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DISCUSSIONSnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:59 PM
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SEEKING ADVICESnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:45 PM
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DISCUSSIONSnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 05:01 PM
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RANTSnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:23 PM
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PICKME CULTURESnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:21 PM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONSnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:45 AM
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Snoo32629/r/askFDS30/08/21 05:38 PM
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SEEKING ADVICESnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 07:34 PM
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Snoo32629/r/askFDS29/03/22 11:33 PM
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Snoo32629/r/askFDS11/03/21 02:42 AM
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Snoo32629/r/askFDS08/10/21 08:52 PM
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Snoo32629/r/askFDS25/02/21 05:43 PM
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Snoo32629/r/askFDS06/08/21 01:44 PM
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SEEKING ADVICESnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:51 PM
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Snoo32629/r/askFDS13/07/21 06:38 PM
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DISCUSSIONSnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:47 PM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONSnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:16 AM
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Snoo32629/r/askFDS20/02/21 06:24 PM
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SEEKING ADVICESnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 12:09 AM
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DISCUSSIONSnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:49 PM
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SEEKING ADVICESnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 08:39 PM
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Snoo32629/r/askFDS23/08/21 12:55 PM
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DISCUSSIONSnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:07 PM
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Snoo32629/r/askFDS22/09/21 09:23 PM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONSnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:06 AM
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DISCUSSIONSnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 12:54 AM
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Snoo32629/r/askFDS03/04/21 10:25 PM
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#KickHimOut2020Snoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:40 AM
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Snoo32629/r/askFDS21/02/21 11:27 PM
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Snoo32629/r/askFDS31/03/21 05:38 PM
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Snoo32629/r/askFDS08/02/21 06:39 PM
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DISCUSSIONSnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:22 AM
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DISCUSSIONSnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:59 PM
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DISCUSSIONSnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:50 PM
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SEEKING ADVICESnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:52 PM
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DISCUSSIONSnoo32629/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 03:38 PM
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Lmao I made my boyfriend wait about two years 😂 He respected my boundaries back then and still does to this day. Scrotes will call him a simp or whatever term they’ve come up with to describe a genuinely respectful and loving man, but to me he’s just a man who sees women as actual people and not someone who goes through life thinking with his dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 02:36 PM
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Self proclaimed empaths from my experience are usually narcissists LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 06:13 PM
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🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:37 PM
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Ugh, it’s so sad how many of us have been in this situation. I had a guy friend that I had known since high school, we were best friends for 6+ years, so when he started showing some interest in me I decided to ignore any red flags and assume FDS rules didn’t apply to this relationship. He ended up being an LVM who just wanted to use me for sex and then when I confronted him about it he stopped talking to me, unfriended me everywhere, and talks shit about me. Lol 🙃 we haven’t talked in almost tw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 07:12 PM
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I get it. That was exactly what I thought years ago too. That he deserved to know & that if I was in his position I would appreciate someone telling me. Part of me also felt like I needed to take it upon myself to fix it because i felt like something morally wrong was happening. Which it was, but it was none of my business. It’s shitty to watch that happen to friends but sometimes you have to let them learn on their own and either be there to support, or remove yourself from the situation. I’m g…
/r/askFDS11/10/21 03:55 PM
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I’ve been in this situation years ago, and I ended up telling the guy. Speaking from experience, I’d advise against doing what I did. You should just stay out of it. Like the other commenter said, there’s no outcome that would be in your favor. The drama I experienced was not worth it, and I ended up being collateral damage in their relationship problems. Looking back, I wish I minded my own business and distanced myself from them both and let them figure it out. That’s the advice I would give t…
/r/askFDS11/10/21 03:02 PM
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That’s exactly what I told her yesterday! I’m trying to get her to look at this as almost as just a small relapse, but that it doesn’t erase all the progress she’s made so far. Thank you :)
/r/askFDS23/08/21 02:14 PM
