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This is one of the most (unintentionally?) blue pill stories I've read, ever. You do realize you owe NB nothing right? You know she might not be as nerdy as you think? Maybe, almost certainly she can be a drunk bitch too? Your not dating, you talked a few times. What are you even talking about? Why should you feel guilty? And why do you give such high value to Nerdy Bartender and such low value to Drunk Bitch? Its all blue pill man, hope you fix it. Good job on scoring with DB though
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 03:33 PM
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Interesting question. I firmly believe that a mans 30's are the start of the best years of his life. The 20s are a very unstable and unrewarding time. Women treat men in their 30s very differently.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 03:25 PM
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Sure. But entertaining the hoardes of bitter betas insulting women about "hypergamy" has ruined RedPill in my humble opinion. Its easier to post about hypergamy and the wall then it is to learn about and practice rp and game and that's why we see so many mgtows and incels ruining a positive movement.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 12:36 AM
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That all sounds good to me. Some material bling is definitely good to impress and enjoy. Also good point about being transparent. If your not scheming but just living your life, girls will be more excited to join it.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 11:10 PM
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You handled it well. Some grammar issues make it seem like your not smooth. Your third text was almost perfect. It was time to joke about it. She is shit testing you. This happens to the best of us. Your instinct to joke about it was correct but your joke was a little bit off. I would have went with: Well I have been known to get what I want Or you could have just ignored it. You dont have to play every shit yest. And she did end with "haha" so it was just a joke that you didnt have to care abou…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 07:11 PM
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These are both examples of things you can use to add depth and abundance to your life. Girls love cinema (the artsy festival kind) and I could 3ven see myself building a small sauna in the back yard as a hobby to add to my home life which is great if a girl comes by. One warning is that a sauna communicates sex. "Come to my house and have a sauna " says I wanna get in your pants. You need to communicate it very subtlety. And then get in her pants when she asks you to fire it up I would communica…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 06:59 PM
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This is great and it could work in a small town near a lake or a coast. But it doesnt work if you have to pay big money to rent the boat unless your rich. This needs to be something you can do with buds, that you can do regularly. That you wont resent a girl for saying no to. So a boat and jet skis work if you happen t own a boat. But even then youd be surprised at how much girls dont want to drive to some secluded place to meet guys they barely know. I'd recommend something that requires less f…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 06:54 PM
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Sure. But the point is you dont have to be a different person to get abundance. You can work on things you already have. There are blue pill drummers (only god knows how). You need to look at what you have and use it to your advantage.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 06:52 PM
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That there is nothing wrong with women. That there is nothing wrong with modern women. That womens actions are not bad, villainous or ignorant. That the typical woman the red pill describes is acting in their self interest and that is admirable. The truth that is hard to swallow is that the problem is the way blue pill men act. I see some of the red pillars talking about hookers or mgtow, what they dont get is the red pill is not about identifying how women are bad. It's about making yourself be…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 04:59 PM
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these kinds of chicks gross me out
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 02:46 AM
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Always have something better to do. I have a funny storry about a buddy of mine at 2 am after the bar. A smoking hot girl is literally PULLING at his arm because she wants to go to her place with him. But the other 4 buddies are going for DOUBLE WHOPPERS! Buddy - ehhhh but I really want to go for double whoppers. Girl - I will bring you to burger king and buy you anything you want Buddy - no its not the food, I just wanna go for the atmosphere with the boys after the bar, and eat Girl - Oh ok, I…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 02:24 AM
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I started writing a reply to this question... and after the third paragraph I decided to make a post about it instead. If you're interested look for my post titled " Abundance through passion "
/r/TheRedPill01/06/20 02:16 AM
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This is typical. You should have invited her to do something a bit less stressful then movie at your house. Why not something you'd be doing anyways, with friends. It's normal for a girl to flake in this situation, you could be a weirdo who is considering getting an escort right? My first date often involves a girl joining me at a concert I'll be with friends. that way she doesn't have to worry about expectations, and if she flakes I'm having fun anyway. If nothing like that comes up I'll sugges…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 10:11 PM
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Wow. Gross. I would never touch her again. Lots of opportunity out there without having to go go back to that
/r/askTRP06/11/18 06:09 AM
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His quote '. I only put effort in 8+/10's and develop oneitis from time to time, so I have to distance myself' is the problem. If that is really true, then yes he needs to work with 7s or less. If you value a girl so much that you put her on a pedestal, become Mr needy and change the way you act, then yes you definitely need to be with girls that you value less. Ultimately he needs to change his mind set
/r/askTRP05/11/18 12:14 AM
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The reason why I suggested that, is the plate lives in Chicago. I only go there once every few months. And the NEXT time I am down the new plates are also going down for the weekend. Pretty hard to juggle plates in that situation. Well all be partying on a pool deck, both like dropping by with friends. Obviously easier just to do one at a time.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 08:44 PM
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Of course, /u/morescoobysnacks is trying to say if you beleived you were the prize you would not have acted that way, This could have been an opportunity to joke about how you're better looking, how your more buff, how your package is bigger, how your girl is hotter then his, how you dont need a buddy to come on dates with you. You could have just went for the walk with the douche smile. Douche smile works every time because who knows what your thinking to make you smile. But you couldnt do that…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 07:19 PM
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​ Take chantix or a patch for a bit and quit all that crap. ​ Get addicted to chest and leg workouts.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 06:15 PM
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Yeah.... The loss can be hard when they break even when you have replacements. You're right its never the same. Just felt like asking a silly question I guess. I have doubts cause my buds would ask "when's plate 1 and the gang coming by? it was always fun partying with them". So I wonder if I am being petty not inviting her out when we're in town. My buds don't particularly mind, its just enough to get me to second guess myself. I guess its the mix of her serving two purposes for me "good fun" a…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 06:11 PM
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Nope, the whole rating system (HB6-HB10) is a lie, and buying into it inhibits game and happiness. ​ You have some 7's and a 9, that tells me about their attractiveness. But how about: -their submissiveness, which one is more likely to get off on calling you sir, doing what you want, when you want, how you want? I have an HB7 who picks me up at the airport whenever I tell her to, and waits while I land. When I get in her car, its BJ time. Honestly, shes a ten in my book. -their stability, which …
/r/askTRP04/11/18 05:36 PM
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The red pill is realizing an alpha man's place in the world and how culture teaches us to be beta. It's about becoming Chad instead of hating Chad. The rest of the stuff you mentioned is more about Pick up or gaming, which is not really the red pill. You are talking about different pua strategies, and they all work differently depending on who you are, what you want, and how much effort you put in.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 05:07 PM
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Make the other plates call you sir, cater to your every whim, drive you places and get you extravagant presents. Do every single kinky thing you ever wanted with the 7s. My plate just bought me a 300 dollar drone I wanted There's all sorts of fun you can have with a 7 that will help you stop thinking about a 9. 7s are more fun because they want to please you.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 05:02 PM
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Tbh i don't find a girl attractive unless she's shorter then me. I'm 6 foot tho so.. I have lots of options for under that
/r/askTRP04/11/18 04:57 PM
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Go with the 6/10s then. The whole point of plates is to be with multiple people your not that invested in, wont develop oneitis with, and can focus on having fun. Maybe try it with 6s so you can learn how to do it with 8s.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 04:17 PM
