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damn! alpha'd again. I can no longer keep up with the snarky comments or the constant one-upping on this sub. I remember when it was about helping other guys, but this is good too.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 06:16 AM
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he wasn't asking for your fucking opinion on his job
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 10:00 PM
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Since you can no longer help Henry, is there really any reason for you to attend the funeral? Not questioning your conclusions or anything. Sometimes I just wonder why we men play along.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 06:39 PM
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I did not scam you yet. I love how he outs himself.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 07:17 PM
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and have 3 shitty kids. I literally lol'd at this. Have sex. Suffer the consequences. What consequences are you referring to? (I'm a Christian as well, by the way. Although I haven't been to church for well over a year, because of many of the problems you've brought up. I've come to the conclusion that organized religion does not adhere to the principals laid out in the Bible.)
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 04:45 PM
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I'm gonna give you an upvote on this. My wife and I take ballroom dance lessons, and a strong tango gets her going. Definitely my favorite dance.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 01:44 AM
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where Donald Trump made it publicly known that Russia should dig more dirt on Hillary. You may have been simply paraphrasing for expedience's sake, but I feel it bears pointing out that he didn't say this. He merely said that if they have more e-mails, they should release them. The headlines (MSNBC included) are, of course, suggesting that he said something outrageous. I don't find this outrageous at all, but then again I'm just a misogynistic woman-hating homophobic gun-toting bigot.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 09:55 PM
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If I were to play devil's advocate for a moment, I could ask the same thing about Hilary Clinton -- why lock her up when she's going to contribute to society and drive it forward? But of course, I jest. She's never once contributed anything meaningful to society. And so in either case she should be locked up. Presidential candidates should not be above the laws; additionally, neither should false accusers.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 02:32 PM
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keeping the environment looking nice and not polluting our water ways that's entirely different than "climate change", which pretty much would agree with.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 11:40 AM
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she believes in climate change A religion in its own right.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 02:22 AM
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I remember that episode. I absolutely hate it, because as soon as his wife found out what he was doing he caved like a little bitch and the writers made it very clear that the audience should think what he was doing was wrong. Really irritating.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 08:29 PM
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I separate the two. Gay people & faggots. I agree, there's a very real distinction. I've known plenty of gays who weren't faggots, and plenty of straight guys who ARE faggots. "Fag" is no longer a term about sexual orientation. You're gay if you have sex with dudes; you're faggy if you wear women's clothing.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 04:51 AM
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Time to tell your buddy you're no longer interested in hanging out with him.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 10:08 PM
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You may be expecting the liberal idea of "inclusive". TRP is inclusive of differing ideas and opinions regardless of skin color. It's a free market of thought.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 08:01 AM
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I just dont understand how you can become so unwanted and beta in someones life you spent 2 years with. AWALT, buddy. Women are sociopaths, never forget that.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 05:03 PM
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Keep yourself occupied. Leave your home more often, spend time outdoors. Force yourself to leave, even if you don't have a plan as to what you're going to do. Staying home will only encourage you to focus on your situation, whereas going out to even just a bookstore for a few hours of browsing will keep your mind occupied. Invite friends or family out for dinner. Of course, go to the gym, too. And never, ever contact your ex again. Delete all contact info immediately. Stop reading this post and …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 05:07 PM
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Think about the things people say that make you angry. Typically, they're things that you haven't completely accepted or come to terms with -- perhaps there's a modicum of truth in the things they're saying, and it embarrasses you. When you begin to understand why certain insults make you feel angry or embarrassed, then you can address the problem and make them less true. Also, you can begin to own it -- when somebody calls you "baldy" because you're losing your hair, you crack a joke about look…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 03:36 PM
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Why the fuck are you having a conversation like this with your wife? Here's how this should have gone down: So my wife joins in claiming she doesn't understand what happened. I chimed in, "Good for him", shrugged, and then left the room to go practice guitar.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 02:24 PM
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"It's not about the nail."
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 01:11 PM
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...they’ve got [Trump's] back, especially when he is attacked by all the people they have come to despise: liberal Democrats and traditional Republicans. Hell, this is why I'm voting for him. All the people who have condemned me for being a straight white male my entire life have told me to NOT vote for Trump. So I will. I have never voted like this before in my entire life. I have always carefully vetted each candidate and tossed my vote toward who I thought would make the best president, even …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 01:24 PM
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You should message me if you're down for Netflix and smashing the white supremacist capitalist cisheteropatriarchy. No better example of word salad: Word salad may describe a symptom of neurological or psychiatric conditions in which a person attempts to communicate an idea, but words and phrases that may appear to be random and unrelated come out in an incoherent sequence instead. Often, the person is unaware that he or she did not make sense. Although in this case it appears to be intentional.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 07:25 PM
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At 1:14 you can see it in her eyes -- she judged the man's weakness and is preparing to exploit it.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 02:15 PM
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Dealing with her shit takes time and effort. Jerking off would have been more productive than engaging in the interaction you described.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 03:35 PM
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Good god, every story about Indian women in the redpill network read like a horror film script. Are they all psycho?
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 03:23 AM
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As Chateau Heartiste would say, this is all poopytalk. As Joe Rogan would say, it's all dopey-dumb-dumb talk.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 10:25 PM
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Misogyny: Not even once. Thanks, GayLubeOil, I was only two hard ciders and a rejection away from trying it until I read this.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 01:02 PM
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she doesn't believe dinosaurs existed for instance THESE are the people we're allowing to take over Western civilization through amnesty, "refugee" programs, and simple out-breeding. It sickens me.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 08:51 PM
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society's worst bigots and racists You do realize most people on TRP have been called these shallow, superficial, meaningless labels for most of their lives and for pretty much no reason other than being a white male, right? You really think that's going to fly here?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 01:00 PM
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Lemme share one story. I was in a bus sitting at the back corner. You've just had a peek at what a male space is without any female interference. Half of what you witnessed was male sexuality, but the other half is male competitiveness. No doubt those young men were trying to one-up each other with their dirty talk. Do you have any specific questions about male sexuality? If you want a general, quick overview, it's pretty simple. The inherent male sexual strategy is to spread seed far and wide; …
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 04:16 PM
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I think taking it on a case by case basis of the individual is a much better way of making that determination. You're in a subreddit that accepts AWALT as truth. It's not unreasonable that similar generalizations can be made about liberals; i.e., I refuse to tell my liberal friends in person why I vote the way I do for the same reason I refuse to offer to buy women drinks. Instead of trying to understand my motives, they attempt to put me on trial in public. You're clearly no different, so the g…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 04:54 PM
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Feminism is a subset of liberalism, which empowered it. Don't take it personally. I'm not saying conservatives are saints. This particular brand of evil happened to spring from rampant, unbridled liberalism.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 02:34 AM
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What's with the constant correlating of politcitical ideology to stupidity? It's probably because your particular political ideology is the main reason this subreddit even exists.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 12:07 AM
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How the hell does that even work on betas Who knows. It worked on me 10-15 years ago and I can no longer put myself in a mindset to fully understand it. It's like the edge of the universe -- I know it's real, but I can't fathom it.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 01:25 PM
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A friend in D.C. says “Single women nearing 40 have spent decades perfecting their adult selves. Men of the same age are still stuck in their teenage personality.” Always our fault. Nevermind the fact that women lie, cheat, and swindle their way into our wallets, our bank accounts, our hearts, custody of our children... nah, it's gotta be those immature men who never grew up. I feel no pity for these women. The blame for their fate lies solely with them.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 06:31 PM
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I had to have a conversation with a buddy of mine who constantly brought his wife to everything. I gently told him that HE is my friend, not her, and while I like her and I appreciate the face they're in a relationship, I sometimes want to hang out with him and him alone. Luckily he understood and he had a chat with his wife. Apparently it pissed her off, but he stuck to his guns and we hang out by ourselves sometimes. His willingness to push back on his wife saved our friendship, because I can …
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 04:51 PM
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Absolutely. I'll admit that I have lots of biases against women in the workplace, not because it's the workplace but because I have biases against women everywhere. Mostly because they've earned it.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 03:47 PM
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I did this to a woman in college. Told her I was going to stop talking to her, then stopped talking to her. Six months later, she asked me out. That woman is now my wife (got married before red pill; thankfully, we have a healthy relationship).
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 07:17 PM
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From this entitled cunt's website: Talia is a newly available aspiring comedy writer living in San Francisco who recently left Los Angeles to pursue a career in hangin’ out, maxin’, relaxin’ all cool. "Hangin' out, maxin', relaxin' all cool." Yeah, sounds like somebody I'd hire on the spot.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 09:37 PM
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Too late, though, he downvoted a bunch of comments that didn't fit his pacifist worldview and then deleted his post.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 01:49 PM
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I'm not suggesting you should have fought the guy in this particular case, you did the right thing by removing yourself from the situation (nobody wins in a knife fight). But I think the pacifist mentality overall will generally make you more passive, an object to be acted upon rather than an aggressive actor with agency. Sometimes you have to fight, and mentally training yourself to NEVER fight (or engage in any type of conflict) is dangerous and, in my opinion, extremely foolish. Think and act…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 02:31 AM