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Without more details I’m not sure he did anything wrong by telling her not to bring men to his house. Did she even ask him beforehand? It’s his house and like the other commenter said he’s allowed to set those kinds of boundaries. If you or her don’t have a good feeling about it, I would suggest her to move out and find another living situation ASAP.
/r/askFDS17/08/21 03:35 PM
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Hey girl, I know exactly what you are feeling because I have been there before. You do sound depressed like these other commenters are saying, but I also want to assure you that it’s completely normal to crave connection with others. We are only human after all, and we’re literally wired to need community and a sense of belonging with others. While I know it stings to not have that in a relationship, I know you mentioned that you have a good community with friends and family, could you spend mor…
/r/askFDS10/07/21 02:54 PM
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Feel at peace knowing he’s no longer my problem
/r/askFDS30/05/21 04:15 AM
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Love this! I honestly never have thought about it like this. It's so easy to get caught up in comparing yourself to one standard of beauty so I really like this idea.
/r/askFDS29/05/21 12:42 AM
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I stopped reading after red pill, dump him
/r/askFDS21/05/21 08:00 PM
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Your last paragraph made me burst out laughing😂 love this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:26 PM
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Yes your partner should help you pay for it
/r/askFDS28/04/21 07:15 PM
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I personally wouldn't get involved or say anything if I wasn't close to the woman. While it could go well, it could also create a lot of drama. I like the other commenter's idea though of creating an anonymous email or social media account and sending the screenshot, and leaving it at that.
/r/askFDS27/04/21 10:00 PM
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Drop it, he's not interested
/r/askFDS27/04/21 09:56 PM
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You lost me at him saying he doesn’t want anything serious either. Girl, he wants to use you for sex (and all the other benefits of a relationship) and he knows now that he can get all of that from you without any commitment. He’s absolutely love bombing you and you’re way too invested after one date.
/r/askFDS26/04/21 01:50 PM
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He's an LVM and just wanted sex. Block, delete, and move on.
/r/askFDS22/04/21 06:23 PM
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The guy I’m currently dating said it about 3-4 months after becoming official, and we were going on dates for 2-3 months before that. My LVX wanted to become official after 2 weeks of knowing each other, and then said I love you 2 weeks after becoming official. Classic case of love bombing. I agree with the other commenter though, you should be observing his actions and how he talks about a future with you, includes you in his plans, treats you with actions > words, etc. I understand your anxiet…
/r/askFDS15/04/21 04:31 PM
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I would say that the protests regarding George Floyd were pointing out a more systemic issue in regards to how black men and women are subject to more police violence than any other racial group. You can have issue with what he has done personally, but I feel like comments like these take away from the bigger issues that the BLM movement is aiming to bring awareness and reform to. Cities were not destroyed for George Floyd himself, but for the black men and women who are living in fear due to th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:53 PM
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You treat him with your company, while he plans and initiates the dates. It sounds too early to determine if this guy is actually HV. Every man seems HV in the beginning. HVM don’t see the courting process as transactional, so you should be sitting back while he proves himself to you.
/r/askFDS09/04/21 01:31 PM
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You block, delete, and never look back. You forgive yourself for tolerating LV behavior and for not leaving at the first red flag, learn from it, and become more vigilant the next time around. I feel like so often women are made to feel “crazy” for simply reacting to the things men do to them. I think all of us have been in the situation where instead of just saying “ok” and leaving at the first red flag, we’ve cried and begged and beat ourselves up for what an LVM did to us. It’s a learning exp…
/r/askFDS09/04/21 01:24 PM
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As you level up and start your journey towards being a HWV, you will notice that you outgrow a lot of people on the way. These people may mean a lot to you and have been important to you at one point in your life, but you will start to find that the ideals don’t align anymore and they bring you down more than they add value to your life. It’s okay to let these people go and allow space to be made in your life for more HV connections that are to come. I had a pick me friend that I cared about dee…
/r/askFDS09/04/21 12:26 PM
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"I'll know what I'm looking for when I see it."
/r/askFDS09/04/21 04:33 AM
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Thank you so much
/r/askFDS03/04/21 11:20 PM
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I don't think you even need to be cheated on to know how messed up it is. I've never been cheated on (I think lol) but it disturbs me deeply when I hear about it happening to someone else. She knows exactly what she's doing and who she's hurting, she just doesn't care lol.
/r/askFDS31/03/21 05:31 PM
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that's so messed up!! definitely cut her off. this friendship doesn't seem like it's adding any value to your life. it's also not cool that you're expected to just keep these secrets that don't sit right with you. I like having friends who have similar morals and values as I do - that doesn't mean they won't make mistakes, but there's a difference between making a mistake and deliberately and consistently exhibiting LV behavior. when my old friend would cheat, it would literally disturb my spiri…
/r/askFDS31/03/21 05:26 PM
