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| – | NO, "average" men are NOT having sex "all the time"lockdowns started in 2020, the report where sexlesness jumped 10% for men but only 4% for women was done between 2016-2018. How is this possible at a otherwise roughly 50/50 gender ratio? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 12:52 PM |
| 1 | If recording random men and putting them on the internet to be ridiculed is ok, how do you feel about creepshots?lol Jim Crow, long after the federal goverment banned outright systemic discrimination, lived in the attitudes and unofficial social rules that pertained the south: one of them was the rule that a black guy should never look at a white woman in the eyes or that he should cross the street if he saw a white woman coming to avoid 'discomforting' her. This is just expected for ugly males these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 09:56 AM |
| 1 | If recording random men and putting them on the internet to be ridiculed is ok, how do you feel about creepshots?im sorry, but in practice this is a double standard, no one really asks for consent when they’re looking, glancing, checking out a stranger — this is a precedent and it didn’t (at least up until now) pass under definition of sexual harassment which required repeated propositions. what youre asking is that in practice we have a sort of separate standard if we get checked out by someone we find appealing its wanted and you’re flattered—, if not —Creepy harasser, basically a Jim Crow lite for a rig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 03:03 PM |
| 16 | Most advice targeted at men here is to make them wait until they are too old to do anythingits women here who will make you simultaneously believe the wall at 30 is a misogynistic myth( it really is tho), yet somehow men over 30 are easily discernible because look they look distinctly crusty and old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 11:31 AM |
| 21 | Most advice targeted at men here is to make them wait until they are too old to do anythingmale sexless on the rise and the explanation we get is that they’re not good enough for women anymore, that women are independent, make bank, don’t have to settle for average schmucks like they did in the past. This is not some obscure theory in the dark corners of the net, its what psychologists and other “experts” are saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 05:02 PM |
| – | Man gets caught looking at a woman in public, gets his face posted on TikTok with thousands now labeling him a "creep"https://www.tiktok.com/@chloemmaarsh/video/7308686819606973728 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 12:35 PM |
| 3 | Man gets caught looking at a woman in public, gets his face posted on TikTok with thousands now labeling him a "creep"you relied on your argument having popular support, nothing else, which just shows you adherence to current, present-day attitudes. Contextually this is another "moral panic" brewing where a bothersome "Other" gets replaced with another more socially acceptable scapegoat every 30 years: "blacks out there raping our women" "homos out there grooming our kids" "old dudes perving on women" "othering" is what you're essentially doing, and it is based on race, sex, sexuality, disabilities, now even lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 11:57 PM |
| 10 | Man gets caught looking at a woman in public, gets his face posted on TikTok with thousands now labeling him a "creep"i like how not even a week ago this sub was calling men “paranoid” for saying that even approaching a woman can backfire because she can just pull out her phone and post your face online calling you a creep. users here insisted this was not a realistic fear but rather a “incel fantasy”. Today Im reading justifications for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 11:28 PM |
| 3 | Man gets caught looking at a woman in public, gets his face posted on TikTok with thousands now labeling him a "creep"70 years ago women would agree that Emmet Till had it coming… argumentum ad populum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 11:08 PM |
| – | Man gets caught looking at a woman in public, gets his face posted on TikTok with thousands now labeling him a "creep"your paranoia is a side product of your narcissism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Man gets caught looking at a woman in public, gets his face posted on TikTok with thousands now labeling him a "creep"If she says “no” you walk away and leave her alone. You don’t follow her and stare at her. "this creepo approached me but fled just before I started recording him" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 04:16 PM |
| -12 | Man gets caught looking at a woman in public, gets his face posted on TikTok with thousands now labeling him a "creep"most of us aren't gay and if the feeling of gay men glancing at straight guys is comparable in this case are women "Chadsexual"? Beside the point: if it were a older gay dude looking at me because he thought I was cute and attractive I would be less threatened than if some guys were eyeballing me like they want to start a fight or rob me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 04:12 PM |
| 12 | Man gets caught looking at a woman in public, gets his face posted on TikTok with thousands now labeling him a "creep"secretly sexualizing someone in public is inherently creepy. If you're attractive you aren't doing it in a creepy, secret way. You're showing your intentions expecting a response *approaches woman and asks her out* "wow thats so weird I mean I even don't know you and to think about you just approached me because you find me attractive is so objectifying" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 04:09 PM |
| 0 | Man gets caught looking at a woman in public, gets his face posted on TikTok with thousands now labeling him a "creep"next week “this creepo said hello to me on the subway” PDD spinsters “If you fail to see why saying hello to a woman just going about her day is weird makes you the creep” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 03:38 PM |
| 6 | Man gets caught looking at a woman in public, gets his face posted on TikTok with thousands now labeling him a "creep"“just don’t do it like a creep” people underestimate how subjective and subject to the halo effect their perception is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Light "creepy behavior" can be flirtatious and playful if she personally finds you attractiveno different than the discomfort heterosexual men would feel about openly gay men making advances at them. TIL: straight women don't see unattractive men as real men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 12:19 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwaveslol no. “woke” are prime example of this schizoid attitude they are simultaneously “her body her choice, bigot!” yet are wish to remote manage adult women’s decisions when it doesn’t suit them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 11:07 PM |
| 10 | A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwavesreducing women to their sexuality women reduce themselves to that "when he's a walking red flag but he's TALL😍😍" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Light "creepy behavior" can be flirtatious and playful if she personally finds you attractiveI hardly know her, when I said this it was barely a week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 09:07 PM |
| 9 | Light "creepy behavior" can be flirtatious and playful if she personally finds you attractivethat is why you shouldn’t listen to 3rd party outside observers judging whats “cringe” or not , especially when they’re terminally online women. Who knows maybe your mom and dad’s cute “how we met” story could have major creeper vibes to someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 04:02 PM |
| 8 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsi went to a humanities college, most of the students there were women the men were a minority and many pf them still couldn’t get a girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 06:23 PM |
| 5 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsif guys actually go out to meet women for romance these same people will say “stop viewing women as potential relationship targets” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 05:01 PM |
| – | [Science] Age gap marriages are not uncommon among recently married.dude, 18 being a adult is the general consensus accepted across the vast majority of social groups, not some obscene tunblrina re-definitions of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 07:49 AM |
| 0 | [Science] Age gap marriages are not uncommon among recently married.you’ll get aids and your bumhole ripped is what my dad believed homosexual men were “gambling away” by being gay. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 07:38 PM |
| 2 | [Science] Age gap marriages are not uncommon among recently married.what you’re doing is pedo- baiting, a tactic that has been commonly used against gay men since the 1950s by all sorts of far right conservative ideologes: even in the 1990s homosexuality was explained as involving homosexuals preying on young people to recruit them till this day, even fucking DeSantis does this lol… funny how womens brains at 18 are considered mature enough to obtain a drivers license and operate a 4500pund deadly vehicle but not date older men. lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 07:13 PM |
