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Great shit man
/r/askTRP19/11/20 05:26 PM
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Fucking hurts. Men love women. Women love children.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:26 PM
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Because they’re children. Basic stuff and good that you are amused. Internalize the value in that.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 02:50 AM
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I think it is possible for a woman to love a man. That’s where you get alpha widows. The man just has to train her good.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 02:43 AM
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That’s on you. Should have told her that her pussy is yours and only you can fuck it while you were inside her. But that requires leadership and dominance.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 02:42 AM
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You don’t have to be energy high all the time. Look pissed for a little bit. Then look happy. Women love emotion.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 09:09 PM
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I’d like to add be patient. Still be a loving caring husband but also do these things above. Play with her emotions but not too much negative. Put her on an emotional rollercoaster.
/r/askMRP14/11/20 04:13 PM
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In my opinion you’re just making this more painful for yourself. I would just cut the cord as soon as possible to start your new life the way it will be. You can still have a lovely Christmas with the kids just come to her house in the morning. That’s how it will be in the future too right? Otherwise you are going to be back and forth for the next several months and completely miserable. Not to mention, that she is just using you as a placeholder until you move out. She has made it clear she is …
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/20 04:50 PM
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And to think you have to do extra WORK to obtain one
/r/MGTOW18/10/20 12:20 PM
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We live in a gynocracy. Fuck these hoes
/r/MensRights16/10/20 06:59 PM
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A bullshit do nothing job created by the government doesn’t make you a badass. Lol. Your Mom is a government parasite too.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/20 06:54 PM
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Just another woman rationalizing bad behavior aka making excuses. It doesn’t even surprise me any more. Consequences are coming though.
/r/MensRights14/10/20 05:43 PM
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Definitely starting to think this
/r/MGTOW10/10/20 02:20 AM
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In short, love yourself and take care of yourself first as if you were your only child. Look up the anxiety guy on YouTube and do the love your inner child exercises. Also, get some friends and hang out
/r/askTRP09/10/20 12:19 PM
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Agree love my kids but you don’t have to get married to have kids. Just set the status quo and spend time with them and get custody or half ASAP
/r/askTRP02/10/20 05:28 PM
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Yea turn 30, work all the time, have kids, and exercise a lot and you won’t even have time to think about
/r/askTRP24/09/20 02:48 PM
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I’ve seen it happen. The father moves closer to his children and grandchildren and leaves the house to the mother. The mother and the daughters don’t get along much so she is left alone in the house she “won” but doesn’t get visited often. Maybe that’s what she wanted.
/r/MGTOW19/09/20 11:26 AM
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Very nice.
/r/MGTOW19/09/20 11:24 AM
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Good points. He’s also forgetting the fact of the wall. Her fun time full of options will expire 30 or mid 30s if she is really attractive. A mans time really doesn’t run out if he builds himself. We have the opportunity to play the long game. We’re hitting our peak at 40.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 11:25 AM
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I tend to agree with you. But I think it’s all about preferences some people are different. But yea at the 5 year mark most relationships are done. There’s a reason it takes two special people to stay married.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 05:27 PM
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Good point. I would say think about the light in your life a woman can bring. The happiness she makes you feel. Your child will make you feel that too. But it’s just like any relationship. You have to work at it and invest in it. Sometimes you even get more enjoyment out of having kids especially long term. You’re really building someone from the ground up it’s almost an art. Men love women and children. Women love children.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 05:24 PM
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This is so true. I’m glad I moved to the trades. The real fuck ups make themselves known quickly and you get respect for actually knowing your shit. No maneuvering to look good, no bullshit paperwork. Just do your job and be smart about it plus get paid for a workout and make some guy friends and earn respect.
/r/RedPillWorkplace08/08/20 01:56 PM
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I already am banned from commenting most of the time
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:28 PM
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Yea the stuff with the child is totally not normal. Her sleeping around is not surprising based on the way she is asking. It’s over dude. Protect yourself and your child and move on. Cut her off, get a lawyer immediately.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/20 07:10 PM
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Yea we live in a gynocracy. The doublespeak is real.
/r/MensRights26/07/20 12:30 PM
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Amen to that. Glorious post
/r/MGTOW18/07/20 01:08 PM
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Interesting. I’ve recently began to think about the divorce and her as a death. The old person she was when we got married is literally dead. She is someone new entirely. I miss that person and grieve at their loss. I think it helps.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/20 06:16 PM
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Perfectly stated
/r/MGTOW09/07/20 01:53 PM
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Yes a gap in how many hours women work. They work less, therefore earn less
/r/MensRights09/07/20 01:30 PM
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I didn’t want a female lawyer specifically because they have female in group bias. Nothing personal it’s just a fact
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/20 04:24 PM
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Get any agreement with a woman in writing. It will save your ass later guaranteed when she changes her mind. Trust me she will
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 05:08 PM
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The programming is so bad that men think of other men like tools too. I’ve even done it too. Shows how deep the programming goes.
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 04:55 PM
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Gold. And to think I was sad after she discarded me in her 30s. I should be thanking her.
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 04:43 PM
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Funny enough, they don’t seem to see long term what’s going to happen. I’ve seen them fully set up nice house dual income could retire early if his and and spouse just worked a little overtime. Both making over 150k a year combined income and she leaves has to live in a smaller house take care of the kids by herself. Gee, I wonder why you’re so miserable now. Life is a hell of a lot easier with a teammate with LOTS of skin in the game. Problem is, women don’t have skin in the game any more as bi…
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 04:29 PM
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Yep see it all the time
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 04:27 PM
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Drama queen ungrateful for the good life she ended up with and upset that her looks has faded. It’s making her crazy really show. Sad in a way. She’ll be better off accepting it all.