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Read the sidebar again. Girls crave commitment, guys crave sex. This is natural and not meant to be demeaning, its the way of the world. Just keep enjoying her, be kind, courteous, funny, spontaneous, ask her out regularly. She should be the one asking "what does this mean, are we an item, are we going out?" You should not be asking this question, it implies a weakness on your part that will destroy your relationship(s)
/r/askTRP04/11/18 04:15 PM
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True. When you're getting enough the frat boy time is golden, but you need a lot. I have one plate who meets me on a trip. So lets say thursday I fly up, spend the whole night romping with her. Friday and Saturday boys and partying.... That thursday really really helps lol.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 04:12 PM
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It hasn't lol. why would it. Metoo is about rape and assault. I wasnt doing that before the movement. Still not doing it. I was forward, cocKY and produced tons of enjoyable crazy adventures before and after the movement. The movement has had no effect on real men from my pov Most dates, I'm still neckin and moving my hand up a dates legs within the first hour or two. If there's attraction, that's whatshe and i both want. If there's not you leave politely and give her a polite hug and say it was…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 01:07 PM
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Bros. You need to build a pack of dudes and do things you enjoy with them. Next weekend we're all going to another city for 4 days, concert, hockey game, tons of grease. Always need a pack
/r/askTRP13/10/18 01:04 PM
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Much more satisfying to have buds and go to a concert or whatever it is you like doing. I prefer just to invite a girl to what I'm doing anyways.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 01:01 PM
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I have something for you to be enthusiastic about right here.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 12:54 PM
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Lift Join a club Smile and ask guys if they wanna go for a beer or wings. Don't be needy Being needy is obvious your problem, but I'd start at all those things above simultaneously
/r/askTRP13/10/18 12:49 PM
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Of course you communicate your boundaries and when she's crossed them, constantly. I have many boundaries that are before the serious ones. By the time she crosses a serious one, she's nexted. For example, I Have One plate who whose late sometimes when we met for lunch. She knows I don't like this because I have a short lunch and if I make time for her I expect her to be early. So I bust her balls when it happens and tell her she's going to get spanks for it, and she does. Sometimes in public ou…
/r/askTRP13/10/18 11:58 AM
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Absolutely. If you haven't done this then you don't have abundance. It doesn't have to be harsh. Your chattinf. Your visiby bored of her bs. You politely anyway this was fun but I have to get going, hit the gym early tomorrow. End of story. You should do this to girls your interested in sometimes too.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 11:51 AM
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This is a sellf limiting belief, it's what people tell themselves to justify not improving their value. Part of the truth of rp, is that men must create their own value. Looks are a very small portion of the value a man must create. A good looking bluepiller will be wrecked by relationships, just like an ugly looking bluepiller.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 11:20 PM
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You can fake it, but it's not nearly as effective if it's not authentic. More importantly it's a target for beginners to steer their life towards. If you know where your​ headed it will help you get there. Think of it this way, how many people just starting out here are putting loads of effort into giving a f. They're responding to texts immediately, theyre asking women about feelings. Theyre being overly needy. They are making plans based on how women react and not making plans about what is fr…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 10:46 PM
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The anger phase is beta. Keep reading, better yourself and become a man who attracts valuable women. They exist and are available for high quality men everywhere, if they aren't swarming you, that's your issue to improve, and you can do it. If 2017 was really such a good year you wouldn't have to treat your dates like crap. Ps your also a hypocrite. Women have to be pure but you can do whatever you want.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 11:58 AM
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Is there a term for the opposite of the SJW? Like someone who sees an "all gender bathroom", and gets offended and has to blab about how their feelings are hurt about it to everyone they know. The kind of person who is for some reason "triggered" when a company decides to say happy holidays, or feels "threatened and violated" by someone woman wearing a ridiculous scarf on her head. These people are on a constant social war, and see conspiracy in every mundane thing. Much like annoying SJW femini…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 07:18 PM
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Thanks for posting this reply. All through high school I was critiqued by "smarter" betas who knew better e.g. "I like a girl who has independence, because I am not scared of a strong woman". Then when I entered an LTR and made rules for my girl to follow, betas knew better e.g. "I trust my woman, you're just a brute who forces your rules on your woman" Then when I moved in with my LTR and she was flat out told she would do all the housework again, betas knew better "I split the house work 50-50…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 11:55 PM
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In my experience during pickup, never. Not once. I have found repeatedly that offering to pay for drinks in a cold pickup situation hurts my goals. A date is a different situation. I have gotten laid in a pickup situation DESPITE paying for drinks. But I have rarely ever found that it helps.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 11:39 PM
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1/2 - I specifically did not use the word "Alpha" because we do not see posters on this sub with hate towards alpha males, we do see hate towards the stereotypical Chad. We also see it pop up in posts where people hate on womens choices, you somewhat refer to this in point 5. When discussing this dual strategy, I've noted many posters insinuating that women make a mistake in their 20s (prewall), she should have chosen the beta then, but she made a mistake and went for the fun chad/alpha. The poi…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 11:33 PM
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There is a serious misunderstanding with your understanding of what alpha/beta means. There is no such thing as an alpha male, or a beta male as an identity. We sometimes use the term like this, but it is shortform and it is clearly incorrect. Alphas only exist in terms of a relationship. A guy can be alpha with his wife, but a beta with his mistress. This guy is not an alpha or a beta as an identity rather he is an alpha in one relationship and a beta in the other at the same time. The point is…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 03:47 AM
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Couldn't disagree more. In fact this is one of the reasons I try to drop a bit of PUA references in my posts. There are many PUA resources that are proven to turn betas into Chad. This quote is so sad, and I couldn't downvote it enough. Read Magic Bullets, read the sidebar, put TRP principles into action, Lift, build a network of males, and work on yourself, change your views on women, and approach women daily. Everyone can be an alpha.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 03:12 AM
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Great point. Paying for drinks is aggravating. I have a douche smirk, and I find that helps my strategy a lot. I will laugh and say "I'm not buying your drink, I'm not your boyfriend" and then giggle to myself at how preposterous the assumption was. Or I'll say "no no no nooooo, I'll pay when I know we are worth it". Granted I do occasionally pay on the first date if it goes well. Whatever strategy you use, I would not rely on body language or tricks but instead the complete confidence that only…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 12:49 AM
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Thanks man, the compliment means a lot. Hard journey we are all on. It was nice to write out a reflection of the last little bit of my RP experience and I am glad I did.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 11:19 PM
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LOL. To be clear, dealing with being attached in a (at the time) monogamous relationship, with a child to a very nonsexual woman, was the worst couple years of my life. Breaking up, and then finding a replacement (plate 4), who validated me, and then going through 2 years of beta begging, were the second worst couple years of my life. The resulting growth, has been great and I have become a man I am somewhat proud of being. PUA and RedPill helped me become that man. But I find it very interestin…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 11:17 PM
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Thanks for your reply and for obviously reading enough to understand the situation. I think you're correct and my plate spinning is giving me the best of the options I currently have. I am quite happy with my current state and what I need to work on in truly banishing plate 4 from my life. I have been no contact with her for a while, but when she popped back into my life I should have stopped it. I also need to make sure I continue to refresh the plates I have found that one can get complacent w…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 01:14 AM
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The best part about the single word answer is that she is going to get aggravated and ask further questions. This will lead to you smirking and busting her balls by continuing to say "never", "no" and "no way". I have turned around a few of these hard truths by smirking and giggling when I say them. Girls often realize how preposterous the question is and give up. All the while you hold frame.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 12:29 AM
