?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:45 PM
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Manipulating is putting someone in a place where the manipulator is making all the choices. Convincing someone is them making the choice because of what you say, or do. But a PUA/TRP should be leading. The lady makes a choice to get on your ride, and she willfully doesn't want to get off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 02:29 AM
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Fun isn't what seduction is about...but OFC it could be part of it... The idea is to pull her into something that's greater than she knows or is aware of...
/r/seduction18/08/15 01:31 AM
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Game is important to getting with girls you can't get with natural traits. Even attractive people have limits. Everyone has limits. Game is meant to expand the limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 06:26 PM
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Because acting is much more difficult than working out, or being born beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 01:12 PM
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DMX had the same problem.. and end up going to jail because of it.. after he purchased a house for his ex wife.
/r/MensRights15/08/15 04:32 PM
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The girl is more concerned with connection, than anything else. Connection is you sitting there talking to her, and an activity in the background rather than the forefront. Date is lame is really more about her than anything else. So the date is lame means she's not open to the person, as a guy your job is to open her mind, her body, her legs. In that order particularly. Every lady is different in that respect, but as a rule less is more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 09:10 PM
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Most men will sleep with anything. But there are criteria. If you're a relationship risk, and not terribly attractive, or have a redeeming quality, you probably won't get the bone. Men won't take extra effort to sleep with a chick that can have negative impact on their status, unless there something assuages the loss. Women work similarly. Not all men will accept an aggressive woman. Women won't sleep with anything generally, because the risk is high, social pressure plus possible baby problems.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 11:50 PM
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Good thing about being alone, is just something you have to do it. You're never going to know who you are. You must realize your only true power is the present moment. Practice ceasing that moment.
/r/seduction03/08/15 04:51 PM
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terrible situation.
/r/MensRights02/08/15 02:38 AM
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I wouldn't use the word should.. Be more commanding.. Let's do XYZ on this day. Never be in a situation where you don't know the next logical step. ALWAYS. We'll is future pacing, this may not work depending why she's saying no. I'd suggest saying let's think something else and allow her to respond. Then roll with that. I don't like text you later "with some details"after a yes, but rather stay mysterious. Remember the opening is a setting the stage, if your'e scared to be forward in the beginni…
/r/seduction01/08/15 06:09 AM
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I think your goal is unrealistic. Make a goal to meet people often, and make find real friends. Use your real friends to build social circles that will accept you.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 12:44 PM
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nope.. It's hard to find a sub where all the followers sit in the middle of reason and rational thought. There are just a lot of followers bad things happens, good things happen as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/15 01:34 PM
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Domestic violence can be alpha behavior, but it's more cultural than a flat out rule. Domestic violence should be separate from Pill conversations, because in most Domestic Violence situations Violence is goes both ways. In some cases, Violence exists as a replacement for intensity of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/15 04:24 AM
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Red=get pussy Blue=praise pussy Purple=play with the pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 06:02 PM
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Expectations is an important factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 05:34 PM
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Well, single mothers are notoriously easy to lay, so I'm not sure women think that about men with babies. I think women are more concerned about how the kid is being taken care of as a sign of integrity. I think men and women may be similar in this respect tho..
/r/askTRP20/07/15 08:53 PM
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You're asking the wrong questions.. If you were lead through your entire life to your purpose in life, and it ended up without a family, then you should be satisfied. Unless of you failed to fulfill your purpose. If you have a family and it is in service of your purpose, you win. The problem is when your family alone is your purpose.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 02:38 AM
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Feminism doesn't oppose men in theory. However, the way feminism is often carried out by making equality of rights by demeaning men. Additionally, feminism doesn't create fairness as it relates to every day life. Because of social value for women is always unbalanced by the fact that women can have children. So men and women can never be truly equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/15 04:09 PM
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He's the consummate alpha because all the time because he's always dictating the pace, and focusing her love towards him. Romance doesn't make a beta, kowtowing to a woman's whims without thinking about his own well being, makes him a beta. The commitment to her is his choice, always. You may even say he has oneitis however, that doesn't stop him from sleeping with other chicks. The beta is really the guy she's marrying orginally, thus she can't be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/15 03:42 PM
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Calamity creates red pillers, not low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/15 03:19 PM
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There is some science to this actually. But to be eternally teenagers is really relative to their length of life. If a person is in an intimate relationships it is very common for them to take on behaviors that they learned as children. This is part of intimacy and will go on as deep as a relationships gets for both people. This is why many women call men boys, and men call grown women little girls. It's simply a consequence of intimacy. 1) Why is this link even in the sidebar and how is it rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 03:22 PM
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From what I have read in various threads , TRPillers seem to insist that dread game doesn't work on men and thus they don't recommend it as a viable female sexual strategy , however I have seem both passive and active dread game work on men in some relationships . It should not work on a strong man. He should be so invested in a relationship that he can't balance that type of an act. The idea here is that a woman a relationship is more valuable to a woman than a man, the mans value should rooted…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 03:10 PM
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I think attraction means different things to men and women. Keep in mind the average person sleeps with about 11-12 people in their lifetime. So, clearly there's lots of variance. If women were fixated only on 20% of men, then they would never have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/15 01:34 PM
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Bro this is all outside shit... The relationship still has to work. That's yet another skill.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 05:12 PM
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If you're fucking her once a week, and talking to her regularly it is what it is... She just has to deal. If she's telling you that she doesn't like the LDR, she'd be right so fucking what. Remind her of things you'l do in the future. Reward her for being faithful. Passcode on her phone can mean any number of things, there's no way to know. Trust your gut, but don't be stupid.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 05:10 PM
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Yea perfect idea. Let her know that you're sleeping with other people, if she can't handle it say, "you'd hate to see her leave but she's welcome leave. " She'll respect you for it.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 04:50 PM
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I never said a thing about stagnating- improving your game is change, and it works well. That being said, self improvement is a harder but more rewarding and worthwhile venture. It's all self improvement. Building confidence to talk to people you don't know, is self improvement. It's up to the person to decide where it goes, or how much. Game is one thing, but you must be congruent for it work. It's really more than that. Not interested in arguing this one, but I disagree. It's easy to see.. mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 12:52 AM
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depends on culture.. or jobs.. 1/4 is very high..I doubt that..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 09:18 PM
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That's not entirely true. It can be seen from some of the old PUA stuff that the farce works to get laid more. You don't have to improve your life- you have to improve your game. Improving your life just makes it easier- fewer things to fake when you actually have value. You can't expect change in anything in life by doing the exact same thing over and over again. What you've posted is a completely faulty belief. Of course, terpers go there for tips on improvement, bloopers go there to find thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 06:39 PM
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It's not a promise, it's a fact. If you want more pussy than you're getting you have improve your life. Hell if you want more anything your life you must improve your life. It's not so much a hook, as it is a separate belief, that improvement is possible. Many believe they can only get what their getting in life. In truth, people read RP for different reasons. If they were totally focused on pussy there are many other things to read that are much more direct.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 06:13 PM
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I have doubts that this is some sort of powerplay as of yet, since I enjoy rough sex and it takes somewhat long for me to finish (30-60 minutes), and I understand she might simply get tired out. She could be in pain. Am I overthinking this? What should one do when this comes up again? IF she's willing go to a sex therapist, go together. 30-60 minute is a long time. It is very possible she's in pain after you sleep with her.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 03:04 PM
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Stop saying it's about "self improvement". It may turn into self improvement for many, but 90% of new recruits are there for the promise of pussy. Pussy can only be obtained by self improvement. There's no getting around it. It teaches people how to be an asshole, because being an asshole gets you laid. You're still an asshole though. (More specifically, the harder you follow TRP the more you're going to alienate yourself from friends and family). Being tough doesn't make you an asshole. The RP …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/15 02:06 PM
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I don't jerk it, have cut all but one piece of tail off from fucking, she lives 6 hours away so we fuck at most twice a month. I have little interest in most girls, even though they're interested in me. I have more important shit to do and don't need the distraction bitches cause, but otherwise I still have a sex drive. A woman that you're with should be someone that is in service of your purpose. What the fuck good comes from not jerking off? More feel good bullshit spouted by kids with a probl…
/r/askTRP07/07/15 12:26 PM
1

don't do it all.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 04:21 AM
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You have stop that and find new practice in place of it.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 03:20 AM
1

Are you masturbating?
/r/askTRP06/07/15 10:21 PM
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What's she's asking is a bit complex .. She means a man that will see her for who she is, and not all her diversions...Sometimes that means calling her on her bullshit. Some times that means doing things without her expressly telling you. And of course making her earn your approval. The difficulty here is the realm, and how much. If you do too much she will resent you, if you do too little she feel unwanted. Fortunately, figuring out the balance is a relationship.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 03:28 PM
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If she's back with her ex, then he needs to do his own thing if he hopes to get back with her and cut off contact.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 03:16 AM
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Have him fuck 10 girls and see if he still cares about this one.. There's that you can to help him, but I'd first remind that his relationship with her is dead. Until he moves past the old relationship or accept it's over, there's no way he can have a new relationship with her or anyone else. I take it he didn't fuck her before he said all the together shit. If he doesn't know why the relationship ended with him or this next dude, he can't have any weight to tell her to be with him. She may also…
/r/askTRP06/07/15 01:47 AM
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When was the last time you fucked her?
/r/askTRP05/07/15 04:56 AM
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Honest about their weakness is presupposing failure. The girl question whether or not there's more or better after your first foot. If your first foot is negative, how can she believe there's positive afterwards? Also, learning seduction doesn't make you different from who you are, it just shows a different part of yourself.
/r/seduction03/07/15 06:16 PM
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prevention of prostate cancer What can you do about it to prevent or delay the onset of the disease? Eat fewer calories or exercise more so that you maintain a healthy weight. Try to keep the amount of fat you get from red meat and dairy products to a minimum. Watch your calcium intake. Do not take supplemental doses far above the recommended daily allowance. Some calcium is OK, but avoid taking more than 1,500 mg of calcium a day. Eat more fish – evidence from several studies suggest that fish …
/r/askTRP03/07/15 03:39 PM
1

If you stop masturbating all together. You will be fine.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 10:55 AM
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Are you addicted to porn or masturbation?
/r/askTRP03/07/15 12:38 AM
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as long as it lasts..or as long as you want to it last... Eventually, plates can get married or find LTRs. So it all it spends. There's no set time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 03:17 PM
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Why do we need evidence? We have empathy for women because they can create babies. I think this graphic could be skewed more tho. There's more pressure for a man to be strong than beautiful.
/r/MensRights02/07/15 12:16 PM
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a billion? haha He was doing way too much..
/r/PussyPass30/06/15 03:02 PM
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I hope that you graduate off of Tinder. The world is a big fun place.
/r/seduction29/06/15 10:46 PM
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she's winning hard core in life.. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 03:48 PM
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Wow you really believe be that? The other funny part of this is this lady is flaunting promiscuity and blatant using guys, and OP thinks she's winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 01:08 PM
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Very attractive people win at life? Have you seen the list of a richest people on earth?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 04:55 AM
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My jargon is DT jargon. I know.. No, I am disagreeing with you completely. I am outright saying that what you are suggesting will only dry this bitch up. She doesn't need a comfort test, because she is already climbing into bed with him. That means she is already comfortable with him, and dread game is a waste of time, like this conversation. Well clearly he can't get it in in the bed, changing approach is the smartest thing to do. How is this fallible logic? Some girls can't justify fucking in …
/r/askTRP26/06/15 10:41 PM
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I don't need help. Your jargon is funny, but we're aren't disagreeing, we just disagree on approach.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 10:02 PM
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better not to talk about him at all :)
/r/askTRP26/06/15 04:52 PM
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Comfort tests are positivist reactions, they are clearly visible displays of emotions... Like getting in the bed and flirting. Shit tests are pure negative reactions centered around a verbal battery that is centered around deflection. Her telling him she doesn't want to "cheat". This is an interpretation, so it's hard to argue but also there isn't one answer. Her desire not to cheat is simply her splitting her emotions, from mind. In other words, she feels as she wants to sleep with this gentlem…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 04:39 PM
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I don't fuck girls by luck. Well if she says she won't because she's been cheated on before, then clearly there's a road block their that he's trying to speed pass or ignore. That's why changing scenery, and pushing comfort zone is important. If she believes that by sleeping with him she will internally feel bad, then the feeling of sex must be greater. That's only possible if value of the encounter is raised. In other words she has to feel like that's she's missing out something greater than be…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 03:48 PM
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Because she's going to be comparing him to someone. That's inevitable. He doesn't have to talk about him, but must be cognizant of him.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 03:32 PM
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So.. for you must not understand what supplanting her boyfriend means.. It is simply showing that he's better or has more value. His problem is that he thinks that because she's in the bed she will sleep with him. But really she wants him to give her a reason to do so. She's trying to see if he will... So pushing her comfort zone, is the way to do this... Changing scenery, pushing the boundaries, raising her temperature and telling her no, or seeing how she reacts to other chicks in front of her…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 03:29 PM
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Tell me about how/why supplanting her boyfriend, then showing that she may lose him doesn't work?
/r/askTRP26/06/15 03:15 PM
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There are a lot of options really. But asking her to go out and play wing lady with girls is great way to open her feelings. Another way is to do things other than the bed, to show that he he is high value, and push her comfort zone. Kino will not be enough in this situation, he has to really get into her head if he wants this lady. But when it gets close he has to make her break up with her bf. Break her gravity? I don't know what you're trying to say here, but realistically he has to make her …
/r/askTRP26/06/15 02:57 PM
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He has to make her, this way she questions her feelings about him.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 02:17 PM
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Depends on the time.. At someone you need to cut her lose and tell her to be with her a boyfriend. Some posters are suggesting lines, but I wouldn't bother with lines. Just tell her to literally have a great relationship with her boyfriend, and presuppose that laying in the bed will just lead to sex. She'll deny it, but consider it. Another way to go, is to get her to pull chicks for you. This should work as well, since she keeps saying she has a boyfriend. Try one of these and work on some othe…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 01:43 PM
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Not exactly, if you like what you're getting there's no up hill battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 05:15 PM
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Frankly if all that happens and OP doESN't sleep with her, I would feel sorry for OP.
/r/seduction25/06/15 04:34 PM
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They aren't using it wrong, that's how language propagates. Words change meaning and usage. Language is malleable.
/r/MensRights25/06/15 04:33 PM
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I never said that it was.. I said that in the vernacular it can mean vagina, or it's original meaning. I thought by confirming that you understand what vernacular means, this thread would end.
/r/MensRights25/06/15 03:44 PM
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so what was the point post the dictionary definition?
/r/MensRights25/06/15 03:12 PM
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You understand what vernacular means right?
/r/MensRights25/06/15 02:55 PM
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How could you verify that? If you read the post i refer to blackness through text, not my own experience.
/r/MensRights25/06/15 02:13 PM
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haha That just picked up my last post? This not very accurate..
/r/MensRights25/06/15 01:49 PM
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Well what happened afterwards?
/r/seduction25/06/15 01:23 PM
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huh?
/r/MensRights25/06/15 01:22 PM
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The funny thing is I read that most women haven't not even seen their vaginas. But also, funny thing is I've been called a dick many times in my life, but I hate the idea being called a pussy.. Frankly, he should have used cunt instead, this way he could claim he was using Australian vernacular.
/r/MensRights25/06/15 12:46 PM
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You should read a lot more Jung.. That doesn't mean we're born androgynous, we are always androgynous. Jung has several books on his ideas of masculine and feminine. You're asking the wrong questions, better to ask.. what do YOU want out of life? What do YOU want out of a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 10:38 PM
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making a lot money at once long lasting success family
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 09:06 PM
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You shouldn't focus on hitting an f-close on the first date. If it happens it happens, but it shouldn't be a focus. That's the problem with his post, he doesn't explain why he's getting "rejections", or what's happening during the rejections. He just assumes it's his car...Funny when girls if hot enough will fuck you in an alley. Did he follow up the girl's that "rejected" him, cause maybe he could f-close on the second/third date. First dates and general should be process focused, or goal miles…
/r/seduction24/06/15 08:33 PM
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Smoking weed and living at home, you're living the dream.. keep it up bro.. Really so what qualifies you to identify crazy? And what kind of crazy are we talking about here? Since you sir seem to be an expert.
/r/MensRights24/06/15 03:28 PM
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Calling her crazy is one thing, but I'd say your'e not qualified to call her crazy. Someone just shared private information about their family, and you're throwing insults at their family, that's wrong. She may have unfavorable traits, but she's not your mother. Are you getting defensive because you live in your parents home? There's nothing wrong with that choice.
/r/MensRights24/06/15 03:15 PM
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are you doctor? Maybe you should grow up.
/r/MensRights24/06/15 02:59 PM
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Bro no reason to talk about someone's mother..
/r/MensRights24/06/15 02:41 PM
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Why are you trying to f-close on the first date? F-close is hard to do on first dates even in perfect scenarios.
/r/seduction24/06/15 02:38 PM
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nope women don't define how i feel about myself.
/r/seduction23/06/15 10:04 PM
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It's more the unavoidable moments, say you're at work at your desk and coworkers are continuously gassing about meaningless social shit within earshot. Drives me nuts That's because you lack focus, and are blaming others for your own reactions. What happened to the olden times of peace and quiet and well mannered politeness? I don't think gossiping has changed much.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 02:25 PM
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Well, if it's your family there's not much you can do. They way you describe this you are listening to their conversations and you're aren't involved in them, so just change your response? Why do you feel the need to control what someone does?
/r/askTRP23/06/15 12:25 PM
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There's a lot of negativity in your post. There are more ladies in the real wold than college or high school. The best way to meet ladies after to college is to go out into the world and meet them.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 06:34 AM
3

Ladies will do things on vacation that they would never do at home.
/r/seduction21/06/15 05:13 PM
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A woman that loves is always going to nag a man, she may even be bossy if she feels that he's not being the man he should be. IMO, TRP man wants a lady that will truly be his partner and let him lead the majority of the time, unless he empowers her to lead. But right or wrong she is on the train.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/15 02:22 PM
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Should last 2 yrs... Your relationship maybe be based too heavily on emotional highs and lows, do your best and enjoy it.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 10:45 PM
1

What's stopping you from having marathon sex with her? Or increasing the amount of sex with her? Or having sweaty sex with her? More sex can help her with her depression over getting a job, and give her more confidence. And may help you with both issues
/r/askTRP15/06/15 10:44 PM
1

It displays the value of their pussy. It's not actually materialism they crave, and to show that their pussy is valuable. This can be done in several ways. You may also say social validation, but I believe it's much deeper than that.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 10:32 PM
2

Nah that's not it's purpose. The purpose is to get you out on the diving board and jump. Once you're in the water you must be a man and learn to swim. There are a lot of pontoons you can grab, but if you never in the water you can never learn. Most guys don't even bother jumping. Game isn't good for everyone, and Frankly I wouldn't recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 11:58 PM
2

TRP isn't game like pua is game bro.. It's a spring board for empowerment of men. IF you're RPer and want more game there's more to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 04:22 PM
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From reading this it really appears you masturbate too much. Sex is part of love, it's how how people connect. Although you can have situation where you can love without sex, sex is still part of most adult relationships. In other words, if you truly want to have a woman you need to fuck her. You have a very negative view on love as well. TRP never says love isn't real, it says she can't love you the way you want her to. Think about that logic? Most people are not in your head. They can't just p…
/r/askTRP13/06/15 08:44 PM
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That's cause it isn't.. it's more for choices for women.. Women have been trying to be men for as long as possible.. Remember men used to wear heels, wigs, etc..
/r/MensRights13/06/15 03:23 PM
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haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 11:37 PM
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men and women aren't.. never will as long the average wedding is 30k, and having children is the single most value able thing a person can do just by being.. males and females have more similarities than we give credit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 10:32 PM
0

Makes sense, activities and behavior can force your body to make different hormones. Biological differences?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 01:41 PM
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You're the person that must decide. For me, I only date people I like to chill with, so I don't mind playing a little cat and mouse for a reasonable time period. But if I stop being able to escalate, then I simply make a decision. Some girls don't want to be plated, it's just how it is. You have to be strong enough to drop those ladies, if your intention is to plate her. Not doing so will get your tires slashed.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 05:08 AM
2

Lets face it, this day and age if you aren't attractive you won't get laid. The funniest shit I've heard all day. Sure you can use some techniques, but deep down you know, men and women who are good looking don't need these techniques...at all. Also wrong. Being too attractive can make it hard to pick up certain ladies. Sometimes a tall guy wants to sleep with a girl that's short. A short guy wants to date a taller guy. A big lady wants a small dude. A small dude wants a big lady. The techniques…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/15 01:04 AM
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apparently 2 turns it into molesting.. this is terrible
/r/PussyPass05/06/15 07:41 PM
1

go to an agency, get head shots to begin.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 01:54 PM
1

You can't make friends after you're out of high school and so on. It's not that easy It's a skill. Also, helps with social proof. In other words, knowing other men high value men makes you more attractive to a given lady. Besides, I don't really approach random men in gym and those who I know are either too old or also timid, not into partying. You should so you can approach more women. I can only approach the girls by myself. I never felt good going out with someone else as most of the guys hav…
/r/askTRP05/06/15 01:28 PM
1

But I have ALL of that. Every girl doesn't like every smell. Cool.. I have only 2 real good male friends, others are ex-colleagues or something and those guys don't want to hang out anymore and are busy all the time. The 2 real friends don't want to hang out either. They have their gfs and their jobs/studies or whatever boring thing, they are not interested in "slaying". I have a gf, too, but I need variety and thinner girls. Great then make more. Have a great life and pussy will come..
/r/askTRP05/06/15 01:20 PM
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I can be objective as I calculated my facial, body rations and read numerous studies on this subject. To be frank, you're wasting your time. It doesn't matter. How you appear to a person has more to do with things around the "ratios" than just the ratios them self. Well, that's the problem. I start chatting about the situation we are in, ask her some random stuff, compliment her just a bit to show her I'm sexually interested, then in some subtle way ask her that we should meet after the event an…
/r/askTRP05/06/15 01:09 PM
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Nobody has invited me modeling, but when I look around I'm easily in top 10%. I'm very objective and self critical. Don't delude yourself you can't be objective. It's cool to think you're this way, but don't focus on on it. Just look your best. Has this worked for you? How do you continue when she says she is taken? Or that she has a boyfriend? I usually end the conversation soon after. Should I go further, try to convince her to give me her #, so we can "Just chat" wink wink nudge nudge At this…
/r/askTRP05/06/15 12:58 PM
0

Wrong. In terms of looks, you have to be 1% to model, not 10%. Every 10th guy is not able to model. I have been told I could, but my body is too big (too muscular) and also I earn more money from my business than I could ever earn from modeling. Not exactly. If you truly believe you're top 10% you should be a model. I didn't say a runway model, or super model. Too muscular? It would good another way to meet beautiful people. ok .. People often make misassessment of their looks, this doesn't real…
/r/askTRP05/06/15 12:44 PM
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I'm very sure I'm in top 10% in terms of a looks alone and chill attitude as well as financial status, Then you should be a model. yet I often get the "I have a boyfriend" reply. You're a intentions are too direct. Boyfreind doesn't always mean committed boyfriend. What gives? Do I really need to drive a Bentley and completely overkill it to make it in Eastern Europe? I mean, she would never mention her "boyfriend" if I was higher status than him as women are always looking to trade up. What the…
/r/askTRP05/06/15 12:16 PM
3

I have never heard that argument. It makes me wonder how she raises the kid,
/r/MensRights05/06/15 04:14 AM
0

I'm not sure you control the speed a woman attracts to you, or how deep it will be. If you can't handle it, or don't want it, I'd leave. Other than give her negative feedback for the things you dislike. This could have adverse effects though.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 06:14 PM
2

Those are the best chicks.. You never know a chick till you fuck her. And even after you fuck her doesn't mean you have to stay with her.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 06:11 PM
1

This is based on level, so not horrible. But how will they know when the person had sex? Or when she actually "consented".. haha This would only be good in cases where some was literally passed out drunk...
/r/MensRights03/06/15 01:55 PM
0

Sleep with anyone 19+ date only mature women, that can be any age..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/15 08:18 PM
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OMG.. stop it.. You can't win a sexism trial when you slept up through management.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/06/15 01:05 PM
3

This isn't stupid. Focus on things you can control, not "trying" to a attract her. Simply act on what you know, trust yourself, accept the results, and move on.
/r/seduction31/05/15 05:08 PM
1

stop texting and call.. Saying you're better in person is nonsense. You get a girl's number and you're going to backwards instead of escalating. Text after you start sleeping with her..
/r/askTRP30/05/15 03:58 PM
1

yep great idea.. you should do it often..
/r/seduction28/05/15 11:17 PM
1

This is why
/r/askTRP28/05/15 01:26 PM
0

For her to go crazy like you're explaining there must have been some catastrophic event. The way she's acting is as if you slept with her sister or mother. I am curious, but you don't have to share.
/r/MensRights28/05/15 11:32 AM
1

if first date is expensive you got to pay.. as a rule never pay on first dates.. but also your first date should never be expensive.
/r/seduction28/05/15 12:23 AM
1

They do if they are compelled too... History and society have given them inherent value, that's like asking why doesn't pollen chase bees.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 10:56 PM
1

good stuff...people need learn to wrap up..
/r/seduction27/05/15 07:33 PM
2

What they hell happened in this divorce?
/r/MensRights27/05/15 04:31 PM
1

This is called life you have to figure that out. Sex is only part of it. Relationships can't be all of it.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 03:00 PM
0

i wouldn't do all that.. just massage her ass.. and see where it goes..
/r/askTRP24/05/15 10:09 PM
0

Balance...
/r/askTRP24/05/15 09:07 PM
2

You're not a chick you don't need validation of your looks. Sleep with chicks, workout ...
/r/askTRP24/05/15 09:06 PM
1

ramp up the frequency of fucking. Welcome it even talk to them.
/r/askTRP24/05/15 09:05 PM
2

You didn't mess up anything. Give her a call and setup something again. Continue getting numbers if you like
/r/askTRP24/05/15 09:03 PM
1

It means she's thinking about sex with you, but she doesn't want you to think that's all there is with her. You could call it a shit test, if you blew up on her legs are sealed.
/r/askTRP24/05/15 09:00 PM
1

Why do you see any of this as a problem? You all aren't really "together" if you're out with other ladies often...
/r/askTRP24/05/15 08:56 PM
1

Stop texting and call them. And suggest the next date during the first date. Or stack dates, go to 3 places on one date.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 11:00 AM
1

You will always have anxiety when it comes to women. The anxiety isn't the problem, inaction is the problem. The only advice is to act more, don't make excuses, and never trade action for reading.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 10:55 AM
1

It's not a good thing to play with someone's feelings. Just make a choice. And tell her.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 10:51 AM
3

Leave your house regularly. Have a great time. Look for ladies.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 10:49 AM
2

Why are you concerned about her age? She's not a hag, just sleep with her.
/r/askTRP23/05/15 10:48 AM
1

he was sexually assaulted. I'd would be hard pressed to believe any wife believing that.
/r/MensRights23/05/15 12:02 AM
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When she says never she means that moment not actually ever.. Just tell her what's going to happen ahead of time. She'll always be "mad" at things like this, but you can lessen it just by planning ahead a little more.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 10:59 PM
1

why would i want to meet another man off the internet that's pro anti-circumcision?
/r/MensRights19/05/15 03:05 PM
1