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 04:04 PM
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Cut the cord now or strategically exit. Fuck up your finances first so she won’t get shit in the divorce
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 03:40 PM
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Another hypocritical woman. Surprised face
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 03:35 PM
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Good story man
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 03:27 PM
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Yep. When I cut my ex off everyone said I was controlling. Nevermind the fact that I didn’t say anything about her account I only wanted control of MY income. So trying to control my income is controlling/abusing her. How entitled can you be?
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 03:13 PM
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This is great as women are finding out how useless they really are and will be forced to lower their standards to find a man to support them. Finally, at least SOME kind of check on their power.
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 03:09 PM
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I see this as feminism coming home to roost and it’s a good thing. Women have been on their high horse so long because both parents could work. Now they will be put in their place. I’ve made sacrifices for my kids in my life that this lady couldn’t even fathom and I’m still making them every day. Women, stay home and let a man support you. You’re a crappy employee any way. And when the workforce gets chopped in half the demand for workers should go up and help wages. And frankly I think it’s hil…
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 03:07 PM
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Of course - she is just roping you in
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 02:53 PM
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Exactly lol. You can always tell if they’re fat by their hands
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 02:09 PM
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Forget about mgtow for a moment and ask why are men putting their emotional well being all on a woman or even another human being. This is not healthy at all. Why are we trying to fill a hole inside ourselves this way? Low self esteem? What is it?
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 01:53 PM
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You too. All you need is some cool bro’s at that pool now.
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 01:40 PM
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I’d be happy to have my son loving with me if he was doing what you do to better himself. I swear some parents hate their kids. Mine drive me crazy but I’m all about having a relationship with them it is awesome and fulfilling.
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 01:35 PM
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Yea so us people that work hard to take care of our health get punished because fat people cant stop stuffing their face. Thanks government
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 01:32 PM
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Should have seen how fast my ex left when she was misbehaving and I got my own bank accounts. It was like a fighter jet taking off! Haha
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 01:28 PM
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Yep and our economy works that way too. Banks act irresponsibly? Bail them out with our money. Penalize the savers, incentivize and reward the debt holders.
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 01:23 PM
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She’s been with him for 8 years. Nevermind the fact that his parents raised him for 18 and he probably has 12 years under his belt building up to his current situation. But fuck his parents and fuck him - imma get mine. Fuck this cunt
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 01:22 PM
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Very sad. Sometimes we need to block negativity out of our lives as a defense mechanism if we can. Sometimes that involves amputation which can be painful
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 01:03 PM
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Absolutely. This guy made a great decision.
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 01:00 PM
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Yes and I fear for these men.
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 12:55 PM
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Biologically speaking it’s because we’re social animals and our biology has programmed us to keep our progeny surviving. If you can understand it, it doesn’t hurt so much but yes it sucks to be a man in a lot of ways.
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 12:55 PM
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She got smacked down. Sweet justice
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 12:48 PM
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Base everything on what YOU want and what YOU give a fuck about. If YOU want to make the world a better place, you can do it the way you want it done.
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 12:47 PM
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If you are well off you can use your money to help fellow men who need it or children in need. It feels good too
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 12:46 PM
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Yes so we need to find a purpose. Lift up your fellow man. Have hope. Develop a friendship base and hobbies. Build something to help people. Be the light in a world of darkness.
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 12:45 PM
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Fuck
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 12:43 PM
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Good point. Kind of like “giving is more enjoyable than receiving.”
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 12:42 PM
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Social interactions are about what you get out of them. People are flawed in their own way just like we all are. We are built to be in communities.
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 12:41 PM
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Good points. I do think there is a battle on to divide people and keep us from uniting
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 12:40 PM
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Just another welfare program
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 12:36 PM
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Propaganda. The powers that be have co opted the female hive mind to destroy families and society for their own gain. It’s working. Look at everyone clamoring for the government to help them.
/r/MGTOW03/07/20 12:34 PM
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Go get that feminist indoctrination
/r/MGTOW02/07/20 11:33 AM
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Yes I’ve never seen such skill and accuracy. It warms my soul
/r/PussyPassDenied16/06/20 04:03 AM
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The difference is-blacks have actually been oppressed for a long time and women have always been privileged. So no, it’s actually the opposite
/r/MGTOW214/06/20 11:22 AM
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Yep. I’ve come to the realization that I’m just an animal. If I do the same things over and over I get bored and unhappy. The best therapy for me is getting out of the house and trying new experiences. This satisfies my animal brain. Then, I can go back to my logical boring repetitive life that my intelligent brain likes. But the animal brain needs that new sight and new smell. It’s the same reason a dog needs a walk not just the backyard. So get out there. Go visit that new store. That new park…
/r/MGTOW212/06/20 12:19 PM
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I can attest to the fact that if you can keep her second guessing and stay plan same as go plan mentality you will fare better. I was sad but kind of happy that she ended it. I acted sad way more than I actually was. She is a negative person that has a lot of growth to do. I have 50/50 joint legal no child support. We also made the same salary and I have worked off shifts for years to take care of the kids while she worked. I’m sitting pretty now tho. My schedule is still not the greatest but I’…
