Oneitis? Now is the time.

etcomro · 2014-08-29T20:22:54+00:00

Good job taking action and being proactive. Too many people on this sub sit around, whining about "how do I get over this one girl blahblahblah". I'm glad someone is finally taking the advice everyone in this community has been giving for years.

the_consul · 2014-08-29T20:39:28+00:00

Wowzers people sound butthurt in this thread. This person is having a good time. Probably the best way to get over someone is to meet other people. Good job!

InFa-MoUs · 2014-08-30T01:07:39+00:00

Dude I'm suffering from Oneitis so bad right now. This just gave me hope, because I've also been seeing all other girls as just "not her".

Zoloir · 2014-08-29T18:43:09+00:00

This sounds like the most unhealthy thing I've heard in a while. Your inner game is complete shit because you're unhappy and instead of actually getting the fuck over your problems you're just fucking around to try to feel better.

w4nd3rlu5t · 2014-08-29T21:37:28+00:00

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projectm35 · 2014-08-29T20:41:02+00:00

Been there man. Meaningless sex just made me feel worse. Time and self-effort fixed it though.

taskarnin · 2014-08-29T18:59:58+00:00

sounds more like you have an unhealthy obsession over someone... Oneitis implies no other will do too..

masterrod · 2014-08-29T21:53:44+00:00

I like the hyperbole.. 7 more to bed..

Laura714 · 2014-08-30T00:18:41+00:00

I am probably not qualified to make much of a comment as you sound a LOT older than me - I am just 15 but look about 12 or even younger; that can cause problems in trying to start or even just look into the possibility of getting a girl who I can wake up beside in the morning after a night of pure, total pleasure. My oneitis is literally my right hand! (I don't think I have missed a single day without a screaming orgasm since I was 9!) My biggest problem is not getting a girl, there are plenty at my (boarding) school, a Convent School where sex education is given very little time and seems to be linked in some way to Religious Education, which because it is a Faith School, is not comparative so much as Catholic, other religions being treated like some sort of voodoo or something and really plays on Catholic Guilt - something you will be very aware of if you too go to either a Catholic or Anglican Catholic School like so many CofE schools; here in Scotland there are only a couple of Anglican Schools left so most of us go to Roman Catholic schools. I can hardly imagine having 3 different girls in a week! I believe in relationships and not just sex, and really want a couple of GORGEOUS girls to take an interest but looking so young as I do, they are scared off because I look like that. Doesn't mean I am not experienced, I have had a couple of serious GFs and when I was 11 mad a huge mistake by going to bed with a BOY. It was interesting only because of his body; I found myself wanting to have a penis so I could REALLY sh*g a girl properly. He was 16 or 17 and it was pretty BIG, hurt like hell when he put it in me and broke what was left of my hymen. Also he didn't have a clue what really turns a girl on. He was so rough and could hardly even find the proper place, which I find incredible since it was sticking out as hard as a penis and is the only bit of me that is a decent size! I do not have any boobs to speak of, and I haven't even developed proper pubic hair yet. The doc says it is perfectly normal, I could stay like this a few years yet. I do like your way of putting things though. I just wish I knew how to attract the girl that I want in particular but I have never talked about sex with her. I SUSPECT she is bisexual at the least (noticed her checking out the bodies in the showers! Obvious when that is what I do myself!) but am terrified at bringing up the subject. I once said in class that God made people as they were, straight, bi, gay or whatever and there is nothing can be done. The nun seemed to think it was a disease or something and told me to think of the Virgin Mary every time I got "those thoughts"! Why are girls so reluctant to even try anything with me? I am convinced it's because I look like a preteen with zero sex. I have been bullied because of just my size and lack of sexual physical maturity - which does not stop me getting as hard and wet as anybody else, nor does it interfere with the wonderful feeling of the ORGASM - the best thing God gave us! How do I work up the courage to ask Jenni to come stay with me at a half term holiday and how best to seduce her? She is almost a year younger than me but could probably get served in a pub! Long, black hair, 34B bra (I checked! Mine is a 30A heavily padded and don't really NEED one at all...) but they look bigger, and in the shower she has an absolute Forest of pubic hair, even some going from pubic area to belly button and some on the top of her thighs, the hairiest girl I know! And I haven't got a boob or a hair on my body at all. Must be the reason don't you think?

Title	Oneitis? Now is the time.
Author	w4nd3rlu5t
Upvotes	63
Comments	34
Date	August 29, 2014 6:02 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2exs78/oneitis_now_is_the_time/
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