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| 1 | How do you internalize narcissistism, masculinity and project an aura of self respect?I have a workout buddy that's taken me under his wing (he's smashed a shit ton of women and is alpha as fuck). He tells me to be more of an asshole, more assertive and how to talk down to women, but my main problem is that I'm afraid of the consequences. (E.g, if I gripe a woman after talking to her for 5 minute, what if a beta douche bag comes up to me to start something? What if I say something borderline offensive and Piss off some people?? | /r/askTRP | 14/12/16 02:50 AM |
| 1 | How do you internalize narcissistism, masculinity and project an aura of self respect?He passed away when I was young. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/16 12:24 AM |
| 1 | "I have a boyfriend" – my prescription for handling this.I've had a ton of success with: "I don't care" and also, "what a lucky guy and what a shame" | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/15 09:58 PM |
| 1 | You are better then every girlSo do what you can to instill in yourself the deep belief that you are better then every girl. Easier said than done. How did you internalize this belief? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/15 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Hitting on girls over Facebook?Pick up over fb works if she is into you. It's really unlikely to get her to be attracted to you just by text. Haven't met her before, and I can't really see her in her pro pic, but she looks hot, and I've always wanted to chill/ hang out with someone from France, so even if it just turns into a chat, I wouldn't be pissed. Would this message work: Bonjour (girls name), I hope the US is treating you well! I saw your post on X group, and I wanted to chat with you, if that doesn't sound weird. I've… | /r/askTRP | 01/09/15 02:01 AM |
| 1 | What to do when your mind is fucking with you?Nice! I'm curious, did you have the same/ similar symptoms as I have? Did you have anxiety or anxiety attacks? I think I might have low testosterone because lately I find it hard to be assertive. I've been eat less fats and cholesterol too - they make roughly 25% of my diet. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/15 09:15 PM |
| 1 | What to do when your mind is fucking with you?First of all, thank you so much, I would be forever grateful if you took a look at them. I was supposed to get blood works this morning, but I had a really bad panic attack, and couldn't calm myself and I just went home. Just as an FYI, I have a history with anxiety attacks and so does my family. I used to have them really bad in high school, but they went away naturally when i started college. Last year in December I had them come back, but I got on some anti-depressants for 2 months and they w… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/15 07:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle non-verbal disrespect?Call that shit, whenever a girl is rude to me right off the bat, I just call her out, without coming off as butt hurt, maybe making fun a little bit. Remember, you recognize the rudeness but you are not affected by it, because you don't need that girl, you just want her. What exactly would you have said to that girl? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/15 02:03 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle non-verbal disrespect?I do not like that. This often comes off as being sulked and like trying to force people to respect you. Respect, like attraction, is not negotiable. It's either there, or not. I cannot agree with you more. What can I do to improve my frame? I meditate 20 minutes a day, what else can I do? From your self-description and your examlpe given, I'd guess that you most likely just have issues with your self-confidence. That is pretty accurate. I have been pretty beta all my life, and I've had people p… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/15 02:00 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle non-verbal disrespect?You made a needy low status gesture, what did you expect? How does approaching a girl make me low status? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/15 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Was she interested in me?This is my opinion, but I don't think huge legs are attractive. My quads are currently 23 inches and I think I'd make me look unattractive if I went bigger. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/15 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Was she interested in me?I've been lifting for about a year this August. I wasn't on a routine, but in January, I got on Layne Norton's PHAT workout routing (supplemented with sprints/swimming three times a week), and my gains have significantly increased. At the moment, I bench 185lb, squat 250lb (I don't want my legs to get bigger so I don't plan on increasing that), deadlift 250, back row 225, and I am gaining strength every week. I am increasing my weight by about 5 lb every week. I am at about 12-14% body fat, but … | /r/askTRP | 06/07/15 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Was she interested in me?Abundance mentality. You walk away from these girls, not try to fix things. More women will be along soon. BTW, reacting badly at a rejection is impossible to come back from. Thanks, I should have walked away from the start. Embarrassed for you, not for her. That air was never meant to be cleared. True. She was trying to be nice. Only a total bitch would let it go silent and make you endure that. At least she wasn't a total bitch... Tl;dr: go into monk mode and start lifting. Thanks, I needed th… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/15 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Was she interested in me?Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 06/07/15 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Was she interested in me?Feedback plz! | /r/askTRP | 06/07/15 12:50 AM |