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wow that was a good read!!! Yes I definitely relate to a lot of the things you said there and it's interesting how these structures replicate themselves. My next post may be on the plates I had to let go and why. I have a few that thought they could call the shots and the multiple relations really helped me stay firm.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 09:30 PM
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What more can i say. Trust me it's true. I don't how many of them there are out there, but it's true for this one at least. Part of my mental break down, and the resulting neediness I had with plate four is how much I made her orgasm and how great that made me feel as a man. I preceded to accomplish the same with many other plates. None of that experience has helped on plate 1. And more to the point, none of this matters to plate number one. She is happy just being a nice, conservative, smiling …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 05:47 PM
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Yeah... Bad day for me today. I woke up to 4+ girls messaging me how they can't wait to see me... Didn't reply to any of them, didn't care. Then i proceeded to lower my value by reaching out to her. Why do I punish myself? Haven't talked to her in months and I see her out and I turn into this moron again.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 03:08 PM
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Exactly. I didn't put a ton of thought into the ratings. Just trying to convey relative hotness
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 02:16 PM
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First off, there is nothing wrong with saving your money and focusing on yourself. Good job. I didn't see how you workout, so you should definitely add that to your self improvement list as well. I would advise working on your friendships, life in general is lonely without brothers, use opportunities in your school to develop friends. Find an interest and invite other dudes to join in. For me this was listening to rock music in my garage, and hitting the bars on a friday night with the boys foll…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 03:04 AM
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May I also suggest calling her your "c-msl-t" and telling her you own her p-ssy..... Crazy how well this works... Unbelievable. I also say the word "mine" over and over again while your spanking.... It's a good way to warm up. And if you're playing it cool, never ever admit thats what your doing. (Some guys will say it to seem romantic). Just be cool and never admit it.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 02:35 AM
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Great post. Not sure why it was even needed, this should be obvious to anyone, but I have encountered many people who think PUA is creepy so again, great job. I'll plug what helped me immensely - three books - "Magic Bullets", "The ultimate guide to phone and text game", and the "routines manual", all by love systems. Great stuff for the guy learning how to talk to women.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 02:10 AM
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Wow. I am an introverted Chad lol. I love rock bars and concerts where you can just sway up to a girl and start rubbing without saying a word. I hate those posh little restaurant/bars where people are blabbing non stop. This post is telling me I need to learn Salsa.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 02:02 AM
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Good point. Who knows. I'm 38, shes 28, skinny, blonde with a nice face. May be a 7-8 to someone else. But when a girl is ten years younger then me, I feel the need to give her +1 on the scale. Youth is an amazing bonus to be honest as older women tend to be less fun.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 01:38 AM
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Hah. Another observation. So i find I have impeccable frame with gaming. But ... I only know a bit about dancing. If I am rocking it out at the club, girls love it. But if I try to do some swing dancing, which I have only done a bit of classes in, they all start second guessing me. And I find that incredibly frustrating, I smirk and tell them that I am in charge which seems to work, but yes I should definitely just learn to dance a bit better as this would probably achieve better results.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 01:22 AM
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Yawn. There is a reason why theredpillright sub exists and that is so that you can spout your delusional propaganda over there. If you need to subscribe to some philosophy that explains why you don't do well with women, then that is your issue not mine. I prefer to talk about strategies that work on women in the US, have worked for me with women all over Europe, and I am quite confident they would work for me wherever you live too. If you cant succeed in your "socialist globalist country", you c…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 01:13 AM
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funny because I am of two minds about this. I agree with you both. I have met the gangbang girls, and the good ones too. The good ones are rarely at the bar, and it really depends on your class/social circle/age. My parents were immigrants to the US, so my european value centric family has tons of connections to old fashioned family girls that won't even learn how to drive unless their husband asked them to, let alone hit up the clubs. I have met many many women who just want to cook dinner, go …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 01:08 AM
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What's wrong with a girl who likes to be tied up? Also with a girl who gives BJ's. I understand that you want a low f number, but did we all turn into Mormons too? Is your concern that they won't be faithful or that they have history? As you get older it will be hard to find someone who has no history. I imagine you will have one too. This is something you will have to get over.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 10:27 PM
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The girl I live with I have no problems with. We have a child, and I have no inclination to leave. We have a great relationship except for the low libido, which is somewhat solved by her being ok with my dalliances. The other one I do not live with and yes... I never contact her. I just noticed my betaness come back when I bumped into her the other day which caused me to make this post
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 10:00 PM
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Love this post. Definitely will re read. I have been to only a few salsa dances, but have noticed it is a different world with rules and mannerisms. Very interesting observations.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 09:13 PM
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I don't downvote. But I believe if you are understanding RP solely to devalue women, and use these understandings to point out their faults then you really dont understand the red pill. Yes they come from the the anger phase, but I think that they need to get out of that phase before they are worth reading. All these "faults" aren't faults at all. They are a part of being a woman, a part of being human. Men have their faults too. The reason we post and read them is NOT to make ourselves feel bet…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 09:09 PM
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Relationships and marriage is just a huge risk now a days with little reward. No matter how great a girl is after being with her for years on end your going to get sick of her and vice versa. Even most of the guys that dont get divorce raped arent truly happy in there marriage. I agree with this. Very huge risk.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 09:02 PM
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So your not exclusive, why would you expect her phone not to have numbers and messages on it? You are being needy, which will effect your prospects at a successful long term relationship. Yes, there are quality women out there. I know many. You shouldn't concern yourself with whether quality women exist, you should concern yourself on becoming a quality man. You seem to be doing good, but the fact that you're"hurt" that some girl had messages on her phone who is NOT your gf tells me you still ha…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 07:28 PM
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No problem. Good luck man. When you read RP, think that this is about MALE improvement. When you read, even if its about women, think about what it means for males, do not be concerned about what it means for females. I see so many guys her complaining about AWALT, the Wall, the Cock Carousel, hypergamy, CHAD, etc etc. I promise you that when you live RP, these things will still be true.... BUT they will be true in a negative sense only for OTHER guys. They will be true in a positive sense for y…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 06:51 PM
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I have to agree with screening. But I also have to disagree with the antimarriage sentiment. A man in control can be well served by marriage with the right woman, and I think it is foolish to promote a philosophy that totally disregards the importance of building a family to the human experience. I have seen a fair share of divorce rapes, and agree there are lessons to be learned to avoid this. But avoiding LTR's completely is not the answer. There is a pendulum here, and life is best outside of…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 06:34 PM
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Very good stuff. Great read. I have found that I do not love conversation, I am more of a quiet douche smirker than my buddies who try to win girls over by talking their ears ear off. You don't have to talk a lot, but when you do talk you need to control your frame. Your level 3's are good examples of being independent and not following her lead. I like to refer to it as "building" a frame. I find in the first 2-3 meets with a girl you build a frame together. You establish who is in control, you…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 06:18 PM
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There is more to learn in this post about you, and less to learn about her. This is not an example of AWALT. This is an example of an inexperienced man, without confidence who is hoping for a woman to fix his issues. This is an example of a poster who has incorrect ideas on how relationships, and attraction work. Why did you feel betrayed? You aren't exclusive. I think the fact that you felt betrayed says a LOT more about you, then her texting other guys says about her. She is being the normal o…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 05:55 PM