| 3 | [Science] Age gap marriages are not uncommon among recently married.neither was homosexuality or interracial dating socially “acceptable” long after the federal government removed legal restrictions on it. but I thought progressives fought against prejudice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 06:51 PM |
| 6 | [Science] Age gap marriages are not uncommon among recently married.these are the same people who believe in the whole “her body her choice” . Don’t get me wrong I do to, but its hilarious progressives getting meltdowns when women choose older men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 06:37 PM |
| 8 | [Science] Age gap marriages are not uncommon among recently married.why do people have a “problem” with any relationships between consenting adults? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 06:32 PM |
| 3 | So should 20-25 year olds be trying to only date 35+ men?its already dropping since the 1970s young men these days have the sperm count of a 45 year old in 1970. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 06:26 PM |
| 3 | So should 20-25 year olds be trying to only date 35+ men?that is like over 45 not 30 year olds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 04:26 PM |
| 8 | It's almost impossible for a man to "use" a woman for sex unless she is mentally challenged or something.sorry to break it to you, but you are having sex with prostitutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 03:39 PM |
| 4 | Women have a tendency to victimize themselves by framing past relationships that didn't work out as involving "manipulation" or "abuse""believe ALL women" crowds have no problem doubting and challenging lived experiences of women they politically disagree with, they just call them "Karen's". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 11:04 PM |
| 11 | Women have a tendency to victimize themselves by framing past relationships that didn't work out as involving "manipulation" or "abuse""SO WHAT ARE YOU SAYING IS [INSERT INFORMAL FALLACY BAIT TO POISON THE WELL]" lmao typical reddit binary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 04:17 PM |
| – | The thing women don't understand is that there are millions of eligible women out there and a lot of guys can't get ONE (1) girlfriend.listen, I couldn't give a toss about a woman's "empathy" toward men on this topic. I just want them to stop "both siding" the issue every time it comes up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 02:17 PM |
| – | The thing women don't understand is that there are millions of eligible women out there and a lot of guys can't get ONE (1) girlfriend.self improvement is becoming a toxic advice. Unless you're a obese neckbeard that doesn't wash and stares at womens feet at a anime convention, its a distraction to keep you guessing what is wrong with you and that you're never good enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 02:13 PM |
| – | The thing women don't understand is that there are millions of eligible women out there and a lot of guys can't get ONE (1) girlfriend.women date 2-4 years older, this would mean the study would need more than half of its 20something female respondents to be at leats 27 years old. Are you seriously suggesting a serious study would have such a uneven age sample size and wouldn't let us know that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 02:09 PM |
| – | The thing women don't understand is that there are millions of eligible women out there and a lot of guys can't get ONE (1) girlfriend.Do you think women do not go through similar experiences and periods of time without romantic intimacy? factually No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 01:53 PM |
| – | Is it unfair that hinge has a height preference but doesn’t have a weight/body type preference?more than 60% of women have wider hips than waist only 14% of men are 6ft or higher. There is no comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 10:47 PM |
| 5 | Men should always assume a woman is not interested unless proven otherwiseif you didn’t have a pussy you making a pass at what would be a platonic friend would be seen as textbook nice guy move that usually leaves the female friend feeling betrayed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 10:32 PM |
| 3 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womansound and reasnoble, but essentially youre saying its all about her finding you physically attractive to begin with? no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:56 PM |
| 1 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womansee point 6. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:41 PM |
| 10 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womani find it funny because PDD women will mock incels for thinking in fatalistic “all women same” ways , but will regularly speak on behalf of all women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:26 PM |
| 15 | Men should always assume a woman is not interested unless proven otherwiseWomen make obvious moves on men they know and like. I have known no average looking guy whose girlfriend approached him first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 12:37 PM |
| 3 | Men are not more v*olent for not getting sex. Most v*olence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins menwomen want a guy who looks like he is capable of knocking someone out for them, it turns them on, sadly , like with most things the guy capable of roughing someone up for you comes with a price. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 03:47 PM |
| 6 | Approaching = always creepy? Depends on who says it.I actually did and “shooting your shot” is not a remnant of patriarchal customs but sexual revolution era slang which casualness ran against taboos around sex held by previous generations, “shootibg your shot” is boomer slang from the free love zeitgeist that has more to do with the casualness of sex where only mutual consent should count independent whether family, church, religion says the romantic encounter is moral or not — in this context “shooting ones shot” means asking for consent (date,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Approaching = always creepy? Depends on who says it.women get “uncomfortable” about all sorts of things: ugly men, dogs, they even call the cops on random black guys whose presence made them feel “uncomfortable” . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 10:54 PM |
| 9 | Approaching = always creepy? Depends on who says it.woke amerocentric brainrot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 10:48 PM |
| 0 | Is this sort of thing creepy or cute?why would it be creepy to hand someone your own number? you basically put the ball in their court. you people really are neurotics🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 07:05 AM |
| 6 | If you’re autistic, you’re not the intended audience for blue pill advicewhat’s you’re arguing for is complete neoliberal deregulation, a free market that will, like every other free market left unchecked, inevitably produce immense inequalities: men who have sex frequently with several different women those who never have sex despite trying. Amazing how women usually advocate and benefit from egalitarian intervention in every other sphere, except this one, here they suddenly sound like Murray Rothbrad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 11:30 AM |
| 4 | What's the deal with women and height preferences?I didn't say a word on tits or arses. you are in a thread about it. Why are you even responding to a thread that is clearly about height and tit preferences? Your "people just like pretty thing deal with it" response is like a someone trying to classify a crime scene which clearly has a specific nature with a "bad people did bad thing" , well no shit Sherlock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 07:40 PM |
| 6 | What's the deal with women and height preferences?I have a tall gorgeous blonde friend who has absolutely been passed over due to lack of assets. When the two of us hang out it's understood that she gets the leg guys and I get the boob guys. lol this is why the issue is incomparable: women get to have their leg guys, ass-guys, boob-guys, even feet-guys there are no such diverse preferences among women which would substitute the tall and handsome for other traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 06:20 PM |
| 3 | What's the deal with women and height preferences?What's the deal with men and body count preferences? what's the deal with men judging women by their character and not a single immutable physical trait? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 06:04 PM |
| 4 | What's the deal with women and height preferences?they are numerically, quantitatively, statistically not "similiar" requirements in any way. Only 15% of men pass as what is considered tall by women these says, meanwhile women have a pool of men who split into ass-lovers and boob-lovers, and some men don't even want those big, but perky and petite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 06:00 PM |
| 1 | What's the deal with women and height preferences?they want to rip all the social benefits of modern progressive feminism while keeping the patriarchal "lizard brain" preferences intact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 05:54 PM |