/r/RPChristians04/06/20 01:16 PM
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Good on you for taking the initiative. Most guys don’t they just let bad things happen to them
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/20 12:58 PM
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Most of these jobs are just bullshit jobs created for women.
/r/MGTOW28/05/20 06:15 PM
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Fuck this bitch. Wait a couple years and start making her life a living hell for your own amusement. Start slashing her tires busting out her windows etc. could help you to start feeling better and could make this bitch realize she shouldn’t mess with people :)
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:37 PM
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Notice how the first sentence of presenting a problem always starts out with “my wife”
/r/MGTOW21/05/20 08:40 PM
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It is when the state gives her the ability to screw you over
/r/MGTOW17/05/20 12:06 PM
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Flesh light seems to be a better investment every day
/r/MGTOW15/05/20 06:02 PM
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As a guy that was raised with a stepDad and a good one at that, no one can replace my Dad. My Dad wasn’t around and wasn’t ever really a good Dad but trust me, my step Dad didn’t ever fill that hole. I needed my Dad. Still do even tho he is not around. You’re needed more than you realize
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/20 11:48 AM
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Single mothers do such a great job raising their kids
/r/PussyPassDenied14/05/20 02:50 PM
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I agree. Trying to understand something not understandable can only bring more pain at this point. Best to focus on yourself getting some exercise trying to find peace.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/20 01:44 AM
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I agree it’s in our dna. There should be a balance. Everyone needs someone to vent to especially when times are hard. Me and my bro’s have bitch sessions sometimes where we just complain but it’s just venting and we end it on a positive note. Kind of like saying, yea it all sucks but let’s not dwell on it. That’s how men work their problems imo.
/r/MGTOW10/05/20 11:36 AM
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So be the light.
/r/MGTOW10/05/20 11:30 AM
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Just shows how fake they are. Men are the ones with true emotions. Women’s emotions are only based on their need to survive and what serves them.
/r/MGTOW10/05/20 11:26 AM
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Yep pretty much. What’s even the point of marriage but to have children and raise them proper? There isn’t. Without children it’s pointless to me. I’m more scared of dying knowing that I haven’t lived my life to my fullest than dying alone. This guy is living in fear. That’s not living it is merely surviving. Go it alone for a while and make yourself stronger that’s my advice
/r/askMRP06/05/20 06:58 PM
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Why not keep your options open? If you take her back I hope she fucks you over good you will have deserved it
/r/askMRP06/05/20 04:00 PM
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No no and no you’re thinking is fucked. Men hit their peak at 40 stop thinking like a woman. If you want her back tell her you’ll take her back after the divorce as a girlfriend and if she is a good girl for a year you’ll remarry her. Then after a year tell her to fuck off. She would do the same to you.
/r/askMRP06/05/20 03:54 PM
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Exactly. You don’t have kids why the fuck would you stay. Cut your losses become your peak and THEN find a woman. You are too focused on women. Focus on yourself become your own mountain you fucking faggot. Your blue pill post half makes me sick half pisses me off. What the fuck man?
/r/askMRP06/05/20 03:52 PM
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Well what do you want? Can this be salvaged if she was not in such a dark place? I’m sure you still care for her. It sounds like she gets zero time to herself so make it a regular weekly thing to take your daughter out for several hours give her some alone time. This will improve her mental health and attitude. If it doesn’t, it will be good for you and your daughter. Take initiative don’t ask her permission. I would also suggest spend Quality time with her without your kid on a weekly basis. Al…
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/20 03:04 PM
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Sounds like he is just jealous of you for some reason. Also, he has some deep seated issues you won’t be able to solve. Just be a rock but don’t tolerate disrespect
/r/askTRP01/05/20 03:50 AM
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Most women change after having kids. Mental issues really flare up for some reason
/r/MGTOW26/04/20 02:38 PM
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Work hard and you MAY be handed the keys to the kingdom. Weigh the risk reward before you commit
/r/MGTOW26/04/20 01:28 AM
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Yes manage the family. Recognize she is at breaking point and needs mental rest so give it to her. Take the kids out in the evening to the park without her for several hours. Have a fun time with them make your bond stronger. Have a picnic or pretend your camping kids love that shit. This is how to apply “manage the family”. Also, make sure you’re spending quality time with her away from the kids as well. Make it happen!
/r/askMRP25/04/20 02:01 PM
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They for sure damn well know! That’s why I play my part and let my smart kids figure it out themselves. Sometimes I think they’re smarter than me
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/20 01:58 PM
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Thank you for telling your experience. As a contrarian personality I tend to turn into a bitter angry person that the world isn’t the way I think it should be. So I have found that I have to check myself to maintain a balance. Yes the world is messed up. Does that mean I have to be a messed up person with it?
/r/RPChristians16/04/20 01:48 PM
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Emotionally and sexually available wife. Good. Drop the resentment man it will destroy your marriage so find a way to work through it. It sounds like you are bored and searching for something. What hole are you trying to fill. Figure it out. Pay attention to your wife or she WILL start getting attention and more from other men. Let’s say you search for what is missing and find out that it was right in front of you. But now it’s too late you have pushed her away. A relationship is like a garden y…
/r/askMRP16/04/20 12:45 PM
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Sounds pretty butt hurt to me
/r/askTRP16/04/20 11:51 AM
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Good lawyer question. You can take the abc’s of parenting through Coursera though and I guarantee it will make you a better parent and enjoy your kids more.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/20 02:54 AM
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Exactly. If you’re in a job that is not teaching you something then change jobs or ask the boss for some different responsibilities you can learn from.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:44 AM
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Jokes on them I earn double that per month.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:39 AM
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Or the next best thing, find a job where you’re learning something. Once you learn it, move onto the next job that can teach you something. And on and on. After a while the money will definitely follow
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:39 AM
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Damnit Freud!
/r/MGTOW15/04/20 02:16 AM
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Hahaha good one
/r/MGTOW15/04/20 02:15 AM
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This thread is full of gold
/r/MGTOW15/04/20 02:14 AM
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Good psychoanalysis. See how she is angry and he is graceful and friendly? Probably was that way in their relationship too.
/r/MGTOW15/04/20 02:13 AM