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As a pacifist Drop this mentality immediately.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 02:11 AM
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Don't give up. Go scorched earth and burn everything to the ground if you have to. You're a man and can rebuild if needed; she can't.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 08:43 PM
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All I have to say is go Avs!
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 01:41 PM
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You're already valuable! I was told this until my early 20s and couldn't for the life of me figure out why girls wouldn't fuck me. I reject everything you say not only on principle, but in a practical sense as well. Your assortment of hippie rainbows and unicorns does not exist, and makes men worse off. Either get with the program or lurk, but if you're going to try to derail men you should GTFO and go back to watching Grey's Anatomy.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 04:57 PM
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Good god. I'm glad to hear the dog is (presumably) all right.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 11:46 PM
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Oh man, I feel you on that one. Happened to me once, too, not a fun situation.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 03:18 PM
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Lessons Learned: Don't attend LGBT events.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 12:07 AM
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The instant feedback they receive for posting can be incredibly helpful to steer them on track (even if that feedback comes in the form of a temporary ban). Where else can they get quality feedback on their current mental state? Pretty much nowhere.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 08:31 PM
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The anger phase is a natural and healthy part of the process. If I hadn't experienced it, I wouldn't have become as successful as I am today. So what if the front page of the sub is intermittently filled with anger-filled posts? It's a much needed outlet that they can't find literally anywhere else.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 04:49 PM
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I gave several female authors a try and read their books. I now actively avoid reading anything written by a female author. Simply put, they suck. The only time they're any good is if they've been given direction and are constrained by the franchise they're writing for, a la Karen Traviss in the Halo universe. But even that pales in comparison to the work of Eric Nylund or Greg Bear in the same universe.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 01:20 PM
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She gets mad when I tell her I actually prefer short girls and that I'm making an exception for her. Heh heh, very nicely done. Excellent way to flip the script.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 07:23 PM
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Don't think so. I think his name is based on the fact that he's a personal trainer whose clientele is mostly gay men.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 03:33 PM
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I would go to my laundry room and hook up my cell phone jammer. Bahahahaha, that's certainly crazy and illegal... but incredibly awesome. I like your style.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:46 PM
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vasectom Yep. My body, my choice. Simple as that. I wonder how it would be if it were a woman being pressured to have a medical procedure? This man is waking up. Somebody offer him a red pill!
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 07:50 PM
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Tax me I dont give a fuck. Giving up your autonomy and individual sovereignty so easily is blue pill as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 12:29 AM
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True. Still, I'd recommend something else that he could potentially learn from, not just go for the easy A. But you're probably right, his choices were probably pretty shitty.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 02:27 PM
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Take a basketball course and get easy credits for simply working out. Hell, take a volleyball course, it's better than listening to feminists.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 02:39 AM
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I love one of the comments on the article. It reveals so much: No one ever talks about how to find a beta guy! I'm tired of the Alpha's and Omega's, but the beta's don't step up, so how do I find one?! Well, no shit. What did you think you were signing up for?!
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 03:02 PM
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I think you may have missed the last paragraph. Moral of the story? We all have weaknesses. Know yours. Until you can control the anger and employ actual RP, just keep your mouth shut.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 10:48 PM
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Not surprised, pissed.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/15 10:43 PM
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Until you get thoroughly ripped apart by women and white knights such as yourself, it's not likely you'll understand.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 02:32 PM
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Even if it's fake, the fact that it's easily confused for something feminists would ACTUALLY do is quite telling.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 03:33 PM
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It's only a matter of time before she claims "misogyny" and "the patriarchy is attacking me for developing software", giving feminists a reason to come to her defense.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 04:32 PM
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For whatever reason, seeing the video and reading a few of the comments on Buzzfeed makes me want to go chop wood until I'm too tired and start doing pullups as a means of taking a break.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 03:22 AM
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Good to hear you've adopted the reality of the world. But this: I asked to borrow his phone just to fuck with her a bit. Makes you sound 12.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 12:40 PM
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Also, people do make choices. So we have free will. The absolutism of the initial claim is what I'm countering. It doesn't make logical sense to state we have no free will, and then to claim we can make choices. The OP needs to refine his conclusion.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 06:26 PM
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We can become more aware or say, 'chose' to go on a shooting spree. The outcome entirely depends on your pre-existing 'variables' and the way in which this idea has been presented to you. If we have any choice in the outcome, then some semblance of free will exists and your initial claim ("we do not have free will") does not hold. Your claim would be much more consistent if it was "We do not have as much free will as we believe we do". It may or may not be wrong; but at least it wouldn't be so e…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 09:58 PM
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You can disagree, but you haven't explained how you think we can alter our behavior if we have no free will.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 09:15 PM
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It can encourage you to seek ways to alter your behaviour, to be a better man. This is always the problem with people who believe all of your actions are derived from the firing of neurons and conclude we have no free will; they can never follow through with the logical consequences of their beliefs, namely that it means we should free every murderer and excuse them of their actions because they had no choice. All the "experts" (Sam Harris comes to mind) who subscribe to the theory that we have …
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 09:08 PM
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I can barely stand listening to the guy who called in. I can just tell that he has no sense of self, no pride, no self-respect. He can't even get out a full sentence without dropping "uh" and "um" multiple times, like he's scared to allow his voice to take up any airwaves. I can feel the beta oozing from him. It's disgusting.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 02:25 PM
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Great job, mods! And especially /u/BluePillProfessor. This place wouldn't be successful without your commitment and hard work.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 03:22 PM
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If the master decides something is worth sharing, it's worth sharing.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 08:20 PM
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You are feeling the guilt from breaking the third Commandment of Poon: You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority. A cardinal rule, and you broke it. It's certainly not the first, and I doubt it will be the last. But hang in there, and welcome to the Red Pill. Keep reading.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 02:38 AM
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Thank God. A much-needed change.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 01:04 PM
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No, he should not discuss anything. He should shame her.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/15 07:48 PM
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Why are you even entertaining the notion of divorce with her? Focus on her infidelity and hammer her with it. Speak of nothing else except her lack of loyalty. This is not the time to argue with the hamster. If she says she wants a divorce, ignore it and ask why she's texting other men.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 08:40 PM
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Separation allows women at this stage, to enjoy the high they experience with their lovers without giving up the security of their marriages. Alpha Fux/Beta Bux. However, they did mention feelings of guilt and regret for having hurt their children and ex-spouses only to find themselves experiencing similar feelings in the new relationship. Dem bitches never learn!
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 10:26 PM
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Your articles are always difficult to read, Rollo, but only because they're absolutely right and shine a spotlight on my own failing marriage. I think this one illuminates recent events in my marriage and only solidifies in my mind what must be done (I need to go from dread level 9 to dread level 10).
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/15 12:35 PM
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Is it okay for a wife to give too much attention to the unhappy negative voids out there? No, especially if it's affecting her behavior and your marriage. Women need a certain level of drama, so she could just be fulfilling that need. But if it spills over into other areas of her life (i.e. you) then it shouldn't be allowed to continue. I've basically come up with a strategy of disregard any mention or don't even acknowledge her internetting/associating with negative individuals, aka ignore and …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 10:52 PM
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It is worth careful study for years Agreed. I may make it a point to read it once a year to ensure it remains ingrained.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 10:50 PM
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Damn, that lifeguard got ganged up on by two vatos and a land whale, knocked the guy in white out cold and started heading for the second before his coworkers managed to break up the fight. Don't fuck with that guy.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 12:39 AM
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I had a pretty solid awakening about the nature of women before discovering TRP. Unfortunately, I didn't know about TRP until well after I was married, so I wasn't fully aware of the dangers of marriage. If I had to go back and do it again, I would probably still be with my wife, but I'm positive I wouldn't be married to her. Even if you have the tightest game and the most solid frame, it puts you in a position of powerlessness. Why any man would knowingly put himself in that position is beyond …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/15 01:18 PM
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but in the end, she was still crying and telling me I am killing us, and she will have no choice but to leave etc. So? Also, is this comfort test or what? A shitty comfort test. Stand your ground.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 10:58 PM
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The constant shaming of a reforming NICEguyTM trying to put him back in the little box he's lived in. You hit five nails directly on the head, but I think this one resonates with me the most. I made the horrible mistake of going to women for advice on how to get with women. The constant analogy on this sub stands -- you don't ask a fish how to catch fish. Solid comment.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 10:45 PM
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Good to hear -- hang onto that feeling. It's easy to lose it and start caring again. Takes some practice.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 02:12 PM