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She’s probably deeply insecure and finds validation when these married men “pick her” despite having wives. It’s likely she gets off on the fact that she was “good enough” to “get” another woman’s man. At least that’s what I’m guessing the thought process is in a pick me’s mind. I had a friend similar to this before too. I just gave her a call and told her that the friendship wasn’t working out for me. My life has been so much more peaceful since.
/r/askFDS31/03/21 05:19 PM
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There's this tweet I saw years ago that I really like: "Letting someone create a false narrative of you is a small price to pay for having rid yourself of their toxicity. Let them say what they want, if you and the most high know the truth, your life will flourish and their lies will rot theirs."
/r/askFDS29/03/21 06:33 PM
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Hey girl, trust me, he does not value his new girl. Just found someone new that lets his bullshit slide. Don’t believe what you see on social media or hear from others, it’s always a different story behind closed doors and LVM rarely change. One day you will see so clearly how it never had anything to do with you, and how lucky you were to dodge this bullet. 💞
/r/askFDS29/03/21 06:28 PM
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I would be wary of guys who try to move too fast like this. They either have some sort of attachment issue or are love bombing you. However, FDS is against teaching men how to behave, at the first sign of LV behavior you should just block and delete, especially since it's only been 3 dates. No need to snap at him or try explaining how his actions are making you feel.
/r/askFDS28/03/21 09:05 PM
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LMAO did we date the same person? LVM love sweeping issues under the rug because they’re too cowardly to look inwards and do the work to become better people. Their egos and self image are like a house of cards, if they attempted to fix themselves or got a glimpse of who they really are, they’ll crumble. This is why they melt down when you bring up something completely reasonable, they’re like toddlers throwing a temper tantrum when they learn that the real world has consequences for their actio…
/r/askFDS15/03/21 02:53 PM
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No, let him put in the effort.
/r/askFDS12/03/21 06:34 PM
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"But it’s not fair to leave him over who he used to be to me" Is this something you truly believe or something he's gaslit you into believing? Once a man degrades you, there's no going back. You deserve so much better.
/r/askFDS12/03/21 06:00 PM
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Yeah, little bit of a weird thing to say imo. I dated this guy for a little bit last year who said the same thing to me and he ended up having serious "commitment issues" and strung me along until I ended it. I personally would tread with caution. If there's no sign of consistency, effort, and wanting to commit from HIM within a month or two, I wouldn't continue.
/r/askFDS12/03/21 05:57 PM
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Yeah this was my feeling on it too. He is 26 and she is 25
/r/askFDS11/03/21 02:58 AM
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I will share an experience I had once in my pre-FDS days. I matched with a guy on OLD and he seemed very sweet and genuine, and I ended up going on a date with him. After the first date, he would do exactly what you said and obsessively text even when I hadn't even replied. This turned me off to the point I didn't even want a second date with him, and I tried ghosting him. After a few unanswered texts over the course of the week, he told me he had a great time with me on the first date and wante…
/r/askFDS03/03/21 03:37 AM
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He may or may not be an HVM, but he’s not YOUR HVM. I’ve been pursued by men who were seemingly HVM, but I just wasn’t into them. I let them go so they could find someone who loved every part of them! You’re not obligated to date someone just because they’re a good person.
/r/askFDS26/02/21 09:34 PM
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Wow, it makes so much sense when you put it that way! If anything, I'm glad I had this experience so I know what to look out for and never get manipulated like this again. And yes my current BF is amazing so far. It's only been 6 months with him so still cautious about calling him HVM, but only seen HV traits so far! He'll never speak badly on a woman's name and actively refuses to say shitty things about other women.
/r/askFDS25/02/21 06:58 PM
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Thanks so much, you're so right
/r/askFDS25/02/21 06:48 PM
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Even for college relationships? They dated from freshman year to senior year.
/r/askFDS25/02/21 06:48 PM
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He's my age so 24, will be 25 this year. Yeah this was during some of my prime pick me days right before I found FDS, I tried to be the "chill girl" around him and "go with the flow" 🤮 I don't know if this contributed to his behavior too but he was also a virgin and I know he was really insecure about the fact that he never had sex and how his first girlfriend was always too scared to in college. He kinda told me what I wanted to hear and was like "I think it'll be nice if we both lose our virgi…
/r/askFDS25/02/21 06:47 PM
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Also another thing he would do is if I had a problem with a friend or upset with something a friend did, he was always quick to start hating that person and talk shit about them I used to think that was a loyalty thing but that’s a red flag too right? My current boyfriend is more logical about it when I get upset about random things having to do w my friends and doesn’t immediately jump to shit on the other person, he instead helps me figure out how I want to approach it and what I can do to fee…
/r/askFDS25/02/21 06:32 PM
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Yeah ur right. I remember when we had our little thing 🤮he would shit on the other women he’d gone on dates with off apps, tell me how gross their vaginas were or how he ghosted them. I just can’t believe I fell for his manipulation for as long as I did
/r/askFDS25/02/21 06:29 PM
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Yeah you’re probably right. That’s why I know I can’t really say anything against him because everyone thinks he’s such a great guy and I thought so too for the longest time :/ and he’s definitely telling his friends bad things about me because they removed me from social media after he threw me away. I can’t even imagine how he possibly twisted the situation to make me seem like I did something to him, but I could probably guess based on what he said about the women he’s talked shit to me about…