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Yea I don’t necessarily fault her for leaving but she should understand she was part of the equation. Relationships get in a slump and she was part of that. A lot of times a man just leans on a woman like she is his mother. But really she is enabling him. If she would have stopped nagging and instead just stopped taking care of him he would have figured it out eventually or not.
/r/MGTOW15/04/20 01:54 AM
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Yea I’ve done that too it happens. I kept the letter light so I am going to give it to her later today
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/20 01:14 PM
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You will just give it time. Try to focus on the good things in the present moment and forget the bad things but process your feelings when you get time. The letter I wrote to my daughter was quite therapeutic by the way. Good luck to you as well
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/20 12:56 PM
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O I know exactly what you mean. It’s painful when you can’t hug them in that moment. I just try to talk them through it and just spend as much time with them as possible I guess. About to write my daughter a letter after a tough goodbye tonight as well. I’m trying to be optimistic that this will make them a better person or resilient somehow. All I know is I just wanna be there for them as much as I can.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/20 01:14 AM
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Sounds great man. Just give it time it will get better. It won’t all happen in days. Enjoy your kids that’s really what matters.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/20 11:35 PM
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Yes the question is how do you get it going without turning into a cult. I like some things the Amish do but not others. I like how they think about the pros/cons of a new technology before they will integrate it into their society. They don’t let it take over their lives and seem fiercely independent of it if necessary.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 04:13 PM
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Yes. I don’t let my kids on social media. I wonder when there will be people that break off from society and demand certain technology rules of their group. Like no posting pictures of yourself online, no instagram, no Snapchat etc. kind of like the Amish I guess.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 02:39 PM
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I believe it. He couldn’t call CPS on her? If these were my kids I would make her life a living hell until she made things right
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/20 05:50 PM
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Yea they are not outsmarting men they never could. Although in their later years they will probably vote for more welfare and guess who will be paying for that in the new crappy economy while women sit at home?
/r/MGTOW23/03/20 05:49 PM
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Wow this is kidnapping. Law enforcement can’t get involved?
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/20 05:28 PM
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If you don’t have kids you should divorce ASAP. This will only get worse and is not worth saving. You may have to wait for this pandemic to blow over before the courts reopen but start living your life for you now.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/20 11:26 AM
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So the powers that be are trying to neuter the population. Great
/r/askTRP18/03/20 01:17 PM
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I feel your pain. Sucky timing
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/20 03:16 AM
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Yes I’m concerned. Just signed the settlement agreement and submitted to court and now it could be delayed? On top of that she just asked me why I didn’t fight harder after she filed. So now she will have time to think about it. I hope she can’t change her mind now and I have to potentially be quarantined with her. FML
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/20 03:15 AM
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Working in a similar but easier job. Thankful to have job security. Bless you garbage man
/r/MGTOW15/03/20 10:02 PM
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He should move back in and then file for divorce and 50/50 custody and ask for everything under the sun to minimize the damage that he is about to take. Anything less than that and he might as well accept his fate.
/r/askMRP15/03/20 09:49 PM
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Same here. Still living here. Did have to pay her half the equity though
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/20 11:40 AM
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Sounds like you get your validation and self esteem from a woman. Be careful doing that
/r/askTRP13/03/20 12:23 PM
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Yes but why is divorce incoming? I’ve seen it happen when a man raises his smv and the woman ends it. Is it out of jealousy or insecurity? You would think she would want to stay
/r/MGTOW07/03/20 03:16 AM
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Exactly. She just thinks he will do what she knows she would do. Truly messed up
/r/MGTOW07/03/20 03:14 AM
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Honestly wonder if two guys would be better off living together. Not gay but maybe a bromance is way under rated
/r/MGTOW07/03/20 03:13 AM
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Honestly I learned a lot of stuff from the internet and places like this. The hard part has been critical thinking and applying the lessons practically in my own life. The internet is a treasure trove of knowledge you just have to use your own judgement on what is good advice and what is bad. I can’t help but wonder what my life would have been like before had I not had the internet to help me. I guess I would have been at the library a lot.
/r/askMRP19/02/20 04:29 PM
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Yea don’t let anyone tell you that you are in the wrong here. She is leaching off of you. There is no reason for her to not at least have a part time job since you don’t have kids. Divorce as soon as possible to minimize your alimony and splitting of assets. Protect yourself now. If she changes her ways and wants you back you can do it on your own terms.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/20 01:42 PM
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Our power was already given away to the state. She can call the cops on you, divorce rape you, keep your children from you and you have zero say so in changing that. There is no ownership to be taken in that realm. Would you put up your full net worth in a business that you have zero control over?
/r/askMRP05/02/20 12:02 PM
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Well, it’s really sad to see the destruction that all this causes. I feel like a first responder to a car wreck of my own family and my wife drove into the wall on purpose. I mean, I’m saving the kids first and I’m not feeling too bad that she got injured. But, my kids got injured too. She found her new man at work is what I think. I hope he makes good money and can pay the bills. That will take a lot of pressure off me
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/20 01:00 PM
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Yep as soon as she starts acting strange, you know there is another guy in the background. At first I was angry and hurt. Now I’m kind of relieved and thinking I’ll be better not with her although I still care about her. I’ve realized she has changed a lot as a person and I’ve lost a lot of respect for her. Part of it is my fault for leaning on her too heavily in the relationship but I should have seen we weren’t a good match from the beginning.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/20 12:47 PM
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Don’t know why you got downvoted
/r/MGTOW29/01/20 03:56 AM
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Math is hard you know. Just because the percentage of women goes up doesn’t mean more women are committing suicide. In fact it could be less women if the total number is lower. They’re idiots
/r/MGTOW24/01/20 07:11 PM
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Judging by your post, you’re a good dad. In your daughters heart no one will ever be able to replace you believe me. Sorry to all the step parents out there but once you are locked in as daddy there is no one out there that she will compare you to. You are the one and only daddy in her heart.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/20 07:03 PM
1