| 1 | God Mode in Social Interactionsalongside mindfulness meditation (a great way to start is looking up The Body Scan Meditation by Jon Kabat-Zinn). This form of meditation is what I see as complete practice and living moment to moment is the actual action deriving from it. How long and how often do you meditate? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/15 04:21 AM |
| 1 | When and how do you use the power gaze?How do you get to that point where you genuinely know you're better than everyone? What kind of meditation do you suggest? | /r/askTRP | 02/06/15 10:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR] cut my losses and nexted her, but what can I do better next time?Yeah, I cringed a few minutes after I sent it... But, it was too late. Oh, well. I doubt she even has a BF. Me too, but the strangest thing just happened. The guy that she told me was her boyfriend just invited me to a party he's throwing this weekend. its gonna be small, less than 20 people are going - mostly his frat buddies and some girls (including the girl I mentioned in this post) , I don't even really know him or why he wants me to go. Should I go? Or does he have ulterior motives? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 08:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] cut my losses and nexted her, but what can I do better next time?You may get a second chance with her but it's unlikely. You'll have to see what kind of signals she gives you. I'm not getting a second chance, but that's fine and I can live with it. I ran into her today at the library. Theres a long aisle, I was walking in and she was walking out. She saw me and did made a dirty face and just looked at the wall (to not look at me) and kept walking. I just made a turn and pretended not to see her to not make eye contact or talk to her... | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 06:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR] cut my losses and nexted her, but what can I do better next time?Which text, lol? The first one? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 05:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] cut my losses and nexted her, but what can I do better next time?Thanks. At least I learned something, which is what really matters. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 01:27 AM |
| 0 | [FR] cut my losses and nexted her, but what can I do better next time?Thanks, I appreciate the advice. At least I learned something, which is what really matters. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 01:26 AM |
| 1 | [FR] cut my losses and nexted her, but what can I do better next time?if indeed she's seeing someone else, sometimes they will just say that She is, and she didn't tell him that we hung out... and she tells the guy everything because he's a jealous douche that calls her literally every 20 minutes... You killed any chance you had to bang her in the future by being rude. "Call me when you realize how much he sucks compared to me" comes off as whiny or butt hurt not something that shows outcome independence or an abundance mentality. I wasn't butt hurt, but I only sa… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 01:23 AM |
| 2 | [FR] cut my losses and nexted her, but what can I do better next time?Who nexted who is irrelevant. He's just asking for advice.. Thanks! I think she was either going to fuck you or was just trying to recruit a orbiter. Probably orbiter because she was interested in me when we first meet up, and she kinoed me a lot and was playing with her hair, but towards the end she seemed like she was not interested and she ended it early. I was surprised when she texted me that she had a lot of fun and wanted to hang out again. After she said she was dating someone that's whe… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 01:19 AM |
| 2 | [FR] cut my losses and nexted her, but what can I do better next time?Thanks for pointing that out. Can you please give me feedback on how to improve and how I couldve been red pill? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 01:11 AM |