Your argument in this thread is making my blood boil. Just because something was done in the past does not mean that it should continue to be tolerated. That's how culture works. We continue doing things of the past until they fall out of favor. In this case, modern medicine confirms there are health benefits for circumcision, so it is "tolerated", but not required. Additionally, because circumcision has existed for a long time we know that circumcision is harmless. We used to have slavery in th…
/r/MensRights19/05/15 06:04 AM
-1

What exactly is the reason for your obsession with circumcision (as demonstrated by your numerous, lengthy and disorganized comments in this thread)? I would say stream of consciousness, rather than disorganized. This is reddit so it would be more of a conversation with many people chiming in to whatever point like or don't like. My obsession is with the idea that sensationalism without a logical backing as a worthwhile instrument for change. Important issues don't need sensationalism as present…
/r/MensRights19/05/15 12:18 AM
-2

You really love to dodge, and deflect with a never ending stream of red herrings and just general bluster don't you? List the red herrings for me please. So then the fact that someone will do something even if it's illegal thus means that there's no point making it illegal. Therefore there is no point to any laws whatsoever, because people will always do what what want regardless. If it's impossible to enforce a law, there's nothing that can be done. No different from south outlawing interracial…
/r/MensRights18/05/15 08:48 PM
-3

It's all fun in games until Male Circumcision hurts women <==nonsense Why your parents decided for you.. To help save your life The most complete Guide to Male Circumcision around the world
/r/MensRights18/05/15 08:37 PM
-1

FTFY I thought made error, but I didn't' it was the way it's supposed to be. Circumcision of every one makes it difficult to tell the difference between Jews and non Jews. At least in the in circumstance that the man from Europa Europa was in.
/r/MensRights18/05/15 05:00 PM
-2

In the US, you can't sell your kids into slavery. Quit screwing around. You know what I mean and we're not holding ourselves to 3rd world standards here. The world is an ugly place. Make it illegal for professionals to perform the surgery and for parents to do it themselves. If parents want it they can just got to religious person that does it. It's better to allow doctors to perform. This isn't something new that no one knows how to do. Even still, it's unenforceable. We already tell some relig…
/r/MensRights18/05/15 04:26 PM
-5

haha .. Maybe gerber shoudl start selling motor oil? ;)
/r/MensRights18/05/15 02:11 AM
-7

I'm not sure which is worse You might want grab a medical journal sometime.
/r/MensRights17/05/15 10:19 PM
-10

mm.. so you're saying circumcision is as bad as feeding a kid motor oil?
/r/MensRights17/05/15 10:08 PM
-9

Regarding life they do. Well some parents do sell their kids into slavery. And in the baby trade in China that does happen.Try stopping that. Circumcision should be the kind of decision that parents cannot make for their children. Ok, but how would you enforce this rule? What would you do about religious folks, tell them they can't practice their religion?
/r/MensRights17/05/15 09:46 PM
-11

Imagine if we used that logic for a child's nutrition.
/r/MensRights17/05/15 09:20 PM
-5

I'm calling bronze age tribal people savages because they mutilated men, stoned women, quarantined women during their periods, kept slaves, occasionally raped said slaves, committed routine genocide, you name it. They were savages and we shouldn't be taking advice from them on how to live or whether our genitals should be cut u That's a very skewed view on history. Hell black people not were consider savages as well not even a century ago. What does calling historical humans savages have anythin…
/r/MensRights17/05/15 09:02 PM
-11

There was nothing wrong with my foreskin you dolt. And just because some illiterate proto-Hebrew savages from before the fucking Iron Age invented a wonderful tradition of deliberately maiming infant male genitals doesn't mean that anyone in the 20th century was justified in doing so. I'm pointing out that you can't say that doctor can't remove things, that he thinks should be removed, or he's instructed to remove. That's his job. You're using all this these negative adjectives about the history…
/r/MensRights17/05/15 08:45 PM
-12

How would that be a joke? The guy mutilated me, seems like something that a parent and child would want to talk about at some point. He mutilated you? please.. Realize human history is a lot longer than your life. It's a cultural practice has has existed for centuries. He's only done what other people have done before him did. Besides if you're going to say mutilation than you need to prove intent. Are you saying father was intent on maliciously mutilating you? And if he had such ill will toward…
/r/MensRights17/05/15 08:28 PM
-15

My dad made the same argument. Really, you complained about your circumcision to your dad? Please tell me you're joking. That argument was wrong and stupid then and it remains wrong and stupid today. It's quite logical. It's as unenforceable as interracial relations. No human being has jurisdiction over another's genital integrity. Say that when you need to eat. So doctors shouldn't chose sex when they need to either?
/r/MensRights17/05/15 08:14 PM
-10

In some cases, yes. But there are very strong limits on any of those decisions with long-lasting effects. The most relevant example being that they can't do anything even vaguely similar to circumcision to a girl. Well they can, but it's not necessary, and not culturally accepted. That's nonsense. Ex post facto penalties are unconstitutional - you can only penalize people for actions that were illegal at the time they did them. These activists want the medically unnecessary circumcision of minor…
/r/MensRights17/05/15 07:43 PM
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Slaves. Your parents are going make decision for you till you can make decisions for yourself. Doctor's even decide sex for children as well. It's up to the parents to decide if they want a circumcision. The children just have to deal with it. If he government mandated such nonsense, what would be the penalty? A retroactive penalty? It's unenforceable.
/r/MensRights17/05/15 06:44 PM
-16

The kid can't make a decision. He can't know what the pin will be like at that time, or he benefits.
/r/MensRights17/05/15 06:29 PM
-40

Well the choice was taken from baby boys and given to the parents. Parent can choose not to circumcise if they want. Is that different in Ann Arbor?
/r/MensRights17/05/15 04:43 PM
1

In order to change a behavior you have to have do something different when the trigger presents it self. Masturbating isn't just about an orgasm, it's about choosing less than is wanted regularly. Choosing what it is wanted is where a person must be if they truly want to change their behavior.
/r/seduction16/05/15 03:28 AM
1

I would first stop masturbating.Easier said than done. When you think of you need masturbating do something else. ANYTHING else. I don't really think you're at the ready for PUA after two years. I would work on simply meeting new people in new places. As your comfort grows, then you should be able to learn to escalate.
/r/seduction15/05/15 11:36 PM
1

It depends on how you think. Experiment and action are key. If writing stuff down makes someone do it than they should do it. Anything that stops action is useless. That's the only rule.
/r/seduction13/05/15 01:14 AM
0

That's not true. Making it science but not experimenting will keep you masturbating. As long as you're experimenting long who cares what the preparation looks like?
/r/seduction13/05/15 12:37 AM
3

Everyone has their own way of remembering. If this gets him out the in the world so be it..
/r/seduction12/05/15 11:56 PM
54

i don't even know what to say.. She can't keep her kids out of her pussy? Seems she should have had a lot more kids then..
/r/PussyPass12/05/15 07:06 PM
2

What are you talking to her about? You can't hold eye contact the entire time, you must break eye contact, otherwise it's creepy. A shoulder touch while talking, or escalating will help her comfort level.
/r/seduction12/05/15 04:30 PM
1

I wouldn't call it work, cause you don't have to do it. It takes effort to get good at anything, enjoy the learning process. Girls are just the a consequence. Also, getting laid is only one level. Getting a good lay is the next.
/r/seduction12/05/15 11:57 AM
1

You clearly do not understand freedom of speech well enough. No I really think you're agenda isn't supported with reality. The only reality is what's in the courts, and the she's dealt with based on the law. The words people use in media is not really important, and can't be forced. You're making the same kind of point a feminist would make. It's kind of sad.. In fact, I'm just gonna gracefully exit this conversation - I don't really see it going anywhere. I can do this all day. The thing your p…
/r/MensRights11/05/15 06:56 PM
1

You can. With laws. Freedom of speech in America is much to important. No you can not. No, but it has a massive influence on public opinion which in turns influences which laws are made and how. No it doesn't. If you go to court and bring up media, good fucking luck. The legal precedent has more effect on the law than any present news paper article. We're talking basic public influence here. You're assuming everyone reads these articles. I can assure judges don't.
/r/MensRights11/05/15 06:33 PM
1

You can't control media, but laws can be controlled. In America, the media has a limited effect and the real changes is in how Laws are interpreted. That's the day to day work in the courts. I'm not privy to how the UK does things.
/r/MensRights11/05/15 04:28 PM
2

great keep it up
/r/seduction11/05/15 04:02 PM
1

There's really not a good analogue.. A nice guy is "nice" in order to get laid, falsifying his true intentions.. Ladies kind of do this automatically. Some worst than others..
/r/askTRP11/05/15 03:26 PM
1

If that's what you mean I think this is not right issue, this is a media issue. How media decides to portray is on their readers. But the law should be independent of that.
/r/MensRights11/05/15 02:05 PM
-5

Historically black masculinity is a problem for America in general. Your statement would be true, and supported through the history of America. I agree move on. Tweets should never be taken this seriously.
/r/MensRights11/05/15 09:19 AM
2

I don't know what this has to do with Men's rights, but seriously giving drugs to a 12 year old. Why? I am little more concerned about the drug usage. And why a 24 yr old woman would do something like that.
/r/MensRights11/05/15 09:03 AM
0

Am I a boring fuck? If you believe this you will always be boring.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 11:52 PM
1

just say something sexual.. it's not supposed to be a big deal..if she's into you it really won't matter what you say.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 11:51 PM
-1

yep.. it happens .. amazing how much going out of your house helps you get laid.. weird ;)
/r/seduction09/05/15 11:23 PM
1

this cracks me up
/r/MensRights07/05/15 08:18 PM
1

It as an alpha trait, especially Considering that Josie Harris has admitted to domestic violence against Mayweather. However, it's not acceptable in all cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/15 02:41 PM
1

dope be prepared .. dress well have a lot of fun .. bring condoms.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 02:37 PM
3

People get caught with this idea in RP. The use of the word women is for convenience. It's really a simplification of a much more complex idea. The idea is that any person that's wants to be with someone will act in tandem with their partner in a polar way, or will maintain a level of polarity until dissolution. The rub is that this polarity is really at will, and by choice. Yes anyone can behave in any way they want, but people have to more or less believe in their aggregate behavior. Or it mig…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 11:57 PM
1

nah.. Forget about what she says.. just use a different approach Start your approach earlier before you get to her door.. touching, playful, etc..
/r/seduction01/05/15 08:43 PM
1

she said what a guy might say to her..
/r/seduction01/05/15 08:32 PM
1

she turned the tables bro.. It's good.. keep escalating.
/r/seduction01/05/15 08:10 PM
1

If guys are more likely to die, how can they be the best choice for fathers/single parent for a child?
/r/MensRights30/04/15 01:14 PM
2

If the boys were 18 and the girls were freshmen.. maybe this matters.. even still they should suspend both..
/r/PussyPass27/04/15 04:24 PM
6

get laid .. stop using age as a limiting belief
/r/askTRP25/04/15 05:09 AM
1

make moves .. that's the only way to know..
/r/seduction24/04/15 09:49 PM
1

ooo good point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/15 05:51 PM
1

Well leaving a lady because she won't put out, is part of RP. Has a practical application as well. It would seem based on the article it goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/15 04:11 PM
-1

also more likely to be around.. What do you think is better for the kid? Being around or dying?
/r/MensRights22/04/15 06:15 PM
-2

Clearly by the graphic another position could be who actually be who's going to be around during the child's life.
/r/MensRights22/04/15 05:43 PM
-2

What's it based on?
/r/MensRights22/04/15 04:26 PM
-6

If men are likely to die, then women should get custody by statistics alone. According to this graph... It would appear society understands statistics better than patriarchy.
/r/MensRights22/04/15 03:43 PM
-6

if men are more likely to die then women why would why should they get more custody rights? I think custody portion doesn't help support the argument.
/r/MensRights22/04/15 02:06 PM
1

Nothing to do.. you just took their friend. I'd just pat him on the back. Ask him to go out again. It'll blow over, your reputation isn't damaged.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 07:31 PM
0

This should be somewhere else.. this is beyond ridiculous
/r/PussyPass14/04/15 08:19 PM
1

I'm not sure it's always hard work.. it is work though
/r/seduction13/04/15 07:38 PM
1

168 hrs in a week...manage your focus not your time
/r/askTRP12/04/15 02:45 AM
1

You have to find time to commit to things that matter to you..
/r/askTRP11/04/15 09:23 PM
2

Come on, she has plenty of talent and knowledge. However, I don't' believe in her as a president.
/r/MensRights10/04/15 04:09 PM
1

speak to a vocal coach.
/r/becomeaman09/04/15 02:37 PM
0

Your questions are a bit esoteric. I would say work on picking a good woman, and see what happens. People will bend RP rules once they start having sex with someone they are connected to, so you've got to experience it. Hard to think what it will be before it has happened.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 12:14 PM
2

Don't spend any time on this.....Your SMV is about what you do, not a fantasy world you create online.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 02:39 AM
1

Figure out this person cares about, and see if you can make a compromise between what you believe is right. If you get other people to believe in your way, it will become easier.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 08:58 PM
1

You're problem here is not nitpicking, it's getting him to buy in to your way of thinking. In his mind, nitpicking is a way to secure his grade or sabotage you, and your way isn't compelling enough for his own interests.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 08:26 PM
3

If women can't they don't need to be special forces, simple as that.
/r/MensRights07/04/15 08:19 PM
1

Marriage apocalypse will come when Christianity, Judaism, and Islam cease to exist. And children and family cease to be in important. Sensationalism at it's finest.
/r/MensRights07/04/15 04:29 PM
1

The advice to "fake it until you make it" can create as many problems as it solves. Then change it to model till you have it. Don't "fake it until you make it". Look that mother fucker in the eye, in the mirror, and like him. Then figure out what you can improve. Your insecurities vanish when you accept they are there, and others have it worse off than you. You still need to model someone, or an idea. If you could do it without any direction, you'd be a inhuman.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 03:44 PM
2

then abort you obviously don't want to play the game.. know and approval are quite different bro...
/r/askTRP07/04/15 02:35 AM
1

bro this your time to shine.. this is what it's about.. you gain a approval by the gate keepers you get the target.. simple..
/r/askTRP07/04/15 02:28 AM
1

Dude you can't win by guessing.. you make the move then find out.. You got to win by putting yourself in a place to win.. You have all the positives you could take this shit anywhere.. If it's public dorm it's just shit test, have great time.. kino and have fun.. talk to her friends.. flirt with them a little.. If they approve you're in .. piece of cake.. EDIT: Reminds me of time I went to a girls dorm expressly to have sex. I get there and she's playing cards with her dorm mates and taking her …
/r/askTRP07/04/15 01:39 AM
2

Unless you're missing texts.. (netflix movie at 4) She then says.. "Only the first hour or so, the first hour is unbeatable" -So either she can't make it, or she has to go some where later.. You never ask.. So no way to know what's going on .. -Then she says no I wont' be there.. .. You offered a time that wasn't even an hour after the time that you asked you first suggested. She seems like saying she can't make sometime relative to that hour. -Then she said "why whats' up is something going on"…
/r/askTRP07/04/15 01:29 AM
1

set one time and meet her..If she's not there bump her.. you're too indecisive.. If she can't make at whatever time for whatever reason.. just tel her you go other things to do maybe next time.. NC doesn't even make sense here.. She was waiting for you. I go NC once she brings it up, then she double texts me (ignore) and then she CALLS so i pick up and we talk: Her: "hey, whats the plan for today...what are we doing" Me: "i dont think im gonna make it today, lets reschedule" Her: "Okay just give…
/r/askTRP07/04/15 01:12 AM
1

The world wide web was only developed in the 80's though, Technically the 70s. But we aren't splitting hairs here. did the public actually have access before then? Before the 90s yes. It was just different than it is now. I thought before the WWW it was just one big p2p network for science organisations and the military. There were BBSes for a long time. I remember the early BlackBerries still, the ones that still had monochrome screens and weren't even phones but they had GPRS and could load up…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 06:06 PM
2

I'd disagree. "Home making" was a job then machines in the home, modern food production, cheaper manufacturing has made that role redundant. Well not so much food production. Production has been perfected for a long time, with advent of farming. In America, part of our success was food transportation. We were failing at that in 50s, actually. Single living has been possible for men, but not really for women. But this is also cultural, because there was even more stigma for a woman that didn't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 05:52 PM
1

actually the 70s.. there was internet before even the 90s it was just harder to use.. People had phones that would allow them to waste time just as effectively as the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 05:41 PM
2

Health technology definitely, other technology not so much. white goods, birth pills, mobiles and machines changes what we are. These are all things that we had throughout time. Prostitutes and women have been figuring out how to get around pregnancy for ages. Communications has always gotten better. We are pretty similar to our people before us, and we have a tendency to move slow. At any rate, family values are important. However, we choose to pass on out legacy is also important.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 05:19 PM
2

Why do you think new is better old? Or the world is so different from even 100 yrs ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 05:08 PM
2

Old family values is a common conservative idea. This isn't new. It's either a manual for hedonistic amorality or the recreation wing of the Dark Enlightenment. It's simply about fucking. You should add much more to that. The thing is,any player will tell you, fucking a lot of women gets boring and marriage happens. So RP is against the idea of marriage where women are in control with out first and foremost giving them sex. But also following their lead, old time family values.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 04:55 PM
2

This isn't a trend, this has been going on for decades, maybe even centuries. It's traditional to give control of money to women for family purposes. However, it doesn't mean she has final say.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 12:58 PM
7

RP is for fucking. Out side of sex it's a bit limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 12:35 PM
3

A few of my old 'Friends' started to purposefully blow me out and make me lose my confidence. You are letting them do this.. Don't let them. They know what buttons to push - leading to my confident to evaporated for the remainder of the night. You are in control of you. You simply have to manage your reactions. Over time it will get better. In other words, I am at the bottom of the pecking order (with this OLD social group, and these few individuals). With my newer friends this isn't really an i…
/r/askTRP06/04/15 04:57 AM
0

She'd have my sympathy if she didn't sleep some dude.
/r/MensRights05/04/15 05:15 PM
1

Go to a doctor and work out. Don't masturbate
/r/askTRP04/04/15 06:29 PM
1

You're not screwed at all. But I doubt you'll be able to use RP to get a girl that's confident enough to dominate you. Am I automatically beta if I am sexually submissive? Should I just go to pro-dominatrix for my kinks and try to keep it out of my "real" relationships? Am I automatically beta if I am sexually submissive? Should I just go to pro-dominatrix for my kinks and try to keep it out of my "real" relationships? Thinking much to hard just meet women.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 12:39 PM
1

Clubs are pretty superficial, so clothing can be very important. But at any rate, I'd focus on the friends of the target. If you can't get some dialogue going with your opening best to move to the next target.
/r/seduction03/04/15 10:55 PM
2

I think we all can agree that there's a difference between the ideologies of modern day academia and TRP Why do you think this? The problem is that people in the academia tend to be experts in their respective fields, professors of psychology, sociology and various other disciplines harbor theories that run widely counter to TRP. I'm not sure this is really true. There are conflicting views on relationships. You also must think of perspectives. The common theory of relationships is that they are…
/r/askTRP03/04/15 09:14 PM
16

Or her affair.. or her point that she had to "fit in" with others as a part case..
/r/MensRights31/03/15 12:25 AM
1

What do you mean by who cares?
/r/MensRights30/03/15 03:58 PM
0

They do actually.. If you research marriage you'll find marriage hasn't changed much as an institution. Still to this day a woman that has a kid and married is more valuable in society than a woman that doesn't. Think about Martha Stewart, a model turned ultra housewife/homemaker. Her persona is desirable, and her success is surely not an accident. The reality is that children, family, lineage are as important now as it was way back when. The purveyors of those are held to a high esteem. The onl…
/r/MensRights30/03/15 03:19 PM
1

That's because men can't get out of these marriages. To judge the success of "marriage" on this number is wildly off base. Marriage is a much bigger failure than any divorce stat might suggest. I'm not following you here. Here it is again. You see guys, we're all supposed to get married for "the children". To fuck with your own lives. By all means enslave yourself to a woman for the sake of "the children". If you think that you think present is important than the future, the future of your famil…
/r/MensRights30/03/15 02:58 PM
-2

Sorry bro, you're wrong. Marriage has existed pre-american culture.
/r/MensRights30/03/15 02:47 PM
4

If you compare studies off marriage repair, you find that there's little connection between partner counts and marriage. However, those that are able to see beyond their automatic responses from their partner, will do better in marriages. It may happen that partner counts are higher because a person doesn't want to see above the automatic responses. IDK.. I still think you should be careful about "turning a ho, into a housewife" as a rule of thumb.
/r/MensRights30/03/15 02:05 PM
4

Good for you bro. Yes I meant to add that point ass well. I only post here because fear of failure is the worst way to live.
/r/MensRights30/03/15 01:26 PM
5

It's not a simple statistic Most people divorce because of money, not love. So it follows that two people with college degrees have a 30% divorce rate, naturally. Religious folks also have about a 30% divorce rate as well. There are plenty of divorce statistics that do not support this gentleman's claim or yours. The reality is marriage is a skill, and people have to know they must learn to do it.
/r/MensRights30/03/15 01:11 PM
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Keep in mind two people with college degrees have a 30% divorce rate. The real divorce rate isn't even 50% overall. The only thing that has changed is that Men watch more porn than they used, the availability of attachment less sex is more available than it ever was, many college educated/graduates have loans, so it follows that marriage happens later.. Also, women don't need men like they used to many years ago, and they are willing to have children later in life. Bro I appreciate what you're s…
/r/MensRights30/03/15 11:48 AM
1

evolution and how an individual acts behaviorally doesn't connect. Ask yourself if every woman did this would our civilization continue? If the answer is yes, then the answer your question is also yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/15 07:54 PM
1

Ask your self why you care? This isn't a measurement with certainty. Measure your results. Bro, tider? You're talking about tinder.. Seriously.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 06:30 PM
-3

it was consensual.. but she just can't legally consent, technically.. But if he did it while her parents knew. How does that play?
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/15 05:35 PM
4

I read the report it was kind of bizarre. It implied her family knew as well. Plus she was on quaaludes. There are too many things going on in this case. Plus I heard the ladies testimony as an adult. I don't have a problem with Whoopi defending him considering all the factors.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/15 02:38 PM
6

A law is not based on what can be proven, but you did prove you are an idiot. Sorry. A legal ruling is based on what can be proven, the spirit of the law, and the perspective of the court. Laws must be interpreted. Some laws are more rigid than others, and interpretation can vary per case.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/15 02:15 PM
2

The law isn't the law.. it's based and what can be proven. and the perspective of the court.. Citizens can comment on the law, as well as citizens can change the laws. If Bill Cosby can get a shit storm based on women's memories 30yrs prior, then Roman Polanski can get the opposite treatment if his "victim" testified in a positive light. Another problem here is that drugs were also involved. She was taking a drug that is now deemed illegal, even for adults. If the went off and married and lived …
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/15 01:46 PM
12

You have to read the report on roman Polanski. Statutory rape though.. If the lady is willing to testify on his behalf, I'm not sure what more is there to do..
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/15 12:09 PM
1

Depends on where the relative is coming from. When a relative shit test you, it's usually to for your growth. Very different from when a lady shit tests.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 11:47 PM
2