If she gets physically abusive again get her charged with DV immediately by calling the cops. Audio recorder always on to protect yourself. This will ruin your life if you don’t take action now
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/20 04:21 PM
6

I disagree. End it now while he is still young. It’s not worth living in misery from a cheater. He can rebuild financially but he will ruin his life if he stays with her.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/20 01:55 PM
2

No her ex has bad genes and he ruined the chick. This guy is walking the oneitis tight rope
/r/askTRP19/01/20 02:04 AM
1

Yep, my wife wanted to quit her job and she was already being a less than stellar wife. I told her no that’s not ok. She filed for divorce last week and I’m getting 50/50 custody(fingers crossed). No man should marry a wife who doesn’t work these days. Problem is if she makes more than you she will resent you, but if she makes less she will screw you in court. Marriage sure sounds like a good deal for men doesn’t it?
/r/askTRP14/01/20 07:06 PM
2

I can relate to what you’re feeling as I’ve had to leave to kids crying too. It’s tough. Just try to realize that kids cry all the time and even if you still were with her, the kids would still have ups and downs and melt downs like this. Us men are fixers we can’t fix everything. Your kid just needs you to be there for them and you’re already doing that. You’re still showing up and giving them that support and your presence. They’ll remember that. Completely disregard the ex. Even be friendlier…
/r/askTRP14/01/20 07:00 PM
6

Winning
/r/MGTOW11/01/20 03:30 AM
4

It seems like a lot of women are making the choice to divorce their husbands lately. I wonder if it’s a trend due to a good economy, and the laws so in their favor
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/20 12:27 AM
11

No it wasn’t blissful. I was stupid. She was feminine and submissive before getting married. A year or two in she starts being controlled by her animus in my opinion. Like she thinks she is a man or something. At this point we are seeking divorce. And it has gotten worse
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 06:49 PM
10

You’re not the only one. I wish she’d just go fuck off.
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 06:27 PM
2

Yes actions speak louder than words. And the actions don’t match with the words of this ad.
/r/MGTOW19/11/19 08:44 PM
2

Just focus on you and stay in your frame. Don’t go Rambo. Still try to be a good husband through the process. These changes you’re making should be very subtle but based on who you want to be not her. You are the leader of your family. Good luck to you
/r/askMRP23/10/19 03:37 PM
3

Sounds like you have a good situation but you’re not attracted to your wife. I mean are you willing to blow up your marriage and family to get some young attractive woman? Sounds like you’re basing your purpose and getting validation from a woman. You should not do that. You should be getting all that internally. I’m just a novice like you but make your world how YOU want it. Wife will follow. She is not attractive and hitting the gym. My guess is her leader is not either. How much do you weigh?…
/r/askMRP23/10/19 12:20 PM
3

This is exactly the plan.
/r/MGTOW07/10/19 08:04 PM
2

She is stringing you along. You are just her back up. When the next best thing comes up she will be gone again. Wake up. Leaver her don’t let her use you
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/19 12:30 PM
3

I had an English requirement and part of it was to write a paper on institutional racism by white men. The “professor” was a white guy going on and on about how it’s all the white mans fault. Dropped that class for sure
/r/MGTOW25/09/19 06:32 PM
25

Men give to their children and society without any expectations of return. This is why men should have total authority to go along with ALL their responsibility. Right now women have so much authority with zero burden of responsibility. No long term thinking will destroy society long term. Men will rebuild it better. Never let a woman have power.
/r/MGTOW20/09/19 05:53 PM
17

More proof to never ever let a woman have power over you. The only thing keeping a relationship balanced is you holding the power over her head. Anything less is tipping the scales completely in her favor. This requires the willingness to end the relationship even if it means cutting losses. Keep those potential losses reduced to a minimum at all times in a relationship even when it is thriving.
/r/MGTOW19/09/19 03:58 PM
5

Agreed but he needs to file for divorce immediately and stay in the house until all the legal issues are settled so he can get optimum custody outcome. In the meantime I would act like she doesn’t even exist other than for logistical issues. She is dead to me now I am just running my house and taking care of my kids.
/r/askMRP14/09/19 02:45 PM
7

I would argue anyone on trp should do a dopamine detox at the minimum.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 11:17 PM
5

Yes women are incentivized to be more psychologically manipulative due to their lack of physical prowess. Could society today be another step in evolution for us? Of course it could end in failure of the human species.
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 10:29 PM
18

Projection at its finest. “Men are emotionally abusing us via the silent treatment because that’s what I use on my partners”. No, not every one is garbage like you
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 10:08 PM
4

Is marriage the time share version of prostitution lol
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 09:52 PM
1

Don’t use porn to fap if you can avoid it. It only increases your sexual urges and causes highs and lows in brain chemistry. Gapping is ok in moderation tho
/r/MGTOW31/08/19 02:48 PM
3

Good glad to hear that then. Thank you for the information. I hope they get rid of selective service all together. I don’t want my kids in the military fighting wars for bankers
/r/FeminismStopsWhen30/08/19 07:44 PM
14

Great men will get even more discriminated against because they all will be forced to go into battle while the women take the support roles some of the men could have had
/r/FeminismStopsWhen30/08/19 03:42 PM
1

Quite possible
/r/MGTOW26/08/19 09:55 AM
3

Johnny Depp fighting the good fight. He may have taken a hit to his career but hopefully this is waking people up.
/r/MGTOW20/08/19 01:38 AM
5

Thank you I’ll post it there.
/r/MGTOW19/08/19 06:09 PM
6

Women have been manipulated into destroying men. They’ll realize their mistake when they become enslaved and it’s already happening.
/r/MGTOW19/08/19 05:39 PM
30