/r/askFDS25/02/21 06:15 PM
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That’s true. I remember even after 4 years he’d avoid the topic of marriage with her
/r/askFDS25/02/21 06:11 PM
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Well he dated his first gf for 4 years and is coming up on 1 year with the new one
/r/askFDS25/02/21 05:59 PM
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Of course he did! That's what LVM do. A normal healthy guy will take the time to get to know you and let the love develop over time instead of rushing into making such grandiose promises in the beginning. This guy told you all the right things because he knows that it's what you want to hear. Words mean nothing if there are no actions to back them up. Actions over words, girl. I dated an LVM in 2019 who did this exact kind of stuff. Didn't even question it when he had some random girl's shirt in…
/r/askFDS23/02/21 05:12 PM
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Look up love bombing. LVM love making false promises at the beginning of relationships to hook you in so that you make excuses for their scrote behavior later on.
/r/askFDS23/02/21 05:04 PM
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Girl what? He's trash. Leave him, block and delete. He claims they are plantonic and I have nothing to worry - something sounds wrong but I trust him as one should I a relationship, and he goes. Trust your gut. He doesn't text me the ENTIRE night, returns the following day from the desert, pretending to be normal about the entire thing. Why do you think he didn't text you the whole night? He was cheating. says his only mistake was not keeping in touch, and that everything else I'm feeling is my …
/r/askFDS23/02/21 05:02 PM
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Yes, she’s putting her hurt ego over your friendship and using your emergency/pain to prove some point. I am in the same boat as her where I get anxious when I haven’t heard from a friend in a while and tend to create false narratives in my head, but I cannot imagine ever putting those thoughts over my friends if they needed me to be there for them. There is a certain time and place to air your grievances, and this situation is not it. You know how much she values you now.
/r/askFDS22/02/21 03:05 PM
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That makes sense! Thank you so much.
/r/askFDS22/02/21 12:15 AM
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I was talking to a NVM last year like this. I was really attached to how “honest” he was about everything, but then I realized he was using that honesty as a manipulation tactic to avoid every taking accountability for anything. When he’d ask me for nudes? He’d be sooo “honest and vulnerable” about how comfortable he was around me and some of his mental health struggles. When he’d ghost me for days/weeks at a time and then come back? He’d be sooo honest and vulnerable about his trust issues and …
/r/askFDS09/02/21 04:05 PM
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I live by that quote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:18 PM
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Agreed - I tried to be that girl too for a couple years in college and it came at a cost to my happiness as well. And that's a good point, we as women are pretty much torn down for anything we do so might as well just be ourselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:10 PM
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You are so strong, I'm sorry all of that happened to you. Sending love your way, you deserve so much. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:32 PM
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I needed to read this, thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:44 AM
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I'm in software engineering and every man I've dated in my field has been LV/NV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:18 PM
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I feel the same way! I've never been able to fully express all facets of myself or been comfortable being flawed around LVMs from the past. I always felt like I needed to be perfect and do everything correctly, otherwise they'd get pissed off or I'd lose them (sigh, my pick me days). Now that I'm with someone who lets me be myself completely (including the good and the bad) it's a bit of an adjustment where I feel like I'm difficult when I'm not feeling 100%. But your mindset shift is what I'm a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 05:20 PM
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Exactly!! This is something I'm actively trying to learn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 05:10 PM
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Lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:55 PM
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I used to be like this too. I forgave so easily because I would always see the other person’s side and try and understand why they did what they did. You need to stop being understanding when they don’t deserve it. I don’t know how your relationship is with yourself, but you need to treat yourself the way you treat those closest to you. Whenever people do my friends wrong, I get so upset for them. Once I started loving myself in the same way, the easier I found it to not forgive the people who d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 10:22 PM
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Is this my ex’s profile? LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:03 PM
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LMFAOOO this made me laugh 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:27 AM
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This girl is definitely not your friend, you should drop her. You "absolutely love her" but I guarantee she would throw you under the bus and turn her back on you if it meant getting male "approval" and validation. Not to mention her being a sexual assault apologist?? Girls like this are dangerous because they end up being mothers to children that they would pick their man over every single time. I've been friends with girls like this before. Trust me, they don't care about you. There's a differ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:47 PM
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Oh for sure. I was talking to this dude earlier this year and he sorta pressed me for nudes (my pre-FDS days were a train wreck.. how did I not block right after he asked for this?) and he called me on the phone to explain why he wanted them so I stupidly explained my trauma to him about how guys have pressured me into sexual things too early in the past and then left and how that's really hurt me. He said he understood but the two months after that he kept being pushy about sexual things.. look…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 12:58 AM