| 1 | What's the deal with women and height preferences?"Men will pay me money so they can have sex with me, but some guys wont because of my boob size" while some men have trouble attracting a single partner because of their height is not the shared struggle you think it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 05:46 PM |
| 4 | There is no correct way of approaching women which cannot at some point be construed as annoying or inappropriateprolonged eye contact (3-5sec) coupled with a smile from a stranger girl my age? invitation to talk or no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 02:34 PM |
| 7 | There is no correct way of approaching women which cannot at some point be construed as annoying or inappropriateIf an action is welcome it’s not harassment, if it’s unwelcome, then it is unless you're on a dating app, you can't really obtain consent without bothering the person first. Approaching is asking whether she will agree to something more -- it is asking for consent -- women who fail to understand this are like anti-social neurotics having meltdowns because someone attempted small talk without asking them for explicit consent to talk about the weather today... this is not how the world works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 01:54 PM |
| 19 | There is no correct way of approaching women which cannot at some point be construed as annoying or inappropriateit’s called reading a room one woman's flirting is another ones just being nice. There is a endless amount of threads discussing the confusion where women either complain about men being so thick they're unable to get 'obvious' hints like prolonged eye contact, smiling and laughing at their bad jokes, and women saying men constantly confuse these for interest when they're just being their bubbly selves, but in actuality go silent and avoid eye contact with the guy they like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaching doesn’t work“just be honest and upfront with your intentions bro” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 07:40 AM |
| 5 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADpost pic of a average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 01:23 PM |
| 11 | "Men would still have sex with an ugly woman" is a shitty consolation prizeBut a genuine connection, this is pure projection: the connection women want is with very attractive men as well, the "men are pigs who'd fuck anything" post-rationale comes at the realization that those desired men have side-"hoes" and aren't picking you to stick around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 11:38 AM |
| 30 | "Men would still have sex with an ugly woman" is a shitty consolation prizeIf looks get your foot in the door, but personality, shared values and interests makes one stick around is true like women here say -- then passing the "Sure, I'd sleep with her" threshold still means you have much better chances for something more to develop than a guy who gets immediately shut down with a "I just don't see you that way" response from a woman and where the door for anything more has been shut air-tight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 11:26 AM |
| 5 | It’s important to party/date/socialize in high school. Those people are more successful than the nerds who studied all 4 years.And in university, it was learning to approach the opposite sex, I feel a lot of you people are terminally online sheltered middle class neurotics. "High school is for making friends, college is where you learn to approach the opposite sex" -- are you for real? Lower class men with no formal education living on the dole are fucking at 14 and having 2 baby mamas by the time they're 21. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 09:29 AM |
| -2 | Older women flirt with much younger men all the timewhy isn't this line of reasoning ever used when a 55 year old man compliments a 25 year old woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 10:54 PM |
| -2 | Older women flirt with much younger men all the timeif you are younger and compliment a guy he thinks youre interested in him, what fucked up logic is that? I NEVER compliment STRANGER women on LOOKS that I have ZERO interest in. Not because they'd interpret it as 'flrity' or a 'sign of interest', but because it is a sign of interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Men are told to "touch grass" and "talk to women" but if they fumble they get to be creep shamed on social mediafollowing? they attended the same conference and booked at the same fucking hotel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 09:46 PM |
| 7 | Men are told to "touch grass" and "talk to women" but if they fumble they get to be creep shamed on social mediaget out of here with this … at the of the day hot women too will still go home with the hot stud and friend-zone the lovable goofball who isn’t physically attractive to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 04:38 PM |
| 6 | Men are told to "touch grass" and "talk to women" but if they fumble they get to be creep shamed on social media“we know you want to fuck us but could you at least pretend you like the band we listens to” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Men are told to "touch grass" and "talk to women" but if they fumble they get to be creep shamed on social mediathere are many men who follow that advice just to get routinely friendzoned and accused of weasley nice guy tactics. And when someone is looking for a romantic partner its dishonest to pretend you’re just there to “expand your platonic social circle”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Men are told to "touch grass" and "talk to women" but if they fumble they get to be creep shamed on social medianot me, the progressing change of what women perceive as appropriate goes down that lane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 02:45 PM |
| 5 | Men are told to "touch grass" and "talk to women" but if they fumble they get to be creep shamed on social mediait has real life ramifications. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 02:41 PM |
| 0 | Men are told to "touch grass" and "talk to women" but if they fumble they get to be creep shamed on social mediawrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 02:37 PM |
| 0 | Men are told to "touch grass" and "talk to women" but if they fumble they get to be creep shamed on social mediawith women its like the more freedom in picking partners they have the more neurotic outbursts over minor inconveniences they get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 01:52 PM |
| 5 | That video of the clerk being hit on by clueless guya lack of “consent” is not what these women are complaining about here. They have a problem with men even approaching them to ask for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 07:03 AM |
| 7 | That video of the clerk being hit on by clueless guywhere I work women have fucked and had affairs with customers before. There are no hard written rules around this one. People meet, flirt and hookup in all sorts of places. You’re just a terminally online person with an early onset of brainrot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 11:31 PM |
| 9 | That video of the clerk being hit on by clueless guyautists a don’t have problem with differentiating that, they lack to see unwritten social prohibitions of flirting there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 11:25 PM |
| 21 | That video of the clerk being hit on by clueless guyweird, a generation marked by a trend of self diagnoses of autism and neurodivergence is also the generation that developed a zero tolerance policy for awkwardness 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:55 PM |
| 12 | That video of the clerk being hit on by clueless guyunironically more women would get “uncomfortable” and “creeped out” if an old guy on a wheelchair was hitting on them and not the 6ft4 NBA Stud who literally has the physical capabilities to hulk smash them into the pavement. Stop with this “were afraid because ur stronger” argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:45 PM |
| 12 | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward menindicative of danger? women have less problem dating violent thugs but immediately get “icks” with aspie men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 05:00 PM |
| 13 | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward menwomen are more than willing to be side pieces for men they find irresistibly attractive. She’s a whole person until a hot enough guy comes along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 04:37 PM |
| 6 | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward menproblem with your take is that when a man asks a woman out we all know sex is the goal. Everyone knows this. The only difference is your “instant no” guy comes off as creepier for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 03:22 PM |
| -3 | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward mena extrovert girl wants a confident outgoing alpha guy who can knock someone out for her, a shy wants a strong silent type who would knock out somebody for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 02:35 PM |
| 10 | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward menwomen will fuck and marry dangerous violent men before even consider going on a date with a autistic one . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 01:22 PM |