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Uh oh This sums up your entire mentality. The fact that you feel like you can get "in trouble" with your wife means you have absolutely no self-respect. You can only be in trouble with two people: Your boss, and your boss's boss. You shouldn't be posting. You should be reading. See BluePillProfessor's post for recommended reading material.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 01:35 PM
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By far my most favorite post in MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 06:27 PM
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I'd definitely like to write more if I can produce quality content. This topic was burning in my brain so it was much easier to put to paper. My original posts have been similar -- field reports or questions on how to handle broad situations -- so I definitely enjoy giving back to the sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 12:44 PM
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Great! Glad I could contribute something worthwhile.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 12:39 PM
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Having your eyes opened is exciting. Recognizing that others out there have opened their eyes, too, is also very exciting. It's hard to contain it, but definitely worth it in the long run. RP is not something that can be shared; it has to be experienced. It's better to be in the fight than anticipating it -- as I'm sure you're well aware!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 02:56 AM
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Good point. That's actually going to bother me enough to make it worth an edit.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 02:48 AM
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Also I don't like the chess board analogy better than the matrix one. Maybe I should have posted this in the Fool's Gambit subreddit? If your focus is on the analogy, then that "unplugging" flair you have is well deserved.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 12:30 AM
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Heartiste just posted a pretty good analysis of it. Bottom of the Barrel Cuckold Fetishist or Spinster Hoax? This paragraph contains the second crone giveaway. No man nurses his depression with “an ocean of red wine”. He hits the hard stuff or the beer. Spinster cat ladies, licensed to psychologically project! B-U-S-T-E-D. The author is not a man.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 07:54 PM
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This is a shit test. Wife: "Why don't you throw as many parties as Beta Bill?" The Humbler: "If you want more parties, marry Beta Bill." It's pretty simple, really.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 07:51 PM
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I of course, forwarded everything to BB. Most people here will probably tell you this was the wrong move. They might be right, but damn did I enjoy reading about that hypergamy blowing up in her face.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 01:01 PM
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Damn their white male privileges, right? Get the fuck out of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 11:35 PM
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...further, if that initial opinion is one that you know could create animosity between you and the other people in the interaction either based on their social roles or their own opinions, then it's better just to stay still and quiet or even subtly agree to maintain those relationships Because of this. If you have no allies, you have no power. If you have no power, you can't hope to win a freakin' war.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 08:02 PM
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Better idea: Take your wife salsa dancing. Get private lessons for the two of you.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/15 06:45 PM
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she allows me to be the captain Sounds like you may still have a problem, though -- unless you meant she accepts you as captain?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/15 05:54 PM
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Right on!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 01:21 PM
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I couldn't agree more. This ruling changes nothing for heterosexual men.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 04:44 AM
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You didn't lose frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 02:29 PM
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Co-signed. "No More Mr. Nice Guy" is a fantastic read. Read it twice, /u/jeffreyschon, then come back and wait another six months before posting again. This isn't to deter you from learning; in fact, the very opposite. Absorb all the info you can here, apply it, and then come back and call me a dingle berry. Or maybe by then you'll have some better insults. ;)
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 01:27 PM
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You have a very, VERY long way to go. You shouldn't even be posting yet if you think the way RP talks about women is "foul" or otherwise inappropriate.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 10:57 PM
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Lawyer up, get the kids, and GTFO.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 10:55 PM
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The Rebel: "How do you know the other 90% of rapes aren't reported?" Obtuse SJW: "Because of the women's centers they call." The Rebel: "So they are reported." Burn.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 10:20 PM
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Our goal is to enable as many people as possible to have authentic conversations and share ideas and content on an open platform. And to achieve that goal, we will be systematically removing posts and subs that don't align with our personal beliefs.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 07:21 PM
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When the abuser is ready to face his actions... "It puts the lotion on its skin, or else it gets the hose again." Seriously. You're not even a person to her any more. Lawyer up, get your financial affairs in order, and serve her the papers.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 10:54 PM
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I think it's safe to give him the benefit of the doubt that he's been doing all this, considering he started unplugging last July.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 12:24 PM
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4 people don't represent the community.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 12:06 PM
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No -- definitely turn down bad sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 03:12 PM
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Impressing your woman with feats of physical strength is always a plus.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 03:08 PM
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You're welcome. Realizing that we as men always have to make the change is a hurdle that we'll hit over and over and over again until it's finally been beaten into us that nothing else will change unless we make it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 03:01 PM
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Obligatory question for MRP: Have you read the sidebar material yet? If not, I suggest The Married Man Sex Life Primer to start, followed by No More Mr. Nice Guy. They're $10 each on Amazon Kindle and well worth the time and cost. Otherwise, I found myself in a similar situation very recently (although instead of calling it an "existential crisis", I referred to it as "the reckoning" in reference to Rollo Tomassi's blog post of the same name). I focused on your question: Do I just remain stoic a…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 02:35 PM
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Some in the community buy into religion. The community does not ascribe to religion. Do I need to draw you a Venn diagram?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 02:08 PM
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It's a mixed bag. Especially since the Bible can be pretty RP.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 01:52 PM
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Matt Walsh sucks. If you want a real Red Pill perspective from a Christian, read Dalrock. Start with this article: Repackaging Feminism as Christian Wisdom
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 01:51 PM
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I went to a Lindsey Stirling concert the other night. She outright said she's not a feminist. But then again, she's beautiful, talented, and earned every bit of her success -- I guess she didn't need the victim status feminism provides. Don't tell that to the white knight in shining armor Mark Ruffalo.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 12:07 PM
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Men, by far, make up the majority of serial killers. Like cheaters, will it be a sign of social progress if more women join the ranks of serial killers, too? Ouch! A twisted shiv worthy of attributing to a Heartistian adept.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 04:05 AM
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My condolences for your loss, OP. That's a tough one to bear and overcome -- good to hear your father has you. I have a similar story. My buddy went to the hospital today for some heart problems that, if complicated, could have ultimately been fatal. His girlfriend disappeared and he hasn't heard from her all day. She couldn't handle the stress, I guess. He's always been there for her no matter what, and she disappears when he truly needs moral support. And in the end we all know nobody will cal…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 03:59 AM
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Decide if it's worth the opportunity cost. I love playing video games, but have toned it down to 0-3 hours per week and no more, mostly because I just don't have time to do them (mostly leaning toward the "zero" end of the spectrum here). I do try to keep up with certain franchises (i.e. Halo) and will make room for those, and sometimes I'll invite my dad or my brother over to play so we can bond a little bit. That's important to me, and well worth my time. As others are saying, use in moderatio…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 06:56 PM
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You posted a great question, BPP, I hope she responds to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 03:31 PM
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Thank you for all your hard work uncovering the facts and presenting them so clearly. I think I can speak for everybody here when I say we all appreciate it very much, as well as your taking the time to drop in. What do you think men can do on a local level to turn the tide of militant feminism on the rise in the West? The Red Pill view is to "enjoy the decline" and take full advantage of it; do you see that as a help or a hindrance?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 03:07 PM
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My mother-in-law is a matriarch of her family. Every time the family gets together she tries to lead, and I think my father-in-law (more BP than RP) has just given up since she's been so controlling for so long. Inevitably, every family event is poorly planned and we end up sitting around trying to decide what to do. And somebody gets disappointed because somebody else already had plans and suddenly the whole event is disrupted. Until I get there. I can only take indecisiveness for so long. Afte…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 04:49 PM
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Fantastic write-up of the problems facing the Western education system. I actually went to college to become a teacher and spent two semesters working with horrible, degrading, and insulting women who spent most of the time telling me how bad of a job I was doing. They didn't like that I spent time getting to know the kids, and then they'd turn around and say that I wasn't spending enough time doing just that. I didn't grade papers enough, but when I did and got overwhelmed because their methods…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 12:27 PM
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I'm in Denver as well. PM me if you're interested in potentially meeting up. I can give you the lay of the land here (although full disclosure, I'm married so I haven't thoroughly scoped the scene here, if you know what I'm sayin').
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 04:27 PM
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You're thinking of egalitarianism. You can't be feminist and red pill at the same time, they're mutually exclusive (one purports that women have no agency while the other hinges on the fact that they do).
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 01:05 PM
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Not sure, but the backup site is puerarchy.com. Stay up to date there regarding new user boards.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 08:50 PM
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I've given RP advice to friends, but only if the following criteria have been met: They've undergone a traumatic experience that has opened them up to new ideas and actions. They either seek me out for advice or, when offered to be given advice, are receptive to it. When I do give advice, I use absolutely zero red pill terminology. No "hypergamy", no "AF/BB", no "AWALT", etc., but I do rephrase them in ways that can allow plausible deniability on my part later. I'm incredibly careful because I k…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 04:40 PM
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She's been lazy in the relationship lately. Instead of just telling her what she needs to fix (because she immediately shuts down and I get tired of dealing with that) I let my anger and frustration build up to an unhealthy point. It's in the open now because I had a conversation with her about it instead of avoiding it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 10:57 PM