| 1 | [FR] cut my losses and nexted her, but what can I do better next time?I titled it wrong, I meant to say that in saving face/ cutting my losses... I'm foriegn. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Funny vs asshole? Who gets laid more?I combine both, neither individually works for me. I'm tall and muscular and it may be expected because of my 8.5-9+ looks objectively from a female scale. Because this is TRP, I'm gonna be real with you: if you're jack and tall, and a 8.5-9, I don't think your personality matters, at all! I know a few tall (decently) jacked guys that come from rich familys and have been pampered all their lives, they literally have no confidence whatsoever and don't ever approach girls (they seem like nerds), y… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/15 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Should I buy a new brand new Mercedes Benz, or should I do something else with that $$?I never heard of That forum. Im gonna check it out. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/15 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Should I buy a new brand new Mercedes Benz, or should I do something else with that $$?I live at home with my parents and I don't plan on moving out for a while ... | /r/askTRP | 17/04/15 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Good friend is dating an entitled slut... Should I tell him?He actually lifts. He's shredded... He just sucks with women... | /r/askTRP | 07/04/15 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Quick- The first test of the day: She wants a rain check on our first date. How do I avoid coming off too beta but still amiable?"No worries!" | /r/askTRP | 07/04/15 12:10 AM |
| 0 | Why do guys talk so much shit about other alpha guys?I meant about alpha guys, they'll usually say something like: "he's a douche". But, that's as far as they'll go for the most part from my experience. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/15 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Few Fitness QuestionsWhat does your split look like? | /r/askTRP | 23/03/15 09:06 PM |
| -1 | So how does trp deal with being sick?Haha, this is hilarious. Red Pill alphas don't get sick. If you get sick, you aren't alpha. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/15 09:25 PM |
| 8 | Continue improving yourself but let go of the idea that the hot girls who passed you up are going to suffer.You shouldn't go along life expecting girls to tell you that they regret rejecting you because that is never gonna happen. And, if it does, you're most likely not gonna care. This specific girl that rejected me in high school, and I ran into her like 3 years after graduation, so she wasn't post wall, but I have worked on improving myself, so I was now out of her league. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/15 09:19 PM |
| 21 | Continue improving yourself but let go of the idea that the hot girls who passed you up are going to suffer.Not only is wishing ill on others bad for you, but in this situation, it likely won't happen. and lot of these girls will retain their looks because they actually do care for their appearance, many of them shop at Whole Foods stores (because they come from rich families) and if needed, they can get surgeries to keep their looks. Now once they hit 30, they won't stress out that much about finding a man because they will still have their options. For every guy decides these girls are sluts unworth… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/15 09:01 PM |
| 4 | How do I deal with my sister-in-law flirting with me?Don't call her out on it. That just shows that you don't understand how social interactions work and she's has plausibily Deniability. You he should test the waters, and see how far she's willing to go. If she wants to cheat, she was gonna cheat on his brother with another dude, so no loss and shes already emotionally checked out, so you can't salvage that relationship anyways. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/15 07:21 PM |
| 2 | When you "alpha up", you just can't be an orbiter anymore.The exact samething happens to me very often, and I don't know what to think about either... Sometimes they'll look at me a few times too | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Being a gentlemen on dates?Not to sound like a self-righteous douchebag, I think it might have been because I'm looked good and was dressed really well. If I hadn't showered and was wearing cheap clothes, I would've came off as a beta orbiter. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/15 07:44 PM |
| 5 | Being a gentlemen on dates?I had to leave early because I had a family emergency come up... But she started kinoing me and put her hand on my thigh | /r/askTRP | 28/02/15 06:34 PM |
| 8 | Being a gentlemen on dates?We split it | /r/askTRP | 28/02/15 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Being a gentlemen on dates?We're both 20 years old. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/15 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Few last minute date question?Would it be that bad? I really want to eat there today, lol but I don't want to set myself up as a beta bucks, so I refuse to pay for her. If it bad to ask her to split the bill, or should I just get chipotle. I can't cancel on her now, it's too late. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/15 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Few last minute date question?Get laid. Probably in a hotel. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/15 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Few last minute date question?My mom would kill me. That's not an option. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/15 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Few last minute date question?We both live at home, so I can't invite her over. What can I do? | /r/askTRP | 26/02/15 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Few last minute date question?First date was like three hours, and we talked a lot. I made the convo sexual a few times like you said and we ended it with a short kiss. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/15 02:38 PM |