| 7 | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward menthat is a niche subculture, but in reality there are social expectations for men to lead. That is why even awkward women count on getting saved by a socially competent man. it fits existing gender roles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Telling men that "improving" their "personality" will improve their romantic and sexual results is like telling a politician or a company that honesty and quality will get them successnext thread: “men overrate themselves” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 06:23 AM |
| 5 | 18 to 24-year-old individuals who reported no sexual activity in the past year increased among men (but not among women)these days women are increasingly aware they are getting pumped and dumped by top % of men, so what do they do? Choose celibacy over having to compromise over a mans looks and hotness… that’s how I read it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 02:19 PM |
| -1 | 18 to 24-year-old individuals who reported no sexual activity in the past year increased among men (but not among women)it's probably even worse these days, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 12:20 PM |
| 1 | This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app finds“they thought they were too ugly for you!” this almost reads like more reasons for men to pursue and not to accept “no” for an answer🤣. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 11:36 AM |
| 5 | This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app findswomen are only expected to look good relative to the man they’re dating. of course the short chubby chick aiming for the gymbros will be “insecure” , she will be insecure because she deep down knows she doesn’t want a unfit chubby guy herself and now competes with fit women for the attention of fit men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 11:03 AM |
| 9 | This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app findsthis just shows they really do aim for guys way out if their league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 10:54 AM |
| 7 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking abouti don’t want to “race bait” but as a asian guy I see tall bearded white guys usually steal a girls attention every time over me. So yeah, i’m not competing against “models” but tall white guys in cargo pants. Just a observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 10:33 AM |
| 10 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingI consider women on reddit to be quite fringe, usually they're feminists/sex worker/ bisexual and have a penchant for "alternative" guys. I live in the real world tho, and believe me the average woman out here isn't attracted to skinny asian guys with 2block haircuts (I am one). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 08:42 PM |
| 13 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingif you develop an interesting style you will stand out. I much prefer men who dress well than men who wear jeans and a stained tee shirt but that’s just me. it really is just you, because a tall guy in a plain shirt and jeans will catch more women's attention than than anyone neatly dressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 08:08 PM |
| 12 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingI sometimes put a conservative amount of bb cream on my face, usually no one even notices, but women who noticed it will absolutely try to dunk on this and question your masculinity. In men they want this "roll out of the bed" attractive, enhancements are seen a feminine and therefore an "ick". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 07:42 PM |
| 6 | Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a womanAutistic people when they're told that most people can actually read body language "ur just an autist🤓" cheap comeback as expected here, while studies actually show that people really are bad at detecting flirting, it also turns out the average person is worse at decrypting signs of interest that they thought they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 08:35 PM |
| 4 | Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a womani work as a bartender, I’ve seen confusion over said signs countless of times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 04:18 PM |
| 5 | Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a womanlol what😂 I base this off my observations from working in bars and hotels. I have witnessed these cringe interactions on a weekly basis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Women judge men based on how popular they are with other women which leads to a cycle where a few fuckboys get to pump and dump many womenconsidering height is far less of a deal breaker for men than it is for women, men are definitely more open to dating “normal” women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 01:11 PM |
| 26 | Women judge men based on how popular they are with other women which leads to a cycle where a few fuckboys get to pump and dump many womenI don’t think that women usually want to date known fuckboys "I can change him" exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 03:20 PM |
| 11 | Women judge men based on how popular they are with other women which leads to a cycle where a few fuckboys get to pump and dump many womenit does create a world of have and have-nots, some men get to fuck plenty of women, the bitter normies who have to wait long periods for their turn, and the men never having it at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 03:17 PM |
| – | If women want to be sexually free and autonomous then cold approaching is fair gameyou are literally sexting people you have no interest in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 11:24 AM |
| – | If women want to be sexually free and autonomous then cold approaching is fair gamelol if she is a human she probably has a appetite for sex and love just like the rest of us. Your overreaction to everything sex related shows you’re clearly neurotic, please stay out of my threads and consider joining a monastery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 05:16 PM |
| -1 | If women want to be sexually free and autonomous then cold approaching is fair gamehold my beer😎 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 04:57 PM |
| -6 | If women want to be sexually free and autonomous then cold approaching is fair gamewomen are just people who want to have sex and make babies too, idk what exactly is “humanizing” in treating them as sexless aliens? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 04:45 PM |
| -5 | If women want to be sexually free and autonomous then cold approaching is fair gameYes, I am aware some women are want a “all men are born equal, but unattractive ones should know their place” social reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 04:41 PM |
| 92 | Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemiccorrection; men are getting dysphoria because they are witnessing women rejecting/ignoring them in favor of men who fit the ideal hyper inflated images of masculinity that dominate social media the most. we call a average guy who expects women to look like porn starlets delusional, porn sick or “coomers” but what about all the short and chubby women wanting tall and muscly ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 04:25 PM |
| -2 | If women want to be sexually free and autonomous then cold approaching is fair gameharassment is defined as repeated unwanted advances, not propositioning once. silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Most college aged women do not want 30+ year old menor better yet, date whoever you want if feelings are reciprocated , what goes on in the bedrooms of consenting adults shouldn’t be the business of third parties, the church, nor washed up repugnant busybodies on twitter or reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 09:59 PM |
| 5 | Most college aged women do not want 30+ year old men“work on yourself and the right one will come one day” are what bluepillers are telling young men… these guys then think they are never good enough to deserve a relationship start hitting their 30s single and with little experienced just to get eyeballed and called dirty old men by the people who told them to wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 04:32 PM |
| 0 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to facewhat is being a “mature man “ anyway? this isn’t the 1950s anymore and if we dot get to shame unmarried women over 25 as used up whores and call kids born out of wedlock bastards, what businesses do modern women have calling men as “lagging behind” or being “immature” if they themselves don’t conform to traditional roles anymore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:56 PM |
| 2 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to facei thought older guys who can get younger women are socially stunted immature losers who live with their mom and can’t handle successful women their age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:30 PM |
| 1 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to facewhen I was on campus I found out many women won’t date an asian guy. what is your point? that women are a hive mind? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"lol its called living in a society, you don’t need a written contract to approach and talk to people are you that autistic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"sane take +++ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 04:45 PM |