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Instead of outright telling my wife we had a problem, I allowed her avoidance of confrontation to pressure me into silence. The problem has yet to be solved, but it's at least out in the open now.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 12:31 PM
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You're welcome, hope it helps. perhaps part of the reason I was posting at MRP was for permission to be upset and entertain leaving from a community of men I dearly respect. I think you definitely have grounds to leave. It sounds like an abusive relationship, or at the least a very lopsided one. And if having kids is high on your list of important things to do in life, then it's even more of a reason to take off. Don't get me wrong, loyalty is highly prized especially among men. But I don't thin…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 12:13 PM
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I already know how to be pretty, chaste, feminine, sweetly submissive, and giving... I have an aesthetically ideal BMI (19), huge tits, tiny waist, better than Elizabeth Taylor face. This is great. But I am loyal to a fault. This is not so great. Unfortunately, the only people who can help your man are 1. Other men and 2. Medical experts. If he isn't willing to seek help even after you've pointed out his recurring problems, I don't think there's really anything you can do. If you're telling the …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/15 07:14 PM
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This was the first gender-integrated Ranger course, a one-off experiment launched as part of a military-wide effort to assess the remaining barriers to full gender integration in the military. I think we found the barrier. Women can't compete physically.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 11:24 PM
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Great post, and it highlights why men need high quality relationships with other men in their lives. We won't hear any real advice or reminders of harsh truths anywhere else.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 01:18 PM
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His biggest mistake was telling her (or allowing her to find out) he adopted the Red Pill sexual strategy. I'd bet her knowledge of it has only compounded the problem. Sure, she would initially reject it anyway because AWALT, but in time she would either slip into ignorant submissive bliss or reveal that she's not worth the effort. Now that she knows, she's going to see everything through the "abusive, emotionless vacuum" lens of the red pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/15 01:41 PM
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As Open Hypergamy becomes more institutionalized and made a societal norm by the Feminine Imperative, and as more men become Red Pill aware (by effort or consequences) because of it, the more necessary it will become for a feminine-primary social order to legislate and mandate men comply with it. A war is brewing, and it's clear who fired the first shots. Who launches the finishing volley remains to be seen, but I think we all have a pretty good idea how this will all go down.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/15 12:01 AM
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Horseshit. After two days all you can muster is "stop moping and cheat on your wife if you think you're hot shit"? I made it clear I'm not interested in cheating -- I'd much rather stay in my marriage (which is what MRP advocates, does it not?). Just to be clear, I appreciate a thorough kick in the ass when it's coupled with practical advice. But there's nothing of substance in your post that I can put into practice (except "stop moping", which is the advice I could get from a cheap therapist).
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 04:12 PM
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She will eventually understand that the affection and commitment you give her isn't free but she has to work for it. So make her work for it. Well said. I think you've touched on a very important aspect of the problem. Of course sex is a main part of the problem, but it compounds all the other smaller ways she fails to meet my needs (pulling away at a kiss, using her phone while "talking" to me, etc.).
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 12:50 PM
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If we ever have a main event, I'm not sure if I'll even be able to spot it. My wife is notoriously under-dramatic. I've never seen her explode or get crazy like I've seen other women; instead, she shuts down when confronted. If we have a main event, it will probably be indistinguishable from all the other times she shuts down (but who knows, she may genuinely surprise me). the shitstorm that ensued was biblical Hahaha, my mind immediately went to plagues.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 08:07 PM
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I'm going to take a guess that when this happens you've let up on what you were doing to get her to the place where she was meeting your needs? No, I don't let up until I come to realize (again) that I'm the only one putting any effort in the relationship. Then I subconsciously escalate the dread, like I am right now -- checking out.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 07:28 PM
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Thanks. I don't think my situation is unique, either. I would bet every man in an LTR has felt this way (otherwise, I don't think MRP would even exist). I don't deal with low quality people. Figure out how patient you're willing to be with her for her to catch up. I think my wife is slipping into the "low quality" zone; you're right, it's on me to decide what to do about it and how long to wait. Basically, I think the root of the problem is that she's getting lazy in our relationship and expecti…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 01:48 PM
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I'm beyond covert contracts and expectations. I've come to accept that she isn't going to tend to my needs. This is why I am where I am -- I'm giving up on making an effort to have them met. I've told her on multiple occasions what I need and what she can do to meet those needs, but she makes an effort for maybe 1-2 months before she slips back into her lazy relationship behavior (reminder to self, attraction cannot be negotiated). Then when the time comes and she doesn't do any of this, take it…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 01:15 PM
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Downloaded and added to my reading list.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 01:09 PM
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I've had a drink every day for the past year and a half, so I feel you. I've seriously cut the amount of drinking over the past 3 weeks and have already noticed a difference. I'm losing belly fat quicker and don't feel so tired. Still tough to avoid it every day -- the psychological addiction is very real.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 11:07 PM
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Now I know it's readily available, my inner caveman wants to spin the plates I never got to as a 20-something. Although I wouldn't want to inflict it on anybody, I do take some solace in knowing that I'm not alone (or crazy).
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 10:59 PM
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Read Models by Mark Manson. Can you tell me a little more about it?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 10:57 PM
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FOMO is a helluva drug. Is everyone else really having a better time than you? Not likely.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 10:57 PM
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Those other women have shit on their asses as well. They'll pose different problems which won't have the added weight of feeling like repeats of last month's issues, but they'll have problems. So will the next girl and the next... Great reminder. I needed to hear this. I was speaking to my brother about some of these problems and distinctly realized I wouldn't want to switch places with him (he's single and dealing with these crazy hoes on a daily basis). ...the appreciation my SO developed for …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 10:56 PM
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Thanks, BPP, this is exactly what I needed to hear. Especially this piece: This is your 'Test.' Don't fail the Test. Keep going forward. I always say don't make life altering decisions while you are in the Anger Phase and now I expand that to advise you not to make life altering decisions while you are going through the reckoning. I'm in the thick of it right now, and it's hard to see the forest through the trees. Your comments are, as always, the most level-headed and helpful. Thanks a ton.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 10:50 PM
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"Biological clock" may have been a misleading term. How about "sexual prime"?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 10:47 PM
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No, I haven't seriously considered it. I've been re-reading the excellent post by /r/bluepillprofessor and will now start to seriously consider moving in that direction.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 04:13 PM
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I assign zero blame to her. I'm fully aware this is me, this is my problem, and only I can solve it. Not trying to subvert you guys at every turn, but I recently took her on a long weekend to the place we had our wedding (beautiful mountain town with lots of hiking, which we both love). I even took her to the spot we got married, not to be overly corny or melodramatic, but just to try to spark something that we had 3 years ago. No response from her. I was severely disappointed, and then realized…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 04:05 PM
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No kids. Put simply, I feel like I've wasted my SMV and lost the chance to spread my seed far and wide. My biological clock has counted down and I missed the boat. As a result, I've checked out of my marriage and have a strong urge to walk away, even though logically/rationally I have no good reason to do so. She literally has given no reason to do so.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 03:17 PM
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I'll update the OP with the materials I've read and how much I lift -- I meant to include it and overlooked it. Don't get me wrong. I don't expect my wife to behave like a man. AWALT. I expect her to need and want to be led, and I've been leading for years now. The anger phase is far behind me. I experienced that in all its brutality years ago, and I accept things the way they are. The Reckoning is kicking my ass, though, and I experience the cycle of grief in small doses each day.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 03:08 PM
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My older brother has been married for 15 years and has three kids, ages 14, 12, and 9. He pulled them all out of public school this year and has begun homeschooling, all while going to trade school to learn woodworking and start his own business. He probably won't be the best teacher for them, but you're right, it's better than allowing public education to treat his kids like they have mental disorders and to teach them outlandish concepts like "gender fluidity". Besides, I'm well educated and h…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 12:45 PM
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...this contrived "crisis" really isn't rooted in a man's yearning for his younger days, but rather his coming to the realization that his SMV and peak potential put him into a state of awareness that he could actualize things he previously thought weren't possible for him. For many men this is the first time in their lives that they really have the introspection to understand the harsh Red Pill truth. They realize options they never knew they could have, and they realize they could exercise the…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 12:21 AM
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Is developing your skills in dealing with women at large part of your strategy? Short answer: Yes. Long answer: Hell yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/15 09:57 PM
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During BP, I used to... You're still BP. Did you get a paternity test? Did you leave her yet? This is an abusive relationship and you shouldn't be in it. Calling her over lunch is the least of your problems.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/15 03:57 AM
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It's fun watching them try to raise torches and pitchforks against a guy they think is Red Pill, then slowly lose their righteous fury when they realize the guy had no idea what Red Pill or even "alpha" is.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/15 09:30 PM
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Excellent -- I always appreciate the swift kick in the ass he gives me. Great choice.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/15 03:56 PM
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"well, you'd have to be 10 years younger." Bahahahaha! Awesome. My wife recently did this, too, although she was getting a bit out of hand with it. Posting multiple photos, swooning over several guys she got to meet in person, then bragging about it to everybody she knew for days on end -- in front of me. I didn't tell her to stop her behavior. Instead, as I was driving her to the airport to send her off on a weeklong business trip, I calmly told her I wasn't happy with our relationship and that…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 12:34 PM
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That's true. His statement about unconditionally honoring and revering women irritates me, though. Maybe he's just picking his battles and playing the game wisely. Still, any compromise with feminists seems like a loss for normal people. It really is a zero-sum game with these freaks.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 08:34 PM