| 15 | Running game in wealthier and more affluent areas.Every other fucker is getting ignored. Billionaire boys might get a look in for political reasons, but that's not real attraction, it's family business and incredibly overpriced pussy. Not true. I went to an elite, private high school and I can tell you that rich guys are alpha and asshole as fuck. They're more dark triad, cynical, and manipulative than any other people I have ever met. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 11:40 PM |
| 0 | Why are girls really nice to you after they reject you?doesn't want there to be any more reasons for you to think she's a bitch. Since when do girls care if you think their bitches? | /r/askTRP | 17/02/15 05:34 AM |
| 3 | Don't be a slaveWhat's your call to action? I genuinely didn't get it. If working our asses off to make good money and have nice things are pointless, what are you suggesting we do? (Serious inquiry) | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/15 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Why are girls really nice to you after they reject you?they are making fun of you, machiavellian 101. This is very likely, even though they're really good at covering it up, but I can't fathom why. Validation? | /r/askTRP | 17/02/15 02:14 AM |
| 9 | Why are girls really nice to you after they reject you?Curious | /r/askTRP | 17/02/15 02:12 AM |
| 1 | What's a non-nasty way of turning down a girl as a Facebook friend?Do I text my last name and ignore the request or just ignore the message? | /r/askTRP | 13/02/15 11:37 PM |
| 1 | What's a non-nasty way of turning down a girl as a Facebook friend?She already knows I have one... | /r/askTRP | 13/02/15 11:03 PM |
| 1 | How many of the times do you get 2nd dates on tinder?I'm 5'10 almost 5'11. I wish I was taller, but I don't think that is the reason I am being rejected. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/15 05:12 AM |
| 3 | How many of the times do you get 2nd dates on tinder?Last week, I met up with a girl from tinder for coffee. I got there first, and when I saw her I went up to her, and asked her if she wanted something. She didn't really say anything, but I just ordered her what I ordered, and paid for it. We sat down, and talked. I noticed that she was playing with her hair a lot and playing with her necklace. The conversation was a bit more serious than funny, which might have been bad. We talked about our majors and what we want to do in life and our families … | /r/askTRP | 12/02/15 05:20 PM |
| 1 | How many of the times do you get 2nd dates on tinder?Yes! | /r/askTRP | 12/02/15 04:48 PM |
| 2 | How many of the times do you get 2nd dates on tinder?I usually don't fuck them on first dates because of the logistics, I'm gonna have to work on the, But, I always get a kiss, sometimes a make out too. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/15 04:47 PM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong on dates?Teach me how to become an asshole. Every girl I known is literally dating a manipulative asshole. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/15 05:55 PM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong on dates?First of, thanks a bunch, I really appreciate this advice! Then stop worrying about their hopes and dreams. Appeal to their sensual, playful, and excitable side. THey want to feel passion and danger and excitement first. I challenge you to spend your next first date seeing how often you can make her laugh, and see if you can make her feel a little off balance. See if making her uncomfortable actually gets you that second date. So, what should I talk about? Should I talk about their hobbies and j… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/15 02:12 AM |
| 2 | What am I doing wrong on dates?Embrace it and you'll get what you want. I rarely get 2nd dates and it has never worked out on the first date for me before. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/15 02:08 AM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong on dates?They're rejecting you because you represent commitment, you represent a guy they could very much see themselves serious with. Is this subconscious? The fact of the matter is that you're being too nice, charming, serious up front. I easily make lady friends and friends in general, and can talk to anyone. I don't even get nervous on dates or talking to hot chicks. "what do you want from these women?" I want to have sex with them asap and casually see them again, and possibly casually date them - I… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/15 01:52 AM |