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Love the analogy hah. I'm goin to use this. To be fair, I've met many high quality girls, to many in fact.. can't keep them all and that's a shame. I find that red pillers insult women to much, i believe its a crutch that betas use to justify why they haven't found success. Be a high quality male and you will find high quality women. Still I've met my fair share of skanks too, and next time I meet one I'm going to call her a clearance rack girl. Good job.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 03:54 PM
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My experience tells me this isn't true. It may work differently for you of course. I have had plenty of women drooling over me, who were not ready to leave yet. They were with their friends who would judge them, it was a Friday night and they were just gearing up to party. I've had them blow up my phone when they were finally ready to bone 'whered you go, let's meet up's etc etc. I've had one plate joke that I had to go home to watch 'matlock' cause she's annoyed at my early bedtime (eg 1 am). S…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 03:47 PM
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It was the lack of 'reasons' you would exclude a co-worker who wanted to join you that caused me to post. Many posts on here come from just hating women in general, and if that is the reason, there would be nothing to celebrate. But I have met my share of annoying women, so that is reason enough. Good job putting her in her place then.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 03:39 PM
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Your dreading the loss of the spark. She might be dreading it too. It is not the loss of the spark you should fear. The loss is normal, all relationship have this energy rise and grow. What you should fear is your reaction to the loss. If you try and make up for it, if you over compensate, she will detect this and realize you are a fearful lowet value male. You should be ok with the loss, you have shit to do anyway. Go on your next date be fun, and make your move on her . It sounds like you are …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 03:13 PM
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This isn't very unusual. She's only 19. Maturity and growth happens at different speeds. Neither of you are fully developed yet, give it 5 more years. So enjoy the relationship, but i don't think this interaction is indicative of anything. It doesn't really mean much with respect to her future. Also side note, I sense you putting her on a pedestal a bit. Beware of that.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 03:07 PM
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Interesting. I can't help but notice you didn't have a reason for letting a co-worker and former HS bud jump in the car for a lunch break with you. I'm not saying you owed her anything, or that you had to jump to her Beck and call. But perhaps your denial of her joining the group says something about you? I'm not sure that this interaction is positive or negative. But the fact that you found it significant enough to post about is interesting. Someone wanted to go to lunch with you and your co-wo…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 03:00 PM
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The enemy is neither right or left. The enemy here is male thinking that promotes beta behaviours. I'm a left wing activist.... But that has nothing to do with my red pill beliefs. Politics has virtually nothing to do with the red pill. Imho
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 02:45 PM
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Sigh. This was a disappointing post after reading the title. I thought this was going to be about the red pill not about politics. Red pill alpha males can find relative success in any society (in dictatorships, in socialist and capitalist countries). The real Red pill is not right or left. The real Red pill is about finding your true masculine self, the real Red pill is about being a leader of men and women. The real Red pill is about understanding the nature of women, relationships and bros. I…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 02:41 PM
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I find f-closing at the bar annoying, girls are annoying at 4 am. I find that when I'm picking up at the bar, women generally want to bone at 5 am. They want to dance and grind, socialize, make out, go to house parties, hit some drugs, dance at some house party etc etc. I find this aggravating, cause I like to have a good time, get home at a decent hour and then hit the gym in the morning. So while I agree with most of the things you said, I generally tell the girl Im picking up that we can cont…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 01:39 AM
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I have found that the absolute best discussions for me, were on "theattractionforums", which is run by love systems. While the brand is PUA centric, there is plenty of red pill type discussion, and most of the posters are actually quite experienced and knowledgeable. I have had responses there that have changed my life for the better. By reading posts, questions and field reports their, my understanding of PUA/RP has deepened. Whereas on reddit, most of the time I am reading some beta tell me th…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 01:31 AM
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I have found that the absolute best discussions for me, were on "theattractionforums", which is run by love systems. While the brand is PUA centric, there is plenty of red pill type discussion, and most of the posters are actually quite experienced and knowledgeable. I have had responses there that have changed my life for the better. By reading posts, questions and field reports their, my understanding of PUA/RP has deepened. Whereas on reddit, most of the time I am reading some beta tell me th…
/r/askTRP19/03/17 01:26 AM
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Sounds like your still faking the behaviours. If your coming off as a jerk or the relationships don't have connection, it might be because this isn't the real you yet. Keep at it, this takes time to work. Believe me when you get it right for real, you won't need to tone it down.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 07:10 PM
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Thanks. I was almost more just wondering if my interpretation of TRP was wrong. I definitely need to learn to filter posts. I wonder if the posting format rules encourage some of these problems. The TLDR and Lessons part of the format imply that you need a lesson from each post. Half of the people posting (not ECs of course) are clueless and shouldnt be giving lessons but instead asking questions.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 05:58 PM
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Sex is better when you don't worry about this stuff. also, cialis.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 07:36 PM
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Edit - I thought I would add this disclaimer. I don't believe in guys asking girls on dates. Girls ask me out on dates. I would never ask a new girl that hasn't shown significant interest on a date. Instead, I have a fun life that she can join, if she wants. when I ask a girl out to dinner and a movie, she is most likely thinking 'finally he is inviting me to something he wasn't doing anyway'. Also, when I invite a girl out, she may hook up with a bud. I try not to have expectations. For example…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 06:35 PM
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A strong man is able to be 'just friends' with most women in the world. But a needy man - makes a move on a girl who has shown no interest. When she rebuffs you, you make a scene and get angry. When a girl wants to keep you as an on and off again sex toy, you get angry, cause your needy and you need more than a one night stand. When you're needy you have to banish her because she'll use you and you'll end up giving ten times more to the relationship than her. Shell ask for money and you'll give …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 01:38 AM
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You are the only person RESPONSIBLE for your happiness. If you're the only person who cares about your happiness, then you need to fix your life. RP can help that.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 04:17 PM
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How did you just take off if you're in school? Did you just undermine your goals?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 03:59 PM
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Good luck on your trip, hope you enjoy it and it helps. But I wouldn't expect to return a man, you are setting too high of a bar for yourself and you are judging yourself too harshly. I am a dedicated red piller, but I am beginning to doubt it's positive effects on young people because i see too many guys like you bemoaning their beta status at such a young age. You are young, you have not failed at anything yet, their is time. I have written what I think you need to do below, it will not be sol…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 03:51 PM
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Yes. I wasn't trying to counter your post, but rather how people will perceive it. The problem isn't "him telling her how its going to be"... the problem is he is obviously more invested then she is, and that is always a losing proposition for a man. I think in some ways that is part of what your saying to.. because if he isn't correcting her, then he is probably less invested. These things are complicated because they relate to the relationships we create in our life. If you take people who wer…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 01:46 AM
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This is a good point, I do have a concern though. I see someone following your advice in this manner: girl treats guy bad (flakes or something) guy gets angry and then ignores girl, cuts her out of his life girl makes contact with guy asks "where you been?" guy says "well you treated me bad so i cut you out" and then waits for her to work harder This will not work, because the last step is complaining. To do what you are advising you MUST be unfazed by her "flaking on you" or some other transgre…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 01:24 AM