And men are being pushed out of white collar jobs so what option do we have left? The physical labor. We do the hard physical labor in society and everybody else rides on our backs. Men are quickly becoming the slave labor class. That’s why they are trying to automate everything. They fear men will do something about it. Time to unionize this whole damn country.
/r/MGTOW19/08/19 05:35 PM
11

The weaponization of women continues.
/r/MGTOW19/08/19 05:32 PM
2

How do you divide and conquer a civilization? You take men’s ability to regulate women’s bad behavior away. Now that women are “free”, you corrupt the women. The women make bad choices. Men can’t fix anything. Society collapses.
/r/MGTOW17/08/19 05:58 PM
4

If you can find a woman that has not been brainwashed by feminism, she will give in to the brainwashing eventually I guarantee it. Never let a woman have power over you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/19 01:55 PM
3

5 years here. Can confirm as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/19 01:53 PM
8

Possibly. I don’t think kids should even be on social media until they’re 18.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/08/19 01:18 AM
6

Yea I get it. that’s emotional abuse that she is acting like you are the one in the wrong here. May God give you strength through this.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/19 04:56 PM
15

She is leaving you for another man and you’re the one apologizing. Wow just wow
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/19 04:48 PM
1

Should be how it is. If she was with him four years of his life and he is 34 she contributed nothing for 30 years of his life that got him where he is. If anyone is entitled to the fruits of his labor maybe his parents in the worst case scenario. 30 years to make that man so she probably didn’t even contribute anything from 30-34
/r/MGTOW24/07/19 08:17 PM
10

Just goes to show how they are trying to brainwash us.
/r/MGTOW11/07/19 05:05 PM
1

They have been sold a lie that men and women are equal so they must be attracted to the same things.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/19 09:29 PM
1

Yep looked at how modern Christianity is cucked and has no standards. and it’s obvious women are calling the shots and leading the church not men. No thanks
/r/askMRP21/06/19 08:00 PM
3

What if she files for divorce after you file separation
/r/MGTOW19/06/19 07:01 PM
3

What are the perks of that? Just curious
/r/MGTOW19/06/19 12:15 PM
19

Because when they don’t have a valid counter response they respond with name calling. Acting like children is why women should have never been allowed to vote
/r/MGTOW16/06/19 03:33 PM
3

She could also try to validate her smv by cheating and getting attention from other guys.
/r/askMRP13/06/19 05:34 PM
3

Well the system could easily topple with women in charge. And the way men have been treated they might not choose to save it.
/r/MGTOW13/06/19 05:19 PM
1

Listening to podcasts helps
/r/askTRP13/06/19 01:55 PM
1

Hell no on marriage. Hell yes on kids
/r/askMRP11/06/19 05:54 PM
1

Almost everything a woman says is projection. “I’m afraid you will leave me some day. Why don’t you really love me? You want to be with someone else don’t you? “. Translation, “I will leave you some day. I don’t really love you. I’d rather be with someone else but the opportunity hasn’t presented itself yet.”
/r/MGTOW30/05/19 08:41 PM
23

This is quality. Makeup really does make a huge difference
/r/MGTOW30/05/19 02:29 AM
6

Don’t let a $10 sundress cost you 10,000 plus in child support
/r/MGTOW30/05/19 02:26 AM
4

Their target audience is women. They are trying to brainwash women. Women do 85% of consumer spending. Women steer financial decisions, political decisions etc because simps, white knights etc. control women’s minds and you control society. Make women destroy the family unit and you can divide and conquer society. Women should have been kept in their place because they are so easily manipulated.
/r/MGTOW30/05/19 02:24 AM
21

So many red pills I don’t know where to start. Judge shuts her down multiple times. She was 100% sure he was the father-turns out he is not. n count is more than she claims. Judge admits how important fathers are to teach women not to be sluts! The social controls on women have been lifted hence the collapse of society that we are witnessing. Women can’t be trusted and they destroy societies!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/19 12:44 PM
1

Yep if you capitulate she will lose all respect for you and treat you badly.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/19 02:17 PM
1

Yep she will go back to her old ways for sure! Make the divorce final while you have the upper hand. You can always cohabitate later. I have a friend that got back with his ex after they divorced but he won’t remarry.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/19 02:16 PM
3

Hidden figures is one movie preview I had to laugh at. I didn’t watch it but I know at the very least it twisted the truth. Maybe they can make a movie about this too. Everything is propaganda now
/r/MGTOW11/04/19 12:25 PM
12

You are right there. We should be criticizing simps and white knights way more than women because they are enabling this behavior.
/r/MGTOW10/04/19 07:49 PM
12

No the world would continue on without mgtow. Criticism is necessary for change
/r/MGTOW10/04/19 07:45 PM
4

Most women think they are special although subconsciously they know they are just competing in a cut throat animal kingdom just like every one else. They think tattoos give them an edge because it gives men an edge. What they don’t understand is men and women are different. Just because it’s attractive on a man doesn’t make it attractive on a woman.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 06:46 PM
3

Yep apathy is the true opposite of love but hatred is the other side of the same coin
/r/MGTOW20/03/19 05:13 PM
3

The stronger I get the easier my job is on my body.
/r/MGTOW20/03/19 10:47 AM
1

Every comment in here is gold
/r/MGTOW17/03/19 02:29 PM
3

The best thing he could do is end this marriage immediately and cut his losses.
/r/MGTOW17/03/19 02:27 PM
3

That’s exactly what it is. Damn hypocrites.
/r/MGTOW17/03/19 02:25 PM
3

She is lying to trap you or it’s not yours
/r/MGTOW20/02/19 08:42 AM
1

Makes you wonder if your 401k account will even be profitable over the next 20 years with women running things.
/r/MGTOW20/02/19 08:06 AM
1