| 6 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-9571863/Teen-captures-uncomfortable-moment-creepy-man-sits-makes-unwanted-advances.html https://www.indy100.com/viral/man-hits-on-teenage-girl-during-live-stream-b1839680 https://www.newsweek.com/creepy-stranger-caught-hitting-teenage-girl-during-her-livestream-1590947 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 02:30 PM |
| 4 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"it got removed for having the "wrong flair". So no flair this time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 02:23 PM |
| -2 | How are men expected to meet women in today’s world?You missed the point. The point is become friends for the sake of friendship Why the bluepilled urge not to just be honest about not wanting more friends but a romantic companion? Why the fucking urge to sugarcoat your friends first route by pretending things will just happen and the universe will pave the way and leading you in her pants by chance of destiny? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 08:50 PM |
| 2 | How are men expected to meet women in today’s world?It works for most people. You are minorities it at least works for normie looking people, for those who are by conventional standards unattractive, especially unattractive men, building all these over-lapping social circles will make you "Bob who is a great guy and makes everyone laugh, but is somehow still single" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 07:15 PM |
| 13 | How are men expected to meet women in today’s world?female friends regularly and actually making an intention to enjoy just that… “hanging out.” ---- then once down this road where platonic comfort has been built go ahead and ask her out, or make a pass, and see yourself become known as the guy who tried to weasel in her pants through the back door instead of being upfront about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 07:11 PM |
| 8 | "Just have a huge social circle" is as pointless advice as "just be attractive"that is not only why social circles are bad to approach, they're a "don't shit where you eat" situation as you only have so many friends and acquaintances before you get the reputation of being 'that guy' who hit on her, got friendzoned, and now tries it with her friends as well -- enough women are already complaining that their male buddies/acquaintances would fuck them given half the chance, and you only have so many friends and acquaintances before you run out of options and become "that guy"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 07:04 PM |
| 1 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanwomen get cornered and propositioned you're terminally online & clearly neurotic. Your hardline bluepilled beliefs already set in stone and there is as much point with arguing with you as it is with a antisemitic 4chan troll that sees jewish conspiracies everywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 06:22 AM |
| 8 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a woman“im just a heckin bubbly person I smile at grandpa too doesn’t mean its ok to approach me reeee” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 03:00 PM |
| 12 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanfuckboys are just as (if not even more)toxic and misogynistic as the awkward “uncalibrated” ones. Women still sleep with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 02:45 PM |
| 0 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womansingle women want to be approached by men they find attractive. Idk where you terminally online types get this idea of wanting sex with someone is “dehumanizing “. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 02:10 PM |
| 1 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanlots of people join these groups for the sake of socializing. wtf are you on about ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 02:07 PM |
| 4 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a woman“learn to meet women without the intention of meeting them and be sure to make your intentions clear from the go but don’t approach them as potential romantic prospects either but talk to them as regular people first but without ulterior motives” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 02:02 PM |
| 1 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanneither do I know anything about the women on dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 02:01 PM |
| 0 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a woman…and the gaslighting has begun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 01:50 PM |
| 2 | It's not that women's preferences are shallow, but that they're really homogenousIn fact, I often look at couples in the wild and wonder how it happened you just overrate women or downrate men in the relationship. Women are especially cruel when it comes to this. I remember a time (before korean dramas became a thing in the west) how most white women viewed asian men, no matter how handsome their faces might have been, as not real men or asexual nerds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 08:08 AM |
| 4 | If men are so desperate for sex and a relationship, it makes no sense that half of them never ask women outwomen are gettin fatter. what improvement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 09:19 PM |
| 3 | It's not that women's preferences are shallow, but that they're really homogenousapart from teens no woman is attracted to emo looking men. They all tend to grow out of it by the time they’re 20. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:56 PM |
| -3 | It's not that women's preferences are shallow, but that they're really homogenouslol this is a egalitarian state, not the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:53 PM |
| -2 | It's not that women's preferences are shallow, but that they're really homogenoushow old are these couples? they all get fat over 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:08 PM |
| – | The body-shaming of short men on social media has reached epidemic proportions, yet there seems to be no mainstream discourse about it. Why?Our patience has its limits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 10:45 AM |
| 0 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of meni agree with this, when it comes to age-gap relationships women sound like bitter incels😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:43 PM |
| 11 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menits the terminally online who are bluepilled the most. I work in service with a lot of women, they fall like dominos for toxic men who switch them like underwear. Idk if its the drama, because many women have shown me texts how jealous other girls are of them — the women are aware they’re sharing or more accurate fighting over one guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menyou’re right most of what’s really going on can’t even be described as a situationship, its just women getting fucked in casual encounters with these men claiming it somehow “just happened”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 02:21 PM |
| -2 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menlol how do they do it😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 02:17 PM |
| 6 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menthe prehistoric caveman Chad was mostly a myth. Hunter gatherer men were small and slim, agile maybe, but twinks in comparison to roided Captain America ideal of masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 01:37 PM |
| 5 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menthe problem lies in a woman’s logic of distinguishing unattractive men from attractive ones: being popular with women is seen as good, not being popular with women is seen as bad.. the sisterhood vetting innately privileges the fuckboy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 01:32 PM |
| 1 | In an age where you’re damned if you try to get sexual too quickly and damned if you stay platonic for too long, what’s the best approach?he is 100% on point with that one. The “it just happened” phenomena is real. Women really aren’t that introspective people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 07:00 AM |
| 6 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?lol done with what “crap” ? women now fuck the same few men creating a whole new class of fuckboys they then complain about being trash and not committing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 03:19 PM |
| 19 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?“women are just happier alone” yet still more of them are in relationships than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 01:42 PM |
| 12 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?because he is lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 12:10 PM |
| – | Women have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to socially awkward mensocially maladaptive women have triggers all over the place, in some parts they won’t even sit in the same cart with a black or middle eastern looking guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"This interaction should have been over the minute she clarified that she meant the interaction is barely 2 minutes long It doesn’t matter. lol, @ the goalpost shifting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 07:17 AM |
| 0 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"a bar, "I'm just here to enjoy with my friends not get hit on" it isn't work, "I'm here to work not get hit on" it isn't a college class. "I'm just here to study my course material not get hit on" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"women in my state feel “uncomfortable” whenever a guy who is a few shades darker enters public transport? so fuckibg what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 05:18 PM |