there's no shortage of pussy.. no worries..
/r/seduction21/03/15 05:21 AM
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These things are about perspective. Most women will say all of these are rape. However, without knowing what proof can be gained it's hard to say. The simple answer is if you're having sex and the lady truly says no you should stop. If you're going to continue use your best judgment but be aware of the consequences. scenario 1) two people make out for awhile, one says no to sex, the other person forcibly has sex with them anyway. Depends on how much force. If you spread the girls legs then she p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/15 12:05 AM
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How long has she been pregnant? Not much you can do, just don't pressure her to get rid of her it'll surely backfire.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 09:33 PM
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It's not a sound problem, it's a mapping problem. Sounds are fine but there is no equivalent word in Chinese at all. You don't just string together Mandarin-sounding words that have nothing to do with the actual object to invent a new word: you just loan the foreign word. Many languages do that, quite a few Greek and Latin words are part of English, then later French words, for that same reason. Well in Chinese the perspective of Chinese on a specific foreign word matters, it determines what wil…
/r/askTRP19/03/15 09:44 AM
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I'm able to fuse multiple definitions into ONE definition that's all-encompassing. Huh? Why? But if you don't know this particular meaning you won't understand "language is not code", it's impossible. Flat out, every kind of code is nothing more than a pattern of information for which a physical system will respond. It can be chemistry, electronics, optics, but it will respond. That response could be memory-storage, combining, creating a new pattern or just routing information to new destination…
/r/askTRP17/03/15 11:10 AM
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Only for a very basic word. The rest of the time they'll flat out use English. Experience: half my family is Chinese. You can't even say New York in Chinese, so what do you mean? It depends on the word/meaning. Also depends where they are from, or how much english they can actually pronounce. It's not a tangent - to my mind they are fused and identical. You're unable to give multiple definitions to a word? Or distinguish between the concept of morse code and programming code?
/r/askTRP17/03/15 05:59 AM
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What are you going to talk about? Do you want to be with her or not?
/r/askTRP16/03/15 09:41 PM
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We generally do NOT consider code to be exact. I'm talking basics codes. I gave you in example Pig Latin, Morse code. When i say language isn't' code it means simply that input/output maybe different when translating. That's why we have interpreters and compilers that make special adjustments for each unique platform and there's even the RISC emulation of CISC instruction-sets so the code itself "appears" to be the same but how it actually executes on-chip is entirely different. You't going off …
/r/askTRP15/03/15 06:23 PM
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just kiss a girl. Just make sure she's a friend of a friend.
/r/seduction15/03/15 06:22 AM
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It isn't. It's just of the escalation process.
/r/seduction15/03/15 12:30 AM
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You're problem is your care about her bf. Finding out through the grapevine, that's silly. You don't need to go find out through the grapevine. If she's not sure where she wants to categorize you, she's simply not going to tell you anything that will stop escalation. Focus on escalation not extraneous things.
/r/seduction14/03/15 11:31 PM
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Well that's not what "code" means. With code not only do you translate into "best fit" but "not exact" if you must but you also switch out hardware platforms or context/situation until the match is better. We generally consider code to be exact. Good examples are pig Latin, or morse code. The point i'm illustrating is that there can be literally things, concepts ideas, etc. that have never been scene or understood by the translated language. So language is far removed from similarity to codes. P…
/r/askTRP14/03/15 03:45 PM
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You need to treat him with respect, and fuck her as much as possible. If you feel like things are awry, drop her without a second thought.
/r/seduction13/03/15 01:47 PM
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It sucks when size affects the normal sexual act. I've found that the mind is sally the largest hurdle. Different strokes..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 05:17 AM
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I don't think he would say she's immoral for doing it. In fact, he'd be grateful, but he may leave her for a more pious woman. For example, a good friend mind loves anal. But has not ever done it with his wife. She won't. But she loves him dearly. Even when he tells stories of good anal he's had, he doesn't show regret for not having it any more. For women, pussy is valuable, and every woman knows this. Part of the relationship game is protect, show, and amplify the value of pussy. Normally, tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 02:26 AM
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Some women feel like that. Some women feel that way about anal. Some women feel like they can't have sex with their husband too much or he'll leave. It's really up to the relationship. And how much work is done to meet those walls, and drain shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 01:27 AM
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Everyone some shame in sex. She could feel like you'll think of her differently if she lets you do certain things. She could feel like the relationship won't further if she does XYZ. She could feel it's not lady like. Literally no way to know a rule for this behavior. It's the partner to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 01:15 AM
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Desire to do certain sexual acts doesn't necessarily have anything to do with attraction level. It has more to do with shame in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/15 12:57 AM
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You cant' judge your mom for her relationship with your dad. Moms have tried to make their boys in their vision for a long time. That's why becoming a man, or mature, is acting the way you want to even if it's antithetical to the way you've been taught. Your mom had good intentions. I see hating oneself as somewhat common here. However, there's nothing to hate, because you and only you have the power to change.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 12:33 AM
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That's cause Ashton doesn't go to target
/r/MensRights11/03/15 12:03 PM
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I understand sometimes a concept must be broken into many words and those words must be used - we don't just sit at a stand-still and say "well I guess no one can speak to each other because the meaning/intention is only 90% close." We do when it comes to translating, and when it comes to living around the world. Try buying something in a place you're not from, and speaking a broken language you don't know. Google translate is great for that. You can create broken phrases that are close enough t…
/r/askTRP10/03/15 12:01 PM
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1 to 1 translation is not used. Of course be can't be used. Thanks for confirming/agreeing. This is deep-parse-tree structure where multiple elements of overlapping words or word-parts need to be mapped to the deep tree structure after being constructed into a wider parse tree. You're funny. Why did you even write this? What does this comment prove? I feel like you don't understand the concept of translation. I have a Ukrainian friend who knows Russian. I will get the answer and get back to you.…
/r/askTRP09/03/15 07:17 PM
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I can code. Actually I'm using the word differently than you're understanding, I'm not talking about computer programming I am talking about as in 1 to 1 translation like morse code. When I say language isn't code it means that two languages may not actually be able translate to each other. One easy example is translating the concept of respect from Russian into English. You failed to answer my question, another example of your lack. We can do this forever. By the way Google translate sucks.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 02:38 AM
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no. Each is an expression with a grammar structure and knowable limits on what parts of the physical world and other words are referenced. Sorry you're just incorrect. We can pick a Slavic language. What's your algorithm for the usage of respect in Russian? More importantly how do you translate respect to into English? wrong. They all will because it is and will show you in great detail, code included, unless they know nothing about coding like you. You're out of your depth. Dismissed. You don't…
/r/askTRP08/03/15 12:33 AM
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I certainly can compare all languages, including these to human spoken languages: the structures are identical, the grammars are identical, it's just a matter of inserting the chosen sound. This is a ludicrous simplification. Each language is a combination of history, perspective, and human suffering. There are many difference among them all. You're no linguist, you don't get to tell me: You're some guy/gal the internet claiming to to have extra worldly intelligence. You shoudl think harder abou…
/r/askTRP08/03/15 12:24 AM
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How did you get from what I wrote that I said passion is like a romance novel. That's how romance novels describe passion. It sounds like we're talking about the same thing.. Just different perspectives.. My point is the same guys who think "it's too much work to be attractive" now are the same husbands back then who would have thought similarly and hence suffered through a joyless sex life. Interesting point. Hard to say.. I think sex also has lot to do with context.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 10:43 AM
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RP is concerned about passion because the whole concept of RP is based on how to act in away that engenders passion. The answer to sexual passion is to be someone your SO feels sexual passion for. passion is a skill. It's not fictitious like romance novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 10:21 AM
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I would suggest stopping from masturbating all together and workout. But first go to a doctor and make sure you don't have an issue. Too much masturbating overtime can make you freeze during sex. There are plenty of ladies out there for 35yr olds. You are not being realistic.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 09:09 AM
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Your question tries to consider sexual attraction in the reasoning for the quality of a relationship. Well, I don't think that's really fair to consider the two. Marriage is a lot of things, but sex is only one thing. Sex is also very temporary, so to consider even a determent is a bit myopic. Successful marriages take a host of skills, and if a marriage is to break because of hot sex, it was never much of a marriage to begin with. Marrying young has a plenty of benefits, but also it's share of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 09:05 AM
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Nope. Robots can also invent language and just speak to each other without humans - and that makes a new language exist as well. This is already a real thing, not science fiction. These robots are moving, waving, pointing, lifting and speaking to each other inventing language on the spot. Robot languages also have to spoken, and transmitted. I know this is real thing, but you can't compare languages built on human suffering, and life, to a robot language. They aren't the same. Language is code. …
/r/askTRP06/03/15 11:33 PM
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explain the FEELING? If you want to describe the texture down to the cellular level you can do that. If you want to describe the neural stimulation from every nerve-ending in the penis inside a vagina you can do that too - the other end of that's in the brain and there's already brain-mapping for both motor-neurons and sensory-neurons. This is trivial now for a machine to do. Nope just explain the feeling. I don't measure my brain "solely" by cores but I have additional brain-power most do not,e…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 10:59 PM
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Yes it can - it can even invent its own languages now and add complexity beyond the level of human-spoken languages. Nope.. Need people to speak a language for it to exist. Surely can create computer languages, but that's not how languages work. Languages include history, a way of thinking, and essentially is story of group of people. You can pretty much give any auditory or written language now to AI and it can decipher it. This is lie. Language isn't code. The key is simply breaking word-fragm…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 10:58 PM
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Why would you measure your Brian solely by cores? So advanced you can't possibly explain the feeling of pussy. Weird.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 03:13 AM
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So AI can read Shakespeare and understand what it actually means?
/r/askTRP06/03/15 03:12 AM
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This sounds like a good idea for anyone! I just wanted to point out how odd it was for the author to complain women don't ask men what they want in a sub where men pride themselves on not asking women what they want haha. Well most guys are frustrated by this. But the thing is shame in sex is something that exist in cultures around the world. RP, doesn't talk about it much but draining shame in sex is an important element to unlocking her true desires. Would you say the same for a man? You could…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 12:32 AM
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If any woman riding the CC is selfish and narcissistic, by that logic isn't this person also calling promiscuous RPers selfish and narcissistic? They don't mean clinically narcissistic. However, they mean that it's socially acceptable for women to gain more than they give, especially if sexual relations are involved. Some women take full advantage of this. Does that mean RPers who wouldn't ask women what they want, and assume to know so, aren't empathetic and presumably narcissistic? Well you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 11:05 PM
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In the US. There also some women's only colleges within universities.
/r/MensRights05/03/15 06:21 PM
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i see...
/r/MensRights05/03/15 05:54 PM
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interesting in.. America college is one school after high school. But a university is multiple colleges.
/r/MensRights05/03/15 05:42 PM
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Some universities have Women's only colleges. So rules apply only to those colleges, not the entire university.. I could have said women's only university.
/r/MensRights05/03/15 05:31 PM
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I thought college was supposed to prepare people for the world? They should just make the college women's only, if they are going to institute those kind of polices.
/r/MensRights05/03/15 04:27 PM
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"relative" : if you can throw 100 lifetimes at me of all new information that will take time to churn. With computers helping I'd probably get through it in 20 years. Fantasy. I do have the luxury of making objective decisions. We all do if we try but most can not. The key is computing. The key is math, logic, reflex and not emotions. This removes subjectivity, letting information patterns form because they are always there and then combining patterns to make useful predictions and back-testing …
/r/askTRP05/03/15 03:04 PM
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Do women wear these during 50 shades of grey readings?
/r/MensRights03/03/15 11:31 PM
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At this time I don't need more experience - I got it covered. Enough is relative. However, we're talking about enough to make truly objective decisions when it comes to relationships. We simply don't have that luxury as humans. Even if you were a quick study, you still wouldn't have time to understand much what goes on in relationships till maybe your death bed. So we simply must take risks. To live only 20 years but consume information at 100x the rate of others is enough experience. I have tha…
/r/askTRP03/03/15 09:45 AM
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I do. Time is on my side. Some of us learn very quickly and on top of that I have good genetics so my life-span will be very, very long. For the time being I learn much quicker than most people. Still you have one life. Even if you lived to 200 you still would come up short on experience. Not even once. Are you sure about this? Are you also sure about the use of this "knowledge"? Never. They are showing their own rigidness. The few people on Earth I have met who are not like this have taken lots…
/r/askTRP03/03/15 09:24 AM
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So you'd say this technicality is the reason why they don't have the recognition or visibility that TRP does? Most definitely.. Reddit isn't really a place of knowledge, it's a place of ideas and opinions. If you want real relationship answers you should go to professionals. Or at least read books written by professionals. RP is mostly support for broken guys. And the language is designed to keep women away from the group. Fortunately, even if men take 20% of what RP says it they can benefit fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 08:32 PM
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The thing is there are plenty of alternatives.. But RP is about crudely supporting men, and teaching them how to focus on behavioral cues, and then what guidelines to follow. And in some cases whom to follow. Other pills, or alternatives, don't do that. Other alternatives are more technical, probably too technical for reddit, IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 08:05 PM
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There's no need to follow RP by the letter. Take what works for you and enjoy your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 07:53 PM
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Perception of danger doesn't matter. Just measure it directly, objectively, always the same. M Impossible. You have a chance to measure probability, but you can't always measure uncertainty. Math, physics, these things don't change based on which person is using them. Well depends on how their used they can mean very different things. Consider the usage of imaginary numbers from a math perspective, engineering perspective, and a physics perspective. When dealing with humans this type of play cre…
/r/askTRP02/03/15 05:10 AM
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Absolutely I know what these are. It's the nature of being smarter. Many consequences are dangerous, stupid but obvious to me and not to you. This is an issue though. Everyone perceives danger differently. Sometimes it's facing danger that brings us the greatest glory, regardless odds. It's my purpose and nature to be that way and for you not to be. If your purpose is to avoid danger, then you should not date ladies and should stay in one room of your dwelling. That's why he's not a general: 5 s…
/r/askTRP01/03/15 01:32 PM
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backtesting many multiple time-frames. I'll look as far as I need. You're describing hubris. You can't possibly have enough time to explore all possibilities prior to action. For typical human challenges for work & social relations: almost nothing. So you believe there's a limited amount permutations for humans. How many ways can I combine 30 random numbers? For technology: depends on the trend & combined with the economic shift of mafia-control & rampant fraud, shows the migration of jobs & the…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 06:59 PM
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Most of the future actually looks like the past. Just remove a few names, a few locales, insert others and the pattern is retained. How do you know how much is changed or how far back in the past you should look/compare? Not a lot actually changes in every repeating time-frame. A few things do but they often have their own predictable trend. Maybe so, but how much actually changes though? The world is incredibly unsurprising to smart people. Boring, even. Voluminous actually. The more you know t…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 09:56 AM
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Provably non-fantasy. Most consequences are the product of stupidity. The the inability to predict the future. The reality is relationships are a skill and we have to learn how to navigate them. We do this by experience. Smart people cut those out entirely. The right path is invisible to the eyes of the stupid. To the eyes of smart people it is the only path. This isn't really true. A stupid person will always barrel into trouble with no understanding of a safe path. Ever. That person, you, will…
/r/askTRP26/02/15 08:19 PM
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Fantasy. Consequences are inevitable, no matter what.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 03:13 AM
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There are no decisions you can made in life that will not have consequences. Some which you can not see till you'd made a decision, or experienced something.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 11:32 AM
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huh?
/r/askTRP24/02/15 08:39 PM
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<citations needed> For? A marriage is a piece of paper, and guarantees nothing about a relationship other than you know you have weapons to hurt each other with if things go south. This would be great except marriage exist in almost all cultures in the world and throughout history that predates contracts. So to say marriage is just one thing is strategically myopic. In most modern culture, this paper represents a partnership very similar to a business partnership. People with healthy, happy marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 08:23 PM
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There is a style of family, companionship, and children that can only be had through marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 07:52 PM
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A real man, a real alpha takes risks because he handle consequences. He's not worried about the alignment of SMV. He's more focused on his purpose in life.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 07:50 PM
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Someone can actually do that?
/r/PussyPass24/02/15 07:33 PM
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Only weak men are afraid of failure and broken relationships. If her pussy is good, and you guys vibe roll with it. Don't let fear shape your decisions.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 06:27 PM
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The fundamental difference in age. She's 28, and I'm 25 going on 26. I was always interested in an LTR but not quite ready marry for a few years. This is not a problem. This is not an uncommon situation but I’d really like your feedback on how I can improve. Relationship begins after 2 years.. The worst thing you can do is blame external factors. The reality is that the relationship broke for some reason or another. But that reason doesn't matter that much. Time to work on yourself.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 05:30 PM
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Don't 13, 14, 15 year old boys have low SMV? What doe SMV have to do with age? Why are so many of these 20 to 30 something female teachers giving it up so easily for them? Desire to feel young again. Are these boys they are having sex with natural alphas? Not necessarily, depends on the encounter. Or are these women trying to relive the prime of their youth as CC riders? Most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 03:55 PM
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Family, companionship, children
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 03:45 PM
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She's just missing that feeling. The fact is she's telling you, that's a good sign. I can't tell you what to do, but I suggest working on yourself.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 04:14 AM
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You had 24 years of marriage, and your wife got bored basically. She may have even said to her self, "Is this all that there is" too many times. She was probably upset that you guys decided to swing, but you weren't willing to fuck another lady. So she was just being the man in the relationship since you wouldn't be. It is possible that she wanted to feel something, by watching you sleep with another lady. The reason this matters is because she agreed to fuck other people but you didn't. So how …
/r/askTRP24/02/15 03:48 AM
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If you believe that women have can gain social value through marriage, and children, then it follows that feminist can't ever truly seek equality. In fact, being a feminist is to say that women can have everything, and men cannot. So they can not only work for social value, they can also just lay on their back at any time and have social value. Or find a mate that is socially valuable and become committed to that person. However, men all they can only create social value through their works. In …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 01:48 PM
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make a move.
/r/seduction22/02/15 08:13 PM
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I mean overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 10:02 PM
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Not just the fun, but the spontaneity and the nuance as well. How do you think leadership works? verything is calculated centered around demonstrating "dominance" and always having the upper hand. About never really "loosening up" and perpetually "holding frame". About showing a woman how she's not that great and that you can and WILL do better if she doesn't hurry up and act docile and compliant. Strategic for sure. But hard to calculate when you're dealing with human behavior. More importantly…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 04:11 PM
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It seems like you're describing a method of leadership. Leadership requires beta/alpha behaviors. BPs allow women to lead the relationship. RPs do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 03:49 PM
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When you had a low point in your relationships how did you recover? Does she ever do things to get what she wants, or does she just ask straight up for anything she wants or wants you to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 03:39 PM
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Nothing went wrong.. talk to her... meet her.. if not just leave it as you said, you can't handle another plate.. right?
/r/askTRP18/02/15 05:58 PM
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I put nothing bro, that was not my chart,the data is straight from the gss though. Yeah I know it wasn't your chart. but this chart shouldn't be used race relationships it ignores too much to be worth while. ace may be complicated but most people who self-identify as black are mostly black I wouldn't say that's true, and it would depend on your region as well. we can safely assume as a group they have a lower socioeconomic status. But is that relative to money or the state of the race? If you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 04:51 AM
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Race and socioeconomic status are correlated (especially black people), why not? There's is inherent racial bias, because you just put Black & white then other. What kind of black do you mean, does mixed count? What about Asian people? In your view there's only black & white, no mixtures of races, and everyone else is just other. I think that's a little insensitive. Best to do socioeconomic as socioeconomic, and race separately. Race is complicated. Because it's practical for the man to sacrific…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 01:13 AM
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: I interpret this result as reflecting men's disposability, and the racial disparity shows men are even more disposable as socioeconomic status declines. Disposability or responsibility? the racial disparity shows men are even more disposable as socioeconomic status declines. You can't just blanket race with socieconomic status. When the moral and the practical align there should be an abundance of agreement. How can this ever happen if when creating life is an important part of civilization?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 10:07 PM
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What kind of pics would you want to see? old chicks to new chicks? I'm not sure this is possible or ethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 04:36 AM
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Well you need to find that thing that you're passionate about, your real purpose. Other than that just make moves when you want to, see what happens. Holding a hand, touching a shoulder, rubbing up against someone, can help..
/r/askTRP16/02/15 03:44 PM
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What do you want to do in your life? It sounds like you're just staying busy Attractiveness can be a detriment.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 03:13 PM
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What else are you doing in your life? There is the possibility that women are afraid of you.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 02:54 PM
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Im naturally a "nice guy", as a child even I would always share my food and toys with the people around me. But this isnt a valued trait, and really has only left a target on my back. for whom? So, rationally, the decision is to end my life. I offer nothing the world wants, the the world offers me nothing I want. Thoughts? If you are so benevolent you should find cause to share your time with, see if you can find someone that values your time. This could be your neighborhood church, could be any…
/r/askTRP15/02/15 10:46 PM
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Frankly, I don't know too many women in LTRs that will let their mates just walk all over them. There must be some hyperbole or exaggeration going on there. I haven't read enough RPW to really comment, but it sounds like a farce.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 10:35 PM
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hard to believe..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 10:06 PM
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He supposed to do it in his way.. I don't know him.. I can't tell you.. How is that different from a M/f relationship That's a very broad questions because it doesn't have to be this way. The amount of direction/responsibility recommended in RP/RPW is heavily laid on the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 06:39 PM
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I don't know where this RPW not challenging comes from.. I have to think they mean petty challenges. A man needs his woman to challenge him to some degree. Her job , as is his, to make the union better. If she feels something is awry it is her duty to challenge her man. Her man's job to do what's right. That play is the foundation of the relationship, without out there's not much of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 06:29 PM
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I mean over all direction.. Your heart, relationship, life, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 06:18 PM
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Well technically he's supposed to be giving you direction. That's the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 05:57 PM
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Ladies will sleep around. You're not talking about the women that you're attracting at all. You're just lumping all Indian women into one category. ' Staying healthy, and finding a purpose are the number one things. Then once that is done you need to to do talk to women, sleep with them and don't commit, then talk about those experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 04:09 PM
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Do you?
/r/seduction14/02/15 04:01 PM
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I think you MRAs confused with RP Nope there's a big difference. MRAs complain endless about having to be men, and the unfairness they have to endure. RPs demand they should be treated like they're polar concept of men. Your delusional Have you considered why people are against feminism in general? (aside from obvious radicals, i mean fundamentally) How about dames (the equivalant to knights) get up put on some armor and go fight with the knights. Also romantic doesnt mean shit. In terms of roma…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 03:07 PM
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How do you figure MRA are whinier than feminists? MRA's tend to complain about the need to be a "man" and how male privledge doesn't exist. I considered that whiney Feminist complain that women should be considered something other than than their birth right. I consider that much less whinny. what feminism complaining about these day? manspreading? manslamming? Shirts? Feminism really is complaining about why they can't be considered equal or greater than man, while simultaneously ignoring their…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 02:37 PM
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Feminism and MRA are similar in my opinion. Very true.. Though MRAs tend to be whinier and than feminist, IMO. TRP is more or less the male versions of "He's Just Not That Into You" or Cosmopolitan Magazine, but angrier perhaps. Um I'm not sure this is true either. It seems they conflate "human rights" with "sexual strategy." When to most people Feminism, Men's Right Movement, Civil Rights Movement, Amnesty International, etc... isn't about sex. Feminism and MR movement have to do with sex becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 07:19 PM
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She explains that it was just a test to see how I would react, and that I failed. NO way she said this.. haha On the way to pick up the food I was silently brooding, why is that I felt unhappy when in my mind I felt that I handled it correctly? And then I realized, It's because I actually felt a twinge of anxiety at the thought of her leaving. Because you know that now she knows how to test you again. Now, she can just leave you at any time, to be true to form you can't follow her, or ever deal …
/r/askTRP13/02/15 04:33 PM
1

Nothing is wrong with you, this is what's supposed to happen. It's just not love, it's reverie, or lust. You ever look at picture of your family, and concern feel feelings of love?
/r/seduction13/02/15 01:12 PM
1

Cool article. But more important to learn to feel the emotion and not be challenged by it.
/r/seduction13/02/15 01:09 PM
3

Try it and find out. That's the point of this.
/r/seduction13/02/15 01:08 PM
0

Man, am I about to blow your fucking mind. Dude, dude, get this, gay people, they like, sometimes have sex with straight people and like, sometimes, THEY GET PREGNANT. Fuckin trippy, right? But wait, if that didn't blow your fucking mind then this will; gay people sometimes have science babies, by either using the womb or sperm of a friend and straight up growing that shit like mold. Hell, sometimes they literally grow a baby in a petri dish! Fucking crazy shit right there. But hold the fuck on,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 12:57 PM
1

You keep saying that the LGBTQ community needs to recruit and I have no idea why someone would possibly think that. We don't have registry sheets and we don't go around asking people if they've heard the Good Word. Gay people just happen. Usually from straight families. When people are added to a group it's called recruiting. Yes, you can choose to come out, and its largely encouraged because of the risk of mental illness involved with staying in the closet, but you can't choose to be attracted …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 03:35 AM
0

I think it's grander than just the LGBTQ community,it appears to be all of Feminism that's anti-establishment. LGBTQ and Feminism are not necessarily related. Radical Feminism is definitely anti establishment but all feminism isn't radical. They want temporary personal benefit at the expense of the system that allowed them to ask for that temporary benefit. Extremely myopic. There's a reason 98% of societies are patriarchal, you know? I'm not sure on your number of 98%. Feminism is more a realiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 09:34 PM
0

LGBTQ people are not going to disappear off the face of the earth. Of course they won't. But they don't have anyone to pass their things, ideas, orway of life down to. Because it ends with them. They don't need to procreate themselves to create more of them They need to maintain their way of life. But it happens the history of the human race is based on each family passing on their tradition to their offspring. Unavailable, to the LGBTQ community. I don't really understand what you mean by them …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 03:27 PM
0

Followers I mean other gay people. Right. Most LGBTQs won't procreate they will just live for their lives and perish. What do their parents have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 02:08 PM
5

She's anti establishment. Marriage has many functions, but is main function is to promote families, and life creation. LGBTQ community for the most part is diametrically opposed to creating families or creating life, so I'm not sure why marriage is going to change, or even why it has to. Even if it were to change the LGBTQ community has a large issue because the group can't create more followers. Heteros will always out number LGBTQs, and will always create more where the LGBTQ community can not…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 01:01 PM
13

Banning paternity test? Who saw this as logical?
/r/MensRights11/02/15 06:12 PM
2

Depends I personally like to leave. :) Depends on the lady though.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 05:48 PM
1

"I don't know if I'm free yet, text me tomorrow and we'll see" so I stopped replying. Why do you think this is bitchy? I meet her today in the library (Tuesday) and she greets me with "FINALLY!" and I'm like Yeah how was your weekend blabla then I ask her when she's free this week and she tells me she has a lot of work to do this week (rejection for my rejection I guess). You asked her open ended questions. Do you think she wants you think she's waiting all night thinking about you? Now she send…
/r/askTRP11/02/15 03:06 AM
1

She will shit test you endlessly. Just have fun with them when you notice.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 01:04 AM
1

You should seduce both.. Let's have sex is cool but the fun is in the seduction..
/r/askTRP11/02/15 01:02 AM
1

Delete them or don't show to people that may want to to fuck her. What sense does that make?
/r/askTRP11/02/15 01:01 AM
1

Make the most of it? Go out on that night. The thing they don't tell you about Valentine's day is that 50% or women are complaining about their mates Valentine's day blunders. Maybe try going to see 50 shades of grey and pick up some single women.
/r/seduction10/02/15 01:05 PM
3

If you've ever had a mate that suspects cheating, they tend to think like this. They think my mate is going cheat, and then every little becomes ""evidence" of cheating. Sometimes that distrust forces the mate into cheating. I think you're explaining confirmation bias, and this happens all the time especially in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 01:02 PM
3

I think this is done most by those that expect cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 12:45 PM
1

Simpler way to think if it is that relationship will only last if both people are working towards something that's larger than themselves. Something bigger than the passion, or good pussy, or dick. That's what i mean. People have to find that together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 10:05 PM
-1

He's giving her direction in her time of need, so her pussy is basically open to him. You just have to trust your gut on this one. The problem is standing up to him actually inadvertently hurts her, as she's the one that needs help. You're in a no win situation bro. At the minimum, you must let her know that 2am texts aren't cool. Frankly, I would have had her call him up right then and there and answer see if he picks ups. And strike up a conversation. Then ask him straight if he's trying to ho…
/r/askTRP09/02/15 09:07 PM
1

Work on improving your self, versus supplicating to women for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 08:01 PM
2

Relationships are predictable to a point, so this isn't a news flash. If the commitment has a reason that's larger than her "desire" but for the growth of relationship, the pattern takes on a very different pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 07:46 PM
1

What exactly are you looking for? Are you into male domination?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/15 10:29 PM
1

Stronger bond is the main thing. Husband (34/m) leaving me (34/f) for a younger woman while I'm battling cancer. I want to end my life.[1] Sometimes people can't handle death when it's upon them. This isn't an example of anything except a guy met his depth, and dealing with it by dating a younger woman. So, how can a woman be sure that the man she is going to marry isn't going to leave her during tough times or when she is not at her so called 'prime'. A man who marries a woman(1) can leave her …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/15 06:23 PM
2

You have to drop her. This ex is too important to her.
/r/askTRP08/02/15 02:11 AM
1

You have to find out why she's saying it first. You can't just react blindly. Reflecting what she says is the easy way to do so.
/r/askTRP07/02/15 04:52 PM
10

You answer, "Funny I feel the same way." Make it appear that she's using you, and see what she says. This is not really a shit test. This can signal she wants more than the arrangement you're giving her.
/r/askTRP07/02/15 06:33 AM
2

I mean just because my marriage ended in divorce it doesn't mean hers will.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/15 03:10 AM
1

This would be very difficult for me. I would think teach her to look for women that she looked up to that were real and lived the life that she wanted to live. I would find her a few female role models that she could hang out with outside of me. I would teach her about how to sniff out men, and never let a weak guy screw her. I would teach her how to see through men, and how she needs to protect her pussy even if though deep down she will want to give it to everyone. I would teach her that my re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/15 01:03 AM
0

Shouldn't TRP not be a 'support group' for beta males? It is.. But Betas that want to be Alphas...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/15 12:13 AM
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She also received 2 years probation. I don't know what a guy would get but I think that's a lot of for showing picture to some kid.
/r/PussyPass05/02/15 10:38 PM
3

This couldn't be more wrong. I thought Feminists were about equality?
/r/MensRights05/02/15 04:08 PM
1

if you know how people respond, you will know what i'm talking about it. If you don't, you can walk into a mine field.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 12:20 AM
1

I would not go cocky funny here, because you don't know why she's asking the questions. What if this guy was looking at her friends butt, or tits and didn't notice it? If so, OP's chick isn't going to be all that happy with his cocky funny attitude. Your response if too serious and it's not clear enough. It's basically not an answer. Not supposed to be an answer it's supposed to get information out of her. All that will do is make her question you more. It's a logic play which will evoke an emot…
/r/askTRP04/02/15 11:26 PM
2

Creepy to look in a girl eye's your fucking? You have no idea what she's thinking, so the goal is to get her to tell you. You can do that by making it seem ridiculous that she's asking in the first place.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 11:06 PM
-5

"What do you think?" while looking in her eye and touching her shoulder.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 08:09 PM
3

library, coffee shop, park, etc.. you're the fun.
/r/seduction04/02/15 04:44 PM
1

That's possible? Didn't happen in the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/15 04:02 PM
1

The dilemma comes in when unfaithfulness/dishonesty is what made them breakup in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/15 11:06 AM
1

Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/15 07:01 AM
1

I was randomly reading this... this might be interesting to you.. Predicting nonmarital romantic relationship dissolution: A meta-analytic synthesis
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/15 05:42 AM
0

