Does anyone here "suit up", if so how does it impact your game?

Crisis88 · 2014-05-13T06:18:21+00:00

Suiting up in groups of 4+ works damned well
Suiting up solo takes balls and a lot of game

swimminguy121 · 2014-05-13T05:26:42+00:00

I suit up sometimes as a form of peacocking. Just like with other forms of peacocking, it depends on what your surroundings are. If you're rolling in to the club with six women on your arms and you're suited up while everyone else is in jeans and polos, you better believe you're going to catch some IOIs as soon as you bust in the room.

If you wait in line by yourself for fifteen minutes, pay $30 cover and then walk into the club in a suit, you look like an amateur.

TL;DR Suits act as a display of value multiplier depending on the context

legendoflink3 · 2014-05-13T16:28:06+00:00

I never suit up to go to a club specifically. But I have shown up after a formal event with my buds all suited up. It does wonders. First time I did that one of my buds dared me to walk up to a five set. I did with no help from him and had them qualifying themselves to me for about 15 minutes. It just made every thing easy. Girls kept asking where I was coming from or why I was looking so dapper. Got numbers easily that night.

DrewCruise · 2014-05-13T17:00:20+00:00

I have done it a few times. It works well at getting more IoIs. But the same rules still apply. After you open you then have to maintain interest and be the cool guy she expects you to be. It really doesn't matter how you dress. As long as you are congruent, relaxed, and confident--then you can wear anything.

RG68 · 2014-05-13T18:28:54+00:00

Suiting up is all well and good but you have to do it right. Suits are associated with power, wealth and masculinity, so it should look effortless, like you wear it everyday. If you turn up to a bar in the badly fitting boxy suit you wore to prom 3 years ago with a cheap badly knotted tie and converse you are just going to look like an idiot who thinks throwing on any old suit makes him barney stintson.

Don't bring attention to the fact you've suited up, and make sure your body language conveys confidence.

you have to gauge whether the venue is appropriate. If you turn up to a dive bar in a £3000 suit you will look out of place. You should look better dressed than everyone but not overdressed.

The easiest way to make sure you are always better dressed than everyone else is to rebuild your wardrobe from the ground up with a small selection of classic, subtle pieces that all complement each other.

Head over to /r/mfa there is some solid advice there if you haven't already checked it out. Check out the top rated posts. You will notice nothing looks flashy , but regardless they look immaculate. That is the image you want to convey.

omnidirectional · 2014-05-13T14:05:37+00:00

Only once fresh out of college I wore a suit to a party when everyone else was casual and:

It was the only night I ever danced with 3 girls simultaneously
I had my first one-night stand

Draw your own conclusions.

__JeRM · 2014-05-13T12:17:23+00:00

Look Good = Feel Good Feel Good = Look Good

jcjavo · 2014-05-13T16:13:00+00:00

Sometimes, it definitely just improves your overall confidence. Depending on the type of person you are approaching though it 'an have a huge backlash

lord_of_vader · 2014-05-13T18:38:45+00:00

Fuck no. I wear a suit every day. Weekends I dress down.

watermelonpickle · 2014-05-13T20:08:16+00:00

This is absolutely context specific. This depends on where you are going out to, what area you live in, whether it's a college town or not, etc.

My friends and I have tried it and it was met with hostility, so we stopped. This part of the country is a place where business casual means jeans and a plain t-shirt, business means a polo and khakis and not even the lawyers suit up regularly. (hell I get asked why I'm dressed up if I wear a 2 button shirt)

However, I'm sure if I drove down to Denver or Salt Lake, dressing up would be more acceptable.

BigGeek43 · 2014-05-14T02:59:44+00:00

Not a suit but white/black check blazer over white shirt with high collar over dark blue jeans and loafers works wonders for me. I feel really confident in it. My game is smooth, I talk slow and have tons of fun. Almost every time I went out I had at least one girl who was into me. One girl confessed to me that she'd stalked me on the dance floor until I talked to her. Another time I wore a black suit and a girl said I "look dangerous in a suit". I think a black suit might be trying a bit too hard. A blazer just shows style and it's somewhat casual look.

Zack_Fair_ · 2014-05-13T12:53:43+00:00

never full suit ( as I would like to ) because it's just illogical at college bars, but I sometimes wear my blazer above my T-shirt or button-up shirt and it's totally an asset. really sets you apart

Sir_Psycho_Sexy_ · 2014-05-13T15:52:29+00:00

Barney?

unosami · 2014-05-13T10:33:05+00:00

I always suit up it's almost a must for me ( live in the city most of the time ) I even suit up to school.

Women take note of it and I do stand out, not sure how much it helps though.

aChaosEmerald · 2014-05-13T05:30:50+00:00

I don't suit up on the regular, but I have noticed a difference when I do wear something a little more dressy.

I was out for a friends birthday not too recently and he told us to dress to impress, so I wore a black shirt, teal tie, dark jeans and dress shoes. I had several women approach me and one girl even gave me her number almost immediately after I asked her name after she complimented my tie. Alcohol was definitely a factor (for her, I was DD) but hey, it still happened.

edit: grammar

roq99 · 2014-05-13T06:13:54+00:00

If it is a party (not just a get-together) I will wear a fitted collared shirt. I know that it looks nice and I also feel like I look better than the other dudes so I get a confidence boost.

Title	Does anyone here "suit up", if so how does it impact your game?
Author	giffengoods
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Date	May 13, 2014 4:40 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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