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Well, I wouldn't say that about the OPs post, but I would definitely agree on some of the replies to the post. There is truth that a man should be OK with being alone, that is very true. But to be doomed to loneliness is not a product of an RP lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 01:12 AM
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Lift. Be a good friend. Treat your friends better then women. Have a bro code. Go to school, get a career. Keep approaching and don't do it for the ends, do it for the journey. Things will get much better. Men hit their prime after 27.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 12:21 AM
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While the OP has a point in that a strong man should never fear being alone, comments like this are less about being RedPill and more about MenGoingTheirOwnWay. If you don't have strong alpha friends then that is an aspect of being RP that you have not mastered yet. (Still the OPs post is true, you should be able to be alone without fear. But if you are an alpha, people will be drawn to you so it won't be as lonely as you think)
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 12:18 AM
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Beautiful post. This is repeatable time and time again. I've all been the guy who has planned so much for a girls bday, only to not have her show. Horrible feeling. Ive also been the guy who didn't remember and had her reach out to me afterwords. Always better to be the one who doesn't meet these expectations.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 07:47 PM
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I fail to see how knowing about the cock carousel, and the wall, makes you RP or makes your barber RP? Just because you know that women hit the wall at thirty and want a beta provider women bang alphas in their 20s Doesn't mean anything... This is the easy part. The hard part is: How to not need validation from people you respect Understanding that the man is the one that must regulate a relationship, and knowing when and how to do that The hard work in creating a life so that you can be seen as…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 11:50 PM
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Whats missing from this is a simple fact: "it is great being a womans friend as long as you are not being used". You state some ways women attempt to use their friends, financials, emotional tampon and as an ego booster. This is all true. But an alpha man who can be a womans friend without being her tampon has nothing to fear from the trade, in fact he has much to gain..
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 10:24 PM
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The girl isn't different. Her relationship to you is different. What your experiencing is a normal occurrence when two people adore eachother. In short it can be called love. This feeling is what makes people believe that the "one" is different. Unfortunately, if you continue to put her on a pedestal, talk about her loyalty and your loyalty to her, if you continue to adore her, the love will likely degrade, this fact is why the RED Pill exists. I don't like the phrase AWALT, because it implies a…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 09:48 PM
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I think there is a lot to learn from this story about behaviour and expectations in relationships. What I don't understand is how people think behaviour like this is confined to women? This particular example exhibits normal human behaviour. I believe the point of these stories should be how we (men ) react to reality. But instead it often comes off as someone complaining about how hypocritical women are. The problem here is the husband. Does the husband in question already know on some instinct…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 05:12 PM
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The woman has a degree and is likely to be paid more then him. If he waits it out until she gets a good job divorces after he goes on stress leave, he is likely to benefit from divorce . He will be the one receiving alimony if he makes significantly less then her. Women sometimes "threaten" divorce with no idea how the tables will turn when they get to court. (Source, I know a couple guys who this story has happened to who are enjoying their 10 years of alimony)
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 11:22 PM
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This story is presented as a shortcoming in females. If women were better then she'd let him follow his dreams and support him. This is a seductive and limiting mindset. This guy is a moron. If he didn't like his job, he should have quit however many years ago, he should have followed his dreams. If he wasn't in a place where he was secure, happy and strong, then he SHOULD NOT have been in a long term relationship where he felt the need to support someone he was not able to support. Why wasn't h…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 11:09 PM
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this is pretty messed up advice
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 10:17 PM
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I have a longer reply, but I thought I'd make a conscise one. There are a few mistakes but this is what I believe is the biggest mistake and one a lot a guys make at the club: She goes and has fun and you get offended and react. When she left, you should have continued to have genuine authentic fun. Then when you she called, you should have said 'hey babe I'm in the back of the bar playing darts', then met up, then closed her. I can also question why you went to the bar after dinner. But the tru…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 12:47 AM
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Ok. First off I see no reason why you can't reinitiate with this girl. Look up love systems 'the ultimate guide to phone game' and treat her like a long fuse. Or just msg her in a week and act less like a boyfriend. I just don't think this chick will ever be wife material, but she can certainly be a plate if you act properly. Anyway. Here's what I think you did wrong: You went on a traditional date. Way to early for that. Your frame of mind was 'date mode' when it should have been 'fun mode'. Th…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 11:52 PM
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Great post. Thanks for the FR. But I really don't see any awalt in here. What I see is you not demonstrating anything about you that is valuable. I don't see you being an alpha, I don't see you respecting yourself or your time, or the plans you already had. I see you changing your course multiple times for a woman. I see you putting her on a pedestal. Those I think are the key takeaways here.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 09:45 PM
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I'm astounded that people think the city you live in and its size has that much to do with your happiness and your success with women. Happiness and sexual success is definitely in a man's control, and it is definitely something where the TRP can tell you how to improve. BUT if you think that the city you live in is a major factor, there are major gaps in your knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 09:20 PM
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You just asked a pretty serious question. Worse yet, you are going to get a response, probably from some teenager who has no experience and is angry at women for picking the football jock over him. I would advise you to not ask that question and not read responses. TRP can help you learn to be the best version of yourself. TRP can help you understand women and their base instincts that often but not always influence their behaviors. However TRP really can't give you useful advice on such a speci…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 04:09 AM
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This seems to me like a post that has nothing to do with trp. It may or may not be useful to people with mental illnesses however and I am sure that there are many people on TRP who could use that help but I think they would be best talking to their doctors and other support groups dedicated to that topic (e.g. a mental illness subreddit). I can't imagine their going to get good advice here from people who have no experience with their problems.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 01:54 AM
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This is true if your low value or chasing the wrong women. Every woman is an entertaining dancing monkey for a special guy she dreams she can get. If the above is happening to you, your just not that guy yet.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 06:42 PM
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I don't see the mistake tho? So a girl wants to go out as a secret? Why is that a mistake to agree with it. I say go along and be her f-buddy. The other story, you hung out with a girl you didn't like, started to like her and she went back with her ex. That is a regular occurrence in life. I am thinking You might have a unhealthy world view on relationships and the effort they require. Where did you lose on these transactions?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 03:04 PM
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I don't see how any of that makes you weak? You meet a girl, you interact for a time, after a while it ends. The only weakness I see it the way it has effected you. I work in a field where there are a lot of 'temporary' promotions. So like maximum 2-3 years in a new job, then You go back to your old job etc. So I see a lot of promotions come and go. Most people are annoyed, sad or angry when the promotion is over. But smarter people, people with wisdom, are thankful for the experience. Obviously…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 02:22 AM
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Just wait, it may still come. I had literally a hundred before she came into my life. I was a detached carefree jerk from 17-32 who crushed women, I was in so many ways PERFECT. then through a confluence of events, proper timing, right chemistry, incredible sex, perfectly social scene mix. We had an incredible year and a half and I fell hard, I was the full on needy beta, after a decade of being alpha. You can imagine the rest of the story.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 09:06 PM
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A forty year old single mom is completely different then a 20-30 year old single mom. They aren't looking for a provider, most of em have agreements with the father or kids are out of the house anyway .