| 2 | What am I doing wrong on dates?I am. I find it hard to be an asshole, especially to a stranger... | /r/askTRP | 09/02/15 01:40 AM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong on dates?I keep my first dates to ~1 hour and I keep it really light. I'm gonna work on this. Most of my dates are about 3 hours long. I do some early frame announcement - "I don't like the idea of marriage, I'm not looking for anything too serious" and I do escalate the kino but very gently. Leg pressing on leg under the table, pushing them. I'm gonna have to do this. I don't handhold, and I don't kiss on the first date unless we're at my place or their's. Why not? Sounds like you've got the pull - the … | /r/askTRP | 09/02/15 01:40 AM |
| 0 | What am I doing wrong on dates?It's vaguely related to friendzone, except that you're attractive. I am attractive, and I get texts from them after the date praising me for how awesome I am, and how they really want to see me again. But, they flake on me or reject me, and I rarely get the other date. You're getting the "wow he's a great guy" treatment. What's the cure? FYI, I really am a great/nice guy and I don't think I can be an asshole. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/15 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Shot down for Date 2. Now what?Escalate through the first date and it either ends with a kiss or no second date. Women respect the bold and forget the timid Does ending a first date on a kiss really have an impact? Is it less likely she will flake on you for a second date? | /r/askTRP | 08/02/15 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Reflection - be genuine and have funBelieve me, I know and I have paid the price. If there's one thing women don't forgive, it's bad game. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Reflection - be genuine and have funNot necessarilly, I know tons of thin, naturally well proportioned guys that don't lift and do well, if not better, than some jacked guys. You guys need to understand that looks will only open doors and take you so far but you're personality, game and charisma gets you through the door. But, lifting has made me way more confident and I get more attention and respect from both sexes now. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 12:36 AM |
| 1 | [FR] she told me she has a boyfriend after we went outI thought so, but then u read /u/tombreck2 post. She had her chance and blew it. She left when I started doing kino and she didn't return any. And she already friend zoned me because she said that she had a boyfriend but still wanted to hang out. Plus her boyfriend is a total asshole, he makes me look like Ned Flanders. I doubt it and I'm not even gonna bother, unless she calls or texts me first. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 08:51 AM |
| 1 | I'm not getting girls to get feelings for me on datesSecond, there's a GOOD chance that these girls don't even see your meet up as a date. Especially if you asked them vaguely if they wanted to get coffee or something along those lines. Now, there isn't anything wrong with that, and it should actually be infered that if a girl and guy are meeting up for coffee alone it should be considered a date. But there are girls who are still oblivious to this and think that you want to just get coffee and talk as friends (which is fucking stupid). I've had t… | /r/seduction | 03/02/15 08:09 AM |
| 1 | [FR] she told me she has a boyfriend after we went outNo, if you want her, your line is "drop your loser bf because now you are my gf". Why? Women avoid moral blame like vampires avoid holy water. I told her to call me when she finds out her current boyfriend sucks compared to me. She messaged me back saying that that was rude, and then later said that she still wanted to hang out with me. IDK man, she could be playing games to swing branches or maybe she was trying to make me her beta orbitor. Judging by the fact that she didn't make any moves on … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 12:20 AM |
| 1 | How to make women get tingles on dates?Tease them. Whatever their response is, make fun of them/it somehow, in a playful way.Talking with girls is different than talking to men. Talking to men is to exchange information/ideas - talking with girls is not. That is so true. I used to have 3 women friends last year, but they graduated/moved/study abroad, so right now I don't have any chick friends. When I used to have girl friends, I felt that it was easier to talk to any girl. Even girls in my classes would randomly ask me out. But now … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 10:10 PM |
| 1 | I'm not getting girls to get feelings for me on datesWhat does that mean? | /r/seduction | 02/02/15 08:57 PM |
| 1 | [FR] she told me she has a boyfriend after we went outI'm biased here, but I don't think she's not interested. I asked her on a date (I explicitly called it a date), and she told me that she had a boyfriend, but still wanted to hang out. It seemed to me that she only said that she had a boyfriend so that she wouldn't feel guilty cheating on him. Plus, after the date she texted me saying that she had a lot of fun, and offered a suggestion on what to do next time. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 04:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] she told me she has a boyfriend after we went outThis is probably right. Is there anything I can do then or should I just cut my losses and not do anything when I run into her? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 04:09 PM |