| 5 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"women: “why approach? do they have anything in common? are they co-workers?” also women “don’t shit where you eat!!!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 01:36 PM |
| 7 | Guy approaches young woman in a viral video, gets rejected with news headlines calling him a "creep"every couples "how we met" is creepy to someone else, especially if you'd film it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 11:45 AM |
| 5 | 45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in personyou are paranoid and a bluepiller on top which makes your takes sound so terminally neurotic. Women and men met in grocerie stores, discoes, trains, bus stops before Tinder came along. Gyms were once thought as great venues to meet like minded women into active life style. I even got approached by a woman while running errands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 04:57 PM |
| 13 | 45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in personthat men are approaching them, just not the men that they wish would approach them how exactly does one solve this? I mean how do I know they see me as unattractive and disgusting looking before I approach. I can look at myself in the mirror and I see that I still have nice hair, clear skin, that I dress fashionable -- good on paper right? -- but then there's the fact I'm a asian man living in a place where the vast majority of women only seem to be into husky country boys and me approaching the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 04:54 PM |
| 7 | The real reason women hate when older guys get with younger girlslol this is junk framing of pop science articles and even there not a single study referenced remotely suggest that 18 year olds are found to be cognitively incapable of making informed decisions when it comes to consent. There is no consensus among neuroscientists which would even suggest that a 18 year old shouldn’t be considered an adult when it comes to their own romantic life involving other consenting adults. Stop spreading lies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 04:12 PM |
| 6 | The real reason women hate when older guys get with younger girlsAs someone in her early 20s, I am telling you we don't like it either. We are not interested in older men, they are creepy and gross. Please leave us alone. PDD women: "incel misogynists think young women are a hive mind" also PDD women: "ALL YOUNG WOMEN ARE DISGUSTED BY OLDER MEN" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areyou like men who look like Justin Long which is the normiest inoffensive looking type of man I ever saw. Nothing ‘unconventional’ about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 07:12 AM |
| 5 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they arewe have stats and data on the discrepancy of this no need for your bluepilled anecdotal bs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:01 PM |
| 6 | If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old womenwell historically black/chinese even jewish guys could get lynched for looking at a white mans daughter. but papa knew best I guess🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 03:23 PM |
| 18 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they aremen are literally paying money to see pictures cellulite ridden butt cheeks of fat girls on social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 03:14 PM |
| 4 | If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old womenfathers don’t like their daughters dating black or asian guys as well … so what? is papa gonna suck me off? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 02:58 PM |
| 7 | The guys who have "game" do not talk to women as "regular people"this isn’t even challenging my view; what you said is that you shouldn’t treat women you’re interested in as “regular people” but treat them ad potential romantic options instead. lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 01:38 PM |
| – | CMV: Men are shallow in terms of appearance whilst women are shallow in terms of neurotypeits worse than that— women get putt off or “ick” by banal shit aspies do, like giggle in a funny way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Women deliberately mischaracterize "Nice Guys" and set them up for failure no matter how they approachsee, that's your problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Women deliberately mischaracterize "Nice Guys" and set them up for failure no matter how they approach"Nice guy" is something people call those, who act nice and expect sex in return. every guy did that at some point with some woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 03:02 PM |
| – | Women are becoming accepting of their own averageness yet desire above average in men more than ever beforeAnd you can negotiate attraction last time women were saying you can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:24 PM |
| 0 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allsingle woman is like being thirsty in a swamp. "where have all the good men gone" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at ally. The guys I met just wanted to hook up and hardly treated me as human and the guys who wanted something more serious were not attractive enough for you to even consider them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 09:26 PM |
| 12 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allLOL, didn't they locked the sub r/foreveralonewomen because the women there got to bombarded with offers from men? This only further proves my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 03:14 PM |
| 7 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allits so bizarre listening to women on reddit do this average men complains about not getting any -- its because he's a shallow horndog that doesn't understand women really crave for depth, connection, emotional bonding, sex is just a cherry on top. women getting caught picking the hunkiest of hunks for casual sex -- we love having sex with attractive people too, incel! We are not that different from men stop shaming us for liking sex we're only human like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 03:07 PM |
| 4 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allcan get sex at any time as long as they don't care about actually enjoying it. I mean but this is a situation women get themselves into -- they will openly admit since all men are "bad" they might as well just pick the physically more attractive ones for casual sex. No one is forcing them to have bad sex with handsome men, yet they themselves still do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 03:01 PM |
| 11 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at alloutside virtue signaling chambers like reddit and twitter, single ladies hooking up or having situationships when they're "officially single" is nothing new or uncommon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 02:47 PM |
| 17 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allI really hate how these people retort with "women aren't as thirsty" yet these women still have more sex than the average single man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 02:38 PM |
| -4 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allkeep in mind we're talking "happily single" women in general here, not your fringe tumblrina asexual lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 02:35 PM |
| 10 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at alland these women still get it by hooking up with their hot buddies, acquaintances, or even married men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 02:33 PM |
| 15 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allSo because men are desperate and thirsty stop with this 19century Victorian BS. Women aren't at all that different from men here. What separates happily single ladies from incels is that these women can usually quench the thirst for intimacy by loging onto Tinder and choosing some handsome guy to have a (even if short) affair with. The average single men however cannot count on Tinder for either something serious or much less hookups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 02:21 PM |
| 8 | The "spark" is just nonsense that women say when a guy is attractivereally explains why 63% of young men are single and sexless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 12:19 PM |
| 5 | The "spark" is just nonsense that women say when a guy is attractivesocial media, dating apps have completely dispelled this supposedly 'complex' attraction you claim women to have. Clear patterns emerge when you pile up enough data about what type of men women feel "the spark" for. Its not 'complex' at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 12:14 PM |
| 10 | The "spark" is just nonsense that women say when a guy is attractivebecause you very rarely feel the "spark" for the 5'4 indian janitors of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 12:01 PM |
| 14 | Women with a lot of male friends are a instant 'red flag'This girl seems very clear about wanting to be just friends. on what fucking planet is a guy asking you "when does your shift end" upon which you agree to spend the evening together and spend it till 3am "just platonic" -- will women be giving the same benefit of a doubt to a guy in a relationship pulling this one with a hot young woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 01:12 PM |
| – | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells youwhat is the "innitial treshold" it seems like its still limited to 'conventionally very attractive' man, because women will also say they have no reason to compromise or settle for a guy that isn't the whole package since this isn't the 1950s anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 03:09 PM |
| 2 | CMV: What goes on in the bedrooms of consenting adults should be none of your business21yo olds get pumped, impregnated and dumped by other 21yo olds all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 07:04 AM |
| 6 | CMV: It's ok to leave your husband even if he's a great guyI hope she keeps that same energy if her man dumps her for a younger, hotter woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 12:14 PM |
| 14 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….PDD women when the average guy wants sex: "sex isn't everything you know, women want connection, emotional bonding, men just want to fuck us" PDD women when asked about their n-count: "sex just feels good for us girls too... you bitter incel!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Why are people so obsessed with age gaps when it's such a niche issue?homosexuality is not the same as age gap relationships age gap relationships were never cool. 300 hundred years ago if you were a homosexual you were hanged, drowned and quartered. 200 years ago, if you were a homosexual, you were hanged. 150 years ago, if you were homosexual, you were flogged and put into prison. 100 years ago, if you were homosexual, you were fined or sent to psych ward. 50 years ago, being homosexual was still considered a mental disorder. Being gay wasn't cool either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 05:01 PM |
| 5 | Why are people so obsessed with age gaps when it's such a niche issue?what is funny is just how similar arguments of anti-age gap rabble rousers sound to those of homophobes of the 1990s and early 2000s. We all remember how the christian hard-right used to bring up the moral case against same sex couples: they said it may be legal but its still "morally wrong" to seek to date someone of your own sex. Then it was the accusation that homosexual are recruiting via "grooming" young men into the "gay lifestyle" -- thus depriving them of a normal heterosexual developmen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 08:14 AM |
| 17 | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.The common advice here goes that men should stop seeking women for potential relationship prospects, but get to know them 'as people' first. Well... if a mans intent is to date women then taking this route by definition includes 'orbiting' her in hopes for something more to develop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 08:06 PM |
| 20 | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.you placed yourself there by orbiting her and hoping for more Tomorrows thread: PDD women trying to convince men they should get to know them as 'people first' before even suggesting a date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 07:51 PM |
| 1 | The male 'aesthetics' popular in South Korea are not attractive to western womenwith white girls? Absolutely! Most of them grow out of it. This 'feminine men are taking over' craze has been cyclical with the past few generations, but almost always limited to teen girls. I remember 15 years ago a band being popular in europe called Tokio Hotel pubescent girls went crazy for them. The guys were really lanky and pretty in a delicate sense. Well... by the time this generation turned 18-19 they were back to liking conventionally handsome manly men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 05:09 PM |
| -4 | The male 'aesthetics' popular in South Korea are not attractive to western women*Young women, not girls going through puberty (which is what most of kpop stans are) . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 03:36 PM |
| 2 | The male 'aesthetics' popular in South Korea are not attractive to western womenboth Turkish and Korean shows came into my country 5-10 years ago as did Netflix, and with korean 'cute' male aesthetics I see the same cycle happening as with girls who went through a "emo phase" very into a certain 'soft masculinity' at first but once out of puberty and well into their 20s they usually go from the Gong Yoo's to Hemsworth's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 03:21 PM |
| 16 | There is a 50/50 male to female ratio, but somehow more than half of young men are single. How does this make sense?"women just can't help themselves from being seduced by a small % of physically very attractive men who have them on rotation" and they say it's men who only think with their sex organ. xD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 06:52 PM |
| 18 | CMV: When women talk of men opening up, what they mean is men should open up in women approved ways, for women approved problems and for women approved lengths of timethis so much. A woman's idea of a man 'opening up' is inherently pornographic: it is imagined as a thing to be performed in a certain aestheticized 'attractive' way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 06:16 PM |
| 4 | There is a 50/50 male to female ratio, but somehow more than half of young men are single. How does this make sense?Ma'am you're in a relationships sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 06:13 PM |
| 7 | There is a 50/50 male to female ratio, but somehow more than half of young men are single. How does this make sense?a guy of your profile would be a 31yo virgin, I suspect you at least can find men attractive enough and willing to have sex with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 05:54 PM |
| 1 | There is a 50/50 male to female ratio, but somehow more than half of young men are single. How does this make sense?if women are so infantile and easy to manipulate they should be wed off at 18 and never allowed to leave their house without a male guardian again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 05:33 PM |
| 2 | There is a 50/50 male to female ratio, but somehow more than half of young men are single. How does this make sense?what is a unattractive hairstyle? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 04:33 PM |
| 9 | There is a 50/50 male to female ratio, but somehow more than half of young men are single. How does this make sense?the average relathionship simply doesn't have a age gap that big that could skew the numbers this much. To believe that you'd first need to establish the majority of women participants who were questioned were 28/29 dating that 31 year old guy, which I highly doubt... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 03:44 PM |
| 2 | There is a 50/50 male to female ratio, but somehow more than half of young men are single. How does this make sense? Sure there are people willing to have casual sex but it probably more men who are up for this as it has a great pleasure to risk ratio than it does for women. men more 'up' for sex yet women are the ones who have more sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 03:06 PM |
| 4 | There is a 50/50 male to female ratio, but somehow more than half of young men are single. How does this make sense?a very 'charitable' interpretation on a literal who blog avoiding the 'have you had sex in the past year' discrepancy completely.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 03:00 PM |
| 2 | The underlying reason for every single issue being discussed here and the dating arena at large is very simple - men are just way hornier than women. Supply and demand drives every metric in a transactional world.Women tend to get much more turned on in response to stimuli women sexuality is a lot more 'responsive' so what guys should be doing is breaking touch barriers to see how women respond to these external 'stimuli' . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 01:43 PM |
| 2 | The underlying reason for every single issue being discussed here and the dating arena at large is very simple - men are just way hornier than women. Supply and demand drives every metric in a transactional world.ok, but why is "le hornier sex" getting less sex than women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Who is more in responsible for women's beauty standards?doesn't explain the discrepancy in interracial dating where you have a lot more white guys dating or being open to date asian women, but white women into asian men are much more rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 11:51 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Where would you ideally like/be open to find your partner (school, work, club, bars, apps, etc). Can you rank/score them in order of preference?talk to me and develop a rapport before you ask me out. "why do men try to weasel themselves into my pants" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 09:43 AM |
| -2 | Why do women befriend men but get annoyed when they try to date them?know you place and stay the asexual bestie I decided you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do women befriend men but get annoyed when they try to date them?"don't cold approach us, we have no desire dating strangers" "why do all my guy friends end up trying to date me?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 09:04 AM |