I'm pregnant with someone who may or may not be your child, yet I let you go on believing it's 100% yours. What does that say about me as a person? A lot of fear. But still, I don't know how you tell someone you just got back with, "I fucked your friend and I'm not sure if this baby is yours." As emotional as she would be because of child birth, who knows what she thought. She actually does try to get an abortion, but because she wasn't sure who's child it was so she didn't get one. She just hop…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/15 05:21 AM
1

That's the thing she didn't know for sure till born. No way to know. It's a movie, but still I have no idea what I would in either place. !
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/15 03:13 AM
0

But remember you would have found out after your spent 10 months thinking that you were the father of the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/15 02:56 AM
1

well maybe not that guy. People get back together for all sorts of reasons, or circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/15 09:26 PM
1

Because sometimes the reason for the breakup are pithy, and it's easier to realize that in absence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/15 09:21 PM
1

I try not to bias experiments more than I already am by deliberately focusing on expectations. Unfortunately, this is a human behavior "experiment", it's already heavily biased. I am interpreting you as seeing this as a lifestyle change rather than challenging what I believe. Of course.. So the null hypothesis here is no or negative change. I wouldn't use this terminology in this "experiment". :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/15 06:55 PM
1

No, plenty of RPW women report partners who are not RP identified or even aware of their behaviour on a conscious level. Sure, but their partners must have a willingness to make their own changes. I also think that RPW is not intended to be a reactive theory to having a specific partner type, but rather accepting the veracity of RP globally it offers a behaviour set that is emotionally satisfied. It's based on behavioral cues, not personality. In so far as other competing theories or reasons why…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/15 05:21 PM
1

Part of the claim made by RP is that this is how genders operate in their interactions. Red and Blue are not supposed to be distinctions of separate personalities, just the presence of acknowledgement of how the world works. RP is a behavioral structure, so it's not relative personality it's relative to behavior. Of course, the personality of the person is implied but not necessarily the basis actions. RP is also a theory based on polarity, or balancing in tandem. But it requires the ability to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/15 10:56 AM
5

I'm not following how this will work for you. It seems you are doing this to your partner. Or you're passively trying to make your man into an RP man? In which case he would not follow, if that's not the way he wants to be. They way you're describing yourself you would be similar to the way you were before, just a different permutation. Also, your bouts of loneliness also make a lot of sense since it seems you're giving up a way that you connect for the sake of being RPW, but to a non RP man. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/15 02:46 AM
0

What's the purpose of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/15 01:30 AM
1

Best time to approach is now. You can not make a guess on someone's whole personality if you never talk to her. I would ask yourself "if you would feel like she was no-personality woman if she was bouncing on your dick?" If yes, then you or trying to skip over actually meeting someone, and just hold your preconceived notions. If no, then you're like most men that see a hot girl. It sounds like you are compensating for the fact you didn't talk her.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 11:18 AM
2

how often are you masturbating?
/r/askTRP30/01/15 07:09 PM
7

We'd never hear the end because women can have children and men can't. But that's also why full equality isn't possible. Women have privileges that we men can never have. What we can have is balance.
/r/MensRights30/01/15 04:02 PM
1

These are some what similar. Beyond Reasonable doubt is tough when it comes to intent. Even tougher when we consider that the nature of rape creates a bevy problems when we consider any reasonable standard of evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 07:12 PM
2

Clear and convincing evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 06:42 PM
5

Rape is an emotional situation, so I'm sure ladies feel raped that the court can't verify one way or another. So if it could be proven that the rape accusation was maliciously false then i'm for it. But in order to save the real victims, evidence would have to be impeccable, and perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 04:59 PM
2

What about women that have been screwed over by hyper masculine men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 08:47 PM
2

This is fine... you should go out with her escalate and screw her... This is a challenge from her to see if you'll keep your "word". Sometimes friends means you can fuck her but not be with her. But you don't know what she means, but you know what she did. In my opinion, it's game on. Good luck.
/r/seduction27/01/15 12:33 AM
2

Some people do but some people don't. If you want to get married get married.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 08:41 PM
1

Are handling what exactly? The bevy of pussy that's available to you? Or leaving college without a wife?
/r/askTRP26/01/15 08:26 PM
5

RP doesn't mean "don't ever get married". It just means if you do, do it for the right reasons. Plenty of RP men are married. IMO, if you're concerned about loneliness you've missed the point of RP.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 05:28 PM
2

Just call her up and break up with her, and don't tell her why. I went through her phone, discovered texts from a guy she works with (works in a bar), texts showed that the had hooked up at a staff party once (that I know of). So you thought something was going on then you wait till you had an opportunity to look through her phone? . Also I don't know why it makes me angrier but I found the guy on facebook and he's a 5'7 manlet who doesn't lift and is average looking. I'm at a total loss as to w…
/r/askTRP26/01/15 05:15 PM
0

I suggest going out with girls that you won't care about screwing up. Even if that means unattractive ladies.
/r/seduction26/01/15 03:05 PM
1

pick small goals.. don't do everything at once.. When you think of being lazy do anything else but plop down.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 02:42 PM
1

I'm just going to chime in.. IMO, most men just want to know that a lady is not a ho, trying to get free dinners. and/or she brings something to table other than pretty face or sex. I personally I don't mind paying as long as she shows me at least those qualities. Guys will say they want sex at the drop of a hat. But that isn't really true. A little bit of tug & pull makes sex better anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/15 12:30 AM
1

Funny you say that. I always thought that's an age old trick to keep guys from sleeping around easily. As they say, the way to his heart is his stomach. Maybe, but it definitely makes him have to love you if he's fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 09:20 PM
1

Who's out crying about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 04:08 PM
1

Bro nothing is wrong with it if you like it. Do more of it. Explore it. Keep in mind one the fantasies for most men is to have their mommy back again (i.e. care, loving, etc.) So it's not surprising that to want to have a lady give you pleasure. I mean that's what a BJ is of course. But taking it up the butt isn't masculine. Thus not really in the RP school.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 03:24 PM
1

I like "kill yourself bitch" If denying sex is emotional abuse I'm ok with that. There is far worst emotional abuse available to women. Denial of sex is only emotional abuse when the lady is fucking someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 03:05 PM
1

1)8 2)7 3)7
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 07:56 AM
2

I think a good woman teaches her man as well. It's not a one way street. In the end, we should l be teaching other about our paths to loving. Hopefully, we can meet on that path more often than not. But as far as dealing with ladies. Ladies that are rarely treated well respond better to that. Ladies that are usually treated well respond to the crappy treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 07:42 AM
1

Yep it does. We do it enough. The rule is usually treat a whore like a lady and lady like a whore. Works in most case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 02:20 AM
1

You think being attractive will help you in marriage? So you think successful marriages are superficial?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 02:19 AM
1

It's actually good argument.. She's seeing his point, tacitly agreeing with the point, and asking a followup question. Or she saying pampering is a balance in privileges/power.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 07:01 PM
0

If you identify as red pill, do you really think women are inferior to men? RP runs with this, but that's not really what it means. It's harsh way of saying women prioritize different thing in relationships. And if they were men they'd be seen as inferior. I don't think women are inferior in general then men. I do believe women prioritize different things in relationships, and usually more emotionally adept or perceptive. does it seem like TRP generally views women as inferior or no? RP is parad…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 05:59 PM
1

The husband is the person that enters you in a way that is more deep, more intimate, and more complete than anyone else. IMO, if you don't have that you should stay unmarried.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 05:28 PM
2

Wait isn't' that what goes on now?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 05:14 PM
2

partners help you do more in life than you could on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/15 03:53 PM
-1

I don't' think that's the case.
/r/MensRights24/01/15 05:03 AM
9

Men & women need to step up, and fix this law.
/r/MensRights24/01/15 01:44 AM
2

she likes being close to you
/r/askTRP23/01/15 04:28 PM
4

I think he doesn't really understand what it takes to bed a woman that's outside of a person's comfort zone. He also isn't really clear on the basis of red pill. The bottom-line is that if you're a person that's wants something, he has to find a way to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/15 08:40 PM
2

A girl that's going on 60 dates in 2 months isn't going to plan shit. In real life sometimes that happens. But also sometimes it doesn't. If you're seducing, then you have to plan for everything. That's the game.
/r/seduction20/01/15 09:55 PM
1

These were pretty good bullet points. I agree with most guys forget about having a plan.
/r/seduction20/01/15 09:43 PM
1

What you do should align your purpose in life. Women are attracted by that exactly. That's all there is. If you are following your purpose and women are not attracted it doesn't much matter, because you are following your purpose.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 09:32 PM
2

stop whining. just go out again and fuck her. Jesus.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 09:30 PM
1

haha
/r/askTRP19/01/15 07:27 PM
2

I'm not sure what this had to do with TRP. This is a bad decision that got worst.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 07:18 PM
1

I don't think an animal would have have to be a sentient to see other animals sleeping with each other and baby popping out. And expect the same thing to happen to them. When you say "know" that's another ball of wax.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 03:42 PM
1

Seriously, you think an elephant connects the dots between sex and popping out Dumbo nearly two years later? maybe i'm wrong.. some humans haven't either Dunno, it doesn't take a genius to figure out that you only get pregnant after having been sexually active. It might take genius
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 02:46 PM
1

Seriously, you think an elephant connects the dots between sex and popping out Dumbo nearly two years later? I don't think they connect as far as time goes. I think they understand that sex leads to pregnancy. Not the same way we think of it though. The fact that it's seen on a regular basis helps. A core idea behind TRP, seduction and female attraction in general is that women have an instinct to be wary of men when it comes to sex, because the ones who fucked every guy who came along eventuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 05:06 AM
1

Why do you believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 04:29 AM
3

maybe.. But I like to think i have sex with ladies cause it feels good. and i stay in relationships when they grow past just feeling good. Biology is too esoteric. We are very different from animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 04:00 AM
1

well of course, animals understand risk just like we do. A female animal getting pregnant by a weak mate she might not survive. What's puzzling why would a male animal want to mate in the wild? Considering the added responsibility. I guess cause sex is good.:)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 03:26 AM
5

I think nature wins as long as men and women have sex. The evolutionary model is a bit flawed. I think women seek relationships because they have higher risk in sexual encounters. They also have more value in regards to sex in a societal context because of those consequences. Men on the other hand have less value attached to sex, less consequence, and less risk all together. I don't believe men evolutionary evolved to have sex with as many as woman as possible, it's just the nature of risk and r…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/15 02:16 AM
3

Violence is everywhere. That's an unrealistic thought. But, play violence isn't really violence. Ever watch animals play?
/r/askTRP15/01/15 09:22 PM
1

see how strong you are.. You should turning that hitting into dates or something.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 08:49 PM
1

How would you define real love?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/15 04:03 PM
0

I agree with this. It's really hard for men to give advice on how to attract men. But easier to give advice in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/15 03:05 AM
2

I don't know a lot guys thinks she's attractive in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 11:51 PM
1

Funny. But I think both would have ample prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 11:03 PM
1

I said that's what people say on this thread said. I never said they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 09:27 PM
6

Not a BP, but Redpill is very limited on it's ability to predict relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 09:23 PM
1

I agree, but it's still significant to some. Yep. you said some people leave their partners for weight gain, or as it translates to me, becoming unattractive. people want to have sex with people they find attractive. whilst they can still have love for their partner, things like weight gain may take away the sexual side to that relationship, hence why they may want to break up and seek a new sexual relationship. The weird part about sex is that people want to have sex with people that will affor…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 09:15 PM
1

well even a marriage is a form of a sexual relationship. leaving someone you no longer want to have sex with as it's the only person you should morally be having sex with is a pretty logical decision. Sex is a very small portion of a marriage though. the people you have loving non sexual relationships with are more often than not shared with the people you call your friends What do you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 08:36 PM
1

Pointless when some people think it's ok to leave a marriage based purely on weight gain. Others thinks she's ugly but he is old so it's ok. Others think if their in love so be it. The point is to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 08:13 PM
0

You're trying to calm this lady, by agreeing with her. If she thinks you did something then you did it. It doesn't matter whether you did it in petty situation. So if she thinks you pushed over this lady, then you apologize to her for it, and tell her you'll apologize directly to the cleaning lady.
/r/MensRights12/01/15 08:12 PM
1

Yes I understand that CP is not the cleaning lady. But telling CP that you apologize for that and would apologize to the cleaning lady directly, is better than arguing with CP.
/r/MensRights12/01/15 06:36 PM
6

The cleaning people understand that when people are in the bathroom to not go in. It belies logic that she would barge in forcefully enough that she needs to be pushed out. Usually, cleaning people knock first anyway. If she didn't then she should have a conversation. That's not sexual harassment, it's really a hostile work environment. No company wants a lawsuit, so you should confront her on the subject. And the last resort would be HR. if she's more important than you could be on the chopping…
/r/MensRights12/01/15 04:32 PM
1

talk more to random people
/r/askTRP12/01/15 04:01 PM
1

You think it would be reasonable to end a marriage solely on weight gain?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 05:54 AM
1

Just because something was supposed to be, doesn't mean it is. Smart In the real world, he's not ugly, and she's not fat (certainly not obese). But he is definitely not hot, and also pretty old. She is just as definitely not slim, but not unattractive because of that. They are both pretty well matched in terms of looks. Either one of them could probably do a little better if they wanted to. But again, like I said, I think they love each other. If I read RP they'd say he would want sleep with you…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 05:00 AM
1

So would an average RP think she was obese?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 04:57 AM
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Smart. It's a bevy images on the Internet many of them you will never touch or see in reality, let a lone sleep with. I have high standards, but the thing the more you date and fuck, you realize looks mean less and less when you consider Sex, Relationships, & marriage . Looks are only good for pictures and ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 08:03 PM
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Why do you think she's hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 07:36 PM
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Yeah, and I was supposed to be out of debt by 30 but that's not looking like it's going to happen either. ::shrug:: Huh? IDK what to tell you man. He doesn't even make the bottom of my list, and from the comments that doesn't seem to be a minority opinion. Haha , so in Reddit world Pierce Brosnan is ugly so he should be with a fatty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 07:36 PM
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So Pierce is some how not a looker? Bond is forever bond. He's supposed to be the supreme man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 12:48 PM
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Would you if the pussy was good?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 02:03 AM
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I would hate think she based her marriage in his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 02:02 AM
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I think if he felt that way he wouldn't proclaim his love for her regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 12:57 AM
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Doesn't prove anything. Just interesting to hear what people think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 12:56 AM
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Do you think he's rather be boning young ladies?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/15 12:40 AM
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RP is all about being with attractive ladies, and bases some of it on the way Bond acts. But "Bond" is deviating. Interesting to hear people's take on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/15 11:24 PM
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He proclaims he is in love with her bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/15 11:08 PM
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Those feeling are more intense when there's mystery, similar to magic. So the idea, that's why the magic trick is an opening. It's in line with what the lady wants deep down.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/15 11:07 PM
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So disbelieve in passion, ecstasy, and fire lust?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/15 05:43 AM
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But the feeling of magic is real, but transient.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/15 01:09 AM
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Some other people think it ties into a ladies idea of magic. If man can show them a real magic, maybe there's hope for magic in relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 11:36 PM
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but they are offering you magic? Would magic give them a shot with you? Even without an agreement?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 11:21 PM
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not that bad if you watch it form the queued point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 11:18 PM
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very true! you're awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 06:55 PM
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you cheated him ;) haha Why'd you agree if if you had no intention of giving a number?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 06:41 PM
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Did he pick her card?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 06:30 PM
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So you're saying that this is an example of successful sorting?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 06:17 PM
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It's shit test because she's testing how secure you are with your image. She probably sense you have a problem with it, or she wants to make you into her own image. So it puts you in situation where you're happy to hear her suggestions, but you will make the final say.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 05:59 PM
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What's more BB than implying he's not hot enough for her to want to kiss so he has to "make" her make out with him with some "arrangement"? Alpha guys don't need to negotiate and don't imply that what she has is worth negotiating for, because it isn't. I think sex is always a negotiation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 05:58 PM
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Wait...I thought sex was EXTREMELY difficult for most men to get? From a man's perspective yes. But not from a woman's perspective, IMO. Every time the stud vs slut debate is brought up someone's always banging on about how much effort it takes for guys to get laid and that's what makes them studs. Sure it takes more effort for a man to get a girl. But there are also plenty of THOTs, and sluts around. A girl can feel very comfortable if guy cheats with some slut, but someone that would upset her…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 05:23 PM
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why do you think hetero women being less upset by sexual infidelity can translate to a soft harem (yes, if the dude is "alpha" enough)? Because they prioritize their emotions. And they know how flimsy sex is, and how available it is to men. In fact, a lady will likely be ok with cheating if you tell her. She'll be upset, and may not trust you, but she'll likely stick around if her other needs are met. I would even posit that she will be more likely to stick around if you're sleeping with a low v…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 04:32 PM
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He's wrong about genetics when it comes to human behavior. We can't track genetics all the way to the complexity of human behavior. Fortunately, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 02:50 AM
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That's not what he's asking he's asking why should he follow his plate that's asking him to update his wardrobe. That's a shit test.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 02:25 AM
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The point is to look better, you dont stop improving even in relationships especially not at the beginning. T Why should he be listening to her? Did he ask for her advice? Clearly his looked got her the girl, and he doesn't' want to upgrade to gf so it's non-issue. It's about having fun now. This lets her know you arent complacent, you are a valuable man who is only getting better with time. It keeps her interested, and not wondering when shes going to upgrade to a better boyfriend. This also ma…
/r/askTRP09/01/15 02:15 AM
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Your articles are a bit absurd. So basically, shouldn't a low-status man be looking abroad for a wife rather than putting up with the unregulated American sexual marketplace? The sexual marketplace is always unregulated. Humans weak on emotion, so a low status man does better in unregulated sexual marketplace than a regulated one. Especially one where his worth is measured by his works to determine his value, not his initial gifts. Hope is not strategy, and relationships and even attraction are …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 01:29 AM
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I'd have her buy you stuff. If she's going to up graded to GF, then what's the point of updating your wardrobe?
/r/askTRP09/01/15 12:55 AM
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Today, PU community is emphasizing inner game more because it leads to becoming less of a fake and more stable person with more self-confidence. When was this lost from Old school PUA? I think your commentary on new school PUA is just not accurate. Inner Game has always been the key to PUA.
/r/seduction07/01/15 04:06 PM
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sorting will give you the largest change in success
/r/seduction07/01/15 04:04 PM
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Make a move after about 3 dates, even if you're going to crash and burn. You'll gain confidence by meeting more ladies, and finding success.
/r/seduction07/01/15 05:16 AM
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I want to get inside her head. You get inside her pants by getting inside her head. We are all in it for sex. But that's not the end result of course. Looks like you had success with your target, just don't' take solace in getting the number. That's really the easy part.
/r/seduction06/01/15 07:42 PM
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Doesn't it basically mean that, for a man to gain value, he must steal value from women? And by logical extension, wouldn't this mean that women make the man? Which clearly flies in the face of the whole RedPill "don't look for validation from women" philosophy, right? Women have an edge anyway for being women. But there are a lot of low value women by this axiom. If she's freely giving the value it isn't stealing. Women enhance the man, but he has to be a man to get the woman. The woman is look…
/r/askTRP06/01/15 05:26 PM
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behavior... learn it... do it...
/r/askTRP06/01/15 05:23 PM
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Depends on how many times you sleep with them. Past 3 or so.. you should so they don't get the wrong idea. It's also less stress, if they know from you..
/r/askTRP06/01/15 05:22 PM
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Well, maybe then you learn that you're not meant for that person, if there's some irreconcilable difference. I'm not sure that's the case. Sometimes there's just no answer. In our personal case, we have known each other for years and both have a lot of optimism about it lasting, because of all the success we've had with this process. Everything difference has either been reconciled (in most cases) or accepted. We have a few small nonessential things we're still working though and no relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/15 02:53 AM
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Why do you believe this? I completely disagree. Like I said, I see negative emotions as a sign of some underlying thing that's not right. I don't think people operate like this. Not what someone believes things should be and not right are two different things. Sometimes people struggle with the truth. And things are exactly the way they're supposed to be but they have emotional outburst to deal with it. It's especially important for us to do stuff like this because we interpret meaning into acti…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/15 02:28 AM
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Ways to tell include us coming to a verbal agreement, middle-point, or acknowledgement of mutual acceptance; someone actively changing their mind; or, a settling or "nothing else to talk about" on the topic while on amicable terms. Then only time can tell if the underlying problem is actually resolved -- if the subject of the problem doesn't cause issues again. Lots of the time it doesn't and we incorporate little changes into how we interact and all is well. Sometimes it does cause issues again…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/15 02:07 AM
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Hey, I want to improve my success with girls and improve the general happiness of my life. Two separate struggles in life. They can't intertwine. So anyway, later that year I started university, and got a bit happier. However apart from one night stands here and there, which most of are just pot luck. (I'm often told I'm good looking, and none of the one night stands I've had can I attribute to my own game). However at uni, being one of the better looking guys I feel like I am getting nowhere ne…
/r/seduction04/01/15 07:40 PM
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Women do want to solve problems but they do like having problems around that they think are worth solving. That's cool, I like that too. When I argue with my girlfriend we always work toward some kind of resolution. Admirable. How do you know the problem is actually resolved? Sometimes she wants to put her thinking cap on and try to strategize for ways to solve her problems. Then we bounce ideas off each other. She's gotten really good at being literal about which one she wants, sometimes it shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/15 02:37 AM
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Men and women have emotional problems. "Fixing" an emotion involves finding the source(s) of the problem and addressing that/them. This is the case with everyone: if someone is upset then that's an emotion they want to fix, and emotions are triggers that something is not right. It's not about sources when it's a emotional, it's actually about the emotion. Some people react non-emotionally to problems that are more material in nature -- my emotions are unchanged but I gained 20 pounds. Okay, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/15 12:41 AM
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I have friends who complain about their bf's. If you actually offer advice like break up or alter your behavior, they take offense. They just want you so they can vent. Yes if you offer before they've asked. Because they know the issues in their own relationships. They know how to solve the problems. They don't want to because love. Because comfort. Because laziness. Because excitement. Because #dicktoobomb. Who knows. People stay in crazy for loads of reasons. Knowing the issues and solving the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/15 04:20 PM
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These are good principles to live by. However, his strategy to get with the women is terrible. He should be giving them reasons to "break" their relationship based on their desires. Listening to their problems can work, but he must use that information to paint a clear picture that he is what they want. Or he must escalate the conversation into something that allows her talk about her fantasies and dreams. Sometimes talking about a previous relationship, or even current one, is her giving a play…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/15 01:23 PM
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Sometimes people communicate desire or affinity through complaints. Women do it often when they're emotional, as women crave emotion, so really any emotion is desirable. He explains it very well in the video. How ladies will complain about their bfs, and then go fuck them later. The reason she won't "take" advice is because she doesn't want to the feeling to change. She doesn't actually want to fix it, she's really struggling with how his activity doesn't fit her view but it still makes her feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/15 05:19 AM
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children
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/15 05:09 AM
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Women want advice when they ask for it. The mistake men make is they think complaining means that a woman doesn't like something. In fact, it means the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/15 03:28 AM
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Depends how long the relationships was. In general, it's hard to plate an ex. Once you start having sex it will back to where you before in no time. If you don't like that place, then don't bother.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 01:16 AM
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Why are you listening to her so much?
/r/askTRP02/01/15 12:18 AM
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typical
/r/askTRP02/01/15 12:12 AM
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meet them stop thinking about. It's not a mindfuck, it's you caring too much about things you can not change.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 12:04 AM
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You have to decide that you deserve the things you have. These problems also have to do with you not directing the relationship anywhere. If the relationship doesn't have a direction, it will die eventually.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 12:02 AM
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if it gets you out there taking risks, it did it's job.
/r/seduction31/12/14 04:30 PM
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Once I made no difference between men and women who enjoyed lots of casual sex. I find this illogical, since women have the highest set of consequences for sex. Something like subconsciously considering them intrinsically less valuable, damaged, or shittier people. Where in Red Pill does a person that willfully sleeps with several people make her intrinsically shittier? I don't logically find any of this true and I know it's not a "natural" reaction because it wasn't there before. Has this happe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/14 02:11 AM
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It is true that women are likely to prioritize their emotions, but inferior and stupid are kind of taking it little far. But I'm also not sure wanting spend a lot of time with inferior people makes anyone feel better. RP is better because it empowers men to go into the world of women and know that they do not have to supplicate in order to sleep with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/14 12:56 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/14 11:09 PM
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The strategy is about improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/14 10:13 PM
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In this case it's about proof. If they were both drinking and they pass out and one person has sex with another, it's really hard to say that there was rape there. Unless there's evidence of some altercation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/14 05:13 PM
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cool just make her earn your sweetness.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 06:39 AM
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Most things girls say are meaningless in the beginning. You have to ask "yourself are you escalating or not?"
/r/seduction27/12/14 09:00 PM
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Tell her you don't have time to deal with her nonsense., and II she truly believes that you're sleeping with your ex-wife she shouldn't hesitate to leave.
/r/askTRP25/12/14 06:29 PM
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Your problem is you're trying to convince her with logic, versus meeting her emotionally. So you say something like, "How did hearing that from XYZ make you feel?" "If that is true would you want to be with me?" What ever she says agree. And then ask her, " You are welcome to leave if my past is that troubling. ". "If I heard that story I'd be upset as well, it's just terrible you had to hear it from some one else. If stories of my past bother you that much you are welcome to leave. " The end. S…
/r/askTRP25/12/14 06:27 PM
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What was the basis for the debilitating alimony?
/r/askTRP23/12/14 08:23 PM
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interesting. Did she have an income?
/r/askTRP23/12/14 04:35 PM
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It's mostly mental. People underestimate how important the mental is for sex. Humans are pretty amazing at some things. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 03:24 PM
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Women go through bleeding every month, some women even experience headaches so severe that they can be bed-ridden, although most colleges and jobs won't take periods as an excuse to not show up. That's because it's a very important process. If women aren't taken care of we don't have civilization. In some countries, women work in fields have babies and keep on working. It's not impossible to deal with. In some cultures we make it a bigger deal than it is, but it is palpable a challenge nonethele…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 02:59 PM
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As contributors to society and in terms of the value of their lives, yes, men and women are equal. How do you figure this? Women have plenty of privileges in society just because of child birth. In fact, only women can create a society in the first place. You guys cant handle the pain of child birth and can never experience giving life to the world, so women are physically superior If pain is requirement for physical superiority, then you'd be wrong. Men regularly practice painful activities as …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 02:47 PM
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I thought you were doing it tongue in cheek anyway. Personally i'd like a woman that's willing to hit me like that, as long as I could hit her back. I like women to fight back a little bit. but only in private. Just running over a woman isn't terribly fun. haha Its funny you think i think lowly of men for using the same rhetoric TRP You realize this is a paradox? The whole point of RP is to ensure that a woman values the man. Do you think women and men are equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 02:40 PM
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I added one. IMO, you think so lowly of men, that BP wouldn't suit you. You sound more like a woman with a black heart, and thus Black Pill would be be better for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 02:20 PM
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Without kids she won't get much in terms of alimony. If you signed for the loans, I have no idea how you'll get out of them. Talk to a lawyer.
/r/askTRP23/12/14 02:18 PM
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haha I think you should be a Black Pill woman.. not a Blue Pill woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 02:10 PM
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LOL. Were those doctors/sex therapists male, perchance? Penises need to be large enough to properly stimulate, that's just basic anatomy. Not really. Humans are different form animals in that they can eroticize any part of their bodies mentally. In other words, if she can be mentally stimulated she can be erotically simulated. I've read this many times though by different people. Sexual feeling isn't basic anatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 07:13 AM
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Cultures in the east made foot binding cultural. Marital rape would just be icing. It's not like she's going to go any where. These were also times when you dowry was literal requirement for a woman, and for good reason. It would be nice to be entitled to sex with a wife by law. But seriously who's going to want to go through that all the time. Give me a break. The responsibility would be so much, not really ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 05:35 AM
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There's a big misunderstanding of sex in the western world. You do not need a large penis to enjoy sex with a partner. In fact, some doctors/sex therapist say 2in is enough. (I know women will disagree). Human mind is very powerful. A man's phallus isn't everything. Men have different place in life because we can't have children. We just aren't really equal. When it comes to criminal activity I think society shoudl care more about men, but I don't know that it's priority to care about men in gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 05:15 AM
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Why is it such a turn off to be put on a pedestal, even if the guy is GENUINE, doesn't do it just for your body, but for your body, your heart & soul, and intelligence? Well, this is totally true. All people want to be acknowledged for their true value. There's a catch, they have to also believe it. Most people deep down know they're no better than anyone else, so putting someone on a pedestal forces someone to question the sincerity of the person. If girls swooned over me and put me on a pedest…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 04:54 AM
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It would be tough for to not throw a drink back at her. responses I like... "Do you think this was funny?" Eye contact "Now, you owe me a drink." Eye contact ... then to the Bartender.."I need XYZ, and she's paying. " Chances of this are slim, besides you can get thrown out of a bar for something like this.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 02:55 PM
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I think you were a little harsh. Your expectations are little off too. She's not going to be totally honest, and she's not going to be totally loyal either. Asking her to be that would be like asking her to be man. I like to the whole find someone else bit. But I think your logic is a little off. Testing you doesn't mean she has another guy lined up, it can mean she's thinking about another guy as well, or she just met someone. Missing someone is part of being with someone, especially someone at…
/r/askTRP22/12/14 08:27 AM
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Divorce rate isn't that high. Especially if you graduate college. It's time to fuck and meet women. Marriage/kids will happen later should it present itself.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 08:02 AM
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You mean would I stay with her? As long we're cool with fucking other people. I'm not going to be delusional enough to think that she's not going to fuck this dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 07:53 AM
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These comments talk more about her preferences. I'm kind of needy I guess, because if a guy is genuinely nice to me, I'll immediately get a crush on him. It's really that easy. She likes the feeling of someone being genuine. RP has different perspective on this, but the idea is the same. She feels something when someone can see her beyond her mask, or bullshit and connect with her. I actually like when a guy has some insecurities. Not to the point of being crippled by them, but I find it really …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 07:43 AM
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freezing up.. not talking to anyone at all
/r/seduction21/12/14 03:27 PM
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know what you want, know who you are and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP20/12/14 08:42 PM
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have women been passed up before? had it not been written i'd never know this even happened
/r/MensRights20/12/14 01:00 AM
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You're deluding yourself by presupposing confidence. Confidence is just courage personified. So, instead of saying to yourself "I x.." Say, "I'm open to anything that will happen, and still i'm going to to X". X must be an action You must accept that mistakes, failure, and bad things I will happen. What you must know, and believe is that you will handle them as they come. That's confidence.
/r/seduction20/12/14 12:24 AM
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I read it.. It sounds like a person desiring things that are already largely available to them. Afraid? Why would i be afraid?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/14 06:39 PM
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I leave you ladies and gents with these topics to see what you think of these ideas. Are relationships becoming more one-sided in their dynamics? I think RP over estimates decline here. However, I think that it's a requirement for men to remember to be men in relationships. Is marriage no longer as good of an idea as it once was? Marriage is a great idea if done for the right reasons. If you care about a family, building it through marriage is the best way. Has the nuclear family eroded, and if …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/14 04:25 PM
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Male birth control: This could really level the playing field as far as unwanted pregnancies, abortion rights, child support, etc. Men could really use an easy, accessible way to control their reproductive destinies, as women presently enjoy in a number of forms. It would also make some of the MRA complaints irrelevant, and encourage more responsibility on the part of men when they do choose to make a child. Personally, I would show much less sympathy for a dude complaining about child support, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/14 03:21 PM
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I always hear RP men argue that women are naturally "hypergamous" and that even someone like Oprah is not happy being the "breadwinner" in her 20-year relationship with her beau Stedman. Happy? A woman that has been raped and had tumultuous time with men is a terrible example. So I guess Oprah is not happy but Martha Stewart is? I think there's some solace in knowing exactly where you fit in, but who's knows who's happy. How willing are RP men to be the primary homemaker and childrearer for thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/14 04:46 AM
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Beta bux=a guy is willing use his money to woo and keep his woman Alpha fux= is the guy who is going to engage her emotions directly, to sleep with her. You might say her core beliefs. Social capital is more like an approval rating. SMV can come in many forms, but mostly it's people giving a guy value for something that he's done, is, or behaves like/has behaved. For example, commanding a room. If a man can command a room of people that's instant social value, and the amount of money you have wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/14 04:35 AM
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whichever woman you marry will be equal in physical attractiveness to you. The hottest women will marry the hottest guys, the ugliest women will marry the ugliest guys, and everyone else will marry everyone else. This is ludicrous. ;) People wouldn't marry solely for looks. In this type of setup people would be more likely to marry for wealth, or love. Considering their partner count would have to be very low. I wouldn't live in because I feel like forcing people to choose longevity of a relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 03:38 PM
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Does it follow logically that if pick-up art works, and works well when correctly done, then the idea that "all women are like that" is given credence? If it worked for all women it would be science. It's called art for reason. In other words, it is obvious the nuances of individuals make them unique, but if a pick-up plan can be used effectively on the vast majority of women, does it not follow that AWALT is a reasonable attitude in TRP? It can be reasonable provided you talk about the effectiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 03:24 PM
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Yes they do. Just like hot girls. They both have trouble keeping guys/girls as well. There isn't one look that works for everyone. You're just fighting the fact that women care more about passion, and love than looks. It's true. A guy that can make a woman feel those feelings is valuable, and looks won't stand a chance if the feelings are strong enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 03:00 AM
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understood, convincing is in the practice..So i'd have to show you to make you a believer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 09:22 PM
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I honestly believe that if you don't prioritize looks with women (as it seems like you don't) you're a bit of an outlier. Most men do. I guess that makes dating a little easier for you. It's just experience. But honestly, even most men on TRP advocate women do care about looks. Women don't think about looks the way men do. Women looked at looks the way men did, every man would be metro. Women think differently about looks because they have so much more choice than men. So they tend to be more di…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 08:20 PM
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Okay, then I know you probably say you don't like obese women but I see plenty of them with skinny boyfriends so any man who doesn't like obese women is probably just saying that. Confidence matters! (ie: the whole philosophy of HAES, with no basis in reality) I wouldn't say that. Personally, I like good pussy. Frankly, very attractive women don't always have the best pussy. HAES? Confidence is part of pickup but not everything. You can't really create your own rules and then brand them as gospe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 07:52 PM
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So you don't think there is any biological imperative for men to prefer smooth skin and smaller waists, or any biological imperative for women to prefer men who are taller/stronger than them? No.. Not at all.. People will prefer their parents features first. Then they prefer themselves. So this can't really be correct.. You could say that someone person might have good mixture of all common features, but still once you start having sex things change. You can go deep into theory. Some people say …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 07:42 PM
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How does that prove anything? It means the numbers are so low for interactions people consider togetherness is mostly random. I'm not trying to be snarky, but you obviously prefer women who look a certain way, so how is it so unbelievable that women do too? Because women prioritize their feelings, in most cases. Me personally I like a wide range of women. Because I know that from looking at lady you can not tell how good her pussy will be. There are biological imperatives for physical preference…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 07:31 PM
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Attractiveness doesn't really work like that. Even at the best a person is probably only attractive 25% of people. And sleeping with 30 people in a life time is ultra high. So clearly, the numbers are so low attractiveness is close to random. But what I'm saying is that people are attracted more to behavior than looks. So that should always be a focus, at any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 07:20 PM
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Unless you pick up women, you wouldn't know. Every woman says this but if a guy can make her feel a certain way and their friends approve, things change.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 07:10 PM
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Yes that's what matters.. Attractiveness is about targets unless you're a celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 06:53 PM
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You can become less attractive. Take out the "hit the wall" term if it causes confusion. Less attractive to whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 06:42 PM
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Only for men? Or also for women? I guess you're Purple from the flair, but I'm not sure how you stand on this issue. Technically it's both. It's very specific. There's a lot science behind and RP touches on some of it. Of all the pills RP is the only one that has some structure. I'm very red. But not a red militant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 06:31 PM
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So denial. Ok. Behavioral cues are what drive relationships. If you look into science of behavioral cues, you'll understand why your question doesn't really have any answer. You can't hit a wall. It doesn't exist. You may be trying to explain something differently from what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 06:15 PM
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It's when you consistently look less attractive than you did some unit of time before. Doesn't matter. SMV is about behavior. RP is mostly about behavior, no one can really change their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 06:04 PM
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"people can't change what they're attracted to, and you shouldn't judge them based on that". People will change on their own. Time and experience will change people's preference. , right now it's obvious (especially among men) that big = good, This isn't' true. Really depends on the lady. And the ability of the mate. So do you think the media should engage in some sort of campaign to change people's preferences in order to make things more... No i think they should encourage people to try things…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 05:40 PM
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When you hit your wall? you mean die.. This question doesn't really make a lot sense. SMV isn't a real value, it isn't even measured by anything objective. It's just away of recognizing the effect of a person's behavior. So in effect, there's in no wall, there's just endless improving of behavior, or exiting relationship that fail to garner the desired behavioral cues. Regardless, multiple philosophies will always be employed over time, life and experience have a way of shaping the way we behave…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/14 05:25 PM
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Confident as in confident in myself. The problem is that this is impossible. There's always more world than we've known. However we can be courageous. Easier said than done. It's hard to make a move. Now the anxiety is more like performance anxiety, or boredom. I'm not sure, but I really can't get over it. Don't get over it. Feel it, accept it, and make a move anyway. That's what courage is all about.
/r/seduction15/12/14 03:21 PM
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Usually, I'm a very confident guy, in every aspect of my life. How? Do you mean courageous? I think you should just have more sex, and not concern yourself with the outcome. Experiment and explore..
/r/seduction15/12/14 02:50 PM
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Understood but I think walking out repeatedly will make her uneasy. Better to break it completely, or figure out her actual goal. If you've made it clear about marriage and she's developing feelings the stonewall on remarriage could be a challenge for her. Idk... Personally, I feel like it's a little harsh to walk out on that situation. I'd look for different ways of dealing with the situation.
/r/askTRP14/12/14 08:11 PM
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I have a gut feeling this is going to flame out..or already has. are you kidding? flame out.. You're approaching the 2 year mark.. This is the time that she's going to care about a real commitment.. I think I did the right thing by walking.. what to do now? Wait you walked out on her cause she didn't' sleep with you for two days? What are you doing?
/r/askTRP14/12/14 07:04 PM
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I'd run with it.. It's not my style., the logic make sense though..maybe add some personalized thing like "saw that dress, or ear ring, or something"...The thing is ladies spend so much time trying to get dressed for a club, and commenting something other than their sluttiness (ironic) is instant rapport usually. I'd also add some kind of all to action (i.e. let's dance, let's move over there, etc.) Since you're in a club you can get away with it.. I happen to like to dance in clubs, I'm not sur…
/r/seduction14/12/14 03:30 PM
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That's fine.. I would cut down the words. It's reads very wordy, IMO. What's supposed to happen after that? She says hi back?
/r/seduction14/12/14 02:26 PM
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go cities where they have a lot of coffee shops.. Or go to Europe there are espressos machines in bars. Or offer sex after espresso.
/r/askTRP14/12/14 07:00 AM
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Find a few companies you want to work for and go talk to them. Go talk to career services at your school. Your school benefits when you do well, so use them.
/r/askTRP14/12/14 06:49 AM
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You've been fucking her for year. How long do you plan on keeping this up?
/r/askTRP14/12/14 06:33 AM
1