| 1 | [FR] she told me she has a boyfriend after we went outDon't get me wrong, I appreciate your advice and that I should hug and kino her if I see her, but I'm not sure if saying things along the lines of "I can't stop thinking about you" Doesn't that come off as needy? Brad Pitt wouldn't say that to a girl he went out with one time. He probably wouldn't even remember her name. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 06:47 AM |
| 1 | [FR] she told me she has a boyfriend after we went outI sort of soft nexted her already. How do I get back in touch? Message her (probably make a bit of small talk first to see if she respond, and then ask her out) or just wait into I run into her? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 05:56 AM |
| -1 | [FR] she told me she has a boyfriend after we went outWhen We went out, I did some heavy kino and she was ok with it. I tried to kiss her but that's when she said she had to go. I called it a date because I didn't know she was taken and I wanted to polarize her, What else was I supposed to do? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 02:33 AM |
| 0 | [FR] she told me she has a boyfriend after we went outWhen We went out, I did some heavy kino and she was ok with it. I tried to kiss her but that's when she said she had to go. I called it a date because I didn't know she was taken and I wanted to polarize her, What else was I supposed to do? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 01:44 AM |
| -1 | [FR] she told me she has a boyfriend after we went outCan't I recover? this happened over text. I'm sure that if I messaged her or ran into her I can get a date out and escalate. She told me that she still wanted to hang though | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 01:15 AM |
| 1 | [FR] she told me she has a boyfriend after we went outShe just mentioned that she had a boyfriend and then said that she still wanted to hang. It sounds to me like maybe she was branching swings, and not shit testing me. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Focus on you first. And second. And third. And...blah blah...Worry about women seventh.Would you support shoe lifts? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/14 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Beta gets the girl, not the alpha?Thanks, I don't really depict those tenets in person though - I only said that and exaggerated it here to make a point. I guess the moral of the story here is that genuinety trumps game. | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Beta gets the girl, not the alpha?You're a troll | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Beta gets the girl, not the alpha?I'm not. | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Beta gets the girl, not the alpha?That might be a possibility, but the point of that was that they're always doing stupid shit too like drunk dialing their exes or asking girls for boob pics... | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 06:56 PM |
| -1 | Beta gets the girl, not the alpha?When did I claim that? Plus I got an 800 on the SAT writting section and a 12 on the essay. Go fuck yourself. | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 06:53 PM |
| 0 | Beta gets the girl, not the alpha?Shitty personality? Can you please elaborate, I genuinely want to know because I'm here to improve myself and become a better person, so I really want to hear the constructive criticism. And not someone just saying I have a shitty personality. | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Beta gets the girl, not the alpha?You might be trying too hard to come off as "cold" and look uninterested. Other people here have pointed this out too and that I might also come off as a "try-hard", so I'm going to work on being more genuine during my interactions, thanks a bunch dude! And also, I don't think they're weird, just normal college student girls, so I think it might actually be me... | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Beta gets the girl, not the alpha?Thanks dude, I'll keep on keeping on! | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Beta gets the girl, not the alpha?Someone also pointed this out earlier to me too, I'm going to start working on kino then, thanks! | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 02:44 AM |
| -3 | Beta gets the girl, not the alpha?Well your whole idea of being "alpha" sounds pretty immature How do you think I define alpha? To me alpha is about having a strong frame that cannot be broken. If someone starts talking shit to you to your face, you don't even flinch or are bothered by it. Alphaness is about making your intentions clear that you want to date the girl, not being wishy washy. My friends play the stupidest games ever — if a girl doesn't respond right away they will make her wait, and don't even get me started on ma… | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 02:41 AM |