| 6 | I feel like standards of female beauty are higher, due to men's binary attraction to highly feminine faces.When the last time you saw, or heard of a female beauty/sex icon with a larger more prominent jaw, and overall angular face shape, What are you talking about? Women with strong angular jawlines dominate the film and fashion industry. woman's preferences for male faces vary a lot based on subjective taste. A countless number of woman deem androgynous faced kpop stars Korean male leads are dandies' not 'feminine' in a dimorphic sense, they're tall, have strong defined jawlines, chiseled features o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 08:50 AM |
| 3 | Who is more in responsible for women's beauty standards?this is such bad evolutionary reductionism. How does it explain racial preferences? Why are in america whole ethnicities considered 'less attractive' (example asian men) despite them not really lacking anything in the health/virility department? The average american-asian man is less fat, probably has higher cheekbones than his white counterpart, but is also perceived as less attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 08:33 AM |
| 11 | The claim "what is considered a top 20% man is different for each woman" is simply untruelemme guess its "nerdy men" that look like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 06:14 PM |
| 4 | The claim "what is considered a top 20% man is different for each woman" is simply untrueDo you really think that that many women are in harems? 'i'm seeing someone' 'its nothing serious' 'he doesn't want to settle...yet' 'we're still young an experimenting' 'we are just getting to know each other' a lot of young women is one of those "arrangements". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 05:44 PM |
| – | Are alternative aesthetics, in terms of attraction, relevant after 25?I can speak on this from personal experience, I'm half korean half sicilian, needless to say my ethnic origins already fall under having a limited 'niche' appeal. Couple this with the fact that I wont ever be able to pull of the generic white-anglo saxon normie look. I have a fringe with the sides cut short (which is a generic cut in japan/korea) but people here think I'm into hardcore alternative stuff. The occasional attention I get, or at least got, was always from very young women, as a teen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 06:33 AM |
| 1 | The Friendzone is a thing because the average woman doesn't find the average guy attractive enoughthe women who "friendzoned" me had no problems with hooking up with guys hotter than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 09:37 PM |
| 0 | The Friendzone is a thing because the average woman doesn't find the average guy attractive enoughno the firendzone is when she's single, likes your personality, clicks with you on every level, except finds you sexually repulsive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 09:33 PM |
| 1 | The Friendzone is a thing because the average woman doesn't find the average guy attractive enoughthey do. There are not studies on this (yet), but based on my long-time observations I saw that women in their 20s will try to snatch the guy her friends agree is hot first. This is different than men who have varying types they go after: some are into plain looking girls who are nerdy and into anime, others are chubby chasers, some will pick girls just based on one feature alone (nice eyes, cute neck, pretty feet. . Women want the whole package: tall, handsome and ideal looking relative to the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 09:31 PM |
| 15 | The Friendzone is a thing because the average woman doesn't find the average guy attractive enoughthese guys are hoping what women told them will work: PERSONALTIY. of course the guy who is good enough to be her bestie/pal/confidant will think something more ought to develop from there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 12:14 PM |
| 16 | The Friendzone is a thing because the average woman doesn't find the average guy attractive enough63% of young men are single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 12:13 PM |
| 9 | The Friendzone is a thing because the average woman doesn't find the average guy attractive enoughWomen obviously downplay the attractiveness of a guy. A guy that has nothing wrong with him physically is barely average for them, despite claiming "a nice smile" being groomed and taking daily showers is what they're after. I for example get labeled as meh or even ugly because I have a slightly bigger nose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 12:12 PM |
| 1 | It seems that every avenue for a lonely male to find a girlfriend is being abolished and whittled down to OLD swipesonly those I got acquainted with beforehand through mutual friends. it didn't help that we moved in similar social circles, women's racial preferences are so hard-wired they often times triumph over personality, even looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 12:02 AM |
| 1 | It seems that every avenue for a lonely male to find a girlfriend is being abolished and whittled down to OLD swipesyeah, I kept hitting on women until I realized most of them don't see asian men as potential romantic suitors at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 11:04 PM |
| 3 | TikTok gender swap pill: Women surprised that most of them look like unattractive menthere are plenty of guys like her male version existing irl. Idk what are you talking about? Do women think testosterone just turns a guy into a 6ft3 square-jawed hunter-eyed Chad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 08:59 PM |
| -3 | TikTok gender swap pill: Women surprised that most of them look like unattractive menscientists actually have a hard time separating male skulls from female ones. Of course when a westerner imagines a woman and a man they recall pics from those middle school textbooks involving very exaggerated examples of adam/eve caricatures of sexual difference usually involving caucasian models. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisyof course not, but the average Becky rarely finds her average male compatriot attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 06:41 AM |
| 39 | Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisythis would be akin to a man claiming he is starving, but who won't settle for anything less than caviar and shrimp at a swanky ***** dining place . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 03:04 PM |
| 52 | A lot of dating advice given by women here only works for womenI personally know a lot of 'established men' that are the life of a party, liked by people, but are relegated to jesterdom. Good as friends, but rarely seen as attractive by women in a romantic sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.prejudice is heckin wholesome, unless we're talking about my dad who'd lose his shit if I brought a black girl home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 08:22 AM |
| 1 | she freaked out after I touched her hairsomething along "no, I don't like this" with a pissy tone. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | she freaked out after I touched her hairthis girl got angry when I flicked her pony tail once, but after a few days she now keeps stealing glances, making eye contact and smiling at me. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Friendly vs. Flirty TouchingOk, since you're a offering a woman's perspective -- what about touching your hands/fingers? The two of us were working alone and she was asking something work related and as I turned toward her she grabbed my hand, covering it with hers -- no jest or humor involved -- the convo was banal but kept gently holding onto it until I awkwardly pulled it away from her. What would she mean by this? | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 01:24 PM |
| 4 | Friendly vs. Flirty Touchingforgot to add; today, while we worked alone, I was holding one of those wine openers and she was asking me about some stuff relating to customer service, the she put her hand over mine and kept awkwardly holding it until I moved away. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Approaching cashier girlsI'll restructure my question: what I'm looking is not to serially hit on cashiers, rather trying to discern what would be those small cues be that would separate purely professional friendliness from 'that guy who comes to our store is kinda cute' vibe. Is it prolonged eye contact, staring, what I soul be looking for, or genuine smile (cashiers/service workers rarely smile in Europe) ? | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Approaching cashier girlsok, but what if woman (not even a cashier, just fills shelves there) made eye contact several times, prolonged from afar and started smiling, even though I never interacted with her as a customer. I'd take it as a green light, but I am confused here. Is this "professional politeness" or genuine likability -- mind you I'm from europe where customer service rarely smiles even for professional reasons | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Approaching cashier girlsok, now on her part. What should I be looking for to discern pure formal politeness with potential attraction on her part. Would she initiate more eye contact when this isn't necessary, smile more? | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 07:00 PM |
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