What's your normal opener?
/r/seduction14/12/14 06:19 AM
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Are there quiet areas, or what? Clubs are loud because it's a reason to get close to people. As long as you past the eye test girls aren't really going to care. You just have to be straight to the point with your opener. If you can dance even better.. But keep in mind Clubs can be very superficial, club game is different from normal day game. There are quiet places in clubs though.
/r/seduction14/12/14 06:04 AM
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In the beginning best to go out with someone.. if you don't have anyone.. do what you must.. As long as you smile you won't get harsh blow off most of the time. Easier than you think to get a conversation started.. That's the first step..
/r/seduction14/12/14 12:23 AM
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This is fine.. and your goals are good.. focusing on conversation is the key to getting better at cold walkups.. But keep in mind you don't have to just talk to girls.. Talk to guys too to make friends.. Another way to go is to pick a place you can go to regularly, and get comfortable with the staff. If the staff thinks you're not a creep, it's easier to pickup a target.
/r/seduction13/12/14 08:24 PM
1

I hate this stupid ad. A violent organization can't be advocate against domestic violence, it just doesn't make sense. So do women have agency? Of course. Domestic violence is usually breakdown on the ability to solve problems in a relationship. It will always be a problem, but when incidents occur the people should not be verbally abused by a self righteous commercial to go talk or seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 05:22 PM
1

48 laws of power is good group of stories and guidelines, but it's pretty limited on how power is gained.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 05:12 PM
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I don't know how to be a man in a relationship. My girl tells me that I'm too sensitive and she wants me to be the man. I don't know what she means. Guess what, she doesn't' know either. She tells me to do things, and I do them. I'm not trying to be whipped, or anything. But when I do something that she doesn't like, she gets upset easily. We haven't had sex yet, or bj or nothing. Do you tell her to do anything? Is she really upset or does she just want you to "convince" her do something. Are yo…
/r/seduction11/12/14 02:57 PM
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It happens.. it's not really good though, depending on the length of relationship. .. If the guy is good to her, she will just go back to the guy. If the guys is terrible to her then you have to questions whether you should be with her at all. If you do it, IMO, take your time before you're official. Usually, half the time the relationship lasted. Then again you may just like women that are unattainable, you may feel safer that way.
/r/seduction10/12/14 02:29 AM
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Many attractive ladies know they have power over men, and women will compete with them. So it's relaxing to hang around guys that aren't going to go to far without your consent. If you hung out with dudes that pride themselves on fucking as many chicks as possible then you'd be consider a ho, or hoodrat. Regardless, of the what your'e really doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/14 04:35 AM
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Shoulder is usually the easiest... To be non-creepy you look for compliance through what you say.. and how she looks at you. I'd always start with the shoulder while talking... As long as you aren't touching her ass, face, or tits. It's unlikely to be creepy. Contrary to popular belief looking directly in the eyes is more important than kino, and if you can do this first kino is easy.
/r/seduction08/12/14 05:46 PM
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She's probably attractive. Depends on the types of guys she hangs out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/14 03:03 PM
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that's awesome.. smart boss...
/r/PussyPass08/12/14 03:00 PM
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never ever.. haha .. they are automatically non-liars..Maybe these people should watch the show Snapped.
/r/MensRights07/12/14 02:43 AM
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Do some light exercise, preferably weights, a couple of days before the date. Then don't focus on the out come but be prepared. So have everything ready as if you were going to have sex with her. But do not worry whether you have sex or not. Just be in the moment.
/r/seduction06/12/14 03:54 PM
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He literally will not explain a situation even when he's supposed to be helping you, regardless of what you ask. His wife said he 'refuses to take responsibility for anything'. Not explaining and not taking responsibility are not the same thing. IMO, a real leader doesn't have take responsibility as long as he plots a course for improvement. Responsibility of an even is a bit transient, but responsibility for the direction is the most important. Yet she is clearly several points above him in the…
/r/askTRP06/12/14 03:14 PM
1

nothing to do..happy or wear baggier pants..
/r/askTRP04/12/14 06:40 PM
2

She is actually willing to do anything I ask of her. From errands, to shopping, to clerical work, to legal work. She is very happy to assist me with anything I ask of her. She actually makes my life much easier. She will basically drive 45 minutes to bring me a couple gallons of juice for my smoothies, and then hang out and smoke some weed with me. You'd ask her to drive 45 minutes for smoothies? Making your life easier is the job of maid or hired help. If you're truly talking about marriage it'…
/r/askTRP04/12/14 02:01 PM
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I offer to give her $500 that she needs. She accepts. No questions asked. Wtf? Giving money up before sex. Fuck that. We have had discussions about a hypothetical future together. Such as potential children and what their eyes would look like. We have also discussed her moving into my guest bedroom. She lives 45 min away in studio. I live alone in 3BR. This is a bit of red flag a bit too soon for that kind of talk. May signify a rough breakup. Also I have an extra 4WD vehicle for the winter, and…
/r/askTRP04/12/14 07:12 AM
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I'd have her look for options for another job first. Then approach him calmly, and leave room for escalation.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 07:08 AM
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You need to assess why the question is being asked. But I'd be vague Unitl you sleep with her. The face is relationships last as long as they have to, or as long as they are valuable to each other.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 12:37 AM
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Not screwing a girl after touching her and she began to shake.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 11:31 PM
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All she means in the conversation is that she married someone that she's willing to give her body to... She trust and honors his decision about sex. Surely says no sometimes, or unable to sometimes. Communication break downs in marriage are frequently caused by the couple growing apart, even though they are living in the same house. You have this wrong. Communication break down can cause couples to grow apart. But good communication cause couples to grow apart. Communication. Truly what breaks d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/14 06:13 PM
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when are you meeting her?
/r/seduction02/12/14 07:52 AM
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You might be unfamiliar with the limitations of BP/RP. This sub is really about giving people a chance to discuss the differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/14 07:15 AM
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It sounds like she's complaining. This could be a sign of her esteem level, or politeness. The thing is a lot of attractive women can't "get" the men they want because they are just attractive. I'm not sure why you're getting into conversation of dating her, versus just dating her.
/r/askTRP30/11/14 03:25 PM
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A slutty woman is a woman searching for something out side of herself. If she were not inspired, or believed, that something is out there she could not be a slut.
/r/askTRP30/11/14 03:18 PM
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Getting mad at someone for their choices is a waste of energy. Especially with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 08:25 PM
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This is why he deserves the right to vote on Women's issue.
/r/MensRights24/11/14 11:32 PM
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But in the next day, after I send a time to meet and ask her for a phone number, order is wrong...you should have gotten that info first Later on, I asked her if she still wants to know me in the real life, she admits that she is scared to meet a stranger from the Internet( she never did it before), "but why not with me :)"? she's afraid I'll try to set the next appointment when she will be fully recovered. But if she flakes again I'm done with her. don't bother.. get her phone number.. warm her…
/r/askTRP24/11/14 11:15 PM
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With Facebook, this become infinitely easier. Though she probably isn't friends with most of her ONS, he can more easily see that her past boyfriends follow the typical alpha personalities. This is terrible don't do this. Alpha is largely behavior. Like Feminism, RP ideas will penetrate the mainstream. Elements of RP are already mainstream, that's why Feminism exists. RP is borderline racist, and against rape as a crime; it's chance for mainstream with ideas like that are slim to nil. uch as the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 08:27 PM
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Emailed the wrong people. Go higher..preferably an in person visit.. Or go to women's studies professors and bring up the concept of intersexes, and fluidity of Gender. Get them cosign your email to the president and your outrage.
/r/MensRights24/11/14 08:15 PM
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That would be funny shirt to wear at fashion week.
/r/MensRights20/11/14 11:54 PM
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Masturbation is comfort. It takes you out of the real world, and away from your goal. RP at it's core is about being your best you, and presenting your best you. You can't do that if you're running hope jacking off cause you're horny. If you're horny go out out have sex with a lady. If you strike out sit with it the disappointment and grow from it. Or find something else to do, that's not destroying weakening yourself. By doing this, you won't be afraid of failure, and will be willing to take mo…
/r/askTRP17/11/14 06:21 AM
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He should be smarter when doing things in front of wide audiences. A scientist that's not aware of social impact of his actions, isn't that surprising.
/r/MensRights15/11/14 02:58 AM
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You don't need to delete them just put some where you're not going to see them.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 07:12 PM
1

See if she will allow this type of relationship if it's based on a reward of some sort of achievement on his part. Traditional gender roles would be that your son earns your ire, it isn't given simply because he is there.
/r/askTRP10/11/14 07:37 PM
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You don't have a lot choice in this matter. You have to let her go, to show her that you don't approve of her behavior. She can't react favorably to you until she feels loss, the loss will motivate change if she values you, or if it's possible.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 06:22 AM
1

Would you marry a guy that was looking for marriage on his profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 02:55 AM
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To be fair, I don't think I would have gotten the opportunity to "write him off" in the first place because he probably wouldn't have approached me, and I never really approached men myself because I'm shy too. When two people are introverts it can take a verrrry long time to really figure out the personality of the other person. I would never speak in person how I speak online unless I knew the person really well. If someone's first experience of me is something like okcupid where I don't have …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 09:19 PM
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I say safe.. not honest. You don't know someone till you have at least slept with them a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 07:59 PM
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Whoaaa, it isn't justifiable to cheat because of social media, it's easier to rationalize, which is very different. I wish rationalizable was a word.. I guess it is now.. ;) Facebook leading to affairs has supposedly become very common, though I don't have any numbers to say exactly how common. Some how people love Facebook? haha Where as you right off the fact that guy may not be able to build interest in himself, as being permissible. I don't understand your first sentence. I meant to say that…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 07:49 PM
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So online dating has dispelled the fact that what looks good may not feel good? Or does it heighten the value of superficiality?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 07:21 PM
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Where as you right off the fact that guy may not be able to build interest in himself, as being permissible. Then say it's justifiable to cheat because of social media. This is an example of what I'm talking about.. These situations are both sad that the world is coming to this...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 05:46 PM
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Value in general is more time based, than coldly rational. So in a sense, value for sexual partners is similar. The way humans value anything that requires their investment, is in many ways unsolvable without wild uncertainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 04:10 PM
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You can sort through people by whatever preferences you desire (must be ^ tall, Caucasian, etc.) how does this not help people choose a partner better? That is literally what they are doing. If you're really attractive you will just end up with more hits than you would in the normal world. The amount of responses would prove more difficulty. Unless you mean partner In terms exclusive LTR status. Then I would agree. Of course..yep..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 02:08 PM
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. Take a trip of r/okcupid and see people's stories of fixing their profiles after a critique and instantly get their first message in 2 years. lel 2yrs, is along time.. I've seen the sub. But I think perfecting your profile is a bunch of crap. That sub is a bunch of complainers. Thre's portion of people have very little experience with opposite sex so they fail, regardless of their profile. Or they are overly optimistic, or critical. In real dating, meeting people on the street, etc., no one is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 02:05 PM
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I don't think that's true. I think it makes it easier for average guys and women to get more lays with less effort. If people are attractive in person they will have more success on social media, but social media won't help them choose a partner any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/14 01:43 PM
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just slay and be honest.. best pussy comes at the hands of the truth.. well.. ambiguity counts as truth in this game ;)
/r/askTRP16/10/14 01:30 AM
3

That's what's supposed to happen.. This is why many PUA's end up married. It's just something you have to go through.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 04:51 AM
2

I'm not following. Why can't you do it again with someone else?
/r/askTRP15/10/14 02:51 AM
1

I think that's kind of clever.. but he needed a joke on there or something not just his number. So he basically found out that she's not a cheap hooker. Great job !
/r/seduction13/10/14 01:40 PM
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Reality is she's probably an awesome girl. But you aren't with her now. So be it.. If you want her back stop watching her have a great time, and have a great time yourself. Fuck someone else, hang out yourself. If you guys are going to meet again it will happen, if not you'll meet someone else. Whatever happens being miserable won't solve anything. Enjoy your life.
/r/seduction27/09/14 11:27 PM
1

How can being nice scare someone? Shouldn’t she be scared if I was an axe murderer or hid bodies in the trunk of my car? Being nice puts expectations on her if she hasn't earned them. She's not really afraid of you, she's afraid of what you want her to be because you're nice. It was a polite way of a woman telling me that I lacked personal boundaries, I went above and beyond to please them, while not giving myself what I needed as a man. That is repulsive to women. It's not the nice part, it's t…
/r/seduction15/09/14 02:09 PM
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SMV of myself is about 8 / 8.5 She is about a 7 haha.. Seriously? You realize these numbers are arbitrary and pointless? I fucked up about 12 months ago and 'opened up to her' about the stresses of my career and cried in front of her for the first time (epic fucking fail). AOK as long you come with plan afterwards..You can't put that on her, it's too much weight for her.. She's become alot more ambiguously demanding. Examples of this is "im not putting in my fair share of the relationship" blah …
/r/askTRP05/09/14 05:44 PM
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Well in this case they were hacked, so they are definitely victims.. But I don't care what anyone says, leaked dick pics would not have this kind of frenzy.
/r/PussyPass05/09/14 06:26 AM
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I think it depends. IMO, if you're truly an RP man you shouldn't be masturbating. If at all very rarely. I think for women it just depends on their comfort level. I think women are slow to masturbate because it's not really accepted for women to view porn or be terribly sexual. However, think once women do masturbate they probably masturbate just as much or more. Only because it's less messy. And I don't' think masturbation has an effect on their ability to pull men as it does for pulling women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/14 03:43 PM
1

Smart. You have to learn on the hard knocks, RP should be used as reference and passing the time in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/14 08:57 PM
1

Well I didn't read it all but I'd say those things we're taught earlier are all conditional. They have their purpose, and they can work for people, but those ideologies leave few alternatives when things do not go as planned. I personally think MGTOWs are like monks without a search for enlightenment. I don't know if reading is a good starting point for RP. I think you need to go out meet girls and try to sleep with them. First with money, second without and see how you fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/14 06:47 PM
1

All depends on if you think all women are slutty? There are sluts, promiscuous women that you make plates if you like, and there are pious low count women that you can make more with.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 04:09 PM
1

I think the response is to laugh. It's satire.
/r/MensRights01/09/14 08:03 PM
0

I don't think it's men that have a problem with naked women. I think it's women that do not look as good as certain naked women, or monogamous couples keeping eyes from staying.
/r/MensRights01/09/14 07:46 PM
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I believe this and think that spiritual journey is important. You got me then, this will increase your attractiveness as well. Phrasing it like that makes it seem shallow. Really though, I want to date and be with hotter, more interesting, together and emotionally stable girls. I could describe some girls in my past who I felt have fit that criteria, but I think that is too personal. Be honest with yourself. You want to bang hotter chicks. It's not shallow to want to bang hotter women. It is wha…
/r/seduction01/09/14 05:05 AM
1

As for the broader question of purpose, I don't think I'll save the world, but I do know things that are important to me, like being a "good" father/husband, as well as being an active member in my community. I think about these things fairly frequently and am already an active member/leader in the communities in which I associate myself. I don't expect you tell me, cause it's deeply personal. In the end, it should be something that is bigger than yourself that you're apart of or on a path too. …
/r/seduction01/09/14 04:27 AM
1

I like the sentiment about learning who you are through challenges. Thanks, the fact is most people won't even bother. I clean every Sunday, go to the gym three times a week and track calories/macronutrients, am in graduate school with clear career goals. 3 times a week and you track calories? Are you heavy individual or are you tracking calories for a reason? , am in graduate school with clear career goals. That's not really a purpose. The purpose needs to be bigger than just going to grad scho…
/r/seduction01/09/14 04:02 AM
1

pulling the most attractive, well-rounded girls. This will only be done by trial and error. I'm thinking more of a personal development roadmap for being the best version of yourself You learn about who you are and you do this through challenging yourself, and stepping outside of your comfort zone. As far as your look, pick someone to model yourself after. If you cant' find someone there plenty of book on fashion and grooming to grab. Keep your house/apartment clean. Get fit... Find some purpose…
/r/seduction01/09/14 03:25 AM
1