| -6 | Beta gets the girl, not the alpha?I appreciate the constructive criticism, but I don't think I come off as a judgmental douche in person. I do however "try so hard" in that I take Seddit like the bible of seduction, and I shouldn't because everyone is different and what works for one person probably won't work for everyone. Thanks, I'll work on that! | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 02:31 AM |
| 9 | Beta gets the girl, not the alpha?The #1 reason why men get friend zoned is because they aren't physical with women, a light shoulder tap when you meet her, than escalate from there would increase your success substantially. That is so true, and I am really bad at kino, so I'm going to start working on that. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 02:25 AM |
| -3 | Beta gets the girl, not the alpha?Honey Bun. It's on the side bar. | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 01:29 AM |
| 4 | Beta gets the girl, not the alpha?What do you mean? | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 01:28 AM |
| 1 | How I ask girls outSending this: "Hey [girl's name], I want to take you on a date. I'm going to X place next Friday at Y Time, do you want to come with me?" How's this? | /r/seduction | 20/03/14 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever a good idea to get in touch with girls whom you used to date (as an beta, but know you can close now)?I do have oneitis, I've gone on dates with a few other girls, but none of them stack up. When I read your post, I related to you in many ways. I felt that her interest in me was very passionate and she was my first straight-up rejection. I've thought about her daily, and dream of her at least once a week. | /r/seduction | 13/02/14 06:24 AM |
| 1 | "I don't think our intentions/emotions are in sync" text after a few datesIf I say something along the line of "you're more interested in me than I am in you -- I don't know what I'm even looking for" obvious not that but something along those lines, can I get her to come back if she was interested in me at one point | /r/seduction | 10/02/14 06:31 AM |
| 1 | "I don't think our intentions/emotions are in sync" text after a few datesBut is there some way to get her to come back? | /r/seduction | 10/02/14 06:29 AM |
| -1 | "girl asked me to do her a favor"?It's not about what she'll think about me, its just that I don't like talking about my money — I'd prefer that no one finds out how much we make. My family is 'well-off,' but I don't want people to know that... | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 10:50 PM |
| 2 | "girl asked me to do her a favor"?Is that really a good idea? | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 10:01 PM |
| -2 | "girl asked me to do her a favor"?What's a good number lol? | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 10:00 PM |
| 82 | How I ask girls outYou should speak to her very professionally and/or formally, to make her think you are “feeling her out” and may not even be interested. Don't girls mirror the way you act around them? When I think of professional, I think its a bit cold, and additionally, i've read that it's idea to set the bf/gf frame | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Tested approach that has worked for meGirls are not stupid, and they know were its going. Once the conversation on the clothes went stale, they asked me what my name was and tried to carry the conversation. when the girl was with friends, she would signal her friends to leave, and I would take over the conversation. I'm about average looking, so I was surprised with the result, no girl blew me out. | /r/seduction | 19/12/13 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Tested approach that has worked for meThanks, this is very helpful! | /r/seduction | 19/12/13 07:28 PM |
| 3 | When a girl loses interest in you, what can you do to build attraction?Were you being too needy, not taking charge, being too "beta", etc. If all those were the case, how would you recover? I've been there before, and I still don't know how I could have recovered, besides moving on. | /r/seduction | 06/12/13 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Could updating you Facebook status to 'in a relationship' count as pre-selection?Good answer. | /r/seduction | 28/11/13 06:09 PM |
| 1 | How frequent should be the dates to not come needy?plan the second date during the first date, but don't call/text her much in between that time frame. | /r/seduction | 09/11/13 07:31 PM |
| 3 | How to react in front of D bagHow would you respond in the workplace? | /r/seduction | 01/11/13 04:14 AM |
| 6 | How to react in front of D bagnah, college. | /r/seduction | 01/11/13 04:14 AM |
| 1 | [FR] My first breakupIf you loved someone why would you break up with them? Nothing is ever perfect, wouldn't you guys ever make exceptions? | /r/seduction | 01/11/13 01:09 AM |
| 1 | How to handle when ex finds out you lied to her?Not sure, but there's a good chance. | /r/seduction | 13/10/13 07:41 PM |
| 1 | FR: is coming off as more confident a bad thing?hands in pocket is probably better. | /r/seduction | 10/10/13 02:18 AM |
| 1 | What does a high value facebook account look like, and how do we get it?Also, is it better to delete your facebook, if you're not too popular in college? | /r/seduction | 05/10/13 07:43 PM |
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