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 03:23 PM
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Well then, hit Daytona Beach around March break this year. Book a popular party hotel like the desert inn, which has continuous bikini contests in the pool. Make sure you flaunt your older age assets (eg have a suite, with a good balcony, have a good crew with you, be the life of the scene). 18-22 year olds will be sitting on your lap and ignoring the douchebag college dudes who don't even have enough cash for a burger, meanwhile your barbequing on the suite. Of course make sure you show off tha…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 04:34 AM
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In my experience that was the calm before the storm. My early 20s were the crazy bar and college days. My late 20s involved some friends getting married, some girls and guys moving out of town and to other things, and me with my hand in my pants. It gets much better after that. Of course that's just my experience but my friends had similar experiences... Continue working improving yourself. The game is far from over.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 04:26 AM
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If he is talking about solely 18-22 age range then I would agree. That's a little creepy to a lot of people as you age. If your talking about quality women of a variety of ages, then I would disagree on the whole.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 04:24 AM
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Care to tell us how old you are, it is astonishing that you wrote such a long post and you failed to mention your age. You also failed to mention any of your experiences in the topic. You fail to mention anything about your status, or your game. How are you approaching women, and what are the strategies you've tried? A 30 year old man with his shit together is in the best possible demographic in north america. He has all the divorced women who get wet for him, all the girls who never got married…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 04:16 AM
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To be clear, I too think unicorns don't exist. But a red pill man, one that is dominant, one who has passion, one who puts a priority on his life, his body, a man who demands respect, he creates unicorn-like women. Women who might be shitty to another man, are GREAT to him. Focusing on the woman is backwards because so much of her actions depend upon the man. I literally had a woman come up to me a week ago and say 'hey i know your seeing XXX, but i always had a thing for you and would love to b…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 03:34 AM
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The message AWALT is bad because it puts the problem on someone else. It enables beta men to continue complaining about women and not look at their own, needy and beta behaviours. It makes it seem like women are bad, and that TRP is about knowing that women are bad. Instead, the message should be 'blue pill thinking leads to failed relationships, and red pill thinking leads to great relationships. If you work to attain a staus of an alpha and exhibit the behaviours that TRP recommends, great wom…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 02:52 AM
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Guns have nothing to do with the red pill. There's enough bloopers on this sub, who have no clue how to get their act together, blaming all their failings on women, with zero understanding of what a man is, we don't need to cloud the msg for them with political posts.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 02:44 AM
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In my opinion whether a girl is or is not a unicorn is missing the point entirely. Men with alpha behaviours create their own unicorns. Female behavior will change depending on the males actions and perceived status. So someone with beta/needy behaviours will do a field report about how women aren't loyal and they all want to ride the cc with Chad etc. This is true for him and the way he conducts his relationships. But if you take the same women and put them with a strong man, who does not submi…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 08:51 PM
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There is so much wrong here in this post and coments it is hard to know where to start. TRP is not depressing, its not injustice, its not a failure of feminism or a realization that something you have to stomach. If you regard TRP as something you have to accept or stomach, then you don't get it, yet. The blue pill is about guilt and commitment and promises and neediness. Blue pill is about what you feel you are owed by some mythical woman. When you swallow the red pill truly, you begin to learn…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 05:24 PM
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One problem here is that in this specific instance the girl is probably right, there are a lot of 'musicians' out there that wish they put some effort into a degree or career. I actually went out last night and a buddy of mine was headlining at a small pub and he is a lawyer. He makes loads og cash during the day which enables him to have a great lifestyle that women want to be a part of, and he still gets to be a small time musician. So you can have both a career and passion. There's nothing wr…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 07:47 PM
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Love the observations about ignoring. I have found purposeful non responses in conversation to be really powerful. Great posts as usual, thank you
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 03:28 PM
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The red pill has existed for at least a few thousand years. Ask any old man who his his shit together, my granpa working the farm in itay, or virtually almost all historical writing and customs on The nature of women. The red pill is just becoming more relevant now because society has found a way to breed far too many men with beta and needy behaviours that are only now beginning to figure it out.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 01:04 AM
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" I decided to google male stripper experiences to see if it was really the sloot fest the guy in the comments made it out to be.." That's your investigation? How did this get upvoted? This is literally someone telling us about his Google search results. How is it shocking to anyone that women and men have sex with strippers?