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Women are to be celebrated, loved, respected, honoured and revered. Sounds kinda like folding to me.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 08:26 PM
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The answer is simple. Do you like your beard? If so, then keep it. If you don't like it, shave it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 03:24 AM
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Good job, but remember her behavior follows your lead. If you get comfortable and ease up on your game, she'll slip back into her old self. And in fact I wonder if she's not just doing this to appease you for the moment while she tries to "fix" you and return to her old ways. Even if that's the case, though, you can quash that plan with continued game. Don't let up.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/15 06:06 PM
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I get the same impression. "Just checking in" allows plausible deniability from the real intention of "I want to screw up your night".
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/15 04:35 PM
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I agree with radio silence. You're too busy to answer her petty questions.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/15 04:32 PM
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"out: don't worry, I am not drunk and did not fuck anyone" Next time, just say "out". Induce a little dread, let that hamster spin.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/15 02:43 PM
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Unplug the fucking thing. Yep -- block his IP from using the wireless router.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/15 02:27 PM
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Reading this reminds me that swallowing the pill is an everyday effort. I go through all the stages again, although much more quickly. I feel depressed right now, I'll be angry in five minutes, and then I'll be over it within 20.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 02:05 PM
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Read the sidebar material -- specifically, start with No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover. I read it recently and wished I had read it 10 years ago when I was in a similar situation as you.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/15 04:32 PM
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I recently met with an acquaintance who was recently told by his wife that she wants him to move out temporarily so she can "find herself" and suggested that they have an open relationship. It wasn't until a few minutes into the conversation that I realized he was ready for some RP truths -- he has been thoroughly trampled upon by this woman and was open to hearing everything I had to say. Of course, I didn't package it as a bunch of RP phrases and terminology. I said it in plain English and he …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/15 12:03 AM
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Unbelievable -- you've got the most powerful beta shit goblin I've ever seen. This baby is most certainly not yours.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/15 04:28 AM
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I doubt she would understand even if you laid it out for her. Make the changes and lead her into them. When you're in a better position, then revisit the topic -- but only to determine if you want to keep her in your life or not (i.e. if she still adds value).
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/15 07:21 PM
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EDIT: I just reviewed your post history. You said about 30 days ago that your wife just came back from India. How do you reconcile that with this comment she made: She called me and said she was 5 weeks pregnant ? Sounds like paternity test should be on tap... Holy shit, good catch. If this doesn't spur OP into action, nothing else will, and he'll be doomed to be a career beta for the rest of his pitiful existence.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/15 01:53 PM
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If you're not leaving her, you're ignoring the advice. Stop talking. Do something.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/15 07:51 PM
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You're still ignoring all the advice everybody is giving you. If I were the mods, I would seriously consider a temporary ban followed up with a perma-ban if you continue to bring your shit in here and expect us to fix all your problems. Regardless of whatever level of complexity the situation has taken, the solution is incredibly simple: STOP TALKING, STOP MAKING EXCUSES, AND LEAVE HER.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/15 07:33 PM
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STOP TALKING. Get your belongings out of the house before she returns home and MOVE OUT. NOW. Figure the rest out later.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/15 07:30 PM
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I could barely read this, and not because itks a wall of text, but because I can hardly stand to see someone with so low self respect. It's absolutely disgusting. I'll tell you 2 things and be on my way. 1.Don't believe anything this psychopath says, including her claims of pregnancy. 2. GET OUT. Leave her TODAY and DO NOT look back. For fuck's sake, if you have ANY self respect you won't allow anybody to treat you like this. Based on your previous posts in MRP, though, you will ignore this advi…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/15 04:46 PM
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fatty diehard feminist Emphasis mine. No reason to stay with one of those unless you have kids with it. Seriously, nothing good can come of this. Have a little self respect and get yourself a better woman who enjoys your company.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/15 08:00 PM
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She knows I don't want to leave And that's why she's going to win this. You cannot instill dread if she knows you won't leave. With this mentality, you will be divorce raped -- and probably soon.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/15 03:59 PM
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There is no such point. There should never be such a point. I think I made my agreement with this statement very clear when I gave him this advice: Remember you are the gatekeeper to commitment, and you reserve the right to retract it at any time. My assumption is that those who post here have passed the mental point of no return in which no amount of argument or logical discourse will persuade them from pursuing marriage or an LTR. If a guy can get swayed out of marriage by a bunch of strangers…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/15 03:26 PM
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Because don't get married is usually the right advice. I find myself giving this advice to my single friends all the time, and I tell them that I'd probably take it if I weren't married today. However, on this sub I just keep that advice to myself and operate on the assumption that each poster has passed the point of no return for getting into an LTR/marriage. Maybe I shouldn't be so quick to make that assumption and continue doling out the "don't do it" advice here, too.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/15 03:08 PM
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Seriously. I can't believe he's even entertaining the idea of staying with this pyschopath.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/15 02:50 PM
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Please don't waste keystrokes with the "Don't get married" stuff. You must be new to MRP. UPDATE: Just checked out your post history -- guess I just thought you'd realize by now MRP isn't about that. I'll echo SorcererKing's comment. Dread game. Don't ever be afraid to walk away. Remember you are the gatekeeper to commitment, and you reserve the right to retract it at any time. Prenup w/ non-legally binding written expectations. I don't understand the point of this. Is this just an agreement bet…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/15 02:46 PM
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I called my wife when I got home. (All of you just shook your heads and called me a fool, I know!) She knew I was going to the party and she knew I had a lot to drink. She knows I socialize with this group. I didn't tell her these details when she asked about the party. I know this all crossed some line that isn't supposed to be crossed in marriage. All I said was "CG followed me around like a puppy and I'm going need a stick to beat her away." No further discussion about the party or other wome…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/15 02:44 PM
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I was given an ultimatum this morning via text that said seek counseling by friday or seek divorce. She gave you this ultimatum? Shit, man. Lawyer up.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/15 02:39 AM
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Physical violence is never acceptable. I'll tell you the same thing I told my brother when his psycho girlfriend starting throwing chairs at him and using her kids as a weapon against him -- get out of there, man. Lawyer up immediately.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/15 12:54 PM
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It's quite possible; I don't think she's ever met a man like me. Just to be clear, I never flirt with Jamie. My wife is a 7 or an 8 and Jamie is a 4 or 5. Flirting with her would definitely lower my SMV in my wife's eyes, for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/15 02:59 PM
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To be honest, I'm not entirely sure. My focus was elsewhere and I didn't pay him much attention even though he was sitting right next to me. I was a man on a mission, haha. He did surreptitiously tell her to calm down later, though. He's not a BP, but he's not RP, either. He definitely knows what's up with her, and I think he understands that she was just trying to start a fight. He probably remained neutral because 1. He knew I was in the right and 2. He had to go home with her, heh heh.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/15 09:06 PM
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like Chicken Soup Just without all the feelz. ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/15 09:04 PM
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We just had a thread that Shit Tests are nothing but female foreplay so..... I don't necessarily agree with that analysis but it certainly sheds new light on your story. Heh heh, I considered the same thing. Maybe she wants me and can't explain it. I'm leaning more toward the possibility that she's just a drama junkie, though. Good thing I have my crab-stepping boots on. Complete with steel toes.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/15 09:03 PM
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"don't worry you will find someone special" I have also seen those same mothers have a lapse and tell their sons "well at least x has a girlfriend" or "why don't you get a girlfriend". They are keenly aware I completely agree with you -- the problem does remain, however, that mothers have no idea how detrimental the "you're a nice guy, you'll find somebody special" strategy is to the "getting married" goal. OP wants women to reconcile this problem, but I don't think mothers will ever be able to.…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 09:01 PM
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I don't think women give a shit about their sons' dating prospects. They're always on team woman even at the expense of their sons. Just like other women, they'll say, "Be yourself, you're a great guy, you'll find somebody someday." Hell, my mom said it to me. At some point I ditched her advice (and the rest of mainstream society's), swallowed the painful red pill, and changed my strategy. It disappointed my mom, but it got me laid. You're expecting mothers to experience cognitive dissonance whe…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 04:12 PM
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I was going to post the exact same thing. Not many people would pull their buddy aside to give them a heads up. Everybody's all passive aggressive these days.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 12:44 PM
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she has always been pretty RP without knowing it. I know when I disappoint her (subconsciously), and her being hung out to dry for 8 hours a day in an all-female work environment, getting bitched around by dry old grouchy bitches who are their own worst enemies. And I'm not there to tell them to get the fuck out of her face (which is a role I accept when I'm around to do so). Call me old-fashioned but a woman will always resent when you're not there to do you job and protect her from feminists a…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/15 03:14 PM
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I guess I deserve some ridicule. But only constructive ridicule. You can find that here, but not at BP. You posted in the right place. EDIT: I'd like to know what's up with the downvotes. Come at me, bro. hahaha.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/15 03:02 PM
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Fitting, although not in the way the BP community thinks. If anything, BPers should take this as a warning that acting BP causes problems. But those hamsters on their upper header will take over any rational thought they may have otherwise conjured.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/15 02:21 PM
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She kept asking me what's wrong and I said nothing figuring she would know. Bad move. Women aren't mind readers. If you don't like something, then say something and act on it. Passive aggressive behavior like this is something women and betas do, and it's another form of covert contracts. Did you apologize to your wife? You should, but only once. Don't plead or beg for her forgiveness. Give her the apology without the expectation of forgiveness so you can maintain outcome independence.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/15 02:19 PM
3