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Completely agree. This is something I've been thinking about lately too. I always used to want that relationship where we texted every minute throughout the day and till late at night but I've realized that's impossible when you have a life and hobbies outside of the other person. Out of curiosity what is your preferred texting style when in a relationship? For me, if I'm not living with my partner, I still do prefer texting "throughout the day" but more sporadically and having it not be a big d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:28 AM
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My NVM ex had "Hallmark of a good relationship is... being able to communicate" in his dating app profile. I'm just going to let you take a wild guess about what this man was incapable of doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 09:21 PM
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I was attracted to the things he would do when he was love bombing me such as bringing me flowers and gifts, complimenting me all the time, telling me all the things I wanted to hear. This was also the first time a guy had done those things for me so I think that was part of the reason I fell for it so easily. Never again. Now if a guy comes in hot with that stuff I don't even entertain it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 09:19 PM
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I have an Instagram to follow few close girlfriends and keep up with them. I have my regular one deactivated. Besides that I just have reddit and Twitter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:39 PM
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I was thinking of your post when I read this one!! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 10:00 PM
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My first post when I found this subreddit was asking for advice about an NVM who basically breadcrumbed me, constantly flaked on me, and treated me like shit in general. We weren't even official because he "needed time" before putting a label on anything. He didn't need time though to immediately get sexual and constantly ask me for nudes. That was only a few months ago too. Proud of myself for the growth and things I've learned since then, and proud of you too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:23 AM
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Omg one of the most underrated bands!! I love Sleeping at last
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 10:47 PM
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Perfectly describes my NVM ex LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:37 PM
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HAHA I love this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:13 PM
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LOOOOL 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:58 PM
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Thank you all for your comments! I've unfollowed & blocked him - I know that's what my future self would want for me and I know not knowing what he's up to will be better for me overall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:43 PM
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Haha you're lucky you even got a honeymoon phase, this guy I dated showed his colors within the first 2-3 weeks and it was all downhill from there😂 Thank you so much, I have been thinking of going back to therapy, I think it will be very beneficial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:27 PM
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Lol my pick me friend sent this to me the other day and I just ignored her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:09 AM
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You put it into words! I agree with OP that she follows FDS in the sense that she has high standards and is unapologetic about it, but she needs a lot of work on how her personality can come across to others. I don't think that's necessarily something she needs to change to "get a man" (women don't need to change themselves solely for the sake of pleasing men), but like you said, needs to change to become a HVW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:59 PM
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That’s so weird.. wouldn’t surprise me if this is actually the guy posting except from the girls perspective
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:15 PM
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My LVM ex loved to do this. He didn’t like any of them and would talk badly about them. Once, some of them made a group chat to plan a surprise party for me and added him in and he ruined the surprise for me by telling me about it and saying he’s not responding to them because he said they don’t care about me. Lol what??? Thank god that relationship ended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:47 PM
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I have a friend like this. Whenever her boyfriend is out of town or on vacation, she suddenly remembers my existence and wants to hang out. Glad you finally came to the realization and slow faded your friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:55 PM
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That sounds so nice. I'm really glad you chose yourself and finally cut that energy out of your life! Of course it hurts because this is someone you genuinely cared about and loved, but people like this are so draining especially because we do not receive the same energy that we give them. I totally relate about running to the phone to help her every whim - I am literally always at my phone in .03 seconds whenever this girl is upset or crying or wants to vent and spend so much time and effort wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:50 PM
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Holy shit you just described my friend. Whenever I message her about something not man-related, she will leave me on read for hours until she conveniently also has something to vent about or wants to complain about men. I'm starting to realize the girls I'm friends with like this definitely do not actually have any respect for me or care for me in the way that I do for them. I'm just there to care for all their needs and put to the side when they don't find any use for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:04 AM
2