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 02:09 PM
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PUA has been a thing for over a decade. If your looking for advice on Pickup and seduction. there are very good resources out there that have been proven. I wholeheartedly suggest some of love systems guides (magic bullets, routines manuals, etc). Their are free ways to get these resources. I say this only because this sub routinely has low quality advice on seduction by people who seem more frustrated then wise. The theory here on the nature of women is great and unique. Readings on, the wall, …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 01:15 PM
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Well I am not here to insult or make anyone feel bad. But I wonder if you are RP and they are BP or instead the other way around? You seem to be complaining, and looking for validation here. And you seem to judge them only cleanliness and not other values that inform a man's worth. There are other things that make a man bp, and being clean and doing your laundry is not sufficient to be rp. I wonder if there are ways to lead your roommates in to treating the house as a team asset and having them …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 06:12 AM
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Yes, but the story makes if seem like Kelly kept chasing the wrong guy. ---She liked bad boys: football jocks, rockers, druggies--- this is such a lie that betas tell themselves, 'I'm a nice guy and girls wl be sorry they didn't pick me and they'll be sorry they fucked the football jock. '. There are tons of jocks, rockers and druggies that are PERFERCTLY successful in later life, that are great boyfriends or husbands. There are tons of 'kellys' who end up marrying their druggy boyfriend and end…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 05:55 PM
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Great post. But, This story makes it seem like Ben is the good guy and the girl is wrong for not seeing it all along. The truth is that Ben is a loser that doesn't understand attraction and Kelly is right for not being attracted to him. Stop glorifying Ben. Stop making it seem like Ben was right and Kelly was wrong. And stop making the alphas, Attila's or Chad's seem like losers. There are tons of alphas who settle down into happy relationships. betas like to think that alphas are really druggie…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 03:16 PM
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I will start with the bad news and then get to the good news. I guarantee a large part of the problem is you not just her. You look forward to a bj for months, and the date you look for it is on your bday, which is the perfect date to put guilt on someone. You talk about your job, college and how your laying next to her while typing on Reddit. You don't mention the progress you've been having at the gym, you don't mention the seduction tips you've tried, you don't mention how you've been becomin…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 03:11 AM
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The biggest, baddest most masculine alpha, is a beta to someone. The term "Alpha" is a STATUS in a relationship. That means in a relationship or tribe, or group, you are GIVEN the status of alpha by the other person(s) in the relationship. I can be an alpha to this plate, and a beta to that plate. I can be an alpha with a buddy, and a beta to some other buddy at work. It is a status that people give you. Granted, if you are an alpha in many relationships, it is likely you will be an alpha in the…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 11:05 PM
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This also explains why a woman will stay loyal to an alpha when he becomes sick or temporarily loses frame. I work in health and I continually see will continue feeding the alpha, wiping his butt, and loyally bringing him to the hospital. They will do this for the alpha, old guy getting alzhemeirs who continues to yell at her about the dinner being cooked wrong. Women are very loyal to alphas. You can even be beta for a time if you have set your initial and long term frame as an alpha. This may …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 11:00 PM
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Yea... The reason why she thinks your clingy is almost certainly that you are. When you don't care she definitely won't call you clingy. The great thing is you know what you have to change and how to get there, now comes the discipline to do it.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 10:19 PM
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I disagree that time is some big effect on mating, or relationships. Or that things are signifigantly different from the past. Hypergamy has always been a truth. Beta males, always had bad relationships and if they weren't divorce raped in the past, they were living horrible lives all the same. The nature of women we discuss is biological, and therefore has been true for thousands of years. Sure there are some changes in the modern era but these are relatively minor when compared to the bigger p…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 02:37 PM
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Uh yeah all the time. Just don't say 'and chill'. Say what's up, I have a 6 pack of Bacardi breezers and some beerm. Wanna watch a flick tonite?
/r/seduction13/12/15 12:09 AM
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The problem is that many men have a naieve view of what women are, a view that was sold on us by blue pill society, sold to us by Disney etc. This romantic view of women is incorrect, and having this view leads to heartbreak. When women don't meet these blue pill expectations many get angry, but this is folly because any man who has these expectations is being blue pill. All the things people say about women here, aren't horrible they are wonderful. They are a part of being a woman, they always …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 01:04 PM
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Odd. I have a post I am just refining in which I argue the opposite. In my experience, alpha is a status not a trait. Ppl can be an alpha in one group but not another, with one girl but not another. It is a status given or earned from a group. They recognize you as an alpha or they so not. Certainly there ARE traits that make this more likely (confidence, abundance mentality, fitness, etc), but traits just make it more likely you will be an alpha. I think this is what your alluding to when you s…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 12:51 PM
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How is this "swallowing the red pill"? Is the red pill about learning that girls cheat?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 09:56 PM
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"emotionally cheating"? what does that even mean?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 11:40 PM
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If you take her back, make sure you do not BEG for her back. Tell her you are WILLING to try again as long as: -make something up, even if there is no condition make it up. She needs to feel that you are in a stronger position.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 11:34 PM
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WTF? So as far as I can tel this is your first post and from what I can see: You say you had the perfect relationship She handled your needs, and great sex you list no negatives except that you find other girls hot (yeah join the club) and you dumped her for... no reason. Is there something I am missing here because that doesn't make a lot of sense. The readings can be used to MANAGE your relationship, and make sure if anything ever goes wrong you leave the relationship STRONGER. 90% of women ar…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 11:27 PM
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I like this post. I think this illustrates a problem with trp. We often hear how 'American women are different' and how 'times have changed there are no good girls anymore'. I think these statements can be partially true, and they have some basis in stats, sure our society is changing, I agree. BUT I also think a lot of commenters in this board are fooling themselves if they don't think part of the problems in their lives are related to their own understanding of being a man. My dad found a unic…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 03:54 PM
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All true. As I said in the post above, you sometimes have to banish a brother.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 02:54 AM
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A lot of overlap but not fully... sounds about right. I don't think either would be full or "great alphas" if we are talking about epic figures like that. I don't know enough about their histories to really comment so this might just be my "uninformed opinion". Napoleon struck me as short and angry man. Sure he accomplished a lot but if its out of a place of anger, bitter then it does not count. Interesting link - http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/napoleon-bonaparte-the-ultimate-bet…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 02:48 AM
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I think your experience is true. I have also found that someone with experience is attractive to women. That does not mean that someone who is seen to be a leader of men is not also attractive to women. I think both elements are true. Similarly someone can be shy, and a virgin but if he has a six pack and muscles he will be attractive to women. Optimally you want to be experienced, respected by men, craved by women, and physically fit. All of these qualities would be good. I posted on this topic…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 04:38 PM
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Hi, I'd love to give you advice bug I think it'll be a page long and will be very specific to my experience. If you like u can private msg you my thoughts which my help me format a future post too?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 04:25 PM
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That will be my next post. I am over 35, and guys our age know that it becomes significantly harder to maintain and grow this tight pack. It has not been all my doing, but my group has experienced 3-4 waves of members coming and going, and looking back I can see what worked and what didnt. What caused me to post this was the news story of guys without friends. (Linked in my post). I honestly see this as a reason for needy guys, and for broken marriages.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 06:51 PM
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I agree that plating is a consequence but not the reason. The reason for the fight of being alpha is biological, it is what inherently men do. And men do this to establish order, not as a sexual strategy. The fact that women love alphas is their sexual strategy, not ours. At he start of high plains drifter, clint Eastwood grabs a woman and has sex with her in a barn.... He then moves on and the rest of the movie he is concerned about the affairs of men. This is much like the life of an alpha mal…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 06:28 PM