I think that if female breadwinner wants is with an RP in a marriage, then she expects him to be RP. Making money isn't be and end all of being an Alpha male, you can be an alpha male if you make nothing at all, but you must be directed on much larger than oneself, and she is a passenger or partner. There are a lot of ways to be rich, money is only one way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/14 12:30 AM
1

Sure ... She needs to play a position.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 03:07 AM
1

Yeah that could be why she said no...
/r/askTRP30/08/14 12:01 AM
1

If you're so fucked how do you even know? I think your're thinking too many steps ahead, just call her and meet her for some coffee or something. See where you can take it..
/r/askTRP29/08/14 11:00 PM
3

make friends study hard
/r/seduction29/08/14 10:34 PM
0

I like the hyperbole.. 7 more to bed..
/r/seduction29/08/14 09:53 PM
1

I'm impressed..I wouldn't think this would work.. But I like it...
/r/seduction29/08/14 05:30 PM
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So, all that said, how is a woman supposed to lower her standards without riding the cock carousel? Other than, at the age of 18, choosing the least attractive man she can find and marrying him immediately. This is a good point. However, women are usually looking for a good fit that's' socially, physically, and sexually. So if a girl is riding the Cock Carousel how is she able to do so without getting her heart broken a few times? Does she have bad judgement or is she just a horrible person? Is …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 05:08 PM
1

I don't know who Anthony Bourdain is, but it was mostly just a joke. Funny dude..Lot's of gems in his shows... But there is, in my opinion, a very big and relevant step between having an interest in food and identifying as a foodie. Maybe, I haven't thought about it much. haha
/r/askTRP28/08/14 01:27 AM
1

I wouldn't call Anthony Bourdain a woman, so sorry no.. Some like food.. and adventures.. Nothing wrong with that.. It's hard to put a lot of stock in what people chronicle as memories on social media, because it's hard to tell whether something is posturing or earnest.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 11:02 PM
1

For instance I've started approaching girls and, while I'll always go for the number, I won't always text because I didn't find them that desirable after talking with them. Something like that, but the reason is the most important. You should get better so that in the conversation you don't even bother asking for the number, so you just sort her away. Frankly I wouldn't text girls you meet on the street, just call them. Is this sort of what you're talking about? Something like that, it's a compl…
/r/seduction27/08/14 08:46 PM
2

I think there's another term for it.. I forget though.. It's a matter of determining the girls you go after, and what your success rate will be not base don looks. For example, if a lady is ultra hot but enthralled in a deep conversation with her friends, and you choose not to approach her, you haven't lost anything. If you get a number from a girl, but you find out she's otherwise occupied, so you decide not to call some other chick. You haven't lost on the girl that's occupied. Or as you talk …
/r/seduction27/08/14 07:40 PM
1

Overtime I hope you graduate to sorting as well as approaching. Good deal.
/r/seduction27/08/14 07:23 PM
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or a foodie
/r/askTRP27/08/14 04:10 PM
1

I do but we were talking about discussing HSV among reddit users wanting to know about HSV1 and HSV2. They do not care about the that HSV1 and HSV2 share 50% of their DNA so therefore there are technically differences between the strains. For the average person HSV1 and HSV2 are pretty much identical. They both infect orally and genitally. They both produce the same sores and symptoms. In fact they are so similar that antibodies for HSV1 help protect against HSV2. So you're my post to describe i…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 01:31 PM
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What are the multitude of differences between HSV1 and HSV2? I can only think of site of preferences as being the difference between the two strains. Do you know what vernacular means? Actually you did. When I said doctors don't know everything I wasn't referring to them using shedding vs sloughing. It was in response your doctors claim on the effectiveness of showering after sex to limit transmission of HSV. And it was pretty clear by the way my comment was formatted. I never said shower, I sai…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 10:31 AM
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My first comment was to correct you for correcting OP when he said there are two strains and you said there were several. I think it's important to point out facts about HSV and not continue myths or help muddy the waters. When talking about medical issues one should try to be clear and should try to provide accurate details. Describing 2 strains doesn't describe the multitude of differences, saying multiple gives impression that I wanted with out being technical. Wow thanks for taking my commen…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 05:21 AM
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Most people know there are two strains, a couple. You're making an assumption about people, and you're contesting the use of vernacular to prove what? Oh ya I forgot doctors never get things wrong. They do and often doctors know very little about the specifics of HSV unless it's their speciality. I don't think using synonym makes a doctor wrong. I've heard both terms, but usually older doctors use sloughing. More research needs to be done, but it’s possible that washing with regular soap and wat…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 04:04 AM
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I commented because you said several strains. No there are TWO. What would a layman say? It can be killed by soap but there are no studies that show washing and taking as shower will help lower transmission. That means washing your genitals with soap after fucking. A doctor specifically told me this actually. Apparently, herpes can not survive on the top the skin very long. I find a it little bit hard to believe that no study was done to test this idea. I know that sloughing and shedding mean th…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 03:34 AM
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There are two strains HSV1 and HSV2. There are mutations and recombinants of though of HSV1. Why did you post this? HSV has the ability to infect any skin on the body. Ever heard of herpes whitlow? That's infection of the fingers. Herpes gladiatorum is usually caused by wresting and it can occur on the torso, forehead and neck. Genital herpes outbreaks can occur anywhere in the genital area, any skin that is usually covered by boxers. HSV can even occur internally on the cervix or inside the pen…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 03:11 AM
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Its NOT true that one virus causes genital and one causes lip sores. Each virus is more likely to cause sores in certain spots, but not exclusively in one spot. There are several strains.. I've been through the same thing.. Your doctor can't even tell the difference without a blood test. It gets more complex than webmd, as it won't infect certain skin tissues. Whatever.. chances of spreading without a breakout are indeed smaller, but still possible. I encourage you to do a little more research o…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 02:29 AM
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-How did I get it? Had sex with a girl WITH A CONDOM. But guess what? you can get it while wearing a condom and you can get it via oral sex. and I got a real nice BJ before the sex too :) But basically I had some shitty luck. I wore protection but still got sores a week later. You got sores where you had the condom? You get sores in your genital area caused by the same damn virus and suddenly "zomfg he's infected! run for the fuckin hills!!!!" It's actually a different virus. I don't see any way…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 01:44 AM
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It's required to have death in dismemberment insurance with auto insurance in some states. Life insurance for individuals, i'd say people that own property or have children will. But I have no idea what the percentages are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/14 01:18 AM
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I at like I don't care at all This requires action. You're thinking passively, you must think actively, or assertively.. Less women notice me in public and even less are inclined to continue conversation. How do they react to your approaches?
/r/askTRP27/08/14 01:03 AM
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The "strong man willing to face danger" doesn't really exist in western society outside of romance novels and romcom films Untrue. Sir sorry. There's reason women fawn over strong men, fit, dangerous, or uniformed men. They is reason why RP teaches about the ways that women test men as well. Women's behavior is consequence or residual, to use your terminology, male archetypes in grained in culture. They definitely exist. The archetypes of men haven't changed thousands of years. All of them relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/14 12:53 AM
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Not outside of certain surrendered wife movements, such as RPW. Unfortunately this is untrue. The concept of a strong man willing to face danger, even if that is an unpredictable woman, is ingrained in culture. A man's value is heavily determined by his ability secure a future in the world. Our world is different, but we are more similar than different from years ago. After all, staying out if the workforce to raise children if far to much of a financial risk to be viable these days. I'm not tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/14 12:38 AM
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Actually thousands of years ago.. But still relevant today.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/14 01:21 PM
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sure.. less guilt the earlier you tell her what your intentions are.. Some will leave, but the ones that stay are a ball of fun.
/r/seduction25/08/14 07:33 PM
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It could also be her feels about our changing dynamics as I refuse to get into arguments with her about anything and I stand up for myself better now. No arguments at all.. How can you live like that? This got me wondering though, what does a woman mean when she talks about 'emotional support'. It means she wants to feels something heavy, or serious between the two of you. Your job is to find out why. My wife claims it's physical affection, asking about her day and what she's doing, cheering her…
/r/askTRP25/08/14 05:45 PM
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Happiness in the first 2 years.. Is happenstance, it's not real.. Happiness after 2 years is successful balancing of needs and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/14 03:01 PM
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Men attain more value in society through feats of strength, tending towards death, and securing life. (Money, war, political power, etc.) However, women gain the most value by cultivating and raising a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/14 02:45 PM
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To be clear, I personally believe in disclosure. I would never want to date a guy who had some involvement in any hate group, or had been in prison, for example, so I'd have to trust in disclosure. I think you might be too judgmental. However, there seems to be some belief in redpill communities that women should disclose their amount of partners, but why would they? No worries they won't.. Why should they be more morally responsible than the redpillers they are dating? You bring up a good point…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/14 02:33 PM
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Why the hurry? Being honest upfront, as you should be because if you're not it's not spinning plates, but cheating, and letting her take the decision herself is pretty obvious here. Well, I can tell what she's doing, and she's in that fragile state where you can really mess up a lady. I'm not an advocate of that.. OP doesn't sound like he wants to spin plates anyway, but already feels like a Yep that's why I put it out there. On top I'll assume he is pretty young maybe even a teen. Yep young or …
/r/askTRP24/08/14 09:08 PM
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She's looking for security. This type of lady is very delicate. If you want to spin plates and all this I'd drop this girl. She wants to be sure that if she sleeps with you aren't going to hurt her or leave her. So that's what you have to show her.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 06:27 PM
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I don't know understand what you're asking, but I think you need to work first on time management.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 06:22 PM
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If you do a threesome with another guy you get another girl first. If she can handle it, then another guy could be possible. Threesomes are bad news with people you care about unless you are planning to be swingers.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 06:55 PM
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Usually all ladies.. It's good for you. Usually they swap stories about their bfs, and how please then. I'd thank her telling you and let her be on her way, with one stipulation... You get to preview anything she buys. ;)
/r/askTRP22/08/14 05:49 PM
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You and I have different ideas of what "genuine" means. To me, genuine means very little on its own. It's meant to enhance another quality. Just means true. Or when put to the test the person still acts congruently. For example, a guy can be a genuine, honest-to-goodness asshole. Genuine to a fault. Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 01:27 PM
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yep
/r/seduction21/08/14 07:07 PM
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I'd change say, think about getting better. If you think about getting better it's ok to flub lines, miss opportunities, etc. If you think about women as this is it, or I got make this perfect whatever, you will lose.
/r/seduction21/08/14 06:24 PM
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How these your options mutually exclusive?
/r/seduction21/08/14 06:15 PM
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She says she had three exams and that she wasn't thinking about me at all those few days Something happened with her exams. She may not be able to deal with you right now. So we get into a mini argument on the phone because for me that's a bad and selfish excuse I'm going to guess you didn't ask her about what happened with her exams, or what she's going through. (can't do this in text) The text message takes 3 minutes. But then she tells me she wants to go out the next day. you are arguing over…
/r/seduction21/08/14 06:03 PM
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This happens.. You will be surprised how much a hug, or a hand on the shoulder can go in this respect. Warming up a target is always good a skill.
/r/seduction21/08/14 04:12 PM
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Energy... you only have so much energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 12:18 AM
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i have a lot more fun with non-compliance..
/r/askTRP20/08/14 09:43 PM
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what happens when men act like women?
/r/MensRights20/08/14 08:47 PM
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I think being genuine is the most important thing. I think being genuine to a fault builds more lasting relationships than otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 06:44 PM
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You must mean "genuine nice guy". Let me know if you actually meant "general" nice guy (as in, "either GNG OR FNG"). I'm not sure why already "being" a GNG allows him have expectations for rewards, while others are looked down for having such expectations. Are you abandoning your original distinction between GNGs and FNGs? Yeah I think I made that mistake. Genuine Nice Guy is someone that does things with no expectation of return. That type person can build relationships. The problem a run of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 06:32 PM
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Dude accounting sucks, who would want to do her books? You have to do at as husband. Especially if it's only till she closes the shop. She probably feels like a failure, so she really needs you be struck and plot a course for both you that will be favorable for both of you.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 06:03 PM
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Doing what things? Also, having "expectation of return" isn't exactly visible unless you have a mind-reading device. Ah if you are the General Nice Guy then having an expectation is completely up to you. You offer no clear way to distinguish between this FNG and the GNG, other than, "women know of this guy, and they don't give them play out of intuition [and intelligence]". A woman will simply test GNG/FNG as she normally would. There wouldn't be one clear way. Why am I supposed to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 12:43 PM
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Hm ok. I'd say your opinions differ a little from what I've seen elsewhere on TRP, and for what it's worth I don't hate that sub at all, I just occasionally feel like there are some logical flaws within certain arguments I see there. ;) So, you say women care about emotion and passion and don't care about looks. Care to back this up with sources (or, since it's not really the kind of thing that's studied, any kind of proof of any sort)? Depends on how deep you want to go. But I would just look a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 05:07 AM
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1.) Physical appearance doesn't matter to women? I mean, yes it does...lol. Where are you getting the idea that it doesn't? If I'm physically repulsed by someone no amount of confidence or jokes or anything is going to turn me on. That may help if I'm only somewhat attracted to a guy (say, a guy who's average looking but nothing special) but it wouldn't remove physical repulsion. You're supposed to think that, that's why game works. Women prioritize their emotions, and social interaction a over …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 04:38 AM
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Okay, so here we go. if you can open her. I think that's the key point, and I agree with you there. If a woman is initially open to being gamed, then yes, game could totally work on her- BUT if a man physically repulses her, there is a really slim chance she'd even be open, regardless of what mood she's in. Physicality doesn't matter. His behavior will determine how she feels. For example, if he's 70 and bald and acts like he's embarrassed about his image then he will fail before he ever utters …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 04:05 AM
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"Genuine niceness is actually beneficial for attaining relationships!" Being a genuine nice guy is doing things without an expectation of return. This great for relationships of all types. All your points border strategy of sex of against what you consider a GNG is. Well, the fact being nice to people without any expectation of return is a wonderful thing. It means you are completely confident in yourself that you are free to dole out whatever you like, because you have more than enough. That ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 03:07 AM
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One, is it really possible to game ANY woman even if she has zero physical attraction to you? Depends on if you can open her. That really depends on timing, and if she's open to anything. I mean, even with the most solid game in the world, can you confidently say that a bald fat 70 year old could bed ANY woman? If he has skills and he can get you to listen to him 5 minutes it's possible. That doesn't mean it's likely. Look at the question another way. If 70 year old bald guy made you feel someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 02:25 AM
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This is really not about RP.. Bro.. If your wife's business is failing that will directly effect you in a divorce. I think you may have to suck it up and do it, but not without a plan. Frankly if she can't afford an accountant, then you need advise her on how to exit the business, or improve her situation. She needs to know this.. Problem is she probably expects you to work on the business as a husband, so she will be upset. Even though she maybe upset she must realistically look at her results …
/r/askTRP20/08/14 02:07 AM
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I've been told several timse by RP men that what I say I want (for example, I "claim" not to be attracted to men 20 years older than me) is immaterial, and I should be judged only by my actions. My actions actually stack up really well with what I say I want, as I've only ever dated guys within 2 years of my age, but I've still heard that it's irrelevant, and I still could be gamed by a guy my dad's age if he had enough confidence. lol Your perspective is wrong. RPers are thinking from the aggre…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 01:32 AM
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I'd say read a romance novel. Then reflect on TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 04:24 PM
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Well if their friends why don't you all go out together?
/r/askTRP19/08/14 01:55 PM
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Nothing specific. There are individual aspects of TRP. Some may be logical, while others aren't. Your argument requires the entirety of TRP theory (every aspect) to be logical and serve a logical purpose. It's possible that SOME aspects are illogical or serve no logical purpose, in which case you're line of reasoning is illogical. I don't think that's actually true. So versus trying to get me to acquiesce on some point, why don't you argue the points that are matter to you? And clarify how you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 02:01 AM
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Aspects of it may be logical, however you argument requires me to assume that the entirety of TRP theory is logical. I accept that parts of it are logical, I'm just not sure about the whole thing. It's either is or isn't logical. Something can be logical and still be erroneous. Which parts are you arguing are anti-logical?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/14 01:26 AM
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That's based on the assumption that TRP is inherently logical, and that it functionally serves a logical purpose. Well if it is not logical how can you make a logical argument? How do you see TRP as illogical? How do you know that is the case? Well, RP is based on results and heavily binary. In other words if you aren't fucking do more RP things. If that does doesn't work picking up another strat. That's very different from the other theories on reddit, as it is ruthlessly logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/14 11:00 PM
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When you say inverse pussy pedestal I think you mean putting one's self on a pedestal. (correct me if I'm wrong here) I think you're right in some ways, at least in the way that men and women act similar in certain situations. But I think you miss that the goal is by creating a polar personality you will attract polar opposites. That level of attraction is desirable. For example, a strong man with dainty woman is seen as a fit by most. However, a strong man and strong women may not be. I think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/14 07:15 PM
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personally i'd joke with her about it.. see what she says if you say "why don't you go out with him, he seems like a winner"... It's important to show you're not threatened by it.. The fact that she has to think about what to do...signals something..
/r/askTRP15/08/14 09:21 PM
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You have to find a reason to live. Some kind of deeper purpose that true for you.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 09:13 PM
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Calculate all the money you've spent on women.. Then calculate how many girls you've slept with... If that doesn't make your decision stay a BP.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 08:18 PM
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Think about what you truly want to do.. We all like everything but realize that by not disciplining yourself you are cutting away from enjoying, or excelling thing you love most.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 07:56 PM
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You're not supposed to.. . Benefit of marriage is having a partner to help you through life. Keep in mind a lot of hugely successful people are married, so it's there must be some reason people do it.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 07:54 PM
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I think people waste a lot of time categorizing things... Sometimes you must realize you're not in a position of research. Behavior of women has a lot to do with their individual experiences, their sensitivities, their motivations, and your skill. Even in the best case scenario can not be determined ahead of time. Maybe for a paper an intense study consisting of interviewing thousands of men you might come to a conclusion that there a bunch of tiers. However, if you want to get laid, vs. a phd i…
/r/askTRP15/08/14 01:04 PM
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The problem is fat ladies and thin ladies say the exact same thing about themselves, so this doesn't reveal anything. People are insecure and when your motive of attracting the opposite sex is passive you will be insecure. You will wonder why the guy you want isn't taking the lead, going after you, or whatever. "I am not personally attracted to this type of woman" and "this is what a good woman is, and this is what a bad woman is." I think it's more like this is the person is a plate, this perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/14 03:38 PM
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Depends on the type of rejection you're getting.. I'd say mature/experienced women put less priority on looks.
/r/seduction13/08/14 02:41 PM
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That's awesome I would take a girl so quickly to the Dean's office.. ! haha She's committing sexual violence on me.. Not opening the legs.. haha
/r/MensRights13/08/14 02:01 PM
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this is a bad application of the rule
/r/askTRP12/08/14 11:04 PM
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I don't think this is a shit test. I'm wondering if trp thinks that this girl might be worth keeping around instead of just dumping if she's being sincere. That's for you to decide.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 11:00 PM
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i switched the two..
/r/PussyPass12/08/14 08:58 PM
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She has a 2 year jail sentence.
/r/PussyPass12/08/14 08:28 PM
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Sweden makes it illegal to buy sex services, as well as makes it illegal to run a brothel. They have no regulation at all of the prostitution industry. The only thing they have "legalized" is they don't have criminal penalties for prostitutes themselves. I would not say this really counts as "legalized" when it's still an illegal transaction. Really? How do they deal with it? They turn their eyes. Sweden, Germany Canada.. This is an absurd claim. Regulating safety for any service does not make s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 08:28 PM
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How did she get a pass?
/r/PussyPass12/08/14 08:15 PM
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Good example of what...? I still don't really know what you're talking abou Problems with prostitution. I'm still not sure what your point is. How are they not a factor in the industry? What does the timeframe have to do with whether or not regulation is safer? The question is whether or not legalization and regulation make it safer. Any other factor is irrelevant. I'm not so sure that it any statistical difference in safeness. Sure, it is their moral responsibility. It's not moral, it's out of …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 07:57 PM
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Respectfully, it seems like you have a very simplistic view of how sex work operates. Also "go out on your own" just brings us back to the original scenario It's job. Just like any other job. I don't see how there are more complex options. What you're missing is why, and the answer in large part is the fact that sex work is a) illegal and b) hugely stigmatized. Why is obvious, we live in puritanical nation. But the question is why are there problems similar to this all over world even in places …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 07:53 PM
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I can't find that but I'd be interested if you can show me. Sweden is a good example. I'm not sure what point you are making with the timeframe. So what if it took 50 years? The point is that STD transmission in Nevada under their regulated regime is far less than places where it is illegal. That is not debatable. Under a regulated structure, STD transmission is significantly less. You can argue hypotheticals all you want about what you think prostitutes do, but this is a fact. Under legalized a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 07:32 PM
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Library, Coffeehouse, McDonald's playground, park, basketball court, shooting range, museum, art exhibit.. etc.. Just open her eyes to the world around her... without everyone gawking at her..
/r/seduction12/08/14 05:46 PM
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** Granted, the girls have all been from off tinder** Why do people want seduce people from tinder? Half the seduction is already done for you, and you're in bad situation already. Granted, the girls have all been from off tinder, but I just don't know how to be physical and kino without HESITATION and awkwardness. Really if it's tinder I'd just go in for a hug to begin with, see the body language and go from there. But I wouldn't go to a bar though. Go some other place you can touch her and tal…
/r/seduction12/08/14 05:37 PM
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rape porn specifically... you can google to get more specific.. The only thing I know is that lady must look like she's enjoying the act in the porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 05:18 PM
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And often are Verbally or mentally, sure, we are talking about prostitutes. Physically abusive, I doubt that strongly. Only for the simply fact that getting involved with the law isn't a good career move. if your pimp is the one roughing you up, you're pretty much fucked. Get another pimp, or get out of the business. Not fucked at all. Or go out on your own. If sex work were legalized, sex workers dealing with abusive employers would have the same protections as men and women in any other line o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 04:37 PM
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Sure? The point is that in one scenario, the sex worker has a legal recourse; in the other she has no recourse at all. No legal resources. This happens to be why pimps and madams exist. Although they can also abusers. Unfortunately I'm not able to access the first link in your edit. I'd like to draw your attention to a few bits from your second link though: Thanks I will fix it.. It's important to remember that making paid sex legal doesn't mean trafficking would become legal. yep..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 04:15 PM
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But the way the law is enforced is the same, age-old question we have asked since we invented laws: it's he-said she-said Unfortunately, enforcement is almost always an open question. There is nothing new about prostitution and rape in this he-said she-said game. It's still a matter of whether it was true or not. This is also untrue, there many arguments on how much power a woman should have in a rape case, and what the punishment should be. Prostitution on the other hand is a little bit more cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 03:15 PM
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t's not a matter of law. It's a matter of fact and evidence. It's quite indistinguishable from a claim that it was just nonconsensual in general -- all you have to do is prove it. Well the law matters, it's part this post as well. The way laws are enforced also matters. ... what the fuck are you talking about? Who takes a rape case to small claims court? It wouldn't be a rape case in legal prostitution. It would actually be small claims court depending on the amount in question. You do realize t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 02:35 PM
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f she calls rape, and he said he paid, there wouldn't be the slightest legal issue -- it's just a matter of fact, of evidence. If it was consensual, it was consensual, and if it wasn't, it wasn't. There are issue like that all the time. Consumers with the belief that services are were improperly rendered. Then, you can have factual evidence discrediting her and the case has changed. Other than that, I don't see how legalizing prostitution affects rape cases. Small claims court it wouldn't much m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 01:40 PM
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They do.. it's not uncommon to see people freely reading porn on trains.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 01:08 PM
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True. However they follow the same rules got to take care of hoes to make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 03:42 AM
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The other thing that negatively affects their marketability is being repeatedly and violently abused. Sure.. As far as I know, if you want marketability to work, you need to have women in good health. And since you're always going to have clients anyway, you wouldn't lose that much by telling the dudes to behave or just leave. That's the role of a pimp or madam.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 03:14 AM
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I did read the article you posted and found it inaccurate, misleading and pretty darn patronizing to women who choose to support themselves through prostitution. The fact that many women (and men) experience violence in the course of sex work does not make sex work itself inherently violent--rather, it reflects our collective failure to provide adequate protections to sex workers, and the biggest barrier to that goal is the continued criminalization of the sex trade. The article is pretty accura…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 02:53 AM
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Thanks .. I had no idea.. now emotes are like unix yay! Once it was given legal cover women had much more power to petition the state to enforce their rights. I see what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 11:53 PM
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haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 11:22 PM
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Do you have a source? Sweden isn't mentioned on the first page of the article and the second page is blocked by a paywall. Check the edit. What kind of porn isn't allowed in America? Can't film porn that doesn't have a girl enjoying a sexual act. There are some other regulation, I just know of them. t shouldn't? Even if I wanted it do, which I don't. Again, I'm confused. Your stance makes it sound like you're against prostitution, as, according to you and your article, prostitution = sexual viol…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 11:14 PM
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I read the article you posted and I don't think it does a good job supporting it's own argument. I thought it did. While there are absolutely downsides to the sex work industry, it's pretty much accepted across the board in sex-positive circles that legalization will make everything involved safer for everyone involved, with the only ones suffering, potentially, being the pimps, who are assholes (for the most part). This isn't even true in Sweden. Violence is still prevalent. That article is 10 …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 10:42 PM
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In that case your argument is far too broad. Unless you are talking about a place in particular your post is masturbatory exercise. So far though you are wrong in 100% of places that have done it in real life. I don't know what cultural differences you think would effect different outcomes elsewhere. Not true it all.. In fact some one posted that I was right ;) Not sure what you mean here. Compare STD rates among sex workers in Nevada to the rest of the country. The diseases are clearly not hand…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 10:34 PM
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No, but your position seems to be one of expanding rape rules to the effect where they might clash with prostitution legalization. I think wide legalization does that exactly. You seem to take a view of prostitution as "rape for money". Well I think view that studies show that. If studies show that then surely someone will bring it up in court, in our society. We have an abnormal litigious society. Your quoting a radical feminist "expert" who has more credibility issues the least of which is her…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 10:31 PM
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You are making empirical claims about how things would work, while we have real places that have done this and we know objectively what the outcomes are. This aren't claims their ideas. And we don't know. All we know is that the legalization of prostitution is cultural. This has not happened anywhere with legalized prostitution. If you had some examples this might be compelling. Rape laws are different everywhere, even in the states. It'd impossible make this comparison. We know for a fact that …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 10:22 PM
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Links to the studies? I'll what I can find online.. some of the ones have are paper. "Consensual sex work gives women PTSD" has been refuted time and time again. Where? Honestly if you've ever dated a sex worker you might think other wise ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 10:13 PM
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I found a few studies on PTSD. It was pretty surprising to me.. I didn't know sex work so bad for women honestly..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 10:05 PM
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The Biblical definition of adultery is sex outside of marriage. You mean fornication. Adultery is if your'e married and have sex out side of your wife. My point is simply that the other person's argument that anti-prostitution laws are, at least in part, religious based is both theologically and historically sound. I think would be hard disagree with that part of our laws religious based sense we are puritanical nation. There's a bit of legal logic as well. That deals with the ambiguous nature o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 10:00 PM
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cool do you have a counter scientist report?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 09:54 PM
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Dude, this is why you're getting downvoted. It's a little hard to think your stance on prostitution comes from a moral high ground when you refer to "pussy" as a commodity. Has nothing to do morality. Has more to do with how laws are made. As I've written, I think legalizing prostitution has an effect on other sex laws and how they can enforced. I'm downvoted cause it's reddit ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 09:50 PM
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Radical? So it makes a radical feminist to want the government not interfere with something could impact the rights of those not practicing prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 09:48 PM
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Just like there were no sexual harassment suits after it was given force of law. /s Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 09:48 PM
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That's what regulation does - sets standards for acceptable commercial activities and provide a recourse to market participants if they believe they have been wronged. Right now we're setting the standard that "you must use extrajudicial means to enforce contracts." They don't standards as much as they control disruptive forces. But even still your argument is that you need government to have a market, and you do not. It's called the black market.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 09:47 PM
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What do you mean Amsterdam drug legalization hasnt worked? It's considered a bit of a failure actually. Im familiar with the types of studies you reference, academia is heavily poisoned by radical, sex negative feminism and these studies reflect that. There are plenty of jobs that are harmful to the people doing them, ie being a soldier. Wait you're comparing a solider for a country to a sex worker? I guess to you fucking is for your country? Maybe we should never believe anything from universit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 09:46 PM
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Instead of concern-trolling all women by competing to show how sensitive you are, how about just asking women who actually work as sex workers what they think? Most of them advocate for legalization Who said I'm sensitive? I just think my daughter, and sisters shouldn't be subject to that work easily. I know what it does to women. I don't' want the government making an easier option for them. That's not sensitive that's caring. I feel the same about other women as well. who actually work as sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 09:36 PM
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Prostitution is by definition adultery. Huh? For example in John 8 when the men bring a woman guilty of adultery to Jesus and want to stone her, Jesus doesn't say "oh it's totally cool that you were committing adultery". He says "go and sin no more". He also the person that has not sinned to throw the first stone. I'm not sure of your point here. How does this relate prostitution as sexual violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 09:07 PM
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A drug dealer isn't going to decide to not cut his shit just because someone's a "good customer". You don't know many drug dealers. Maybe you're unfamiliar with popularized "Blue magic" version of heroin of the 60-70s. hey don't give a shit about the customer, frankly. They'll save the uncut shit for their personal friends, the customers don't matter because they're going to be buying anyhow. They do because the market requires it. I don't think you believe in market forces. You do realize there…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 09:05 PM
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You just read it wrong.. I said exactly what you said, just a different way. 1300 years is long mistake ;) haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 08:57 PM
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The whole point Christianity is that anyone come to Christ. The history of Mary Magdalene would make it quite difficult to be out right against prostitution. Any person arguing against a christian zealot could use that to their advantage. That being said that it also seems like a denomination issue as well. Catholicism isn't the only brand of Christianity. I don't think Christianity is as against prostitution nearly as much as gays or abortion. Because if there are interpretations lasting up to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 08:56 PM
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Wiki is trash.. There are plenty of studies on the subject outside of wiki.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 08:51 PM
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check the edit bro
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 08:50 PM
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http://www.bbc.co.uk/religion/religions/christianity/history/marymagdalene.shtml I found this looking to give you proof but seems it disproves what i Knew. Interesting. Well as of 1969 according to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 08:48 PM
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I believe you're being pretty naive about the role of a pimp being some sort of noble entrepreneur. Noble I never said that? A pimp is no more loyal than drug dealer. if you're a good customer a drug dealer isn't' going to spike your stuff, his job is to keep you hooked. A much closer example would be selling drugs, which is also a very dangerous profession solely due to it's illegality I don't think illegality is the biggest issue here. If you're trying to tell me sex doesn't sell then I advise…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 08:41 PM
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think it would be useful to provide some evidence here. Is this what has happened in countries/areas that have already legalized sex work? Havoc is a little bit of hyperbole. In fact someone posted about Sweden how prostitutes will fully break laws and police look the other way. Even though it's legal. Legality also doesn't stop run of the mill violence. How would you address the argument that legalization makes sex work safer for women (and men) by granting them the same rights and protections …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 08:25 PM
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:/ Sorry pal you're going to have to do much better than that. Psychology is literally the retarded cousin of the sciences, and the work they churn out is highly untestable garbage. Happiness studies? Self testing? I turned in more credible work in High School. The lady in an article is a phd and this is her work. I don't know what more can be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 08:21 PM
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But do you see the logical fallacy? A right an abstract construct. It is not enforceable without an agreed-upon framework of ground rules, arbitration, contract rights etc. That is the role of government. This untrue and fabricated. First of all the government job is maintain value currency and manage trade, not to design markets. Secondly, I doubt that any woman is going to want the government to mandate the value of her pussy. Prostitution operates in a black market now, and there are lots of …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 08:20 PM
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The current system allows sosciopathic gangsters to take advantage of drug addicts (male and female) by pimping them out, taking all of their earnings in exchange for drugs, and not giving a shit about them in any way. Legalizing marijuana and decriminalized hard drugs would help addicts avoid this position in the first place. Legalizing prostitution would enable unions to engage in collective bargaining efforts on prostitutes behalf. Enable unions of prostitutes? Are you kidding? You think unio…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 08:18 PM
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And making yourself the arbiter of what is insensitive to women is condescending. Why is that? That's possible now. Legalizing for adults doesn't change that. If anything, legalization makes it safer for children How does making marijuana more available make it safer for children? One of the biggest problems in america are not illegal drugs but but drugs prescribed to parents found by children? Nonsense. Crime rates fell after prohibition. And it resulted in more diverse products instead of just…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 08:12 PM
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Then how far back do we go? Do you think data about prostitution from the 1800s is also relevant? How about prostitution in ancient times(Greece, Rome, etc)? Is that still relevant to the society we live in today as well? I think you at least should look at the history of a law. It most definitely will be if there's ever a question of if it should be made legal. And zealots have always had a habit of picking and choosing which parts of their religious texts are relevant and which aren't, they co…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 08:07 PM
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And that was about 30 years ago that they enacted mandatory testing. Let's stay relevant to present times. You can't throw out data. It's very relevant. It means testing isn't important for prostitution to exist. Or it says prostitutes can take care of themselves. I'd like to believe that this point also lends credence to the fact that the market can take care of itself. You're seriously going to try and tell me that the same people who want to ban abortions, birth control, and gay marriage don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 07:28 PM
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OP, let's apply your theories to Nevada, where prostitution is legal. So far, no one has ever voted on which sex acts are allowed and which aren't, and there is no legal challenges in the courts about the rape of prostitutes whatsoever as all brothels have a very strict rule that if the woman doesn't want to do something, she doesn't have to and how much was allegedly paid doesn't matter. So you think there have never been any challenges in these laws? Quick Google search I found this http://www…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 06:52 PM
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Funny, I was just listening to the Economist podcast, and they had an interview with a prostitute. Sweden has followed this model - where being a prostitute is legal, but paying for sex is illegal because it's considered a form of sexual violence against women (nevermind the fact that there's a very large percentage of all prostitutes that are men). That attitude comes from a feminist viewpoint (which has a strong bias towards casting women as victims). She chose to become a sex worker and makes…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 06:40 PM
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I don't think I really need to prove to you that prostitution is also sexual violence. Definitely do not since I posted "prostitution is sexual violence" in my post. To be fair, I did some quick research and the countries who have legalized it (New Zealand, Germany, Sweden, etc) seem to have failed to solve problems of violence and abuse towards the sex workers. So you might have a point that legalization as it has been attempted so far has not given good results. Thanks. If prostitutes were to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 06:33 PM
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I don't agree with that, so eh, not much else to argue about. That's what the article is about. Rape is sex without consent. If the women are consenting, it's a-okay Unfortunate it's not so simple. That's why I posted this. Both rape, consensual sex, and consensual sex for money are a bit complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 06:31 PM
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Women have a right to their bodies. So they can charge any mount for it in trade. Markets only need products, buyers and sellers. Markets do not need governments.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 06:09 PM
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Ever heard of Federalism? The idea is to let states experiment instead of dictating everything from Washington. I live in Colorado and marijuana legalization has been a non-event. They still need to tweak some rules going forward, but now other states can look at the model and decide if it's for them. Comparing consumption of a product to consumption of sexual services in insensitive to women. My issue I don't that little girls should growing with the possibility of become prostitute as a profes…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 05:59 PM
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And yes, I think it's not a bad usage of resources if it helps protect the many women who decide to go down this path. I think this is where we disagree.. I think the market value on pussy provides enough for women to pay for what's necessary to have criminal enterprise. If the market regulates, and prostitutes are smart by paying for protection they can make money without a problem. It's not a government problem. Much of the sexual violence is caused because pimps feel they can abuse their pros…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 05:27 PM
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But that is just the thing, feminist don't like the market because "patriarchy" Feminist aren't giving up their pussy power, so it's a non-issue. If I were woman I wouldn't even listen to those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 05:19 PM
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Bit different than "women are less rational, loyal, intelligent/western women are disgusting whores/women shouldn't have the right to vote", which is the kind of talk people have a problem with. Yea I laugh at it.. Because all those men saying that will just as quickly say "i love you". Or be pussy whipped by the right woman. But i hear you.. IMO, the day this matters is the day these RPers become gay. I don't see that happening ;) No offense, but I don't think anyone really cares if you say "my…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 05:18 PM
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Well, let's say you're a sex worker who does not do the whole violence thing. Well that's thing sex work is violence. That's what the article talks about.. You explain that to your client from the beginning and state that if he rapes or injures you, the police gets involved. This is just an idea. Of course the girl can change her mind as well and decide mid-way through the beating that actually she doesn't consent, but here's the thing: why should prostitution be any different than consensual se…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 05:16 PM
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She happens to be an expert in the area.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 05:03 PM
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So your point is it's best not to think things through we should legalize everything.. Incidentally, things did go bad when all drugs were legal. ;) I think the issue here is people think that we as a country have unlimited resources. So measuring consequences is just not strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 05:02 PM
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I would ask something else, how do you justify economic and social equality when men can be homeless and they literally can not do anything more than collect recyclebell garbage, which maybe pays for a hot meal. They can also pan handle. But the lowest point in the life of a woman is to make a reasonably decent living with her body?(significantly better than a full time at mcdonalds) and way more than the man can get for recycling or for glory hole servicing. Sure if she keeps her pussy clean. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 04:59 PM
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All the negatives you cite could be avoided if we set up an infrastructure around prostitution. If we required licenses for people to run brothels, if prostitutes needed to be licensed and go through a 6 month educational program, if background checks could be done by the institution or brothel before letting anyone in... stuff like that. You think this good usage of resources? Do you really think those use to perpetrating illegal acts would care about licenses? There isn't really anything bad t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 04:57 PM
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The thing is, as long as prostitution remains illegal it is much, much easier for it to be abusive, because there is zero regulation. Hence, the girls get beaten and raped and no one in the 'industry' does anything about it because no one cares That's what a pimp/madam is for? Also, consider that a considerable amount of prostitutes are lured in the market with hard drugs, and once they are hooked they cannot escape the cycle of destruction it creates. Legality of prostitution won't change this.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 04:53 PM
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WEll think of RP as anti-feminism.. If you can't beat them join them? Also, just think of RP as shop talk. When we talk about women in among women we talk about them in a way that would not be permissible in front women, if you want be well mannered. For example, I might say, " my ladies pussy is so wet and juicy to my boys. But to my lady, I might say I enjoy making love to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 04:44 PM
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I think it's cultural. Japan has a very open sex culture, but host houses don't necessarily offer sex. And porn of Japanese women with bare pusses can't be created on Japanese soil. Also, American culture is tremendously litigious. I'm know German culture is not as litigious, so the conflicts wouldn't surface. Lastly, I don't know the history of every country, but from what I can find prostitution legality is purely predicated on culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 04:23 PM
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I'm not sure sex gets boring with same person ever. For me when the lead up to sex is becomes boring and not worth doing, that's' the time for an exit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 11:02 PM
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What does would your ideal relationship look like if the world were perfect? Scheduled sex, one main lady I love.. regardless of what happens .. scheduled sex with up to 10 extras no maintenance ladies..That I'm allowed to call in at any time....8 or 9 kids What relationship do you realistically hope to achieve? Lady I love and don't want to kill How are they different and why? Scheduled sex is impossible. Most people aren't happy with multiple regular extra partners. So, how much do you believe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 10:30 PM
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Personally I think the key to not getting attached is to commit slowly, and sleep with or converse with multiple women. I like the whimsy of the article.
/r/seduction10/08/14 04:49 PM
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Are people meant to be together monogamously for life? Meant? If people are meant to be disciplined, then they are meant to be in a monogamous relationship. A better question is if there's value in long-term monogamous relationship. I'd suggest you ask people have have been married for 30+years. I don't think Reddit is good for this answer. Should polygamy and bigamy be legal? Maybe polygamy. Legality implies regulation. Plenty of people live polygamous lifestyles free from legal battles. Frankl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 02:35 PM
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73 partners with penetration.. yea fucking right. she's a ho...I'm sure there are working pornstars with fewer partners than that at 22.. I would think twice. It's not about partners but it's more about delaying gratification. If a woman can't delay her gratification then it will be hard to be with her. If you have a fight or anything you may have to worry whether she will be faithful. OR worst she has to always be stimulated, which is just impossible for her to be monogamous. Partner count isn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 09:10 PM
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I couldn't help but notice rampant hatred of single mothers on TRP. Interesting because i'd bet that a lot RPers were raised by single mothers. One more reason I could think of is your belief that single mothers are not competent haha you're kidding right? that it's better for a child to grow up in a full, healthy family. Of course it's better, assuming the father is good. I couldn't agree more, Whoa.. As for the lack of male role model, if the child is a boy, the mother's brother, kid's uncle, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 08:50 PM
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Depends on the chick. Value is hard to figure out with people. Some women will be turned off by an ostentatious show of wealth, others will flock to it. It's not anything new that women will sleep with guys for money, or the promise of money. The questions is she more into money than yourself. Lambo and a nice home will def get you quick fucks, but at some point that gets old. I'd say there are better examples of hypergamy than a Lambo in China.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/14 11:24 AM
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Don't take anything personally. And accept the results of communication. If she says you're rude.. Calmly explain that you did not intend anything to be rude. And you're sorry that she felt that way. [key here you aren't sorry for what you said!!!!] Then ask her for how you can improve your speech. Do this looking in her eyes is perfect...
/r/askTRP07/08/14 03:19 PM
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That's a good way to get into legal trouble. I'd stay away from girl's friends. No reason to destroy some girls relationship with her friend. But if the guy doesn't' care about that it's all good.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 08:35 PM
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A lot of people do this and it doesn't really make sense, but you're in congruent with your actions. If you're bold enough to get her number from the street you need to make only bold moves. Tuesday: 07/29/14 she texts me asking how I am, i do the who is this response, she doesn't respond, so i call saying who the fuck is this, and she was really concerned like i was surprised when u texted that. She kisses you earlier then seeks your approval and you lamb bast her? I don't get this.. But i real…
/r/askTRP06/08/14 08:29 PM
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Just approach your friend and explain the situation unemotionally. There's nothing to think about. Who cares what she people think.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 01:33 PM
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Just go .. If she's going try to sleep with her.. If not have a great time.. Don't get complicated, just have fantastic time.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 09:49 PM
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good point
/r/MensRights05/08/14 04:30 PM
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Why do you think women don't care? Surely older Mother's and Grandmothers care immensely? Hell my grandmother told me more about male illness than my father. She was instrumental in keeping me healthy, even today as an adult.
/r/MensRights05/08/14 04:20 PM
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So basically, from what I can tell by your complete lunacy, you assume men are disposable as human beings in war, but women can stay nice and snug at home and work in factories and whatnot, but at the same time Well there's this sneaky thing called a menstrual cycle, that makes women suited to have children. Just as we have a more testosterone so we are stronger, making us better for war. In war time, we simply have to play the roles that fit us best, for the betterment of our people. women want…
/r/MensRights05/08/14 12:46 PM
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Fafsa is concerned about America. And frankly without women having kids we can't fund the housing market, or ensure our future. SO yes we care.
/r/MensRights05/08/14 04:17 AM
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/r/MensRights05/08/14 03:16 AM
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If women were included in the draft, pregnant women would of obviously be excepted. Ok? In addition, you can draft females for non-combat roles. Someone has to pack the bags, wash the linen, cook the meals, drive the trucks etc etc. I personally know a woman who does this job in the army. Maybe you have missed world history, but sometimes we lose wars and we need to repopulate. And honestly let's follow your line of thinking to it's logical conclusion: every woman should have children from multi…
/r/MensRights05/08/14 02:54 AM
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RP reacts primarily to behavior and possible root causes, so it may seem that RP hates hypergamy and career minded women. A woman can surely be career minded and completely submissive in the relationship. That will require some balancing from the man, some balancing that many men may not be capable. What you should do? Well you should do what you want to do. However, if you want a man to act his role as a masculine man, you must learn to be be feminine no matter your career path.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/14 02:33 AM
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women can have children you can not.
/r/MensRights05/08/14 02:23 AM
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I think so.. Man enough meaning be man enough not to hit a woman. Rather it's not manly to hit a woman. And incidentally, some men feel that they must beat their woman to be a man. You might want to make your own sign, but this guy is concerned about women.
/r/MensRights05/08/14 02:06 AM
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I think you're right about the social interaction part of this post. However, I think that you should think of "shit test" as a test for motivation. If you think of it as motivation test it works for all points of the relationship, and also allows for priority differences. Your post also illuminates a glaring issue with RP, and that is namely holding frame, or being too dominate. The issue here is that eventually, as loving partners do, the lady will begin to reflect her partner. The reflection …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/14 01:54 PM
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I don't think anyone wants to be submissive all the time, but on either side we must. Willful surrender is an important part of relationships, deep sex, but not terribly important for plates. In some cases your are surrendering to someone, in other you're surrendering the to the power of the moment and ideally sexual pleasure. IMO, the point RP is although a man might enjoy pussy, might even surrender to it with a beautiful lady in a moment, but it doesn't rule his life. In other words, no matte…
/r/askTRP04/08/14 01:31 PM
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he wanted to get back together for like 6 months after we broke up, but I declined. You don't need any help really. While single, I realized that those reasons weren't that big of a deal and I really missed her. Then she started dating a new guy and decided that us getting back together would be a bad idea. Even after breaking up with the new guy after three months, she doesn't want to get back together. I think I may have fucked up by showing her my emotional side when she started dating the ne…
/r/askTRP02/08/14 11:58 PM
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Everything I've read on here seems to be about being the perfect mate to produce the perfect offspring in a stable environment. ? perfect.. Not sure RP wants that.. I don't want marriage, as they usually fail and the idea seems archaic and arbitrary. Not true. In fact, if 2 people have degrees they're very likely to stay together. You haven't explained what kind of information you're looking for... It seems also you're afraid of failing, or taking a risk with women. If she cheats on you, your ma…
/r/askTRP02/08/14 06:02 PM
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You're in a terrible predicament. You want her to be honest with you, but simultaneously you don't want her to stop telling you things. First, I'd ask what do you plan on doing with this lady? And what does she expect? Secondly, she clearly is putting herself in compromising situations so I wonder whether your relationship is fulfilling for her. Then this would be her way of warning you, or a at to see if you love her. Which makes me wonder if it's fulfilling for you. Or worst what would happen …
/r/askTRP02/08/14 12:53 AM
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Post your experiences. Clubs are not the only place to meet women. If romance exist in Norway, TRP will work.
/r/askTRP01/08/14 06:52 PM
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Is that why TRP specializes in crude conspiracy theories and bitter rants against women? Which ones? I don't see TRP that way. Edit: My suggestion is to pickup random romance novel, or romance movie, and tell me how the BP style characters do with women in those settings. Then rethink RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/14 05:00 PM
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It's funny, then, how Redpillers concoct all sorts of reasons in their head why a particular women is not worthy of their attention. "Ugly", "old" (= 25+ years old), "used goods" (= not a virgin), "old tramp with fuck trophy" (= single mother in her 20s).. Have you seen "To Catch a Theif"? You'd think if all Terpers wanted was to have sex with women, they wouldn't go to such lengths to find reasons not to have sex with women. Well in practice you have to specialize to be good at something. RP is…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/14 04:40 PM
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ut when it becomes obvious that those (fallacious) theories create such a paranoid way of thinking, I can't help but feel that TRP is toxic to the people involved in these cases. It isn't .. the goal is pussy? Any idea that doesn't' fit that goal will be thrown out in practice. And would you agree with spying on your partner just because she is a woman? Waste of time.. If you have to spy just leave her. This person is misguided. I can't explain why this is upvoted except that it's funny. To be f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/14 04:16 AM
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Schools by definition are both liberal and feminist to a degree. However, schools are attempting to bring everyone on to a level playing field. Currently, it is not. Personally, I have distrust education but I do not have distrust in learning. I prefer a lady that loves to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/14 01:07 AM
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I realize effort is involved, but from an investment standpoint and from personal experience the effort required isn't worth the outcome. I would much, much rather rotate between new (to me) models as I see fit. This is fun too but also empty. I'm not sure can win. Just go short on onsies, or twosies.. and try long on a 10 bagger.. Don't ' worry about losses.. As long you're happy at the end, that's all that matters..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/14 10:52 PM
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I still don't understand how seduction applies to things like Tinder... She's going to be nervous you're a strange man off of an ap.. Shoulder touching and eye contact, touching a shoulder at arms length is also useful... Kiss close is fine.. sometimes that's all you can get.. get a continuation and go further..
/r/seduction30/07/14 10:37 PM
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You can't do anything about any of it.. I'd fuck her before..hand... I wouldn't worry about it so much... her communicating with you has nothing to do with a 15 minute romp... If it happens it happens.. I'd fuck the shit out her before she leaves.. Kiss her goodbye.. Tell her to have an awesome trip.. Don't make a big deal about her calling you.. Trust your instincts when she comes back...
/r/askTRP30/07/14 09:37 PM
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I think dread game is terrible option for getting her to lose weight, save that for important problems. You just have to praise her for her efforts, and sometimes do it with her. If you care..
/r/askTRP30/07/14 09:25 PM
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You have to constantly invest in LTRs over time. I think people are just unreasonable with the results. When we think of passionate love affairs we think the gains will be immense maybe 120% returns forever. Then we realize that 5-10% gains are more realistic, no matter how much we invest. It's like Buffet talking about credit cards. He makes fun of people that use Credit Cards egregiously. He wonders how they think they will pay them off at 20% APR, but even at his level of investment the game …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/14 09:18 PM
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How does RP teach that relationships require zero investment?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/14 05:24 PM
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Or do you think it was because you didn't want her love, or what you enjoy from your relationship, to end?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/14 05:10 PM
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Why do you think you forgave them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/14 04:31 PM
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Are you proud of that? I don't mean that as a personal attack, but how do you feel about the fact that you're the kind of person, apparently, that you would worry about your daughter meeting? Good question. I'd say I'm proud of who I am. But I know I've inadvertently caused women pain, and I'd rather my daughter be aware of inevitable pain. Love, sex, and passion aren't safe sports for the heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/14 12:04 AM
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Eh, I was never given an SMV tutorial by my parents and I turned out fine. I neither "rode the carousel" nor married early. In my opinion, telling your kids what kind of people to look out for/are bad news is fine, but not all men are only going to value a woman for her "pussy". Believe me, she will encounter the word "pussy" on her own, probably before middle school. Kids be vulgar. Yeah but she won't know what it means. I'd like her help her understand. I figure that's the only way I can sleep…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/14 11:54 PM
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Are you seriously going to use the word "pussy" with your hypothetical daughter? If my dad ever sat me down and had a talk about the "value of my pussy" I would have called CPS. I'd probably say vagina.. But i'd let her know the word exists. It's important she knows how men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/14 11:42 PM
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Learn to enjoy the process and remember perfection won't get you laid. People are uncertain, they do things that are antithetical all the time, you must learn skills. Love the process, focus on getting better not being the most perfect RP, and act when ever you feel. Also do things that you think are wrong on purpose, to see what will happen.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 11:10 PM
1