Love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:37 AM
15

Ugh I wish there was a way to know if that girl is okay :( I'm hoping to god she dumped this abusive piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:34 PM
24

It was in /r/confession https://www.reddit.com/r/confession/comments/8whvh0/my_girlfriend_wouldnt_have_sex_with_me_so_i_made/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:33 PM
27

This conversation made me lose brain cells
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:30 PM
30

Why would he write this caption. It’s sus that he would even allude to his ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:08 PM
1

My LVM ex said this to me. He would constantly say he wants to know everything about me, but wouldn’t put any effort into going beyond surface level conversation. I would open up to him about stuff and he’d never ask questions about it or seem interested in wanting to know more. He would either brush me off or tell me he wants to know everything about me one day and leave it at that. I think some men just say things because it sounds nice. I don’t say that to make you feel bad, it’s entirely pos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:03 AM
8

Yes. My life flourishes without men in it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:13 PM
7

Yes I'm down!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:37 PM
4

Hahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 04:39 PM
25

Ok i will try that! I’m creeped out/uncomfortable with it too but I always though that it was an issue with me since kissing on the first/second date is made to be a very normal thing in OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 04:26 PM
29

Amazing advice. I wish I could’ve read this 4 months ago when a guy i was dating/talking to off OLD was trying to convince me to send him nudes. My pre-FDS days were truly something else...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:53 AM
1

LMAO yes. Direct quote from her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:11 PM
8

When he came up close to my face and noticed that I grow some hair on it, he said "Are you participating in no shave november?". One of my biggest insecurities to this day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:24 PM
13

So true! Every time I've let a trash LVM/NVM go, my life has improved tenfold
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:22 PM
8

Every sentence just gets worse than the previous one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:21 PM
8

Omg in my hinge profile I have "Don't hate me if I... pour the milk in before the cereal" and I get so many men asking what's wrong with me and taking the opportunity to call me a psychopath the first message they send me. Idk if i'm being dramatic but it always kind of rubbed me the wrong way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:52 PM
4

I can help!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 06:23 PM
8

Yes that's a very good point. I'm also remembering that he mentioned that I'm not like other girls and that he talked to me because I "seemed chill" since I use "yo" and "bruh" and language like that when I text. Which makes me wonder if he's just looking for a woman to take all his shit. On a side note I didn't know too much about negging until I read some more posts on this sub to try and understand and wow.. I just realized I was constantly being negged in my relationship with an LVM last yea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:53 PM
7

Very true. If he reaches out again, should I tell him that what he said wasn't okay and then end it? Or should I just plain ghost?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:30 PM
2

I've been getting into make up a lot more this year - I like to use it to enhance my features and bc it's fun and makes me feel pretty. I went make up free for pretty much the first 23 years of my life and would only do it for special occasions, so I am pretty comfortable going natural if I'm ever too lazy to do it. For an every day look I like to do a subtle brown wing, accentuate cheekbones with some light contour and highlight, and put on some lip gloss but that's pretty much all I'll do. For…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 01:31 AM
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