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Agreed. But you can only look alpha for so long. Women will figure it out if you aren't actually one. That has to be a part of you, it has to be real. One way to make it real is for it to come from inside, your beliefs, your inner strength or as they say your inner game. Another way is for it to come from your peers. I have seen this strength come from a group of men. I am not sure that many women or plates can give you this permanent mental strength in the same way that a core group of friends …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 04:58 PM
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The point is relationships, not money, power etc. Alpha males are leaders of men. Guys with friends have fulfilled lives, they have hobbies that they go enjoy with buds, they can't do something with a plate tonite because their busy playing a game of basketball, they are defended when attacked, they are whole people even when the plates stop spinning. Girls instinctively know if your goin to be a clinger. It is the most hated trait of beta males, the guy who pretends to a big deal at the bar, bu…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 04:38 PM
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Thanks. I am not from the US so I never actually had the benefit of being in a fraternity. But I have been lucky to have a core group of friends that put eachother high on the priority list. Once I spent 2months taking a course out of town with 6 buds in a rental house. It was a very interesting experience. 6 guys living together, slamming the bars every night, drinking beers on the patio etc. Looking back to that time I can see that an element that is crucial to development (male bonding) is ab…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 04:28 PM
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Hah, awesome :) Yes, you should have said. 'Sorry babe I saw doug and we went for a quick drink'. Jealousy is a powerful emotion that make girls CRAVE a man. But a girl can be jealous of your friends too! (You don't have to make her jealous of a plate that doesn't exist, she can be jealous of your buds.) Here is an example that is happening to me RIGHT NOW-- I am travelling to another town this Friday. And I have a plate in that town who loves to see me. Only problem is my bud happens to also be…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 04:13 PM
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Help. As long as x is hot
/r/askTRP22/11/15 06:53 AM
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I think you need to control yourself, your jealousy and your mind or she will wind up cheating on you. Neither of these stories is significant. If you want to have a rule where you share each others passwords, then say it and be prepared to leave her if she disagrees. Personally I wouldn't bother, I'd also make sure your nit investing more then she is.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 06:51 AM
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Wow, can't believe I just read this in terms of procrastination. I was writing a post in my head about meditation and being an alpha and was thinking about posting it here. I find that what meditation does more then anything, is challenge you to stop running away or finding distractions. No more calling your friends, or that girl, or that crutch, no more tv or games, for 30 mins, and in that 30 mins you know what many of us will find? We are running away from facing ourselves. We want a girl to …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 03:15 AM
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sure. I was responding to this line - "If you have to run dread game to keep a relationship then I suggest it is not a relationship worth keeping" Which shows a fundamental misunderstanding of the term. I run dread game, with every relationship I have had in the last 5 years. Not because of the quality of the relationship but because of my attitude. My attitude says to the woman, "keep up", "offer me soemthing so that you can stay", "I have things I want to do and they are better and more worthw…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 07:24 PM
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Totally agreed, with one exception - friends with a girl that you want is a horrible idea. If you love the girl and she doesn't dig you, banish her, friends will never work. Now To the meat: Friends with a hot woman that you don't want is WAY MORE VALUABLE then being lovers with her. As a friend you can invite her to bars, concerts, swimming holes, you can use her to be fun. Wanna go skiing this weekend? Guess whose coming? Hot friend babe. And Chad is using her to pick up all her friends. Girls…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 08:59 PM
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Good read. It is sometimes hard to socialize with people you don't enjoy, but it is worth it on occasion, depending on how many other friends you have in the social group. In every city I go to, I like to have 2-4 girlfriends that I can call up to go out with which is a fun way to go to music venues, bars and not sarge. It also helps with social proof. It helps if they're attractive of course but it works equally well with average looking women too. When I have women I can't get with because of …
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 06:32 PM
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EXACTLY! Was just about to type that. Certainly women have changed, but men have changed as well. Most of the men I see in bars, in relationships and on here blame women when it is there action that matters. A strong confident and secure man who has friends that respects him, that man will be success with women.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 06:25 PM
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I never said that all relationships with alpha men will always last. Of course there are examples that don't. The op said that after 5 years the girl will always get bored. That is untrue, and if it's happeing to you I'd suggest that there is something wrong with your lifestyle and e way you treat women that makes you boring after the initial lust wears off. I still have a neighbor fuckbuddy from high school, that's more then a decade. I have a committed relationship over 9 in which I am the kin…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 05:28 PM
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Dread game makes it sound conniving and bad. I call it having 5-6 guy friends who always want to do something, and who you often ditch your woman for. I call it having 4-5 girl friends she barely knows who like going to concerts, swimming or that you work out with. Dread game runs itself if you have a full life that does not revolve around her.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 02:00 PM
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Your 100% right, you can't be alpha all the time. People will have weak spots in their life and as we age that likelyhood is inevitable. But I would say this conclusion, is a problem for both of our strategies: For your strategy, there may come a time, when you are down on your luck, and down on your health, and you lose the ability to be alpha, your plates who you have never kept around often, may just stop calling at that time. And you may find it very hard to have any companionship if you hav…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 01:48 PM
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You always need to be ready to leave, she needs to know in her heart that if she left you tomorrow, you would be partying with your friends and a few women this weekend. This works together with her always being more invested in the relationship then you. One of the biggest lessons ive learned, is the value of MALE friends. I have 6 best friends. We are a group of alphas in many ways. We go on trips together (guys only sometimes), we see eachother regularly, we call eachother for support. In my …
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 01:38 PM
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beta is the guy who doesnt get what he wants when he wants it. Beta is the person who works and doesnt get the reward he was dreaming of. Beta is the guy who buys flowers for the girl who wants to be with Chad. Beta is the guy who lowers his standards, or works to impress women. Chad makes his own decisions, based on what is good for him. Chad tells them when he wants them, how he wants them to act. Actually Chad doesn't even have to tell them because they are constantly thinking of Chad, how ca…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 04:59 AM
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Well it all depends on the relationship. I currently have one relationship going on the 9th year. I get home cooked meals, how i want it, cooked the exact way I described. I get understanding when I go out with my friends, and jealous clothes ripped off sex when I get back, I get morning bjs. My phone is always locked, and her phone is always unlocked, those are the rules, and I am the one who gets to make the rules. There are women who LOVE this type of relationship, They want to be the house s…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 04:38 AM
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Good advice on how to date, but one line I take issue with - If you seek a relationship with a woman, mentally prepare that the relationship will last only for a short period of time, 3, 6, or 9 months, maybe 5 years if you get lucky, then she’ll get bored Untrue. Women don't get bored of the alpha man in their life, they get bored of the betas in their life. If you know how to run a relationship, if you know how to be the man she will never get bored of you. If you said that many men will event…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 03:57 AM
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Great response. I would only caution that often buying the drink, devalues you in the girls eyes. Sometimes this is a shit test and buying the drink helps you fail.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 02:34 AM
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Great. The best thing to do is not to let her set the frame. You just ignore it and set your own frame that is stronger.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 02:32 AM
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Great post. I also see on this site, posters denigrating women simply because they do not like betas. Betas get this treatment in all species, this is not the fault of women it is just reality and the red pill is an awakening to that reality.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 02:29 AM
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I would say if you think the red pill is only relevant post feminist revolution then you don't fully understand it. The truths that rp lights is about reality, human kind, and biology. You phrase it as a reaction to feminism, and I think this is a bit wrong. Men today don't know how to be men because boys are raised to emulate beta traits. And they go through their life's being these beta imitations of men, and they get frustrated when it doesn't work the way that Disney promised it would. Part …
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 01:19 AM
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