It's not even close to a cult because it's based on real world results. It's heavily binary. If you aren't fucking become more alpha. Simple enough. Cults usually base themselves on intangible results, or intelligible goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/14 10:47 PM
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I'd make sure to teacher that even in her darkest moments, she can still succeed. Teach her that pussy has value and she should recognize it, and seek to understand it. Help her to at least begin to understand that there's a separation between, passion, love, and sex. Teach her how to know that's important to know things that she may not like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/14 09:13 PM
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It's too difficult to really choose one or the other, measure on results. You set out to be alpha, you end up doing something beta. Look at the results, and calibrate your behavior. In truth, there are somethings you will do that are "beta" that will be benign. And you never want to be 100% alpha anyway. So don't be afraid just act and calibrate.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 05:32 PM
2

Why did you say you wouldn't' play fight with her? All she is doing is testing your resolve. You should just sleep with her.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 04:47 AM
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Yes and no..A hazing ritual would piss a team off..
/r/PussyPass28/07/14 11:49 PM
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Yeah the video does.. I think if you're gonna save someone.. you got to do what you got to do.. guys or girls if he was more defensive he would have had a better outcome..
/r/PussyPass28/07/14 10:38 PM
-11

Hey that's what altruism is.. He could have taken their punches anyway..
/r/PussyPass28/07/14 10:24 PM
-15

all he had to do was step in.. and grab the girl. That's all. Instead he's swinging at girls. It was probably some kind of hazing ritual.
/r/PussyPass28/07/14 09:12 PM
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Maybe because of the way he was attacking them ;)
/r/PussyPass28/07/14 08:07 PM
3