So the women are supporters of the abusive person. Sounds like a trend for this behavior.
/r/MensRights20/02/19 07:39 AM
1

They have a higher pain threshold? I highly disagree as women handle childbirth much better than I would. I would even argue that women have a higher pain threshold.
/r/MensRights20/02/19 07:35 AM
3

Work in a profession that only involves men. Like a trade. Get to do that shit every day with other guys and get paid for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 07:17 AM
13

So women are spoiled because of their beauty and it prevents them from growing as a person or stunts their growth.
/r/MGTOW28/01/19 01:43 AM
1

Of course. I wouldn’t want a free money supply to be curtailed in any way either.
/r/MGTOW25/01/19 04:53 PM
1

So there is no incentive for a woman to maintain a stable relationship. No wonder why so many men are refusing to get married. Its as if the government designed it this way to discourage a family unit from forming. The smart genes will die out and the stupid guys who fall into the trap and have kids will keep reproducing; creating a population that is easier for government to control
/r/MGTOW25/01/19 04:52 PM
1

Modern debtors prison. Women should have to provide receipts of their child expenses to get any money at all from a man or the government.
/r/MGTOW25/01/19 04:41 PM
1

It is likely he stepped out because she had no incentive to put effort into their relationship and indirectly sabotaged it or created a hostile environment to get him to leave knowing that he will have to pay her no matter what. Once kids come in the picture a woman has you by the balls unless you’re willing to go scorched earth like this guy. I don’t blame him one bit.
/r/MGTOW25/01/19 04:06 PM
6

Maybe if you wanted to thrive financially you would have worked on the relationship harder. You are likely the one that ended the relationship. But it’s easier to blame him, then alienate him from yourself and the children, then kick him out and demand resources from him even though you are the one that likely sabotaged the relationship. Maybe he refuses to let a parasite feed off him and would rather starve.
/r/MGTOW25/01/19 03:43 PM
1

Yep men need to shut these resources off but government will come to their rescue so society is doomed any way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/19 08:53 PM
2

Thinking outside the box on this one. Exposing the cracks in the foundation of this society. Great analysis
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:16 AM
1

Yep. You’re not responsible to make her happy. She is responsible for her own happiness and you yours. That is how a real relationship works
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/18 05:14 AM
2

She may have a tendency to use logic but she is still programmed to use emotion over logic evolutionary speaking.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/18 02:28 AM
2

Its solipsism and men are only objects to be used.
/r/MensRights26/11/18 04:55 PM
2

You’re welcome
/r/MGTOW07/11/18 12:56 AM
0

O that sucks
/r/MGTOW07/11/18 12:55 AM
0

Who hurt you
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 09:25 PM
3

If the completed project is good enough then hell yes
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 08:07 PM
2

Uhhh ok....another one that I triggered I guess
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 07:40 PM
1

Good point...
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 07:38 PM
3

So easy to spot the incels here too. You poor thing.
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 07:37 PM
1

Thanks - yes I’m just trying to raise awareness and provide another perspective. Men should really protect their health in this environment
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 07:33 PM
0

O look another 12 year old
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 06:41 PM
3

Well you found a pretty good study to refute your own views maybe you can find another one.
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 05:46 PM
3

Try reading your own article “buddy”. “Salimpoor said relative dopamine increases in the brain had been above 22%, while a relative increase of up to 6% was experienced when eating pleasurable meals.” So according to your article-dopamine increased almost four times as much with cocaine as it did with pleasurable meals.
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 05:44 PM
-1

That’s your view not mine.
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 05:41 PM
-3

O yes very much so. /s. Are you like twelve years old or something?
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 05:39 PM
0

I don’t give a fuck if you take me seriously or not.
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 05:38 PM
1

Alcohol doesn’t give you a dopamine release 100 times the normal daily amount. Can’t compare apples to oranges.
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 05:37 PM
-4

Did I trigger you?
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 05:34 PM
-1

Sounds good bud
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 05:34 PM
1

I agree with your premise but the fact is that cocaine is not harmless to most and therefore porn is not harmless to most since it has similar negative effects on the brain.
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 05:33 PM
3

Hearing a song and eating good food with friends gives the same dopamine rush as cocaine? Wow that is some good food
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 05:31 PM
-2

Google it-plenty of scientific studies showing porn has the same brain effect as cocaine.
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 05:29 PM
3

It absolutely is different. Scientists have done studies that the brain has the same dopamine rush with porn as it does with cocaine. I don’t know anyone that functions well that uses cocaine daily but I’m sure they’re out there.
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 05:29 PM
-3

Any evidence to refute my claims?
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 05:28 PM
2

Yea I guess cocaine is ok in small doses just don’t let it consume you.
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 05:27 PM
1

You don’t have to read my post if you don’t like it.
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 05:27 PM
3

Don’t give up on your kids file for divorce and get it settled first.
/r/MGTOW06/11/18 01:58 PM
2

So aren’t you attractive too? There are other people out there. Why are you taking pictures with her? She wants to pretend she has a family while she is trying to break it up? Tell her to get bent and focus on your kids.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/18 01:53 PM
1

Defend yourself and go to jail is what really happens. Also women think they can get away with it which is a problem.
/r/MGTOW30/10/18 03:24 PM
1

Yes I think awareness is definitely growing
/r/MGTOW30/10/18 03:23 PM
3

Of course it’s biological to “fall in love”. It is evolutions way of making sure the species reproduces. Dopamine is literally a chemical reaction like a drug in your brain to get you to have sex and continue to have sex. In other words, falling in love isn’t really even real it’s just similar to getting high.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 02:37 PM
20