Whenever somebody tries to tell me that BS line of "Happy wife, happy life", I respond with, "Happy king, happy kingdom."
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/15 01:56 PM
1

It was applying myself fully that gave me the leverage to succeed with the ultimatum. This may be one of my problems. I do need to improve myself, and not just physically. I don't think an ultimatum is necessary (at least not yet), but I'll keep it in mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/15 03:47 PM
1

Thanks for the pointers. Interestingly enough, I've asked her for sexy pics nearly every day for the last two weeks and she's been very receptive -- going out of her way at work and making an effort to mix it up each time. I may not fully understand responsive desire, but from what you've said it sounds like this is on the right track, no? I'll continue to follow your 5-step plan.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/15 03:46 PM
2

Thanks, this is a great line of questioning. First thought, is there a medical/structural thing that's preventing #1 ? Not that I know of, but I suppose it's possible (I'm leaning more toward your sneaky sixth thought, but let's hold the jury out on that one until you hear the rest of my answers). Second thought, how sure are you about your assessments of #2 and #3 ? Importantly, do you think you are ahead here or just level ? I'm 75% sure. I very much doubt that my SMV is lower than hers, but i…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/15 07:34 PM
2

What does it mean if #2 and #3 are true, but not #1...?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/15 05:58 PM
3

That thread exemplifies all the reasons I've stopped visiting TRP regularly and stick to MRP. More and more, TRP is becoming a place for puffing chests and trying to prove who's more alpha. When people in MRP call me a pussy, it's because they're trying to get through to me and make a point, not because they think they're better. Real advice and real solutions are offered here without all the bravado circlejerking that is running rampant in TRP. That being said, thanks for everything, MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/15 02:12 PM
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This particular quote is absolute gold: She is in saving the marriage mode, and is doing and saying all the right things. I am in the mind frame that my marriage ended a few months ago, and I'm trying to decide whether or not i want to date my wife. The question is. If i was meeting my wife for the first time right now, knowing her past, would i consider her relationship material? I guess the jury is still out on that one. Nothing induces dread more than when you're treating the marriage as thou…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 01:13 PM
1

I don't necessarily see everything in the context of a binary "Alpha" or "Beta", but I definitely see things through a Red Pill lens now. For example, two years ago I would have seen my father-in-law as just a nice guy trying to provide for his family. Now I see a well-meaning but whipped and beaten down man who defers to the matriarch of the family. Two years ago, I would have reconsidered my approach to my marriage if my parents-in-law questioned me, but thanks to the lens I've strapped over m…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/15 02:24 PM
1

My wife did something like this, too. After a month or so of dating, she revealed that she had slept with another guy a week before we started dating. She didn't outright lie about it, but she made it sound like she hadn't slept with anybody for a while. And to top it off, she was still going to a martial arts class where this guy attended on a weekly basis. At first I was enraged, but I forced myself to calm down. I told her that it was fine, but hanging out with him or any other interaction ou…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/15 11:49 PM
3

I've physically let myself go lately. I'm still going to the gym, but not as often or with as much intensity as in the past. In January (during the New Years resolutionist rush) I switched to mornings when the gym wasn't so crowded. I've also been drinking a lot. Hard liquor on the weekends and beer during the week. As of this week I've switched to afternoons and made it to the gym each day, and I've moved to a more intense workout routine. I've also cut beer out for the past two days and have a…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/15 02:47 PM
1

Admittedly, this isn't very helpful, but sometimes you just can't. They're too deep into their own victim complexes. I had a buddy who wasn't even married, but had the worst traits of BP all while being a complete asshole. Eventually our friendship ended because he was such a pussy and none of my attempts to guide him had any effect, and I couldn't stand constantly dealing with his butthurt feelings. Ultimately, I think you have to talk to them like you do women. Understand that they don't under…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/15 01:51 AM
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You're welcome. And I forgot to add -- my sincere condolences on the loss of your father. You're a frickin' trooper, man.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/15 01:36 AM
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I don't see any huge red flags on your end. You seem to be riding this storm very well. You're not giving in to her demands, you're not engaging her in arguments, and you're not supplicating her emotions. You gave her one chance to speak like an adult when you offered to listen and when she couldn't, you responded effectively -- as though she were not an adult, and therefore not worth your time. And right now, she isn't. You also didn't disrupt your own plans for her, you continued to the gym wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/15 01:19 AM
1

I think flirting is A-OK, too, but via text seems a little off. For one thing, it's too easy for the wife to get an actual record of what you said and point out the flirtatious comments. In a conversation, you can muster plausible deniability through the whole thing (and hopefully win some dread/preselection points).
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/15 01:10 AM
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You crossed a line in what makes a Red Pill marriage. Flirting via text is escalation and isolation, a path to sex. Good for RP strategy, but only with your wife. Harmless flirting in the open is just that -- harmless -- and can be excellent to induce a little dread and/or preselection if your wife is around. If she's not around, there's no point, and it does nothing to help your marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/15 01:07 AM
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I went on the offensive and brought up previous times men have flirted with her. I think this was a mistake. You don't fight women's emotions with logic. This was a comfort test, and I definitely think you failed. I would have followed with a light, funny jab about her jealousy, but then a follow-up with a more serious note about her own participation in flirting and a suggestion that you might stop texting female coworkers, but that you weren't going to neuter yourself at work, as you put it. L…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/15 01:38 PM
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Flirting in the office is one thing -- a pithy comment here, a neg to an attractive woman there -- but surreptitiously sending texts to a female coworker? I have to agree with BluepillProfessor on this one. Crossed a line.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/15 01:31 PM
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I had some guy friends over last Friday while my wife was out of town with some girlfriends, and one of my buddies commented, "We have to send our women away just to enjoy ourselves." In front of all of them I replied, "If you haven't kept your woman in line enough that you enjoy her presence, then you're doing something wrong." One quite vocally agreed. A few others nodded. Some laughed like it was a joke. A few remained silent. I can jump into a cathartic bitch session just as easily as the ne…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/15 01:26 PM
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I'm lucky enough (and now, thanks to RP, good enough) to have a wife worth my time, so I'd say yes, I would make the same choice to marry her. If you had asked me a year ago, though, before I really started working on my own attitude, I would have told you no.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 02:55 PM
2

Swallowing the red pill does not give you permission to run from your problems; it gives you the tools to expose them and systematically fix them. I have to agree with the majority of the sentiment in this thread: YOU messed up, so cutting and running is NOT an alpha trait. She still wants to work on the marriage and apparently loves you. Don't just throw it away because you're embarrassed by your behavior. FIX your behavior. If you won't or can't, then your wife deserves somebody better and lea…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/15 12:41 PM
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A while ago I replaced my wife’s incense with a sparkler when she wasn’t looking. It looked like the fourth of July for a few minutes, it was fucking awesome. Awesome. I can just imagine her initial reaction, screaming with arms flailing wildly in the air, like how my mom reacts when I throw fake spiders at her. I think we as men tend to forget that life is awesome and we should be enjoying as much of it as we can. Yes, there's work involved, but if you're not feeling accomplished or fulfilled b…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/15 01:32 PM
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I've made it a point to disengage from her and minimize my interactions with her. It's helped, but I'm aware that if she were to taunt me like that again it'll get to me. I could probably start my not letting it get to me whenever I think about it, and just dismiss it in my head, too. Thankfully her presence hasn't had a negative influence on my wife. In fact, my wife walks away whenever her friend starts saying stuff like this. It appears my wife has better frame than I do in this particular ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/15 01:19 PM
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My wife has a feminist friend who routinely says dumb shit like "I'm in full patriarchy-smashing mode today!" This always infuriates me and I lose my cool. I need to work on that. Last time she said it (ironically on my birthday, why she was present on my birthday I still don't know), I started out with excellent frame. I responded with, "Oh, too bad, I'm in full patriarchy mode today." She replied: "Well, of course, you're a white male." Really, really pissed me off. I kept my mouth shut, walke…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/15 04:47 AM
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If they're not, they can't really give any feedback to disrupt the circlejerk now, can they?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 03:19 AM
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It's not "courage" to get in front of a bunch of people who openly agree with your stance and tell them about your stance. It's just a circlejerk.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 02:59 AM
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Hahaha, I wonder that sometimes, too. As soon as I started doing my own thing, she started following me around saying, "Whatcha doin'?" with a playful tone that indicated a sudden interest in sex. And it does seem to happen only when I direct my attention away from her...
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 12:11 AM
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Thanks. Your responses in my initial post were a huge help and guided me toward that mindset.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 11:46 PM
2

but it's easy to forget and start rewarding her for denying sex. Oh yes. It's been a long road to train myself to not reward her for denying sex. MMSL 101!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 11:46 PM
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Importantly, you can't leave butthurt because that will backfire. You should leave because you have better places to go than to spend time with a sex denying wife. Exactly -- this is the change I made that turned everything around. She knew I had been meaning to get the kitchen cabinets done, so it was the perfect reason.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 11:44 PM
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I would wager that if a man has to ask what qualities women find attractive, then he doesn't have them.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 07:25 PM
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This is still unreadable, buddy, and not because of the presentation, but because you are far too bogged down in details. It reads like something a 14 year old girl would write, and could have been condensed into 10 sentences. But I think I got the jist of your situation, and the solution is simple. Cut contact with her and move on. You're already aware that you have oneitis, now do what needs to be done to excise it. Excise her from your life.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 07:35 PM
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Yep, you're right -- no texts and be indifferent when she gets home. Greet her, of course, but don't go out of your way about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/15 07:08 PM
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Doesn't matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/15 11:04 PM
5