There's nothing you can do, but fuck more women. Clearly she wants to be upset.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 07:02 PM
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You don't need to blow her off you just need to explain to her that you are not a child, and she needs to speak to you in a different way. This is a necessary part of growing up. Being a parent is hard. But it's even harder for parents to see you as an adult.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 02:01 PM
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You maybe paying too much attention to the the target and not enough to the friend.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 01:39 PM
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I understand what you're saying but that's language. Any given word can have any number of a consequences, or perceptions. The only way to get to the bottom of what someone is saying to let them expound on it, and not be rigid to any given definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/14 02:01 AM
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Point out to me where this definition of rape as something that is/can be desired is, because it's not part of the OED definitio Why? Yes. A rape fantasy is not rape. That point still isn't even needed because if it's desired it isn't rape. Rape isn't desired. That's the definition of the word - unwanted sex. Rape Fantasy is not rape? huh? If Rape fantasy isn't' rape then what is the fantasy? The fantasy is not rape, but called a rape fantasy? huh? Don't talk to me about vernacular uses, either,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/14 01:37 AM
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No, it doesn't. From the Oxford dictionary: Read the entire definition again. If someone wants it, it isn't rape. It's called a Rape fantasy. ;) If someone doesn't want it, it's rape. Go ahead and talk about ravishment, it exists, the desire for it exists, but it is not rape. It is by definition impossible to rape someone who wants the act to occur. Actually not impossible. Read the entire definition. Besides words aren't' code, that's how rape is used in vernacular.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/14 01:07 AM
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Of course, you can always open a woman. I guess what I meant is that if she isn't receptive to it you will accomplish nothing. That's what opening is, you make her receptive. Crack the shell. In such cases it doesn't really matter what you do, what you say, or how you look. It's not so much that she has a choice/decision to make about you, but rather that she has so many options that she would prefer not to. It's the "there will always be more" mentality. This is just negative self talk. You can…
/r/seduction27/07/14 11:38 PM
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"your success with any particular girl — especially really hot girls — is more determinant on her willingness and receptiveness to men IN GENERAL than your specific approach or the way you present yourself. In other words, the hotter the girl, the bigger the crap shoot. You have to catch her in a receptive mood and/or really do something unique that she isn’t used to." This isn't true. It's not a crap shoot, it's timing. She has to receptive to feelings to be seduced. If she's not receptive to f…
/r/seduction27/07/14 10:49 PM
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redemption? haha Don't think about high school.. ! First! Don't try to be that guy on campus. People really care a bit less about popularity in college compared to high school. Study hard, practice hard, meet people. More friends, means more sex. It sounds silly but studying is cool in college. Plus, You're an athlete so, it will be even easier for you. Especially if you're half way decent on the court.
/r/seduction27/07/14 09:41 PM
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Rape has different meanings.. Rape in the sense of RP is really ravishment. Which is a woman being so desirable for a man that ravishes her sexually, giving her all that she wants sexually with out her investment except being sexy. The component here is the woman wants it. She wants the man as well. The thing is we don't' really talk about rape when it's a man a woman wants. Rape in the sense that the woman is so sexy that a man that she doesn't want ravishes her is undesirable. It as if that ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/14 09:26 PM
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There really isn't a contradiction here. Rape in these sense he's talking about is really ravishment. Women want to absolve all responsibility and enjoy being simply being a woman, or simply feeling situations and things around them. More importantly, rape in this case is a woman getting everything she wants sexually without doing anything, in some cases not even things she's thought about. It's a also a validation that she's so sexy that her mate can't resist her, and all he can do is give her …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/14 07:39 PM
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lol fair enough on all of this, but NO I am not coming to the dark side! But we can rule the universe together!? haha I'm fully monogamous and committed, it's my love of social anthropology and evolutionary biology that brings me to TRP. Wrong sciences. ;) TRP feigns it's usage of biology/anthropology, it's a bit comical. It's not detailed enough to get me up in arms, so I just sit back in enjoy. I hated being single and the hookup scene, but I enjoy observing it and listening to other people's …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/14 11:32 PM
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1.) Again, how do you know? It's all your experiences vs. mine. My experience as a woman is that charisma is very important, but can never override physical repulsion. It can override that feeling of, "Meh, he's okay". We're just looking at it from different perspectives. I come from doing it, you come from watching it. From my perspective it's about finding a way to do it, to get in. The problem is almost never finding a way, the problem is usually timing. The second problem is having the coura…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/14 11:20 PM
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1.) Physical attraction. Women do have physical preferences and turnoffs. Sure, they may deviate from their ideals occasionally, but we're talking about a 9 woman falling for a 6 guy with great game, not a 9 woman going home with a 90-year-old morbidly obese guy in a scooter. No amount of "skill" could influence me to have sex with certain men, and I'm not even a 9. Back when I was single I occasionally fell for less attractive guys with really great senses of humor who could flirt well, but the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/14 10:56 PM
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Wait so now all it takes to bed a 9 is just to approach enough 9s? Well if you learn the skills sure. What else would you think it would be? I guess there's a chance you may eventually come across someone who is too drunk to see straight, but imagine that Fat Bastard (a la Austin Powers) Well you're not looking for drunk chicks, you're looking for girls that want to see something different that what she's seen in the past, and from you. I wouldn't even call myself a 9, but the guy having the con…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/14 10:28 PM
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I'm so glad to hear that. "How would you like to make it up to me?" See what's in her head, and insert your ideas.
/r/seduction25/07/14 09:56 PM
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There really isn't realism in partners. The fact is a guy that has the balls to talk to 9s all the time, and try to lay them will hit a home run with a 9, guaranteed. He may have to clean up his appearance, but he may not have to lose weight. Timing is an element of game that is unpredictable. Plenty of women rebound with guys that are not their type. If he learns to be smooth; it's only a matter of time. The main thing that people must do is look at results. A person shouldn't be honest with hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/14 09:55 PM
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Do you think there is some suppressed hatred within TRP for the mods/ECs/rules? NO hatred Red Pill is just very protected. I know the common sentiment among RPers is that their mods are doing a terrific job, and without them, they'd be inundated or whatever, but how far is there some resentment? It's reddit, if no one bans people would just run a muck. Do you think its a minority and most are satisfied? I think it's the same as any other reddit. Except in other Reddits you will be banned for bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/14 09:28 PM
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That makes sense.
/r/PussyPass25/07/14 09:39 AM
1

Casual/LTR you will have the same risks. All you can do is take the proper precautions.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 03:41 AM
1

100% yes. You will know you've dominated too much when she seeks freedom of her thoughts. OR when she begins to reflect you.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 03:38 AM
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At the end of the day she wants to know that you support her. She knows you can't totally believe in feminism. I'd say that question was a 100% shit test. I think you answered it well.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 03:34 AM
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Ask yourself if you like men? If the answer is no, and I'm sure it is. Realize that there are good and bad things about women. Sort properly to find the ones worth your time. On the way, sleep with as many as you desire.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 01:43 AM
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I'd say why are you wasting time on Facebook? (hehe) I'd ask her why it shouldn't be disputed? Agree with whatever point she says. Then ask here what would if those that disagree win or could they really win with Facebook page? The issue probably more emotional than rational. The goal is to get her to talk about she feels about issue. Then agree what you believe in, and remind her (just as you did) that people will just disagree. This way you don't agree feminism, but you agree with her points t…
/r/askTRP25/07/14 01:39 AM
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This is interesting. Why is oral considered intercourse versus sodomy? Where's the proof in the case? Why was a complaint even filed? If I were a judge, I'd just dismiss based on lack of evidence, at least that's the way it seems.
/r/PussyPass24/07/14 11:34 PM
0

Necessary. You needs a guys night too.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 03:54 PM
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always.. the only thing with guys is that if a girl fails a shit test.. and she put out most of us will still sleep with her, but may not call her back.. girls aren't usually like that.. if you fail their shit test.. you may be put on bench or cut from the team..
/r/seduction24/07/14 01:17 AM
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yea i was on my phone
/r/PussyPass24/07/14 12:02 AM
1

In America it's what you can prove not what actually happened. So be careful when restraining.
/r/PussyPass23/07/14 11:07 PM
1

Dude if you're doing physics you must have some passion.. Tell her about your passion and make her believe in it.. Now you're playing into automatic response.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 10:30 PM
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It's because she doesn't bathe; she's filthy. That's it.. Then why didn't' he offer to bathe with her? If the answer was so simple.. So are you a teenager or just naive? Neither.. If you resent not sleeping with your mate in marriage, you shoudl be in the relationship. Frustrated sure, anyone would be. Resent please.. Learn to seduce your wife differently and it's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/14 04:32 PM
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She should probably bathe more. He should probably listen and find out why she feels gross. This is clearly a case of a broken man lashing out rather than any attempt at reconciliation -- presumably that ship has sailed and the resentment has already set i He's definitely frustrated. Resent her for not sleeping with him? haha a few times. haha.. He might be too sensitive for this relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/14 04:03 PM
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Please, don't be an elitist faggot. Resorting to insults. Wow, how surprising. The fact of the matter is all our current observations (especially research on genetically unrelated adopted siblings raised together and identical twins raised separately point to a large genetic component to personality. I myself am an identical twin, the similarity in personality between us is greater than any two other individuals I've ever met by far. It's not a huge stretch to assume the reason we're way more si…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 03:58 AM
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https://www.google.ca/webhp?sourceid=chrome-instant&ion=1&espv=2&ie=UTF-8#q=heritability+of+personality+traits http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Five_personality_traits#Heritability Please don't Google research.. do real research.. No, there isn't, nobody is arguing that personality traits are purely environmental. There is actually. In science things must provable with conditions. Saying behavior is genetic is just uninformed. For example, we don't know how to activate all genes. So our ability …
/r/askTRP23/07/14 03:31 AM
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Lol, you honestly must be retarded to think that the genes that build your brain don't contribute to your mental characteristics. You must not do much research. This is just false, it's know that genetics contribute greatly to a person's personality, the only debate is how much. There's considerable debate. And when it comes to love/relationship even the chemistry is nebulous. It's not even worth bringing up.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 03:01 AM
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You keep saying my body will change (at 28?). Yes it will. It will change every year of your life. That's a lie people tell themselves so they feel better. Nope actually true. Aging happens to everyone. Anyway she hasn't prioritized her husband much at all, and now he's out the door. Better luck next time If she has a career, or happens to be busy for a stint it doesn't mean anything. 1 month or even 2 months is par for the course of marriage. Especially if she feels gross. I don't think you thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/14 02:59 AM
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I'm not sure what studies you're referring to, but behavior has yet to be proven to be genetic.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 02:51 AM
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nope. winners recognize a sour deal and bolt. I care about a few people where there's no hope in fixing things, and I did the right thing - cut my losses. That's the thing there's never no hope. However, if your not willing to try or even fight you probably shoudl have never thought. This situation isn't one of those.. Frankly, I'm not sure why you commented so cynically. She's 28. I'm older than that and reversed weight gain with boring standard methods. You don't know any of her situation. She…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/14 02:32 AM
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It's also about recognizing when something isn't worth the effort. When it's your own wife, that sucks, but there's no kids, so be thankful for minor favors. That's what losers think. If you care about her the effort is based on the reward. Battle scars are nothing but accoutrements of learning, and they will heal. they don't have to. In a long enough time frame weight gain is inevitable. It happens. Your body will change over time as well, and nothing will stop that. security doesn't get girls …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/14 12:58 AM
1

binary is easy.. Most basic human thoughts are If then statements/situations.. There is no reason that relationship position should be binary..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/14 02:28 AM
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Compliment her looks before you've fucked her, never. Compliment something you know she's insecure about once you have rapport, always. Wining dining before sex, never. Nice always must have context. She craves context, so you must be sure your niceness is framed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/14 02:38 PM
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To me it felt like an immature couple where the wife no longer feels attracted to her husband, but is in denial of that for some reason, and rationalizes it away. A lot of people point on maturity as an issue. But not many people just point out frustration. Not sure I understand that. To me, it just seems like past a certain point, what is more communication going to accomplish? If the couple is not communicating well to begin with, what makes you think that more communication will help? And the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/14 05:10 AM
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But one thing that I've been curious about for a while, is that since many Redpillers feel that a woman's inherent value comes from her femininity and being a wife/mother, does that mean that a female who is naturally "unfeminine" or has no desire to be a wife/have children has no value? No value would be silly, less value, well yes. femininity should not be discouraged, but what about the women who just aren't traditionally feminine? Usually considered queer until they are able to at least feig…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/14 04:46 AM
1

The goal is to assimilate the RP ideas that work with your personality and act without thinking. I'm not sure what you're question is with natural, it's the same in anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/14 06:45 PM
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No you don't, just have a few drinks for confidence (or do what I do and eat benzos) and talk to the girl. Not that simple. You can't drink with a girl in a park. I rarely try with this but I have fucked a girl who physically speaking was way above my league. Didn't need anyone to teach me. Try to repeat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/14 02:37 AM
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But this is the thing, from what I can see IRL everyone is doing it. No one I know who wants casual sex is having any trouble getting it. And I hang with the kind of geeky quirky people like me. No one is having trouble getting laid. Most people go for women they can get. If you want women you can't get you usually need to learn how to do it, or have someone teach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/14 01:59 AM
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The thing is my game is so deep it's part me, that's' the thing. ;) But even if you aren't, is getting casual sex really something you need to read up online to do properly? Need definitely not. But if you're not doing it, or want more selection, then yes. And yet with very little effort it is extremely easy for me to have casual sex with a girl even though my particular sexual interests are quite specialist (if it ain't BDSM I ain't interested). That's a huge sorter right there. There are plent…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/14 01:24 AM
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1) RP 2) Talk to her on the way to the gym. I'd love to come over, but you need to think about why you're with him. After all these fights there must a reason. I'll call you later. This is a silly situation. If he goes, even if he sleeps with her it won't last. If she can't handle him not being available when she "needs" him, well that's how it will be in the relationship. No way someone can be there 24/7. She has to make a decision to leave the bf for anything to be lasting with this gym dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 11:29 PM
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Hahaha, what? Ooookay. Yeah, I'm sure my SO would be having a grand ole time if I'm dry as the sahara and DOA in the sack. Why do you think KY/lube was invented? You have an asshole? ;) Besides just because I get hard doesn't mean I want to have sex any way, and any guy can tell you that. Doesn't matter, had sex? Quality over quantity. I'm sure my partner would rather I'd rather be absolutely dying for the D when I'm fucking rather than phoning it in out of a sense of duty. Not to mention the is…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 06:18 PM
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It really depends on the relationship.. I'd say she's more disgusted that her husband can't make her feel the way she wants to feel. Or she doesn't feel valued for any number of reasons.... Which could lead to her sleeping with someone else for sure. Too hard to say in totality though.. When you talk behavior, and instincts you get into really murky waters, because you don't know. The thing is a lot people don't want to have sex when they are preoccupied with work, or something pressing that req…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 05:55 PM
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Are you serious? yep Most people, men included, would rather not have sex if their partner was not into it. Enthusiasm may not matter to you, but it is essential to most people. Otherwise what you're getting is about as good as what your hand and lotion can do, without the trouble. Part of learning how to have deep sex with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 03:59 PM
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Sorry, is English your first language? I'm not following you so I can't respond. I will say that this statement is always true for me, and while I acknowledge that some people do have responsive sexualities, not everybody does. I corrected it.. This statement isn't always true. In the case of fucking when you do not enjoy, you are putting your enjoying in your partners hands. So you might think/ believe your partner can not make it enjoyable for you. Again, I disagree with you. If I don't want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 03:50 PM
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My beliefs are based on experience with this exact situation. Are yours? Well experiences and study. I have had sex when I didn't want to for months on end with different lovers. Sometimes not even cumming. Somtimes I think to myself I don't want have sex, but I want see if i can find enjoyment. Some of the sex really awesome. Some as you say was terrible. Having bad sex isn't a bad thing, it happens. People should not be afraid of that. For me it taught me that everything doesn't have to be per…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 03:27 PM
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If I'm not horny and I fuck anyways, I won't enjoy it This statement isn't always true. IN the case of fucking when you do not enjoy, you are putting your enjoying in your partners hands. So you might think/ believe your partner can not make it enjoyable for you. If I do this often enough I might be put off sex completely because of the negative associations that will form as a result. I've never been with a man who has wanted to fuck when he's not horny It happens.. people initiate when they're…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 03:21 PM
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Actually it's not. Have you been in a relationship where one partner had sex they didn't want? Because I have and I can tell you, it destroyed any desire he had for sex over a period of about a year. How long should I have waited before he started loving it again, another year? I think you have a lot of limiting beliefs about sex. Maybe there's a good reason. Is it loving you? Or Sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 03:06 PM
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I disagree and I wouldn't be in a relationship with anyone who felt this way. Thankfully my SO and I are on the same page. I don't have a 'responsive' sexuality and I think duty sex is total BS. If I'm not horny it's not happening, period. I'm not going to fuck anyone out of a sense of obligation and I don't think anyone else should feel compelled to either. It's not about obligation. It's about trying other things. No matter what you're limited if you only fuck when you're horny. You have to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 02:54 PM
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If I don't feel like having sex, I'm not going to. What I'm saying you should also have sex when you don't want to, if you're in an LTR. That doesn't mean all the time. The reason is that some of the times you think that you don't want to, or whatever could turn out the best sex. If you're in an LTR, I think that's part exploration of each other. The problem with this relationship is lack of effective communication, not the fact that OP isn't forcing herself to fuck her husband when she doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 02:25 PM
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Understanding seduction is not about being a white night. It's about understand how to seduce your lady. Nothing to do with white night. For example, you see your wife struggling to go the gym to make herself look better. It doesn't make you any man a white knight to tell her that he appreciates her effort, or that enjoys seeing her all sweaty after the gym. If she's feeling gross about herself, and that translates into no sex, there's a reason. The reason could really be that she doesn't want h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 02:11 PM
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What? Why? Why would you even want to have sex with someone who's not into it? Only way to find out things that you don't' know about yourself. Or I can anyway. Maybe sometimes have sex when you don't mind but don't particularly want to, but to have sex when you actively don't want to is just not going to be fun for anyone and destroy whatever sexual desire you had. Actually the opposite is true over time. Definitely most people's initial reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 02:14 AM
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Anyway, this is the type of union aint gonna work. Last chick I was seeing withhold sex from me and I took that as pretty much a confirmation to start fucking other chicks. Were you married to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 01:46 AM
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Are you freaking kidding me? Nobody is saying that she doesn't have a perfect right to say "No". Only that there is something fundamentally wrong when she is saying "No" 9 times out of 10. I don't think it's wrong for her to say No 9 out of 10 times. If it's happening it's their job to figure it out. He's doing what he must do. He obviously accepted her "No" every single time. She never implies he did anything to her, except for being distant the last week before she left for a 10 day business t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/14 01:45 AM
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Sure of course there's some discouragement. But that's what LTRs are about. However, in a relationship you still have to learn to seduce her in different way through out the relationship. So IMO, his response is correct, and response is appropriate. However, he will have to do something else the next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 11:59 PM
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Funny you say that. .however good recommendation is to have sex when you don't want to on both sides. You have your whole life to fight about petty shit. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 10:26 PM
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But do you consider this a good example of open communication? I applaud him for being clear in what the problem is. I think even if she's upset, she will thank him for being clear. He's also successfully filtering out the emotional irrationality of the situation by making her delay gratification for 10 days. He's some what lucky in a way. I'm not saying the wife is blameless but this sounds like something a high schooler would do. Deliberately hiding from your wife's texts and calls to prove a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 09:09 PM
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Clearly in his mind it is. But laying out what actually is going on and giving her time to think about it, knowing that she will be emotional, is the only way. The timing is just convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 08:58 PM
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My husband has actually done something similar. It wasn't about sex, but it was so long ago now I've forgotten what the issue was. Having hard numbers in front of me opened my eyes big time. I hadn't wanted to admit the issue before and was trying to find ways to rationalize it, but you can't argue with data. I'm very glad he snapped me out of it so that I could do something about it. It's funny how in relationship we don't' notice stuff that we do. Honestly, I think that's one the good thing ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 08:00 PM
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haha.. complimenting effort goes a long way.. if she going in the gym an is a little slimmer.. complement that.. usually something good to complement..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 07:58 PM
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Or he could just complement her and have sex with her. Pretty easy, ;) In fact, it would motivate her to get in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 07:51 PM
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Do you think she would react favorably if she gave her a spreadsheet in person? Would you? (personally I don't think any one would react favorably to a spreadsheet about sex. I mean if a girl brought a spread sheet to me saying, "I've only cum 1/10 times we've had sex. That's a problem that you need to fix".. I'm not sure I would take that. I'd probably be upset though. But actually me I might actually really horny about it. hah..)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 07:38 PM
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You may not like his approach. However, if you're advocating communication I think this is the first step, at least in his mind. I mean it gives her 10 days to think about it, and she knows exactly what she's thinking about. She also is very clear on the problem. I mean if he's attempted sleeping with her 25 times and nothing has come out of it, we have have to assume 1/25 was a talk. But even if it wasn't, what better way to begin a talk than with all his information & position upfront? Her rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 07:36 PM
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What is he supposed to do if she's denying just about every sexual request? Clearly she didn't recognize the severity of the situation, so this method is must have some merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 06:52 PM
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I think he's putting it on front street with the spreadsheet..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/14 06:40 PM
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Life doesn't work like that. You don't know who you're going to meet, and who's going to be valuable. Just make the best choice that you can stick to & learn from the mistakes and successes. Don't be scared to take risk on someone. Remember there will always be others, no matter what you do or who you meet.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 08:23 PM
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In a practical sense I don't think feminism is what you say it is. I consider feminism a pro women platform. Feminism doesn't really want equality because they aren't giving pussy power, or women en mass aren't going to give it up either. Similarly, MRA's just deny that Male Privilege exist. (chuckle chuckle) I think feminism is very important, and shouldn't class with RPW. However, there are limits. For me I'm, ok with women empowered in ways that don't put men down. There's feminist literature…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/14 12:58 PM
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stop stalking her.. fuck 10 women
/r/seduction16/07/14 04:04 AM
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good for him.. same as 42 year old man dating a 20 year old woman edit..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 08:02 PM
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I think it's an important question. I would say that's not exactly the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/14 05:03 AM
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Do you think getting what you want makes people happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 01:32 PM
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True
/r/MensRights14/07/14 12:54 PM
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haha funny you say that.. I think that's' exactly why feminism can never "win". But I think for those women that need to have uplifted, in tough situations or failed by a someone they trust, feminism can have a lot of value. And in those cases doesn't really bash men, just strengthens women like it's supposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 03:21 AM
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he wants strictly sexual dominance. She'd have to drop an ideology she's heavily invested in to get more. Right or he could just make her do it, then she doesn't change her views. Cause she'd doing it please her mate, and excuse that allows her to save face and maintain her image.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 03:20 AM
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What I mean how do good controls when you men and women don't commit the same crimes at even similar rates..
/r/MensRights14/07/14 01:16 AM
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I meant just saying that she finds it ok for him to take the lead and do simple things without asking, and he doesn't have to go all, "may I kiss you, m'lady." many guys seem to be terrible about that. I don't think that's "shaky." It's shaky to explain to someone. "Honey, I want you to fuck me like a whore sometimes, but other times I want to listen to me take all my directions. Problem is i don't know when I want either. ok?" Do you mean something else than that they're established the relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/14 12:09 AM
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yes, that's why i said 'of his own initiative.' doesn't seem terribly complex to me; she just doesn't want him to fake it. it'll be poor and you won't actually be submitting to someone else's will. I don't see any confusion about that: She seems clear that she doesn't want to completely direct him. Hopefully he could have some similar realization of dominant desires and they could talk about it and he might stop fearing raping her or w/e. I think the mistake is to think that her reaction is abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/14 11:22 PM
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I think it's more complex than that.. Because she already knows he will do what she says, but she actually doesn't want that. She wants him to do it.. The problem is that what she really wants everything enjoy with of a lack of investment, she is also unsure who she is, which I think is the reason why she's complaining. Especially, if it's something he wants, then she doesn't have the worry about the conflict within herself. He also be confused if she tells him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/14 10:51 PM
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You don't' see a conflict in what you're saying? She wants to be strong feminist so much so she's willing to protest, but simultaneously she wants her bf to listen to her give her the lead but still be dominant in the traditional male sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/14 10:40 PM
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How could this study be done reliably?
/r/MensRights13/07/14 10:34 PM
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What do you think is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/14 10:26 PM
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Well I'm glad it works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/14 09:44 PM
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Rape or domination fantasies seem to be common among feminists (no I don't have a study, just based on what I've seen so you're free to disagree). 1 fantasy for women. Either way if your ideology/religion makes you feel guilty for wanting sex that appeals to you you can either suppress your sexuality (which usually ends badly and leaves you miserable) or you can ditch your ideology/religion and find new friends. Too bad most people want their cake and eat too.. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/14 06:47 PM
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OK well do you get more arousal in women for talking or from looking better?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/14 05:36 PM
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Well, I'd rather not take your word for it, I'd like to see some hard evidence. Then I suggest you try it. Not exactly sure what you're getting at here, or how it relates to what I said. Just comment really. I think i was think of different post when i wrote that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/14 03:16 PM
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Yes, but I didn't say "desire" I said "expectation." It's not a big deal or dumb for me to desire a winning lottery ticket, but It would be dumb to expect that I will ever find one, and even dumber to pin my happiness to that expectation. The dumb part is thinking that things outside of yourself should govern your happiness. When you think of money as root of your happiness you're lost, than might actually be ill information. But lets roll with the Lottery Ticket. You wish your for the lottery t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/14 03:11 PM
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SO just the act of having sex often means you're attracted to each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/14 02:55 PM
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It's dumb to expect that you can or will "click" with just anyone. Having a desire for something isn't a big deal, and also isn't dumb. Sometimes you don't click. Most of the time people won't be able to tell everything about their partner unless the partner communicates the desire in question. There's nothing wrong with that. Your kind of missing the point. If her desire is for the guy to take the lead, she can't really just tell him. Cause in truth she doesn't necessarily want that. What she w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/14 02:23 PM
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It's commentary. You said is there anything else to say so added the else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/14 01:12 AM
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OR maybe she has to realize that happiness starts within in herself. And she should wait for someone else to do it for her. She must learn to do herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/14 12:27 AM
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Bring your husband over my house, i'll pull out my attraction meter at once. ;) I'm finding people think of attraction differently. How would you describe it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/14 10:26 PM
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Asking her boyfriend anything is exactly what she's not doing I'm not so sure he asked her to peg him. Asking her boyfriend anything is exactly what she's not doing, hence why I say she wants him to read her mind. I know what you're trying to say. The thing most women aren't going to tell you exactly what they want, unless you've developed a fair amount trust with them. She can barely trust her self, how can she possibly trust this other person?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/14 09:45 PM
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Surely no one can read mind, and mind reading can kill a relationship. She's not asking for him to read her mind, even though that's her fantasy. She's asking him to take the lead so she doesn't have to run the entire relationship. Or in other words, show me why us being together is better than us being apart, but given me some direction. Even still there's nothing wrong with fantasizing that a mate knows how to do everything in your head.It's pretty cool if and when it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/14 09:24 PM
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I was using gender in the biological sense. Not sure what difference replacing "gender" with "sex" makes here. You can use any type of grouping you wish, and the above would hold true. Gender in biological sense? What does that mean.?. Sex is biological. Gender is a social construct. I'm not following you here. I explained it twice, in pretty good detail the second time. This would be more useful if you would point out what part you're struggling to understand. If increasing sample size fails to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/14 09:21 PM
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awesome.. sigh/10.. great quote..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/14 09:01 PM
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This is why I said she should be honest with her boyfriend first She can't be honest, she doesn't know what she wants. See if he can do what she needs to be satisfied. This actually won't satisfy her. She didn't say she was fulfilling his fantasy by pegging her, it was hers. Clearly she knows he will do whatever she ask, but that's not really what she's looking for. I don't see what you expect her to do by looking into herself. She already knows what her desires are. It's part of personal growth…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/14 09:01 PM
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believe it or not, this is the what we try to prevent and deem unacceptable. ? this describes the situation you presented I really don't' think i presented such a situation. that deflects from assuming responsibility and deflecting to some abstract unangibel emotional issue(in this case I want a beta but I can't make myself love him). The womenly mistique AKA doing things that are not congruent with your claimed values and reasoning. And that : Not really. It says something very specific, a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/14 08:57 PM
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I'm confused. Doesn't TRP try to generalize and apply the large picture on each individual situation? Don't they try to create a framework that can be used to pick up girls? They do for sure. It's the view flawed. But effective because they've done a good job giving people ways to measure their performance. Funnily, If alpha then having sex, if not alpha not having sex. Simple enough, and also well done. One of my 'issues' with TRP is that it assume their theories apply to (almost) all men and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/14 08:53 PM
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Well that's my point. If the study's results are valid, I should be able to replicate the same results with a different researcher. The math is one thing, the science is another. We're talking humans here. There are about what, 4 billion individuals of each gender? For a study, especially one that observes correlations rather than experiment designs, to be even begin to deduce characteristics of genders, they should have a sample size as large as feasibly possible (considering time and financial…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/14 08:48 PM
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It's not dumb it's nice when people just click. How can that be dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/14 08:45 PM
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