Intelligence and ability to contribute value in a team environment are remarkably unrelated. Maybe it’s evolutionary that women are so miserable working a job when they are programmed to undermine and manipulate everyone around them to get the alpha male.
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 06:13 PM
3

I see what you’re saying. I think our movement is growing for sure and men are becoming more aware of how we are being manipulated. Proof of this is in the deplatforming and censoring that we are seeing. Our opposition is growing afraid of us because we are starting to stick up for ourselves. Most of the people that will change society are men. We have the power to do so and they are trying to brainwash us to work against our own interests. I try to change things by helping my fellow man, being …
/r/MensRights12/10/18 02:59 PM
4

Nah, I think I’d have more fun with a fleshlight.
/r/MGTOW30/09/18 01:55 PM
48

That’s why I work in the trades. I worked in an office and women make it hell
/r/MGTOW29/09/18 07:22 PM
23

Yea alienated from their children’s lives forced to pay for a child they can’t see and raise. Four days a month visitation. O he is a deadbeat even though he is not allowed to see his kids. Majority of dads aren’t deadbeats.
/r/MGTOW25/09/18 01:25 AM
1

She is average to me. But that’s probably because of her personality. As I get older, personality has become an important factor.
/r/MGTOW24/09/18 02:30 PM
1

Yep and they learn the bad behavior from women. Big surprise
/r/MensRights24/09/18 12:17 PM
1

Because they have higher rates of single motherhood.
/r/MensRights24/09/18 11:30 AM
1

What are you basing this on? Past experience or a law?
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/18 04:29 PM
1

Has this happened in your past experience or is there a law that says this?
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/18 02:32 PM
1

What law says she is welcome there even though you, the owner, does not want her there? I would make her life a living hell if she interferes with my relationship with my child. But you know that requires some balls.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/18 01:18 PM
2

Wow that’s so shitty. I would tell MIL to get out of my house if she ever did that and I would call the cops on her to have them escort her out ASAP. Want to play dirty? I can play dirty too and this is my house too now get out since you don’t live here.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/18 06:21 AM
4

I agree it’s bullshit. Us younger guys better save for retirement because whenever it’s time for us to move into those less physical spots we’re going to be screwed.
/r/MGTOW07/09/18 01:58 PM
1

Keep her number until you’re no longer working together.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 01:33 PM
3

Yep the old guy who used to go into management because his body is worn out just gets kicked to the curb because quotas!
/r/MGTOW07/09/18 01:16 PM
8

Yep I work a trade job and not a woman in sight. Out of sight out of mind.
/r/MGTOW07/09/18 01:12 PM
3

Because they know they have the option of living off their husband the state if things fall through. If they knew they would starve without that good paying job you bet your ass they’d be more respectful.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 12:13 AM
5

She has her own money...that was collected from beta males by the government. Women are married to the state so they don’t need men. Classic supply and demand. We’re all being cucked.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 09:25 PM
1

I’d find a similar or better gig and leave personally. It’s not worth it to deal with a bunch of cunts. Trust me I’ve been there.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 02:38 PM
16

A friend posted on Facebook that letting them in is not the problem-the problem is violence against women when they say no. So I asked what is the solution. They said we need to teach them to be nicer basically lololol
/r/MGTOW29/08/18 03:36 PM
4

In order to be married nowadays you have to make it clear to her that you don’t care if the whole thing gets nuked from orbit, you will still stand your ground as a person. You also have to be willing to be shit tested until infinity. There are some good times especially with kids, but you really have to ask yourself are you willing to take on the shit testing and present a dngaf attitude at all times.
/r/MGTOW26/08/18 09:58 PM
129

And we all know that he wasn’t trying to kill her because if so, she would actually be dead or hospitalized if he is an mma fighter and weighs 80 more pounds. So her story starts out with a lie right out of the gate.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 03:56 PM
126

Thanks for all this great information. This reinforces my decision to not have my son circumcised. So happy for him as I am circumcised and wish that I wasn’t.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 03:17 PM
10

As long as you work for him no - maybe down the road if you get a different job.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 03:49 PM
3

That’s why it’s just cheaper to keep her if you can. Make sure she works full time too.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 02:41 PM
1

Dickface
/r/MensRights22/03/18 01:24 AM
1

As a married man, the OP is so true. You will get nagged if you are doing something “unproductive” in her view. In other words, women think they own you.
/r/MGTOW21/03/18 01:49 AM
1

Consider yourself lucky she moved out. Get an attorney immediately go through the process and cut your losses.
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/17 05:31 PM
5

What I find interesting is how a near death experience changes a man. I've had one myself and it altered my priorities in life greatly. I wonder if this type of thing is almost necessary for self growth because so many successful people seem to have had a point in their life where they really hit rock bottom. Getting out of the comfort zone is where real growth takes place and we should really take advantage of that.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 02:35 PM
1

Absolutely. It's a covert threat. That's how women communicate-covertly.
/r/MensRights31/03/17 01:31 AM
1

Why is that? Owning up to my mistakes is not trash-your post is trash-nothing to back it up. Criticism is invited if I can actually learn something from it.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 04:58 PM
1

Agree. Still in the accepting/anger stage here and trying to take control of my life.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 04:48 PM
1

You're right it was a vent. If your wasting your time go do something else instead of reading my post. Can't guys vent to each other so they don't have to give their wives ammo? I'm here for support and I like the tough answers here.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 04:46 PM
1

You obviously didn't comprehend my post. The budget isn't secret-we both agree and sign off on it. I didn't point out to her the obvious overspending. I was just pointing it out here to show my point that there is a double standard and also to own that I messed up and find solutions not problems. Reading conprehension-it's hard
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 04:42 PM
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