This is unreadable. Come back when you've used paragraphs and punctuation.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 10:54 PM
2

when I try to shut down what I see as a shit test and then she keeps digging and digging to try to get me to explain it that I eventually lose my cool. It's a series of shit tests and in her mind if you fail one, you fail them all. I'll echo the other sentiment here (especially /u/strategos_autokrator ) -- do not engage her hamster. Do not allow these shit tests to pile up. Maintain frame and leave the house.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/15 10:51 PM
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is visibly nervous at the idea that even asking will probably piss me off Does she have good reason to feel this way? Think about your own behavior here -- if you've gotten pissed off in the past, then she's being reasonable. You need to swat away these shit tests nonchalantly, with a quick wave of your hand instead of a sledgehammer. She also has decided that I'm too sexually aggressive How do you behave when she turns you down? Do you go about your business, or do you get disappointed/upset? I…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/15 03:45 PM
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My poor dear wife sometimes thinks she's a feminist and has, in the past, complimented feminism. Tell you what, though, if she read this sub she would likely agree with 90% of its content. I wonder if your wife is the same way. Feminism and cultural Marxism in general is very good at getting others to believe they're a part of some movement even when they're really not, i.e. "Feminism is about equality! Aren't you for equality?" In the end, you deal with a feminist like you would any other woman…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/15 10:57 PM
4

Just downloaded the Clue Period Tracker on my Android -- excellent little app. Thanks for recommending.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/15 11:57 PM
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What an excellent post, thank you very much for sharing. I intend to use this information to its fullest capabilities to improve my relationship with my wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/15 11:57 PM
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I like the idea of giving her some cash to go buy something sexy. I think I'm going to adopt that plan. Other than that, my plan so far has been to spend as little as possible on the blatant V-Day consumerism. No cards, no candies, nothing produced specifically for V-Day. I'll buy her favorite wine and put together a little picnic, then drive her to the top of my company's new parking garage and sit in the back of our SUV to have our "picnic" and check out the view (we live near the mountains). …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/15 08:37 PM
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Thanks, I'll add that to my reading list.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/15 11:35 PM
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Trying to own my shit. ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 09:36 PM
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I'm currently reading Married Man Sex Life, and it's opening my eyes to a whole world of marriage that I should be experiencing and am not. Part of it is my fault -- I need to work on both some alpha and some beta qualities -- but some of it is also my wife's total lack of response. I do want to get better at some things for myself, if only to make myself a more well-rounded individual and self-sufficient. I hope they make a difference in my marriage, but I'm not holding my breath. Thanks for yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 09:36 PM
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Of course, I agree. I'm focusing on my own problems and trying to fix those, and I hope it filters into my marriage. I know that it's not a guarantee.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 06:59 PM
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I'm not going to "Next" her quite so easily. As I said, some of these problems are my own fault and I need to fix them before making any moves. I've been dropping some dread of late and intensified it verbally quite a bit yesterday. We'll see how it plays out. She genuinely does bring joy and happiness into my life, and she has a lot of qualities many other women don't (for example, she's not bat-shit crazy). I'm not going to let that go so easily. A case of one-itis? Perhaps. It's a curse of be…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 06:40 PM
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Lead by example. This guy will soon see his family fall apart despite the constant praying and seeking his own feelings, but will see your family strengthen and wonder what's different. Don't ignore him at church, just maintain frame. I have a good friend who is Mormon and wants to change his lifestyle. He came to me asking for help and mentioned that he likes the way my marriage operates. I gave him some advice (number one, start going to the gym), but he let his wife collapse all his plans. I …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 04:35 PM
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My wife has given up on making me happy, and in turn I have started to give up on making her happy. I could say it's her fault, but I'm aware of the part I've played. I haven't made my expectations clear, and I haven't worked to improve myself other than increasing my 1RM on the big three lifts at the gym. Steps I can take: Be a better handyman around the house, lay my expectations out clearly, be more spontaneous. All of these are difficult for me because my wife seems to respond to absolutely …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 04:09 PM
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I can't speak for OP, but based on what he wrote I seriously doubt he intended anything you just suggested. It's the systematic weakening of a powerful military that he's pointing out, which you don't seem to understand (or accept) does indeed correlate with the introduction of more women into the military.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 07:31 PM
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You seem to believe that 3 women passing will be enough to persuade SJWs that nothing needs to change.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 06:52 PM
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Thanks, brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 04:30 PM
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You went from 2 times a month to nearly once a day? I get the same reasons -- sore, tired, or simply not turned on. Until now I've accepted these as reasonable, but upon hearing this I'm not so sure. My wife likes sex, but only when she's turned on (once a week on Sundays when she's had time to relax). Red Pill has worked well in all aspects of my life except -- obviously -- my sex life. Suggestions on what I can read or start doing to turn this around?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/15 05:47 PM
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You are just processing your feelings the way any normal man would do That's both a relief and a frustration, and I'm sure you completely understand why.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/15 01:39 PM
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You cannot get mad at her for her feelings. You can correct her actions. You might be able to help her analyze. You're absolutely right, and I'll admit that her feelings are a big part of what I'm angry about. Her actions pissed me off, too, but they sprung from her feelings. I may be able to bring it up sometime in the future if she ever asks (I know better than to think she will), but for now I may have missed the boat to help her analyze the situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/15 01:34 PM
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Act disappointed in her the way you would act when disappointed by a teenage girl. Let it fade away on its own. She knows she let you down. It seems that being disappointed in her and withholding affection for a few days was a decent punishment (for lack of a better term -- perhaps "consequence" is better). You're right, she knows something is up and she's doing what all girls do -- playing dumb to try to avoid confronting it. Since I missed my opportunity to address it, I'll ignore the e-mail a…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/15 01:32 PM
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Timing is important for this because it avoids having to open up a discussion on the topic and giving her time to fire up the hamster. Addressing it immediately after avoids all that, shortens the conversation a great deal (since you do not have to set the situation back up again), and completely catches her off guard with with the hamster sleeping. Good point. I missed my one chance to slay the hamster beast. If I bring the topic back up, the beast will be ready for me. My wife's hamster is the…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/15 01:28 PM
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If you get all whiny and act like she is BETRAYING you then she will be turned off by the pussy faggot that you sound like. Hahaha, thanks, I needed to hear this.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/15 01:14 AM
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Grudge one is with her behaviour over the weekend. Grudge two is a general weltschmertz triggered by the first. This is a perfect verbalization of what I'm feeling and your "inappropriate flirting" example is quite astute. Your suggestions based on these two "grudges" is incredibly helpful. I'll need to sort out which of them is my own problem and which is hers, and then tackle each with the appropriate response. Also, kudos the use of the word weltschmertz.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/15 11:22 PM
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I haven't tried meditation, but I'll consider it. I'm usually calm and collected when her storm is whipping against my bulwark. Luckily, my wife is much more calm than most women -- it's rare that she has any outbursts. Of course, this means communication can be difficult, too.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/15 11:14 PM
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A fantastic, challenging question. I feel like Option 3 tends toward the "covert contract" problem, which is why I was leaning away from it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/15 10:36 PM
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A veritable smorgasbord of meaty, delicious information. Thanks for sharing -- I'm plunging in immediately.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/15 09:59 PM
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Thanks. I've never tried -- or even considered -- this approach. I have some work to do if I want to fully expunge my aura of all butthurted-ness!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/15 09:58 PM
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The amount of time required to internalize and accept the way things are is shorter than it used to be. I refuse to let myself drop into severe depression (been there before, don't want to be again) by doing some of the things you've suggested. When I say I hope it sticks, I mean that I hope my work pays off and I fully accept it all the time, and never slip back into leaning on somebody else for my own happiness. Even if that never happens, I'll continue to work toward it. +1 for the judo metap…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/15 03:24 PM
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Seconded. I have a close guy friend I talk to on the phone every morning about literally everything. We have a very strict rule that everything we talk about is "airtight", meaning we never tell anybody else about our conversations and everything is spoken in confidence. It's a huge help -- allows you to vent, purge whatever you need to purge, and move on with your day.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/15 12:38 PM
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It is a tough pill to swallow because it puts the burden of our happiness completely on ourselves. Absolutely. Right now I just want to sit around, drink whiskey, skip the gym, and wallow in depression. If it weren't for past experience combined with Red Pill, I'd be doing just that. Instead, I'm pushing myself to the gym in the morning and hanging out with friends in the evenings. I do know my weakness, though... I will internalize it, accept it, and then later when everything seems good I'll f…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/15 12:36 PM
2

True red pill is knowing that leaving is always an option. I felt that for the first time this past weekend. Her behavior disgusted me so much over the weekend that if we weren't married I would be seriously thinking about breaking up with her. She didn't do anything "wrong", but she failed to be a good wife. Just thinking about my options has been somewhat liberating.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/15 12:33 PM
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I'm currently suffering a weakness in which I feel emotionally depressed/drained when I once again realize my wife will never love me the way I need or want her to, and that in all actuality I don't need her. It's a tough pill to swallow again.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/15 12:06 AM
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A similar thing happened to me in college when I was starting to "awaken". I wasn't aware of Red Pill theories (or even its existence) but I was starting to realize just how much I'd been taken advantage of by women. I went on a date with a girl I met on craigslist and we had a pretty good time. Didn't have sex, but made out on the first date. Planned on a second, but she never responded. I felt indifferent (for the first time in my life -- it was liberating). She and I later realized we both ha…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 06:32 PM
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"But the girls at the gym are starting to look at him dfferently and it makes him feel good." I'm not suggesting you should reply with that, it was just the first thing that popped into my head. It would really drive her hamster into overdrive (and would be good for a laugh, too). But I agree with the others in this thread who are suggesting you ignore it. Her hamster concerns aren't worth your time, and ignoring her will show your buddy that they shouldn't be his, either.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/15 06:06 PM
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By entering into conversation with Red Pill or any of its subsidiaries, you agree to accept underlying principles of Red Pill theory and its most basic axioms. Failure to follow these terms (i.e. suggesting that dread -- a basic Red Pill axiom -- is "emotional abuse") will be considered a breach of contract and could lead to reprimand, temporary ban, or a permanent ban as determined by the discretion of the current moderator on duty.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/15 07:10 PM
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The next response down uncovered some Red Pill truth without realizing it: Makes you wonder if most of the "dead bedrooms" is really about this, her just not being attracted to her husband, as she has had "better", and not so much of the typical excuses of "I'm just tired". Riding the cock carousel leads to excuses to avoid having sex with betas.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 10:07 PM
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I'll go even further and say that her sudden interest in sex with you was probably her worrying about being pregnant from the other guy. I second this. It's not the first time we've heard of this happening. It points to unprotected sex and an attempted cuckolding.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/15 08:53 PM
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Then she breaks down and says it was only oral sex. Sorry man, but this is an outright lie. She fucked him. You know it, I know it, everybody reading this post knows it. What do you do about it? Nothing. You have bigger problems -- namely, that you are not invested in yourself. Go to the gym. Pick up some new hobbies. Have more "guy time" with you and your buddies. Don't have buddies? Find some. Make time for YOU, focus on YOU, and go on a journey that improves YOU. It doesn't matter if she join…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/15 03:21 PM
2

Somebody hasn't heard of Chateau Heartiste. Read more sidebar material.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 07:40 PM
2

Based on some of your posts, I'm beginning to think YOU wrote the blog post in question.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 03:30 PM
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you are violating her right Oh good God. If you believe writing on an Internet forum somehow violates somebody's rights, then I have a bridge to sell you.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 03:28 PM
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Then you throw in that asshole professor who gives hours of homework, your loser roommate who never pays rent on time, deciding between not eating & getting drunk or getting drunk & still ordering Domino’s even though you over-drafted your account, you already have so much shit to worry about in your own life that you really don’t need someone else involved. She's incapable of keeping her own life structured. If she had a man who she trusted and looked up to, she wouldn't have to worry so much a…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 03:21 PM
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And what do you think about his assessment?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/14 01:10 AM
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I've found that "undateable" or "unmarriable" can pack quite a wallop.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 02:17 PM
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I have to second this. Your wife has shown complete, utter disrespect for you and then rationalized all of her bad behavior. You do not deserve any of this. Threaten the divorce -- but your threat cannot be empty. Prepare for divorce. If she returns, prepare for a continuation of her bad behavior, and retain divorce as an option.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/14 12:15 AM
1

Can you tell us more about your experience with couple's therapy? It was mentioned in the title, but no details were given in the subsequent discussion. I'd like to hear more.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 04:08 PM
1

Captain Picard of Star Trek: The Next Generation.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/14 03:58 PM
1

Awesome -- thanks for clarifying!
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 05:05 PM
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...closed the distance between us, stood side on and held a palm side on to him. Can you describe this a bit more clearly? I can't quite picture it, and I'm curious what your stance was.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 07:09 PM
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I suffered a severe bout of depression, complete with suicidal tendencies and self-abuse several years ago. My family has a history of clinical depression. I used meds for only about a month, which gave me the small boost I needed to crawl out of the hole I was in. After that, I stopped the meds and followed a routine similar to Hinsbock's. It didn't hurt that I completely swallowed the Red Pill (without yet knowing it even existed). In short, don't completely discount meds, but also don't compl…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 06:05 PM
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For the record, I am 100% for equality and... For the record, you don't ever need to justify yourself like this on this forum. The disclaimer is already implied and utterly unnecessary. Nobody here will be offended by your words, and if they are, they'll be (justly) down-voted.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 03:32 PM
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I don't think it's prudent to invite feminists here. This is a men's space, and while it doesn't mean women aren't allowed, it does mean that we shouldn't invite those who are making active efforts to destroy us.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 01:22 PM
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I've told my wife lots of these kinds of jokes: Q: Why did the woman cross the road? A: Who cares, why is she out of the kitchen? Q: Why don't women need driver's licenses? A: Because there's no streets between the kitchen and the bedroom. Q: What do you say to a woman with two black eyes? A: Nothing, you already told her twice. Q: What does it mean if your wife is in the living room nagging at you? A: The chain is too long. Q: Why is it called PMS? A: Because "Mad Cow Disease" was already taken…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/14 01:18 AM
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I think you mostly played it right. You didn't reward her for any of her bad behavior, but you did give her an explanation ("I didn't wrong you" etc.). Instead of that, tease her: Wife: "No sorry?" You (teasing): "Awww, was it tough to clean it? Did you hurt yourself? Do you need a band-aid?" Grab her hands, look at them closely as if inspecting for wounds or something. She'll get a kick out of it and you'll pass the test. Now she's just trying to punish you, so yeah, go hang out with your buddy…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/14 01:06 AM
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I also concur. I'm in an incredibly similar situation (I was thinking about posting on this very topic today, in fact). But I've stopped whacking it during the week and "saving" it, so to speak, and the sex has been much better for both of us.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/14 11:16 PM
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I was with a hot girl and kind of, cheated on her, in a way? I kissed a girl and then had sex with someone else when I was out of the country. You didn't think these details were relevant? If you were in an explicitly understood monogamous relationship, you cheated. Simple as that. I think I'm beginning to see your problem -- you believe you're above the consequences of your actions, and now that you're suffering the consequences you're saying things like: It's unimportant. What's in the past is…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 04:47 PM
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Even if she does, just say you're meeting a coworker.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 11:20 PM
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Great response -- that's what I was hoping to hear!
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 10:58 PM
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I'm curious to hear what your response, if you gave one, was.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 06:33 PM
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If your happiness comes from giving love, you are still the source of your happiness. I think this is a distinction many feminists miss, and they jettison love as a form of patriarchal dependency. Couldn't have said it better myself. Women think they are hopeless romantics but are so far removed from the very definition of love that they blame their inability to understand it on men/patriarchy. Excellent point.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 10:02 PM
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I'm not equating them, I'm merely pointing out a common theme throughout their narrative.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 07:37 PM
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Same here -- I casually breezed through the remainder of the "article" searching for keywords and phrases. Even then, there was very little understanding of good grammar or word flow. Now I understand what it takes to be a writer these days... just spew whatever the current propaganda machine is looking for. Syntax be damned.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:37 PM
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Holy shit, she wants to punish this man (presumably jail time) based solely on allegations. She has no concept of "innocent until proven guilty", a core tenet of which the entire Western justice system is founded. Such rejection of presumed innocence, apparently, is one of the building blocks of feminism (i.e. California college campuses).
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:32 PM
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One of the worst comments was written by Laura, a self-proclaimed feminist: The thing I find most disturbing in these comments is the implicit notion of ownership. Judging from what a lot of these guys have written, a Western female (and maybe any female) is measured in terms of her attractiveness, subservience and datability---in short, "what good are you to me?" Extreme double standard. Although she hasn't said it -- yet -- the implication is that she can measure men in terms of attractiveness…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:00 PM
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I have a very similar relationship to my parents as OP does. We riff on each other constantly and it's all done in love and jest. My mother is very far from being a feminist -- in fact, she believes that a man should be the head of the household and defers to my father in all important decisions (Captain/First-Mate style) -- but she also says similar things like "Be nice to those girls". OP's use of humor and frame was perfect, I think, and I don't see either his mother or step-father as abusive…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 04:05 PM
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Full disclosure: I was NOT good in bed the first few times. I suppose it depends on your definition of "good" -- and regardless of what you decide, I still wasn't, hahaha.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 03:37 AM
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Well, I agree with what you are saying. I just think the primary aspect of frame is emotional state and the perception of that state. If you truly believe that, why are you posting in this forum for help? Somewhere deep down you must understand it's simply not the case, else you wouldn't be here. Your insistence to argue the definition of "frame" is a clear example of the problem you're aware of and came here to cure. Go back and re-read this particular thread knowing that you're having trouble …
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 01:28 AM
1

Humility cost me a promotion this last week. Now I'm humble AND embarrassed.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 08:40 PM
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I have to disagree. If it weren't for my brother -- a "Red Pill Ninja" -- pointing this forum out to me, I wouldn't know it even exists. And how can we expect anything to ever change if we keep it to ourselves at all times? Red Pills should be given when appropriate. Be the Morpheus to a Neo out there, but remember that not everybody is a Neo.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 07:16 PM
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Sorry, if a hotter, older cousin had offered to blow me at 14, that would not have been "damaging." It would have been fucking awesome. 14 year old boys do not react the same way to women propositioning them as 14 year old girls do no matter how you rationalize it. It's incredible how quickly and easily "gender equality" is dissolved when the roles are reversed. Women can do anything a man can but men can't feel everything a woman can? The hypocrisy is astounding.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 11:02 PM
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Many more of his advertisements would show women practicing hypergamy. For example, a magazine spread that showed a woman between two men wearing suits staring at her and obviously deciding which one to take home with a smirk on her face. Also, he'd be filthy rich within a few weeks.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 08:21 PM
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I'm a married man and have found lots of value in TRP. The tools presented by TRP are very effective. In the wrong hands, they're a hammer. But in the right hands, they're precision scroll saws. Take some time away from the "scene" and re-evaluate not what's in your toolkit but how you're using those tools.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 02:54 AM
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